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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
  • I know there are many out there experiencing the pain that comes with hurting and broken relationships. I am sorry. I lack many answers, one answer I do know is this; no matter what you may be going through, as difficult as it may be, you can make the decision today to surrender your life to God, and follow Jesus. He is faithful, his word is true, and he can bring you peace.
    May God give you peace as you put your trust in Him.

Комментарии • 92

  • @ManDom878
    @ManDom878 3 года назад +27

    dude thank you for the testimony. Imagine a year later you baptized your wife. Nothing is impossible with God. I know our God will do the same to my beautiful wife one day. I'm continuing standing for our marriage & family.

    • @colejustins
      @colejustins  3 года назад +1

      Hey Manny, God bless you man, and amen - nothing is impossible with God. Keep on keeping on in faith. Take care

  • @TonkyMan44
    @TonkyMan44 4 года назад +38

    That’s so awesome! 19 years my wife and I have been married. She says she wants a divorce. I’m standing on the faith of God.

    • @vaquera9368
      @vaquera9368 3 года назад +6

      So sorry to hear that. I was married 26 years and he forced a divorce to remarry another woman he met on a dating site, while he was still my husband. I refused to sign the papers. In a second hearing since the first one his divorce motion was denied, he was granted a divorce. He told the judge I was holding him hostage in our marriage and he wanted to remarry. He married her three months after our divorce. And he professed to be a Christian man mind you. I now say there is a difference between a godly man and a Christian man. You can’t make anyone stay committed in a marriage even if they say they are Christians. I’ve been divorced five years. God is good no matter what. It’s been a long journey in court but Christ has been my anchor and has never forsaken me.

    • @grant2149
      @grant2149 3 года назад +3

      Update?

    • @johnjaso385
      @johnjaso385 2 года назад

      @@vaquera9368 sorry to hear that.

  • @EarthlyKisses
    @EarthlyKisses 3 года назад +32

    The Lord lead me here just as I having every negative thought possible about my husband. This is third time we have been separated but it has never been this long. Over a year this time. Between the hurt, deceptions and everthing in between I struggle with forgiveness. I say it out of mouth every day in prayer for him, but honestly I question if that is true deep down if I still see him this way. I've been asking the Lord for help with this. I'm asking for prayers. I don't have friends anymore because I couldn't seperate their sin from the sin my husband committed against me. It's just me and the Lord, but I feel like I'm losing this battle spirituality. I know God is faithful but my heart is broken so badly this time around. Your testimony gives me hope.

    • @EarthlyKisses
      @EarthlyKisses 3 года назад +1

      @@colejustins Thank you so much for your words of encouragement.

    • @michelleraymond8979
      @michelleraymond8979 3 года назад

      Praying for you

    • @michelleraymond8979
      @michelleraymond8979 3 года назад +4

      Forgiveness is not easy but it's possible through Christ. My husband moved in with my neighbor a few months after we separated. The hatred I felt was indescribable. I had an eye opening experience and had to start really turning to God. I started with my forgiving and praying for him. As I started earnestly confessing my pain to God, he healed me. Unexpectedly, I started praying for God to restore my marriage. He's still living with the neighbor and I'm still praying for him, her and our marriage. God bless you Sister

    • @helenbekind8486
      @helenbekind8486 2 года назад

      @@michelleraymond8979 that is really difficult Michelle. The fact that their house isn’t burnt to the ground or you haven’t moved if proof Jesus is close to you, Holy Spirit is dwelling in you, and God has you in His hands. Your testimony isn’t even over yet and it is already fruitful. For you to not hate them, for you to pray for them, and for you to continue walking in faith is encouraging and powerful. God bless you beautiful daughter of the Most High!

  • @vaquera9368
    @vaquera9368 3 года назад +9

    YOU are a godly man! I wish my husband had been one. After 26 years, he divorced me to marry a woman he met on a dating site and on there while he was my husband. I’m so happy for you! You took your eyes off of her and looked at yourself. Definitely the message of the gospel. What an amazing testimony! Bless you and your family.

