She is so delusional, unprofessional, and entitled. I feel sorry for the bride and groom their special day was ruined by her trashy behavior and entitlement.
And showed the faces of the couple getting married while saying they’re the ones in the story, I don’t care if she wasn’t showing their faces and saying “here’s the people who did it, be mean to them” I fully believe that’s what she intended to happen. You don’t point out the people who were “mean” to you to a large audience if you don’t want them getting confronted in some way
Do you know how difficult it is to even speak to the bride & groom at a wedding as a guest? You usually get a couple of minutes at best. How was she speaking to them multiple times, plus the mother of the bride, & why would they feel the need to constantly reassure her that she should stay? There’s so much she’s leaving out, I guarantee you.
I wonder if they actually were telling her to stay or just stopping at “you’re so fun!” because what wedding guest is inviting other people to someone else’s wedding outside of a plus one????
@@SPMunny The guest was probably drunk or like a sister that was just saying it for the sake of it. Like saying "omg we would totally meet up sometime!!"when you have no intention of following through despite the fun you may it may not be having at the moment.
Going to someone else’s wedding, being paid to work for them, and hijacking everyone’s happiness to throw yourself a pity party? Nope. Nope. She’s lucky all she got was kicked out.
Right? Like if you need to distract yourself and be surrounded by happy people go out to a bar or invite your friends over not gatecrash stranger's weddings. That couple now have the memory of their special day tainted by that crazy woman smh
I’m sorry about your cat ❤ as a MUA how long on average would you be expected normally to stay once you’ve done your job? Do you ever have to stay for any touch ups for the photographs after the ceremony?
@@littlemy1773 depends on the job. Sometimes you are done right after application. I've stayed for touchups after photos (which were before the ceremony) and I've come back to do a look change a few hours later. For ALL of this, I get paid for my time and leave when I'm done.
Groom wasn't that rude, some random vendor who was supposed to be GONE hours ago harassing him to film TikToks on HIS wedding day? Like, bye. Also no one asked her to do all of this nonsense. Her being at the back of the aisle probably showing up in photos, so inappropriate. And the poor bride having to console this vendor...nonsense. He shouldn't have cussed but I would have sent a bridesmaid over to kindly ask her to GTFO hours before that. Crazy.
I'm so mad people (mostly women really) are trying to justify her actions by going "it's the BRIDE'S DAY" no no no. It's BOTH the groom AND the bride. Hello? Like. Dang
It's a long, and at times, stressful day for both the bride and the groom. I just think he hit a breaking point and lashed out. Was it a little harsh - absolutely. But I can't imagine someone continuing to stick a phone in my face recording me when I am trying to enjoy my wedding. I mean she was just constantly kind of shadowing them. I'm someone who would try to be polite but as some point you are just like enough. Clearly this lady could not take a hint that she was overstepping.
@@aprilswan909 I found out that the moment she interrupted is a very important part of Jewish weddings (the husband was jewish). Given that she was stepping on a culturally significant moment, I don't think his reaction was harsh at all.
i've also felt kinda weird that this woman keeps calling her clients 'my bride/brides' like she's trying to add another layer of connectivity to these people. they're ur clients. they paid u to be there. they're not 'ur brides'
Yes I thought that wording came across as posessive and like she views herself as connected yet above them. Like no, she was just the make up and hair for the brides and her party. I know its from her perspective but the way she discuss it does make her sound very self absorbed and only concentrating on how others affect her, not how she both affects others and the entire event which is an enormouse milstones in their lives! Sure she got cheated on but to her this is just one of 500 hair and make up jobs, this is a once in a lifetime even for everyone else involved and she doesn't seem to realize, or care, unless it directly personally affects her.
@@NotAnotherKuromi"the way she discuss it does make her sound very self absorbed and only concentrating on how others affect her, not how she both affects others" Very true, tbh there are so many people like this these days. They only think about how things affect them and never think about how their actions or words affect others. When they're confronted about it they brush it off like it doesn't really matter, their feelings matter more. But let them get upset and you'll hear about it for days! It's exhausting and draining being around people like that.
See what really gets me upset that no one is really talking about, is that these brides she did this to...they'll _never_ get this day back. Every time they think about it, every time they see those photos....that MUA will just invertedly pop up and ruin that memory. How awful. This is why you need a Shadow to your Amy. You need that one friend who will absolutely not have a problem being upfront with people if you're the type to worry about hurting others' feelings.
me and my friends have agreed to be A Bitch at each other's weddings to anyone who oversteps like this. I'm surprised none of her friends, family, or bridesmaids said anything
My in-laws invited a friend that had been a wedding coordinator. She decided to step in and destroy so many things about my wedding like making my bouquet all white roses(I saved money by making our own bouquets and I did the centerpieces which honestly was my happy thing so wasn’t driven as much by money as my creativity), screaming at my bridesmaids until they cried, and the biggest holy moly this is unacceptable due to my family dynamics making a bride’s and groom’s family tables. I understand it is different than paying someone to do a service and having them ruin your wedding but I paid for a guest to ruin my wedding. I got over her stealing my happiness of making my own bouquet while I did the centerpieces(using the flowers I don’t like and skipping my favorite flower)but the cluster F of ugliness from the brides family table thing(plus making the bridesmaids cry)was unforgivable. The pics that hurt me 23 yrs later since the photographer wisely stayed away from the family drama since my dad warned him and he was a family friend was the wedding party pics with my bouquet that I despised because it didn’t represent what I wanted at all and was one of the few things I thought I could make happen for myself. I didn’t expect my wedding to be the best day of my life but I did expect to celebrate the things I was looking forward to.
Amen EXACTLY. That is as 1x in a lifetime as it gets you’ll never be able to redo that day. it’s SO fckng sick she makes it all about her and I know she sees these comments so quit the sick fck behavior trying to steal these brides light and joy on THEIR BIG DAY. How dare she. Shame on you
She got carried away having fun with these people and thought they were her friends instead of a client. Now she's full of self pity and crying that she "feels like she has no place in the wedding industry" 😮 This is really embarrassing for her and not professional behavior. I don't think you were being too harsh on the situation. 😊
It's so awful. I get the feeling that this mua is probably a very funny and a good person but she just doesn't have the ability to separate the business side from having fun and vibing. And after all that she has failed to see the point that everyone else sees. It's sad that this day was ruined for the couple, for the mua it's just another wedding but for the couple it's supposed to be their special day, one of the best day of their lives. And the mua is just all about her, like c'mon nothing about this day was about you, you were supposed to be behind the scenes doing the makeup. I feel like maybe she should change her profession or at least stop doing weddings if she can't separate herself from the wedding. I feel bad for everyone even for the mua but I would have loved to see her realize the whole picture instead of kinda making everything about her. She's the type of person to be friends with everyone and super social butterfly but you can't bring that to someone else's special day, keep that for your friends not for your clients. And one thing I don't like at all is her bringing up race, that was the last reason for you being asked to leave. I hate that people are trying to use race to justify things or get people to their defense, don't do that if the issue at hand has nothing to do with it.
Him cursing at her seemed a little mean until I read she didn’t just interrupt a ‘moment’ in the bridal suite, she interrupted Yichud….. playing the victim while disrespecting someone’s religion is wild
If you don't mind me asking, what is Yichud? Also I wouldn't care if she was interrupting my sneeze, I'd still be pissed 😂 Like girl, you are NOT a guest, go home!
