Deconditioning through Human Design

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @zetteharbourcoach3859
    @zetteharbourcoach3859 9 месяцев назад +5

    As always, thank you so much Richard for this wise and insightful exploration.
    I lived with an emotional projector for 21 years and was tossed this way and that emotionally in ways I never understood until HD. And, his Solar Plexus is defined by the channel of emoting so lots of provocation, L O L.
    I used to say that I could be in the same mood for decades, if other people didn’t “bother” me. And now I know why! I’ve been amplifying the emotional energy of others all my life.
    As an SPP, one of the things I treasure about living alone now is the calm waters of my emotional still pond when undisturbed.
    And on the other side of it, I’m able to more consciously enjoy the warmth of the emotionally defined people in my life now.

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +1

      Brilliant Zette. You've got it! :)

    • @zetteharbourcoach3859
      @zetteharbourcoach3859 9 месяцев назад

      Thanks for this acknowledgment, Richard. 🌿Perhaps similar in some ways to your experience, over the past 30 years I've explored so many ways to come to clarity about myself, my life, and others. In all that time, Human Design has delivered the most accurate map for finding my way home to myself and understanding the world. Truly extraordinary. And you've contributed greatly to growing awareness and understanding. You are appreciated. @@humandesigninfo

  • @wakingtheworld
    @wakingtheworld 9 месяцев назад +7

    A fascinating tale from my stay in Glastonbury in 2022. I have an open Emo centre (Gate 6 only). One morning, I visited the Abbey ruins & went round with a small tour group - 15 or so of us. Standing in front of what's left of this Abbey was an awesome experience. This sense of might and majesty and wonder and also immense grace, was overwhelming, along with the thought 'How the f could men of that era, build something this huge?' After the tour, I returned to the same spot but those feelings weren't replicated, rather diluted. They'd lost their overwhelmingness! It was then that I realised I'd witnessed exactly how this centre operates - taking on board and amplifying the feelings of the group. I'm aware of this when I attend concerts etc but to return to the same experience MINUS people was indeed interesting.... Thank you, Richard. Love your channel.

    • @kitsystratton3797
      @kitsystratton3797 9 месяцев назад +1

      Fascinating concept. Kinda relates to my comment above about tracking with the knowledge when in the presence of the teachers --but not of interest when not.

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for this wakingtheworld. So true. AND I encourage you to continue your journey to places of architectual beauties from our past. The underground waterways of many 'holy' place contain real healing. It's a truly worthwhile hobby with many secrets to discover, whether alone or with others. :)

  • @ineasez
    @ineasez 9 месяцев назад +9

    It is really nice to come from "different", to " normal" to get back to "different" again, but this time to more in ease and healthier "different"..🎉

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely ineasez. It's a continuous dance :)

  • @melissam0ss
    @melissam0ss 9 месяцев назад +5

    I’m so thankful for your 11th gate! Your‘stories’ help make my own Human Design ‘experiment’ have more clarity and meaning in my BODY! I recognize something new and exciting everyday about my ‘open centers’.
    I’m finally seeing my open centers in a valuable way instead of feeling trapped by them (by my not self!)
    Your videos are helping me connect so many dots! 🤗 Love your 11th gate…and all the wisdoms you share from your own experiences. 🙏🏽 🎉
    PS…you did a GREAT 👍🏽 JOB in addressing the question 😊

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you Melissa. Connecting the dots opens doors and its very satisfying to have your feedback on the impact. :)

  • @UmaGirish
    @UmaGirish 8 месяцев назад

    Simple and powerful explanation. Thank you, Richard. It's a pleasure to learn from one as wise as you.

  • @littleblueray_
    @littleblueray_ 8 месяцев назад

    I have a completely open solar plexus and throat. I’m also a 6/2 Reflector, so no definition at all!
    But with my throat and solar plexus being completely open, with no gates, learning the themes and conditioning that happen here is so very interesting to observe. The transits affect me profoundly, but I’m learning to trust that it is not innately me, rather it is the cosmic weather flowing through me for learning.
    Thank you for this video Richard!

