Just to be clear, this story is told from Jamie's perspective. We don't yet know what the dad's perspective is as he hasn't told his side publicly yet 👍
As someone who has struggled deeply with mental illness, I have never considered that method because that sounds awful. You want to end the pain, not die in pain.
As another person whose struggles with mental health, I’ve also never even thought abt that route because it sounds torturous. I almost am 100% sure it’s the husband
Due process exists for a reason. Any "evidence" we glean from this situation is circumstantial at best, though, admittedly, the dad's case looks... pretty bad. I just hope that, whatever the outcome, April and her family get the justice they deserve.
I’ve seen quite few people defending this guy saying “she was toxic” or “she deserved it” Some people really are messed up in the head, especially the incels trying to defend what seems to be murder. Edit: when I said the people defending him are messed up in the head, I meant the people who believe he killed her and supported it. I do believe in a fair trial though.
There are a lot of people whose anti feminist out there, they basically always take the men side instead of the women even if they are oblivious guilty or not, it’s a weird world we live in
No one and i mean no one unalives themselves with a bag over the head. The instinct to breathe is too strong, you would remove the bag to breathe even if you don't want to. That's why unalivings are done in ways that are either quick or irreversible, ways that prevents you from following your instincts.
Actually, that is false. Some people have starved themselves to death. I mean it's still likely the husband did it but it's not impossible that the woman did it
As someone who was in a very dark place MANY times in my life who's thoroughly researched how to unalive yourself, that bag situation is extremely suspicious. People USUALLY don't want to suffer, they just want it to end quickly and painlessly. Using a bag? Thats a bad way to go, a slow way.
Based on the evidence we have and the timeline of events, i think it's very likely the husband is guilty of this. I really feel bad for April and the son, poor kid really went through a lot in the past few days
Unfortunately simple minded, selfish, one sided, single brain cell thinkers don't think kids are capable of having their own opinions nor capable of being witnesses. In other words dimwitted ppl think there is no evidence.
It is possible, but unlikely. If she had a belt around her neck holding the bag in place, or tape, I could see that. But a guy starved to death as a form of suicide and had a diary of it all, took a long time. So people can will suicides and go against instincts. Also, if someone tried to kill me by putting a bag over my head, I’d cut a hole in the bag with my nails… bags are not hard to cut, unless her hands were also bound or something. So for me, both ways of death seem pretty weird.
she was given the gag order because one is not suppose to talk about ongoing investigations due to issues like pressure and such. if you hurry those things up, then you might have a mess. another thing is we don't know if this is what the kid thinks really or if he was coached. it is a very tense situation that we should stay out of and let things take their course. pray for the child.
@@user-ju2xj8re7i Valid, but you still need to acknowledge the risks you're putting on people. Like they said, there's a reason why you're in a gag order.
@@jameswatson5807 Guilty until proven otherwise HEY HEY DONT GET TRIGGERED, HEAR ME OUT. Inquisitore3, Kwite/Kwote, Pyrocynical, ProJames, you know how it turned out they were innocent after they got doxxed, sent death threats, all the stuff? Yeah, people were mad cus they werent guilty, I recommend to not take sides until the trial and/or investigation is over
I noticed a few people calling her toxic and that she had it coming. These kinds of people are sick. Even if she was toxic that is not an excuse for potential homicide though i do think the guy deserves a fair trial and i hope we get updates on this case
I mean my gut reaction is that the dad did it. But the question is when the kid did his tiktok, who was driving the car? Cause it definitely wasn't the kids dad. And if it was the kids grandma there are some pretty serious implications. It's entirely possible that he was coached to say everything that he did and none of it is real
I think there should be a therapy system for cases like this because this kid has gone through a lot and is holding up well, when I was younger and had trauma not even close to this, I'd be in tears at the thought of said trauma. 😢
Child was coached either way regardless of the outcome and he never said anything making the dad look worse than most guys in a relationship but I will say the bag over the head part and the rest makes it suspicious.