    • @colejustins
      @colejustins  3 года назад +3

      Hi Elizette, I am sorry about this experience you went through. I am glad we have a God who is so consistent and faithful. Thanks for your kind words. What a mess I would be without Jesus. Saying a little prayer for you. May you experience his peace more and more. God bless you.

    • @Adrianne316
      @Adrianne316 3 года назад +2

      Elizette, I've seen your posts in just about all the sites I've been researching regarding restoration. My God bless you. My husband filed for divorce after 10 years, no children.

    • @vaquera9368
      @vaquera9368 3 года назад

      @@Adrianne316 I am truly sorry to hear that. Bless you as well.

  • @abigailthompson7265
    @abigailthompson7265 2 года назад +4

    The Lord lead me to watch your video and this is just confirmation that he is in the process of restoring my marriage. I stand in faith and recieve God's will for my husband and I.

  • @samreenzakee2959
    @samreenzakee2959 3 года назад +6

    Plz prayer for my marriage restoration I want my husband back to me as soon 😭🙏

    • @jennyrichard7438
      @jennyrichard7438 3 года назад

      Hello 👋
      I recommend this man of prayers who help me and restored my marriage in the brinks of divorce and with God mercies my husband returned home and love me more ..

    • @jennyrichard7438
      @jennyrichard7438 3 года назад

      Email 📧

  • @chozenone_01
    @chozenone_01 2 года назад +2

    Wow this was beautiful. Praying that my husband has this Damascus moment. I love my husband and I want my marriage to work.

    • @colejustins
      @colejustins  2 года назад

      I’m praying with you this morning. I pray God give you the faith to walk in such a way that your husband continually see the goodness of God. I pray God give your husband eyes to see his goodness and faithfulness, and the truth that is in Christ Jesus. May his blessing be upon you both.

  • @anthonylogorz
    @anthonylogorz 3 года назад +13

    Amen beautiful testimony. I’m at the brink of restoration I see the Lord moving greatly. I almost got divorced but stayed seeking the lord and surrounded myself with positive, like-minded, faith filled individuals. It’s a tough journey but stay the course don’t do it with the goal of marriage restoration but see it as an opportunity to draw closer to God and restore your relationship with God first , he knows your needs and he will come through. Every relationship and situation is different If your in an abuse relationship i can’t speak to that, but I’m just here to encourage cause I know it’s not easy there are points I’m the journey where you so no way it can work but keep pushing God will renew your heart and mind. No matter he or she says God has the final word. The Heart of God is to restore every marriage. A great tool I recommend is watching the movie Fireproof and buy the book Love Dare and follow the 40 day plan . Best of luck in your journeys, God bless. “Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.”
    ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭4:31-32‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

  • @blue246
    @blue246 3 года назад +4

    Forgiveness is a decision, but trust is a process. Forgiveness doesn’t excuse their hurtful behaviour, forgiveness prevents their hurtful behaviour from destroying our heart.

  • @ronblakeofficial
    @ronblakeofficial 9 месяцев назад +2

    God bless you. My wife after 25 years of marriage has recently left me. I pray in Jesus name that he will restore our marriage and family. He keeps telling me not to give up.

  • @parinazaz4044
    @parinazaz4044 4 года назад +10

    Please pray for my husband (Sam) and I, Ive been saved for 4 years and he is baby in Christ he knows about Jesus but doesn’t really know him personally or thinks we should go by his word!.. he wants divorce and he doesn’t even wanna pay for it as in financially.. pray for his heart to soften towards the Lord fully..

    • @parinazaz4044
      @parinazaz4044 4 года назад +1

      Cole Sileven thanks brother, God bless ! 🙂

    • @debradeleon7079
      @debradeleon7079 4 года назад +3

      Stand for your marriage. Read His promises. You’ll have good days and low ones. Keep your eyes in the Lord; reflect on the promises He’s made. With time, these will take root in your heart so u can persevere thru these trials. Improve your relationship w Christ and let your husband see an new n improved Godly woman. It’s the beginning of your journey.