@@wigglemelon8807Yichud is the finalization step of a Jewish marriage ceremony! There are a few major parts of a Jewish wedding after the betrothal (kiddushin). They are: the signing of the ketubah (marriage contract), the exchange of something of value (usually rings) in front of witnesses, and then Yichud (seclusion of the couple). So after the chuppah ceremony (with the rings!), the couple then enters Yichud (literally enters "seclusion") together in a room. Being alone in a room together symbolizes the completion of the wedding ceremony and that they are fully religiously married. The three major steps are based on Jewish religious texts written down around 500 CE that came from even earlier oral traditions. Basically in the ancient Jewish world a man was married to a woman if he had a) a contract with witnesses, b) exchanged something of value with her and she accepted and c) they cohabitated (that is, they could be alone together and consummate the marriage). Yichud is like...symbolically the last part. People don't actually have sex during Yichud (it's not a long time!) it's just emphasizing that the couple is religiously and legally together as a married couple. Depending on the couple and what customs of the wedding they observed, the time spent on Yichud (which isn't very long typically) can be like...breaking a fast/eating snacks, exchanging some private words, the groom may give the bride jewelry to wear or put back on, and so on.
@@wigglemelon8807traditionally, yichud is the first time the bride and groom are alone together. That uninterrupted alone time is an essential step of the Jewish wedding process
@@wigglemelon8807 I’m not Jewish, just quoting a Jewish creator, but it’s part of the wedding where the couple get their first few minutes of being completely alone together. It’s supposed to be about reflection and gratitude for the day where they take time to prepare for the rest of the ceremony
No fr she’s like “people in this industry can’t handle how bright my light shines” meanwhile she’s having the bride console her after the groom told her to leave💀 the light is a shadow at this point
The audacity, the delusion. THE CRINGE. Once the reception was in progress, she should've been gone. The professionalism was non-existent. Crying multiple times? ❌Being in their wedding videos? ❌The dancing / "my fiance" tiktok ❌. Her confronting the bride AFTER being told to leave by the assistant wedding planner? ❌. EMBARRASSING.
The groom wasn't wrong. Clearly everyone around him was overstepping his feelings and he snapped with what he really meant. And then his newly wed wife steps on his feelings again with that damage control. I don't blame him.
There’s a possibility the bride actually told him that she wasn’t a fan of the situation but there was no way to make her leave without causing a scene.
She clearly didn't overstep, he probably stepped in FOR her. She is clearly not confrontational and when he did it she probably immediately felt bad, idk why are u painting her to be the bad guy
I 100% believe that it was her intention to humiliate the bride cause her emotions were running high. She thought people were going to be on her side and when they weren’t, that’s when she checked herself. I’m glad it didn’t go the other way and she got to learn something, hopefully.
now i never would have overstayed at a wedding as a MUA but if i did and was kicked out, i would have taken that to the grave. especially since the couple are not on social media 😭😭😭
I truly believe she posted it BECAUSE they're off social media, so she had free range to tell the story however she pleased without someone coming for her. She just didn't think it would backfire because of the rest of the world's common sense.
@@AleiaBreaks Yep people sometimes are so sure that they are right and they just need to post stuff because they want people to agree with them and validate their position. But quite often they find out that the opposite is true.
The absolute rage I felt seeing her in the back of the first look I’d be so mad she was in my video if I was the bride not to mention her then standing in the middle of them!!!! While they’re trying to celebrate and hype up their friend!!!!
The craziest part is that she didn’t have to tell us all of this. Like, none of us would know she had been kicked out of a wedding if SHE didn’t tell us every single detail about it! She’s so worried about her reputation and keeps stressing how much of a professional she is, but a professional would have kept that crying video in the drafts and then left it at that. It is beYOND unprofessional that she posted the crying video to the BUSINESS tiktok account!
That part that really frustrates me is how she acts like they intentionally embarrassed her for no reason. She embarrassed herself. She felt entitled to act like a guest rather than a paid vendor
The MUA seems to really be stretching the understanding of being able to post content. Post makeup before and afters? Yes. Post bride and groom walking down the aisle? No. Also you're killing me with the saying 'I get human emotions.' That was just too funny.
Yes content of how the hair and makeup look. If people are looking to hire her that is what they are concerned about. Not seeing the rest of a person's wedding that they don't know.
A whole lotta "I's" talking about someone else's wedding... Sweetie you arent the main character here. Its not your day. You made it about yourself so of course the couple is going to kick you out.
The bride having to comfort and reassure her makeup artist that she’s bringing good vibes is so inappropriate cause all of the vendors at a wedding are there to facilitate what the couple wants at their wedding like in what world should the bride be comforting any of the vendors throughout THE WHOLE WEDDING???
how absolutely egotistical do you have to be to ruin someones wedding to the point that they kick you out and THEN have the gall to say "my light shines so bright"...babes thats something other people are supposed to say about you.
What’s also absolutely awful is the MUA posted the videos and images of the bride and groom overlaid to her complaining about being removed from the wedding. Like, she ruined their day. She put their faces out there while trying to put them on blast as racist and rude to her. This is absolutely wild that he had to say anything to her to begin with, but to still post it after being told “no, you need to leave” is absolutely wild.
These business owners need to understand they can't just act any kind of way. Just because you are "self made" doesn't mean you can act any differently than you would working under an actual company
maybe im mean but i have noo sympathy for her. you’re at your job and acted completely inappropriately then tried to change the perspective when *no one* was talking about it. weirdo behavior
no you’re not. the person that’s in the wrong is her and her only, she’s the problem and is incredibly selfish. The ones I have sympathy for is the pushover bride that the MUA took advantage of.
As a photographer, I do weddings on occasions. Her whole speech about "I did nothing wrong to nobody" is very delusional but also, I'm PRETTY SURE she was in the way of the photographer ALL DAY!! I would've been so mad if I was the photographer at this wedding!! I cannot imagine how the bridal party would've felt with an overbearing someone taking so much space for stupids tiktoks (plus her footage of the "I was recording things the photographer and videographer missed" is horrendous, I'm sorry) but I can put myself in the photographer shoes and my blood boil. Do your job, and go. That's what I do, that's what a videographer do, I also have a friend who is an MUA and that's what she do too! It's a different story if you are actually friend with the bride and the groom but that's not the case here.
As a doormat person myself, I get the groom a lot. Because he was feeling pressure of the wedding, and then his bride probably also telling him how this woman wasn't getting her hints. He finally just snapped. While most of us won't stand up for ourselves, we tend to stand up for people we love. And he had to watch his bride try to fight alone, and he just grew tired of it. And when people can't take hints, you have to be harsh. Was cussing going far? Not really, some people won't leave until you're beyond rude to the point they don't want to stay.
Also the mua interrupted the yichud it's a Jewish tradition so no wonder he was so angry (it's alone time after being married but it's part of the process it's meant to be completely uninterrupted)
I just hope the MUA isn’t in the background of ALL her wedding pictures…which is most likely wishful thinking…this whole situation is insane, that poor bride 😭
Work is work I’m sorry, but you gotta pull it together. I think the husband had every right kicking out a vendor that had long overstayed their welcome and need to be present
It seems like a lot of drama recently has to do with weddings 🤨 Also, I know her loosing the grooms lighter doesn’t seem that important or that big an issue, but everything small on a regular day is giant on a wedding day, the fact that he had to find it/ he found it is not a good excuse, you put extra pressure on someone (one of the most important someone’s) to do something extra
@@jaxarii4858 I meant how much drama, I know that weddings are normally summer events, but good point, the drama for them just seems unusually high/intense
@@ivy2774 wow, even worse, how can she claim to have done thousands of weddings and then mess up one of the biggest rules, don’t mess with the bride or GROOM, talk about being oblivious to the situation
I love how she’s like “everybody was feeding off my energy, everybody loved me”, meanwhile the bridal and groom parties were probably like ‘oh my god, why won’t she LEAVE?????’ after she kept pestering them for content. There’s not reading socual cues (which as an autistic person, I struggle with) and then there’s being absolutely delusional, which I think this lady is
The groom was not at all out of line or rude. She went from a vendor to a wedding crasher. Why in the world would anyone cater to a wedding crasher? I don’t believe she was at all a reliable narrator about the events so my bet is she was asked to leave nicely more than once.
