When Ladies enter your life, reach out and present your best self, some will stay, some will go. If no one stays, keep watch who comes back. But never forget to keep your head high, be noble, show class, protect your family and help the weak. This is the essence of our roles as men.
This generation is so broken (help us Lord) If you try too hard, You seen as clingy. if you barley tried at all, They think you dont care. If you care too much, You push them away. Nd if you care too little You lose them.
Not just this generation, lots of women in their 40's that I've met are exactly the same. Actually gets worse with older women who have been through more complicated relationships. They want fun and uncomplicated, because most of their emotions are spent on previous partners. You gotta be the pillar, assert yourself and have boundaries to show you're not just another guy in the wheel, otherwise they will take advantage.
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel and my situation was not much different from his
The root of most Guys problems with Women, is low self esteem/self worth. It causes them to be desperate, needy, emotionally immature, & clingy. All of which repel Women quicker than you can snap your fingers. When a Girl is unavailable to you......STOP CHASING. When a Girl is interested, she makes an effort. When she's not, she makes excuses. If a Guy is doing all the work to keep communication going with a Girl, & she barely does anything, that tells a Guy all he needs to know. If it feels like pulling teeth to get, & keep her attention, she's NOT interested, she doesn't see you 'that way'. Cut your losses, grit your teeth & walk away.....no matter how hard it feels
In my situation my lady did opened up about her father hurting her mother she opened up about her ex husband cheating on her and treating her like she nothing we started off friends and we talked all the time so its confusing when as the relationship went on a wall got put up. she start having trust issues she became distant no empathy or intimacy we stop communicating to one another when it used to be so easy to talk to each other I would find reasons to go out my way to do things for her to protect her from negative people not because i wanted to be no hero but because I wanted to make her happy plus show her how a real man can treat her and at first she would always say she was appreciative of everything i did I made her feel special and beautiful how i looked at her then it stopped I think back on meeting a person it seemed had lost her confidence and faith but i had so much in common with, writing poetry liking to excercise painting liking football as well as liking to go bowling it was conversations about anything i wanted to talk about and she wanted to be my presence as much as possible because im such a positive influence on her she stated she felt safe with me she want to spend all of her free time with me she even felt comfortable with me being around her kids! Smh that doesn't sound like she was emotionally unavailable initially to me
There's no such thing as a single person, there's only broken people. What's the point of becoming healthy when the only people who can sustain a relationship are already in one? Huge waste of time and money.
Ouch, that is not true. There are plenty of good people in the wrong relationship. It's just about when they find the right one. But also looking at patterns and our dating patterns while being honest with yourself etc. :-)
If you wanna date a Girl, Man the hell up & ask her out. Don't play High School Boy 'friend' Games with Women, not ask her out because you fear being shut down, then complain she "friend zones" you. Be honest with a Girl, tell her what you want. If you wanna date her, as her out. If a fuck buddy thing is what you want, tell her that. If she says no, you got 2 choices. Stay friends with her knowing it will never be anything else. Being friends with a Girl trying to turn it into more, NEVER works. Once a Girl sees you as a 'friend', chances are, she'll only ever see you as that. Or 2, be honest and tell her:"I accept your right not to date me when I'm not what you want, dating me doesn't suit you, fair enough. But being friends with you when I wanna date you, doesn't suit me either. Thanks, but no thanks". Then walk away with your head up, & dignity intact. Sometimes, the hard way, is the only way
This: There's the 'Selfish Gene', which is the manifestation of the 'Wheel of Samsara'/lustful nature in the material world (i.e. lust, seduction, manipulation, deceipt, rape/ex slavery, 'game-of-love', 'love contracts', deceipt, confusion, 'war of the sexes' reincarnation, death, suffering, negleted children, overpopulation, etc. etc.) And then there's 'true Romance'- a girl & a boy (or whatever you're into) being thrown together by fate, some kind of attraction 'which doesn't demand immediate reproduction', enjoying eachother's company and something distinct about the other person, general agreement, being mutually interesting & stimulating, harmony, compatibility in all domains of life, a shared spiritual life (beliefs, goals etc.); All of the 'compartments' of our life, and also all of our "little me's" concurring towards sharing more & more of our life, & ourselves with her (I'm a man 😒); And THEN... ? And THIS is a manifestation of the spiritual nature in the material world. And the two natures are polar opposites. (I am not implying that one is 'evil'; what do I know about 'evil'?) Or so some 'wise' people say; Or imply. But what do I know?? I'm as nasty, mentally ill & plain stoopid as the next person. I 'have a thousand hearts' (Rumi);. I am 'have many demons'. I don't even believe in my own bullsh*t! Well, maybe 😉
Perhaps more and more women are emotionally unavailable these days. Men are having fewer and fewer choices of women to choose from while it's the other way around for women. Speaking of which, do you think you can do a video on how a man can keep a woman with all the options that women have nowadays mainly due to social media and dating apps?
