What I've learned after 20 years in the Philippines as a foreigner (UK man tells ALL)

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @puckster61554
    @puckster61554 Год назад +138

    We moved from the states to the Philippines Sept 2010. Best choice we ever made. Our daughter now is 3rd yr at UPLB and been on President's List of Scholars all 4 semesters.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +7

      That's amazing! I'm so happy for you and your family. Thank you for sharing 😊

    • @zzzzxxxx341
      @zzzzxxxx341 Год назад +5

      Congratulations!

    • @Cum-69pose
      @Cum-69pose Год назад +5

      Its the heat that you need to survive in the Philippines not the money becuase theres gonna be kapit bahay or neighbors helping you there

    • @mohamedalkaboom
      @mohamedalkaboom Год назад +9

      Moving anywhere away from USA is the best choice anyone can make

    • @LawrenceWeber-z5o
      @LawrenceWeber-z5o Год назад +6

      @@mohamedalkaboom so why are Filipinos dying to move to the US?

  • @joshuarizalforeman816
    @joshuarizalforeman816 Год назад +179

    I am a Brit. I first visited the Philippines 26 years ago when I was living/working in Hong Kong - a short trip for a long weekend. My Filipina wife of 7 years, whom I met in HK, and I moved here permanently 4 years ago with our son and we live with my step-daughter and niece. We live in Rizal Province. We have property, investments, income, savings and a profitable business. Fortunately, our coffee shop and sari-sari store are right next to a hospital so we have guaranteed through-traffic. We rent out the bed-sits, that we built next to the store, to local nurses. I was doing well in HK but my wife persuaded me to move here permanently. I am glad I succumbed. It is always good to see others doing well. I agree about the garbage!

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +4

      Wow ! What a great story! Hank you for sharing 😊

    • @gibraltarchan9750
      @gibraltarchan9750 Год назад +5

      AM SO HAPPY FOR U............I CAN TELL U .FILIPINOS WHO WORKED IN H.K...........ARE A CLASS ABOVE THE REST.............SPECIALLY IF THEY CAN HOLD THEIR JOB FOR MORE THAN 5 YEARS...........U ARE THE 15% LUCKY ONES...........BE THANKFUL NA...

    • @marialanit.lindner6512
      @marialanit.lindner6512 Год назад +4

      Oh i know this guy jeff...he was living here before in moalboal...kumosta jeff?

    • @natashadickson4819
      @natashadickson4819 Год назад +5

      Someone should start a recycling operation. There could be some profit.

    • @Simon-sh7qo
      @Simon-sh7qo Год назад

      rizal leyte ?

  • @haydeeobedoza4350
    @haydeeobedoza4350 Год назад +75

    a real Filipina once they loved thier husband who is a very good husband never expect that they will leave they stay for richer and poorer Mabuhay Filipinas

  • @fionnmcnessa
    @fionnmcnessa 19 дней назад +2

    I happy for this Man he has made a great decision 👏 in life and may he keep the rewards .
    Greetings from Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪

  • @RaquleArcega.1973
    @RaquleArcega.1973 Год назад +70

    Most Filipina dream of a happy family so they will do everything not to have a broken family that’s why we do not have divorce here we value family 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +4

      😊🤝

    • @joshuarizalforeman816
      @joshuarizalforeman816 Год назад +9

      Unless, of course, your Filipino husband has a drug-habit and a mistress and deserts you while you are a pregnant teenager. Meanwhile, years later he is awaiting a payout from your foreign boyfriend in order to not contend the annulment. I'd rather pay the immigration fees to stay here than give him any cash. I'm not going to 'buy' my wife. Not exactly 'family-minded' or placing a 'value' on family, is it? when you need a foreigner to come in and pick up the pieces and give your wife and children a future. BTW we are around the same age and have our own child together, born in HK, so we don't breach any of the Philippines ridiculous "adultery' laws. I also support her daughter while she tries to better herself at university. Family values? Go ask Daddy and his family where his values are.

    • @MariaFe1976
      @MariaFe1976 Год назад +3

      if you are doing right, don't think negative about divorce..Divorce is for separated only and living with ugly husband cheaters. but good woman and man divorce is a choice..

