And I live for it. they were just unfortunately too young when they started dating and you don’t understand when you watch people say “we need growth and do things on our own” and you don’t understand it because you would think I would I would want to do all these things with my partner, you know, but it just makes so. Much sense and It’s a perfectly reasonable thing that they did and I just think that at the end of the day they were so young when they met and did you know they weren’t able to do that growth alone and I’m here for the growth that they are going to be taking and the contact that they will be posting independently and I just know that one day they’re gonna be back together or will always be in each others lives because of the way that their chemistry and vanished out of this world so I think that you know the amazing part of this entire situation is that they said it themselves one day we might find each other and we will find each other again and it’ll be great because then they’ll be two grown adults were ready for an actual next step level relationship which would be marriage and kids and I just can’t wait for the day that they do, and if they don’t, I just know that they’re always gonna be in each others lives.
@@mirrormirror7172 i wasn't disagreeing with their decision. i was just simply stating that no matter if they are in a relationship or just friends they have a love for each other so beyond this world's knowledge. they are two beautiful people inside and out who love each other deeply. so much they are willing to let each other be able to live their separate lives so they can become who they are suppose to be
the fact that she started tearing up when jake said "she knows who she is, its the reason why i fell in love with her" really proves that what they had was love
@@carolynmorin8042 could be possible, but its still really cool and overall nice how they actually were really comfortable and stuff with each other while talking about this, could be also possible they get back w each other but we never know how the future goes
Ew friendships. If you're not getting paid to be friends it's pointless. Isn't everyone like jigsaw and want to torture people? I thought that's how everyone thinks.
2 mature adults that can still be friends after everything is utterly amazing. I have so much pride for both of you. I’m so proud we got to watch both of you grow so much
@@DEM1NAthey act silly because they are having fun. Doesn’t make them immature. always acting like a robot and like u had a fucking lobotomy isn’t mature. They are mature because they respect each other
It’s so rare to see ppl not making their relationship their whole personality. Like you guys said, you are individual ppl and I’m glad you guys had a healthy relationship plus a healthy break up :)
Only Jake and Tara can make me laugh through sadness because of their break up. They’re humour compliments the other perfectly and I’m glad they’re still actually friends
This is so mature of them, im actually really happy they decided to be genuine friends, and the fact they didn't make it known for awhile just shows how mature and how much they actually mean it!
First Sam and Katrina, now Jake and Tara. Our Favorites are growing up! I hope the next chapters in your lives are filled with even more awesome memories! Go experience your own unique individualities and live life to the fullest!!! ❤❤ Much Love to you both!
Not really, I think they would date someone who's understanding of their situation and probably be comfortable with them still talking and hanging out, I would be.
@@love4ari676 yeah totally if it was platonic but all of their vidoes now just being friends they are always making comments like "should we get back together?" "wow my ex is so hot" and i can't seeing anyone being okay with that
agree. being friends with an ex is fine if there's loyalty and trust but the other person theyre dating should always have priority over friendships or else itd be a toxic situation of why do you hang out w your ex more than me ynow. no one wants to be with someone who's still in love w their ex bc at that point why are you dating others.
I just see two people who have grown up together and respect one another. My relationship started my sophomore year of high school and I had babies too young. I don’t know who I am at 28. Around 25/26, I really really didn’t know who I was and began to question these things. I’m glad you guys are taking time to find yourselves, where ever you end up. You can still love another while broken up and I see that, because you started your relationship out as whole separate individuals. I’m proud of y’all for doing what feels best.
I can see Tara trying not to cry and he feel like Jake is too, thank you guys for all the funny videos and making each other happy. Thank you for making us happy. We love you guys forever ❤❤ this is your decision and I respect that.
@@jonathan__BBEjake is a very happy and outgoing person, he doesn’t show sadness a lot but they were together for a long time of course he’s sad he’s just not showing it on camera
i'm so happy they're still friends afterwards, and acting the same exact way they did in their relationship. it's heartwarming that they can still maintain a good bond even after breaking up
This is a very mature and healthy way to go about a breakup. 💗 props to them because I could never just be friends with someone I deeply love. Even if I know it’s best not to be together, I just can’t. It would break my heart too much.
this is insane how mature and reasonable these two are. like they said, they're actually going to stay friends. being able to break up and still be "Jake and Tara" is awesome!! Love them sm. ♥♥♥
You can tell the way that she looked at him the entire video, ,that she is hurting and that she really didnt want to break up and that it was just the best decision for the both of them. The tears she shed were real he hadnt even gotten to the point and she already started crying because she loves him so much.😔😔
@@jessicabritton8750 you obviously have zero knowledge on social cues and body language. the commenter might not know them but at least they know something, unlike you who know nothing.
My husband and I when we first dated broke up and found our way back to each. So I completely understand where you guys are coming from. I wish you both the best and sending positive vibes, love you both❤
I'm happy for you both and the fact that you can recognise the relationship isn't going in the direction you both wanted it's better than staying in a unhealthy relationship for years. May you both have a happy long life friendship.
