When a "Friendship" Crosses Boundaries of Intimacy

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

Комментарии • 38

  • @relaystationtoo
    @relaystationtoo 10 месяцев назад +19

    My wife, was close friends with her boss, it turned into an emotional and physical affair. We're working through all of it, but I have to agree with you, it destroys the marriage, the family, and so much more. Anyway, thank you for the videos.

    • @E-Z-E_77
      @E-Z-E_77 10 месяцев назад +2

      Agreed.
      Seen this too many times.

    • @basilleavesandhoneybees483
      @basilleavesandhoneybees483 3 месяца назад +2

      Agreed! Ridiculous weak choice with severe consequences

    • @Ellana_Galkin
      @Ellana_Galkin 21 день назад +2

      Should have left, many good women out there.

  • @jimmoravec1326
    @jimmoravec1326 9 месяцев назад +6

    You are spot on the only problem I have is that not everyone is married and it’s just as important whether it’s boyfriend and girlfriend as it is to be married. It’s still considered partners married or dating you don’t just meet someone and marry them right away so dating is just as important as marriage.
    Other than that you have been spot on in all of your videos. 👍

  • @ebest1338
    @ebest1338 11 месяцев назад +8

    OMG. Somebody please tell my husband this. OMG. Thanks Mary Jo

  • @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848
    @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848 2 месяца назад +7

    If you gotta hide it, it's inappropriate.

  • @Domenic-gx9lc
    @Domenic-gx9lc 4 месяца назад +1

    Great viedo absolutely some of the best information you wilk find of very hard to deal with personal emotional stuff that can be very painful and also sadly very destructive

  • @abhijitmajumder9278
    @abhijitmajumder9278 11 месяцев назад +4

    You are extraordinary!!! Sounds like God is speaking!!!

  • @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848
    @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848 2 месяца назад +2

    People that are too nice to a fault cannot set boundaries too weak

  • @engineered-mind
    @engineered-mind 2 месяца назад +2

    This happened to me and I cut the relationship after 5 years

  • @rossothecrimson7
    @rossothecrimson7 5 месяцев назад +1

    My bf befriended 2 women 4yrs into our relationship. Swears theyre friends but the single one often loves to pretend I dont exist whenever we hangout with them. Will literally stand in front or near me and avoid eye contact nor say a word. Last time I saw he she had hung out with my bf and their.other friends w/o me. The next month he brought me along and didnt tell them. She walked in didnt, even acknowledge me and just death stared my bf while his usal greeting self avoided her gaze intentionally. Had the audacity to tell me I didnt see any of that.
    Bf tells me I dont understand her. Like I can't understand rude fn behavior. I flat out told him she likes him and he plays it off. I know he has shxt talked about me to them as theyll say specific comments regarding situations we have been in. Its good, I let him tell me how theres nothing there, and he would never get with someone that looks like the problematic one, etc. Like dude. I have a penchant for ghosting lt problems when they think everything is good. 💀💀💀💀

  • @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848
    @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848 2 месяца назад +1

    Put it to you like this. My ex used to take the phone in the bathroom and communicate on Facebook and WhatsApp

  • @lsf71
    @lsf71 11 месяцев назад +3

    Agree 100%

  • @dedclownsRfunny
    @dedclownsRfunny 4 месяца назад +1

    I think addressing too many people marrying too quickly in the first place

  • @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848
    @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848 2 месяца назад

    Thank you. It's hard for Women to understand this. They say us guys are insecure and possessive.

  • @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848
    @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848 2 месяца назад +2

    Women who don't want to hear that they are wrong will not do couples therapy. They like to hear they are right.

  • @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848
    @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848 2 месяца назад

    We need a video about her girlfriends giving bad advice because misery loves company too

  • @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848
    @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848 2 месяца назад

    Selfishness too

  • @csmith8503
    @csmith8503 10 месяцев назад +2

    That's right, If your partner is denying your need for intimacy and sex, you should just get a hobby or do volunteer work; because women know that those are not true needs at all.

    • @suzanahas4740
      @suzanahas4740 5 месяцев назад

      You can even do some gambling or smoke some pot.. or you can be very much by yourself bcs your needs are not important.. you are not important..dismiss, suppress and repress your needs and choose instead an autoimmune disease.. etc.

    • @JB-pd3ir
      @JB-pd3ir 3 месяца назад

      If nothing ever changes, and it is not due to health issues, you should probably get a divorce as this is part of the goals of marriage. Although, I would not really call them needs in the sense of survival (you can live without it but I would not call that a fulfilling marriage to put it mildly).

  • @brianstrawser3654
    @brianstrawser3654 11 месяцев назад +13

    Seldom is a man friends with a married woman without anterior motives.

    • @terrywade3696
      @terrywade3696 11 месяцев назад +7

      Do you mean ulterior motives?

    • @brianstrawser3654
      @brianstrawser3654 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@terrywade3696 Yup. Oops

    • @williamripple686
      @williamripple686 11 месяцев назад +10

      Yeah, that man got my wife, for a year I later found out. But my young wife was equally to blame, because any woman can refuse the advances of a man.

    • @JB-pd3ir
      @JB-pd3ir 3 месяца назад +1

      @@williamripple686 Your wife was the most to blame as she is the one that made the promise to you.

    • @karenpeacock611
      @karenpeacock611 Месяц назад

      Try sister in law

  • @alistairhunter5724
    @alistairhunter5724 5 месяцев назад

    Never have or would start to date a women with male friends . Nice to meet you best wishes for your future but it will not be with me .( Would not go back on that decision even if they said they would drop them .)

  • @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848
    @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848 2 месяца назад

    Many Women will not bend. They want what they want.

  • @marvthedog1972
    @marvthedog1972 11 месяцев назад +7

    emotional affair... now i've heard everything.

    • @ashl8804
      @ashl8804 5 месяцев назад

      😂😂

    • @JB-pd3ir
      @JB-pd3ir 3 месяца назад

      Yes, I have been hearing this everywhere lately and it is getting a tad much. Yes, if someone is not careful they can begin to fall in love with someone but guess what they can shut it off and I feel it is a bit silly for a partner to be devastated. Now, if in the relation, they had not consummated the relationship but they are actively sharing romantic thoughts towards each other (telling each others that they would be ashamed for their spouse to see then yes, it would be considered basically on the way to being an affair - an emotional affair if you will).

  • @webster777maramba4
    @webster777maramba4 11 месяцев назад +3

    I need to be careful with married women. I almost feel it in my chest that I need to stop entertaining certain women 🫣😧😬🫢