    • @MrYtubenewsanchorman
      @MrYtubenewsanchorman 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@joshuarizalforeman816😂😂😂😂

    • @glenndubicki4099
      @glenndubicki4099 8 месяцев назад

      Total rubbish. You have no divorce because the bloody Catholic Church is far too powerful & is mixed up in the politics of the Philippines. It messes peoples lives up, is anti-freedom, takes no account of abused wives who end up trapped with a tyrant. Take your rose colored glasses off: the Philippines is the only country in the world that doesn’t allow a divorce. Kick the Catholic Church out of politics & the Philippines will be a far better place to live.

  • @petechambers784
    @petechambers784 Год назад +20

    Just seen this. Geoff seems a humble guy he's been there for yrs u gota take ur hat off to him all the best mate Pete in uk

  • @PHExpatPrepper
    @PHExpatPrepper Год назад +25

    Full time in the PH 10 years now. Adjustment period for sure, but we planned well. Never going back to the States. Retired at 45. Married 18 years.. there are a lot more long time expats than most realized.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +4

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts a d experiences

  • @beatglauser9444
    @beatglauser9444 Год назад +17

    That advice is good: "Do not look"! After travelling the Philippines several times, I ran into my perfect wife ba k in Switzerland. That happened by absolute conicidence back in 1988.
    We got married quite quickly and are very happily together ever since. And we have two wonderful children who are both over 30 years old by now. Honestly, I am very happy that I gave up the idea of having a successful business in the Philippines.
    The country is lovely, but I am contented travelling for vacation only. I have travelled the country very exensivly and often in an adventurous style.
    Now that I start being older, I am getting lazier.
    I am lucky that my wife's family comes from a good background and many inlaws work and live in many countries. But amazingly enough they do not return to the Philippines for good even after retirement.

  • @stevelawson68
    @stevelawson68 Год назад +43

    Looks like Ayala Mall. We love that mall. Everything he said about cebuano people is true. My wife is a Cebuana, and she is the best human being I have ever met. To men watching this video and reading this comment, head to Cebu.

    • @jurgschupbach3059
      @jurgschupbach3059 Год назад

      My Taco is stalked

    • @mpoiya
      @mpoiya Год назад +2

      Lots of Cebuana looks for foreigner as always

    • @stevelawson68
      @stevelawson68 Год назад +5

      @mpoiya I met my wife in Illinois, not in Cebu. So I wouldn't know who's looking for what. All I know is I have a great woman compared to the AMERISLUT i wasted 13 years of my life and tens of thousands of dollars on.😃

    • @cccullen
      @cccullen Год назад +1

      @@mpoiyaall depends upon the kind of Cebuana. Your statement isn’t true with the people whom I was around with.

    • @craigieboy7283
      @craigieboy7283 Год назад +1

      Cebu is a dump

  • @sbragg98
    @sbragg98 Год назад +18

    Good stuff👍. I have known Geoff since 2005 and what he says here is so good and so spot on. Especially looking for a wife. Just let it play out and happen.
    Geoff's wife runs a really good real estate company. Intelligent and sweet woman who knows real estate business.
    Amazing how I am just looking through YT and see Geoff's face. Made me smile as I have not seen him since 2018.
    Great interview!!!

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +1

      Thanks you! I appreciate you sharing your experience 👍🏼

    • @GeoffThomas-ck9hi
      @GeoffThomas-ck9hi Год назад +3

      Cheers mate, hope to see you back here at some point

  • @discoverglobeliving
    @discoverglobeliving 9 месяцев назад +2

    Interesting insights! Learning from a UK man's 20 years in the Philippines helps with retirement planning

  • @doughurd-s3q
    @doughurd-s3q Год назад +59

    I moved here in 2005 because we were having immigration issues with getting my wife to Canada.
    A wife is not cheap labour so we were looking at 3-4 years wait time.
    I was homesick for a while, however, as life unfolded, a beautiful child came along my homesickness subsided.
    I was planning on moving back once Junior graduated from his International school to enroll him in a Canadian University.
    Since 2015 Trudeau's regime has pretty much destroyed everything left great of Canada, I am never going back.
    My son can choose once he's finished school in 2 years.
    I have been strongly educating him on the insanity of Canada and its Wokeness now.
    The Philippines is great as long as we don't adopt those insane Western ideologies.

    • @jensz9360
      @jensz9360 10 месяцев назад +1

      Some already have adopted insane ideologies and its becoming more and more accepted in Phillippines with the man boys running around.
      They watch a lot of TV and get ideas and idealize western culture. hey think everyone is liek in the movies they watch.