I love how healthy their friendship is and how they deal with it so good and instead of making a whole apology video they just eat pizza and drink coffee
I never understood this reasoning :( I’m happy you guys are still great friends. But it’s okay to be your own person while still being in a relationship. That’s what makes it healthy , still having your own life outside of your relationship. That’s why you make the effort to grow with eachother as time goes on. If you’re still in love with eachother and nothing is wrong, then why break up? You can still be successful as an individual even while still in a relationship. That’s what makes it a healthy balance if you allow eachother to do it. Why does the relationship have to go away. Ugh idk . Still love you both and are happy for you guys no matter what.
i think they mainly just feel like they wanna experience being in their 20’s not tied down. cause they got together before they were really even young adults, they were teenagers. so they wouldn’t get to experience a lot if they were alr tied down so early in life.
you guys are soooooo precious & the fckn definition of what I always wanted. A person that loves & respects me as much as you do each other. Every single relationship I ever had was totally toxic & when I couldn't take it anymore & finally broke up I did it in the nicest way possible, even though they didn't deserve it. And all they did was to shame me, turn everyone against me, tell me what a horrible person I am or at one point even took all of my stuff from me... I cried so hard watching this video, because I'm so happy for you guys and so glad that this way of handeling a breakup actually works. But also it almost tear me apart, cause as I said: This is all I ever wanted...
As much as I think this is a super healthy relationship and mature great break up. If the do decide to get in different relationships there is absolutely no way their new partner would be comfortable with them being so close to their EX. I love that they’re actually trying to stay friends but they say “nothing is going to change” but things will and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Exactly what i was thinking ! I could not date someone who is this friendly and close with their ex, or really still in contact with their ex at all (unless i got to the age of god forbid not being with my current bf and having to date people who had kids from another relationship) that’s the only time I think I could possibly handle if it’s because they had kids together !
Wow the insecurity from both of these comments is sad. You can be friends with your ex if it's a heathy breakup and not messing one, especially if your ex is part of your friend group. You don't own your partners and can't tell them who they can be friends with stop being so possessive it's not cute.
@@XMissGX It’s not insecurity it’s called boundaries! They can of course be friends but when you get a new partner things change. That’s normal. I personally would not feel comfortable with my partner being best friends with their EX of 5+ years. Also if I was on the other side of it, if my long term ex boyfriend got a new partner I wouldn’t feel comfortable being so close to them. I would want to respect their new relationship. Don’t turn my comment into something it’s not. Just bc you want Jake and Tara to stay bffs forever.
i can tell they are both trying not to cry and keep it together and they will definitely continue to love each other as friends and we will always continue to support them both as individuals 🖤
Ik im rlly late to comment on the video but the way Jake talks at Tara is so cute and heartwarming. I literally started crying while watching this, they are both amazing, funny, humble people and I hope they stay that way.
An ex of mine and I are still friends 8 years later. We were together for 4 years, engaged, lived together and even got 3 dogs. I have two of the dogs still and he has 1. It is possible to stay friends if you're open and honest with each other and truly care for the person. People grow apart and it's okay, he's even had two kids now and is single again and we're still friends. Alot of respect to you and Tara for doing this video and I hope people respect you both enough to let you be and continue to live your lives without judgement, rumours or any of that shit.
Not many former couples can say that they had not only a healthy relationship but a healthy break up. I’m proud that you can. You were an awesome couple and will always be the best of friends. Love you guys ❤
The fact this was more a papa johns pizza review than a breakup explaination is the most iconic this ever and just shows how much you guys are able to just be friends ❤️❤️
I'm sorry you two have decided to break up. I wish you both the best in your careers, and I can tell that you'll continue to support each other. I love how you guys can talk so openly and kindly to each other, unlike most ex's. Love y'all, and I wish y'all the best 🖤.
honestly gives me more peace of mind when it comes to break ups. i hope i can be this civil and healthy whenever it comes to this stuff in my relationships
to be fair it could just be the way he acts, or he could just feel uncomfortable being vulnerable on camera. I know people that are just overall really awkward, not to mention his diagnosis of autism could really explain it. autism makes it difficult to express emotions and empathize, along with making it hard to act accordingly in social events. This isnt hate i just wanted to kinda explain it to ya and maybe change ur mind, i get where ur coming from as it is easy to take it like he doesnt really care but i dont feel as jake is that kind of guy because he really cares for her. Anyways sorry for this whole paragraph 💀
@@taraawaraI was gonna write up a whole thing but you surmised it perfectly--autism makes it hard to express yourself sometimes. Plus a lot of people cope with humor and making people laugh
The truth is there’s always going to one party that’s hurt more. But the more important truth is that there’s no sense in continuing a relationship if one person is less in it. I think Tara recognizes this. She’s young, beautiful, and I’m sure there’s a part of her like him that is excited to be single and open herself up to new people and experiences. They kind of beat around the bush but it sounds like they realized that they’re too young to be in such a long-term monogamous relationship. As someone that was with one guy from 15 to 22 and got engaged at 22, the moment I got engaged it became so clear how wrong it was. I was shy and insecure when we met, I had no idea what I wanted and was just so happy to be in a relationship. We grew into completely different people, which happens from your teens to adulthood. And I realized that I didn’t even know what I wanted in an adult partner because I was still with someone I met as a stupid teenager. If they are meant to be, they’ll go and experience new people and realize that what they had was *it*. But it’s so important to date, to experience different people, learn what works for you and what brings you joy, and find the person that is truly compatible for you.
I honestly think that he’s happy and bubbly that they are still best friends. I think that he wants to set Tara free from his problems, and he is happy that he could without it being a giant fight, and I do feel bad for Tara, but I’m glad that they are still best friends.
