I came to the lord asking for this blessings because raising my son (Joel) was an act of courage despite all the challenges .And the lord answered my prayers with a benefiting income of $31,000 everymonth. To God be the glory, this video have inspired me greatly in many ways!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your timely message. I agree, for the most part. Where I disagree is that you can't just sit at home and expect God to make it happen. He might want you to go out and be amongst people. Maybe He's trying to help you be more extraverted and open to all relationships. Dress up and take care of yourself. Ruth met Boaz because she was out..doing what she needed to do AND she invited him to pursue her. GOD made it happen, but she had to be open to what God needed her to do. Listen to God, do what He wants you to do, and wait for Him to act.
Sort of - Ruth already had a reputation of being Godly - Boaz took care of her not because she "went out to find a husband" but because he had heard of her already and her character. That was the most valuable thing she could've done , being Godly to her mother-in-law and going with her/ listening to her. Boaz said “It has been fully reported to me, all that you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband, and how you have left your father and your mother and the land of your birth, and have come to a people whom you did not know before. 12 The Lord repay your work, and a full reward be given you by the Lord God of Israel, under whose wings you have come for refuge.” Truly, Ruth was solely obedient to God's will . She was not going and looking for a husband but solely by being obedient to God, God worked it out for her to wed Boaz because he valued her godly works and obedience.
I think the main point is focusing on your relationship with God first and letting Holy Spirit lead you. If He says go out, have at it, if He says rest and sit with me do that. Ruth was being obedient and taking care of her mother-in-law, that is why she was “out and about”. Of course we need to all be lead by what God is telling us to do and His leading, not just do things to be put in front of a man or woman that may be out future spouse - God is more than able to position us on His own, He doesn’t need out help - just our willingness to listen and follow.🩷
This is exactly what I needed to hear. I always feel in my spirit when something is right or wrong for me. I just choose to ignore it 😭 but I’m done doing this. I listen to God every step of the way now.
When a woman is 'looking' for a husband, a man intuitively picks up on this. Its not attractive to him. Just cool your jets & live your life. Continue to pursue Christ. Serve others. I know its my time. God said it was my time. God told me my husband and I would have a youtube chanel too. I'm in my 60s but God said I can do it.
I think the turn-off is if you are desperate. I know of happy christian marriages that started online (on a dating website) or through activities organised for single people by churches or christian organisations. Ruth did go to Boaz. I think you at least need to appear available. I've had married christian male friends who asked me if I was even interested in a relationship because I didn't seem to care about having a husband or children, and that's not attractive to men either. Got the advice from good christian men, so I think it's worth taking into account. I think we have both examples in the Bible and that both positions are OK women. You can look or you can wait, I think what's important is to stay under God's guidance and not make marriage an idol.
I agree with you. You can let him know your interested but you don't pursue him. Like Ruth, you can position yourself. It's a fine line. Ruth's move was bold but she was following Naomi's advice. I don't think she was attached to an outcome. Follow God's direction but don't be so intent to make him yours. He still must make the decision if he wants marriage.
Amen sis! Of course you can do it! I love that He’s told you this, how exciting! I’ll be praying about it with you along with my prayers for you and your future marriage!🩷
Right when I finished watching this video , my friend’s husband ( I am staying at their house temporary) told me “ you should go to a church and meet other people “ I think it was god speaking to me ❤
I love when He speaks through other people! If you feel peace and you feel that’s what the Lord is leading you to do.. go for it!!🩷 A new adventure might just be about to unfold for you friend!
I mean, the wall is undefeated 😁…according to the world that is. Thank God that he gives us the faith and strength to realize the desires in our hearts and align ourselves with His will for our lives
You are so welcome. Just remember everyone else can listen to the world about running out of time or whatever - but we are on God’s time and so never need to fear or worry🩷 God bless you sis!
Hey! I know how it feels. I'm 39 and my friends are married even nieces, and I feel like I don't know where I belong lol. I also closed the doors to relationships that I knew God would not approve of. If a man tells me I'm more important to him than God I don't need him.
From personal experience, if you want to find a spouse, look. If you don’t, wait. Then again, I’m a man, so that has an impact on how I experience dating. That’s not to say God won’t introduce you to someone in another country against all odds. But I can tell you for certain that absolutely nothing happened until I started looking.
I totally agree with this message! Totally true, 💯! So meant to be for me to hear this today! Deep down I knew this to be true. Thank you for sharing this truth Daniella! 💖😊🕊️🙌
Amen! Thank you so much for your video. You are the first person to succinctly say what the Holy Spirit has spoken to my spirit for years. Thank You, Lord!!!
Daniella, you have no idea how much this video means to me. I woke up at 3am last night with so much fear and doubt when I previously was filled with faith. I cried out to God and prayed so much for help about this exact topic. This video just popped up this morning. He answered all my questions through you. Everything you discussed was what I was asking about. And the verse at the end Isaiah 60:22 is exactly what God has been placing in my mind about this for a long time. Thank you for listening to God and making this video. 🩷🧡🫶🏼
Oh Nailea I am so glad! Thank you for your comment, they always make me smile! God bless you sis, I can’t to hear your testimony of how God brought you and the amazing husband He has for you into your life🩷🙏🏻🙌🏻
Thank you so much for this beautiful video! I have wrestled with this question recently. On the day I was wrestling, I came across a video of George farmer and Candace Owens love story. George told the story and when he said God was in complete control I felt the weight of that. Because God did it for him, he will do it for me. I’m so grateful for the many stories of God’s faithfulness that help me in the waiting. Would love to hear yours someday! Isaiah 60:22 is such a great verse. Blessings to you and your family! Thank you for your ministry!