my ex has trauma and she pushed me away because of it which eventually cause us to breakup ill always love her but she hurt me real bad i dont want her back romantically but i want to support her at least while she works on herself but its tough cause shes still isolating and putting up walls to this day i give her space and talk to her when she reaches out any advice
A Guy gains NOTHING out of hanging around when he likes a Girl, hoping he'll date her. Once a Girl tells a Guy she only sees him as a 'friend", chances are, that's all she'll ever see him as. Walk the hell away from the Girl, simple as that. Get your ass into the gym, beat it into shape. Take up a quality, physically demanding Martial Art, that develops confidence, while instilling discipline & character. Start taking control of your life. Decide who you are, what kind of person you are. Develop a firm idea of your philosophical beliefs (religious, and/or political). Those beliefs are like a foundation to build a house on, they anchor your life, like an anchor for a ship/yacht. Develop clear ideas on what you wanna do with your life, set goals, and plans to bring them to fruition. You ask most Guys what they wanna do with their lives, they shrug their shoulders and say:"I dunno". Ask them what kind of person they are, they snap to, and without thinking almost always say:"I'm a Good Guy", whatever the hell that means, like it's supposed to mean something. Most Guys are like a house built on a shitty, unstable foundation, they're like ships without a rudder. They float on aimlessly though life, simply being "Nice", & a "Good Guy", being outraged that that's apparently not enough for the Girls they like
Mam one younger girl has been very very Frank with me for a very long tm now. Not only Frank in conversations but also in some personal matters also. We hv been very close in conversations but nt in intimation. Perhaps she iz interested in me. Moreover I am very much interested interested in her. But there iz an age gap of at least 20yrs between the two. Now Hw can motivate her nd her parents for a relationship.
@ApolloniaPonti this was a really good video one of the best I have seen. It felt like you where calling my name at some point. I have this problem like a few mentioned here with a girl, and I feel like I'm more of the 2nd issue guy Please help me, I can't really afford consultations now but I have been a fan since 2020 Sept. Even pointing me to the next video to work with would be great... Thank you
I always go for the situationally unavailable woman (married, lesbian, sexworker) 😭 I don’t think that it’s the sense of accomplishment though. I think a lot of these women I perceive as damaged.
I've watched a bunch of vids from this channel, ( what a professional and direct approach to dating 👍👍) but I can't shake the feeling that women make things more complicated. What am I missing?
Of course! In the meantime I did post a video about this on my instagram. Here it is if you would like to watch: instagram.com/reel/CuztrCWM9Di/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== xo- Apollonia
Hello Apollonia, I'm curious to know what you would recommend in the case of the fantasy you described and what to do when she says she's not ready. Do you stick around and checkin from time to time ? Do you still try to see her ?
adriendubedat225, Girls tell Guys they're not ready all the time. Stuff like:"I need me time, I need to stay single and find myself". Then a day or 2 later, the Guy she told she wasn't ready for a relationship, sees her out with a Guy, holding his hand, obviously an item with him. Chances are she is ready, she's just not into you, she isnt attracted to you
It's simple. When a Girl is into a Guy, and makes an effort, when she's not, she makes excuses. Put it on her, ask her out, tell her what you want. Then be Man & big enough to deal with the answer. Most Guys don't wanna ask a Girl out, unless they know for sure she'll say yes. Their low self worth/self esteem means they can't handle the thought of being shot down. There's no certainties with most things Bro, shoot your shot, & ask her out. If she says no, hey shit happens. There's plenty of girls around, keep on walkin and find one
Most Guys never stop to think about what a Guy's side of an interaction with a Girl, looks like for her. When a guy meets an attractive Girl, to him, it's 1 Guy, talkin to 1 Girl. To the Girl, that guy is one of 10, 20 Guys who hit on her, ALL day, EVERY day.....FACT. Every single one of those Guys tell her:"I'm a "Good Guy", ' was raised a Gentleman to respect Women", "I'm not like other Guys, I'm different", "All my friends are Women, cos other Guys make me sooooooooooo embarassed to be a Guyyyyy". Women get that crap, all day, everyday, from 9 out of 10 Guys who hit on them, every single day. Right back to the age of 13 when Guys start staring at their tits and asses, with the same lust they once had for their Mummy's chocolate cake. You don't show Women you're different to other Guys, by looking, sounding, & behaving like every other Guy. It's a sad fact for most Guys that they never mature beyond the age of 13 or 14 when it comes to dealing with Women. The same White Knighting, the same lame pick up lines, & compliments about their faces, looks and bodies. Most guys never grow out of all of that horrible, nausea inducting crap!!!