    • @cristopolonava5000
      @cristopolonava5000 6 месяцев назад

      Trudeu is a Commie pretending as a Democrat

  • @StanHasselback
    @StanHasselback Год назад +25

    This was a very good interview Alex with a lot of information if you listen closely. If you can find the right Filipina your life will be great, if you find the wrong one not so much. Best advice I've gotten is don't go to the Philippines to find a women go there and explore and to enjoy nature and certain opportunities will arise. Also listen to your gut. If it doesn't feel right gracefully exit the relationship.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +4

      Thank you! You're absolutely right! Great advice 🤝😊

    • @tuforu4
      @tuforu4 Год назад

      Your GUT could be immature.

  • @ThorParker
    @ThorParker 6 месяцев назад +3

    When I went out there, lots of friends and went out with a friends family, and her family paid. I had to keep trying to pay for myself, people just kept giving me stuff-whilst walking down the street, lots of people offering drinks all the time to join them to drink, and lots of smiles and compliments. Provences are awesome

  • @mjlee7628
    @mjlee7628 Год назад +13

    Mine is also a happy story was working overseas met my wife in Qatar. Married her within six months never returned to the uk, now married 15 years have bar and bakery 3 daughters 1 married with little girl 1 working hoping to marry 2025 1 in makati med myself been retired now 2 years love the country and people

  • @GeoffThomas-ck9hi
    @GeoffThomas-ck9hi Год назад +10

    I love all the positive feed back your getting from this. I hope you continue to give us all vital information with your future video's we are always learning !

  • @TheManoy66
    @TheManoy66 Год назад +9

    Heeeey its Geoff! We used to ride dirtbikes back in the day. He was the guy who showed me and my brothers how to wheelie a motorcycle and i have been poppin wheelies ever since. Last time i saw him was 4 years ago when him and his wife bought a car from me. Awesome power couple i tell you. 💪

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +1

      Wow! Small world. Thank you for sharing!

    • @GeoffThomas-ck9hi
      @GeoffThomas-ck9hi Год назад +3

      Thanks man! Regards to you and family. Great times for sure !

  • @davehood1514
    @davehood1514 Год назад +13

    Great guest and advice

  • @xir.chad01
    @xir.chad01 Год назад +13

    It's interesting when the opinion is from foreigners coz they usually answered base on their own observation and experiences.

  • @trevortwyman6247
    @trevortwyman6247 Год назад +7

    love it,,, been here 10 yrs,,,, love to chat and tell you how diff it is, and how i feel about living here,,, the culture,, kills me,,, keep the vids going,,,

  • @stephenkrus
    @stephenkrus 10 месяцев назад +4

    The British Dude is livin' the life! 💎✨👌

  • @charitosantiagoisready4fun312
    @charitosantiagoisready4fun312 Год назад +12

    I love your vlogs. Your vlogs are informative, realistic and truthful. Sometimes a vlog can just be about something with no dialogs or subtitles and seemed scripted. Keep up the good work and God bless you! Subscriber from Chicago.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much!! I appreciate the feedback. I'm happy you enjoyed it 😊

  • @georgelagos4411
    @georgelagos4411 10 месяцев назад +2

    I really enjoyed this. Thank you guys

  • @douglascolman4501
    @douglascolman4501 Год назад +3

    In 2006 I also came here for a friends wedding. Met an angel and married her in 2008.
    I was working construction in Australia and would commute back here every 3or4 months until I retired in 2014.
    Like you I have no plans to go back.
    We have a house in Cebu that needs a tidy up. I'll let you know when it's done and ready for market.

    • @jensz9360
      @jensz9360 Год назад

      Weddings is where they go to find their marks. Its common.

  • @davidanctil4671
    @davidanctil4671 11 месяцев назад +3

    WOW!!! what a fantastic interview.. I can relate I'm in the same situation as with Jeff..

  • @erf1971
    @erf1971 Год назад +6

    Great chat Alex and congrats on 100K+ subscribers!

  • @kenrice
    @kenrice 10 месяцев назад +1

    I have lived in the Philippines for more than half my adult life, since 1980. For more than 43 years, I have had very close ties with the Philippines, its people, culture, and way of life. I was on active duty in the Air Force the first two times I lived in the Philippines back in the 1980's. After I retired from the Air Force, I moved to the Philippines and later married. My wife and I now divide our time between homes in the Philippines and the USA. Snowbirds have more fun and get to enjoy the very best of both worlds.

