I am a 54 year old woman who lives alone. I have no children or grandchildren to fill my life with joy. I have no significant other to lie with or comfort me. I do have friends, but they can only do so much. This was lovely...like lying in bed with a grown up granddaughter and listening to her babbble before falling asleep. Very lovely and cute. p.s. you have a very wonderful singing voice too. Thank you for this nice gift.
Herring Choker Just remember, at 54 you still have so much time to find a significant other. I shouldn't talk because I hardly try, but we'll find someone.
+softlygaloshes maybe, i don't remember it from your videos but who knows, maybe the universe tied the song to certain people, i believe in that kinda stuff so i don't think its an odd assumption
I really enjoyed this. Yet... There was a sadness in it for me, as well. Ironically, it reminded me if how alone I actually am, (though, I'm constantly aware of it) along with how many people I've lost. I love the background stories that you add, but having had a less-than-lovely childhood, I never had anything like that. I often wish that I'd had an adorable childhood crush, particularly one that was shared. But everyday, I'm reminded that, no, innocence was not my birthright, and in fact, depression envelopes my daily life.
I truly know that feeling. Loneliness almost killed me. Just years and years of it... neglectful, toxic family. No irl friends for years and years. Eventually ruining the relationship between me and every person I ever lived with... I always wished for that adorable childhood too. But hey -- if I can find a way out, you can too. I believe in you. You're stronger than you think.
+softlygaloshes I wont lie... I MAY have just looked over the edge for a moment, just to consider what the abyss offered. I put them down, but Goddess, the idea was unarguably appealing.
Well not to be rude, but here's a hint. Talking about it in the comments of a RUclips video won't make it any better. Try to get out, I understand if you have social anxiety and stuff, but you can't let that control you, no one is gonna be friends with ya if you're doing this.
It's an amazing feeling having a moment of pure peace and serenity listening to your voice. Even when it feels like the world around is caving in over my head, it's nice to feel like someone genuinely cares, even though we never have, and probably never will meet. Thank you very much for everything you do.
Everything is so lonely for me at the moment I don't know what to do or what to think anymore about life I just wanna give up but I know I can't but these videos always make me feel better about myself thank for making them.
The song part reminded me of when I was younger. If I woke up from a nightmare I would go sleep with my mom and dad. To help me go back to sleep my mom would sing "You Are My Sunshine" to me. She has such a sweet voice. I'll have to ask her to sing it for me again. Just for nostalgic purposes.
Watching this video gave me an immense sense of peace that I don't usually get from ASMR videos. Usually when I'm trying to fall asleep I try to clear my mind but I kept replaying the song you were humming in my head and somehow it allowed me to fall asleep faster. Also as a writer I really appreciate the stories, I particularly liked the mental imagery of running through the grass and across the train tracks while holding hands :)
Today I was supposed to have a sleepover with my best friend but she kinda in a way bailed on me and I cried all afternoon and part of the night because she is all I really have friend wise and I didn’t want to be alone again tonight so I’m so glad I found this
Thank you for doing these videos, but in case like this, it just makes me feel worse. It reminds me that I don't have a person like this in my life. This, like all of these types of videos are just a fantasy, a momentary distraction from a painful world. When the video ends, I'm going to go back to being alone in the dark. You're not really here, no one is really here.
Well, how do you deal with this sorrow? Find a solution, distract yourself until you forget. Then do something mean to cheer yourself up. Mean but reasonable. Like taking revenge, or establishing painful judgement for some wrongdoer.
This is comforting- and I never say that. I mean it's COMFORTING. Like, I wanna just snuggle up in a cloud and nuzzle a Guinea pig. Oh, c'mon! That sounds so cute^•^
hi, it’s been years but this has always been the video i come back to when i feel sad. i’ve been having a hard time lately so hearing you tell stories about our “friendship” heals my heart. thank you for keeping me company. i hope you’re doing alright.
Many of her older videos had the left side/right side trigger. That's why she has this introduction. Maybe if you try some of those older ones they might work for you. 😊 hope this helps!
