I've Also Never Healed - Blaming EVERYTHING on Myself
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I think the key with the self blame is that you are specifically focusing on what to work on. Often people lean too into the self blame and they just call themselves bad and give up, I know I've fallen into that mindset before. Give yourself permission to fail, but still take responsibility for your mistakes and pick out one thing you could've done better each game and I think anyone can find success. Great video Xar!
Agreed! It's a very fine line between self-improvement via critical self-analysis and simply bringing yourself down.
Well said, I was thinking something similar too.
Xaryu, promoting a healthy and productive mindset: "I am taking personal responsibility for every loss"
The dps players watching: "He's right. It IS always the healer's fault"
LMAO
"one warrior is carrying the whole lobby not my fault" but he really was carrying the whole lobby. Whichever team he got was nuts.
Self accountability is what this world needs. Good speech my man.
"Ive Also Never Healed" Coming from a Multiglad Priest in every expansion since WoD Omegalul.
1: placing blame on yourself is key.
2: watching you heal is 1000% more exciting than as mage as surprising as that sounds. Outstanding play, and I love that you can call out everything as you play even on a new spec.
He's like glad with priest though
@@EhtaZUGGE as shadow
“Never healed” multi gladiator priest as holy and disc but first time shuffling. Great mindset though of course.
Let's face it: We are all learning or passing by at low rating. We shouldn't look at failures as a proof that you suck. We should look at them as an opportunities to grow, learn and motivate us to get better. Xar, you have a great mindset bro.
the beginning of this clip is amazing. thats that IMPROVE life haha
Xar teaching the gamers about internal locus of control. Also incredibly applicable to life in general.
Being able to accurately evaluate which mistakes were made by which player is how to grow. Blaming it all on yourself isn't a healthy way to grow, it's just how people try to avoid tilting/ignoring their own mistakes... but it's on the other side of the problem.
You're just not supposed to get hung up on other peoples' poor performance if you're not a premade team.
The more you focus on learning how to play around everyone else, while also improving personal class skill/execution and recognizing your own shortcomings, the better you become, and you end up improving your average game experience.
Bro I’ve been watching you for years and just realized I wasn’t subbed 😂😂,
I have now subbed keep up the positive mindset xar! 🤟
Real talk though, thank you for the intro bit. Been feelin pretty hard stuck @1900 on the class I switched to for DF, and I definitely let my mental slip into blame game in some ways. Good to be reminded occasionally about personal responsibility.
the first minute of this video was the best life advice ive ever heard on a wow video. keep killn it Xaryu
just blame yourself is not enough to get good at something. Its important to get to a point where u can differentiate between ur mistakes and others mistakes. blaming urself for others mistakes is pointless since u cant fix them. all whats left is the blame. Filtering is what makes u good at something but thats a skill that requires not just the mental but also the deep knowledge of the task/field to be even able to differentiate between ur mistakes (stuff u can fix/work on) and others mistakes ( irelevant for self improvement).
I get the whole putting blame on yourself to improve your gameplay, however if your pressing all your cd and your getting trained and your warrior doesn’t intervene, fear, disarm, slow or the mage doesn’t sheep, snare or drop ring. And the whole time your dps is dying they don’t press ice block, wall, parry or any cd’s. At some point the blame has to be shared.
The worst part is when in the lobby and I say hey guys when I’m getting trained come help me out or I say hey use your buttons while I’m in cc. 99% of the time the dps just laughs and it’s like from that point they do anything for me to die .
Had a warrior say hey we need to peel more at the same time I said hey y’all need to peel more and the DH laughed said get good and the warrior that just said to peel started agreeing with him, like WTF
It’s fine recognising that your team mates could be letting you down to varying degrees at times, but that’s gonna happen.
If a dps decides to do something silly and get themselves killed; Consider if the best healer in the world took control of your character for that match, could they have swayed it?
Maybe in some cases there’s nothing you can do to win, but there’s nearly always something you can do better. Play to improve and ignore rating, the outcome of the match stops mattering when you think that way, only your own performance.