  • @Livingabroadalex
    @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +5

    Sorry about the audio at the start. I had no control over the music playing at the bar behind him. And Jeff was kind enough to move to the firtherst table already.

  • @DavidMartin-yd8ui
    @DavidMartin-yd8ui Год назад +4

    "Don't Look" Yup. I was at the mall the first morning I was in Angeles. My now pregnant girlfriend had just gotten off work and she happened to come across me as I was sitting outside the restrooms. I was drinking my coffee and needed to wash my hands afterwards. She sat down next to me and asked me to watch a large bag she didn't want to carry into the restroom. When she came back, I asked if she could tell me where the store in the mall was to buy a sim card. I had no signal on my phone so she looked it up for me. We started chatting and when she asked if I was alone, she invited me to go along with her and her co-workers to the beach in Subic. I said yes and I spent the whole day with all of them at the beach. She ended up spending my entire vacation with me and I made a whole group of new friends in Angeles. Now we are expecting our first born in February and working on getting the visa set up. Nothing was planned or forced. Everything happened naturally. Simply amazing.

    • @user-ep3ck5re4o
      @user-ep3ck5re4o Год назад +1

      Sucked in buddy - watch your pockets they are experts at the long game

    • @jensz9360
      @jensz9360 Год назад

      @@user-ep3ck5re4o Exactly, she saw the mark and went in for it. She knew how to play it, she still has him believing even now judging by his comment. The baby is just the anchor to keep him tied down and keep that money coming.
      Its almost like he doesnt even realize he was taken for a fool even as he is being taken for one and likely will insist that "His relationship is different than the others" he swears it. SMDH😂

  • @reignheart6790
    @reignheart6790 Год назад +8

    He seems a very happy and contented man.

  • @notkergrassel
    @notkergrassel 9 месяцев назад +1

    nice interview! great dude! very informational & enjoyable to watch!

  • @saggitariusgenerosity4907
    @saggitariusgenerosity4907 Год назад +6

    Manila is crowded place to stay,i can actually say that life in the province was too far different from the city,i can say that province climate is different,unpolluted and all u can smell is the nature...whenever people want to live in the philippines,just choose provinces...of u love nature thon

  • @tobywebb6452
    @tobywebb6452 Год назад +7

    Great interview 👍

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +1

      Thank you, Toby! I'm happy you enjoyed the video 🥳

  • @kuyaIhor
    @kuyaIhor Год назад +8

    Thank you for the interesting video, I subscribed to your channel for a reason !
    I live in the Philippines for $400 a month.
    And this is because this is a resort place and people from the huge Davao City come here on weekends.
    And sometimes I can even afford a can of Japanese Sapporo dark beer .
    And my motto is “it’s better to wear out than to rust!” helps me in eating seafood.
    And if I earn at least $ 300 with the help of RUclips, I will transfer my partner from Davao to the status of a wife)

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing! I wish you all the best. Just keep pushing forward and you'll break through 💪

  • @Kim-sc6sj
    @Kim-sc6sj 6 месяцев назад

    Would appreciate the opportunity to correspond with Jeff, your guest, about real estate in the Philippines. Thank you for today’s discussion. Grateful.

  • @sangbeom6245
    @sangbeom6245 Год назад +4

    I came here at 21. Im 36 now. Had a lot of unique experiences.

  • @prairiemark4084
    @prairiemark4084 Год назад +3

    Great interview. I enjoyed it and agreed with most of what he said.

  • @Patrick-s1c4p
    @Patrick-s1c4p 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm 72 and just got married to my 18 year old Filipina wife. I love the Philippines

    • @Bring_On_The_Bass
      @Bring_On_The_Bass 10 месяцев назад +1

      I'm 33 and got a 18 yo Filipina girlfriend

  • @LawrenceWeber-z5o
    @LawrenceWeber-z5o Год назад +4

    Two major downsides to living in the Philippines is medical care and education for children.
    There are a few decent private hospitals in Manila but quality is only comparable to average hospital in the US. But Traffic sucks in Manila so deciding where to live is a problem.
    If you have kids, will need to send to private school as the public schools are overcrowded and not good.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +2

      Understandable concerns. But like everywhere else in the world, money solves your problems 😅

  • @robertfapswell3719
    @robertfapswell3719 Год назад +3

    great advice!

