I've only recently started with home school the dog, and my progress is a little bit slower because I can't do as much in a week as most people can because of my particular combination of disability. But this reframing has helped me a lot, to be able to be like aware that we're not ready yet for all things, even if it'd like to be. And even if I've watched I dunno how many videos now, I love how it keeps reconnecting with older episodes and you keep building on it. 💚
Again, brilliant! My little blind dog will hand-deliver ANYTHING I ask her to 'bring me' .... except her tennis ball. Is she not able to? Or she just can't? We are backtracking and reinvestigating the 'bring me' steps to see what needs work. The ball will NOT be brought out anytime soon, as that is just a distraction that I just don't think she is ready for. You've trained me well! We worked on some retrieving of other toys and I've discovered her 'hold' and 'pickup' needs work. And I consider that a success!
This concept applies so well to people, too. As a teacher, I frequently have students that don't do as I ask. I used to always think that my student "won't do it", but after I really applied myself to learning as much as I can about trauma-informed teaching, I realize how much better it is to assume they can't. It makes such a difference!
The other day I was wrapping up chores and my bc was unusually wired-chasing chickens (not at all normal) and generally acting “hyper” for no obvious reason, like he was in a hurry for me to finish so we could go in. When we finally got to the door, he wouldn’t readily sit to be invited thru (an “itsyerchoice” situation). My old “crossover trainer ways” reared their ugly head as I insisted (by just waiting with my hand on the handle) until he sat to be let in, even tho he was by now showing clear signs of anxiety. I’d noticed some rain clouds rolling in but thought, “no big deal, no excuse.” In fact those clouds quickly turned into a full-blown thunder, lightning and hail storm. I felt terrible. This podcast comes as a timely reminder to *believe my dog* and have a little compassion for situational “misbehavior.” Thank you.
I usually think my dogs know what I want and choose not to do. I am learning so much from your podcasts. I don’t give my dogs enough consideration. It’s amazing how smart and intuitive they really are and I often forget that. Thank you for reminding me!!!
This podcast just made my day. I am so entirely grateful to you Susan sharing your knowledge with us. I knew there is something I do not know and I was waiting for the answer I am resonate with to come. And today my question was answered. I really appreciate all the work you doing fir people and their dogs❤️🙏
My dog is now 5 years old. I have only had the 'luring' method of training until coming across your way. It is challenging to change and also encouraging to understand my dog better and build that relationship.
Ive been participating in one of your online classes for about 6 months and you are changing me and changing my relationship with my dog! Thank you! I am getting better at getting curious rather than reacting. Something Im noticing.. I FEEL so peaceful and calm when my dog doesn't respond to a request because I ask myself "what do I need to do that's missing?" Im not 100% yet but I very conscious of when I mess up.
Well yes, this was a real pinata of goodies. I do believe our dogs do the best they can ... And by being curious about why they can't do something, you are offering compassion and problem solving. When you say "won't," I believe you are taking the easy way out by putting all the responsibility on them. Thank you, another great podcast 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
I usually go to, "I must be doing something wrong. I'm being unclear." But I'm super new to this, so I think that's highly likely the problem 100% of the time. ;)
I've had five labs before the female I have now. I will admit I used to train when verbal punishment was "accepted" in obedience and agility. I've loved all my dogs! Now that I know better, I will do better. This lab is being trained a whole different way especially since she will be my diabetic assistance dog. She has to be a loyal friend and have every bit of trust in me. I have to show her compassion and understanding as we go forward in this endeavor so that she has confidence. Figuring out the best way to handle our training situations will be invaluable steps I need to take. My life may very well depend on it.
Awesome video loaded with lots of information and knowledge. I started with my dogs were blowing me off or they were being stubborn. Now for the last 20 plus years I immediately go to what’s happening in the environment, the training or the generalizing I need to work on. What a difference it makes in the belief “if our dogs could , they would. Thank you Susan for entertainment and education.
This will be a challenge to me with my BMC's. Such strong hunting genes, but with their high intelligence, I can see it. Well, if they don't outsmart me. They teach me so much.
A can't for Duke in the beginning and I always thought he was just stubborn, not. I was at fault Recallers has taught me to think analyze unwanted behaviors. Man those dear brought back memories. Awesome podcast just awesome 5 huge stars 🌟
I am happy to say that while I used to be a person who thought my dogs “wouldn’t” do something I am now always looking for reasons why they “can’t”. Sometimes it’s as simple as needing that extra minute to process what I have asked of them. Sometimes maybe I am not clear in my requests. Especially at agility 😂Thanks Susan! Great podcast as always. ❤️🐾
I really needed to hear this! Something similar happened on Monday during Agility . We were learning serpentines. I was not confident that I wouldn't trip over my own feet and my dog decided to go sniff the ground avoiding the second jump in the serpentine. I got frustrated and the instructor noticed that my dog seemed stressed . This was the first time that I had done a serpentine in 10+ years and the first time for this dog. The instructor said exactly what you did. Great reinforcement!