@@DechCJC you aren’t comprehending what I’m saying correctly. So I’ll say it more simply. It’s not always the healers fault. I record my gameplay to better myself and have 2k rating in every class. All I’m saying is it’s great to always look for how to better your own gameplay but there are just as many times when you have done everything your supposed to and the dps still does without pressing a single cd. Who’s fault is it then? Do I still say hey warrior it’s not your fault that I griped you away while you were at 20% hp and you just charged right in to die anyway. Who’s fault is that?
@@williamkey1747 it doesn’t matter who’s fault it is, getting frustrated at other people won’t improve your gameplay.
Even if it was very clearly a throw from another player, you only have control over your own actions. Focus on only yourself and numb yourself to the mistakes of others.
@@DechCJC see that’s your problem, your assuming I get frustrated. Dude I’m on so much anxiety, depression meds I smoke that good ole Mary Jane all day. I don’t get tilted playing a game. Seems your reflecting on your own responses to your own gameplay.
@@DechCJC and it does matter whose fault it is, how else is that person going to better their gameplay. Isn’t that the whole concept of taking tha blame / fault on yourself? Come on now
Absolutely agree with this mindset. Helped me get huge rating from it. And I persist instead of giving up
"watches warrior zug zug across the map, leap behind the pillar and die in a stun without using trinket or def CD"
"Hmmm i could have done better!"
Nah kidding aside hes right its great advice
you’re right Xar, I should go the the mage’s house and press block to not lose on the opener 3/6 games.
Xaryu I love you for this. I'm a die hard healer. Shuffle is a grind for sure but as healers we know what we're signing up for. We have to care about other people's game play in-order to do our job effectively. Share the love though. If DPS played healers more they might play more defensively.
Always enjoy your videos, Xar. But here is a challenge for you, if you are interested.
Start a climb in SS from 500 mmr as healer. When you start fresh in SS you have a mmr of 1500. I hear a lot of people complaining that its impossible climb as healer from 5-6-700 mmr. I agree with the "blame yourself" mindset, but not everyone does. I think it could be fun to see a pro pvper dig his way out of 500 mmr, and I think it would settle the issue once and for all if you did that. And for sure I would study that video 😁
#1 rule i have in solo shuffle is to look for what you could have done better.
if you lose there is always something you could have done, unless you are playing against Luminosity 😅
Do you think maybe taking Precognition as a PvP talent is worth it against a super heavy cleave like that where they only want to run you down? Getting that free casting time would be so good.
Thanks Xar, I could finally accept that it was my fault that my parents got divorced
SIR you played hpriest in MoP. IVE BEEN IN STREAM FOREVER. haHAA
I played vs him playing Holy on izvis or whatever in SL lol
pre sure he also played rdruid a while ago for a bit on stream
@xaryu love you man the mindset that is why I watch and that is high key facts❤
I honestly have to thank you and pika for getting me to try disc priest. It's a lot more fun healing then I thought it would be, even though SS is so stressful as a healer.
Blaming yourself is fine if you're doing it in a way that allows you to grow. You can always have done something better, but you can't always win 6-0. And realizing that can help you not tilt as hard.
love ya Xar
@12:06 the death for hex doesn’t work the same as death for poly does it? Hex can take a little damage unlike poly which breaks on first any damage
The ABC's of disc priest... always be casting
imagine a world where people are fighting to TAKE the blame
We want to see clean-shaven Xaryu again please
Every hardstuck 1500 player blames everyone but themselves.. that’s why they’re hardstuck 1500
The best way to bait kicks on Shadow and hold on to cooldowns as a Priest healer is to utilise Mind Control casts inside kick range, most people will kick it, if they don't you then move them out of position to where they have to reconnect and you buy yourself time to stabilise with hard casted abilities.
If only it was this easy lol…. 😂
And let other dps do free dmg on you, while you can't heal? lol
Only works if you're not getting omega slammed and 2 gcds away from dying which you usually are when getting focused
First comment i've ever made on a YT video - i just freaking love this Xaryu
Actually seeing someone getting 'stomped' is so much more helpful than all the other disc vids where they just get to free cast and stomp the other team. Thank you for posting this with the commentary!!