  • @waterlily2839_chua
    @waterlily2839_chua Год назад +3

    I like the way this he talks this man coz very honest and casual and no sugar coating ...1 of the best i saw here

  • @noeltayco8011
    @noeltayco8011 Год назад +4

    Thank you for all your effort and hard work... your content is enjoyable and easy to watch.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад

      Thank you for watching and commenting. I'm glad you enjoyed the video 😊

  • @RPRIMICI
    @RPRIMICI Год назад +24

    Moved to PH from Canada and stayed for 7 years (dual citizenship). I got homesick. I miss the 4 distinct seasons of Canada. On the whole, I prefer the climate in Canada despite the cold. I especially missed spring season - flowers and you can smell the earth after a long winter. In the PH , it's mainly hot and ridiculously hot. It's nice to not rely on air conditioning. Also, Toronto is multicultural so I missed not seeing the multicultural tapestry of Canada. In Manila, you only see Filipinos and maybe Chinese and that's mainly it unless you're in a touristy area. Other positives for Canada are cleaner air, less traffic, free healthcare and can't forget those polite Canadians.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +2

      Well said. Canada is still my home. I do miss it often

    • @PaddyFilly
      @PaddyFilly Год назад +4

      Same here. 😢I miss Canada but my Canadian husband is tired of the snow so…🤷‍♀️

    • @Goodman849
      @Goodman849 Год назад +3

      Clean air is very important to me

    • @Goodman849
      @Goodman849 Год назад +2

      Unconditional love is also amazing

    • @ceciliaramos3726
      @ceciliaramos3726 Год назад +3

      Maybe you should go to the province fresher air cold place is here in the cordillera

  • @LilyBeth-wm6lg
    @LilyBeth-wm6lg Год назад +5

    Good interview ❤

  • @skip2it426-
    @skip2it426- Год назад +5

    Thanks for sharing it’s wonderful to hear about Happy stories from expats. I heard many of the same type of stories on my visits to Vietnam and Thailand from expats. Again thanks for sharing very encouraging and enjoyable ✌🏾.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад

      Thanks for watching and commenting. I'm happy you enjoyed it

  • @sabsabnone5837
    @sabsabnone5837 Год назад +3

    Best street interview ever 👏🏻

  • @sgb.3999
    @sgb.3999 Год назад +3

    Awesome content Alex.

  • @scotniver7180
    @scotniver7180 Год назад +1

    Nice candid interview. He's a nice guy living there working and spreading the wealth. Good show

  • @rdland2985
    @rdland2985 Год назад +6

    Some really great advice! Can't wait getting my boots on the ground there and start my own adventures!!! Great video Alex!!!

  • @Roweca675
    @Roweca675 Год назад +3

    So they are the same situation with Adam and Jane Adam came from UK...i hope they'll see each other

  • @unclejessiephilippinesadve7050
    @unclejessiephilippinesadve7050 Год назад +10

    If you find a good Philippina and she loves you , you'll have a great relationship and or marriage 😊

    • @jensz9360
      @jensz9360 Год назад +2

      🤣"If you find a good phillippina and she loves you". I'm sure if you find a Leprechaun you'll be happy as well.

    • @MrYtubenewsanchorman
      @MrYtubenewsanchorman 10 месяцев назад

      If if was a 5th we'd all be drunk

    • @Globus7791
      @Globus7791 10 месяцев назад +1

      She will love your wallet and that's about that🤷

    • @jensz9360
      @jensz9360 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Globus7791 Thats a fact. Im tired of these clowns acting like Filipinas are wholesome or have values. Its all fake BS.

    • @Globus7791
      @Globus7791 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@jensz9360 well they are trapped so they want the other people to step in that shit as well🤣🤣🤣

  • @noritacantal2801
    @noritacantal2801 Год назад +2

    Very nice interview, thanks for sharing Alex..❤🇵🇭

  • @MikeM-kq7pm
    @MikeM-kq7pm Год назад +1

    Ive know Geoff since 2008. Great guy. Hes very spot on about Cebu.

  • @devonboy125
    @devonboy125 Год назад +1

    Great video - thank you

  • @lol958
    @lol958 Год назад +2

    Excellent interviewed. ❤😂

  • @ronnienestor
    @ronnienestor Год назад +3

    Full of wisdom.