Yes I love their love story!!! And you will hear my love story at some point, I promise!! He who promised is faithful and He will do it for you too, absolutely!🩷 And it will be unique and special and tailored for your heart girl! I can’t wait to hear the amazing testimony of how He brings the two of you together! 🙌🏻🫶🏻
Thank you for the encouragement Daniella! You are amazing!! Please pray for me to be completely content with the Lord and trust He is leading me to the right man for me.
Amen, but as He leads. If Holy Spirit is saying come sit with me and rest, that’s what we should do. When we out Him first all falls into place and He prepares us in His time, His way!
@@daniellashamarose Yes I fully agree. For example I’m in my 30s and single. I work out and run. Take care of my finances and so on. But I put the lord above everything. Rest in him is also so important. I have naturally higher expectations for my wife because I bring a lot to.
Thank you for sharing, this is a really good take on the topic. I'm also waiting though I like to call it more of a preparation season because God is refining me and working on me for this assignment everyday. However I am mindful of being out and about to put myself in places where I can potentially be found. I've had a few sisters in Christ who recently have been engaged to men of God and they met online. I previously wasnt open to online dating but now I'm considering when God puts it on my heart to move, that will be another environment I will explore to be found. What I've learned from just hearing others stories is that those that have been waiting for years dont seem to take any steps towards the being found part of things. I wonder why is that we believe God has called us to certain things, being an entrepreneur for example, and we will take the time prepare, do research, save money and whatever steps the Lord put on our heart, but not take as active a role in becoming a spouse? For men of God, that part is actively looking and women of God, allow the Lord to direct our steps on where we can be found. And I do believe God wants to work by faith at times and we trust He will direct and order our steps so He may not give us the full details every time of what exactly to do, where to go, etc. I know that is some people's stories but not everyones.
I can tell you sis that God had me meet my husband in a way I never expected, so be totally open to His leading as I’m sure you are 🩷. You are absolutely right, the men should actively look and be led of the lord and we should allow the Lord to position us to be found in His time! I’m so excited for when the Lord sends you your perfect man - please come back and give your testimony, I can’t wait to hear it! 🙌🏻🫶🏻
Thank you, I have been believing for 4 years. Because of yearsss passing bye it gets harder to stay faithful. + Age and pressure. I just long for a fulfilled promise at this point.
Join the club. I've been waiting about 7 years! Actually more. I'm chaste & very surrendered to Christ. I think the delay is demonic attack. We have to shut the devil down. In addition, most CHRISTIAN men are afraid to marry. Fear of rejection. Past heartbreak. It's ridiculous. Alot of them are addicted to PORN. No joke. Pray for the brothers. Satan is wreaking havoc and attacking covenant marriage. Know this.
You will get it at the perfect time in Jesus name❤️ “The Lord isn’t really being slow about his promise, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants everyone to repent.” 2 Peter 3:9 .NLT
You are so welcome🫶🏻! Hahaha yes, my husband grows it in our backyard and then insists we have it as decor😂, lol. I guess we cook with it a-lot too🤷♀️. You are not the first one to ask🩷
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Unless The Lord buillds the house Those that labor on it labor in vain That is what I look at in this venture God has got to build a marriage for me He did for others mention in Scripture
To those saying Ruth went out to find a husband - no. Reread the scriptures. She followed her mother in-law and her advice. She left all she knew and followed her instruction. Boaz took care of her not because she "went out to find a husband and found Boaz so she pursued him" but because he had heard of her already and her character. That was the most valuable thing she could've done , being Godly to her mother-in-law and going with her/ listening to her. Boaz said “It has been fully reported to me, all that you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband, and how you have left your father and your mother and the land of your birth, and have come to a people whom you did not know before. 12 The Lord repay your work, and a full reward be given you by the Lord God of Israel, under whose wings you have come for refuge.” Truly, Ruth was solely obedient to God's will . She was not going and looking for a husband but solely by being obedient to God, God worked it out for her to wed Boaz because he valued her godly works and obedience. Even her submission to Boaz was in listening to her mother-in-law aka Following God's will and walking in obedience. There was no striving.
I disagree. Ruth took actions and went in the middle of the night and laid at Boaz’s feet. She was taking actions. She could have missed this opportunity by not taking action to make her intentions clear if she was passive and never went to Boaz.
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I've always wanted to be involved for a long time but the volatility in the price has been very confusing to me. Although I have watched a lot of RUclips videos about it but I still find it hard to understand.
I just need some thoughts, if a godly man a brother start texting you and after a while you politely say we better not talk anymore? and he say ok I respect your decision, but Im really glad to know you. But then after few days he contact me. Is this pursuing or he is just disrespectful?🤔
@@daniellashamarose This man brother is freshly divorced, and I am still in celibat relationship. So I told him I think better not to talk for now. And the rest is in Fathers hands. Bit then he reached asking me am I alright and that he prays for me. He is also not my type etc .
Hi!!! I have commented before when I was pregnant and I finally had the baby. Im just more or less frustrated with myself because ive been told no one wants a single mom. I met a christian man who sold me a dream and then ghosted me because I am a mom and it hurt me to my core. As much as the bible says there is no condemnation to those who are with Jesus. People condemn and judge and they do not want to accept someone with children.I also prayed for redemption with my child father but he even told me that is why no one is going to ever want you. Maybe he was right.