Instinct would make you remove the bag. As someone with mental illness that is never a way someone with mental illness would want to go out, suffocation takes a long time and is extremely painful. It was 100% the husband. That poor kid has been through so much….
Interesting case. The autopsy will probably show if there was some struggle involved. I am a believer when it comes to innocent until proven guilty, so we wait.
So this is one of two options. 1. He put the bag on her head and made his son find her which is absolutely horrifying that someone would do that to their son. 2. She did it to herself and the father was still angry so he sent his son to see what is taking her so long to get out of the bathroom. I do hope it's option 2 because the 1 option is horrifying.
2 doesnt make sense at all The bag will take a long time to actuall kill you as the human body fights for survival The urge to breath is far too strong for any normal person
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Just to be clear, this story is told from Jamie's perspective. We don't yet know what the dad's perspective is as he hasn't told his side publicly yet 👍
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This is just sick to put a child through.
Kid what 💀💀
It's horrific.
@@CHIEF.42?
@@CHIEF.42what???
sure. But what if dad is innocent, and grandmother is influencing the kid?
To put your son through this kind of trauma. It's just sick
Fr
Exactly. That fatheris evilpersonified
@@alldaypancakes7058 ?
@@Sas-rf9sy real
Do ya'll really not connect the dots? Autoerotic asphyxhiation. I'm like almost entirely sure that's what this is.
How can anybody put their child through something like this? Its insane
You're assuming that the dad is guilty.
@@OneDapperFrogUh yeah. So is his OWN child who was actually there.
@@Clippidyclappidyhis child is guilty???? What??
@@Thepersonwhoasked1 no, he's saying the child also assumes the dad did it.
@@Thepersonwhoasked1I don’t see how you could completely misunderstand what @clippidyclappidy said
Props to the kid for expressing his feelings. That’s definitely a big struggle for kids, especially when they have trauma like this. I hope he’s ok.
Im just afaird grandma told the kid to do it, he didn't even have a tiktok account till after Grandma accuses dad of the unaliving
@@TheBathulk10She 100% did
The kid barely knew what he was saying
he should have been talking to a therapist, not his grandma's tiktok followers
@@itac.2280wha I'm saying
the kid is in a car, do u think he is having all this recording goin on with his dad on the drivin seat, ofcourse its his gramma.
As someone who has struggled deeply with mental illness, I have never considered that method because that sounds awful. You want to end the pain, not die in pain.
As another person whose struggles with mental health, I’ve also never even thought abt that route because it sounds torturous. I almost am 100% sure it’s the husband
we cant speak to quick but it's always the f husband 90% of the time.. @@TheRubberDuckCollector
I hope you are doing better now, and if not I hope one day that you will.
Lol😂
@@DatHoodBooger69what are laughing about there's two people talking about self harm
Due process exists for a reason. Any "evidence" we glean from this situation is circumstantial at best, though, admittedly, the dad's case looks... pretty bad. I just hope that, whatever the outcome, April and her family get the justice they deserve.
The poor child. 😢
So does freedom of speech
@@bluethunder5694Are we just saying random things that exist that are unrelated to what op said?
@@jjtheelephants.
@@thisname3749 hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia
The Son is just traumatized seeing this happen.
Yeah poor son
Kid what 💀💀
@@CHIEF.42?
@@DustyHoney nah they just said that the kid is traumatized by this. who tf wouldn't
@@DustyHoney im not sure how you put that together but im pretty sure thats not what the guy is saying
I hope the kids are OK, and if there's justice to be served, it is.
There's obviously justice that needs to be served
Lol 😂
I would be concerned if the kids are ok after what they've been through, but hopefully they do eventually become ok
I appreciate you blurring the child's face
Agreed
yea but it's one of the worst blurs I have seen bc I can still make out their faces
@@AutieZoso? You can only make out the main features, you won’t be able to recognise him just by the face if you put him with a bunch of other kids.
@@AutieZo*WITH
@@sonicultimateyt1090 wdym "with*"?
It could just be grief, but if she has some proof, I hope the guy is brought to justice.
