oversharing why i quit my job while unboxing packages...
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- Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2023
- answering all of your questions on why exactly i quit my job... spilling ALLL the tea in this one! hope you enjoy hehe
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I immensely relate to what you're going through. I also quit my job after 3 months to save my mental health. I live in NYC so it is truly terrifying to be unemployed here, considering the cost, but each day I remind myself that the universe has something better waiting for me and all I can do is what is within my control. Rooting for you too!
It’s so nice to know other people have gone through the same thing 🫶🏼 it’s truly so scary in the moment!
I'm so grateful for you Cora. I litterally just quit my job and have also only been working there for three months. People can be so mean. I love your videos thank u for being so strong and such an inspiration towards others. 💕
Ahh I am so glad we have each other! Thank you for supporting me it means so much 🫶🏼
Heavy on the "when you know, you KNOW" .. always trust your gut feeling! So glad you got out of there Cora! Onto better things 😊
It takes guts to accept these feelings and voice them. You're so strong and I'm rooting for you from New Zealand once again!!
rooting for you cora! whatever comes next you got this ❤️
Thank you 🥹🥹🥹
Two weeks late to this but thank you so much for sharing, I know this entire process must've been/still is very hard. I went through a scarily similar experience with my last job, like hearing you talk about it gave me PTSD lmao, it was honestly one of the hardest things I've ever gone through, yet I rarely saw people talk about their past jobs like you are and it's kinda healing.
I worked for a production company for a little over a year; the first months were great, it was a lot of work and not easy, but I loved what I did so much that I powered through the other stuff. Around the 8 month mark of me working there they promoted me, they love bombed me and made it sound like they had found their next star, so, just like you when you first got it, I was elated. And then, the next 4 months there were some of the most horrible months I've ever gone through.
They started paying me less and whenever I *asked* if certain weekends or hours were paid extra they said I was being greedy, that I only cared about money and that if that's all I cared about then there were people that could do my job for less than they were paying me. I lived in constant fear and anxiety of doing things because I didn't know if I was going to get yelled at, reprimanded or humiliated (they did all of those several times in front of people), but I also couldn't ask anything twice to make sure if I was getting things done how they liked because, whenever I did, they said I didn't pay attention to what I was asked because I didn't care. I worked my ass off, and if I did extra work or stayed late working on a project without being asked to, they never said thank you or even acknowledged it (they never said thank you in general either). At the end it got so personal they constantly talked down to me, insulted me, talked about me behind my back, and made fun of me, my personal life and hobbies.
I cried almost every single day; waking up thinking I had to go to my office knowing I'd be in fear and anxious for the entire day, at the bathroom in the office, driving home from work, and at home until I got to bed at 11:00 pm most days. Yet I didn't want to "be a quitter" and told myself "suck it up, this is how it is, you love your job" and stayed there until they broke me and fired me because I simply could not function as a normal person anymore. My self esteem and confidence were shattered. It was an insanely manipulative, toxic, disrespectful and degrading work environment that took a toll on my mental health so bad it took 4 months to recover from.... Present day: The job I have now is not "my dream job" but I have the nicest work environment, I get paid well and I am happy, at peace, respected and valued. And MY GOD the difference it has made.
I share this because well, I rarely have somewhere to, and because I want tell you that you're valid, what you went through is not okay and does not define your work ethic and capabilities. You definitely made the best decision, better things will come and, in fact, everything happens for a reason. You're so so brave for quitting and not letting it get to an even worse point. You're extremely brave for recognizing the toxic work environment and saying enough. You should be proud of yourself and now take care of yourself knowing what you want and what you *don't*.