This was so beautiful to see. My ex & I broke up & we had a very similar situation. we were so young & needed to experience life as an individual. We had a slight falling out for a short period of time but we realized that we had went through too much together to not be apart of each other’s lives. Unfortunately, he struggled with depression for majority of his life & the cops found him after I called to have a welfare check on him as he was really concerning me the day leading up to his passing. He was only 21 years old. Not a day goes by that I wish he was still here because he deserved to live a happier & longer life. I share this story because it shows that you never truly know when it’s your time & I feel so blessed that we were on good terms because I couldn’t imagine the guilt I’d feel If we weren’t. Jake & Tara, thank you for always sharing the love ❤️
Was his depression and the main reason he passed because you broke up and were seeing new people? Most of the time when you have a "mutual" break up it's only 1 person that truly wants to break up. The other one just agrees because they don't want it to be a nasty break up and seem crazy. Why waste the time with someone and tell them you love them if you don't actually plan on being with them for the rest of your life?
@@Omnipotent-CThings change and situations happen that you can’t predict. Going your own way doesn’t mean you can never be together again. Sometimes the distance will make you come back stronger. Come back as two individuals who have gotten the chance to explore and grow as people.
I was hoping for a “just kidding “ somewhere in there but that didn’t happen. I gotta say, you are both handling this amazingly. It shows what type of people you both are and how much love you have for one another. Wishing the best for both of you and maybe love and life will bring you back together one day. Until then, life is short, go out and enjoy your lives to the fullest. Much love to you both ♥️
He respects her so much bro. Jake treated her so well im so glad he made her happy they both deserve a long lasting friendship there the best friendship I’ve seen in a long time
I Hope that this will help their relationship grow as friends and maybe later in life they'll try again, or maybe they'll find someone who's perfect for both of them and just stay friends!! Who knows? But, whatever happens, just know, we'll all support you guys!
As someone who got to keep that friendship with an ex, I’m so happy that you guys have that kind of connection. Caring about someone so deeply that even broken up, your priority is your friendship. Your relationship dynamics are no one’s business but your own. Thank you for sharing with us. I’m exited to see this new era of Jake and Tara! ☺️❤️❤️
yeah this is really stupid. if they were in a healthy relationship, been together for 5 years and are happy together then wtf. the grass isn’t always greener on the other side
I noticed a tiny something was different during Tara’s birthday between you two. You guys are the healthiest relationship/ friendship I’ve ever seen. I think the entire world could learn a few lessons from you both. Watching you for years noticing how much you are both growing over time as individuals is great to see and so much more growth is on the way I have no doubt 🖤
this is the most healthy, mature, grown way of doing this it makes me glad to see that you two are still gonna stay friends. whether couple or best friends it doesnt matter. there is an after and there is a better way, Sending joy and love to you both!
To know that you can love someone but being in a relationship isn't always what's best for you both isn't easy, but it really shows how much love and respect you have for one another. So proud of you both. Can't wait to see what the future holds 💜🖤💜
I equate this to my HS and College boyfriends all in which I am still friends with and remained a part of my life. Ya’ll are so young and it really is important to experience/find yourselves separately, have freedom and not be just Jake and Tara (it’s similar to even friend groups finding their own way)…. Better to do it now then force anything and decide this way down the line. Enjoy your twenties, and enjoy the company you keep irregardless who it’s with! Stay weird Jake and stay beautiful Tara.
I really feel like Jake is just going to keep Tara on a short leash for if he ever wants to rekindle things. I hope she finds someone who wants to be with her forever and wouldn’t even dare think of leaving her. I think it’s weird to break up and then mention getting back together later.
yea I was thinking the same thing. Of course it's understandable for them to want to want to break up in order to live their lives but it just seems like it was a "right person, wrong time" kind of thing, and that would only mean that they were just not right for each other. If Jake really loved tara he would've stayed with her and made it work no matter what.. idk this is just how I see love. No man would ever want to see the woman they love sad or with another guy. So yea it doesn't exactly make sense to me either.
Not gonna lie, I was sobbing when I saw the video, but when I clicked on it and watched it, I started laughing. I’m excited for this new era of Jake and Tara. Literally most peaceful break up I’ve seen. Love both of you ❤
saw it coming ... but regardless happy for em both and the respect they have for each other is honestly awesome , this is unconditional love right here ❤
Hints were definitely there. Jake also made videos with Johnny talking about women and it made it seem like he wasn’t even in a relationship to be talking some sort of way. Then the Wendy’ video he did with her his vibe was definitely off and was more pushy back with her just like how she is with him
For sure. She's major clinging to the "nothing's changing" narrative. The issue could be when he meets someone. I don't doubt she's playing the part well because she wants him in her life but underneath it she's hurting a lot
@@catkeech yeah for sure. shes trying to be good with it because he initiated this breakup clearly, and this is her coping. u can fully see through their words and tone their individual true feelings about this situation and they are not on the same page
I love how you both went about it literally felt like just a normal one of guys videos together and I love that for you both. The most authentic yet casual break up announcement I’ve ever seen on the internet and for it to go unnoticed for 3 weeks says a lot and by “a lot” I mean it says you guys we’re friends that started dating and ended things in a mature, respectful, and in a healthy way that you guys can still continue to be just friends. I deada$$ I can’t for you guys new era separately as individuals but also together as friends! So much love to both of you ❤️
Crying sobbing throwing up passing out I literally love you guys been together I still love you guys have been friends literally you guys saved me. don’t listen to the haters be friends in peace luv. x
This whole video just shows your relationship, you're broken up but you're still friends getting fuzzy wuzzies out of each other eyes and food out of teeth. Love you both, and thank you for even sharing this with us even though you thought it was cringe lmao
tara’s video for more info: ruclips.net/video/HLYwwd9a6EY/видео.html&si=SYyc0XaUPBEZOXEM
I’m so happy you guys left off on good terms! ❤
IVE HAD A HEART ATTACK😭😭😭
Its a new chapter for you guysis
I wish the best for you guys!