Kid what 💀💀Kid what 💀💀Kid what 💀💀
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@@CHIEF.42
Bro the dude was also in the bathroom with her and were on the floor, it’s extremely possible that she was killed by him
exactly what i thought@@cheetahjammerplaysaj591
@@cheetahjammerplaysaj591 that's not the only possibility, so let's not jump to conclusions
I’ve seen quite few people defending this guy saying “she was toxic” or “she deserved it”
Some people really are messed up in the head, especially the incels trying to defend what seems to be murder.
Edit: when I said the people defending him are messed up in the head, I meant the people who believe he killed her and supported it.
I do believe in a fair trial though.
There is no proof. And nobody is defending him you twat. She could have killed herself from stress
I'll defend the guy saying he deserves a fair trial. But attacking someone who is a victim of either suicide or homicide is horrid.
@@cryochick9044w opinion
There are a lot of people whose anti feminist out there, they basically always take the men side instead of the women even if they are oblivious guilty or not, it’s a weird world we live in
@@cryochick9044agreed w opinion
No one and i mean no one unalives themselves with a bag over the head. The instinct to breathe is too strong, you would remove the bag to breathe even if you don't want to. That's why unalivings are done in ways that are either quick or irreversible, ways that prevents you from following your instincts.
Exactly what I was thinking
Google “suicide bag”
Actually, that is false. Some people have starved themselves to death. I mean it's still likely the husband did it but it's not impossible that the woman did it
You underestimate the determination of desperate people.
@@blankspace2483 yea but it takes a lot of willpower. u cant just starve urself
No child should ever go through what this boy went through.
fr
As someone who was in a very dark place MANY times in my life who's thoroughly researched how to unalive yourself, that bag situation is extremely suspicious. People USUALLY don't want to suffer, they just want it to end quickly and painlessly. Using a bag? Thats a bad way to go, a slow way.
Sedative overdose and a firearm are the two most painless ways. Any other way creates pain or an overwhelming sense of fear.
Some people even do it for pleasure, so anything is possible
@@pulsar9354people who do it for pleasure are different from people who don't want to feel anymore
Glad to know you’re doing better now ❤
Not always the "painless death" option if you get into a heated argument.
This is so tragic... I wish the best for her son, this didn't deserve to happen.
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Kid what 💀💀
@@CHIEF.42What?
Yea
Fr, :'(
@Jebediah.Gregorson what 2023 humour does to a mf
Rest in Peace April.
Based on the evidence we have and the timeline of events, i think it's very likely the husband is guilty of this. I really feel bad for April and the son, poor kid really went through a lot in the past few days
What evidence ?
There's no evidence that's the problem
There's no evidence everything is he said she said
Unfortunately simple minded, selfish, one sided, single brain cell thinkers don't think kids are capable of having their own opinions nor capable of being witnesses. In other words dimwitted ppl think there is no evidence.
@@akon360 they’d have to put the divorce as a reason sons witness statement pretty much
I’d say when speaking on ppls character can be evidence
How on earth does someone commit suicide with a bag over her own head? Smh
It’s not shocking, we don’t even know if she killed herself,
@@Mitski_MARINAenjoyer it's not shocking? do you have a brain? Not possible is the answer. Think!
It is possible, but unlikely. If she had a belt around her neck holding the bag in place, or tape, I could see that. But a guy starved to death as a form of suicide and had a diary of it all, took a long time. So people can will suicides and go against instincts. Also, if someone tried to kill me by putting a bag over my head, I’d cut a hole in the bag with my nails… bags are not hard to cut, unless her hands were also bound or something. So for me, both ways of death seem pretty weird.
By suffocation, dummy. How does someone commit suicide with a rope around their neck
Well there are probably more details about what went down that just haven’t been released to the public yet
she was given the gag order because one is not suppose to talk about ongoing investigations due to issues like pressure and such. if you hurry those things up, then you might have a mess. another thing is we don't know if this is what the kid thinks really or if he was coached. it is a very tense situation that we should stay out of and let things take their course. pray for the child.
That's what i was thinking.
