The way Shahem broke it down @ 1:03:00 was such a well spoken way to describe the mindset/tendencies of people pleasers!!!! Preeeach! 🙌🏽 because it is deeper than just “pleasure” and I’m glad he dissected it so precisely.
If yall could follow like…one train of thought, it would be nice…I literally came over for shahem and….im hearing fragments while hes trying to navigate in this conversation…
Hey ladies! Good episode, really enjoyed the guest and his expertise! Kiki, were you okay? Not sure if you were drunk or took a bad edible, but at 1:15:47 your speech slurred so bad that the clip was cut short. Even in your tipsy moments in the past, you have always maintained professionalism and held it together. With this episode, I’m not sure what happened. Or if you and Medinah had got into it. Regardless, the moment the camera starts rolling, fake it til you make it. I know it’s easier said than done, but we shouldn’t be able to pick up on that stuff. This is a business..period. Sponsors, future business partnerships and opportunities are watching. Let’s not forget that. I appreciate both of you and the content that y’all create! I know I just gave unsolicited advice, but I truly want to see y’all both win.
52:06 it’s getting rowdy, I can’t hear anything he’s saying & I’m listening on RUclips. It’s giving the ladies are drunk😫 Y’all owe him an apology bc this is WILD & thank God his job is listening to people talk bc WHEW😒
@@StarraliteThis is so spot on. She HAS to have her opinion heard and will continue talking over a person just to finish her sentence. She should really work on that especially when there are guests. The people want to hear the guest perspectives. We listen to hers enough when it’s just her and KiKi.
I love Shahem and have been following him for a while. He's amazing. A couple of things that bugged me this episode...Why does Medinah insist on convos going her way or no way? Sis, we love you but, youre not a therapist. You brought a THERAPIST in the show...to talk over him and put words in his mouth for so much of this episode. Even talked over Kiki and its off-putting AF. I would have loved to hear more of what the actual therapist had to say.
Yes, medinah is usually the one that cuts the guests off but this episode was both of them 🥴 I could see him get awkward in his face at times. He was a great guest, this episode coulda been way better. And the slurring was annoying. Idk maybe I needed to be tipsy watching this cause it was hard to watch. Still love y’all ladies! 🫶🏽
1:00:00 are y’all arguing? When Kiki said letting friends go last week, are y’all breaking up? What’s going on😫 Can y’all BOTH please re-watch this bc it’s honestly hard to watch/hear
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Medinah, I love you but we have to allow the guest to complete points ❤
I love y’all… but having this man fly in just to talk over him the whole episode is crazy.
I'm in a new relationship, and my man just brought up going couples therapy. I'm so grateful that he's open to it because a lot of men aren't.
The way Shahem broke it down @ 1:03:00 was such a well spoken way to describe the mindset/tendencies of people pleasers!!!! Preeeach! 🙌🏽 because it is deeper than just “pleasure” and I’m glad he dissected it so precisely.
Kiki is lit baby 😂😂😂😂 great episode ladies
Yesss I love these ladies ❤
I say this with love, please stop cutting the guests off when they talk and stop trying to speak for them 🫶🏾
Yessss Medina with all them corny jokes lol like girl let him finish a sentence
😭 right who is the therapist here
Now KiKi… 👀😂
The statement about women having to be able to receiving help to be an effective part of a community is SUCH A GEM
If yall could follow like…one train of thought, it would be nice…I literally came over for shahem and….im hearing fragments while hes trying to navigate in this conversation…
I hope this was the last episode y’all recorded this day lol. Otherwise next weeks guest ain’t getting any words in 😅
Found myself replaying many parts to hear it again. Learned some super helpful tips !
Great Episode Yall ❤😊🥂
Is it just me or does the energy seem off this episode
Very off
Kiki tipsy lol
KiKi was over our good sis medinah😊
Yeah they deff beefing bout something. As soon as the episode started they was bickering and being shady towards each other so…..