Y’all awesome you could never tell you broke up♥
never seen a break up video where the couple burps more than crying. love you guys so much :)
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Jake sucks butthole for dumping that beautiful Persian woman who looks like Jackie from that 70 show AKA Mila Ashton kutcher's wife❤
"i still wanna go on dates with you" your guys love for each other is so beyond this world.
And I live for it. they were just unfortunately too young when they started dating and you don’t understand when you watch people say “we need growth and do things on our own” and you don’t understand it because you would think I would I would want to do all these things with my partner, you know, but it just makes so. Much sense and It’s a perfectly reasonable thing that they did and I just think that at the end of the day they were so young when they met and did you know they weren’t able to do that growth alone and I’m here for the growth that they are going to be taking and the contact that they will be posting independently and I just know that one day they’re gonna be back together or will always be in each others lives because of the way that their chemistry and vanished out of this world so I think that you know the amazing part of this entire situation is that they said it themselves one day we might find each other and we will find each other again and it’ll be great because then they’ll be two grown adults were ready for an actual next step level relationship which would be marriage and kids and I just can’t wait for the day that they do, and if they don’t, I just know that they’re always gonna be in each others lives.
@@mirrormirror7172 i wasn't disagreeing with their decision. i was just simply stating that no matter if they are in a relationship or just friends they have a love for each other so beyond this world's knowledge. they are two beautiful people inside and out who love each other deeply. so much they are willing to let each other be able to live their separate lives so they can become who they are suppose to be
She wants a guy that doesn’t paint his nails
She just figured out , she’s prettier than mila kunis
@@guysumpthin2974wtf no she doesn’t stfu
This is literally the healthiest most normal break up I’ve ever seen. I wish all splits could be like this. Or at least just done in a peaceful way.
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the fact that she started tearing up when jake said "she knows who she is, its the reason why i fell in love with her" really proves that what they had was love
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@@JaneAndJoanneClipsi was abt the ask the same thing lol
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Omfg. Jake talking about how Tara is her own person made me want to start bawling. He is so fucking sweet. And she is a badass.
Same, at the beginning.
Just wanted to let you know, and u probably don’t mean it in a bad way but “Omfg” is disrespectful to God
@@yaramustafa8811 not everyone is a Christian and obviously the original commenter didnt and doesnt care worry ab urself
@@yaramustafa8811uuuuuuuuuuiuu uhhhh if con y
@@yaramustafa8811they could have taken that into consideration and meant it as oh my fucking gosh u don’t know 🤷🏼♀️
this is the healthiest friendship i've ever known, i'm so glad they can comfortably talk about this. it's really friendship goals
I agree this is rlly sweet
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in a few months they won't be friends anymore, happens to everyone that breaks up
@@carolynmorin8042 could be possible, but its still really cool and overall nice how they actually were really comfortable and stuff with each other while talking about this, could be also possible they get back w each other but we never know how the future goes
Ew friendships. If you're not getting paid to be friends it's pointless. Isn't everyone like jigsaw and want to torture people? I thought that's how everyone thinks.
this is the most chill, laid back breakup video ive ever seen and i live for it
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It’s so them
It's called a facade. Stop believing everything you see on the internet.
the way jake speaks about tara is so sweet. like he’s not putting her down for breaking up with him. he’s a real man. they were the best couple.
I don’t think she broke up with him. Looks like he has moved on
They may look chilled in this but you can see the heartbreak in their faces
I was the 420th like..and that's so real
thats wut i was thinking even from the beginning of the vid
Tara seems heartbroken 💔
she was definitely crying @ 3:46-4:00 😭
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You can so clearly see how much Jake respects Tara and it’s actually restoring my faith in men ❤
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the bare minimum
I love how they're talking about a break up but still cracking jokes and being chaotic, I love them both sm lmao
the way Tara said “we’re still going to be jake and tara just….friends” that broke me frfr
2 mature adults that can still be friends after everything is utterly amazing. I have so much pride for both of you. I’m so proud we got to watch both of you grow so much
What do you mean by 'mature'
@@DEM1NAthey act silly because they are having fun. Doesn’t make them immature. always acting like a robot and like u had a fucking lobotomy isn’t mature. They are mature because they respect each other
@@DEM1NA they lit are mature if they can stay friends after all this, nd they act silly bc there having fun doesn’t mean there immature 😭💀
It’s so rare to see ppl not making their relationship their whole personality. Like you guys said, you are individual ppl and I’m glad you guys had a healthy relationship plus a healthy break up :)
*Tara looking at jake with the love eyes* : “let’s get back together”
Definitely nothing but love
That’s what I thought to ☹️
Yup
Tara: “Did you know that makeup expires?
Jake: “Yeah, everything expires”
Tara: “My love for you doesnt 😊”
And it didn’t
@@MilaMoonie1I want them back together badly
they still love eachother
OMGG😭😭💗💗💗
I am a child of divorced parents
Only Jake and Tara can make me laugh through sadness because of their break up. They’re humour compliments the other perfectly and I’m glad they’re still actually friends
Yea
This is so mature of them, im actually really happy they decided to be genuine friends, and the fact they didn't make it known for awhile just shows how mature and how much they actually mean it!