This was so helpful! I’ve been training my now one year old Greater Swiss Mountain Dog mostly at home, both inside and out in the yard (including using our other dog as a distraction) . His focus is amazing, and we’ve accomplished great skills- here 😂. I started taking him to an actual indoor training facility with -gasp- other dogs, and he just “can’t” listen. He’s only in a manners class at this point, and will eventually go into conformation classes. Right now the dogs/handlers in the adjacent agility ring are very loud megaphone noises for him. Working toward them being just white noise. Not gonna lie, I was pretty frustrated the first class, because I knew he knew all the cues, and even his favorite reinforcers were not enough. This podcast has really helped shift my attitude into Camp Can’t! Looking forward to tonight’s class! Thank You!!
Another great podcast Susan, thank you! Fenton could have been my dog :) Wildlife is a 10 distraction for my dog, we have quite a few deers around just now due to a heavy snow fall (well for Scotland :) ) . Since his recall is not there yet he is on leash even in our yard. This morning I took him out and a deer appeared about 50 meters from us. My dog saw it right away but because of the leash he could not chase, he did not pull though (a win for him!) so I was happy but his brain was totally disconnected with me I asked him to come to the side, not a chance. I called his name and he turned his head a few second after but then went back to scout the horizon to check on the deer but he was gone, because he could not see it his arousal had lower a bit and he was engaging with me again... We are slowly getting there just need some more recall play :)
thank you again for this content. We all need to ear this again and again ! I discovered your work few weeks ago, just two weeks before my new puppy arrived in the house. I think he would thank you if he could, everyday since i engaged in the recallers program ;-)
Such a good episode! It took me time to move from blaming my dog to actually trying to understand. My dog was leash reactive and it was hard to relax and enjoy the walks and sometimes i was really mad on my amazing doggy. When we started working with a trainer in order to solve the issue, most of the reason was the way i was pulling the leash in the vicinity of dogs!!! I was a big part of the leash reactivity problem and i didnt know and that my dog actually couldnt behave otherwise in those circumstances
I try hard to remember that my boy (8y.o. mini poodle) and I have a great relationship and he would if he could do as I ask. I'M the one who needs to do better. Really enjoy your podcasts Susan
Loves these podcasts. Just loves these tips on top of the Recallers programme. 'Don't have to train every single experience.' 'Generalize that behaviour'. Thank you for the reminders, Susan. To hear this in a different environment is a great reinforcer for me. Because of this, I worked on recalls off sniffing and had great success. As for the deer, I feel like you must have been falling that thread on the site. Hahaha.
Thank you Susan! this episode was a good reminder for me. I have always used this mindset with manners, however lately my young agility dog has struggled with tunnel sends & opposing motion in a trial environment. You have given me an idea if how I might fix this to help her confidence during trials. Thanks so much your awesome podcasts. ❤
Curious to know what to do when you recall your dog, and they are mid-potty. As in how do we let them finish without mixing our expectations and reinforcement Hope this question makes sense. Thank you
I've always felt like my terriers can't hear me when they get on a hunt. I guess that's my experience of they "can't" because of the "loud noise" I hope one day to have off leash recall, but the hunt is strong!!
Soooo, how do we go about reinforcing our dog’s confidence and rebuilding our relationship after too many “I am so frustrated” moments? I need help here, please. Thank you.
Hi Katherine, our dogs get to the 'next moment' well before us, so every second is a fresh start. Onward and upward! Here's a episode with strategies that will protect your dog's confidence and yours: ruclips.net/video/NzqJgT4dYB0/видео.html
I don't understand what Momentum did in that video.....where was the target? What contact? I am very confused about the tunnel and the dogwalk and what she did wrong...
Hi Apachita, the target was at the end of the dog walk (that's one of the agility "contacts"). The dog is supposed to touch that last part of it with her paws, but Momentum got confused and didn't. The tunnel is the next obstacle after that, although you can't see it in the video. Hope this clarifies!
@@DogsThat Thank you! As I have never done agility it was hard for me to understand. I went back and watched in slow motion and I get it now (feet have to touch the yellow)! Thanks for taking the time to answer my question!
curiouser and curiouser:))). More compassion, less anxiety, best relationship:)))). Love it.