All the women of God who I know recently got engaged this year to other men of God were single moms. I joked with them and said maybe I should have had one too and would have been chosen by now 😂 jk but all that to say that is a lie told by the enemy so please dont let anyone devalue you to tell you cannot find a proper mate because you have a child. I've seen it with my own eyes, God will still bless you with the person He has for you
Hi!!! Yes I remember!! How are you and baby doing?? That is an absolute lie from the enemy like Kitanna said! The man that God has for you will love you and your child unconditionally! Remember God is in control, He’s not phased by you being a mother - it doesn’t change His plan for you at all, He still has the perfect man in mind for you and planned it all knowing you would be a mommy. Tell that evil snake (the devil) to shut his mouth and remind him of where he’s headed. So much blessings I’m sending your way! You are in my prayers🩷
Thank you so much Daniela. The last time I watch your video I went to church and the very thing that the priest was talking about was marriage I came home to get ready for bed to clean myself up for the night and heard the devil tell me that I'm not pretty enough to be with anybody and that I should stop looking please pray for me cuz I am really confused
Sis I want you to start talking back to the enemy when he tries attacking you, speak out loud next time… thank you for reminding me you nasty snake that I am the apple of God’s eye, I am a royal diadem in His hand, He loves me so much He died for me… get these scriptures so deep down in you that you can fire them off by memory anytime He attacks. He hates the power of the word. He hates truth. Resist the devil and he will flee. I am praying for you sis, and know this - if our amazing God didn’t have a great plan/person for you why would the enemy even bother attacking you about it? 🙏🏻🩷
Hey, queen. I have a question. Given the context of what you shared in this video, which I'm also guessing is catered to women, how would you explain Christian dating sites? I'm genuinely asking. This isn't a "gotcha" type of question..
Hey! Yes this video is geared more towards women😊. I know many Christians that have met on Christian dating sites, and even secular dating sites - God absolutely can use them as a means to bring people together! My advice is however to seek the Lord and make sure He is giving you a green light 100% when it comes to dating sites and dating in general, because if God is not calling you to go here, it can be the devil’s playground. And that would be my advice for both men and women. I hope this answers your question!
is writing a prayer list of what I want god to bring me in a wife a good idea and has anyone on here done that?and has gotten what they wanted in a spouse?
There's nothing wrong in doing a prayer list. God cares about your marriage. Tell Him the desire of your heart. Of course, don't write just about physical appearance....ask God for someone who has integrity and will be loyal and faithful to you. Someone who loves Him even more than loves you. Ask and don't doubt! God never changes.
Of course, I did this! But remember God knows what we need, He created us and our spouse. Also from experience, He will give you some things exactly what you asked for and some things that you didn’t know you needed in your partner also some things the opposite of what you thought you wanted! Ask big! “Ask and it shall be given you...” Matthew 7:7. 🩷 I’m excited for the Lord to bless and surprise you in marriage!
I'm turning 39 in 2 months time and I'm scared of menopause without even a single child...I'm thinking of just getting a man so I can have a kid before it's too late.whats your advice?
No. Don't do that. You will regret it. Ask God what aspect of yourself you need to work on in order to become the spouse you need to be. And then just focus on God. Fall in love with God 1st. Decisions out of desperation always end up in disaster
God gave you a limited biological clock… you don’t think he knows you’re almost out of time? I personally don’t believe God is out there match making people, people have their own free will. If he did match people, then I find it incredibly rude to bless some women and neglect many other women who also desire marriage and kids.
My advice would be absolutely don’t take something apart from God’s timing because you will regret it. I’ve been asked this quite a few times. It all comes down to do you trust His plan for your life? Do you trust that He has good for you, that He knows you better than you know you and He loves to bless and give His children the desires of their hearts? The only reason to take something out of His timing is lack of relationship and trust. I know it can be hard, but please never doubt his goodness! I’ll be praying for you!🙏🏻🩷
This dear brother was showing alot of interest in me. I was certain he'd invite me for coffee or to church, right? He confided that he was feeling dizzy. He gets covid a week later & nearly died! I prayed for him & he recovers & back at work. I met him at a his job near me. Anyway, Daniela he tells me he had covid. I told him I prayed for him. He doesn't seem as interested as he once was. God told me just to leave it alone. God didn't say NO. He just said let this man come to me. Not to approach him. I know he likes me. Maybe he's unsure. Who knows. Maybe he's seeking God to get green light to court me. Who knows? I'm not going to be anxious. What do you think Daniela. My name is Danielle.
I've spent a thousand Saturdays alone. I used to love the Bachelor/Bachelorette. After a while I got disgusted with all the kissing. How you going to kiss 10 men? Eww...
I don't want to be rude but a question. Does she know what she is talking about? I'm single in my 40's and pray to God for helping me meet a suitable woman and I also ask others to pray for me. Yet I've waited for years. I'm introverted though. There are a lot of voices out there claiming God says this and that. Just saying.
Wouldnt know where to look People join themselves together its all luck The verse whosoever God joins together not to be taken literally he merely supplies The means of attraction The choice is theirs! The word christian doesnt guarantee compatibility! So maybe going to church Isnt the answer!
No clue but it wouldn't matter anyway. At 33 its too late, im too old and being a husband is too much responsibility and too difficult and my genetics by the nature of humans definition is flawed and weak. Theres a reason only certain bloodlines ever get to procreate and others turn to dust. It hearkens back to the hunter/gatherer days.
