I saw something online yesterday that said “Speak to yourself the way Steve Irwin would speak to a tiny little lizard” and you know what, that really resonated with me.
I hate he idea that relationships are only successful if they last forever. Sometimes, people are meant to be in our lives for only a certain amount of time. I think that’s still so beautiful. Wishing both you and David the absolute best!
Agree! People change and need to take different paths but their previous relationships will always be part of them and should be cherished and not just regretted some kind of failure…
This is a great take that I 100% agree with..my ex is now one of my best friends we spent all of our 20s and most of my 30s together of course we didn't wanna never talk again.
I was blindsided when my husband of 37 years told me he realized his girlfriend from 40 years ago was the “true love” of his life. Our divorce took over three years and cost me $30,000+…thankfully my attorney took credit cards! So I’m 65 and starting all over. Trixie, I can’t put into words how much you and your videos mean to me. I so appreciate your honesty and vulnerability and I wish you all the positivity and happiness I can. Oh, and I treated myself to some Trixie Cosmetics brushes and I LOVE them. Thank you! ❤️
The thing is: you don't owe the internet anything. What happened between you and David is your business alone. We still love you regardless. Lots of love from a fellow Wisconsinite
THIS. I’m so sad to hear our girl was suffering through a separation and all the more glad she took the break she needed and deserved. Like you said at the end of the video Trixie, we’re always here for you and you’re always here for us… but you never owe us information. Keep choosing You, and YOU HAVE PERMISSION TO BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE.
It's always tricky, as a public figure. Yes you deserve privacy, but at the same time, there will always be nosy people, who, if you don't tell anything, will wreak a lot of havoc trying to find out the truth(or whatever they want their truth to be). So throwing them a bone every now and again might be the smartest long term strategy to keep any privacy at all
Chris Klemens shared a video that said your “weight is the most boring thing about you, imagine how boring you are if that’s all you talk about and think about.” That advice hit.
I lost a lot of weight in all the wrong ways and talked about it all the time, when I reflect back I always think how boring was I.... In my minds eye, I can now almost see people's eyes roll as I was talking about it...😅
Her apologizing in the notification video about her sabbatical made me miserable. Like, honey, we love you. Take time to get back to not wanting to set everything on fire. 😊❤
The fact that folks stayed mum regarding your breakup is a testament to the respect people in your immediate orbit (and online) have for you. That really speaks volume!
Wow I did not know you and David separated. Not that it was any of my business. I can't imagine how difficult that must have been. You are very strong and you should feel proud for your development!
Damn that really threw me for a loop though! Like you said it's none of our business but it's always especially surprising in cases like this. I mean they have built the motel and we had the second season with their house. That usually doesn't speak "break up" if you are doing something that big together.
You both seem like great folks and I support your journeys - cheers to positivity, self-acceptance and grace! Love you Trixie! Also that little frog card was like an exclamation point at the end of your thoughts - spot on
As katya always says "the mind is a very dangerous neighborhood to walk in." its ok to observe and pass through just don't linger too long! You got this!
That's the best advice. I wish I could get my hubby to live by that. He's constantly spiraling into the abyss and it's really hurting his mental health. Idk what to do.
Trixie, while you don’t owe us any insight into your personal life, we love you for letting us in. You have truly grown as a person in 2024. Taking care of your physical, mental and emotional health is a huge task but doing all 3, and more, at the same time has brought you to heal. Thank you for putting yourself first and taking care of yourself. I love you and want to know you’re happy. Happy New Year!
When Trixie said she was considering getting a bird I was like oh so they broke up. I’m glad she feels more comfortable now talking about it, we aren’t owed it, but always feels nice to know. Wishing Trixie a healthy happy new years!!
I remember that was odd for me too but I figured they were compromising..? Since im surprised I’m glad folks kept some of their suspicions to themselves.
reading this made me gag cause when trix said the thing about getting a bird i was like "wasnt she afraid of birds?" but i thought maybe i just misremember. And I did! Its not her thats afraid of birds.
Lowkey that did cross my mind for second and then I never thought about it again cuz it’s not my relationship, not really my business of course. But I’m glad Trixie had time to process it all before saying something on the channel. Wishing the best for both💕
The way Trixie holds herself to a different standard than she does other men is so incredibly relatable to me as a woman. I love love LOVE women who own their curves. Conversely, women who are really fit are also beautiful. and I'm sitting here and feeling down on myself because I don't have a quote unquote perfect body.
well trixie im glad that sitting down and putting on makeup and talking to us is your favorite because those videos are my favorite too. i never want them to stop!!
7:46 "The way i look at other men is so much nicer than the way i look at myself". Girl. Im a lesbian but i feel the same way with women. What i love on others i feel insecure about ob myself and its weird
hearing you talk about your experience/relationship with disability as a disabled person and a disability scholar is so appreciated. every single person will be disabled at one point in their life
Obviously Trixie only briefly talked about it, but there is so much more nuance to it. Based on how she talked about it, she can still do pretty much anything she wants to do with a few minor accommodations and has lived most of her life being able to do whatever she wants. If she had lost all of her 20's to severe disability like I and many other people have, I'd bet she'd feel a little bit different. Her personal experience is completely valid, but saying things like "it's not really worth the poor me" kind of discredits everyone who has lost more than her due to disability. In my experience, it is "poor me" because my life was taken away from me and I deserve to feel that way. I can't do anything independently anymore. I can't work, I can't make my own meals, a majority of the time I can't bathe myself and there's not a damn thing I can do about it. I agree that dwelling on it can make it worse, but when it takes over your entire life and your ability to everything, you kind of can't help it. It just really rubbed me the wrong way.
Hate being a creepy internet fangirl. Buttt, what you & Katya do brings a lot of joy to my & many others’ life/lives. You’re so relatable, real & funny. Wishing you all the best for 2025, Trixie!
This is exactly how I feel. If I ever ran into Trixie or Katya or both in an airport or whatever, I’d never bother them for a photo, all I’d say is “you bring so much joy to me and many people, I appreciate you so much” that’s it.
I'm so glad you shared what you've been going through but let me tell you, girl, as a consumer of your content I do NOT feel entitled to know anything you don't need or want to share publicly. I hope you have a great new year, new you! I want a new vibe too and I wish all the best for all of us in your community that is completely and totally without mental health issues!