Yeh for real. Either option it's sad and fucked up for that poor kid
great objective view
but like i'd be absolutely fuming if i was given a gag order in my daughter's case so
@@user-ju2xj8re7i Valid, but you still need to acknowledge the risks you're putting on people. Like they said, there's a reason why you're in a gag order.
this is just sad. rest in piece.
Bro
@@CHIEF.42I think he didn't mean to type that Don't overeact
rest in pieces?
*peace
Rest in pepperoni.
JEEZ THE POOR CHILD, I FEEL SO BAD-...
I'm hoping the grandmother isn't trying to push her thoughts on to the grandson 🙏🏿
Certainly sounded like that may be a real possibility.
Who put the bag over her head??
The guy did not want the divorce, so he snapped no other suspects.
@@jameswatson5807 Guilty until proven otherwise
HEY HEY DONT GET TRIGGERED, HEAR ME OUT.
Inquisitore3, Kwite/Kwote, Pyrocynical, ProJames, you know how it turned out they were innocent after they got doxxed, sent death threats, all the stuff? Yeah, people were mad cus they werent guilty, I recommend to not take sides until the trial and/or investigation is over
@@jameswatson5807 well there is april
Whenever I see a "She/He's gone" on this channel, it breaks my heart
I noticed a few people calling her toxic and that she had it coming. These kinds of people are sick. Even if she was toxic that is not an excuse for potential homicide though i do think the guy deserves a fair trial and i hope we get updates on this case
I hope everything gets solved. I can't imagine what that kid is going through. Stay strong little man.
Yo, I literally refreshed and got on, I didn't even have notifications. Talk about timing
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Rest in peace April, and my condolences to her family. 😔
kids can be influenced. With grandmother openly saying what she says, no wonder kids think what he thinks. Police should do this, not public opinion.
Exactly. Kids 7 so maybe the Aunt is influencing his thoughts.
@@jibanyanawesome8577*grandma. And also maybe shes not?
@@completelynormalperson7077 Maybe maybe not. Until the morgue says what the injuries are we can only speculate.
So the women isn't entitled to her opinion? Okay, I thought you Rethuglicans were all about "MUH FREEDUMBS".
@@joshstephens413did you say this to me? I am not republican or the other one, I am from Serbia, Europe.
My heart is breaking for the son and grandmother.
I don't watch the news I just watch ray's daily uploads😂
Lolllll
To relatable
why are we just seeking justice on social media??? Case 63 situation coming to life!
What's Case 63?
hmm wat dat
@alonelybunny1824 it's a podcast that talks about a lot of criminal cases, at least according to what google says lol.
I feel so bad for the son
I mean my gut reaction is that the dad did it. But the question is when the kid did his tiktok, who was driving the car? Cause it definitely wasn't the kids dad. And if it was the kids grandma there are some pretty serious implications. It's entirely possible that he was coached to say everything that he did and none of it is real
real big reach
@@sketchiefello9002how is that a big reach? What he said makes sense.
@@sketchiefello9002not rlly
Also kid didnt have a tiktok till after Grandma was involved
My feelings to
Breaks my heart when kids are involved in messed up stuff.
Please make a part 2 when an updated comes up 🙏🏽
the shoutout to the city was very emotional.
Rest in peace, I feel so bad for the son
I think there should be a therapy system for cases like this because this kid has gone through a lot and is holding up well, when I was younger and had trauma not even close to this, I'd be in tears at the thought of said trauma. 😢
Whenever i see a videpo by Ray with "he/she is gone" in the titlemy heart sinks.
You can not unalive yourself like that! Even if you wanted to die,your flight or fight would kick in!!
The kid was looking under the door so the dad probably didn’t know he saw anything.
As someone who’s tried and failed to commit, that has and never will be a method for me. It’s too painful
Rest is peace to this poor woman. I hopes those poor kids are going to be ok 😢
Ok, if the dad DID off her, he's messed the hell up to have his son go check the body.