Honestly, from my experience, and from the people in the Bible, you will rarely meet your spouse while living a triangle life. You may have to go out of your town like the servant who left Abraham’s town and went to another town far away and asked the gurl for her hand or like Ruth who traveled to a new place and she took actions to go in the middle of the night and laid at Boaz’ feet making her intentions clear. All these are active faith. They could have missed these opportunities by not asking the gurl or Ruth not going to lay at Boaz’s feet. You can wait until the second coming of Jesus and still won’t find him or her. Faith requires being active and praying. Sometimes God gives us the pen to write our stories too. Don’t put your life in the hand of “luck” or “chance”. God gave you free will. That’s your pen. Use it. Create your story. So many miss the point of what free will means when choosing a mate and end up lonely and angry at God.
Mmmm I think what people miss is relationship with God and being sensitive to His leading. The whole point of the video was this, putting God first and letting Him direct you in His time, otherwise you can go out and put yourself anywhere and there would be 0 point, unless He has put you there. But without a relationship with Him, how can He direct you? Absolutely you may have to leave where you currently are, like I had to - but if I did if apart from God’s leading and timing it would have been pointless. Until the time is right, rest.
@@daniellashamarose sometimes people have to move in faith inorder to know. By not doing anything, a person may not know. If a person takes a step and God doesn’t do anything yet, then the person also has his/her answer. But simply waiting on God and not taking any action isn’t always the best solution. Sometimes God is waiting on us to take a step forward. And yes, this makes more sense for those who are inclined to the prompting of the Holy Spirit. Those who aren’t, most likely will make mistakes and even fall into Satan’s trap of a counterfeit bait.
The bible also says: Proverbs 13:12 "Hope deferred makes the heartsick, but when the desire is fulfilled, it is a tree of life". So telling women who are in their late 30s, 40s, and 50s that its God's timing and we are wondering why his timing hasn't caught up to our biological clock and our full faith. This rest in Him and delight in Him is easier said than done.
Absolutely it is hard waiting. I waited for 10 years before I met my husband at 30. Some have to wait much longer than me. But whether we wait 5,10,20,30 years - whatever we are waiting for - what I pray happens is that we grow closer to Him, closer in knowing His heart and trust in Him. The closer we get to Him the easier the waiting. Sara was childless until she was 90 years old… God is above our biological clocks and the devil loves nothing more than to use this as a mechanism for fear. God is in control. He had an amazing plan for you, He is incredible and so worthy to be delighted in.
@daniellashamarose I'm not Sara and no woman today is having a baby at 90 years old. Bible scriptures are encouraging and inspirational but we must not lack logic. 30 years old is still young to get married. You cannot approach this from the same way a woman 40+, 50+ is. When you get to menopause and you have never been married and had children yet you been praying to God for over 30 years, its a problem. And no feel good message can soothe or solve the problem. It makes you question God and there is no way around that reality.
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Amen..... I'm 56, never married, single 5 years....When the time is right I the Lord will make it happen... Isaiah 60:22🙏
I'm a 63 year old man still waiting...never give up!
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Thank you for your timely message. I agree, for the most part. Where I disagree is that you can't just sit at home and expect God to make it happen. He might want you to go out and be amongst people. Maybe He's trying to help you be more extraverted and open to all relationships. Dress up and take care of yourself. Ruth met Boaz because she was out..doing what she needed to do AND she invited him to pursue her. GOD made it happen, but she had to be open to what God needed her to do. Listen to God, do what He wants you to do, and wait for Him to act.
Sort of - Ruth already had a reputation of being Godly - Boaz took care of her not because she "went out to find a husband" but because he had heard of her already and her character. That was the most valuable thing she could've done , being Godly to her mother-in-law and going with her/ listening to her. Boaz said “It has been fully reported to me, all that you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband, and how you have left your father and your mother and the land of your birth, and have come to a people whom you did not know before. 12 The Lord repay your work, and a full reward be given you by the Lord God of Israel, under whose wings you have come for refuge.” Truly, Ruth was solely obedient to God's will . She was not going and looking for a husband but solely by being obedient to God, God worked it out for her to wed Boaz because he valued her godly works and obedience.
@@BrookeButterworth Amen🙏
I think the main point is focusing on your relationship with God first and letting Holy Spirit lead you. If He says go out, have at it, if He says rest and sit with me do that. Ruth was being obedient and taking care of her mother-in-law, that is why she was “out and about”. Of course we need to all be lead by what God is telling us to do and His leading, not just do things to be put in front of a man or woman that may be out future spouse - God is more than able to position us on His own, He doesn’t need out help - just our willingness to listen and follow.🩷
This is exactly what I needed to hear. I always feel in my spirit when something is right or wrong for me. I just choose to ignore it 😭 but I’m done doing this. I listen to God every step of the way now.
Amen sis! 🩷Let Him lead you!
When a woman is 'looking' for a husband, a man intuitively picks up on this. Its not attractive to him. Just cool your jets & live your life. Continue to pursue Christ. Serve others. I know its my time. God said it was my time. God told me my husband and I would have a youtube chanel too. I'm in my 60s but God said I can do it.
I think the turn-off is if you are desperate. I know of happy christian marriages that started online (on a dating website) or through activities organised for single people by churches or christian organisations. Ruth did go to Boaz. I think you at least need to appear available. I've had married christian male friends who asked me if I was even interested in a relationship because I didn't seem to care about having a husband or children, and that's not attractive to men either. Got the advice from good christian men, so I think it's worth taking into account. I think we have both examples in the Bible and that both positions are OK women. You can look or you can wait, I think what's important is to stay under God's guidance and not make marriage an idol.