I've only recently started with home school the dog, and my progress is a little bit slower because I can't do as much in a week as most people can because of my particular combination of disability. But this reframing has helped me a lot, to be able to be like aware that we're not ready yet for all things, even if it'd like to be. And even if I've watched I dunno how many videos now, I love how it keeps reconnecting with older episodes and you keep building on it. 💚
Again, brilliant! My little blind dog will hand-deliver ANYTHING I ask her to 'bring me' .... except her tennis ball. Is she not able to? Or she just can't? We are backtracking and reinvestigating the 'bring me' steps to see what needs work. The ball will NOT be brought out anytime soon, as that is just a distraction that I just don't think she is ready for. You've trained me well! We worked on some retrieving of other toys and I've discovered her 'hold' and 'pickup' needs work. And I consider that a success!
This concept applies so well to people, too. As a teacher, I frequently have students that don't do as I ask. I used to always think that my student "won't do it", but after I really applied myself to learning as much as I can about trauma-informed teaching, I realize how much better it is to assume they can't. It makes such a difference!
The other day I was wrapping up chores and my bc was unusually wired-chasing chickens (not at all normal) and generally acting “hyper” for no obvious reason, like he was in a hurry for me to finish so we could go in. When we finally got to the door, he wouldn’t readily sit to be invited thru (an “itsyerchoice” situation). My old “crossover trainer ways” reared their ugly head as I insisted (by just waiting with my hand on the handle) until he sat to be let in, even tho he was by now showing clear signs of anxiety. I’d noticed some rain clouds rolling in but thought, “no big deal, no excuse.” In fact those clouds quickly turned into a full-blown thunder, lightning and hail storm. I felt terrible. This podcast comes as a timely reminder to *believe my dog* and have a little compassion for situational “misbehavior.” Thank you.
Can't. Fenton didn't have the education to control that impulse! 😄🐕
I usually think my dogs know what I want and choose not to do. I am learning so much from your podcasts. I don’t give my dogs enough consideration. It’s amazing how smart and intuitive they really are and I often forget that. Thank you for reminding me!!!
This podcast just made my day. I am so entirely grateful to you Susan sharing your knowledge with us. I knew there is something I do not know and I was waiting for the answer I am resonate with to come. And today my question was answered. I really appreciate all the work you doing fir people and their dogs❤️🙏
My dog is now 5 years old. I have only had the 'luring' method of training until coming across your way. It is challenging to change and also encouraging to understand my dog better and build that relationship.
Susan is shaping me into thinking “won’t” into thinking “can’t. And why not?”
Ive been participating in one of your online classes for about 6 months and you are changing me and changing my relationship with my dog! Thank you! I am getting better at getting curious rather than reacting. Something Im noticing.. I FEEL so peaceful and calm when my dog doesn't respond to a request because I ask myself "what do I need to do that's missing?" Im not 100% yet but I very conscious of when I mess up.
Makes so much sense!
Well yes, this was a real pinata of goodies. I do believe our dogs do the best they can ... And by being curious about why they can't do something, you are offering compassion and problem solving. When you say "won't," I believe you are taking the easy way out by putting all the responsibility on them. Thank you, another great podcast 🍪🍪🍪🍪🍪
I usually go to, "I must be doing something wrong. I'm being unclear." But I'm super new to this, so I think that's highly likely the problem 100% of the time. ;)
I've had five labs before the female I have now. I will admit I used to train when verbal punishment was "accepted" in obedience and agility. I've loved all my dogs! Now that I know better, I will do better. This lab is being trained a whole different way especially since she will be my diabetic assistance dog. She has to be a loyal friend and have every bit of trust in me. I have to show her compassion and understanding as we go forward in this endeavor so that she has confidence. Figuring out the best way to handle our training situations will be invaluable steps I need to take. My life may very well depend on it.
Awesome video loaded with lots of information and knowledge. I started with my dogs were blowing me off or they were being stubborn. Now for the last 20 plus years I immediately go to what’s happening in the environment, the training or the generalizing I need to work on. What a difference it makes in the belief “if our dogs could , they would. Thank you Susan for entertainment and education.
This will be a challenge to me with my BMC's. Such strong hunting genes, but with their high intelligence, I can see it. Well, if they don't outsmart me. They teach me so much.
The nugget of truth: “Sometime is any time for a dog.” I need to be consistent in reinforcing what I want. Great advice.
A can't for Duke in the beginning and I always thought he was just stubborn, not. I was at fault Recallers has taught me to think analyze unwanted behaviors. Man those dear brought back memories. Awesome podcast just awesome 5 huge stars 🌟
I am happy to say that while I used to be a person who thought my dogs “wouldn’t” do something I am now always looking for reasons why they “can’t”. Sometimes it’s as simple as needing that extra minute to process what I have asked of them. Sometimes maybe I am not clear in my requests. Especially at agility 😂Thanks Susan! Great podcast as always. ❤️🐾
Loving your perspective!
I really needed to hear this! Something similar happened on Monday during Agility . We were learning serpentines. I was not confident that I wouldn't trip over my own feet and my dog decided to go sniff the ground avoiding the second jump in the serpentine. I got frustrated and the instructor noticed that my dog seemed stressed . This was the first time that I had done a serpentine in 10+ years and the first time for this dog. The instructor said exactly what you did. Great reinforcement!