I find it strange how much culture acts like a wedding is just the bride's. Like its just as much about the groom. The way ths MUA walked back in like the bride wants me there, fuck him really makes it seems like she thinks the groom doesn't matter in the equation.
the moment she said the bride was consoling her it was completely over for me. you can’t go back from there. no bride should be having to do emotional labor for others on HER wedding day
There’s photos of her doing this at other weddings, taking pics with the brides and bridesmaids and centering herself so it’s not that the breakup brought out a new side of her 🤦🏾♀️ she’s always been too comfortable at weddings
This woman made her own client's wedding about herself and her needs. Imo she was trying to run away from her own hurt feelings by focusing all her energy on work. She made her coping everyone else's problem.
Also her saying they wanted her to stay. Did they say "hey we really want you to stay please stay" or was it more like shes asked if its fine for her to stay and they said no problem, its fine for you to stay.... I'm thinking it's the latter 🤔
One of the bridesmaids has spoken out and it doesn't sound like things happened the way the MUA perceived them. The bride was not begging her to stay but was trying to be nice while still getting her to leave. The MUA was not reading the social cues well and I would like to give her the benifit of the doubt and say it was due to the trama she was going through in her personal life but posting all this on line is the unprofessional cherry on the top of an already horrible showing on her part.
@@jennyjenkins06 Do you have a link? That totally confirms what I suspected. IMO you can already see in her video--the moment when the bridesmaids turn around and see the bride, and the bridesmaids are all kind of tearful and celebrating--that the 'maids are getting annoyed by her; one actually kind of gives her a look and then moves away from her, and the others turn their backs.
Also, when people are so much into social media I feel they cannoy grasp how much of a bother selfies, tiktoks and so on can be for the rest of us that do not live for social media. Obs I do so agree with you about all the overstepping. I am usually the blunt friend
After following this story for the past week, I get the impression that she usually imposes on her clients but, this was the first time someone spoke up and told her No and let her know how annoying she is. She strikes me as someone who does not take rejection well at all, in addition to not sensing social cues, very self absorbed.
This answers a question I had. I'm about halfway through the video, and the whole time I've been thinking, is this, like, anomalous behavior for the MUA? Or is this just the first time the behavior has been so publicly visible?
@@owl.feathersanother vendor spoke up about her acting the same way at a wedding the day before. Also, people noticed a picture on her wall where she’s just posing in the middle of a bridal party.
@@dotcom3015 Right, I have since heard/seen that stuff too. But the wedding the day before was also post-breakup for the MUA, so I think it's fair to put it on the same "pile" as the Sept 7 wedding. And that picture was definitely weird, but there are potential explanations for it outside of her just wanting to be the center of attention. Her reviews on Google are really good too (although afaik that sort of thing can be manipulated). But at the same time, I have a hard time believing that someone who acts this way at all doesn't have a history of boundary-pushing. So the conclusion I've kinda settled on is that she always pushed boundaries a bit, but the behavior got dialed up to 11 because she was emotional from the breakup. P.S. idk if it's actually been stated that she and the bf broke up, I'm just assuming they did because he cheated on her
How do you work 500 weddings and with a straight face try to make yourself the victim in a story like this? She had already overstepped filming her “content” and then disrespectfully plastered this wedding party all throughout her bogus story time. & almost certainly before any of the PROFESSIONAL images/videos were even released to the couple. Hopefully the bride and groom forget her over involvement in the memory of their special day because Lord knows Miss Key Looks tried her damndest to make it about her.
Imagine being the bride and groom and having all your photos and videos have her in the background and constantly being reminded that she hijacked and almost ruined your day. She’s tainted everything for their special day now.
for my quince my makeup lady has talked the ENTIRE time and even ended up running late because she was singing!! 😭😭 i’ve never been more over stimulated, i cannot fathom this situation
people that emphasize how good they are always end up being the absolute opposite… it’s been known that if u have to constantly say you’re such a good person, you are not. we are not that dumb pls
Yep. I learned in my teens that when someone says something like, "But that's just how I am, I care so much about people," they're really telling you that they don't GAS about anyone but themselves. They just don't want you to know that.
“I went above and beyond.” NO ONE ASKED YOU TO. Like why are you literally doing stuff that is outside of your contract? Like one small here and there, fine. But why are you staying for HOURS after when you were supposed to leave, doing stuff that is not in your contract? And to put the couple in a position where they feel they have to tell you to gtfo because you aren’t leaving and are being messy is criminal.
32:26 Right before him telling her "You're getting on my f*ing nerves," she interrupted them in the bridal suite. The couple being alone together in the suite was ceremonial for a Jewish wedding. The whole point is to be alone and *uninterrupted*. She ruined it. I don't care if he was rude and cursed at her. They don't owe her endless respect or endless good manners, after everything she did.
I got married in 2022 and would've lost my absolute shit, if someone that I paid for a single thing, stuck around, filmed everything and everyone, made their way in every photo and guilt tripped my husband, friends, family with their problems on OUR wedding day. My husband works in IT security. He does not want his face to be on the Internet via tiktok, Instagram, whatever. I just have a feeling she would not accept that. She walks and talks around like she was the videographer, NOT the damn Stylist. What are you still doing at that wedding?? Ma'am, where is your professionalism 😭 no one asked you to be there until your feet hurt
For my cousin's wedding, one of our cousins' did our hair, and another cousin's gf did our makeup. Even though they were literally family, they still had to go back home and dress up there? Sure. They could dress with us the bridesmaids and such, but they weren't invited. This woman isn't even a friend and acts like this? Professionalism found dead in a ditch.
My boyfriend's sister got married 3 years into us dating. She and her bridesmaids got ready at her their parent's house. Since I was staying at the house after the wedding I got myself ready there as well. As much as she was nice to ask me if I wanted the makeup artist to do my makeup and get ready with them, I said no thanks and did my own makeup. And I didn't want to add my makeup up last minute onto the makeup artist. I still hung out with them a little bit, but I didn't squeeze myself into the group. This is someone who has known all her bridesmaids since they were in elementary school. And yes, I'm dating her brother, but I'm not in the bridal party of her wedding. Just let people have their moment
I just HAVE to voice my thoughts about how ANGRY it makes me that she was eating the food and stuff (if she was not included im catering costs) bc omg i got married last year and catering is INSANE per person. Food and drinks that should be for GUESTS and VENDORS that are paid for is going towards random mua inviting herself in . Havent seen too many ppl talk about this but its literally AT A MINIMUM $100 per person for food and like $50 per person for drinks at the LEAST. Omg. And yeah i was WAY too exhausted and hot to do some of the photography shots i wanted and it didnt happen and thats okay, this whole situation wouldve been so stressful on that poor bride :(
The crazy thing is that she acts like no vendors are going through things themselves… like ever? For example: I shot my divorce lawyers wedding. My ex husband was having an affair with my mother. He (and she) had taken my kids and I was 20 days (which they could do since we did not have a custody agreement yet as he hadn’t spent more than an hour a week with them for 10 months prior) of 40 total days that I was unable to see, hear or find my kids and serve him with emergency court papers for their return. And I STILL didn’t make it anyone’s business at that wedding. She is just unprofessional. Plain and so so so simple.
Girl made probably a once in a lifetime memory/event all about herself. This is crazy. Crying and doing things no one asked her to do. The bride was tooooo nice. Also using the footage to make a TikTok pity story for validation….💀
Lord, even just seeing all of her tiktoks during the wedding made me feel overstimulated af. I can't believe that there are genuinely people out there that have trouble reading the room
The mother of the bride having to console and encourage the hair and make up person is ridiculus and I don't know why she said it like it was a good thing? Instead of being relaxed and concentrating on being happy for her daughter, she had to hype up this crying person doing their hair and make up. Maybe the mother was desperately trying to cheer her up so she would stop bringing the vibe down so much, only happy tears should be at a wedding!