  • @JoanneGrace11
    @JoanneGrace11 9 месяцев назад +1

    I loved this Richard. Being an emotional 22/12 Manifestor, it has always been an interesting dance when I am with undefined or open emotional beings. This helped me to understand it more. Thank you🙏🏼💖

    • @netal2001
      @netal2001 9 месяцев назад

      🎉aloha fellow 12/22 Manifestor 🎉

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +2

      Great, thank you Joanne. Yes, may this help you to see your impact... and know that you are a Manifestor that can really open others in ways they can't get to by themselves. :)

    • @deenarocco8908
      @deenarocco8908 9 месяцев назад

      @@humandesigninfoThat's nice to hear Richard. I (also emo 22/12 Manifestor) often feel that I am treading on "thin ice" when I give my opinion around others regarding emotional topics.

  • @miny_moni
    @miny_moni 9 месяцев назад

    Lovely catching up on this video back from vacation. Thank you for your insights as always! 💜

  • @TheLailaelbazi
    @TheLailaelbazi 8 месяцев назад

    Wauw Richard! For the first time since summer '22 I skipped your video's. As I went on big discovery🕳, back after 18y to the other roots! And to now catch up with your video's and realise you actually went to awnser one of my questions! HAhaha oi oi oi. A beautiful coming home gift though 🤗! Thank you!

  • @sueanndayton3458
    @sueanndayton3458 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Richard
    Any words of wisdom to navigate or lead others through deconditioning is Greatly Appreciated. Well done. Always my best to you for what you do.❤

  • @deenarocco8908
    @deenarocco8908 9 месяцев назад

    I gained so much clarity from this video Richard. Thank you. All my friends /family with open emotional centers - I always thought they were just being cold and hiding their true feelings. Hmmm...I now recognize that is not necessarily the case. I never understood how others could not 'feel' emotions like I do. Were they just hardened to life? I guess not. It's just their design.

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +1

      So good you see this Deena. Yes, to you they may seem cold, but now you know they are drinking in all the emotional energy in the room. You will touch them deeply and they may only show it with a blush or a smile. But don't for a minute think they remain unaffected. Look deeper. Look at what you can see when you hold your attention on them. But not for too long... or they'll make some excuse and leave. Love that you are in the investigation. :)

  • @mariabrauer1300
    @mariabrauer1300 8 месяцев назад

    Oh Richard, your videos and the way you convey knowledge resonate very much in me. Thank you for sharing!
    I am a 5/1 MG and have gate 51 in my undefined ego in my conscious sun.
    What I have understood is that everything that is open, or undefined, is a field of learning and nothing that I can rely on. It is, as far as I have understood it correctly, an area in which I am "receptive" and less active outwardly, as it would be if my ego were defined. Through this receiving I can gain wisdom in this field.
    In a few quotes from Ra Uru Hu he speaks of karma, which becomes visible through these sleeping gates. Thus I understand them more as a task or challenge.
    I don't get any further at this point. On the one hand, gate 51 is my sun gate, my strongest force and then it is in an undefined center - so nothing that defines me and also part (?) of my not-self?!
    I would appreciate it if you could enlighten me.
    When I was a child, and find myself in competitive situations I ran away because I just didn't like it. Was the child already more attuned?
    When I get into competitive situations as an adult, it could get really twisted - I turn into a being made of elbows with a different voice, who wants to win at all costs - creepy and also funny when you sb lovingly mirrored it.
    I have two more hanging gates consciously activated in my ego. Seems to be a lot of karma!

    • @GO2CUT
      @GO2CUT 8 месяцев назад

      I also would like to know!

  • @DonaldCowdrey
    @DonaldCowdrey 9 месяцев назад +4

    As an emotional being, I am having fun being aware of my emotional wave. How I feel moment to moment and day by day is giving me a real deep understanding of who I am. Also learning to let go of people who try to pressure a quick response from me. So with an open solar plexus, do you tend to seek out the sweet experiences more? Ty for the great video. 🎉

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +3

      Hi Donald, Fantastic to hear your progress in centering in your own Design despite the influences around you. Good for you. Regarding me seeking out sweet experiences, yes as a young man I certainly did. Nowdays I remain open to what I respond to. Sweet can become sour, sour can become sweet, my job is to stay with my truth in the moment and if that leads into a necessary confrontation, then so be it. If that leads to my growth and the others also, then it becomes a win-win. :)