    • @parinazaz4044
      @parinazaz4044 4 года назад

      Debra De Leon Amen!Thank you! I am standing in Jesus name.. .. blessings🙂

    • @parinazaz4044
      @parinazaz4044 4 года назад +2

      Debra De Leon thank you for the encouragement and support!

    • @jdfodio
      @jdfodio 3 года назад +1

      1 Peter 3 📖

  • @sabiewanene941
    @sabiewanene941 3 года назад +5

    Hi. I believe the Lord led me to this video. God bless you - even more than a year later when I have come across this now I am amazed by God's work in your marriage. Its a true blessing and a testament for the rest of us who had almost written off men or husbands totally. We love and appreciate your candor. Please keep keeping us in the know especially about the man's perspective when in marriage crisis.

  • @louiedangelo3843
    @louiedangelo3843 3 года назад +6

    I pray Jesus can restore my marriage, we are separated now . All my fault she is a great woman that has showed me love and caring but i took it all for granted. Glad your marriage is doing good today in Jesus name.

    • @colejustins
      @colejustins  3 года назад +1

      Hi Louie, you have a humble heart. I know God is close to the humble. Just know that I am praying for you, after I finish writing this, and I’m sure others who come across your comment will be praying as well. May you seek the Lord above all else. God bless.

    • @louiedangelo3843
      @louiedangelo3843 3 года назад +1

      @@colejustins Thanks, God bless you

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 3 года назад

      @@louiedangelo3843 I can recommend you to a man who help me bring my husband back within two days. today we're sound and happily together.

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 3 года назад

      @@louiedangelo3843 his name is coach Dan. Contact him on whatsapp.

    • @queendenia8067
      @queendenia8067 3 года назад

      @@louiedangelo3843
      + 2 3 4 8 1 1 8 6 5 4 5 2 5

  • @Chan-nb9ef
    @Chan-nb9ef 4 года назад +5

    Glory to God... he truly knows how to knock us down and get our attention...praise god what the enemy meant for evil god turned it around for Good ... bless u brother for being obedient to surrendering to god’s will..,Beautiful testimony

  • @BJJ_Richie
    @BJJ_Richie 3 года назад +3

    It’s all grace my brother , nothing more nothing less , it’s all Gods grace

  • @dattyga
    @dattyga 3 года назад +5

    I wish it was that easy but it takes two to want it to work. I have faith in God and I want my marriage but my wife is not there. I don’t know who she is now. Good testimony coming from you.

    • @colejustins
      @colejustins  3 года назад +2

      Hey T, it definitely isn’t easy, actually I think it would have been impossible apart from God. I agree in that it does take two. God is one who can soften hearts. There is this book I was reading around this time that helped me further understand spiritual truths from God’s word when it comes to marriage. It’s called love and respect. If you are interested I’d love to send it to you as a gift if you’d like to check it out. In any case, I’m praying for you and your wife now. You can contact me through Facebook.com/colesblog if you’d like to connect on the book. God bless you and may he keep giving you the strength and endurance to love her as God in Christ has loved us.

    • @jdfodio
      @jdfodio 3 года назад

      Jesus pursues us until we repent and love Him back, which took how long for you? #unrequitedlove

    • @ScorpioCoCoRenale
      @ScorpioCoCoRenale 3 года назад +2

      I feel the same way about my husband; he’s turned into a completely different man and somehow I’m still in love with him although he wants out and is some type of hurry to end it all without really thinking things through smh ... this hurts but I have to focus on myself and our children because who my husband is now isn’t the husband that I know he can be smh but this is starting to feel like I’m fighting alone and he doesn’t want to at all. It sucks.

    • @lupemitchell3977
      @lupemitchell3977 2 года назад

      @@ScorpioCoCoRenale look for healing scriptures they are for more then just health. God is for you not against you he doesn't like divorce. My husband will love me like Christ loved the church that he gave his life for her.he will lift up his hands in surrender to the lord.