Also a honest question; do you feel like disc priest is OP? If so why, if not, why not?
I went through a beautiful transition of blaming others for their deaths, to blaming myself for not hyper-mode focussing that "one guy in every game that is literal horseshit". Yes, that guy exists. Yes, that guy will throw. Yes, he will not pop defensive cooldowns and Yes, he will probably go 1/6 if he (and you) are lucky.. But everyone in the game can see who he is and will train him, so as the healer, you just have to do the same.
Have you considered not letting the warrior hit you
Not easiest thing to kite warr as priest
Tell ‘em Xar.
The beginning of this vid is some of the most important life information you can ever get, and it comes from a World of Warcraft channel 🤣
Xaryu, Lets go ahead and pretend for a second you havn't been deathing pom sheep from invis since mop.... there was more to the clip though. I want to say it was "Death pom sheep from invis full fear" (the mages whose jaw is now on the ground) followed by THE VERY NEXT CLIP being Death blind, grip bomb.... "Never healed before though" uh huh DONT LIE TO THE PEOPLE XAR! we remember. All around great video, love the xarys content trickling in between the mage uploads keep up the good work.
By the way, that's an excellent goal "Do not lose without using every cooldown"
You didnt fear once in 11 games , Id start there xD
Love the extreme ownership!
Extreme Ownership!
Love you xar
PRESS DOME
yo man,you are the best gl :) love you!
I remember queing against you on xarys in Legion 😂you were playing thug/jungle I believe at like 2400-2500. Good times
if you're a fresh 70 does your ilvl get boosted to equal everyones or are you at a big disadvantage in solo shuffle?
You're at a small disadvantage, ilvl only scales up to the ilvl which shows on gear and there's only green+blue ilvl and purple ILVL which is slightly higher, besides that you're all at the same gear level.
@@alexanderaziz8224 he is at a huge disadvantage until he gets pvp green and blue gear. He asked about a fresh 70 that has zero pvp scaling gear.
@@AkiRa22084 Isn't there ilvl requirement in solo shuffle now tho? So he did have at least honor gear.
@@maagi1 I don't think he knows about the requirement, since he asks about an ilvl boost. He probably hasn't played since Legion.
"I do believe I used every cd" never used fear 1 time lol
My cat just died. The start of this video didn't help me :'(
Check your spellbook for revive pet spell
@@maagi1 I wish it were that simple. thanks for the smile though
it's crazy to me how zoomed in he plays. How does he see where his team is and where the enemy healer is?
He loves that deep immersion
I use this macro for my evoker - maybe it work for priest too with little modifying? ( the pain sup) /castsequence reset=10 Obsidian Scales, 5
Xaryu and Pikaboo are two popular World of Warcraft players who are known for their exceptional skills as Discipline Priests.
They are highly competitive and are often compared to each other in terms of their solo shuffle rating.
Both players have been consistently delivering top-notch performances and are currently at the forefront of the Discipline Priest community.
Their ability to adapt to different situations and their mastery of the class has made them two of the most sought after players in the game.
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key word is staying max rang as a healer
Yes but learning what to do when you do get caught is important. Next time Xaryu finds himself in the blender, he can stay calm because he already knows the right way to react to the situation.
maybe make party frames bigger to actualy see your mates XD
Is disc OP now? I thought removing shadowmend and being a 1 school healer was a really bad nerf
Disc is the strongest healer for solo shuffle right now
@@knucklesbtw8605 ah ok. Wonder why... i quit on deagonflight release, but its good to hear my main is BIS again :) at least BIS for something pvp related
That warrior did so much dmg that it reminds me not to touch the game, Fun gameplay tho
I totally aggree with the self blame thingy, but sometimes its just not in our control and thats to be accepted, if you sit in a cc chain and your 0-6 paladin doesnt use Bubble theres nothing you can do as a healer. Yeah maybe you wouldnt have get cced with better positioning or you shouldve sat trinket swap just for this moment but what if you used your trinket swap the go before and it was your only option to safe your teammate? I get it, thats alot of If´s but SOMETIMES its just unavoidable, but those If´s definetly do not excuse beeing hardstuck at 1600 rating.