Keep going and trust yourself! Thanks again for sharing, xx
So happy for you Cora! Sending all the love your way and enjoy your time in Europe ❤
Happy for you that you did what you needed for your mental health! Hope you have so much fun traveling ❤
aw i hope things work out for you! we’re just glad you’re doing better :)
Love you Cora! Excited to see what's next for you and here for the journey
Thank you so much 😇😇😇
Love your videos Cora!!! I know sharing about your job must of been hard, but I’m so proud of how far you come!! Even if we are just strangers🫶🏼🩷
Thank you so much 🥹🫶🏼 and j don’t see it like this at all! I literally view you guys as my close friends 🥰
Thank you so much 🥹🫶🏼 and j don’t see it like this at all! I literally view you guys as my close friends 🥰
Ur videos r literally the best, your energy is just so positive and it makes me really happy to see ur videos. Love you so much cora ❤❤❤
Ahhh thank you! That means so much to me and makes me so happy you like following along 🤍
Love you Cora! I know you’ll find the perfect job when you start looking! So excited that you’re talking abt posting more tho!!💗💗
Thank you!! I’m so excited to be posting more ❤❤
Thank you for sharing girl! You got this! Love from Portugal❤❤
Good for you for knowing that you weren’t happy and getting out !! Excited to see what you do next 💓
Thank you 🥹💛💛
Here for your ups and downs!! You got this girl!
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I went through the same experience a couple years ago. I was a hostess/dishwasher at a small restaurant. The staff there was the main reason why I quit. They did not treat me with respect and always put me down when I tried to do something I wasn't used to. It felt like they were doing these things to try and push me to quit. Once I quit it felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. I found a new job a couple months later at a daycare and have been working there for 1 year. I love it there and everybody there is like family to me.
Omg im actually so excited to see more videos from youuu!! 🫶🏻💖💖
Yay!! Me too ❤ makes sure to be subscribed so you don’t miss an upload!
thank you SO much for posting this. in a similar position & so happy to see someone so vulnerable on this
I am so happy I could help in any way!! These things are so tough and it always feels better knowing you’re not alone in how you feel ❤
Yay I was waiting for this!!!!! Happy you did what was best for you!!!
Hope you loved the vid!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼
Can't wait to see what's next on your journey, nice to see you embrace your emotions and feelings, however hard they may be 🙆🏽♀️
Awe thank you!! Your support means everything 🤍🤍🤍
Been watching you since reality series, thank you for sharing with us and have so much fun on your trip looking forward to the video 🤍
Love that so much!! Still one of my favorite series I’ve done 🥹🫶🏼
I'm so glad you put yourself first and left the hostility. I'm excited for what may come and I hope you have a wonderful trip❤
Thank you so much 🥹🥹🩵🩵
love this type of content!!
So glad you’re liking it 🫶🏼🫶🏼
Cora I’ve been watching your videos for at least 2-3 years now and watching you grow has helped me. I’m in high school and seeing your videos has allowed me to have a view on what life may be like in the near future. I’m always so happy when you post! I think that quitting your job was what was best for you, always put yourself first! Also, I love your pajamas you are wearing at the end of the video, where are they from lol?
I am honored that you have stuck with me this long 🥹🫶🏼 you have no idea how much it means to me!! Also the pjs are from Whitefox!! Code CORA for $$ off!
I can't believe you're coming to Europe, wishing it was to Portugal just bc I live here ahah I hope you have a lovely time travelling 🥰 Ioving the vlog, thank you for being always so honest with us, I hope you find something that you really love to do and that make you feel happy ✨
Thank you so much! And Portugal would be so cool!! I’m in Prague right now ☺️
Love getting to see more of you! Enjoy your time not working and just put all your energy on RUclips
It’s probably scary to feel like it’s not a stable income but you will always have your degree. Being uncomfortable is part of growing
Yes it is sooo scary but also I wanna put all my energy in RUclips and see where it takes me while I’m still young ❤😅
we love ya Cora!!!
🥹🫶🏼 love you
Content creation is tough, as someone with almost a million followers on tiktok, it is REALLY easy to get burnt out, so I definitely feel you.
Good luck Cora!
Thank you 🩷🩷🩷
I had the exact same job as you did and left for the same reason after 2 and a half years there. I have been at home for almost 3 months now and still recovering from burn out and exhaustion.
girl the way watching this is like looking into my own life except i’m going on a year of being at my job and i still get yelled at at least 3 times a week 🥲 SO proud of you for knowing your worth and leaving when you did!