  • @bettrinatruitt1648
    @bettrinatruitt1648 7 месяцев назад

    Praise the Lord! The death, burial, and resurrection power of Jesus Christ has triumphed!!🎉💞🫂

  • @drfabsoonjd
    @drfabsoonjd 3 года назад +6

    Thank you for your transparency! There is hope. God is good.

  • @sobunch4079
    @sobunch4079 3 года назад +5

    Awesome testimony thank you so much for sharing i normally listening to women testimony wow thank you man!

  • @vincentohara1579
    @vincentohara1579 4 года назад +9

    My wife told me today she wants divorce, I hope I can follow your path before it's too late, god bless.

    • @ms.folsom9654
      @ms.folsom9654 3 года назад +1

      It’s a journey, not a sprint.
      He is right: a marriage that is not Christ centered will run into trouble and the key is to repent.

    • @blkrbbn1535
      @blkrbbn1535 2 года назад +1

      How has it been for you? Were you two able to find each other again?

  • @parinazaz4044
    @parinazaz4044 4 года назад +6

    Amazing testimony..Glory be to God.

  • @awhb5412
    @awhb5412 3 года назад +4

    Wow extremely wonderful testimony

  • @stellarhope6954
    @stellarhope6954 6 месяцев назад

    congadulations. all praise to Jesus mercy, grace and forgiveness. blessings on your marriage.

  • @alessandraaversa6421
    @alessandraaversa6421 9 месяцев назад

    What a beautiful testimony

  • @gentlesheep2905
    @gentlesheep2905 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for the testimony! You give hope and encouragement to those in similar situation! Glory to God!

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 7 месяцев назад

    I love your humility. Make more videos.

  • @gervasiopereira6724
    @gervasiopereira6724 3 года назад +1

    IN HIM WITH HIM AS THROUGH YOUR FAITH IN JESUS YOU MADE THE WAY TO HEAVEN AND SALVATION CAME IN YOUR HOUSE NICE TEMPTATION COMES FROM EVIL BUT REPENTANCE COMES FROM GOD WITH HIS BLESSING

  • @sonatasuresh6320
    @sonatasuresh6320 2 года назад +1

    Hallelujah glory to god

  • @nwangwa7296
    @nwangwa7296 2 года назад +2

    Hallelujah!!!!!!!

  • @janinebasson4477
    @janinebasson4477 4 года назад +1

    Your testimony really blessed me! You honesty! May God bless you all the more!!

  • @sabrinatoglia4729
    @sabrinatoglia4729 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for being so transparent.

  • @lspcomedy
    @lspcomedy 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for your testimony!
    The Lord really spoke to me through this!
    Blessings!

  • @BJJ_Richie
    @BJJ_Richie 3 года назад +2

    THANK YOU FOR THIS ! Love you bud

    • @maureen.k9527
      @maureen.k9527 2 года назад

      I recommend you to Dr James he helped me restore my broken marriage and brought love upon me and my household..

    • @maureen.k9527
      @maureen.k9527 2 года назад

      Contact him on what ssap for help 💯

    • @maureen.k9527
      @maureen.k9527 2 года назад

      ±2349029353859⏯⏯⏯

  • @godisgood678
    @godisgood678 6 месяцев назад

    His blood and His Word ! Don’t let satan keep you from these and God ‘s Church.

  • @mohammedpiegaro6289
    @mohammedpiegaro6289 2 года назад

    I'm going thru a divorce right now myself. We have the same testimony. What I learned u can't mix a worldly person and a godly person. It doesn't mix. My mouth was so reckless. What should I do to win her heart back

    • @colejustins
      @colejustins  2 года назад +1

      I’m sorry to hear you are going through this. I suppose the best thing anyone can do in any situation is follow Jesus and the leading of the Holy Spirit, every day. This doesn’t give us any guarantees on our earthly relationships but to be in close relationship with God is truly a gift that came at a high price. No doubt God is a miracle worker yet he has given each of us the gift of free will. And at the end of the day having a relationship with him is truly the most important relationship we could ever have. God is good, and he does love you. I’m praying for you this morning, and for your wife.