  • @ENGREKONG
    @ENGREKONG Год назад +1

    Sir Geoff thats my Boss.He is a Good tuitor and also nice person.

  • @owenmarshall78
    @owenmarshall78 Год назад +3

    great interview that guy has some great experiences

  • @alvnm8642
    @alvnm8642 Год назад +2

    Great story and I love the questions.

  • @HexFlex-ss9rm
    @HexFlex-ss9rm Год назад +2

    Great interview, cool guy that seems well rounded 🎉

  • @amillionviews888
    @amillionviews888 10 месяцев назад +2

    Unfortunately I was scammed for 5 million pesos by a Filipina from Japitan in Barili Cebu.
    I'm trying to get my properties back through the legal system

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  10 месяцев назад

      Sorry to hear about your situation. If you want to eve have a video call to talk me and I'll share it on the channel. Or a live stream, let me know
      Email me at talknowcanada@gmail.com

  • @TheK-PopInPublicAuthority
    @TheK-PopInPublicAuthority Год назад +2

    This gentleman is the first one to come up with the corporate route of property ownership that I've seen interviewed thus far on ANY Philippines video.
    It was the first thing I thought of;
    Online businesses can be owned in totality by foreigners, 100% ownership. Just set up a web store online selling digital assets.
    Register the company with you as 100% owner.
    Appoint yourself as CEO.
    Buy land under the company.
    Build a CEO dorm.
    Presto- 100% ownership of your house and property via 100% ownership of the corporation.
    It's so simple, I don't know why it's not the first thing people do. Maybe there's some tax issue? Like your corporation has to pay annual asset tax on held assets?

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад

      Sounds too easy. If it's too good to be true. It might just be.
      Interesting still

    • @TheK-PopInPublicAuthority
      @TheK-PopInPublicAuthority Год назад

      @@Livingabroadalex Future content for you brother, go and interview a legal professional like Filipina Pea does. See if there's any way to make this corporate route work.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад

      @TheK-PopInPublicAuthority Thanks, but too many videos like that out there.

    • @asyongmatipid2
      @asyongmatipid2 Год назад

      Tax benefits might even be better if the corporation is under/owned by a trust.

  • @bigal2417
    @bigal2417 Год назад +1

    I live in Thailand for 25 years been with my g.f 12 years , Asian women are some of the best women in the world. ❤

  • @MrAndypat4
    @MrAndypat4 10 месяцев назад +1

    I would agree I met my wife in HK 47 years ago been married for 47 years this year. we lived in the UK for 30 years until our children grew up then moved here in 2008, and I have never looked back our kids still live in the UK but I would never move back there.

  • @MikeM-kq7pm
    @MikeM-kq7pm Год назад +1

    Nice i interview Geoff.

  • @stefanhansen5882
    @stefanhansen5882 Год назад +1

    What a great down to earth chap. :)

  • @2Looo88
    @2Looo88 11 месяцев назад +2

    My wife and I are trying to figure out where to settle down, I love the Philippines and she is crazy about a not so safe South Africa, I seriously don’t know what to do. Currently we’re both working on a cruise ship and are planning to settle down soon. I hope i can convince her to let us stay in Philippines 😢 I am entrepreneurial and good with business, I see many opportunities for us there.

    • @patienceobongo
      @patienceobongo 10 месяцев назад

      Send her to Nigeria for a holiday.
      That will cure her

  • @okbilly1
    @okbilly1 Год назад +3

    I plan to stay in Thailand for 6 months, with the language barrier I am considering coming to Cebu

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +1

      You'll enjoy both. The language barrier is becoming less of an issue with the younger generation Thais and new technology etc

  • @Tarzan796
    @Tarzan796 Год назад +1

    my wife been in usa 9 yrs, I’m 60 yrs old, our son 👦 is 8 yrs old. My wife is 33 yrs old.

  • @plos2765
    @plos2765 Год назад +3

    After 20 years in any of these south east asian countries, it's amazing when you look at urself and realize that the 'you are always a foreigner' or 'always just a guest' concept is very true. It stays true right up to when you die.

    • @gsomethingsomething2658
      @gsomethingsomething2658 Год назад +1

      I think it should be obvious even before going. And I don't see it as a problem; I love being thought of as a polite, contributing foreign guest.

    • @patienceobongo
      @patienceobongo 10 месяцев назад +1

      We should have the same mentality in the West

    • @gsomethingsomething2658
      @gsomethingsomething2658 10 месяцев назад

      @@patienceobongo Yes.