Obv I can't speak for everyone, but I really like hearing you talk about your relationship to weight. It feels more validating to point it out and call it wrong, and to hear others do the same, than to hold it all in and never interrogate those feelings.
@@stevencramsie9172a partner cannot scratch every single itch. And entering into a relationship with that in mind is setting up the other person for failure
What a lovely way to address the end of the relationship. Lots of people could learn from this instead of airing dirty lininen in public and throwing insults around. Wishing u and David all of the love, Trixie.
What we say, as those with an autoimmune disease, is we only have so many spoons to start the day off. You have to be careful how many spoons you use for each thing. Like getting up in the morning can take 1 spoon, getting dressed can be 2 spoons, and a shower can be 3 spoons… welcome to being a Spoonie. My husband has RA. He has infusions that help him a great deal. I hope you’re able to find relief! ❤
I don't know if it says more about me, Trixie, the American Healthcare system, etc, but I take more out of these videos listening to her personal growth and sharing honest, genuine experiences than I do actual therapy. Sitting here with my little notebook like, "You can't be... more concerned than... the person...".
Break-ups are difficult enough, I can't imagine the pressure of having to make some sort of public announcement about it. Thank you for taking the time to tell us about it.
It’s funny because I remember you saying “they get what they get” or something similar earlier this year and I immediately recognized one of the biggest symptoms of burnout. I’m so sorry for the journey you had to go on, but so happy for you that it has led to a renaissance of inspiration and motivation for you.
I always thought that when she said that, it was so entitled and very privileged. And honestly didn't like it. And now, her saying it, yeah it could be burn out.
Thanks for being so vulnerable and I actually felt better knowing someone else has those issues with viewing their bodies. We aren’t alone and will continue to heal❤
Hi Trixie. I believe that ironically, vulnerability - being open about the times you felt weak - is a sign of strength. When you're ready to shed information to people whose resposnes you really, really can't control, it kinda means that you feel confident you won't feel too shaken by what they'll say because you know where you stand. You know who you are. Acquiring an autoimmune illness, leaving a long term relationship, struggling with body image issues must have been really hard. But I'm so happy to see you on the other side as someone who has gained a fresh outlook on life, striving to take better care of himself. Needless to say you owe us nothing, we aren't entitled to any explanations. But I'm happy that you felt secure enough to share. I myself was stuck in an abusive household until mid-December 2024. It's only been 3 weeks now but I already feel like a different person. It's amazing how the changes we need really do change us for the better, even though some pain might be invovled. Here's to an amazing 2025 - I'm really, really excited for you and for me!
I was one of the people who figured out that your relationship ending might be another reason why you needed a break. Ofc I didn't speculate on it because it's not my place to. I love you a lot (and your videos saved me after my father passed away this year) but I am not friend. We are not your friends,so please never feel pressured to share any intimate details with us. We don't need to know anything besides what you feel comfortable sharing.
I appreciate Trixie talking about struggles with body image for herself. I quit meth two years ago and after you starve yourself for years, your body craves all the nutrition and fat you have robbed yourself of for years. I instantly gained 60 pounds and went from twinky skeletor to a body I didn't recognize or feel happy with. I didn't know if I should focus on improving my body or improving my self confidence and years later I'm still struggling with feeling attractive. Like, I know celebrities aren't mental health professionals, but it feels really relatable hearing her talk it through.
I really like the mindset of not focusing on either acceptance or change of my body but instead frustration at the system that makes us all focus so much on how we look and what others think of that and so little on how we feel and how our bodies work for what we need them for. Also, bodies change, but who we are at our core doesn't, so I think it's helpful to support growth there. That said, we still live in a world where people treat us differently because of our bodies so it's hard to just ignore that entirely. Also, congrats on your sobriety. I'm glad you're still here to add to the queer community 💗
wow congrats on quitting though, that is amazing. i think your struggle makes a lot of sense, you aren’t used to your body in this way. it takes time. allow yourself that time. i think most people look at themselves with completely different eyes than they look at others. i also think my body is gross, but i wouldn’t think that about other people with my body type… being attractive isn’t just physical, either, but i’m guessing you know that already. getting off meth is a huge act of self care and i think that is very inspiring to see in any person
8:15 speaking personally, it isn’t hard to hear, it’s extremely comforting to know someone i look up to and who has unknowingly helped me through so much feels the same way that i do, i’ve never related to you more and it makes me an even bigger fan
My husband and I are separated after waiting our entire lives to finally be together. Sometimes, things just don't work regardless of how much you love each other. Love you, xoxo
Props to Trixie for being transparent about her relationship ending. The encouragement to be gracious in the face of unexpected disappointments is refreshing.
i’ve lost over 70 pounds this year between stress, depression, and serious healt issues… and all people can say is “wow you look great! are you on ozempic?” i’m exhausted.
i’m really glad you share so much with your audience. your authenticity really helps people like me… there isn’t a lot of that around me in the real world. and i know im not alone in that.
People still talk about the year I was at my thinnest and looked “great” but I’d had a full blown eating disorder. I felt so weak and could barely do anything. I’m much better now and you will be too!!!
Its definitely hard to imagine them separating after how much trixie adored him and how close they were on trixie motel, its bittersweet but they need to both do whats best for eachother.
I was at the Cyndi Lauper concert in San Francisco and had no idea you were going to open. When I saw your blonde hair come popping out on stage I couldn’t believe it! I have been a Cyndi Lauper fan since I was in elementary school and to have my favorite Drag Queen do a surprise opening DJ set… that was an incredible experience. And then when you two sang Girls Just Wanna Have Fun together, amazing. Well done. Nobody would’ve known that you were nervous.
Am I the only one who talks back to these. "oh girl don't worry about that, we get it." "that's a great point." lol it's really a talent to be able to talk to a million people like you're talking to one friend and she's got that talent
First Trixie video to make me cry. I was diagnosed with autoimmune and arthritis just before Trixie started talking about her journey publicly. it is actually shocking how much my life, relationships, and outlook has changed since. It is a really hard thing but transformative journey and so much of the content Trixie has put out since their diagnosis has validated my own journey.