  • @vilborgirisleifsdottir2643
    @vilborgirisleifsdottir2643 9 месяцев назад

    I love how you explain things. Your way of storytelling resonates with me💖
    I have a white SP and Ego but with hanging gates 35, 45 and 25. Lots of lessons there.
    My SP has been defined for a long time now and with the nodes my ego too.
    Those centers have been my toughest lessons in life.
    I'm starting to prepare myself for April and noticing the difference when Neptune leaves gate 36😅 yes, been a lot of crisis but more in a healing way😅

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you Vilborg. Great to hear you are tracking the transits and learning so much along the way. :)

  • @elaine7459
    @elaine7459 9 месяцев назад

    As always, I appreciate your generosity and brilliance, Richard! Wondering if you'd shed more light on Gate 22 in an Undefined SP Center - it's my Conscious Earth, in Line 2. Thank you, and all the best, always! 💞

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад

      Hi Elaine, Thank you. The 22.2 in an Open Solarplexus can be a bright and graceful welcome, you just need to watch that you don't overdo it. Also don't get lost chewing on the pain of others if there's no way to open the door for them. It also has creative and musical potential depending upon the rest of your chart. :)

  • @toolsthattransform
    @toolsthattransform 9 месяцев назад

    This is great thank you. I'd love to here your thoughts on the circuits as well. 😊

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад

      Hi TTT, Thank you. You can see my take on the Circuits in the following videos:
      ruclips.net/video/lK8pk5IHGKo/видео.html
      ruclips.net/video/lrthRCtcV08/видео.html
      ruclips.net/video/hMy3eyUd05w/видео.html
      ruclips.net/video/yVG9lo6WJqE/видео.html
      Plus:
      ruclips.net/video/tE_-kaDU2Go/видео.html
      Enjoy :)

    • @toolsthattransform
      @toolsthattransform 7 месяцев назад

      @@humandesigninfo Thanks this is so helpful!

  • @androandrex8000
    @androandrex8000 9 месяцев назад

    So useful! Thank you!

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад

      Glad it was helpful! Androandrex8000. Thank you for sharing your appreciation. :)

  • @kitsystratton3797
    @kitsystratton3797 9 месяцев назад

    You mention situations that we keep finding ourselves in that don't turn out well and are clearly "not self." I have always wanted to join in on deep intellectual conversations about religion, metaphysics, art, creativity, etc. etc. but invariably my intensity drives people away.I have many stories about divine guidance and synchronicities that I express throughout my art and writing. But my art goes unseen; my writing languishes in blogs; my reaching out to intellectuals I encounter online--crickets. My split channels are 11-56 and 34-20. My only defined centers therefore are the Sacral, Throat, and Ajna. My profile is a 3/6. Am I destined to be a ball of passionate potential with no outlet? I'm reading Richard Rudd's books as you suggested. I feel I'm wasting time waiting for something to respond to. And when something does come along, I jump the gun with too much energy. I'm so impatient, lonely, and feel unheard.

  • @Hardtocarry
    @Hardtocarry 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Richard! As an emotional generator this insight was particularly interesting for me. I'm always curious what the experience of being an emotional generator will be like when I've gotten through my own backlog of emotions, when that no longer colours the rest of my emotional experiences.
    I experience emotions with a lot more clarity and focus these days, but it still feels like it's always changing. Sharpening perhaps.
    Ever interesting.
    Much love! ❤️

    • @rundbaum
      @rundbaum 9 месяцев назад +1

      ooooh, i love this! processing my 'own' emotions so that i may begin appreciating the emotions of others. that's a great thought!! . . .

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад

      Hooray! :)

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you Hardtocarry. Yes, Deepening. :)

  • @anneathena3867
    @anneathena3867 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Richard, thank you for all your videos, I learn a lot.
    One question....
    You said that if you as a non emotional being get emotional over a curtain thing over and over, you know it is the non-self and you have an issue you must look at. My question is...
    What If I as a being with defined emotional center/emotional authority notice a pattern of emotionality, what does it tell me? And how would I recognise my non self? Maybe a complicated question... But keep wondering ☺️🙏