    • @patienceobongo
      @patienceobongo 10 месяцев назад

      @@gsomethingsomething2658
      I meant to not allow foreigners to own property or become citizens.

  • @timothybuck6860
    @timothybuck6860 Год назад +2

    great interview

  • @Hicks-g1m
    @Hicks-g1m Год назад +10

    He has some good stories to tell Alex very insightful being married to a filipina is helpful when starting a business here. Take care 👍🆒😎

    • @OfficialAsiaNow
      @OfficialAsiaNow Год назад +3

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  Год назад +3

      Definitely. I'm sure it'd be more challenging as a foreigner without Filipino connections

  • @eduardoquiban947
    @eduardoquiban947 Год назад +1

    SOME OTHER FOREIGNERS ARE LAZY IN THE PHILIPPINES THATS WHY THEY ARE COMPLAINERS BUT IF YOU SHOW RESPECT TO PILIPINOS THEN YOU WILL HAVE GOOD
    PROTECTION THEN YOU WILL HAVE A GOOD LIFE WHERE EVER YOU GO.

  • @davidhancock91
    @davidhancock91 9 месяцев назад +1

    I am an Australian and have a Philippina wife. We were introduced through Philippino Australian friends.
    We live in Australia permanently, but are looking at buying a coconut farm in the Philippines for the family.
    This is my third marriage. First two were white Australian women. Terrible people.
    My Philippina wife is fantastic, she is much younger but it doesn’t matter, she genuinely loves me.
    She has a 7 yo daughter, I have a 20 yo son.
    Life couldn’t be better for me.
    We have improved each other’s lives immeasurably.

  • @timtolliver183
    @timtolliver183 8 месяцев назад +1

    Moved to Baguio City, no regrets. Nicest people i ever met

  • @Jaycee3
    @Jaycee3 7 месяцев назад

    1:03 - 1:15 This. I live in Los Angeles. Not that there isn't any kindness here, but it's rare. There is also a clear moral decay here in the US. I'm not that old -- I'm in my 30s. But I cannot see myself settling here in the US for the long haul after experiencing the culture in the Philippines.
    Everything there is better, imo. Want to go to a beautiful white sand beach? It's an hour flight from Manila. Do we have that in the US? No. Flight to Hawaii is five hours, and it doesn't even compare to the beaches in the Philippines at all. Lanikai comes close, that's it.
    For the interviewer, you gotta let the subjects speak more freely without interruption. It's a learned skill. Go listen to Joe Rogan now. He has gotten better. You gotta let the subjects talk. Chime in when there's dead air, not while they are in the middle of sharing.

  • @mrbrainnyc258
    @mrbrainnyc258 Год назад +3

    I know a 100 yr old travel writer who's been to virtually every country in the world and many of them several times. He says Phillipinos are the nicest people in the world.

    • @2000ViperGTSsubscribe
      @2000ViperGTSsubscribe Год назад

      That would be Thailand, but Brazil is notable second and been to 25 countries. Philippines will smile to your face BUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUT underneath is a different story.

  • @elyasessa5118
    @elyasessa5118 Год назад +1

    Amazing story I can't imagine that he don't want to come back in UK,,,and leave long life in the Philippines,,but it's good desicion

  • @SneakerByNature
    @SneakerByNature Год назад +1

    Yo, Jeff I remember him a really cool and respectful guy. I used to work in a pub in Cebu, that’s where I meet Jeff.👍

  • @robertaitken9057
    @robertaitken9057 25 дней назад +1

    First experience from a fellow Brit. I am 69 engaged to a teacher. We have met a couple of times face to face. Chat everyday
    Got caught with an online crypto scam. Busy building bank balance that will satisfy immigration so that we can marry.

  • @chrisrose5740
    @chrisrose5740 Год назад

    Fantastic !!!

  • @sh1nyarm0r
    @sh1nyarm0r Год назад +6

    Yeah, he got it. Filipinos are the most friendly people on earth. They would help you and trust you first before they'd suspect you of anything.

    • @Sy2023hk
      @Sy2023hk 11 месяцев назад +1

      True, Filipinos are genuinely friendly and trustworthy. Shame they get mistreated in HK, I live here. They make HK nicer to live in, only HK ppl make it horrible.