It's lovely to see. She also feels a bit more.. real? I think that's the best way to put it. I know one of the goals was to get reacquainted with Brian who he is apart from Trixie and I feel like we're seeing that reconnection, she seems much more at ease with herself. And that accent coming through more is really endearing and I hope she doesn't feel weird about it, I love hearing it. It's part of who she is
@@0ddeityhow is this an issue? these comments are literally saying that they’re happy that she seems to be in a much better place after her break like i do not see the problem
@@evieisamarshmallow these comments incites things when Trixie made it very diplomatic. Pairing Trixies health journey with comments like they looked better before and after, it’s just weird and entirely what Trixie was getting at
Not long after trixie found out abt her autoimmune disease & TMJ, i was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease and TMJ! Anytime she talks abt her journey in videos, i feel like we're going on the same journey together and thats helped me deal with the struggles of my medical conditions better❤
Same Trixie. Same. Went through an 8 year relationship and we both realized we weren't healthy together. Both mentally and physically. What i took away from the relationship is that just because one of you is happy doesnt mean the other person sees the relationship in the same way. I could only throw so much love but none of it was being received.
As someone who recently separated from my partner of 7 years I really appreciate you opening up about your relationship. I know disentangling the life you shared with someone is extremely difficult and comes with a lot of grief, but it helps knowing others are on the same path as you and that we can move forward together ❤️
I developed a chronic pain condition last year and I totally get what you mean about changing your mindset but also getting back to the things that you used to do!
I cried like a baby watching this. You absolutely don’t owe your audience your private life, sorry to hear about David but wanted to send you the most love from Australia. It’s the weirdest feeling to be proud of someone you’ve never met but also it’s so nice to see you doing better ❤
This was one of your best videos Trixie, 100%. You made a simple get ready with me video into an inspiring introspective. You are a generational talent, please don't forget that.
I really like the transition from "they get what they get" (valid, but not very fun) to "it's fulfilling to put in the effort to create beautiful and interesting things" Very inspiring!!!
Relationships are hard, but like the other person said you don’t have to be with that person forever for it to be a successful relationship. Wishing you and David so much love and happiness. I can’t even imagine how difficult it must be to be a celebrity and have your life out there for everyone to see. Life is hard enough without a million people giving you their opinion whether you asked for it or not.
16:40 This is why I don’t go on social media anymore. The demand that I felt to reply to comments or messages, even though they were lovely, became horrible triggers for my anxiety. I feel you!
I've had chronic illness since I was 11, I'm 27 now and still struggle to find the balance between respecting my boundaries and not letting it dominate everything! The last few years have been particularly tough, so let's hope 2025 is better for all of us!!
I was diagnosed with juvenile rheumatoid arthritis when I was 8 I’m now 36 finding balance can feel like a game of tug of war with yourself especially as a people pleaser trying to heal
Literally how far my jaw dropped when I heard you say you and David were separated!!!! 😮 Aww I hope you two are at a happy place in life. Glad to see you back ❤
I'm super new here, but when I was going through a bit of a rough patch w my mental health in the last bit of 2024, I only watched your content because it helped me to laugh and celebrate myself, and I so appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in sharing your own life. Really reminds me I'm not alone with any of it and really means a lot
For both Trixie & her fan base, I would really recommend the book What My Bones Know - A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma. It’s funny, it’s insightful & researched, and it really helped me to coming to understand my autoimmunity. I’d recommend the audiobook as the author reads it herself & her tone is amazing.
Oh honey, you don’t owe your fans anything other than love. I’m a major advocate of it being ok & preferred that people keep their private lives private. We’re your fans not your family, we love you, but not the way your family does. If you need to vent though, we’re all here for you. ✨
I absolutely didn't expect this video to be so vulnerable & honest...I mean, that's not it because Trixie literally always keeps it real but I felt genuinely loved & appreciated as the long-term fan & supporter I've been for years. Plus I'm from Milwaukee & I love how Trixie shouted us out all the time! But I didn't know about the breakup. Those can always be so hard and difficult but I'm glad to see that you're thriving & gorgeous as ever! Can't wait to see what you get into this new year! To be absolutely transparent with you...I'm a disabled woman & can't work & my partner lost his high paying job and as I type this ..a sheriff is taping a notice on my door about how much time I have to move out. I'm flying into the new year with homelessness. But it just reminds me of my childhood. Sending all my love to you.
So sad when relationships end. My two long term partners (1x7 years 1x 5) are still my greatest friends who I will go to in times of need and visa versa. People change and needs and wants can change but if you are lucky enough to keep a relationship with people you have so much history with it is so rewarding. I have known them both for 30 plus years now. Keep your spirits high and have an amazing future.❤
Yeah it's all part of life. After not too long ago watching the house remodel. Now thinking they probably weren't together when that aired. Public life ain't easy.
26:26 TRIXIE!!!! 🥺💔❤️❤️❤️ Breakups are so damn hard. I went down to 119 lbs and smoked heroin for 6 months after my last breakup, so…all in all, you are coming out on top. Lol *hugs*
Did i suspect the breakup? Yes. Did I still cry a little when it was confirmed also yes. Wishing nothing but love and happiness to you Trixie in the new year!!
trixie, as a straight woman, you have inspired me to manifest a life beyond my wildest dreams and STAY laughing! i can't wait for this next year..my intention is to be my most authentic and creative self...and help make an impact on the world! from journeying thru addiction, abuse, depression, we and the power of love are the ones that pull us out of the rut! love ya trix xoxoxo
In my eating disorder recovery, I learned that the root of the issue for me was not about my body looking or not looking a certain way, but rather about trying to protect myself from vulnerability. Like, it's easy for me to engage in body positivity for other people while still being so hypercritical about the way I look because I'm trying to run from being judged by others and with so many conflicting opinions out there, someone is ALWAYS going to end up judging you. So unlearning that dependence on random people's acceptance or rejection of you is huge in recovery! And really hard to do, I would guess especially for someone in the public eye like you
Wow, I truly felt sorry for Miss Trixie upon hearing that she and David separated. I know things change and that's ok but T & K videos got me through a near deadly experience with a Lexapro medication reaction that went sideways. In fact, one night when I was feeling exceedingly and direly depressed, the first ad was for Better Help and I did seek help and the app said basically, you need to seek medical attention immediately instead of using this app which I did. I committed myself to a psych ward and they got me off the Lexapro (an antidepressant that did the opposite for me) and it saved my life. All this to say I never knew how much I cared about the pink one. The crazy one too. Happy New Year to all and take care of your mental health and hopefully all the rest of your life will align with the improvements! 💓💞💕💓
Thank you for sharing this, I’ve had similar experiences. Through their content, Trixie & Katya have helped me through some really tough times (along with professional MH treatment). Years ago, during a very long, dark episode of depression (in which I hadn’t laughed for many weeks on end) I happened to stumble upon UNHhhh for the very first time! Being able to laugh again (via watching UNHhhh) was the catalyst to seeking professional help.