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First Sam and Katrina, now Jake and Tara. Our Favorites are growing up! I hope the next chapters in your lives are filled with even more awesome memories! Go experience your own unique individualities and live life to the fullest!!! ❤❤ Much Love to you both!
who's next?
corey and devyn or sam and colby@@kuroketsueki9059
@@kuroketsueki9059not colby 💀
@@jazzmcnazz9177YOU DID NOT 😭😭 you're not wrong lmfao
I didn't know Sam & Kat broke up!
Jake: “you were a wonderful experience”
Tara: “you were…everything..”
stop I'm going ti sob
@@chappellroangeekbar sorry pookie🥲😭
I’m actually going to start bawling stop it right now 😭😭😭
@@SomeRand0mteen sorrryyyyy 😔
HEOP NOT ADVENTURE TIME
Lmao Jake getting her a bunch of peppers was so cute, I’m so glad they’re still friends
the way tara still looks at him makes me wanna sob😭
Me too, I know the look when I see it because I’ve been there 😭💔
this was the definition of right person wrong time, just glad there both happy and are remaining friends!
I could tell from the start of the video how sad Tara was she was literally holding back her tears I could tell
Based off what they said I’m assuming she wanted to be married or have kids and he didn’t. What do you think?
being besties with an ex is perfect until someone starts dating someone else and there theres boundaries set by the new partner tbh
Like did anything ever actually change ? I’m fully convinced it’s just a thing for views to say “my ex “ yada yada title
@@ROBINLOVER4EVA agreed! if you still hang out and talk every single day like nothing changed, it's impossible to even process a breakup too
Not really, I think they would date someone who's understanding of their situation and probably be comfortable with them still talking and hanging out, I would be.
@@love4ari676 yeah totally if it was platonic but all of their vidoes now just being friends they are always making comments like "should we get back together?" "wow my ex is so hot" and i can't seeing anyone being okay with that
agree. being friends with an ex is fine if there's loyalty and trust but the other person theyre dating should always have priority over friendships or else itd be a toxic situation of why do you hang out w your ex more than me ynow. no one wants to be with someone who's still in love w their ex bc at that point why are you dating others.
they are the best duo ive ever seen, i love how healthy their relationship (as friends) is.
“Friends that are gonna want to talk shit” don’t sound like real friends. You both deserve the best!! 🖤🖤
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Bro EXACTLY what I was thinking. Real ones want you to be happy first and foremost
A year later and they are still making videos together. True friends.
Seeing y'all actually still be friends after the break-up is why y'all are my favorite duo on RUclips.
This is worse than when my parents told me they’re getting divorced. I thought Tara and Jake would be forever 😩💔
Sam and kat are still friends tho
this is fr the healthiest, least toxic breakup i've ever seen 😭 you guys are both amazing people and i'm wishing you all the best moving forward!!
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I’m so sorry to hear that, Jake and Tara! I hope for the best to the both of you in your lives ❤ Love you both!
u can see the pain in her eyes😭
I knoww.😢 i kinda feel bad
I just see two people who have grown up together and respect one another. My relationship started my sophomore year of high school and I had babies too young. I don’t know who I am at 28. Around 25/26, I really really didn’t know who I was and began to question these things. I’m glad you guys are taking time to find yourselves, where ever you end up. You can still love another while broken up and I see that, because you started your relationship out as whole separate individuals. I’m proud of y’all for doing what feels best.
I feel you on that , babies too young and you don’t know who you are as a person … since all we do is take care of other besides ourselves
I can see Tara trying not to cry and he feel like Jake is too, thank you guys for all the funny videos and making each other happy. Thank you for making us happy. We love you guys forever ❤❤ this is your decision and I respect that.
it feels like tara is a little sad but jake feels fine
Aww tru Tara wants to cry
@@jonathan__BBEjake is a very happy and outgoing person, he doesn’t show sadness a lot but they were together for a long time of course he’s sad he’s just not showing it on camera
@@fynyx6630he def did show it on camera near the end
I deff see Jake being casual and funny which makes me think he broke it off… You can see Tara is going thru it and is trying to cover it up
i'm so happy they're still friends afterwards, and acting the same exact way they did in their relationship. it's heartwarming that they can still maintain a good bond even after breaking up
at 8:44, you notice tara is crying and Jake notices it, but he tries to act like he doesn't see it
There's no point in acknowledging it, it's an emotional moment and tears happen. Also as they said - what's the point of saying stuff like this
tara tearing up hurts my heart :(
IKR
this is so sad but this is genuinely so wholesome how they're so calm and so nice about it 😭
You guys are handling this better than anyone I’ve ever seen. I know it’s still hard but I’m proud of both of you amazing people
3:39 when she starts tearing up always gets me tearing up 😭
she’s so cute 😭
@@avaluvsyou465she is.
This is a very mature and healthy way to go about a breakup. 💗 props to them because I could never just be friends with someone I deeply love. Even if I know it’s best not to be together, I just can’t. It would break my heart too much.
“Did you know that makeup expires” “everything expires” “my love for you doesn’t” 💔💔💔💔 the love stays as friends now ❤️
I JUST WATCHED THAT VIDEO LIKE TWO HOURS AGO
STOP.