Why i think hes innocent
@@TheBathulk10 i think he is guilty
@@orcasrock with what evidence
Child was coached either way regardless of the outcome and he never said anything making the dad look worse than most guys in a relationship but I will say the bag over the head part and the rest makes it suspicious.
For sure, child was coached. Look at 1:44, father likely isn’t driving, grandma probably is. Bet he was told what to say.
I like her mom’s tenacity. I hope she gets justice for her and I hope the son is able to heal
This is really sad
I love to watch ray's uploads...❤
Poor kid... 😢
Do I feel a "Life Insurance Dance" coming on?
There needs to be updates on this case.
Rest in peace, April. You didn’t deserve this. ❤
Hey Ray love your videos
Love the stories you are making!❤
I love watching so much drama unroll
Its amazing how tiktok is the place everyone goes with any issues
social media has power if you doubt, look at what is going on in the mid east, and the support from social media.
I mean TikTok has solved SOME problems……
ita disgusting how this is happening. especially close to me.
1:17 I almost burst out laughing when I paused it
Instinct would make you remove the bag. As someone with mental illness that is never a way someone with mental illness would want to go out, suffocation takes a long time and is extremely painful. It was 100% the husband. That poor kid has been through so much….
May that girl rest in peace... And I pray for their kid.
I love this channel ❤
Thank you for briefly covering this case. It is not getting the coverage it needs
Sometimes not every parent deserves a child
i feel bad for both of the kids, especially the son. they didn’t deserve this at all.
rest in peace april :(
Huge respect for ray to blur the kids face
we akk love ray a man who tells us what not to do and wthat to do lovley
Im not crying u are😭
rest in peace
Interesting case. The autopsy will probably show if there was some struggle involved. I am a believer when it comes to innocent until proven guilty, so we wait.
Grandma is risking a mistrial if rhe father is fuilty
Love your vids ray!
I life close to here.
Love from Kentucky Lesley and medical service dog Jake
So this is one of two options.
1. He put the bag on her head and made his son find her which is absolutely horrifying that someone would do that to their son.
2. She did it to herself and the father was still angry so he sent his son to see what is taking her so long to get out of the bathroom.
I do hope it's option 2 because the 1 option is horrifying.
2 doesnt make sense at all
The bag will take a long time to actuall kill you as the human body fights for survival
The urge to breath is far too strong for any normal person
I don't believe in option 2
@@oumryeternity7871there’s no option 2
poor kid, rest in peace april
I need part 2 😢
ray, i love you as my daily news-reporter…but PLEASE we need updates to all these stors! ❤
Absolutely devastating for that kid to put through the ringer like this 😢
Its crazy how one day someone can decide to unalive you. Prayers going out to the son and Grandma ❤
i feel so incredibly sad for that kid 💔
These things take time. She will get her justice.
No one talking about what the kid witnessed? Also who unalives themselves with a bag?
Ray, I love banana and your videos
I'm calling it now. The husband didn't do 💩. 🤷♂️😂😂😂
Hope they receive justice.
This is heavy
The question is who's car was the kid in when he made that tiktok because there was someone else in the car with him considering it was moving
Look at the vantiy mirror. Butterfies. Ynlikely rhats the father driving
that poor kid ☹️
he deserves better
Best thing is to wait for the autopsy results.
I feel so bad for the kid, what a brave kid tho..
Jamie is the definition of “Malicious compliance”
that kid is coached as hell 😭
i feel like u guys always look clean and pretty
I think the cops know he is guilty but they have to follow the due process so the case sticks.
The bag might have fingerprints on it.
Of course it does! He’s not going to get away with it.
Shout out to Nashville!
PD/SU: She’s gone.
WD: What did you say!
PD/SU: She’s GGGGGGGOOOOOOONNNNNNEEEEEEEE!!
Its surprising they havent arrested the husband yet
@@farewell418 🤓🤓🤓WeLl aCTUalY
Pretty clear the husband did it. This is disgusting
And they are still saying that the woman was at fault..
@@Debobos-px3rk bruh.... Sick world
I hope this family gets justice
Bro I live in Nashville 💀 I thought I was safe from being Called out 😭