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you Anne. Emotional energy doesn't move in patterns. It moves in waves. The kind of wave depends upon the circuitry involved. For example 41/30/36/35 move in cycles, a rollercoaster ride. Those you may be able to feel and recognise in their direction up or down - that may be helpful for you to find yourself in the wave. The Not-Self shows up in the repetition of a particular issue that brings up the same feelings, then it needs to be expressed. So, in short, you can perceive the NotSelf as if you feel like you are replaying the same drama again and again when triggered in the same way. You'll know you're through it when the trigger comes and you laugh at it. Take a look at some of our best alternative comedians that share their lessons with us to great hilarity in their reflection. Above all else, let yourself wait to feel through the wave before making decisions, even if you feel like acting in the moment. This alone will bring you to embrace your natural process and increase the depth of your emotional wisdom. :)

    • @anneathena3867
      @anneathena3867 9 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much Richard, you clarified to me what i sense in my self allready!:)@@humandesigninfo

  • @alexasophieridderstrom2631
    @alexasophieridderstrom2631 9 месяцев назад +1

    People frequently being called "emotional" actually are non-emotional beings in the HDS. That really is an eye-opener! Complete white and undefined SP-center. Is that why someone "can't control his/her feelings?" (when reacting and being accused of that?) Because the feelings are not even their own?

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад

      Yes Alexa.I thought I was emotional before I met HD. I am on the other side of the mirror now. :)

    • @alexasophieridderstrom2631
      @alexasophieridderstrom2631 9 месяцев назад

      @@humandesigninfo Yes, it feels very liberating, knowing this or that emotion is actually not mine. Or, it is. But I don't know until I am alone. That is so important and empowering to have learned.
      Thanks for your response!

  • @spiralgrain4552
    @spiralgrain4552 8 месяцев назад

    Do we only look towards the open gate cpnsciously? If we have a red line are we more "drawn " to that open gate...?

  • @rundbaum
    @rundbaum 4 месяца назад

    heard the same thing here! i have nothing indicated in the anja--always looking for new dialectic thought or what may be understanding, in this world. just saying 'same thing,' not for any particular reason. but i don't have BOTH the spleen & emotional ctrs dignified; just emotion. i tend to get lost in this, i like nostalgia . . .

  • @mismegameg
    @mismegameg 8 месяцев назад

    So what does it mean to have a gate in an open center that is part of your cross? It is also not me? I have an open heart center with gate 21 consciously defined (Left angel cross of endeavor 2). If you would be willing to address that

  • @CreativeHumanDesign
    @CreativeHumanDesign 9 месяцев назад

    Love these deeper dives.. I have an undefined solar plexus with only one unconscious gate 37.4 in Jupiter.. This transit of Saturn recently has really brought out the flavour of this more. I believe that if you only have one gate defined it does being a certain experience to a centre.. and of course you have the planetary influences also.. could you state more about this? Thanks

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад

      Thanks for the suggestion CHD. Yes, the same "flavour" being activated should help you track the emotional conditioning easier. :)

  • @ancaprodan3685
    @ancaprodan3685 9 месяцев назад

    It makes perfect sense: open solar. Only 39 looking - part of the cross - and all my life I was and am looking for the feeling of freedom.

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +1

      Yes Anca, also you look at emotional happiness. Happy is a state to enjoy, knowing it is comes unbidden and goes leaving behind a deeply warm glow. :)

    • @ancaprodan3685
      @ancaprodan3685 9 месяцев назад

      @@humandesigninfo Yes. True. Thank you! ❤

  • @farahhumandesign
    @farahhumandesign 9 месяцев назад

    Amazing for this story telling Richard, quick questions, what’s the wisdom or call for an active gate in a defined centre looking towards a non active gate in another defined centre? For example I have a define ajna with active gate 11 looking towards non active gate 56 in definied throat.
    Now I also have the dormant gate 1 in the undefined G centre looking toward the defined towards non active gate 18 in the defined throat
    Eeek 😅

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад

      Hi Farah, gets to become wise about the ways different 56's bring out their stimulating narrative. They get to enjoy walking down the experiential mental journey with a born wanderer. They get to see the consequences of experience told first-hand with all the expressions and feelings that produces.They learn how the NotSelf can be too over-expressive or hypher-stimulating and how that breaks the spell of the story. The dormant 1st Gate looking to the 8 has to learn what style can be appropriate for the times. It is here to align to beauty and Individual expression, to love it in others and delight in creative apparrel and how an ordinary room can be transformed into a magical space. This is, of course, not a definitive list of the attributes but I trust that helps. :)