This was so helpful! I’ve been training my now one year old Greater Swiss Mountain Dog mostly at home, both inside and out in the yard (including using our other dog as a distraction) . His focus is amazing, and we’ve accomplished great skills- here 😂. I started taking him to an actual indoor training facility with -gasp- other dogs, and he just “can’t” listen. He’s only in a manners class at this point, and will eventually go into conformation classes. Right now the dogs/handlers in the adjacent agility ring are very loud megaphone noises for him. Working toward them being just white noise. Not gonna lie, I was pretty frustrated the first class, because I knew he knew all the cues, and even his favorite reinforcers were not enough. This podcast has really helped shift my attitude into Camp Can’t! Looking forward to tonight’s class!
Thank You!!
Another great podcast Susan, thank you! Fenton could have been my dog :) Wildlife is a 10 distraction for my dog, we have quite a few deers around just now due to a heavy snow fall (well for Scotland :) ) . Since his recall is not there yet he is on leash even in our yard. This morning I took him out and a deer appeared about 50 meters from us. My dog saw it right away but because of the leash he could not chase, he did not pull though (a win for him!) so I was happy but his brain was totally disconnected with me I asked him to come to the side, not a chance. I called his name and he turned his head a few second after but then went back to scout the horizon to check on the deer but he was gone, because he could not see it his arousal had lower a bit and he was engaging with me again... We are slowly getting there just need some more recall play :)
thank you again for this content. We all need to ear this again and again ! I discovered your work few weeks ago, just two weeks before my new puppy arrived in the house. I think he would thank you if he could, everyday since i engaged in the recallers program ;-)
Perfect timing Samuel!
Ugh this is so good I can't stand it!
Such a good episode! It took me time to move from blaming my dog to actually trying to understand. My dog was leash reactive and it was hard to relax and enjoy the walks and sometimes i was really mad on my amazing doggy. When we started working with a trainer in order to solve the issue, most of the reason was the way i was pulling the leash in the vicinity of dogs!!! I was a big part of the leash reactivity problem and i didnt know and that my dog actually couldnt behave otherwise in those circumstances
I try hard to remember that my boy (8y.o. mini poodle) and I have a great relationship and he would if he could do as I ask. I'M the one who needs to do better. Really enjoy your podcasts Susan
Loves these podcasts. Just loves these tips on top of the Recallers programme. 'Don't have to train every single experience.' 'Generalize that behaviour'. Thank you for the reminders, Susan. To hear this in a different environment is a great reinforcer for me. Because of this, I worked on recalls off sniffing and had great success. As for the deer, I feel like you must have been falling that thread on the site. Hahaha.
Great podcast and I need to listen to my bosties more and get curious and find out why they do what they are doing. ❤❤❤❤⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Thank you Susan! this episode was a good reminder for me. I have always used this mindset with manners, however lately my young agility dog has struggled with tunnel sends & opposing motion in a trial environment. You have given me an idea if how I might fix this to help her confidence during trials. Thanks so much your awesome podcasts. ❤
Curious to know what to do when you recall your dog, and they are mid-potty.
As in how do we let them finish without mixing our expectations and reinforcement
Hope this question makes sense.
Thank you
I've always felt like my terriers can't hear me when they get on a hunt. I guess that's my experience of they "can't" because of the "loud noise"
I hope one day to have off leash recall, but the hunt is strong!!
He sounds like he / she needs instructions and understanding
"I'm not ready to do what you say yet, I am enjoying myself doing what I am doing." That's a won't. Right?
Soooo, how do we go about reinforcing our dog’s confidence and rebuilding our relationship after too many “I am so frustrated” moments? I need help here, please. Thank you.
Hi Katherine, our dogs get to the 'next moment' well before us, so every second is a fresh start. Onward and upward! Here's a episode with strategies that will protect your dog's confidence and yours: ruclips.net/video/NzqJgT4dYB0/видео.html
I don't understand what Momentum did in that video.....where was the target? What contact? I am very confused about the tunnel and the dogwalk and what she did wrong...
Hi Apachita, the target was at the end of the dog walk (that's one of the agility "contacts"). The dog is supposed to touch that last part of it with her paws, but Momentum got confused and didn't. The tunnel is the next obstacle after that, although you can't see it in the video. Hope this clarifies!
@@DogsThat Thank you! As I have never done agility it was hard for me to understand. I went back and watched in slow motion and I get it now (feet have to touch the yellow)! Thanks for taking the time to answer my question!
I've always been someone who looks at the bigger picture.🙂 I think that single minded trainers are doing a disservice to their dogs.
Everyone gives newfs a pass.. they’re stubborn. I’m learning it’s my miscommunication