@@zee444how it was only posted 50 minutes ago
That’s what I was thinking this whole video
STOP IM LEGIT SOBBING 😢😭
this is insane how mature and reasonable these two are. like they said, they're actually going to stay friends. being able to break up and still be "Jake and Tara" is awesome!! Love them sm. ♥♥♥
You can tell the way that she looked at him the entire video, ,that she is hurting and that she really didnt want to break up and that it was just the best decision for the both of them. The tears she shed were real he hadnt even gotten to the point and she already started crying because she loves him so much.😔😔
Shut up dude lmao you don’t know them 😂
@jessicabritton8750 awww but it's the truth bees how about u talk trash at ppl U know instead of being a rat to ppl u don't even know pookers 😚😝
@jessicabritton8750 it's called facial expression and I don't got to shut up to smb who I don't even know so how about u shut up u don't know me🤣
@@jessicabritton8750 you obviously have zero knowledge on social cues and body language. the commenter might not know them but at least they know something, unlike you who know nothing.
FIRST SAM AND KAT NOW TARA AND JAKE?!😭😭😭 I love yall!!
for real i never saw it coming in so sad
FR THO 😭😭😭😭
fr bro. imagine Corey and devin idk if i said her name right. but imagine that bro.
It’s so sad
So sad
My husband and I when we first dated broke up and found our way back to each. So I completely understand where you guys are coming from. I wish you both the best and sending positive vibes, love you both❤
I see that happen and create the most loving relationships! if its meant to be it will be and I’m so glad they’re being positive about this
how long did you date before breaking up? if you don’t mind me asking. ❤
I NEVER SAW THIS COMING IM GONNA CRY
same omgggg
@@poppyburnettit doesn’t even feel real since their connection is still there 🥺
ME TOO OMG
@@poppyburnett it’s literally so sad like they where so amazing together such a good duo
SAME AND RIGHT AFER KAT AND SAM
SOBBING
10:10 I love how they both call
It a fuzzy wuzzy 😂😂
THIS IS THE ONLY COUPLE I HOPEF TO NEVER BREAK UP 😭😭
Ever since kat and Sam I’ve been living in fear😭
Same
ME TOO BEUH WHAT THE HELL
FRR
Fr
Y’all handled this better than most 30 year olds I know, best of luck to both of you both!
I like how they’re still being friendly together and not just cold
You can see the pain in her.
I'm happy for you both and the fact that you can recognise the relationship isn't going in the direction you both wanted it's better than staying in a unhealthy relationship for years. May you both have a happy long life friendship.
I love how healthy their friendship is and how they deal with it so good and instead of making a whole apology video they just eat pizza and drink coffee
That's pepsi
I never understood this reasoning :( I’m happy you guys are still great friends. But it’s okay to be your own person while still being in a relationship. That’s what makes it healthy , still having your own life outside of your relationship. That’s why you make the effort to grow with eachother as time goes on. If you’re still in love with eachother and nothing is wrong, then why break up? You can still be successful as an individual even while still in a relationship. That’s what makes it a healthy balance if you allow eachother to do it. Why does the relationship have to go away. Ugh idk . Still love you both and are happy for you guys no matter what.
I was kind of wondering the same thing...
true
i think they want to have other relationships
i think they mainly just feel like they wanna experience being in their 20’s not tied down. cause they got together before they were really even young adults, they were teenagers. so they wouldn’t get to experience a lot if they were alr tied down so early in life.
you guys are soooooo precious & the fckn definition of what I always wanted. A person that loves & respects me as much as you do each other. Every single relationship I ever had was totally toxic & when I couldn't take it anymore & finally broke up I did it in the nicest way possible, even though they didn't deserve it. And all they did was to shame me, turn everyone against me, tell me what a horrible person I am or at one point even took all of my stuff from me... I cried so hard watching this video, because I'm so happy for you guys and so glad that this way of handeling a breakup actually works. But also it almost tear me apart, cause as I said: This is all I ever wanted...
As much as I think this is a super healthy relationship and mature great break up. If the do decide to get in different relationships there is absolutely no way their new partner would be comfortable with them being so close to their EX. I love that they’re actually trying to stay friends but they say “nothing is going to change” but things will and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Exactly what i was thinking ! I could not date someone who is this friendly and close with their ex, or really still in contact with their ex at all (unless i got to the age of god forbid not being with my current bf and having to date people who had kids from another relationship) that’s the only time I think I could possibly handle if it’s because they had kids together !
Wow the insecurity from both of these comments is sad. You can be friends with your ex if it's a heathy breakup and not messing one, especially if your ex is part of your friend group. You don't own your partners and can't tell them who they can be friends with stop being so possessive it's not cute.
@@XMissGX It’s not insecurity it’s called boundaries! They can of course be friends but when you get a new partner things change. That’s normal. I personally would not feel comfortable with my partner being best friends with their EX of 5+ years. Also if I was on the other side of it, if my long term ex boyfriend got a new partner I wouldn’t feel comfortable being so close to them. I would want to respect their new relationship. Don’t turn my comment into something it’s not. Just bc you want Jake and Tara to stay bffs forever.
Yeah I truly believe they’re soulmates
this is so real of u
It is sad that you two have broken up, but that's fine. You obviously still care for each other and have such a healthy friendship
i can tell they are both trying not to cry and keep it together and they will definitely continue to love each other as friends and we will always continue to support them both as individuals 🖤
Ik im rlly late to comment on the video but the way Jake talks at Tara is so cute and heartwarming. I literally started crying while watching this, they are both amazing, funny, humble people and I hope they stay that way.