    • @farahhumandesign
      @farahhumandesign 9 месяцев назад

      That’s so kind of you to elaborate on that! Mush appreciated thank you 🙏🏼

  • @michelles1517
    @michelles1517 9 месяцев назад +1

    I noticed I started feeling sick. I had sciatica and I started feeling it as though it is in my bladder and kidney. I thought I should go to the hospital or a urgent care. Am I having renal failure. I can’t get comfortable. Falling in and out of sleep. I realize the dates . February 10 even 9 into last night all night. Severe pains headache. It’s the date of my father’s death. His funeral. Not able to cope. Is this truly stored here in this tissue. It has been there year after year since I was 12, 58 years ago. How. Do I end this? It’s a sadness, loss, abandonment. How do I do this?

    • @LauraINFJ
      @LauraINFJ 9 месяцев назад +2

      You can solve it in one go. You must sit with the pain in silence. feel the pain, and tell the pain, what are you trying to tell me? What do you want to express? and wait. You may begin to feel emotions, feelings, pain, memories may come to you, it is normal for tears to come. and you have to feel it intensely once, forever. Cry it intensely until the tears run out. Express yourself, write, scream, hit a wall. The emotion stagnant in your body has to come out. After fully expressing yourself, you will feel liberated. Be thankful for understanding what your body wanted to tell you. From now on you will listen more carefully every emotion.

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +2

      Hi Michelle, I'm happy to see LauraINFJ has offered you what sounds like good advice. I am not a healthcare practitioner, and I am sceptical of the medical establishment, so I go to a trusted acupucturist who provides me with balance and, if necessary, advice. I also call upon a good herbalist, cranial sacral and oesteopaths and kinesiologists as appropriate. There are many great complementary therapies out there. I cannot know if the deep loss you have is trapped in the tissue, but certainly it's possible. Perhaps a good kinesiologist can track it's source and at what level it is operating at. I wish you well with this journey. :)

  • @Charliza74
    @Charliza74 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Richard. This was really helpful. May I ask though, what if our Incarnation Cross sits within a completely open centre? My own is the vessel of love within a completely open G. Is this not very conflicted if, as you say, the defined gates within our open centres are not to be trusted 🤔

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +2

      Hi Charliza, Those Gates will not be consistent, they will also disort in their amplification. However, once the witness arises they can also be great sources of wisdom. Regarding your question about the Inc X being in an Open Centre, take a look at a video I have done on that very subject: ruclips.net/video/y4BoZeOvIcE/видео.html :)

    • @Charliza74
      @Charliza74 9 месяцев назад

      I will, thank you 🙏

  • @karlynfischer
    @karlynfischer 9 месяцев назад

    Is it possible to show us a chart example of the vulnerabilities (where others connect to our split)
    And really activate it quickly. You’ve mentioned it before but I have a complicated split so it’s trickier to see.
    I have an open G Generator so there are a few connection options.
    Thank you 🙏

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад +1

      Hi Karlyn, Thank you. It sounds like you understand the basic mechanics. WIth an Open G with several split options the main thing is to not confuse yourself with others as different directions present themselves to you. I will consider what can be said regarding bridging splits. I appreciate the suggestion. :)

    • @karlynfischer
      @karlynfischer 9 месяцев назад

      Sounds great! Thank you so much for your insight.@@humandesigninfo

  • @MarkMiceli-x7p
    @MarkMiceli-x7p 9 месяцев назад +1

    Seeing not being.

  • @mikehess4494
    @mikehess4494 9 месяцев назад

    Interesting...TY

  • @GLOWBoss
    @GLOWBoss 9 месяцев назад

    What are the emotional gates?

    • @humandesigninfo
      @humandesigninfo  9 месяцев назад

      Hi GLOWBoss. The Emotional Centre is the triangular Centre on the right of the bodygraph. It has numbers in it: 6,49,55,30,36,22,37 - these are the Emotional Gates. They each have their theme and many important differenitated aspects. For example, the 37 has a theme of family love, affection etc. I hope that helps. :)