Trixie - it always seemed to me that you and David had a very healthy relationship, and so I trust that the separation is the healthiest thing for you both. Of course, that doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt, but (as you mentioned) you’ve built so many wonderful things together, both of you will continue to flourish well into the future. Please know I wish you, your family, and your team all the best next year.
Going into the new year scared to death for our, my, everyones future THIS video is the one i wish the "other side" could see. Drag Queens arent out to eat ur kids and turn them gay. They are entertainment, artists, friends, family , transparent, giving, loveable, loving, loved, sometimes our therapy, silly, beautiful, smart and just people with makeup on doing the best they can to make themselves and others happy while trying to live a dream and make a living. Happy New Year guys and i hope its full of peace and kindness and cheer not fear. Love yall.
Trixie your relationship and personal life is no one’s business but your own and you owe us nothing! While you’re openness and vulnerability is admirable, please feel never feel you’re obligated to share more than you feel comfortable! We know you’ve had a hard year and dealt with depression and health problems. It’s understandable that you were going through things in your personal life as well but again, it’s your life. Relationships come and go and breakups happen, I can tell from your videos that after your much needed and well deserved sabbatical you seemed so much happier and healthier and I’m so glad you took that break and the time you needed to heal! Wishing you all the best for next year!
‘Signs of aging are signs of survival’ thank you, Trixie. Sincerely, an elder millennial fan.
Boomer here, and I agree.
@@kathyjohnson2043 Boomer also. I love that she said it. Helped me relax.
Gen X with 4 autoimmune disorders, agrees! 🐦🔥
yep, always hated folks being ashamed of and hiding their age, aging a privilege denied to many
Same here - 40 and getting arthritis myself. Love you, Trixie!
I saw something online yesterday that said “Speak to yourself the way Steve Irwin would speak to a tiny little lizard” and you know what, that really resonated with me.
*me looking in the mirror* a byoootiful creecha (creature in Aussie accent lol)
Love this!
Aw. Steve….😢
I AM a tiny lizard 😂
This would be easy as I do, in fact, look like a tiny lizard
I hate he idea that relationships are only successful if they last forever. Sometimes, people are meant to be in our lives for only a certain amount of time. I think that’s still so beautiful. Wishing both you and David the absolute best!
Agree! People change and need to take different paths but their previous relationships will always be part of them and should be cherished and not just regretted some kind of failure…
This is a great take that I 100% agree with..my ex is now one of my best friends we spent all of our 20s and most of my 30s together of course we didn't wanna never talk again.
We tend to treat all type of success with forever. I hate it. "You stopped doing xyz because it wasn't fun anymore. Flop!"
Exactly sometimes it’s a reason or a season
well said
I was blindsided when my husband of 37 years told me he realized his girlfriend from 40 years ago was the “true love” of his life. Our divorce took over three years and cost me $30,000+…thankfully my attorney took credit cards! So I’m 65 and starting all over. Trixie, I can’t put into words how much you and your videos mean to me. I so appreciate your honesty and vulnerability and I wish you all the positivity and happiness I can. Oh, and I treated myself to some Trixie Cosmetics brushes and I LOVE them. Thank you! ❤️
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wishing you all the best in 2025 and beyond
Wishing you so much success and happiness in your new chapter 🎉
Rooting for you!❤
Miss Kitty your life is going to be amazing. We’re all rooting for you 🥰♥️
Every time Trixie says she’s creative I remember how she named her bird “Birdie” and I can’t help but agree.
I agree, but not the mood! 😂
Hahaha
Ikr? 😂 Very creative and only comes up with birdie 😂😂😂I love her
The thing is: you don't owe the internet anything. What happened between you and David is your business alone. We still love you regardless. Lots of love from a fellow Wisconsinite
@xander2752 This was my opinion as well, especially because like she said it wasn't just her business she is sharing and it's up to David as well
Yes! All the fans speculating and even low key demanding she clarify the matter were disgusting. I hope we leave THEM behind
THIS. I’m so sad to hear our girl was suffering through a separation and all the more glad she took the break she needed and deserved.
Like you said at the end of the video Trixie, we’re always here for you and you’re always here for us… but you never owe us information. Keep choosing You, and YOU HAVE PERMISSION TO BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE.
Disagree! They brought us into their lives, give us the tea!
It's always tricky, as a public figure. Yes you deserve privacy, but at the same time, there will always be nosy people, who, if you don't tell anything, will wreak a lot of havoc trying to find out the truth(or whatever they want their truth to be). So throwing them a bone every now and again might be the smartest long term strategy to keep any privacy at all
Chris Klemens shared a video that said your “weight is the most boring thing about you, imagine how boring you are if that’s all you talk about and think about.” That advice hit.
i watched that video too and that advice changed my life to be honest
which video was it?
@@refillpan his most recent video :)
@@refillpanthe original video he showed was from aliyahinterlude but he shows it in his newest video where he shows his fav tik toks
I lost a lot of weight in all the wrong ways and talked about it all the time, when I reflect back I always think how boring was I.... In my minds eye, I can now almost see people's eyes roll as I was talking about it...😅
"You can't be more concerned than the person it concerns." is going on the wall in my middle school classroom immediately. What great advice!
I had the same thought!
As a codependent this is such a read!
idk if im just dumb but im not understanding this phrase?😭
@@emm1luvr it means don't put more energy into worrying about a situation than the other people involved
Yessss. I’m a teacher too and thought the exact same thing. What a great saying ❤
Girls don’t want roses. Girls just want Trixie to be happy ❤. Thank u for sharing parts of your life with us
Love your comment, 100% agree. I seem to love this woman more as time goes by 💘
Her apologizing in the notification video about her sabbatical made me miserable. Like, honey, we love you. Take time to get back to not wanting to set everything on fire. 😊❤
This part! 🥰🥹
This 💜💛💙
The fact that folks stayed mum regarding your breakup is a testament to the respect people in your immediate orbit (and online) have for you. That really speaks volume!