I agree with you. You can let him know your interested but you don't pursue him. Like Ruth, you can position yourself. It's a fine line. Ruth's move was bold but she was following Naomi's advice. I don't think she was attached to an outcome. Follow God's direction but don't be so intent to make him yours. He still must make the decision if he wants marriage.
Amen sis! Of course you can do it! I love that He’s told you this, how exciting! I’ll be praying about it with you along with my prayers for you and your future marriage!🩷
Right when I finished watching this video , my friend’s husband ( I am staying at their house temporary) told me “ you should go to a church and meet other people “ I think it was god speaking to me ❤
I think she is saying the opposite of that
I love when He speaks through other people! If you feel peace and you feel that’s what the Lord is leading you to do.. go for it!!🩷 A new adventure might just be about to unfold for you friend!
Thank you for making this video is very encouraging to me and perfect timing. I'm 38 about to turn 39 and everybody telling me I hit my wall already 😊
I mean, the wall is undefeated 😁…according to the world that is. Thank God that he gives us the faith and strength to realize the desires in our hearts and align ourselves with His will for our lives
You are so welcome. Just remember everyone else can listen to the world about running out of time or whatever - but we are on God’s time and so never need to fear or worry🩷 God bless you sis!
Hey! I know how it feels. I'm 39 and my friends are married even nieces, and I feel like I don't know where I belong lol. I also closed the doors to relationships that I knew God would not approve of. If a man tells me I'm more important to him than God I don't need him.
They can kick rocks in flip flops. Who cares what folks say?
From personal experience, if you want to find a spouse, look. If you don’t, wait. Then again, I’m a man, so that has an impact on how I experience dating.
That’s not to say God won’t introduce you to someone in another country against all odds. But I can tell you for certain that absolutely nothing happened until I started looking.
For sure, my advice to men who are ready for marriage is to look, so that they can pursue when God reveals the one to them 🩷
Thank you I needed this. Seek first the Kingdom of God.
Amen🩷! You are so welcome!
I totally agree with this message! Totally true, 💯! So meant to be for me to hear this today! Deep down I knew this to be true. Thank you for sharing this truth Daniella! 💖😊🕊️🙌
You are so welcome!🫶🏻
Amen! Thank you so much for your video. You are the first person to succinctly say what the Holy Spirit has spoken to my spirit for years. Thank You, Lord!!!
Amazing, amen! I am so glad sis 🩷
Daniella, you have no idea how much this video means to me. I woke up at 3am last night with so much fear and doubt when I previously was filled with faith. I cried out to God and prayed so much for help about this exact topic. This video just popped up this morning. He answered all my questions through you. Everything you discussed was what I was asking about. And the verse at the end Isaiah 60:22 is exactly what God has been placing in my mind about this for a long time. Thank you for listening to God and making this video. 🩷🧡🫶🏼
Oh Nailea I am so glad! Thank you for your comment, they always make me smile! God bless you sis, I can’t to hear your testimony of how God brought you and the amazing husband He has for you into your life🩷🙏🏻🙌🏻
Thank you so much for this beautiful video! I have wrestled with this question recently. On the day I was wrestling, I came across a video of George farmer and Candace Owens love story. George told the story and when he said God was in complete control I felt the weight of that. Because God did it for him, he will do it for me. I’m so grateful for the many stories of God’s faithfulness that help me in the waiting. Would love to hear yours someday! Isaiah 60:22 is such a great verse. Blessings to you and your family! Thank you for your ministry!
Yes I love their love story!!! And you will hear my love story at some point, I promise!! He who promised is faithful and He will do it for you too, absolutely!🩷 And it will be unique and special and tailored for your heart girl! I can’t wait to hear the amazing testimony of how He brings the two of you together! 🙌🏻🫶🏻
I'm telling you. The lord brought this video to me! Thank you.
He is so good!!🙌🏻🩷 I am so glad!
Thank you so much for this encouraging word!! I receive the word of the lord!
You are so welcome🫶🏻
Very very nice and timely. God is awesome!!! Thanks.
You are so welcome🩷
Thank you for the encouragement Daniella! You are amazing!! Please pray for me to be completely content with the Lord and trust He is leading me to the right man for me.
I absolutely will!!🙏🏻🫶🏻🩷
Its called actively waiting. Work out, work on your character. Learn stuff that is helpful for creating a family. Don’t be lazy !!
Amen, but as He leads. If Holy Spirit is saying come sit with me and rest, that’s what we should do. When we out Him first all falls into place and He prepares us in His time, His way!
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Yes I fully agree. For example I’m in my 30s and single. I work out and run. Take care of my finances and so on. But I put the lord above everything. Rest in him is also so important. I have naturally higher expectations for my wife because I bring a lot to.
Yep ! I'm on the same page !
Amazing!
Thank you for sharing, this is a really good take on the topic. I'm also waiting though I like to call it more of a preparation season because God is refining me and working on me for this assignment everyday. However I am mindful of being out and about to put myself in places where I can potentially be found. I've had a few sisters in Christ who recently have been engaged to men of God and they met online. I previously wasnt open to online dating but now I'm considering when God puts it on my heart to move, that will be another environment I will explore to be found. What I've learned from just hearing others stories is that those that have been waiting for years dont seem to take any steps towards the being found part of things. I wonder why is that we believe God has called us to certain things, being an entrepreneur for example, and we will take the time prepare, do research, save money and whatever steps the Lord put on our heart, but not take as active a role in becoming a spouse? For men of God, that part is actively looking and women of God, allow the Lord to direct our steps on where we can be found. And I do believe God wants to work by faith at times and we trust He will direct and order our steps so He may not give us the full details every time of what exactly to do, where to go, etc. I know that is some people's stories but not everyones.