Ahhh these are my favourite type of videos I cant wait to watch this tonight! Have you ever considered doing a Skyrim gaming video or roleplay? I think that would be awesome :)
I'm home alone for a few days and i'm very paranoid as a person so nighttime alone is TERRIBLE, even with my two dogs. So thank you! This made me feel better
It's been four years since this video has released. As I sit here in my pandemic riddled country, worrying about money/family/freinds, having not physically seen or spent time with my friends in months, and after long shift at work, I'd like to remind you, softlygaloshes, of the positive impact your videos have and will continue to have. Four years ago, I scoffed at the idea of ASMR, though I've slowly warmed up to it. Four years ago, I was at my then peak of happiness. Four years ago, you posted this video to your fans to help them to feel more hopeful, though you'd never know how much of an impact in the end. I'm ashamed(?) to say I cried a bit when I started this video up tonight, yet they weren't tears of sadness. It's kind of funny how important a video for everyone can make you feel a certain way, but I digress. Four years from now, we'll all look back on these times and question why we had so little faith in ourselves. Maybe we'll all take a second and breathe in that wonderful, clean air, and thank our lucky stars that we never gave up. Thanks, softly, for now and for tomorrow
Thank you so much for your videos the ones like this especially have helped me get through so much. This is actually the first video I found of yours when I was alone and needed someone to listen this is what I found and you were there. So I thought I’d come back to it to say goodbye I have to move on to try and move out of my depression the comfort you always provide is something I’ll never forget but listening to your videos provides comfort in the dark and when you’re comfortable you don’t want to move forward and I need to. Maybe I’ll come back again when I fall but for now goodbye and once again thank you for everything.
i love it when you make these kinds of videos. makes me really happy. 😊💕 i also love it when you sing too. it feels like that i have a friend who cares 😄
this is so helpful and lovely!!!I'm currently going through some things at the moment and the only person there for me is on holiday rn,so I can't talk to them.this is really pleasant cause it reminds me of us talking and them helping me.that may sound weird case you are two different people, but it really does help.thank you,this is a excellent video.
I terribly feel alone and lonely. Thank you so much for this video, it made me cry and pour this all out. I know it's super weird to cry onto this but yes. My friends are slowly drifting away from me, worst part is, they don't seem to realize it. To realize that they are step by step walking away and leaving me behind. I think as though, this is my fault also, for always depending on them, they used to be the people whom I can lean on because I am not that close with my siblings and my parents work overseas. I so much crave for someone to talk to, someone to actually care for me, someone who'd listen to all of my sentiments and how I am easily hurt and how my vulnerability is weighing things heavier onto my shoulders, someone who'll understand how am I just like this: boring and tedious, plain and skeptical. But this video genuinely made me feel as though I have that someone but it sure made me cry because at the same time, I am also realizing that I actually have no one anymore. Thank you still, I wish you were my friend. I am sure that your actual friends are so lucky that hey have you. I hope that you'd keep doing this kind of videos because it surely helps. God bless and I hope no one here could ever feel this sad and low again. Good night, let's try to sleep.
im sick in bed this morning with a fever. literally PERFECT timing for this video. very comforting, thank you :) ( hope i didnt get you sick too though :P )
Happy birthday dude! We might not be there, but us internet bros have got to look out for each other! Even if your alone, spend the day or your free time doing something fun man! Have a great day!
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I am a 54 year old woman who lives alone. I have no children or grandchildren to fill my life with joy. I have no significant other to lie with or comfort me. I do have friends, but they can only do so much. This was lovely...like lying in bed with a grown up granddaughter and listening to her babbble before falling asleep. Very lovely and cute. p.s. you have a very wonderful singing voice too. Thank you for this nice gift.
Herring Choker
Aww, that's sweet. I hope you have refreshing sleep, and that these videos help you to find it.
Herring Choker Just remember, at 54 you still have so much time to find a significant other. I shouldn't talk because I hardly try, but we'll find someone.
Herring Choker And you can STILL live the life you deserve!!!