Wow I did not know you and David separated. Not that it was any of my business. I can't imagine how difficult that must have been. You are very strong and you should feel proud for your development!
seconded. i wanted to write my own comment about this but i felt my wording would be too awkward. thanks for putting this into words
@bath_foam4576same ! So much support for this part of life’s transition 🦋🩷
Damn that really threw me for a loop though! Like you said it's none of our business but it's always especially surprising in cases like this. I mean they have built the motel and we had the second season with their house. That usually doesn't speak "break up" if you are doing something that big together.
They were both cheating on each other and drifting apart for years.
You both seem like great folks and I support your journeys - cheers to positivity, self-acceptance and grace! Love you Trixie! Also that little frog card was like an exclamation point at the end of your thoughts - spot on
“Look into the abyss but don’t stare” hit me with what I needed in my spiral I’ve been in for a couple of months
Also I wish I could get excited about something as much as Trixie gets for brown blush.
As katya always says "the mind is a very dangerous neighborhood to walk in." its ok to observe and pass through just don't linger too long! You got this!
That's the best advice. I wish I could get my hubby to live by that. He's constantly spiraling into the abyss and it's really hurting his mental health. Idk what to do.
I haven't seen anyone saying it, but the makeup is very symmetrical today
Literally was just looking for any symmetry celebration comments. Totally agree! Incredibly symmetrical brows this video ❤
It's a NYE miracle!
Please just take care of yourself! Without a healthy Brian, there is no entertaining Trixie. We love you!
Trixie, while you don’t owe us any insight into your personal life, we love you for letting us in. You have truly grown as a person in 2024. Taking care of your physical, mental and emotional health is a huge task but doing all 3, and more, at the same time has brought you to heal.
Thank you for putting yourself first and taking care of yourself. I love you and want to know you’re happy.
Happy New Year!
Well Said
“Not a promise, a threat” love the editing always
Nick is AMAZING!!!
When Trixie said she was considering getting a bird I was like oh so they broke up. I’m glad she feels more comfortable now talking about it, we aren’t owed it, but always feels nice to know. Wishing Trixie a healthy happy new years!!
My exact thoughts!!
I remember that was odd for me too but I figured they were compromising..? Since im surprised I’m glad folks kept some of their suspicions to themselves.
reading this made me gag cause when trix said the thing about getting a bird i was like "wasnt she afraid of birds?" but i thought maybe i just misremember. And I did! Its not her thats afraid of birds.
@@guto_mp3 and no ones afraid of birds! they were on katyas wig
Lowkey that did cross my mind for second and then I never thought about it again cuz it’s not my relationship, not really my business of course. But I’m glad Trixie had time to process it all before saying something on the channel. Wishing the best for both💕
29:40 *Pours heart out*……”Anyways I’m still gorgeous flops!” Love you tritsie!
Websites have the reporting of the break up 3 hrs ago lmao.
The way Trixie holds herself to a different standard than she does other men is so incredibly relatable to me as a woman. I love love LOVE women who own their curves. Conversely, women who are really fit are also beautiful. and I'm sitting here and feeling down on myself because I don't have a quote unquote perfect body.
Miss thing took half the year off and is still being honored as business person of the year because she is that girl
well trixie im glad that sitting down and putting on makeup and talking to us is your favorite because those videos are my favorite too. i never want them to stop!!
Each one is a gift!!💝
7:46 "The way i look at other men is so much nicer than the way i look at myself". Girl. Im a lesbian but i feel the same way with women. What i love on others i feel insecure about ob myself and its weird
It’s so real girl.
Straight woman here but I’ve had moments where I catch myself saying things to/about myself that I would be ashamed to say to my girl friends!
I would never talk to a friend the way I talk to myself. Childhood trauma, who me?
I felt this in my soul ❤
I was gonna say something similar because as a female I am like that with other females
hearing you talk about your experience/relationship with disability as a disabled person and a disability scholar is so appreciated. every single person will be disabled at one point in their life
Yes! Loved that she spilled
I'd love to hear more about what you study!
Obviously Trixie only briefly talked about it, but there is so much more nuance to it. Based on how she talked about it, she can still do pretty much anything she wants to do with a few minor accommodations and has lived most of her life being able to do whatever she wants. If she had lost all of her 20's to severe disability like I and many other people have, I'd bet she'd feel a little bit different. Her personal experience is completely valid, but saying things like "it's not really worth the poor me" kind of discredits everyone who has lost more than her due to disability. In my experience, it is "poor me" because my life was taken away from me and I deserve to feel that way. I can't do anything independently anymore. I can't work, I can't make my own meals, a majority of the time I can't bathe myself and there's not a damn thing I can do about it. I agree that dwelling on it can make it worse, but when it takes over your entire life and your ability to everything, you kind of can't help it. It just really rubbed me the wrong way.
Every comment from drag fans has the following…”as a_____” insert victimized tag
@@lindsayf9225 She studies being a scholar with an emphasis in using incorrect grammar….
Hate being a creepy internet fangirl. Buttt, what you & Katya do brings a lot of joy to my & many others’ life/lives. You’re so relatable, real & funny. Wishing you all the best for 2025, Trixie!
This is exactly how I feel. If I ever ran into Trixie or Katya or both in an airport or whatever, I’d never bother them for a photo, all I’d say is “you bring so much joy to me and many people, I appreciate you so much” that’s it.
It’s not creepy to tell someone you love their work!
I'm so glad you shared what you've been going through but let me tell you, girl, as a consumer of your content I do NOT feel entitled to know anything you don't need or want to share publicly. I hope you have a great new year, new you! I want a new vibe too and I wish all the best for all of us in your community that is completely and totally without mental health issues!
"lipless trixie can't hurt you" omgggg I laughed so loud
Oh yes it can
@Underwater_vehicles and it did
@@niRtywa_starcvnt yup
She looked like a muppet, like miss piggy without her lipstick. I feel so mean saying it but it’s what came into my head 😭
I was tearing up, I was laughing so hard
Not Trixie evolving emotionally. I absolutely love these raw videos. We are so lucky to have her! I hope to see her again soon
We're all along for the journey. We're "alone together" in our growth.
Obv I can't speak for everyone, but I really like hearing you talk about your relationship to weight. It feels more validating to point it out and call it wrong, and to hear others do the same, than to hold it all in and never interrogate those feelings.