Guys might not like it, but Girls will treat a Guy the way he treats himself/allows himself to be treated. Hell, why should a Girl believe a Guy's worth it, when deep down, the Guy himself doesn't believe he is? Exactly, she won't. Deep down, most Guys don't believe they're worth it. They have horrendous self esteem issues, especially dealing with Women. They let Women walk all over them, & do nothing about it, hoping Women will see they're "Good Guy", that letting a Girl walk all over them somehow makes them better than other Guys, and date them for it
Seeking, & needing approval from Women, is a sign of low self esteem, & self worth. It makes Guys chase Women, & beg for their approval., it's the biggest attraction killer EVER for Women.....and makes them run a mile. As difficult as it is, a Guy needs to learn to walk away from Women. Just grit the teeth, & walk away. It's like anything else, the more you do it, the easier it gets. Girls aren't used to guys walking away from them, they rarely see that. Most Girls are surrounded by low self esteemed, self loathing, desperate, needy, "Nice/Good Guys" who whine:"I'm a "Good Guy", give me a chance. Get to know you, you'll see I'm a "Good Guy"". They rarely meet a Guy who can walk away from them when the interaction with her doesn't suit him. To be able to do that, a Guy has to have a healthy sense of self worth, & know he's worth being treated well by Women
@@michaelwilson7924 actually very close. Teenager boys nowadays just walk away meeting any problem in their life and sit down to spend their life in their phone.
@@marguskiis7711 Again, not even close to what I said, go back and read it very carefully, especially what I said about being prepared to walk away from a Girl when the interaction does't suit you. Which Women do to Guys frequently. If a Girl doesn't want to date you, that's her right, and if you claim to respect Women, then by definition, you respect a Girl's right not to. But that cuts both ways. She's obligated to respect your right not to be friends with her with her when you want more. A Guy has to be Man enough to Man up, be honest about who he is, & what he wants with Women. If you wanna date a Girl, Man the hell up & ask her out. If what you want is a fuck buddy thing, be honest & tell her that. Don't play 14yo High school Boy 'friend' games with her, by telling her you wanna be her friend, are her friend, but not ask her out because you shit your pants like a pussy at the thought of being shot down. Then whine like a little bitch about being "friend zoned". Staying friends with a Girl hoping it will turn into a relationship, is a loser Guy's game & tactic. It's about being honest with yourself & Women in regards to what you want. Be honest about it, own it like a Man, & stick by it
@@marguskiis7711 So many Guys avoid dealing with their problems, because they lack spine, character, and self worth, they don't wanna fail, because it hurts their wiggle "Nice Guy" feewings. I'm not advocating Guys waking away from a difficult issue, not even close. On the contrary, I'm very much advocating they Man the bloody hell up, face it, meet it head on, & deal with it. You couldn't be any more wrong
When Ladies enter your life, reach out and present your best self, some will stay, some will go. If no one stays, keep watch who comes back. But never forget to keep your head high, be noble, show class, protect your family and help the weak. This is the essence of our roles as men.
This generation is so broken (help us Lord)
If you try too hard,
You seen as clingy.
if you barley tried at all,
They think you dont care.
If you care too much,
You push them away.
Nd if you care too little
You lose them.
Yeah, anyone would be fortunate to find somebody who has good intentions.
@@giovannij1368 but they don't.
This Generation is weak - Drake was right
Not just this generation, lots of women in their 40's that I've met are exactly the same. Actually gets worse with older women who have been through more complicated relationships. They want fun and uncomplicated, because most of their emotions are spent on previous partners.
You gotta be the pillar, assert yourself and have boundaries to show you're not just another guy in the wheel, otherwise they will take advantage.
You said it right and you said it all my friend
This video addresses EXACTLY what I’m going through! 🎯🎯🎯
Hope it helps you. :-) Thanks for watching and commenting.