  • @swaggajay1
    @swaggajay1 3 года назад +1

    🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @BB-kf8ro
    @BB-kf8ro 2 года назад

    PlS you all should pray for me my husband is living me and my four kids for another woman I am so broken

    • @colejustins
      @colejustins  2 года назад +2

      I am so sorry you are going through this. I know we serve a God who will never leave us. I pray that the Lord Jesus give you some peace and rest during this difficult time. I lift up your kids to Jesus as well, please God help them through this, and if possible help her husband see the blessing he has with his family. Please give this wife and mother strength as she leans on you. Amen

    • @johnjohnson5898
      @johnjohnson5898 2 года назад +1

      If you really need God's help to restore your relationship. Send a message to Pastor Johnson asking for help. ✝2349011645084🌷🌹⏮⏯⏮✝

    • @tracychromes7155
      @tracychromes7155 2 года назад

      I'm agreeing in prayer against marital seige and against the woke of the enemy. For juagement against the enemy that comes against your marriage. I pray breakthrough, recovery, and restoration in Christ Jesus name that you may have happy anniversaries in Christ Jesus name. May the enemy be brought to shame in the mighty name of Chriat Jesus. We bind rebuke cast out all works of the enemy ans call Holy Spirit fire upon the spirit of separation. May your husband or the adultress not rest until they repent in Chriat Jesus name!!!

  • @adaytripp
    @adaytripp 3 года назад

    I've been standing for 6 yrs for my marriage and no movement

    • @colejustins
      @colejustins  3 года назад +3

      Hi Ashley, I am sorry. Anytime I hear something like this, or other hurts relating to marriage that others have shared with me, it’s as though God takes me back to a time when things were probably the worse in my own...and honestly, I just hurt along with you.
      I do know that God is pleased with the one who commits to following Jesus, even when things don't seem to get any better. I know that through good times and bad, my wife and I share a common enemy, the same enemy you share with your husband.
      So I have made the choice to trust in God and by the faith he gives me I choose to prayfully follow his word. I do this imperfectly I am sure, especially the parts I don't want to follow. For example: For husbands it's to love your wife as Christ loved the church. For wives it's to respect your husband. It never said "unless" your wife is acting like this, or your husband is being like that. We are called to love and respect, regardless. Sometimes in the heat of it, this seems only possible through a humble prayer. It’s in those times that following his instruction is the most difficult, due to the desires in my own heart. So we have the choice to allow our desires to guide us, or allow his word to guide us. Sometimes I've chosen wrong, sometimes right. I have no regret, regardless of the outcome, when I've done it God's way. However, I have experienced major regret in times when I went my own way.
      Yet, he is faithful to help me through and I believe he has and will continue to help you too. He never promised me that our marriage would get better. But he has promised that he'd be there. And regardless of which way things go, there's no better way to live than to be walking closely with Jesus.
      ----
      I pray over all these marriages and all who may be hurting through it. God may your peace and healing be upon them tonight. Please help us all come closer to you, surrendering it all to you, and have the peace that only you can provide. In times when it seems impossible, please help us follow you at your word. Help us see our spouses the way you see them, and help us understand who our enemy truly is. Help us forgive. Thank you for forgiving us. In Jesus name, amen.

    • @adaytripp
      @adaytripp 3 года назад

      @@colejustins thank you

    • @jennyrichard7438
      @jennyrichard7438 3 года назад

      @@adaytripp
      Hello 👋
      I recommend this man of prayers who help me and restored my marriage in the brinks of divorce and with God mercies my husband returned home and love me more ..

    • @jennyrichard7438
      @jennyrichard7438 3 года назад

      @@adaytripp
      Email 📧

    • @adaytripp
      @adaytripp 2 года назад

      @@vocnotes believe me you don't know me at all of course I have