I’ve never seen an open relationship last forever. If your partner isn’t enough to scratch all of your itches, it probably isn’t an ideal fit
@kaza99 This was what I said, too. It's validating and I hope she keeps speaking on it
@@stevencramsie9172 aren't you just miserable
@@stevencramsie9172a partner cannot scratch every single itch. And entering into a relationship with that in mind is setting up the other person for failure
@@stevencramsie9172 That doesn't relate to op's comment.
What a lovely way to address the end of the relationship. Lots of people could learn from this instead of airing dirty lininen in public and throwing insults around. Wishing u and David all of the love, Trixie.
So respectful talking about your breakup. Such a testament to your character. Big hugs.
A compelling love story doesn’t have to end in happily ever after. It just has to change you for the better. ❤
and people can live happily ever after individually as well 🤍
Beautifully said ❤
Yes!! I hope she sees this 😭
@@yourdadjustcallsmekatya so true!
I wish everyone reading this comment a perfect 2025!
You too! 😁
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Thank you, you too hon
Same to you, thanks! 🙏🏻
You too sis! ❤
Holding space for Trixie entering 2025
I didn't know that this was happening, that's really powerful
🤙🤏
I think she's in queer media guys
I think she's in queer media guys
And every other time. 😊❤
What we say, as those with an autoimmune disease, is we only have so many spoons to start the day off. You have to be careful how many spoons you use for each thing. Like getting up in the morning can take 1 spoon, getting dressed can be 2 spoons, and a shower can be 3 spoons… welcome to being a Spoonie. My husband has RA. He has infusions that help him a great deal. I hope you’re able to find relief! ❤
I don't know if it says more about me, Trixie, the American Healthcare system, etc, but I take more out of these videos listening to her personal growth and sharing honest, genuine experiences than I do actual therapy. Sitting here with my little notebook like, "You can't be... more concerned than... the person...".
Break-ups are difficult enough, I can't imagine the pressure of having to make some sort of public announcement about it.
Thank you for taking the time to tell us about it.
Thank you Trixie for the great year of sharing and entertainment.
It’s funny because I remember you saying “they get what they get” or something similar earlier this year and I immediately recognized one of the biggest symptoms of burnout. I’m so sorry for the journey you had to go on, but so happy for you that it has led to a renaissance of inspiration and motivation for you.
I always thought that when she said that, it was so entitled and very privileged. And honestly didn't like it. And now, her saying it, yeah it could be burn out.
Thanks for being so vulnerable and I actually felt better knowing someone else has those issues with viewing their bodies. We aren’t alone and will continue to heal❤
I just finished the video and cried. Wishing you all the best Trixie, lean on those you love and we all love having you here
Hi Trixie. I believe that ironically, vulnerability - being open about the times you felt weak - is a sign of strength. When you're ready to shed information to people whose resposnes you really, really can't control, it kinda means that you feel confident you won't feel too shaken by what they'll say because you know where you stand. You know who you are. Acquiring an autoimmune illness, leaving a long term relationship, struggling with body image issues must have been really hard. But I'm so happy to see you on the other side as someone who has gained a fresh outlook on life, striving to take better care of himself. Needless to say you owe us nothing, we aren't entitled to any explanations. But I'm happy that you felt secure enough to share. I myself was stuck in an abusive household until mid-December 2024. It's only been 3 weeks now but I already feel like a different person. It's amazing how the changes we need really do change us for the better, even though some pain might be invovled. Here's to an amazing 2025 - I'm really, really excited for you and for me!
"You can't be more concerned than the people it concerns" wow that's a WORD to carry into 2025! Thanks Becca!!
Someone said they are putting it on the wall of their middle school classroom!
I was one of the people who figured out that your relationship ending might be another reason why you needed a break. Ofc I didn't speculate on it because it's not my place to. I love you a lot (and your videos saved me after my father passed away this year) but I am not friend. We are not your friends,so please never feel pressured to share any intimate details with us. We don't need to know anything besides what you feel comfortable sharing.
yesss i love this!!!
yes, we are fans, not friends!!
I appreciate Trixie talking about struggles with body image for herself.
I quit meth two years ago and after you starve yourself for years, your body craves all the nutrition and fat you have robbed yourself of for years. I instantly gained 60 pounds and went from twinky skeletor to a body I didn't recognize or feel happy with. I didn't know if I should focus on improving my body or improving my self confidence and years later I'm still struggling with feeling attractive.
Like, I know celebrities aren't mental health professionals, but it feels really relatable hearing her talk it through.
I really like the mindset of not focusing on either acceptance or change of my body but instead frustration at the system that makes us all focus so much on how we look and what others think of that and so little on how we feel and how our bodies work for what we need them for. Also, bodies change, but who we are at our core doesn't, so I think it's helpful to support growth there. That said, we still live in a world where people treat us differently because of our bodies so it's hard to just ignore that entirely.
Also, congrats on your sobriety. I'm glad you're still here to add to the queer community 💗
wow congrats on quitting though, that is amazing. i think your struggle makes a lot of sense, you aren’t used to your body in this way. it takes time. allow yourself that time. i think most people look at themselves with completely different eyes than they look at others. i also think my body is gross, but i wouldn’t think that about other people with my body type… being attractive isn’t just physical, either, but i’m guessing you know that already. getting off meth is a huge act of self care and i think that is very inspiring to see in any person
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Omg same
Congrats on quitting. One day at a time ❤
I love watching Trixie emerge. It's like seeing a familiar friend walk in the room. You just feel all that pleasure and relief. :)
It's like magic. 😊❤
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about the ending of your relationship. That said, wishing you both the best in life❤
8:15 speaking personally, it isn’t hard to hear, it’s extremely comforting to know someone i look up to and who has unknowingly helped me through so much feels the same way that i do, i’ve never related to you more and it makes me an even bigger fan
💜💜💜
samee😭🥺🩷
So well said and I couldn’t agree more!
Same🎉
Every time I get a cut and color, when she finally finishes. I am always let down they did not make me 25 again!
Thank you for putting my emotions into words
My husband and I are separated after waiting our entire lives to finally be together. Sometimes, things just don't work regardless of how much you love each other. Love you, xoxo
Props to Trixie for being transparent about her relationship ending. The encouragement to be gracious in the face of unexpected disappointments is refreshing.