Her problem is she was more focused on creating content (an advertisement basically) than the couple's feelings and wedding. She's made so many tiktoks of her apologies because they also are advertising. I hope she learns from this, as her company and team are clearly very good at what they do.
It's the inflated sense of self that is getting me. Some people think that they are the most important thing in the entire world. This was her wedding. Not anything to do with you.
Same vibes as when your friend starts a story with " you know i am alaways so calm and reasonable l" and you know its aboutbto be the most unhinged shit
She has “27 Dresses Syndrome” I swear. She just wants to be Katherine Heigl, going over the top, doing everything for these brides and expecting mountains of praise, endless gratitude, and “I couldn’t have done this without you”. It’s great that you’re passionate, but know when enough is enough, and enough is doing what you’re paid to do.
This felt like a comedy 😭 like I feel like they’ve made a movie like this before where someone gets into a wedding and then overstays and learns some kind of lesson.
You’re not being too harsh that’s how I feel too like who asked for all your baggage rn 😭 I’d feel mad awkward if I learned the makeup artist’s relationship is in shambles while I’m getting married I’d be like is this a sigh lol
This woman’s entire narration during this story is her patting herself on the back and slighting everyone else in the wedding party and the other people contracted to work this wedding. The passive aggressiveness is unreal.
41:36 i tried giving her the benefit of the doubt as long as possible. But when she pulled the bride aside to confront her AFTER being told to leave the second time. That is the point where I feel you no longer can say she still had good intentions.
She didn’t “give her all” for them, she did it for her. Everything she did was for selfish reasons to make herself feel good at the expense of these people who just hired her for a service so they could focus on their wedding, which is why she took it so personally when they didn’t want the unsolicited service 😭 and being so clueless and up yourself that you don’t think about how you’re ruining all of their videos by being in the background with your phone up… chile
Honestly I don’t even think the groom was that rude. It’s not the MUAs day she inserted herself so hard into their day and he’s very much not a social media person so he was probably feeling really uncomfortable the whole time.
I feel like saying she was "kicked out" is such an exaggeration on her part like ma'am you were supposed to be gone hours ago you aren't being paid for that time go home
someone made the comparison that the MUA/hairstylist role at wedding should be thought of like the same job for a broadway show. if you’re staying around (assuming you’ve ACTUALLY been serious asked to stay around - presumably for touch ups all night), you’re job is to STAY BACKSTAGE BEHIND THE CURTAIN.
A Wedding Day is about the BRIDE and the GROOM not the MAKEUP ARTIST! It's done, leave! Told nasty or not. She's been doing everyone's job when she didn't need to. 🤦♀
I hate how she keeps saying “*my* bride” especially after she left and came back because “my bride wants me there” as if she was some close friend or family member and not a literal stranger. That woman is not *your* bride. She’s not your anything. She hired you for a service you completed hours and hours prior.
As a (gemini) mua myself, this behaviour is unacceptable. You are there to work your hours and do the job you are paid for. You should support the bridal party DURING the time you are being PAID
I got to about 13 minutes before I started to get a tummy ache. This is painfully unaware of her. I've worked many weddings as a photog and you always have to be aware that you are an employee and not a guest.
Ok finished, this is so bad. If you are a person who has a "big personality" and also has a hard time reading social cues, you have to err on the side of caution. The Groom is clearly not vibing with you. Even if the bride LOVES you and actually desperately wants you to stay (which is so weird because she doesn't know you), you are causing friction between the bride and groom on thier wedding day. Having a big loud fun personality is awesome, it sounds like she's a great MUA and her work is beautiful, but a wedding is not about the makeup, and you as an employee should not become such a big feature of someone's wedding (good or bad) that you overshadow what else is happening. Leave 'em wanting more!
To be honest, my first thought was: "So you're crying, making it hard to see. And you have chemicals that shouldn't go into people's eyes, yet you're making there be a greater chance of you accidentally stabbing a girl's eyes. Or messing with other chemicals that say you can't ingest them around their mouths..."
girl....if you're a professional makeup artist then you should know how to compartmentalize things and NOT have your personal feelings interfere with your job like this, i would actually be so upset if my makeup artist was crying the ENTIRE TIME that she was doing my makeup. she gave so much backstory to try and make these people look bad (personally i think that the groom was perfectly valid in how he responded) but she just ended up showing that she's unprofessional. she's talking about how she "didn't do anything to anyone" but she was belittling the videographer in her tiktoks, overstepping boundaries and doing other people's jobs, and acting like a nuisance because she wanted to film content, plus she lost something that didn't belong to her. she's annoying and i really don't understand how she's made a career out of this. also, i feel like she's just lying about everyone telling her that she should stay lmao, they all know that she's providing them a service that she's being paid for, she wouldn't be asked to stay unless she was actually a friend.
I fear the issue is with her but also with this weird social media mindset that feelings are always valid. They aren’t. This was a perfect example of her feelings removing her from reality around her so much that it made her client feel she needed to accommodate her, despite not wanting to on an already stressful day.
Her walking down the aisle is CRAZY, her "chilling" with the groomsmen is CRAZY, her COMING BACK to the wedding is INSANE
The families should be commended for not calling security to drag her out of the aisle.
The bridesmaids and groomsmen were probably like ‘oh great, this bitch again’
The groomsman bit sounded so like pick me girl 😅
She is so delusional, unprofessional, and entitled.
I feel sorry for the bride and groom their special day was ruined by her trashy behavior and entitlement.
Not only did she essentially crash the wedding and pestered the bride, she tries to drag her online? That’s crazy…
And showed the faces of the couple getting married while saying they’re the ones in the story, I don’t care if she wasn’t showing their faces and saying “here’s the people who did it, be mean to them” I fully believe that’s what she intended to happen. You don’t point out the people who were “mean” to you to a large audience if you don’t want them getting confronted in some way
@@TheGoosebumpsGirlyou. She wanted to set the Internet against them, while they are on their honeymoon. She's diabolical
Do you know how difficult it is to even speak to the bride & groom at a wedding as a guest? You usually get a couple of minutes at best. How was she speaking to them multiple times, plus the mother of the bride, & why would they feel the need to constantly reassure her that she should stay? There’s so much she’s leaving out, I guarantee you.
I wonder if they actually were telling her to stay or just stopping at “you’re so fun!” because what wedding guest is inviting other people to someone else’s wedding outside of a plus one????
@@SPMunny The guest was probably drunk or like a sister that was just saying it for the sake of it. Like saying "omg we would totally meet up sometime!!"when you have no intention of following through despite the fun you may it may not be having at the moment.
Going to someone else’s wedding, being paid to work for them, and hijacking everyone’s happiness to throw yourself a pity party? Nope. Nope. She’s lucky all she got was kicked out.
Right? Like if you need to distract yourself and be surrounded by happy people go out to a bar or invite your friends over not gatecrash stranger's weddings. That couple now have the memory of their special day tainted by that crazy woman smh
I'm a makeup artist. My cat died the morning of a wedding. No one knew. I cried in my car after. Cause I'm a professional.
If someone was CRYING while doing my makeup I’d have to ask her to stop and find someone else cuz wtf
I don't know how long ago this happened, but I'm sorry about your cat.
@@cadburyyork5052 thank you. It was 7 years ago now but he was a sweet old boy
I’m sorry about your cat ❤ as a MUA how long on average would you be expected normally to stay once you’ve done your job? Do you ever have to stay for any touch ups for the photographs after the ceremony?
@@littlemy1773 depends on the job. Sometimes you are done right after application. I've stayed for touchups after photos (which were before the ceremony) and I've come back to do a look change a few hours later. For ALL of this, I get paid for my time and leave when I'm done.