I wonder the type of replies this would have if the OP was a 54 year old man.
DougCaraffini sad but true
You make so many friend videos, we've never talked but I feel like we are besties 😁 Great video!
Wow this comment is BURIED. Is this from before your channel got big?
When you realize how lonely you are when you start balling like a child in the beginning of watching this video 😭
Thank you so much for this video, it is just so perfect and being alone can be such a scary feeling. This is so cozy and beautiful. Thank you again!
Kiki
OMG, Kiki!! Ojalá, pudieran hacer una colaboración juntas. Lo agradecería demasiado.
You feel alone? I can change it :3
+Yalleguebitjus C4IV shit i forgot the tag
kiki 😍💕
Wow. That song hit me hard. My mom sang that every single day when I was little. That's ingrained in my head forever. Thank you for that
"I hope you know dear, how much I love you, so please don't take, my sunshine away"
+Liam Burgmann that made me cry..
I'm so sorry.
+Liam Burgmann damn soldier, that was strong
Same
that humming song. I've heard it before, no joke. but i can't quite place where i heard it. it nearly brought me to tears for some reason
I have actually hummed / sung it in other videos of mine :D But maybe also magical universal song :D
+softlygaloshes maybe, i don't remember it from your videos but who knows, maybe the universe tied the song to certain people, i believe in that kinda stuff so i don't think its an odd assumption
Absolutely not an odd assumption :D I love the idea that it's tied to some people
+softlygaloshes i love the idea too :)
For me, my mom sang that every night to me when I was little. Really hit me hard.
I really enjoyed this. Yet... There was a sadness in it for me, as well. Ironically, it reminded me if how alone I actually am, (though, I'm constantly aware of it) along with how many people I've lost. I love the background stories that you add, but having had a less-than-lovely childhood, I never had anything like that. I often wish that I'd had an adorable childhood crush, particularly one that was shared. But everyday, I'm reminded that, no, innocence was not my birthright, and in fact, depression envelopes my daily life.
I truly know that feeling. Loneliness almost killed me. Just years and years of it... neglectful, toxic family. No irl friends for years and years. Eventually ruining the relationship between me and every person I ever lived with... I always wished for that adorable childhood too.
But hey -- if I can find a way out, you can too. I believe in you. You're stronger than you think.
+softlygaloshes I wont lie... I MAY have just looked over the edge for a moment, just to consider what the abyss offered. I put them down, but Goddess, the idea was unarguably appealing.
+softlygaloshes Maybe in another life, we were best friends. I like to think that. Maybe I was more important, more useful in that life.
These videos are bittersweet
+Seafoam Kitten's ASMR I apologize for my pessimism.
I'm lonely.
Welcome to my world
Jacob Baker
I'm always Is....
I wish i had friends
Sometimes it´s better to have less Friends who you can trust,instead of having to many friends who would backstab you
Well not to be rude, but here's a hint. Talking about it in the comments of a RUclips video won't make it any better.
Try to get out, I understand if you have social anxiety and stuff, but you can't let that control you, no one is gonna be friends with ya if you're doing this.
***** tbh i feel kinda save when i am alone by myself.But i am a kinda shy Person who doesn´t talk that much maybe that´s why
+Kyle Stallings no you don't understand.
You should really be saying that you wish friends had you!
"Your still awake?"
No, I'm obviously sleeping with my eyes open and can consciously hear you so I am speaking to you, while my brain has shut down.
*You're
Haha
Well we are like a horse but better
Yup you are definitely karkat
Ah yes, of course.
10:32 is when the humming starts :)
Bless your soul
It's an amazing feeling having a moment of pure peace and serenity listening to your voice. Even when it feels like the world around is caving in over my head, it's nice to feel like someone genuinely cares, even though we never have, and probably never will meet. Thank you very much for everything you do.
I just want to thank you for these videos. You really bring peace to people’s hearts
Everything is so lonely for me at the moment I don't know what to do or what to think anymore about life I just wanna give up but I know I can't but these videos always make me feel better about myself thank for making them.