So sad 😢about the separation from David
But so happy 🎉 that you made the decision to change what wasn’t working and making your life better❤❤❤❤
"If I'm gonna have to venture into my own dark, recent past, there are worse outfits to do it in" I need this embroidered immediately
i’ve lost over 70 pounds this year between stress, depression, and serious healt issues… and all people can say is “wow you look great! are you on ozempic?” i’m exhausted.
i’m really glad you share so much with your audience. your authenticity really helps people like me… there isn’t a lot of that around me in the real world. and i know im not alone in that.
I sincerely hope you have a more restful, healthy and fulfilling 2025.
People still talk about the year I was at my thinnest and looked “great” but I’d had a full blown eating disorder. I felt so weak and could barely do anything.
I’m much better now and you will be too!!!
I lost a lot of weight after getting diagnosed with diabetes.. people kept giving me compliments , and I kept thinking.. but, I’m dying! So sad..
Why do I also get the stress, depression and health issues but no weight loss 😢😂
Its definitely hard to imagine them separating after how much trixie adored him and how close they were on trixie motel, its bittersweet but they need to both do whats best for eachother.
I was at the Cyndi Lauper concert in San Francisco and had no idea you were going to open. When I saw your blonde hair come popping out on stage I couldn’t believe it! I have been a Cyndi Lauper fan since I was in elementary school and to have my favorite Drag Queen do a surprise opening DJ set… that was an incredible experience. And then when you two sang Girls Just Wanna Have Fun together, amazing. Well done. Nobody would’ve known that you were nervous.
Am I the only one who talks back to these. "oh girl don't worry about that, we get it." "that's a great point." lol it's really a talent to be able to talk to a million people like you're talking to one friend and she's got that talent
The “automatic gut reaction to yourself” was way too real. I felt that.
First Trixie video to make me cry. I was diagnosed with autoimmune and arthritis just before Trixie started talking about her journey publicly. it is actually shocking how much my life, relationships, and outlook has changed since. It is a really hard thing but transformative journey and so much of the content Trixie has put out since their diagnosis has validated my own journey.
The boost to Trixie's energy levels in her videos pre- and post- break is noticeable and so heartwarming.
It's lovely to see. She also feels a bit more.. real? I think that's the best way to put it. I know one of the goals was to get reacquainted with Brian who he is apart from Trixie and I feel like we're seeing that reconnection, she seems much more at ease with herself. And that accent coming through more is really endearing and I hope she doesn't feel weird about it, I love hearing it. It's part of who she is
You two are part of the problem. You don’t need to comment things like this. Just be respectful. Or don’t comment if that’s where your minds at.
@@0ddeitywhat?
@@0ddeityhow is this an issue? these comments are literally saying that they’re happy that she seems to be in a much better place after her break like i do not see the problem
@@evieisamarshmallow these comments incites things when Trixie made it very diplomatic. Pairing Trixies health journey with comments like they looked better before and after, it’s just weird and entirely what Trixie was getting at
Not long after trixie found out abt her autoimmune disease & TMJ, i was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease and TMJ! Anytime she talks abt her journey in videos, i feel like we're going on the same journey together and thats helped me deal with the struggles of my medical conditions better❤
Same Trixie. Same.
Went through an 8 year relationship and we both realized we weren't healthy together. Both mentally and physically. What i took away from the relationship is that just because one of you is happy doesnt mean the other person sees the relationship in the same way. I could only throw so much love but none of it was being received.
As someone who recently separated from my partner of 7 years I really appreciate you opening up about your relationship. I know disentangling the life you shared with someone is extremely difficult and comes with a lot of grief, but it helps knowing others are on the same path as you and that we can move forward together ❤️
What a thoughtful, tender, and honoring way to speak about your separation. Cheers to continued love and support for you (and us all) in 2025.
I developed a chronic pain condition last year and I totally get what you mean about changing your mindset but also getting back to the things that you used to do!
I’m going through that now and not being able to do what I used to do or what I want to do is very depressing. I’m trying to find a happy medium.
I also developed one 2 years ago at age 22!!! Its been pretty devastating tbh
As a therapist, I can hear the work you've been putting in and learning about! It makes me so happy :)
I cried like a baby watching this. You absolutely don’t owe your audience your private life, sorry to hear about David but wanted to send you the most love from Australia. It’s the weirdest feeling to be proud of someone you’ve never met but also it’s so nice to see you doing better ❤
"Signs of aging is signs of surviving" wonderfully put Trixie thank you ❤
Trixie was born to be a star, it's crazy
2025 is gonna a huge moment for everyone, but it’s also going to be a big moment for Trixie
I start every video like _"I can't possibly love Trixie any more than I already do",_ but I always end the video, in fact, loving her a bit more. ❤
This was one of your best videos Trixie, 100%. You made a simple get ready with me video into an inspiring introspective. You are a generational talent, please don't forget that.
I really like the transition from "they get what they get" (valid, but not very fun) to "it's fulfilling to put in the effort to create beautiful and interesting things"
Very inspiring!!!
It so sweet how emotional Trixie got when she told us about her relationship
Proud of you ❤ Being single kinda rules, get into it 🎀
From Back to Back Chef, to “I got your back” 💙
Relationships are hard, but like the other person said you don’t have to be with that person forever for it to be a successful relationship. Wishing you and David so much love and happiness. I can’t even imagine how difficult it must be to be a celebrity and have your life out there for everyone to see. Life is hard enough without a million people giving you their opinion whether you asked for it or not.
So sorry to hear about you and David and sending you positive vibes as you continue on your journey of SELF ✨
16:40 This is why I don’t go on social media anymore. The demand that I felt to reply to comments or messages, even though they were lovely, became horrible triggers for my anxiety. I feel you!
I've had chronic illness since I was 11, I'm 27 now and still struggle to find the balance between respecting my boundaries and not letting it dominate everything! The last few years have been particularly tough, so let's hope 2025 is better for all of us!!
PS. Looking AMAZING today! I do love when Trixie goes black and white
I was diagnosed with juvenile rheumatoid arthritis when I was 8 I’m now 36 finding balance can feel like a game of tug of war with yourself especially as a people pleaser trying to heal
“It takes effort to actively avoid me.” We love a persistent Queen who has a way with a phrase. Happy 2025 Trixie! 😂🎉💖
Literally how far my jaw dropped when I heard you say you and David were separated!!!! 😮 Aww I hope you two are at a happy place in life. Glad to see you back ❤
I'm super new here, but when I was going through a bit of a rough patch w my mental health in the last bit of 2024, I only watched your content because it helped me to laugh and celebrate myself, and I so appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in sharing your own life. Really reminds me I'm not alone with any of it and really means a lot
I love how she re-uses outfits a lot, we love a environmentally responsible queen✨
For both Trixie & her fan base, I would really recommend the book What My Bones Know - A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma. It’s funny, it’s insightful & researched, and it really helped me to coming to understand my autoimmunity. I’d recommend the audiobook as the author reads it herself & her tone is amazing.