Groom wasn't that rude, some random vendor who was supposed to be GONE hours ago harassing him to film TikToks on HIS wedding day? Like, bye. Also no one asked her to do all of this nonsense. Her being at the back of the aisle probably showing up in photos, so inappropriate. And the poor bride having to console this vendor...nonsense. He shouldn't have cussed but I would have sent a bridesmaid over to kindly ask her to GTFO hours before that. Crazy.
She probably made a big scene about leaving since no one wants her there. And that’s why the bride was “begging her to stay”
I'm so mad people (mostly women really) are trying to justify her actions by going "it's the BRIDE'S DAY" no no no. It's BOTH the groom AND the bride. Hello? Like.
Dang
It's a long, and at times, stressful day for both the bride and the groom. I just think he hit a breaking point and lashed out. Was it a little harsh - absolutely. But I can't imagine someone continuing to stick a phone in my face recording me when I am trying to enjoy my wedding. I mean she was just constantly kind of shadowing them. I'm someone who would try to be polite but as some point you are just like enough. Clearly this lady could not take a hint that she was overstepping.
@@aprilswan909 I found out that the moment she interrupted is a very important part of Jewish weddings (the husband was jewish). Given that she was stepping on a culturally significant moment, I don't think his reaction was harsh at all.
i've also felt kinda weird that this woman keeps calling her clients 'my bride/brides' like she's trying to add another layer of connectivity to these people. they're ur clients. they paid u to be there. they're not 'ur brides'
Yes I thought that wording came across as posessive and like she views herself as connected yet above them. Like no, she was just the make up and hair for the brides and her party.
I know its from her perspective but the way she discuss it does make her sound very self absorbed and only concentrating on how others affect her, not how she both affects others and the entire event which is an enormouse milstones in their lives! Sure she got cheated on but to her this is just one of 500 hair and make up jobs, this is a once in a lifetime even for everyone else involved and she doesn't seem to realize, or care, unless it directly personally affects her.
THAT part! exactly
@@NotAnotherKuromi"the way she discuss it does make her sound very self absorbed and only concentrating on how others affect her, not how she both affects others"
Very true, tbh there are so many people like this these days. They only think about how things affect them and never think about how their actions or words affect others. When they're confronted about it they brush it off like it doesn't really matter, their feelings matter more. But let them get upset and you'll hear about it for days! It's exhausting and draining being around people like that.
See what really gets me upset that no one is really talking about, is that these brides she did this to...they'll _never_ get this day back.
Every time they think about it, every time they see those photos....that MUA will just invertedly pop up and ruin that memory. How awful. This is why you need a Shadow to your Amy.
You need that one friend who will absolutely not have a problem being upfront with people if you're the type to worry about hurting others' feelings.
She literally is almost in every photo.
@AmethystEyes the one where she's NEXT TO THE BRIDE HERSELF??? nah she needs help. And someone ANYONE should've said NO
me and my friends have agreed to be A Bitch at each other's weddings to anyone who oversteps like this. I'm surprised none of her friends, family, or bridesmaids said anything
My in-laws invited a friend that had been a wedding coordinator. She decided to step in and destroy so many things about my wedding like making my bouquet all white roses(I saved money by making our own bouquets and I did the centerpieces which honestly was my happy thing so wasn’t driven as much by money as my creativity), screaming at my bridesmaids until they cried, and the biggest holy moly this is unacceptable due to my family dynamics making a bride’s and groom’s family tables. I understand it is different than paying someone to do a service and having them ruin your wedding but I paid for a guest to ruin my wedding. I got over her stealing my happiness of making my own bouquet while I did the centerpieces(using the flowers I don’t like and skipping my favorite flower)but the cluster F of ugliness from the brides family table thing(plus making the bridesmaids cry)was unforgivable. The pics that hurt me 23 yrs later since the photographer wisely stayed away from the family drama since my dad warned him and he was a family friend was the wedding party pics with my bouquet that I despised because it didn’t represent what I wanted at all and was one of the few things I thought I could make happen for myself. I didn’t expect my wedding to be the best day of my life but I did expect to celebrate the things I was looking forward to.
Amen EXACTLY. That is as 1x in a lifetime as it gets you’ll never be able to redo that day. it’s SO fckng sick she makes it all about her and I know she sees these comments so quit the sick fck behavior trying to steal these brides light and joy on THEIR BIG DAY. How dare she. Shame on you
She got carried away having fun with these people and thought they were her friends instead of a client. Now she's full of self pity and crying that she "feels like she has no place in the wedding industry" 😮
This is really embarrassing for her and not professional behavior. I don't think you were being too harsh on the situation. 😊
It's so awful. I get the feeling that this mua is probably a very funny and a good person but she just doesn't have the ability to separate the business side from having fun and vibing. And after all that she has failed to see the point that everyone else sees. It's sad that this day was ruined for the couple, for the mua it's just another wedding but for the couple it's supposed to be their special day, one of the best day of their lives. And the mua is just all about her, like c'mon nothing about this day was about you, you were supposed to be behind the scenes doing the makeup. I feel like maybe she should change her profession or at least stop doing weddings if she can't separate herself from the wedding. I feel bad for everyone even for the mua but I would have loved to see her realize the whole picture instead of kinda making everything about her. She's the type of person to be friends with everyone and super social butterfly but you can't bring that to someone else's special day, keep that for your friends not for your clients. And one thing I don't like at all is her bringing up race, that was the last reason for you being asked to leave. I hate that people are trying to use race to justify things or get people to their defense, don't do that if the issue at hand has nothing to do with it.
Him cursing at her seemed a little mean until I read she didn’t just interrupt a ‘moment’ in the bridal suite, she interrupted Yichud….. playing the victim while disrespecting someone’s religion is wild
If you don't mind me asking, what is Yichud? Also I wouldn't care if she was interrupting my sneeze, I'd still be pissed 😂 Like girl, you are NOT a guest, go home!
@@wigglemelon8807Yichud is the finalization step of a Jewish marriage ceremony! There are a few major parts of a Jewish wedding after the betrothal (kiddushin). They are: the signing of the ketubah (marriage contract), the exchange of something of value (usually rings) in front of witnesses, and then Yichud (seclusion of the couple). So after the chuppah ceremony (with the rings!), the couple then enters Yichud (literally enters "seclusion") together in a room. Being alone in a room together symbolizes the completion of the wedding ceremony and that they are fully religiously married.
The three major steps are based on Jewish religious texts written down around 500 CE that came from even earlier oral traditions. Basically in the ancient Jewish world a man was married to a woman if he had a) a contract with witnesses, b) exchanged something of value with her and she accepted and c) they cohabitated (that is, they could be alone together and consummate the marriage). Yichud is like...symbolically the last part. People don't actually have sex during Yichud (it's not a long time!) it's just emphasizing that the couple is religiously and legally together as a married couple.
Depending on the couple and what customs of the wedding they observed, the time spent on Yichud (which isn't very long typically) can be like...breaking a fast/eating snacks, exchanging some private words, the groom may give the bride jewelry to wear or put back on, and so on.
@@wigglemelon8807traditionally, yichud is the first time the bride and groom are alone together. That uninterrupted alone time is an essential step of the Jewish wedding process
Yep very disrespectful.
@@wigglemelon8807 I’m not Jewish, just quoting a Jewish creator, but it’s part of the wedding where the couple get their first few minutes of being completely alone together. It’s supposed to be about reflection and gratitude for the day where they take time to prepare for the rest of the ceremony
If she had to give this much back story about her energy and vibe before the actual story then you know she was going to be in the wrong
That part
EXACTLY!