I don't know if the title is supposed to make me feel better or threatened.
+WhosPlayingPiano lol
true
@@softlygaloshes baby
Beb
@@softlygaloshes love bab baby
This makes me feel so loved
The song part reminded me of when I was younger. If I woke up from a nightmare I would go sleep with my mom and dad. To help me go back to sleep my mom would sing "You Are My Sunshine" to me. She has such a sweet voice. I'll have to ask her to sing it for me again. Just for nostalgic purposes.
I’m a single dad of a 2 year old and nights are hard for me and this helps a lot sence my wife died
dimondlord11 Bless you and your child. I'm sorry for your loss.
Watching this video gave me an immense sense of peace that I don't usually get from ASMR videos. Usually when I'm trying to fall asleep I try to clear my mind but I kept replaying the song you were humming in my head and somehow it allowed me to fall asleep faster. Also as a writer I really appreciate the stories, I particularly liked the mental imagery of running through the grass and across the train tracks while holding hands :)
This video makes me so sad. I wish I had someone like this in real life
Gummy Gummy Same
I've hit a new low in my life
We all did mate...we all did.
Ain't nothin wrong with this here, bro
Thank you so much for these caring friend role plays, I absolutely love them, and you are so genuine in them! You're my favorite asmrtist Rebekah ❤️
Today I was supposed to have a sleepover with my best friend but she kinda in a way bailed on me and I cried all afternoon and part of the night because she is all I really have friend wise and I didn’t want to be alone again tonight so I’m so glad I found this
I'm kinda uncomfortable that we're in bed together I mean we are just friends lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂comment of the week
Lmao!
idk im close enough w my friends that i could comfortably lay w them without it getting weird
+G2DCGaming thank u!!!! and i'm 14:(
+Jordan Roberts lol I'm 13 why must I be younger than everyone
-You were having a nightmare?
-Yes, back in '95, back in the Balkans, where I lost my squad to the artillery shells and machinegun fire
I felt so comforted 💕
Oh my gosh I loved it so much when you were humming the song. So calming
Youth. As you age, isolation is reality.
Fact of Life
Deep
+Latte Cat I've Come Yo Talk With You Again...
+Foxy The Pirate Fox *To
I usually don't like soft-spoken (as opposed to whispering) too much, but the humming gave me tingles galore. You have the most beautiful voice.
Thank you for doing these videos, but in case like this, it just makes me feel worse. It reminds me that I don't have a person like this in my life. This, like all of these types of videos are just a fantasy, a momentary distraction from a painful world. When the video ends, I'm going to go back to being alone in the dark. You're not really here, no one is really here.
Shadow Moon even if you had a person like this in your life it wouldn't be the same. Iife isn't perfect
Well, how do you deal with this sorrow? Find a solution, distract yourself until you forget. Then do something mean to cheer yourself up. Mean but reasonable. Like taking revenge, or establishing painful judgement for some wrongdoer.
I love it when you say "everything is gonna be okay." You seem so genuine and kind.
Thank you for this. Had a huge bust up with my boyfriend and felt so down. Needed this 💕
A few years ago i remember falling asleep to that tune you're humming and i spent hours looking for it, im so glad i was able to find it today!
I wish this video were longer!
Very touching and comforting.
"You still awake?"
"No"
"Ok"
*Video ends
*"You're finally awake"*
I love it when you lay on your side like that, its so cosy! And congratz with 160k subs :)
This is comforting- and I never say that. I mean it's COMFORTING. Like, I wanna just snuggle up in a cloud and nuzzle a Guinea pig. Oh, c'mon! That sounds so cute^•^
Thank you sooooo muchhhh!! I'm forever going to be watching this ❤️💤
you are clearly the most professional asmr person on youtube. thanks for helping me thru some rough times. you rock!
I loved this entire video, especially falling asleep at the end.... Nicely done!
Awwwwwwwww this was so sweet
Who else cried throughout the duration of the video....? X,c I'm so alone...