Oh honey, you don’t owe your fans anything other than love. I’m a major advocate of it being ok & preferred that people keep their private lives private. We’re your fans not your family, we love you, but not the way your family does. If you need to vent though, we’re all here for you. ✨
I absolutely didn't expect this video to be so vulnerable & honest...I mean, that's not it because Trixie literally always keeps it real but I felt genuinely loved & appreciated as the long-term fan & supporter I've been for years. Plus I'm from Milwaukee & I love how Trixie shouted us out all the time! But I didn't know about the breakup. Those can always be so hard and difficult but I'm glad to see that you're thriving & gorgeous as ever! Can't wait to see what you get into this new year! To be absolutely transparent with you...I'm a disabled woman & can't work & my partner lost his high paying job and as I type this ..a sheriff is taping a notice on my door about how much time I have to move out. I'm flying into the new year with homelessness. But it just reminds me of my childhood.
Sending all my love to you.
So sad when relationships end. My two long term partners (1x7 years 1x 5) are still my
greatest friends who I will go to in times of need and visa versa. People change and needs and wants can change but if you are lucky enough to keep a relationship with people you have so much history with it is so rewarding. I have known them both for 30 plus years now. Keep your spirits high and have an amazing future.❤
Thinking about them having to watch the second season of Trixie motel while either going through a break up or recently broken up is so heartbreaking
Yeah. Everytime I see the tile on Paramount my stomach flips...💔
Yeah it's all part of life. After not too long ago watching the house remodel. Now thinking they probably weren't together when that aired. Public life ain't easy.
Trixie, in whatever you do, whatever you share or not, you are never disapointing us. Thank you for sharing.
26:26 TRIXIE!!!! 🥺💔❤️❤️❤️ Breakups are so damn hard. I went down to 119 lbs and smoked heroin for 6 months after my last breakup, so…all in all, you are coming out on top. Lol *hugs*
The love you at the end making me tear up 🥹 I love Trixxxiiieee 💗
Did i suspect the breakup? Yes. Did I still cry a little when it was confirmed also yes. Wishing nothing but love and happiness to you Trixie in the new year!!
trixie, as a straight woman, you have inspired me to manifest a life beyond my wildest dreams and STAY laughing! i can't wait for this next year..my intention is to be my most authentic and creative self...and help make an impact on the world!
from journeying thru addiction, abuse, depression, we and the power of love are the ones that pull us out of the rut!
love ya trix xoxoxo
what a beautiful thing to say
@ thank you 🫧 sending you love and more
In my eating disorder recovery, I learned that the root of the issue for me was not about my body looking or not looking a certain way, but rather about trying to protect myself from vulnerability. Like, it's easy for me to engage in body positivity for other people while still being so hypercritical about the way I look because I'm trying to run from being judged by others and with so many conflicting opinions out there, someone is ALWAYS going to end up judging you. So unlearning that dependence on random people's acceptance or rejection of you is huge in recovery! And really hard to do, I would guess especially for someone in the public eye like you
Wow, I truly felt sorry for Miss Trixie upon hearing that she and David separated. I know things change and that's ok but T & K videos got me through a near deadly experience with a Lexapro medication reaction that went sideways. In fact, one night when I was feeling exceedingly and direly depressed, the first ad was for Better Help and I did seek help and the app said basically, you need to seek medical attention immediately instead of using this app which I did. I committed myself to a psych ward and they got me off the Lexapro (an antidepressant that did the opposite for me) and it saved my life. All this to say I never knew how much I cared about the pink one. The crazy one too. Happy New Year to all and take care of your mental health and hopefully all the rest of your life will align with the improvements! 💓💞💕💓
Thank you for sharing this, I’ve had similar experiences. Through their content, Trixie & Katya have helped me through some really tough times (along with professional MH treatment). Years ago, during a very long, dark episode of depression (in which I hadn’t laughed for many weeks on end) I happened to stumble upon UNHhhh for the very first time! Being able to laugh again (via watching UNHhhh) was the catalyst to seeking professional help.
glad you are still with us💗
Trixie - it always seemed to me that you and David had a very healthy relationship, and so I trust that the separation is the healthiest thing for you both. Of course, that doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt, but (as you mentioned) you’ve built so many wonderful things together, both of you will continue to flourish well into the future. Please know I wish you, your family, and your team all the best next year.
Those last minutes in the video must have been very hard to record. Thank you for your transparency, Trixie! We love you so much ❤
"Someone said something about [insert gathering here]" is such a Midwesterner thing. My family does this too.
Aha it seems like it could be a useful approach
Going into the new year scared to death for our, my, everyones future THIS video is the one i wish the "other side" could see. Drag Queens arent out to eat ur kids and turn them gay. They are entertainment, artists, friends, family , transparent, giving, loveable, loving, loved, sometimes our therapy, silly, beautiful, smart and just people with makeup on doing the best they can to make themselves and others happy while trying to live a dream and make a living. Happy New Year guys and i hope its full of peace and kindness and cheer not fear. Love yall.
Trixie really put on the brown blush and said “you could have cooked waffles or you could have cooked waffles with a little syrup on it!” 23:10
Your body will get its rest. It’s a matter of whether it’s willingly or forced. I’ve had RA for 15 years. Listen to your body. I promise it helps ❤
Could sense some sadness of late, now it makes sense, it’s awful so sorry to hear this it’s terrible when things end very painful
Trixie your relationship and personal life is no one’s business but your own and you owe us nothing! While you’re openness and vulnerability is admirable, please feel never feel you’re obligated to share more than you feel comfortable!
We know you’ve had a hard year and dealt with depression and health problems. It’s understandable that you were going through things in your personal life as well but again, it’s your life. Relationships come and go and breakups happen, I can tell from your videos that after your much needed and well deserved sabbatical you seemed so much happier and healthier and I’m so glad you took that break and the time you needed to heal! Wishing you all the best for next year!