@@AngelikaOlesbut also she was “good vibes” but also crying through a bridesmaids whole makeup application?! That’s not good vibes lol
No fr she’s like “people in this industry can’t handle how bright my light shines” meanwhile she’s having the bride console her after the groom told her to leave💀 the light is a shadow at this point
Like girlie, if we need a deep dive into your fuckin psyche and mental state to understand this drama, you are in the wrong
“i’m not gonna let anyone break me down” while basically crashing THEIR WEDDING is so unhinged
The audacity, the delusion. THE CRINGE. Once the reception was in progress, she should've been gone. The professionalism was non-existent. Crying multiple times? ❌Being in their wedding videos? ❌The dancing / "my fiance" tiktok ❌. Her confronting the bride AFTER being told to leave by the assistant wedding planner? ❌. EMBARRASSING.
The groom wasn't wrong. Clearly everyone around him was overstepping his feelings and he snapped with what he really meant. And then his newly wed wife steps on his feelings again with that damage control. I don't blame him.
There’s a possibility the bride actually told him that she wasn’t a fan of the situation but there was no way to make her leave without causing a scene.
She clearly didn't overstep, he probably stepped in FOR her. She is clearly not confrontational and when he did it she probably immediately felt bad, idk why are u painting her to be the bad guy
I 100% believe that it was her intention to humiliate the bride cause her emotions were running high. She thought people were going to be on her side and when they weren’t, that’s when she checked herself. I’m glad it didn’t go the other way and she got to learn something, hopefully.
now i never would have overstayed at a wedding as a MUA but if i did and was kicked out, i would have taken that to the grave. especially since the couple are not on social media 😭😭😭
oh FOR SURE!! No one would know this happened to me 😭😭
I truly believe she posted it BECAUSE they're off social media, so she had free range to tell the story however she pleased without someone coming for her. She just didn't think it would backfire because of the rest of the world's common sense.
@@AleiaBreaks Yep people sometimes are so sure that they are right and they just need to post stuff because they want people to agree with them and validate their position. But quite often they find out that the opposite is true.
Fr you couldn’t waterboard this out of me
When you’re the reason why the bride & groom are arguing ten minutes into their marriage it’s time for you to leave.
The absolute rage I felt seeing her in the back of the first look I’d be so mad she was in my video if I was the bride not to mention her then standing in the middle of them!!!! While they’re trying to celebrate and hype up their friend!!!!
The craziest part is that she didn’t have to tell us all of this. Like, none of us would know she had been kicked out of a wedding if SHE didn’t tell us every single detail about it! She’s so worried about her reputation and keeps stressing how much of a professional she is, but a professional would have kept that crying video in the drafts and then left it at that. It is beYOND unprofessional that she posted the crying video to the BUSINESS tiktok account!
That part that really frustrates me is how she acts like they intentionally embarrassed her for no reason. She embarrassed herself. She felt entitled to act like a guest rather than a paid vendor
This is unacceptable behaviour even as a guest!
Exactly, none of this was online until she literally uploaded it herselfff
I’m literally so second hand embarrassed right now
The MUA seems to really be stretching the understanding of being able to post content. Post makeup before and afters? Yes. Post bride and groom walking down the aisle? No. Also you're killing me with the saying 'I get human emotions.' That was just too funny.
Yes content of how the hair and makeup look. If people are looking to hire her that is what they are concerned about. Not seeing the rest of a person's wedding that they don't know.
Fr. The most could be seeing the makeup at different lightings but that's it
A whole lotta "I's" talking about someone else's wedding... Sweetie you arent the main character here. Its not your day. You made it about yourself so of course the couple is going to kick you out.
The bride having to comfort and reassure her makeup artist that she’s bringing good vibes is so inappropriate cause all of the vendors at a wedding are there to facilitate what the couple wants at their wedding like in what world should the bride be comforting any of the vendors throughout THE WHOLE WEDDING???
how absolutely egotistical do you have to be to ruin someones wedding to the point that they kick you out and THEN have the gall to say "my light shines so bright"...babes thats something other people are supposed to say about you.
Highly narcissistic, she wanted that power over them to take something so important from someone else and to be part of it
What’s also absolutely awful is the MUA posted the videos and images of the bride and groom overlaid to her complaining about being removed from the wedding. Like, she ruined their day. She put their faces out there while trying to put them on blast as racist and rude to her. This is absolutely wild that he had to say anything to her to begin with, but to still post it after being told “no, you need to leave” is absolutely wild.
These business owners need to understand they can't just act any kind of way. Just because you are "self made" doesn't mean you can act any differently than you would working under an actual company
Some people use being a “small business” as an excuse for awful behaviour 😭
maybe im mean but i have noo sympathy for her. you’re at your job and acted completely inappropriately then tried to change the perspective when *no one* was talking about it. weirdo behavior
no you’re not. the person that’s in the wrong is her and her only, she’s the problem and is incredibly selfish. The ones I have sympathy for is the pushover bride that the MUA took advantage of.
It sounds like she was trying to drown her sadness in their happiness, resulting in the overstepping
As a photographer, I do weddings on occasions. Her whole speech about "I did nothing wrong to nobody" is very delusional but also, I'm PRETTY SURE she was in the way of the photographer ALL DAY!! I would've been so mad if I was the photographer at this wedding!! I cannot imagine how the bridal party would've felt with an overbearing someone taking so much space for stupids tiktoks (plus her footage of the "I was recording things the photographer and videographer missed" is horrendous, I'm sorry) but I can put myself in the photographer shoes and my blood boil. Do your job, and go. That's what I do, that's what a videographer do, I also have a friend who is an MUA and that's what she do too! It's a different story if you are actually friend with the bride and the groom but that's not the case here.
As a doormat person myself, I get the groom a lot. Because he was feeling pressure of the wedding, and then his bride probably also telling him how this woman wasn't getting her hints. He finally just snapped. While most of us won't stand up for ourselves, we tend to stand up for people we love. And he had to watch his bride try to fight alone, and he just grew tired of it. And when people can't take hints, you have to be harsh. Was cussing going far? Not really, some people won't leave until you're beyond rude to the point they don't want to stay.
Also the mua interrupted the yichud it's a Jewish tradition so no wonder he was so angry (it's alone time after being married but it's part of the process it's meant to be completely uninterrupted)
I just hope the MUA isn’t in the background of ALL her wedding pictures…which is most likely wishful thinking…this whole situation is insane, that poor bride 😭
Work is work I’m sorry, but you gotta pull it together. I think the husband had every right kicking out a vendor that had long overstayed their welcome and need to be present
It seems like a lot of drama recently has to do with weddings 🤨
Also, I know her loosing the grooms lighter doesn’t seem that important or that big an issue, but everything small on a regular day is giant on a wedding day, the fact that he had to find it/ he found it is not a good excuse, you put extra pressure on someone (one of the most important someone’s) to do something extra
All summer is usually wedding season so thats why there are more during this time (and winter )
@@jaxarii4858 I meant how much drama, I know that weddings are normally summer events, but good point, the drama for them just seems unusually high/intense
It’s crazy because all the wedding drama started when I started planning my own 😂 there’s been so much relevant drama for me to listen to
i heard that the lighter was actually a collectible item too so replacing it with the bic in her car wouldn’t have been equitable anyway
@@ivy2774 wow, even worse, how can she claim to have done thousands of weddings and then mess up one of the biggest rules, don’t mess with the bride or GROOM, talk about being oblivious to the situation
I love how she’s like “everybody was feeding off my energy, everybody loved me”, meanwhile the bridal and groom parties were probably like ‘oh my god, why won’t she LEAVE?????’ after she kept pestering them for content. There’s not reading socual cues (which as an autistic person, I struggle with) and then there’s being absolutely delusional, which I think this lady is
The groom was not at all out of line or rude. She went from a vendor to a wedding crasher. Why in the world would anyone cater to a wedding crasher? I don’t believe she was at all a reliable narrator about the events so my bet is she was asked to leave nicely more than once.
I just keep imagining the MUA coming up to the bride like it’s fucking Love Island and being like “can I pull you aside for a quick chat”
😂😂😂i shouldn’t be laughing this much, best comment
The balls on this woman to complain about the lack of food.