I can tell you sis that God had me meet my husband in a way I never expected, so be totally open to His leading as I’m sure you are 🩷. You are absolutely right, the men should actively look and be led of the lord and we should allow the Lord to position us to be found in His time! I’m so excited for when the Lord sends you your perfect man - please come back and give your testimony, I can’t wait to hear it! 🙌🏻🫶🏻
This spoke right to me and was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing.
You are so welcome, I’m so glad🩷
Wow ! Again, this message was a blessing. God is in control. God is good always. To God be the Glory ! 🙌🏻 thank you Daniella 🌸
To God be the Glory!!!🙌🏻🫶🏻 Amen! Thank you so much for watching, I’m so glad it was helpful🩷
Thank you, I have been believing for 4 years. Because of yearsss passing bye it gets harder to stay faithful. + Age and pressure. I just long for a fulfilled promise at this point.
Join the club. I've been waiting about 7 years! Actually more. I'm chaste & very surrendered to Christ. I think the delay is demonic attack. We have to shut the devil down. In addition, most CHRISTIAN men are afraid to marry. Fear of rejection. Past heartbreak. It's ridiculous. Alot of them are addicted to PORN. No joke. Pray for the brothers. Satan is wreaking havoc and attacking covenant marriage. Know this.
You will get it at the perfect time in Jesus name❤️
“The Lord isn’t really being slow about his promise, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants everyone to repent.”
2 Peter 3:9 .NLT
I totally understand! Please don’t lose hope or faith! He who promised is faithful🩷🙏🏻 I will be praying for you!
@@daniellashamarose Thank you so much🙏🏾
@@Doraa3168 Thank you for your encouragement!
Thank you for the reminder. I needed to hear this today!
You are so welcome🩷
Thank you for the encouragement! Trusting in Gods perfect time!! 🙏
You are so welcome🩷
Thank you for this message! Your messages are a blessing and teaches us to rest in Him! 💕
You are so welcome! Yes amen, when we out Him first all falls into place! God bless you🩷
This is the best advice I want to hear, everything is on point.
I’m glad🩷
This was very encouraging. Thank you for sharing the word.
You are so welcome, I’m so glad🫶🏻
Great video Daniella. I really needed to hear this today.
I’m glad it was helpful🩷 God bless you sis!
Daniela's videos are life changing.
Beautiful word! Thankful for these reminders. Also, totally off topic, but is that a giant bowl of garlic behind you? Lol
You are so welcome🫶🏻! Hahaha yes, my husband grows it in our backyard and then insists we have it as decor😂, lol. I guess we cook with it a-lot too🤷♀️. You are not the first one to ask🩷
Your content is amazing!🙌 Let me know if you ever need help with editing 🎬✨
I do lol, are you an editor Sophia?
@@daniellashamarose Yes, I’m a professional editor! 🎬✨ I’d love to help out with your videos. Do you have any specific projects or edits you need help with right now?
@@Sophia0Rosecan you send me an email to hello.daniellashamarose@gmail.com I want to ask you more details!! 🩷
Unless The Lord buillds the house
Those that labor on it labor in vain
That is what I look at in this venture
God has got to build a marriage for me
He did for others mention in Scripture
Amen!!!!🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
To those saying Ruth went out to find a husband - no. Reread the scriptures. She followed her mother in-law and her advice. She left all she knew and followed her instruction. Boaz took care of her not because she "went out to find a husband and found Boaz so she pursued him" but because he had heard of her already and her character. That was the most valuable thing she could've done , being Godly to her mother-in-law and going with her/ listening to her. Boaz said “It has been fully reported to me, all that you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband, and how you have left your father and your mother and the land of your birth, and have come to a people whom you did not know before. 12 The Lord repay your work, and a full reward be given you by the Lord God of Israel, under whose wings you have come for refuge.” Truly, Ruth was solely obedient to God's will . She was not going and looking for a husband but solely by being obedient to God, God worked it out for her to wed Boaz because he valued her godly works and obedience. Even her submission to Boaz was in listening to her mother-in-law aka Following God's will and walking in obedience. There was no striving.
I disagree. Ruth took actions and went in the middle of the night and laid at Boaz’s feet. She was taking actions. She could have missed this opportunity by not taking action to make her intentions clear if she was passive and never went to Boaz.
Amen sis! Exactly🩷🙌🏻
Love ❤ this video thank you
I’m so glad, you are welcome!🫶🏻
I'm going to watch this everday till i break that habit of positioning myself to find a man! Thank you ❤️
Amazing! 🩷 You are so welcome!
Thank you for this video ❤
You are so welcome🩷
Thank you inspirational message l need this in single season especially someone never been in relationship before.
You are so welcome, thank you for watching! 🫶🏻
Glory!!! After so much struggles I now own a new house with an influx of $155,000.00 every month God has kept to his words,my family is happy again everything is finally falling into place. God bless America.
Hello how do you make such monthly??
I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 🤦of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God 🙏.
Thanks to my co-worker whom God used to give a great opportunity of crossing paths with 'Mrs CHRISTINE EVELYN MACKIE'.
She's a licensed broker here in the states 🇺🇸 and finance advisor.