Zechariah Angel, me too 😢😭🥺
hi, it’s been years but this has always been the video i come back to when i feel sad. i’ve been having a hard time lately so hearing you tell stories about our “friendship” heals my heart. thank you for keeping me company. i hope you’re doing alright.
could you do an asmr of your intro. your intro gives me tingles every single time.
Many of her older videos had the left side/right side trigger. That's why she has this introduction. Maybe if you try some of those older ones they might work for you. 😊 hope this helps!
She has lots of left side, right side videos.
Ahhh these are my favourite type of videos I cant wait to watch this tonight! Have you ever considered doing a Skyrim gaming video or roleplay? I think that would be awesome :)
Upvote commenter above me to karma heaven!
That means I agree btw
+Ktab Batk My man's redditing too much
MY MAN?!?!?!?! DID YOU ASSUME THEIR GENDER?!?!?! Oh wait, wrong website. Reddit is better than tumblr by far.
I actually fall asleep thanks to this video! It really works! Thanks a bunch! *sigh* I just wish I had MORE friends who REALLY cared..... 😢
I'm home alone for a few days and i'm very paranoid as a person so nighttime alone is TERRIBLE, even with my two dogs. So thank you! This made me feel better
i cried omg these are some of the things my moirail would say...the few times her and i have slept on the phone or next to eachother
I was soooo creeped out by the title.
'You're not alone tonight...'
Nobess Choolie Minecraft profile pic... that’s all I’m gonna say
*Erie Left for Dead music plays*
It's been four years since this video has released. As I sit here in my pandemic riddled country, worrying about money/family/freinds, having not physically seen or spent time with my friends in months, and after long shift at work, I'd like to remind you, softlygaloshes, of the positive impact your videos have and will continue to have. Four years ago, I scoffed at the idea of ASMR, though I've slowly warmed up to it. Four years ago, I was at my then peak of happiness. Four years ago, you posted this video to your fans to help them to feel more hopeful, though you'd never know how much of an impact in the end. I'm ashamed(?) to say I cried a bit when I started this video up tonight, yet they weren't tears of sadness. It's kind of funny how important a video for everyone can make you feel a certain way, but I digress. Four years from now, we'll all look back on these times and question why we had so little faith in ourselves. Maybe we'll all take a second and breathe in that wonderful, clean air, and thank our lucky stars that we never gave up. Thanks, softly, for now and for tomorrow
Thank you so much for your videos the ones like this especially have helped me get through so much. This is actually the first video I found of yours when I was alone and needed someone to listen this is what I found and you were there. So I thought I’d come back to it to say goodbye I have to move on to try and move out of my depression the comfort you always provide is something I’ll never forget but listening to your videos provides comfort in the dark and when you’re comfortable you don’t want to move forward and I need to. Maybe I’ll come back again when I fall but for now goodbye and once again thank you for everything.
I know that you probably won’t read it but after all you’ve given me I felt like I needed to say a proper goodbye
I'm so proud of you! I'm glad you're taking the next steps in your recovery. ♡
@@softlygaloshes thank you x
I need more asmr like this
omg please make more videos like these,its similair to the camping crush series
You did this really well
You're so great I can never stay away from your videos, not that I would ever want to!
You're my go-to channel when I am in need of a companion for my sleep troubles. Ur the bomb💖
Thanks for existing softlygaloshes. When it gets too loud in my head your channel is my comfort,tumblr cozy zone. Thank you so much. Peace 👑
How do you do these so well time after time, after time?
Perfect words, perfect sounds.
That's just friendship goals, lol!
i love it when you make these kinds of videos. makes me really happy. 😊💕 i also love it when you sing too. it feels like that i have a friend who cares 😄
This is genuinely a very sweet video. I really like the purpose of it. Nice work, Softly.