And to complain that she was tired and on her feet all day 😭 like girl GO HOME
I find it strange how much culture acts like a wedding is just the bride's. Like its just as much about the groom. The way ths MUA walked back in like the bride wants me there, fuck him really makes it seems like she thinks the groom doesn't matter in the equation.
That's a really good point, I feel like the groom was not out of line by voicing his frustration with her.
the moment she said the bride was consoling her it was completely over for me. you can’t go back from there. no bride should be having to do emotional labor for others on HER wedding day
Her one day, and she couldn't let her have her one day. It's crazy
As a literal wedding content creator - I would never. I don’t even make “tiktok” trends on the wedding day because it’s so disruptive and cringe 🫠
There’s photos of her doing this at other weddings, taking pics with the brides and bridesmaids and centering herself so it’s not that the breakup brought out a new side of her 🤦🏾♀️ she’s always been too comfortable at weddings
This woman made her own client's wedding about herself and her needs. Imo she was trying to run away from her own hurt feelings by focusing all her energy on work. She made her coping everyone else's problem.
Also her saying they wanted her to stay. Did they say "hey we really want you to stay please stay" or was it more like shes asked if its fine for her to stay and they said no problem, its fine for you to stay....
I'm thinking it's the latter 🤔
One of the bridesmaids has spoken out and it doesn't sound like things happened the way the MUA perceived them. The bride was not begging her to stay but was trying to be nice while still getting her to leave. The MUA was not reading the social cues well and I would like to give her the benifit of the doubt and say it was due to the trama she was going through in her personal life but posting all this on line is the unprofessional cherry on the top of an already horrible showing on her part.
@@jennyjenkins06 Do you have a link? That totally confirms what I suspected. IMO you can already see in her video--the moment when the bridesmaids turn around and see the bride, and the bridesmaids are all kind of tearful and celebrating--that the 'maids are getting annoyed by her; one actually kind of gives her a look and then moves away from her, and the others turn their backs.
Also, when people are so much into social media I feel they cannoy grasp how much of a bother selfies, tiktoks and so on can be for the rest of us that do not live for social media. Obs I do so agree with you about all the overstepping. I am usually the blunt friend
After following this story for the past week, I get the impression that she usually imposes on her clients but, this was the first time someone spoke up and told her No and let her know how annoying she is. She strikes me as someone who does not take rejection well at all, in addition to not sensing social cues, very self absorbed.
That’s exactly what I was thinking!
This answers a question I had. I'm about halfway through the video, and the whole time I've been thinking, is this, like, anomalous behavior for the MUA? Or is this just the first time the behavior has been so publicly visible?
@@owl.feathersanother vendor spoke up about her acting the same way at a wedding the day before. Also, people noticed a picture on her wall where she’s just posing in the middle of a bridal party.
@@dotcom3015 Right, I have since heard/seen that stuff too. But the wedding the day before was also post-breakup for the MUA, so I think it's fair to put it on the same "pile" as the Sept 7 wedding. And that picture was definitely weird, but there are potential explanations for it outside of her just wanting to be the center of attention. Her reviews on Google are really good too (although afaik that sort of thing can be manipulated). But at the same time, I have a hard time believing that someone who acts this way at all doesn't have a history of boundary-pushing. So the conclusion I've kinda settled on is that she always pushed boundaries a bit, but the behavior got dialed up to 11 because she was emotional from the breakup.
P.S. idk if it's actually been stated that she and the bf broke up, I'm just assuming they did because he cheated on her
The husband wasnt even rude, he said it like it is. He's 50% of the wedding and his opinion shouldve been respected regardless.
How do you work 500 weddings and with a straight face try to make yourself the victim in a story like this? She had already overstepped filming her “content” and then disrespectfully plastered this wedding party all throughout her bogus story time. & almost certainly before any of the PROFESSIONAL images/videos were even released to the couple.
Hopefully the bride and groom forget her over involvement in the memory of their special day because Lord knows Miss Key Looks tried her damndest to make it about her.
Imagine being the bride and groom and having all your photos and videos have her in the background and constantly being reminded that she hijacked and almost ruined your day. She’s tainted everything for their special day now.
for my quince my makeup lady has talked the ENTIRE time and even ended up running late because she was singing!! 😭😭 i’ve never been more over stimulated, i cannot fathom this situation
people that emphasize how good they are always end up being the absolute opposite… it’s been known that if u have to constantly say you’re such a good person, you are not. we are not that dumb pls
Yep. I learned in my teens that when someone says something like, "But that's just how I am, I care so much about people," they're really telling you that they don't GAS about anyone but themselves. They just don't want you to know that.
“I went above and beyond.” NO ONE ASKED YOU TO. Like why are you literally doing stuff that is outside of your contract? Like one small here and there, fine. But why are you staying for HOURS after when you were supposed to leave, doing stuff that is not in your contract? And to put the couple in a position where they feel they have to tell you to gtfo because you aren’t leaving and are being messy is criminal.
I don’t think this girls ever heard of “know where your not wanted” 🤣🤣 xx
nope. at all.
Saw Robert Welsh's take on this yesterday and I'm still in disbelief lmfao please how can you not see you overstayed your welcome HARD AF 😭
social ineptness, personality disorder, just an idiot, or mental health issues.
32:26 Right before him telling her "You're getting on my f*ing nerves," she interrupted them in the bridal suite. The couple being alone together in the suite was ceremonial for a Jewish wedding. The whole point is to be alone and *uninterrupted*. She ruined it. I don't care if he was rude and cursed at her. They don't owe her endless respect or endless good manners, after everything she did.
we all act in embarrassing ways when we are going through a tough time, but now we have so much more access to put it online and get made fun of 😭
I got married in 2022 and would've lost my absolute shit, if someone that I paid for a single thing, stuck around, filmed everything and everyone, made their way in every photo and guilt tripped my husband, friends, family with their problems on OUR wedding day.
My husband works in IT security. He does not want his face to be on the Internet via tiktok, Instagram, whatever. I just have a feeling she would not accept that.
She walks and talks around like she was the videographer, NOT the damn Stylist. What are you still doing at that wedding?? Ma'am, where is your professionalism 😭 no one asked you to be there until your feet hurt
For my cousin's wedding, one of our cousins' did our hair, and another cousin's gf did our makeup. Even though they were literally family, they still had to go back home and dress up there? Sure. They could dress with us the bridesmaids and such, but they weren't invited.
This woman isn't even a friend and acts like this? Professionalism found dead in a ditch.
My boyfriend's sister got married 3 years into us dating. She and her bridesmaids got ready at her their parent's house. Since I was staying at the house after the wedding I got myself ready there as well. As much as she was nice to ask me if I wanted the makeup artist to do my makeup and get ready with them, I said no thanks and did my own makeup. And I didn't want to add my makeup up last minute onto the makeup artist. I still hung out with them a little bit, but I didn't squeeze myself into the group.
This is someone who has known all her bridesmaids since they were in elementary school. And yes, I'm dating her brother, but I'm not in the bridal party of her wedding. Just let people have their moment
I just HAVE to voice my thoughts about how ANGRY it makes me that she was eating the food and stuff (if she was not included im catering costs) bc omg i got married last year and catering is INSANE per person. Food and drinks that should be for GUESTS and VENDORS that are paid for is going towards random mua inviting herself in . Havent seen too many ppl talk about this but its literally AT A MINIMUM $100 per person for food and like $50 per person for drinks at the LEAST. Omg. And yeah i was WAY too exhausted and hot to do some of the photography shots i wanted and it didnt happen and thats okay, this whole situation wouldve been so stressful on that poor bride :(
Very good point!
The crazy thing is that she acts like no vendors are going through things themselves… like ever?