After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
I've always wanted to be involved for a long time but the volatility in the price has been very confusing to me. Although I have watched a lot of RUclips videos about it but I still find it hard to understand.
Amen
Amen!🙏🏻🙌🏻
Amazing message
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This is so good!! Thank you again ❤
You are so welcome🩷
I just need some thoughts, if a godly man a brother start texting you and after a while you politely say we better not talk anymore? and he say ok I respect your decision, but Im really glad to know you. But then after few days he contact me. Is this pursuing or he is just disrespectful?🤔
What is your reason for not wanting to talk with him? Is he not someone you would not want pursuing you?
@@daniellashamarose This man brother is freshly divorced, and I am still in celibat relationship. So I told him I think better not to talk for now. And the rest is in Fathers hands. Bit then he reached asking me am I alright and that he prays for me. He is also not my type etc .
Hi!!! I have commented before when I was pregnant and I finally had the baby. Im just more or less frustrated with myself because ive been told no one wants a single mom. I met a christian man who sold me a dream and then ghosted me because I am a mom and it hurt me to my core. As much as the bible says there is no condemnation to those who are with Jesus. People condemn and judge and they do not want to accept someone with children.I also prayed for redemption with my child father but he even told me that is why no one is going to ever want you. Maybe he was right.
All the women of God who I know recently got engaged this year to other men of God were single moms. I joked with them and said maybe I should have had one too and would have been chosen by now 😂 jk but all that to say that is a lie told by the enemy so please dont let anyone devalue you to tell you cannot find a proper mate because you have a child. I've seen it with my own eyes, God will still bless you with the person He has for you
Hi!!! Yes I remember!! How are you and baby doing?? That is an absolute lie from the enemy like Kitanna said! The man that God has for you will love you and your child unconditionally! Remember God is in control, He’s not phased by you being a mother - it doesn’t change His plan for you at all, He still has the perfect man in mind for you and planned it all knowing you would be a mommy. Tell that evil snake (the devil) to shut his mouth and remind him of where he’s headed. So much blessings I’m sending your way! You are in my prayers🩷
Thank you so much Daniela. The last time I watch your video I went to church and the very thing that the priest was talking about was marriage I came home to get ready for bed to clean myself up for the night and heard the devil tell me that I'm not pretty enough to be with anybody and that I should stop looking please pray for me cuz I am really confused
Sis I want you to start talking back to the enemy when he tries attacking you, speak out loud next time… thank you for reminding me you nasty snake that I am the apple of God’s eye, I am a royal diadem in His hand, He loves me so much He died for me… get these scriptures so deep down in you that you can fire them off by memory anytime He attacks. He hates the power of the word. He hates truth. Resist the devil and he will flee. I am praying for you sis, and know this - if our amazing God didn’t have a great plan/person for you why would the enemy even bother attacking you about it? 🙏🏻🩷
You said nothing could stop the right person from coming, but what about self sabotage? Anxiety, depression and lust?
I’m new herw
Welcome! 👋🏻 glad to have you🩷
Amen ❤
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Hey, queen. I have a question. Given the context of what you shared in this video, which I'm also guessing is catered to women, how would you explain Christian dating sites?
I'm genuinely asking. This isn't a "gotcha" type of question..
Hey! Yes this video is geared more towards women😊. I know many Christians that have met on Christian dating sites, and even secular dating sites - God absolutely can use them as a means to bring people together! My advice is however to seek the Lord and make sure He is giving you a green light 100% when it comes to dating sites and dating in general, because if God is not calling you to go here, it can be the devil’s playground. And that would be my advice for both men and women. I hope this answers your question!
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is writing a prayer list of what I want god to bring me in a wife a good idea and has anyone on here done that?and has gotten what they wanted in a spouse?
There's nothing wrong in doing a prayer list. God cares about your marriage. Tell Him the desire of your heart.
Of course, don't write just about physical appearance....ask God for someone who has integrity and will be loyal and faithful to you. Someone who loves Him even more than loves you.
Ask and don't doubt! God never changes.
Of course, I did this! But remember God knows what we need, He created us and our spouse. Also from experience, He will give you some things exactly what you asked for and some things that you didn’t know you needed in your partner also some things the opposite of what you thought you wanted! Ask big! “Ask and it shall be given you...” Matthew 7:7. 🩷 I’m excited for the Lord to bless and surprise you in marriage!
What about us men who are waiting
I’m sorry I will be doing a video specifically for men - I’m still praying about it! I’m hoping to film it soon.
@@davidwalker4104 wait on God for the woman you feel led to pursue
@beautyrefinment thank you for your encouraging words it gets difficult sometimes.
@@daniellashamaroseno need to apologize! Thank you for the encouragement. I really enjoy your videos.
I'm turning 39 in 2 months time and I'm scared of menopause without even a single child...I'm thinking of just getting a man so I can have a kid before it's too late.whats your advice?
No. Don't do that. You will regret it. Ask God what aspect of yourself you need to work on in order to become the spouse you need to be. And then just focus on God. Fall in love with God 1st. Decisions out of desperation always end up in disaster
One of my sister’s friends had her first baby at 49, don’t worry because anything is possible with God, at any time,
God gave you a limited biological clock… you don’t think he knows you’re almost out of time? I personally don’t believe God is out there match making people, people have their own free will. If he did match people, then I find it incredibly rude to bless some women and neglect many other women who also desire marriage and kids.