An ex of mine and I are still friends 8 years later. We were together for 4 years, engaged, lived together and even got 3 dogs. I have two of the dogs still and he has 1. It is possible to stay friends if you're open and honest with each other and truly care for the person. People grow apart and it's okay, he's even had two kids now and is single again and we're still friends. Alot of respect to you and Tara for doing this video and I hope people respect you both enough to let you be and continue to live your lives without judgement, rumours or any of that shit.
Men and women can't be friends lol
@@verum117 maybe you can't be friends with the opposite gender but that seems to be a YOU problem.
Not many former couples can say that they had not only a healthy relationship but a healthy break up. I’m proud that you can. You were an awesome couple and will always be the best of friends. Love you guys ❤
Y’all are so nice to each other even after breaking up that’s so sweet😭
10:25 "close your eyeee-uhh!"
I cant say that I saw this coming but I’m glad that they’re doing what’s best for them and that they’re still healthy and care for one another
The fact this was more a papa johns pizza review than a breakup explaination is the most iconic this ever and just shows how much you guys are able to just be friends ❤️❤️
I'm sorry you two have decided to break up. I wish you both the best in your careers, and I can tell that you'll continue to support each other. I love how you guys can talk so openly and kindly to each other, unlike most ex's. Love y'all, and I wish y'all the best 🖤.
I guess they would really find out how they feel about the breakup, when one of them starts dating someone else 😂
THIS!!!!
Exactly
Sometimes new relationships make you realize more about past ones. Gives you a different perspective. It is what it is.
I love how y’all are comfortable to talk about this I love yall.
3:51 the tears in taras eyes im screaming
honestly gives me more peace of mind when it comes to break ups. i hope i can be this civil and healthy whenever it comes to this stuff in my relationships
jake seems bubbly and happy that they’re broken up. that hurts. my heart goes out to tara. healing will come with time, it always does ❤
to be fair it could just be the way he acts, or he could just feel uncomfortable being vulnerable on camera. I know people that are just overall really awkward, not to mention his diagnosis of autism could really explain it. autism makes it difficult to express emotions and empathize, along with making it hard to act accordingly in social events. This isnt hate i just wanted to kinda explain it to ya and maybe change ur mind, i get where ur coming from as it is easy to take it like he doesnt really care but i dont feel as jake is that kind of guy because he really cares for her. Anyways sorry for this whole paragraph 💀
I think that the breakup affected more Tara:( either way I hope both get to live the life that they desire
@@taraawaraI was gonna write up a whole thing but you surmised it perfectly--autism makes it hard to express yourself sometimes. Plus a lot of people cope with humor and making people laugh
The truth is there’s always going to one party that’s hurt more. But the more important truth is that there’s no sense in continuing a relationship if one person is less in it. I think Tara recognizes this. She’s young, beautiful, and I’m sure there’s a part of her like him that is excited to be single and open herself up to new people and experiences. They kind of beat around the bush but it sounds like they realized that they’re too young to be in such a long-term monogamous relationship. As someone that was with one guy from 15 to 22 and got engaged at 22, the moment I got engaged it became so clear how wrong it was. I was shy and insecure when we met, I had no idea what I wanted and was just so happy to be in a relationship. We grew into completely different people, which happens from your teens to adulthood. And I realized that I didn’t even know what I wanted in an adult partner because I was still with someone I met as a stupid teenager. If they are meant to be, they’ll go and experience new people and realize that what they had was *it*. But it’s so important to date, to experience different people, learn what works for you and what brings you joy, and find the person that is truly compatible for you.
I honestly think that he’s happy and bubbly that they are still best friends. I think that he wants to set Tara free from his problems, and he is happy that he could without it being a giant fight, and I do feel bad for Tara, but I’m glad that they are still best friends.
Love seeing breakups that are as mature as this. I mean it sucks when ppl breakup but this was the most mature breakup I think I’ve experienced
Tara at 3:45 made me want to hug her she’s an adorable lil cryer
This was so beautiful to see. My ex & I broke up & we had a very similar situation. we were so young & needed to experience life as an individual. We had a slight falling out for a short period of time but we realized that we had went through too much together to not be apart of each other’s lives. Unfortunately, he struggled with depression for majority of his life & the cops found him after I called to have a welfare check on him as he was really concerning me the day leading up to his passing. He was only 21 years old. Not a day goes by that I wish he was still here because he deserved to live a happier & longer life. I share this story because it shows that you never truly know when it’s your time & I feel so blessed that we were on good terms because I couldn’t imagine the guilt I’d feel If we weren’t.
Jake & Tara, thank you for always sharing the love ❤️
Was his depression and the main reason he passed because you broke up and were seeing new people?
Most of the time when you have a "mutual" break up it's only 1 person that truly wants to break up. The other one just agrees because they don't want it to be a nasty break up and seem crazy.
Why waste the time with someone and tell them you love them if you don't actually plan on being with them for the rest of your life?
@@Omnipotent-CThings change and situations happen that you can’t predict. Going your own way doesn’t mean you can never be together again. Sometimes the distance will make you come back stronger. Come back as two individuals who have gotten the chance to explore and grow as people.
11:32 bro that was the sweetest thing ever 😭😭
I was hoping for a “just kidding “ somewhere in there but that didn’t happen. I gotta say, you are both handling this amazingly. It shows what type of people you both are and how much love you have for one another. Wishing the best for both of you and maybe love and life will bring you back together one day. Until then, life is short, go out and enjoy your lives to the fullest. Much love to you both ♥️
He respects her so much bro. Jake treated her so well im so glad he made her happy they both deserve a long lasting friendship there the best friendship I’ve seen in a long time
I Hope that this will help their relationship grow as friends and maybe later in life they'll try again, or maybe they'll find someone who's perfect for both of them and just stay friends!! Who knows? But, whatever happens, just know, we'll all support you guys!