For example: I shot my divorce lawyers wedding. My ex husband was having an affair with my mother. He (and she) had taken my kids and I was 20 days (which they could do since we did not have a custody agreement yet as he hadn’t spent more than an hour a week with them for 10 months prior) of 40 total days that I was unable to see, hear or find my kids and serve him with emergency court papers for their return. And I STILL didn’t make it anyone’s business at that wedding.
She is just unprofessional. Plain and so so so simple.
Your husband and your MUM?!?! Oh my god girl I’m so sorry 😩
Damn I'm so sorry that's like villian origin story bad 😭
@@jessicalaw5407 oh yes. It’s a mess round these parts. Thank you!
Please make a video that sounds fucking wild
Honestly if anybody does get an excuse to be a mess at someone else’s wedding, it would be you, because OH MY GOD? That’s an insane story.
Girl made probably a once in a lifetime memory/event all about herself. This is crazy. Crying and doing things no one asked her to do. The bride was tooooo nice. Also using the footage to make a TikTok pity story for validation….💀
Lord, even just seeing all of her tiktoks during the wedding made me feel overstimulated af. I can't believe that there are genuinely people out there that have trouble reading the room
The mother of the bride having to console and encourage the hair and make up person is ridiculus and I don't know why she said it like it was a good thing? Instead of being relaxed and concentrating on being happy for her daughter, she had to hype up this crying person doing their hair and make up. Maybe the mother was desperately trying to cheer her up so she would stop bringing the vibe down so much, only happy tears should be at a wedding!
The hand movement Angelika makes when saying “the levels” is me working through life. 😂♥️♥️
Her problem is she was more focused on creating content (an advertisement basically) than the couple's feelings and wedding.
She's made so many tiktoks of her apologies because they also are advertising.
I hope she learns from this, as her company and team are clearly very good at what they do.
It's the inflated sense of self that is getting me. Some people think that they are the most important thing in the entire world. This was her wedding. Not anything to do with you.
Same vibes as when your friend starts a story with " you know i am alaways so calm and reasonable l" and you know its aboutbto be the most unhinged shit
Why is she talking about how professional she is whilst slagging off her paying customers... girl. The irony.
Exhausted from a 9h long conference about cosmetic regulation. Perfect timing as always ❤
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She sounds so “pick me,” but not in the traditional understanding of that term, if that makes sense.
YES!! I got that vibe too but couldn’t put it into words
She seems less like a “pick me” to me and more like someone with a serious case of main character syndrome.
Has social media killed the "read the room" skill? 🤣
when she went to get her brush she apparently interrupted an important jewish tradition 😑
This is a master class in how to turn someone else’s special day into a pity party for the hired MUA lmao
She has “27 Dresses Syndrome” I swear. She just wants to be Katherine Heigl, going over the top, doing everything for these brides and expecting mountains of praise, endless gratitude, and “I couldn’t have done this without you”. It’s great that you’re passionate, but know when enough is enough, and enough is doing what you’re paid to do.
I wanted someone to tell her “you arnt a guest at this wedding “
She was so embarrassing. I gasped when she left the party, and went back! Like girl 😭 delulu
This felt like a comedy 😭 like I feel like they’ve made a movie like this before where someone gets into a wedding and then overstays and learns some kind of lesson.
You’re not being too harsh that’s how I feel too like who asked for all your baggage rn 😭 I’d feel mad awkward if I learned the makeup artist’s relationship is in shambles while I’m getting married I’d be like is this a sigh lol
This woman’s entire narration during this story is her patting herself on the back and slighting everyone else in the wedding party and the other people contracted to work this wedding. The passive aggressiveness is unreal.
41:36 i tried giving her the benefit of the doubt as long as possible. But when she pulled the bride aside to confront her AFTER being told to leave the second time. That is the point where I feel you no longer can say she still had good intentions.
So she tried to out the couple as being bad people and borderline being racist but when that backfired she turned into playing the victim
She didn’t “give her all” for them, she did it for her. Everything she did was for selfish reasons to make herself feel good at the expense of these people who just hired her for a service so they could focus on their wedding, which is why she took it so personally when they didn’t want the unsolicited service 😭 and being so clueless and up yourself that you don’t think about how you’re ruining all of their videos by being in the background with your phone up… chile
Honestly I don’t even think the groom was that rude. It’s not the MUAs day she inserted herself so hard into their day and he’s very much not a social media person so he was probably feeling really uncomfortable the whole time.
my friends were talking about this drama and i thought to myself this sounds like something angelika would cover
I feel like saying she was "kicked out" is such an exaggeration on her part like ma'am you were supposed to be gone hours ago you aren't being paid for that time go home
If she's all tired because she has been "on her feet all day" why the heck don't go home and rest??????
She lacks self boundaries. I am just shook
So curious to know how many brides she did this to. Extremely unprofessional
someone made the comparison that the MUA/hairstylist role at wedding should be thought of like the same job for a broadway show. if you’re staying around (assuming you’ve ACTUALLY been serious asked to stay around - presumably for touch ups all night), you’re job is to STAY BACKSTAGE BEHIND THE CURTAIN.
A Wedding Day is about the BRIDE and the GROOM not the MAKEUP ARTIST! It's done, leave! Told nasty or not. She's been doing everyone's job when she didn't need to. 🤦♀
I hate how she keeps saying “*my* bride” especially after she left and came back because “my bride wants me there” as if she was some close friend or family member and not a literal stranger. That woman is not *your* bride. She’s not your anything. She hired you for a service you completed hours and hours prior.
As a (gemini) mua myself, this behaviour is unacceptable. You are there to work your hours and do the job you are paid for. You should support the bridal party DURING the time you are being PAID
I got to about 13 minutes before I started to get a tummy ache. This is painfully unaware of her. I've worked many weddings as a photog and you always have to be aware that you are an employee and not a guest.
Ok finished, this is so bad. If you are a person who has a "big personality" and also has a hard time reading social cues, you have to err on the side of caution. The Groom is clearly not vibing with you. Even if the bride LOVES you and actually desperately wants you to stay (which is so weird because she doesn't know you), you are causing friction between the bride and groom on thier wedding day. Having a big loud fun personality is awesome, it sounds like she's a great MUA and her work is beautiful, but a wedding is not about the makeup, and you as an employee should not become such a big feature of someone's wedding (good or bad) that you overshadow what else is happening. Leave 'em wanting more!
To be honest, my first thought was: "So you're crying, making it hard to see. And you have chemicals that shouldn't go into people's eyes, yet you're making there be a greater chance of you accidentally stabbing a girl's eyes. Or messing with other chemicals that say you can't ingest them around their mouths..."
girl....if you're a professional makeup artist then you should know how to compartmentalize things and NOT have your personal feelings interfere with your job like this, i would actually be so upset if my makeup artist was crying the ENTIRE TIME that she was doing my makeup. she gave so much backstory to try and make these people look bad (personally i think that the groom was perfectly valid in how he responded) but she just ended up showing that she's unprofessional. she's talking about how she "didn't do anything to anyone" but she was belittling the videographer in her tiktoks, overstepping boundaries and doing other people's jobs, and acting like a nuisance because she wanted to film content, plus she lost something that didn't belong to her. she's annoying and i really don't understand how she's made a career out of this.
also, i feel like she's just lying about everyone telling her that she should stay lmao, they all know that she's providing them a service that she's being paid for, she wouldn't be asked to stay unless she was actually a friend.
Another wedding drama!! Can’t wait to watch! Also this is great I just finished a major exam, so thanks for the distraction.
oof I hope it went okay
Her light is shining so bright it lit up your whole room Angelika! 🤣😛
This is painfully awkward and morally wrong on so many levels!!!!!
I fear the issue is with her but also with this weird social media mindset that feelings are always valid. They aren’t. This was a perfect example of her feelings removing her from reality around her so much that it made her client feel she needed to accommodate her, despite not wanting to on an already stressful day.
Talk about the walking definition of unprofessionalism.