My advice would be absolutely don’t take something apart from God’s timing because you will regret it. I’ve been asked this quite a few times. It all comes down to do you trust His plan for your life? Do you trust that He has good for you, that He knows you better than you know you and He loves to bless and give His children the desires of their hearts? The only reason to take something out of His timing is lack of relationship and trust. I know it can be hard, but please never doubt his goodness! I’ll be praying for you!🙏🏻🩷
@@daniellashamarose pliz pray for me.thanks
This dear brother was showing alot of interest in me. I was certain he'd invite me for coffee or to church, right? He confided that he was feeling dizzy. He gets covid a week later & nearly died! I prayed for him & he recovers & back at work. I met him at a his job near me. Anyway, Daniela he tells me he had covid. I told him I prayed for him. He doesn't seem as interested as he once was. God told me just to leave it alone. God didn't say NO. He just said let this man come to me. Not to approach him. I know he likes me. Maybe he's unsure. Who knows. Maybe he's seeking God to get green light to court me. Who knows? I'm not going to be anxious. What do you think Daniela. My name is Danielle.
Absolutely sis, let him pursue you, leave it alone. If he is the one he will come after you, if not it will just fizzle out. 🩷
Thank you so much ❤
You’re so welcome🫶🏻
I've spent a thousand Saturdays alone. I used to love the Bachelor/Bachelorette. After a while I got disgusted with all the kissing. How you going to kiss 10 men? Eww...
Hahaha Danila yas🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻, I got so sick of it too with the kissing and shananagans! Amen sis🩷 I always love and enjoy your comments!
I don't want to be rude but a question. Does she know what she is talking about? I'm single in my 40's and pray to God for helping me meet a suitable woman and I also ask others to pray for me. Yet I've waited for years. I'm introverted though. There are a lot of voices out there claiming God says this and that. Just saying.
I’m quoting the Word of God throughout this video Fred. And this video is specifically for single women. My advice to males is very different.
Wouldnt know where to look
People join themselves together its all luck
The verse whosoever God joins together not to be taken literally he merely supplies
The means of attraction
The choice is theirs!
The word christian doesnt guarantee compatibility!
So maybe going to church
Isnt the answer!
No clue but it wouldn't matter anyway. At 33 its too late, im too old and being a husband is too much responsibility and too difficult and my genetics by the nature of humans definition is flawed and weak. Theres a reason only certain bloodlines ever get to procreate and others turn to dust. It hearkens back to the hunter/gatherer days.
I think you will receive what you believe you will receive- according to your faith friend.
Honestly, from my experience, and from the people in the Bible, you will rarely meet your spouse while living a triangle life. You may have to go out of your town like the servant who left Abraham’s town and went to another town far away and asked the gurl for her hand or like Ruth who traveled to a new place and she took actions to go in the middle of the night and laid at Boaz’ feet making her intentions clear. All these are active faith. They could have missed these opportunities by not asking the gurl or Ruth not going to lay at Boaz’s feet. You can wait until the second coming of Jesus and still won’t find him or her. Faith requires being active and praying. Sometimes God gives us the pen to write our stories too. Don’t put your life in the hand of “luck” or “chance”. God gave you free will. That’s your pen. Use it. Create your story. So many miss the point of what free will means when choosing a mate and end up lonely and angry at God.
Mmmm I think what people miss is relationship with God and being sensitive to His leading. The whole point of the video was this, putting God first and letting Him direct you in His time, otherwise you can go out and put yourself anywhere and there would be 0 point, unless He has put you there. But without a relationship with Him, how can He direct you? Absolutely you may have to leave where you currently are, like I had to - but if I did if apart from God’s leading and timing it would have been pointless. Until the time is right, rest.
@@daniellashamarose sometimes people have to move in faith inorder to know. By not doing anything, a person may not know. If a person takes a step and God doesn’t do anything yet, then the person also has his/her answer. But simply waiting on God and not taking any action isn’t always the best solution. Sometimes God is waiting on us to take a step forward. And yes, this makes more sense for those who are inclined to the prompting of the Holy Spirit. Those who aren’t, most likely will make mistakes and even fall into Satan’s trap of a counterfeit bait.
The bible also says: Proverbs 13:12 "Hope deferred makes the heartsick, but when the desire is fulfilled, it is a tree of life". So telling women who are in their late 30s, 40s, and 50s that its God's timing and we are wondering why his timing hasn't caught up to our biological clock and our full faith. This rest in Him and delight in Him is easier said than done.
Absolutely it is hard waiting. I waited for 10 years before I met my husband at 30. Some have to wait much longer than me. But whether we wait 5,10,20,30 years - whatever we are waiting for - what I pray happens is that we grow closer to Him, closer in knowing His heart and trust in Him. The closer we get to Him the easier the waiting. Sara was childless until she was 90 years old… God is above our biological clocks and the devil loves nothing more than to use this as a mechanism for fear. God is in control. He had an amazing plan for you, He is incredible and so worthy to be delighted in.
@daniellashamarose I'm not Sara and no woman today is having a baby at 90 years old. Bible scriptures are encouraging and inspirational but we must not lack logic. 30 years old is still young to get married. You cannot approach this from the same way a woman 40+, 50+ is. When you get to menopause and you have never been married and had children yet you been praying to God for over 30 years, its a problem. And no feel good message can soothe or solve the problem. It makes you question God and there is no way around that reality.
@@daniellashamarose Thank you for your beautiful messages. I'm just stating the frustration that me and many believing women feel.
@@queenriri9393 Of course, I completely understand🩷
@@queenriri9393 And be honest with God about that. He can handle it, and it will ultimately help grow your relationship with him.