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him.
He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long.
Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women.
He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long.
Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past.
Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel and my situation was not much different from his
Thank you for this video! It really help me today go through my mistakes! Stay well Mrs, Ponti.
Thank you so much for your comment! Glad it was helpful!
Stop chasing him stop chasing her 😅 everyone gonna be alone do what your heart desires!
The root of most Guys problems with Women, is low self esteem/self worth. It causes them to be desperate, needy, emotionally immature, & clingy. All of which repel Women quicker than you can snap your fingers. When a Girl is unavailable to you......STOP CHASING.
When a Girl is interested, she makes an effort. When she's not, she makes excuses. If a Guy is doing all the work to keep communication going with a Girl, & she barely does anything, that tells a Guy all he needs to know. If it feels like pulling teeth to get, & keep her attention, she's NOT interested, she doesn't see you 'that way'. Cut your losses, grit your teeth & walk away.....no matter how hard it feels
In my situation my lady did opened up about her father hurting her mother she opened up about her ex husband cheating on her and treating her like she nothing we started off friends and we talked all the time so its confusing when as the relationship went on a wall got put up. she start having trust issues she became distant no empathy or intimacy we stop communicating to one another when it used to be so easy to talk to each other I would find reasons to go out my way to do things for her to protect her from negative people not because i wanted to be no hero but because I wanted to make her happy plus show her how a real man can treat her and at first she would always say she was appreciative of everything i did I made her feel special and beautiful how i looked at her then it stopped I think back on meeting a person it seemed had lost her confidence and faith but i had so much in common with, writing poetry liking to excercise painting liking football as well as liking to go bowling it was conversations about anything i wanted to talk about and she wanted to be my presence as much as possible because im such a positive influence on her she stated she felt safe with me she want to spend all of her free time with me she even felt comfortable with me being around her kids! Smh that doesn't sound like she was emotionally unavailable initially to me
What was the outcome some simler things with a girl I’m dating
I like the chase! 🤣
This is very good, thanks reina
Thanks so much.. This last one was what happened to me recently.. Thanks again for this
Your always welcome!
There's no such thing as a single person, there's only broken people. What's the point of becoming healthy when the only people who can sustain a relationship are already in one? Huge waste of time and money.
Ouch, that is not true. There are plenty of good people in the wrong relationship. It's just about when they find the right one. But also looking at patterns and our dating patterns while being honest with yourself etc. :-)
If you wanna date a Girl, Man the hell up & ask her out. Don't play High School Boy 'friend' Games with Women, not ask her out because you fear being shut down, then complain she "friend zones" you. Be honest with a Girl, tell her what you want. If you wanna date her, as her out. If a fuck buddy thing is what you want, tell her that. If she says no, you got 2 choices.
Stay friends with her knowing it will never be anything else. Being friends with a Girl trying to turn it into more, NEVER works. Once a Girl sees you as a 'friend', chances are, she'll only ever see you as that. Or 2, be honest and tell her:"I accept your right not to date me when I'm not what you want, dating me doesn't suit you, fair enough. But being friends with you when I wanna date you, doesn't suit me either. Thanks, but no thanks". Then walk away with your head up, & dignity intact. Sometimes, the hard way, is the only way
I do that without question and need help. I'm in uncharted territory, but it seems I've always jumped to help and it's bitten me hard for doing so
6:50
Ole girl was honest with him. Respect. That’s still a no but yeah honor that.
Thank you so much for watching!
This:
There's the 'Selfish Gene', which is the manifestation of the 'Wheel of Samsara'/lustful nature in the material world (i.e. lust, seduction, manipulation, deceipt, rape/ex slavery, 'game-of-love', 'love contracts', deceipt, confusion, 'war of the sexes' reincarnation, death, suffering, negleted children, overpopulation, etc. etc.)
And then there's 'true Romance'- a girl & a boy (or whatever you're into) being thrown together by fate, some kind of attraction 'which doesn't demand immediate reproduction', enjoying eachother's company and something distinct about the other person, general agreement, being mutually interesting & stimulating, harmony, compatibility in all domains of life, a shared spiritual life (beliefs, goals etc.); All of the 'compartments' of our life, and also all of our "little me's" concurring towards sharing more & more of our life, & ourselves with her (I'm a man 😒); And THEN... ? And THIS is a manifestation of the spiritual nature in the material world.
And the two natures are polar opposites. (I am not implying that one is 'evil'; what do I know about 'evil'?)