  • @wernerschneider4460
    @wernerschneider4460 Год назад +1

    I was lucky to marry a Pinay whose siblings all have more money than I earn. So I was never expected to partly sponsor anybody's school-fees. I support poor people in the wider neighborhood every Christmas instead.

  • @lesliewood4069
    @lesliewood4069 7 месяцев назад +1

    You are a very smart guy,

  • @barbarasanchez-mitchell8167
    @barbarasanchez-mitchell8167 Год назад

    2 decades impressive hope you've good experience still loving life in.pinas

  • @CoojertM
    @CoojertM Год назад +2

    Don’t go back Jeff, the UK is going down the pan fast. You are definitely better off where you are!

  • @PeterBruceIOW
    @PeterBruceIOW 11 месяцев назад

    Know this guy from way back, hope to catch up with him in January

  • @LifePlusRice
    @LifePlusRice 9 месяцев назад +1

    Do you happen to have a link or connection for jeff thomas todays interview guest and or his real estate business email

  • @markholland6657
    @markholland6657 10 месяцев назад

    agree.. nicest people in the world.. if you are nice to them... and a decent person.. if you act like a dick you will not last long in most places in SE Asia.. have some friends from phillipines in HK and they are like family to me, never asked me for a thing.. nicest people I have ever known... this guy has the right attitude to 'make it' in Asia.. SE Asian countries appeals to many westerners.. for many reasons.. some have the right attitude to adapt to life out there and some do not.. it definitely requires the right attitude to 'make it' out there!!! great interview, asked questions some may avoid!! nice one!!

  • @mrmikecebu
    @mrmikecebu Год назад

    23 yrs retired RN, 72,WIFE 32. We lived 8 yrs then on vacay married in thailand. LAND in pinoy usa sons name, iown house , cant be to careful...hehee. girls are where you pick to live. Easy to meet in front of house, mall, business or bank. stay single or after many pick one you like family. NO MATTER YOUR AGE, DO NOT COMPROMISE. Older than 18 to 22 no unless she hasown money, work or business. OLDER passed over for a reason and no tattos, lol. YOU like country? apartment or house $200 or less. city near malls or nightlife, 4 to $500. iloilo, cagayen de oro, davao city or cebu are good base cities and roam countryside, beaches. I have 3 daughters, all different moms. one went sweden 2 with me. i love it.

  • @RealSoloShow
    @RealSoloShow Год назад +1

    20 years of living in the Philippines should have made you learn how to speak in Tagalog/Filipino and some local dialects. Just like what Americans and Europeans expect when you live in their country. You guys are so lucky that Filipinos are very hospitable If not then we will be brutally honest to tell you that you need to learn our language as a way of showing respect to our nation and not learning the language is a disrespect.

  • @StanleyStuart-v4p
    @StanleyStuart-v4p Год назад

    Lived in the Philippines for 3 yrs still have two business there

  • @andymac2369
    @andymac2369 Год назад

    I am Brit,first visited Cebu 30+ years ago,he is wrong about one thing,yes lots of pinay nurses in the UK but not lots of Pinoy doctors,there’s a tiny number of Filipino docs registered in the UK.

  • @kahntul-ay2500
    @kahntul-ay2500 Год назад

    Very good answer. Don't look. It will come to you.

  • @wilmajuanites8666
    @wilmajuanites8666 2 месяца назад

    Did you learned some Tagalog words sir? Youve been here for 20 years wow that's great

  • @scalemodeltutor9841
    @scalemodeltutor9841 Год назад

    I hope these foreigners adapt the Filipino accent, it would be really cool to hear 😅

  • @dlewis895
    @dlewis895 5 месяцев назад +1

    KIND YES. BUT ALSO A HUSBAND MATE IS PROTECTION FROM NOT HAVING ANY MONEY AND FROM NOT BEING PHYSICAL ABUSE BY MATE OR MEN OR HUSBAND SADLY COMMON ON PHILLIPINES

  • @LifePlusRice
    @LifePlusRice Год назад +1

    Great Video thank you. Do you happen to have a link or connection for jeff thomas todays interview guest and or his real estate business email as im looking to rent in cebu city.

  • @brice5542
    @brice5542 Год назад

    awesome thanks so much

  • @scottiedog4236
    @scottiedog4236 9 месяцев назад

    This gentlemen sounds great … You have a link to him
    Love to work for him I’m an HVAC in uk 🇬🇧