If someone goes 6-0 it's kinda better for all, means everyone won atleast a round
Unless it's the healer
Why do you los your lock the whole game?
He can't peel you like that..
pikaaboo better heal
interesting he chose one of the more difficult healers for first timing
lol what are the easy healers? disc has no kick and an AoE CC theyre on par with paladin and monk
@@PJTremblay every healing spec is much easier than disc priest, being a proactive healer rather than reactive inherently makes it very difficult, nevermind the fact that you need to heal and do a dps rotation at the same time
@@trevorruth3318 bro every healer has to dps or cc the rotation a priest has is 3 buttons
@@PJTremblay dps is optional for any other healer to do max hps, disc needs to do damage to be efficient. Also the dps buttons are purge wicked, smite, penance, mind blast, power word solace, schism, shadow word death and shadow covenant
@@trevorruth3318 i wouldnt argue they abv a dps main
Disc is all about playing at max distance possible. Its just unlucky the warrs trained you I guess
naw sometimes there a dps is that just bad XD
just like real life in general his outlook is good to follow
but there always that one person that cant be defended
Kicking schism is pretty bad yeah? You pretty much only wanna kick mindgames or holy spells yeah? Ok yeah
expains why my daddy hits me lol
If they line you, how is that your fault?
When the lock ported? It's his fault because he had bad positioning.
@@maagi1 No in general, a dps simply lines the healer and dies behind a pillar, how is that the healers fault?
@@SentinelMace It's not but healer can always play better to get that win, even if dps trolls.
Man these streamers are trying so hard to promote healing. Its just not fun in dragonflight, you have to really like healing to be even close to having fun.
U should play an other healer than the OP disc priest. It’s easier to play the most OP healer…..
Funnily enough of he played then worst healer, mw monk, it would have an infinitely easier time dealing with a warrior. Double port, rop, disarm, leg sweep into sleep. You can make the warrior not play the game if he trains you.
A month ago some dude on my solo shuffle team trashed me for playing disc instead of a meta healer like prevoker or rdruid. Now everyone's crying about OP disc priests lmao
disc is prob one of the harder healers lol u cant just sit back and healbot you actually have to do damage as well
try holy its easier to heal
I love the message you're trying to send but in all honesty below 2200 rating one person can ruin solo shuffle rounds easily lol
But even then you can think what you could've done better, even if you couldn't have saved those matches. Sure you can still observe other peoples mistakes.
@@ManWithoutThePants You can always look back and know you could’ve played better. That’s not the point I’m making.
Man I'd love to see this "my fault" attitude on any other healer. I honestly think that most dps (esp caster dps) mains can climb on disc as its currently OP compared to its healer counterparts. To put explain a little further. When you have 5 good dps and 1 bad dps, disc compensates for the bad dps. if you play any other healer, besides maybe evoker you're gimped with bad dps players on your team not so much as a disc/evoker. Awesome vid tho Xar
Idk I've been cracked by a couple resto shams, and they're about to get more dam too! Not as sustained as disc though but nice burst
Climbing as disc is still harder than climbing as a DPS... Do you really believe that most DPS can pick up healing easily?...
@@ninolinoyt Noooo sorry! ... I might have misspoke, I believe most gladiator/R1 Range DPS mains could pick up disc priest in its current state and climb pretty easily.
@@olherb9633 True rshams smack but they are gaining the talented damage of lightning bolt baseline. which is still a nerfed version of the damage they started with in the xpac. so its still a nerf just baseline given damage
@@DSR93 Any r1 player can do well with spec they have never tried, because of their game knowledge
but you have healed, i literally watched a video of you deathing a blind 20 years ago, so why u lying?
PLAY DISC YOU CAN HEAL FEAR MINDCONTRL DEAL AT THE SAME TIME YOU CANT POSSIBLY BLAME OTHERS WITH DISC
your raid frames are so small, not idea for a healer
Can ya maybe not make priest videos? I can’t handle another reroll and immediate nerf againnnnnnn lol
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Holy shit! Are you arguing against victim mentality? Save the world xar