Or so some 'wise' people say; Or imply.
But what do I know?? I'm as nasty, mentally ill & plain stoopid as the next person. I 'have a thousand hearts' (Rumi);. I am 'have many demons'. I don't even believe in my own bullsh*t!
Well, maybe 😉
Perhaps more and more women are emotionally unavailable these days. Men are having fewer and fewer choices of women to choose from while it's the other way around for women. Speaking of which, do you think you can do a video on how a man can keep a woman with all the options that women have nowadays mainly due to social media and dating apps?
my ex has trauma and she pushed me away because of it which eventually cause us to breakup ill always love her but she hurt me real bad i dont want her back romantically but i want to support her at least while she works on herself but its tough cause shes still isolating and putting up walls to this day i give her space and talk to her when she reaches out any advice
Yikes....#4 is 1000% me. I feel attacked lol...in a good way. This is VERY helpful...wow
Fantastic video 👍🏿
Need more videos like this
A Guy gains NOTHING out of hanging around when he likes a Girl, hoping he'll date her. Once a Girl tells a Guy she only sees him as a 'friend", chances are, that's all she'll ever see him as. Walk the hell away from the Girl, simple as that. Get your ass into the gym, beat it into shape.
Take up a quality, physically demanding Martial Art, that develops confidence, while instilling discipline & character. Start taking control of your life. Decide who you are, what kind of person you are. Develop a firm idea of your philosophical beliefs (religious, and/or political).
Those beliefs are like a foundation to build a house on, they anchor your life, like an anchor for a ship/yacht. Develop clear ideas on what you wanna do with your life, set goals, and plans to bring them to fruition. You ask most Guys what they wanna do with their lives, they shrug their shoulders and say:"I dunno". Ask them what kind of person they are, they snap to, and without thinking almost always say:"I'm a Good Guy", whatever the hell that means, like it's supposed to mean something.
Most Guys are like a house built on a shitty, unstable foundation, they're like ships without a rudder. They float on aimlessly though life, simply being "Nice", & a "Good Guy", being outraged that that's apparently not enough for the Girls they like
Wow!!! Useful Video Sister.
Thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed it!
Mam one younger girl has been very very Frank with me for a very long tm now. Not only Frank in conversations but also in some personal matters also. We hv been very close in conversations but nt in intimation. Perhaps she iz interested in me. Moreover I am very much interested interested in her. But there iz an age gap of at least 20yrs between the two. Now Hw can motivate her nd her parents for a relationship.
Heavenly information and helpful video.
Thank you for watching!
@ApolloniaPonti this was a really good video one of the best I have seen. It felt like you where calling my name at some point.
I have this problem like a few mentioned here with a girl, and I feel like I'm more of the 2nd issue guy
Please help me, I can't really afford consultations now but I have been a fan since 2020 Sept.
Even pointing me to the next video to work with would be great... Thank you
I always go for the situationally unavailable woman (married, lesbian, sexworker) 😭
I don’t think that it’s the sense of accomplishment though. I think a lot of these women I perceive as damaged.
Thank you for the content
Thank you so much for commenting!
I've watched a bunch of vids from this channel, ( what a professional and direct approach to dating 👍👍) but I can't shake the feeling that women make things more complicated. What am I missing?
Thank you ❤
Your always welcome!
You can make an hero complex vdo for upcoming days😎
Of course! In the meantime I did post a video about this on my instagram. Here it is if you would like to watch: instagram.com/reel/CuztrCWM9Di/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
xo- Apollonia
#2 is spot on. Oof
Emotionally unavailable? Please explain. What if she’s dating and your dating?
6:39 I will never hear this from any woman!!
Hello Apollonia, I'm curious to know what you would recommend in the case of the fantasy you described and what to do when she says she's not ready. Do you stick around and checkin from time to time ? Do you still try to see her ?