Lol Kiki is just drunk 🤣
I adore Shahem; got so excited when I seen him on the thumbnail 👌🏾 Beautiful soul and amazing advice from him ✨ Awesome episode ladies
Thoroughly appreciated everything about Kiki’s preparation of this week’s cocktail! 😂 *chef’s kiss*
I was looking for yall all day!!! Excited for this week's episode 🙌🏽
I love this man so much glad y’all got him 😊
He was extremely politically correct. He diligently selected his words when he spoke.
I understand.
First male guest I’ve enjoyed on the show 🙏🏽
Yoooo Kiki is sawuced up 🤣 #drinkupbuttercup
Hey ladies! Good episode, really enjoyed the guest and his expertise!
Kiki, were you okay? Not sure if you were drunk or took a bad edible, but at 1:15:47 your speech slurred so bad that the clip was cut short. Even in your tipsy moments in the past, you have always maintained professionalism and held it together. With this episode, I’m not sure what happened. Or if you and Medinah had got into it. Regardless, the moment the camera starts rolling, fake it til you make it. I know it’s easier said than done, but we shouldn’t be able to pick up on that stuff. This is a business..period. Sponsors, future business partnerships and opportunities are watching. Let’s not forget that.
I appreciate both of you and the content that y’all create! I know I just gave unsolicited advice, but I truly want to see y’all both win.
I was watching and like 😬😳something is way off!
This should’ve been an email or dm 🥴
@@DaniBanks-e4k yet you took the time to read it and it wasn’t even for you. Stay blessed. 🥴
Victim crown is kinda wild 😬
He is great!!!
Omg love himmm excited!
52:06 it’s getting rowdy,
I can’t hear anything he’s saying & I’m listening on RUclips. It’s giving the ladies are drunk😫
Y’all owe him an apology bc this is WILD & thank God his job is listening to people talk bc WHEW😒
Kiki is hilarious 😂😂😂😂
Medinah is annoying this episode, let the man talk !
Every week, she way too judgmental and loves to push her new beliefs on everyone else…
That's her habit...like let the guests speak!!
@@StarraliteThis is so spot on. She HAS to have her opinion heard and will continue talking over a person just to finish her sentence. She should really work on that especially when there are guests. The people want to hear the guest perspectives. We listen to hers enough when it’s just her and KiKi.
I love Shahem and have been following him for a while. He's amazing. A couple of things that bugged me this episode...Why does Medinah insist on convos going her way or no way? Sis, we love you but, youre not a therapist. You brought a THERAPIST in the show...to talk over him and put words in his mouth for so much of this episode. Even talked over Kiki and its off-putting AF. I would have loved to hear more of what the actual therapist had to say.
Thank God!!!!! I was scared for a second!!!
Yes, medinah is usually the one that cuts the guests off but this episode was both of them 🥴 I could see him get awkward in his face at times. He was a great guest, this episode coulda been way better. And the slurring was annoying. Idk maybe I needed to be tipsy watching this cause it was hard to watch. Still love y’all ladies! 🫶🏽
Now hold on a minute…. How did he get away without telling a cocktale in the end??? 😂🤔
“Trump get back, get back” when Kiki saw a fly 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Medina omggg you almost ruin this episode for me 😂😂. It felt very self righteous and self absorbed.
Kiki you need to apologize to that kind man
Now why was my comment deleted?
Honest opinion- Ladies, hosting etiquette. Anyway.
A little late, but glad to have an episode this week 🙏🏾
🤫 hush. You be a lil late to work everyday 😂
Great episode especially since today is Black girl day off 🎉💫💫
Added to Our Culture Now Playlist🏆
18:44 the tone of this ep is so heavy. What happened to the fun at the beginning of the ep?
Aaahhhh I love Shahem
Kiki?
1:00:00 are y’all arguing?
When Kiki said letting friends go last week, are y’all breaking up?
What’s going on😫
Can y’all BOTH please re-watch this bc it’s honestly hard to watch/hear
15:48 kiki you are such a Virgo. Lol
Kiki drunk forsho lol
To, too, two 🤣😭
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