8:00 this part was like when my parents told me they were getting divorced😂😂
U ok ?
@@Reyyisbored3 no
@@Pizza24g oh
As someone who got to keep that friendship with an ex, I’m so happy that you guys have that kind of connection. Caring about someone so deeply that even broken up, your priority is your friendship. Your relationship dynamics are no one’s business but your own. Thank you for sharing with us. I’m exited to see this new era of Jake and Tara! ☺️❤️❤️
From someone your age, if you have something as incredible as you’re claiming to have.. don’t let it go.. life is so short
no literally, like what’s the point in waiting for something better to come along, that’s rare asf
I think it’s more they want to be alone
They wanted to break up and that’s their final decision. you need to let it go or accept that😭
I couldn't agree more.
yeah this is really stupid. if they were in a healthy relationship, been together for 5 years and are happy together then wtf. the grass isn’t always greener on the other side
I noticed a tiny something was different during Tara’s birthday between you two. You guys are the healthiest relationship/ friendship I’ve ever seen. I think the entire world could learn a few lessons from you both. Watching you for years noticing how much you are both growing over time as individuals is great to see and so much more growth is on the way I have no doubt 🖤
8:55 the way jake looked so focused on tara eating the jalapeno bite lmaaooo
this is the most healthy, mature, grown way of doing this
it makes me glad to see that you two are still gonna stay friends. whether couple or best friends it doesnt matter. there is an after and there is a better way, Sending joy and love to you both!
To know that you can love someone but being in a relationship isn't always what's best for you both isn't easy, but it really shows how much love and respect you have for one another. So proud of you both. Can't wait to see what the future holds 💜🖤💜
I equate this to my HS and College boyfriends all in which I am still friends with and remained a part of my life. Ya’ll are so young and it really is important to experience/find yourselves separately, have freedom and not be just Jake and Tara (it’s similar to even friend groups finding their own way)…. Better to do it now then force anything and decide this way down the line.
Enjoy your twenties, and enjoy the company you keep irregardless who it’s with! Stay weird Jake and stay beautiful Tara.
I really feel like Jake is just going to keep Tara on a short leash for if he ever wants to rekindle things. I hope she finds someone who wants to be with her forever and wouldn’t even dare think of leaving her. I think it’s weird to break up and then mention getting back together later.
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yea I was thinking the same thing. Of course it's understandable for them to want to want to break up in order to live their lives but it just seems like it was a "right person, wrong time" kind of thing, and that would only mean that they were just not right for each other. If Jake really loved tara he would've stayed with her and made it work no matter what.. idk this is just how I see love. No man would ever want to see the woman they love sad or with another guy. So yea it doesn't exactly make sense to me either.
I missed you guys being together and you two are always so cute and adorable!!!
Not gonna lie, I was sobbing when I saw the video, but when I clicked on it and watched it, I started laughing. I’m excited for this new era of Jake and Tara. Literally most peaceful break up I’ve seen. Love both of you ❤
Fr
saw it coming ... but regardless happy for em both and the respect they have for each other is honestly awesome , this is unconditional love right here ❤
Am I the only that didn't 😢
What do you mean by you saw it coming? 😔
@@KendricklamarslawyerI mean they haven’t posted in a while and Tara went out on vacation by herself and Jake isn’t there so it kinda makes sense
Tara’s party is what made it obvious to me. Love them both thou. ❤
Hints were definitely there. Jake also made videos with Johnny talking about women and it made it seem like he wasn’t even in a relationship to be talking some sort of way. Then the Wendy’ video he did with her his vibe was definitely off and was more pushy back with her just like how she is with him
one year ago rn
Their relationship is so healthy. It’s been clear that they’ve always been friends and I hope the absolute best for them.
i kinda feel like it was jakes idea cus tara looked so hurt and jake looked so happy
No frl like it seems he wanted to be free and she wanted to grow together 😭
@@m1sara17 ikrr 😭
@@m1sara17 yep absolutely. u can see it in her eyes. plus all the jumpcuts after she cries
For sure. She's major clinging to the "nothing's changing" narrative. The issue could be when he meets someone. I don't doubt she's playing the part well because she wants him in her life but underneath it she's hurting a lot
@@catkeech yeah for sure. shes trying to be good with it because he initiated this breakup clearly, and this is her coping. u can fully see through their words and tone their individual true feelings about this situation and they are not on the same page
I love how you both went about it literally felt like just a normal one of guys videos together and I love that for you both. The most authentic yet casual break up announcement I’ve ever seen on the internet and for it to go unnoticed for 3 weeks says a lot and by “a lot” I mean it says you guys we’re friends that started dating and ended things in a mature, respectful, and in a healthy way that you guys can still continue to be just friends. I deada$$ I can’t for you guys new era separately as individuals but also together as friends! So much love to both of you ❤️
This video felt more like a Mukbang video than a breakup video🧍♀️
Exact definition of right person wrong time
Crying sobbing throwing up passing out I literally love you guys been together I still love you guys have been friends literally you guys saved me. don’t listen to the haters be friends in peace luv. x
This whole video just shows your relationship, you're broken up but you're still friends getting fuzzy wuzzies out of each other eyes and food out of teeth. Love you both, and thank you for even sharing this with us even though you thought it was cringe lmao