adriendubedat225, Girls tell Guys they're not ready all the time. Stuff like:"I need me time, I need to stay single and find myself". Then a day or 2 later, the Guy she told she wasn't ready for a relationship, sees her out with a Guy, holding his hand, obviously an item with him. Chances are she is ready, she's just not into you, she isnt attracted to you
It's simple. When a Girl is into a Guy, and makes an effort, when she's not, she makes excuses. Put it on her, ask her out, tell her what you want. Then be Man & big enough to deal with the answer. Most Guys don't wanna ask a Girl out, unless they know for sure she'll say yes. Their low self worth/self esteem means they can't handle the thought of being shot down. There's no certainties with most things Bro, shoot your shot, & ask her out. If she says no, hey shit happens. There's plenty of girls around, keep on walkin and find one
❤ 😘
Most Guys never stop to think about what a Guy's side of an interaction with a Girl, looks like for her. When a guy meets an attractive Girl, to him, it's 1 Guy, talkin to 1 Girl. To the Girl, that guy is one of 10, 20 Guys who hit on her, ALL day, EVERY day.....FACT. Every single one of those Guys tell her:"I'm a "Good Guy", ' was raised a Gentleman to respect Women", "I'm not like other Guys, I'm different", "All my friends are Women, cos other Guys make me sooooooooooo embarassed to be a Guyyyyy".
Women get that crap, all day, everyday, from 9 out of 10 Guys who hit on them, every single day. Right back to the age of 13 when Guys start staring at their tits and asses, with the same lust they once had for their Mummy's chocolate cake. You don't show Women you're different to other Guys, by looking, sounding, & behaving like every other Guy.
It's a sad fact for most Guys that they never mature beyond the age of 13 or 14 when it comes to dealing with Women. The same White Knighting, the same lame pick up lines, & compliments about their faces, looks and bodies. Most guys never grow out of all of that horrible, nausea inducting crap!!!
Ma lei e italiana?
Guys might not like it, but Girls will treat a Guy the way he treats himself/allows himself to be treated. Hell, why should a Girl believe a Guy's worth it, when deep down, the Guy himself doesn't believe he is? Exactly, she won't. Deep down, most Guys don't believe they're worth it. They have horrendous self esteem issues, especially dealing with Women. They let Women walk all over them, & do nothing about it, hoping Women will see they're "Good Guy", that letting a Girl walk all over them somehow makes them better than other Guys, and date them for it
Seeking, & needing approval from Women, is a sign of low self esteem, & self worth. It makes Guys chase Women, & beg for their approval., it's the biggest attraction killer EVER for Women.....and makes them run a mile. As difficult as it is, a Guy needs to learn to walk away from Women. Just grit the teeth, & walk away. It's like anything else, the more you do it, the easier it gets.
Girls aren't used to guys walking away from them, they rarely see that. Most Girls are surrounded by low self esteemed, self loathing, desperate, needy, "Nice/Good Guys" who whine:"I'm a "Good Guy", give me a chance. Get to know you, you'll see I'm a "Good Guy"". They rarely meet a Guy who can walk away from them when the interaction with her doesn't suit him. To be able to do that, a Guy has to have a healthy sense of self worth, & know he's worth being treated well by Women
Yes, act always like a teenager boy and go live with your mom. Thats the right behave, isn't it?
@@marguskiis7711 Not even close to what I said
@@michaelwilson7924 actually very close. Teenager boys nowadays just walk away meeting any problem in their life and sit down to spend their life in their phone.
@@marguskiis7711 Again, not even close to what I said, go back and read it very carefully, especially what I said about being prepared to walk away from a Girl when the interaction does't suit you. Which Women do to Guys frequently.
If a Girl doesn't want to date you, that's her right, and if you claim to respect Women, then by definition, you respect a Girl's right not to. But that cuts both ways. She's obligated to respect your right not to be friends with her with her when you want more.
A Guy has to be Man enough to Man up, be honest about who he is, & what he wants with Women. If you wanna date a Girl, Man the hell up & ask her out. If what you want is a fuck buddy thing, be honest & tell her that.
Don't play 14yo High school Boy 'friend' games with her, by telling her you wanna be her friend, are her friend, but not ask her out because you shit your pants like a pussy at the thought of being shot down. Then whine like a little bitch about being "friend zoned".
Staying friends with a Girl hoping it will turn into a relationship, is a loser Guy's game & tactic. It's about being honest with yourself & Women in regards to what you want. Be honest about it, own it like a Man, & stick by it
@@marguskiis7711 So many Guys avoid dealing with their problems, because they lack spine, character, and self worth, they don't wanna fail, because it hurts their wiggle "Nice Guy" feewings. I'm not advocating Guys waking away from a difficult issue, not even close. On the contrary, I'm very much advocating they Man the bloody hell up, face it, meet it head on, & deal with it. You couldn't be any more wrong
Hey Apollonia, someone trying to scam your subscribers.
@user-lc1hj6el1s you sound like you haven't gotten laid in years...