Ahh I am so sorry you went through that 😭 I hope you can find something new soon 🩷
so lucky to get so many free PR packages thanks for sharing and showing us
Literally it’s insane! Definitely have imposter syndrome because I’m like howwww am I getting all of these 😭🫶🏼 so blessed
You got this cora❤ love from Germany
Currently in Prague right now! Flew into Munich yesterday so we weren’t too far from each other 😊
This is the situationat my workplace. We are only 3 people , my boss, my co-worker ( who is conveniently my boss's cousin) and myself.
They talk about me most of the time and loce going behind closed doors and then next thing you know they're requestingto have a work meeting which is basically jist ambushing me with whatever they talked about . I have no peace, i am unhappy, i don'ttalk anymore( i only speak when spoken to and only about work related issues) i don'ttalk about my personal life anymore because that has been used against me before and i said i will not discuss/share anything about me ever again.
I want to quit as soon as i hut my target of money i need saved up .
working w/all women has its pros and cons. it’s just disappointing when they put each other down and gossip like they clearly had nothing better to do! love your videos and glad you left!
Agreed!! It’s can definitely be super fun at times but others not so much
9:10 to 9:16 is laugh out loud funny. Your facial expressions are perfect
Why not to look for media related jobs among talent agencies? You could be an influencer and manage ones at the same time, maybe even in an agency you are in right now
You're doing amazing Cora! Their miss.
Thank you 🥹🩵🩵
May I recommend an art museum day to re-boot, re-assess, and re-inspire yourself. Start at The Art Insitute of Chicago (AIC), then go to the Museum of Contemporary Art (MCA) and afterwards the Roger Brown Study Collection. Whenever I feel burnt out or over it I go to a museum and the museums in Chicago helped me fall in love with the city. Best of Luck!
Thank you! ❤
Proud of youu!
Im so scared of quitting 😨
Thank you it means so much ❤❤ and trust me I was so scared too but i am so glad I did it, no regrets
love you :)
LOVE YOU ❤
everything is going to be fine, Cora
I prob am not your demo :) BUT as someone that has done there own thing for over 20 yrs here is my 2 cents. If you can do your sm on here and other platforms and also freelance doing what you were doing that is what I would do. That said the only real diff between having a 9-? and your own gig is the ability to say no without as many consequences. You still answer to people. That said you also have the ability to do varied projects which to me in a creative environment is huge. Best to you and if you ever need any advice just ask.
Welcome to Europe! (Even though it's way better in summer)
I know it would be so cool in the summer but so pretty still now!!
thank u for sharing
Flew into Germany yesterday, now in Prague and going to Amsterdam tomorrow!! ❤
@@CoraShircel amazing Cora🥰 hope ur going to enjoy, as Polish studying Belgium this is such a pleasure to see you coming to Europe, Prague and Amsterdam are absolutely beautiful
yeah maintaining friendships after graduation is nearly impossible when you all live in different states
jealousy is NOT cute on them!! Proud of your maturity to LEAVE!
Thank you 🥹❤❤❤
Yeah it is crazy how much people expect out of a social media manager... when they are doing the job of like 5 people :) they need to pay more :) also working with men is SO much better :)
Agreed like social media managers are the photographer, videographer, editor, copywriter, etc all at once 😅😅
exposed! she's going to Europe w/ Tyler as her fun getaway!
guuurl how did you get on pr with ysl?
Hi cora
Hello!!
Commenting to support! Hopefully it will get this video on someones page like me!
Hi!! Thank you so much for supporting 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
And they prolly all watch your RUclips 😂😂😂 little haters 🤣🤣🤣
lol I was thinking this 😅
I wanted to have your courage to give up something I know is not for me
You can!!! I believe in you ❤
@@CoraShircel thank you so much!! Honestly everytime I think about it I feel like crying and having anyone say that they believe in me makes me question the voice in my head that says "it's impossible".
It's obviously their loss.
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13:47
Did someone really say you gave them a terrible first impression ? Omg who says that, that is so unprofessional
Yes they did 😭 I literally sobbed immediately I was so upset
why would someone just randomly say that though its kinda strange got me thinking @@CoraShircel
Are you in Germany?
I saw Tyler on Tinder 🥵
We were!! Now we’re in Prague lolll
@@CoraShircel sweet! Hope europe treats you great! 💕
1:35 Thats not a real job.