It has been over 4 years now nad this video is still the best
Yay, roleplay! ❤️ Hope my suggestion wasn't too harsh on your other upload. 😩 xx
Nah it's cool xD I legitimately hadn't realized how long it'd been since I did a roleplay so it actually really helped!
ugh why do you have to make these so perfect
I say that watching your vids is wonderful... they're wonderful!!
your videos soothe my soul, thank youuu
You never cease to amaze me with your videos Rebecca. This is so great 😔😴
knocked it out of the park as always Softly. Great job.
Well I didn't know I needed this but it was tingly and comforting. The tingles were a surprise because I thought I was immune atm. Thank You!
your my favorite ASMR channel, it relaxes my brain, thank you for caring about others.
this is so helpful and lovely!!!I'm currently going through some things at the moment and the only person there for me is on holiday rn,so I can't talk to them.this is really pleasant cause it reminds me of us talking and them helping me.that may sound weird case you are two different people, but it really does help.thank you,this is a excellent video.
Thank you for making this when you started singing that song "you are my sunshine" I was surprised and filled with memories thank you
You make me feel good
That was so Beautiful ❤❤❤😘
This was honestly amazing! One of the better asmr videos I've seen in a very long time, looking forward to new videos!!
Perfect. It's all dark and cloudy out and there's wind and it's scary so at least I sorta have you lol
When you started doing the song, I got all warm and fuzzy. Well done. :)
Thank you. This came on exactly the right day.
Thanks Rebekah :) Been going through some tough times recently and this is just what I needed :)
This made me want to bawl my eyes out. Thanks for being my friend. ❤️
Is it good that sometimes your videos make me want to cry
Sounds like a good night
I love your videos keep up the good work
Thank you for this.
Your videos are always just as perfect as you are, and you are more than perfect! Thank you so much!
thank you
Love the soft speaking :3
Hi Bekah this is John. I love this video you did on the sleepover.this is really excellent.excellent job indeed.
Can you do an asmr video for nightmares please! I get really bad nightmares here and there and it's really hard for me to sleep it off..
you are like an angelic being
I terribly feel alone and lonely. Thank you so much for this video, it made me cry and pour this all out. I know it's super weird to cry onto this but yes. My friends are slowly drifting away from me, worst part is, they don't seem to realize it. To realize that they are step by step walking away and leaving me behind. I think as though, this is my fault also, for always depending on them, they used to be the people whom I can lean on because I am not that close with my siblings and my parents work overseas. I so much crave for someone to talk to, someone to actually care for me, someone who'd listen to all of my sentiments and how I am easily hurt and how my vulnerability is weighing things heavier onto my shoulders, someone who'll understand how am I just like this: boring and tedious, plain and skeptical. But this video genuinely made me feel as though I have that someone but it sure made me cry because at the same time, I am also realizing that I actually have no one anymore. Thank you still, I wish you were my friend. I am sure that your actual friends are so lucky that hey have you. I hope that you'd keep doing this kind of videos because it surely helps. God bless and I hope no one here could ever feel this sad and low again. Good night, let's try to sleep.
This is so good! My favourite asmr video by far. :)
im sick in bed this morning with a fever. literally PERFECT timing for this video. very comforting, thank you :) ( hope i didnt get you sick too though :P )
This was brilliant. Please do some more.
This video is so sweet and gentle.i enjoyed it. Do you make more of these?
Pokémon do live in tall grass, glad to see someone educated keeping me happy during my loneliness
You're an angel.
This video was published at a perfect time because I've been getting depressed about having to be alone for my birthday.
awe dude,happy near birthday.you won't be alone, you have the Internet😄I hope you won't be alone. 💞💞💞💞
Happy birthday dude! We might not be there, but us internet bros have got to look out for each other! Even if your alone, spend the day or your free time doing something fun man! Have a great day!
Happy birthday man, i'll crack a cold one for you bro.
Happy Birthday 🙏
Aye happy birthday fam.
i love you're asmr video it's beautiful and loving thankyou for this video love scott harvey xxx
I was about to sleep and then I heard the song she was singing and all I could think of is Negan making Carl sing him that song 😂
OMG! you are so amazing and perfect! I love you!! haha this video is now going to be my go-to sleeping video! thank you so much!