I am happy she’s gonna take steps to avoid what her parents did. But she needs to forget about them and honestly cut them out completely it’s very clear those failures she calls parents could care less about her. Especially considering one of their kids was in danger of losing her baby and instead of making sure she was alright they immediately brushed it off and went back to talking about Emma. At that moment both her and husband should’ve cut them off immediately. And she shouldn’t feel bad about it cause people like that don’t change unless something happens to Emma and you better believe they’re gonna come to OP and beg her to help Emma.
@@jdavis7613This is the most annoying part of these stories. What family? Family supports, she has never been supported, so what is there to lose? This OP is especially annoying with her willingness to be crapped on.
@@Mop222 honestly, she should be happy she gained a husband and kids and in-laws that Actually give a dam about her and the only thing she lost were two toxic parents and a sister that did nothing to stop them. So really she gained more than she lost to hell with those losers.
personally, I really don't feel bad for the sister. she is just as narcissistic as her parents and if she screws up in life, and the parents come crawling back to her, I wouldn't blame her for turning them away.
And watch the moment Emma’s life goes bad they’ll come crawling to op begging for her to help Emma. Or if something happens to Emma is when they remember they had two kids and are shocked when OP slams the door in their face. Parents like this annoy me cause the moment their actions come back to bite them they’re shocked and don’t realize what they did wrong.
@senatorarmstrong4662 I'm saying it was right for OP to steal the spotlight at her sister's party, but again, it was the parents fault for her turning out this way.
@@paarthurnax8519 agreed it wasn’t cool but she wouldn’t have done that had her parents done their job. Even her sister should’ve understood why op did what she did and actually communicated with op. But because of her parents constantly shining the spotlight on her the moment it was off her she lost it. And that will come to bite Emma in the future. So the parents negatively affected both kids cause now one kid has an Inferiority complex and the other will be narcissistic and lash out when something doesn’t go her way or when the attention isn’t solely on her.
@senatorarmstrong4662 in my opinion, she should focus on not only her husband and son, but also her art. Improve her skills as an artist and start her own RUclips channel and let herself thrive! It would be cool if she became famous one day and earn way more than her own sister. Would be cool to see her sulk in anger and jealousy.
@@paarthurnax8519 exactly the best revenge is to live a long and happy life. And honestly, she gained more than she lost she has a loving husband a son, and in-laws who I'm sure will give her the love her parents never did. And I agree she should work on her craft but the issue is if she becomes too famous and it does lead to her becoming rich. We both know that will be the day her parents show up and start gaslighting her into believing they always had faith in her. And it's very clear they only care bout their own status so if op gets famous she needs to be ready for them cause they will do what ever it takes to get in her good graces. Or worse they may not like the fact that she's more successful than their precious Emma and may even try to sabotage her career.
I've experienced a parent claiming your angry over nothing cuz it's from your childhood. The problem is if it's still happening, then it's still occurring and not old news..... You're completely in the right and I commend you for standing up for yourself ✅️ 👏. For your own mental health, you need to separate yourself for a while and protect your own family 😊
First time where I’ve seen the comments so split lmao. The parents are awful for several reasons. Parents really aren’t supposed to play favorites, period. It feeds resentment, feelings of inadequacy, and just lots of sadness all around. OP was made to feel invisible, and less than. Someone in the comments compared her to a delinquent which is baffling because she clearly states that she tried hard to be the daughter her parents wanted. She tried to study hard and make good grades. When you have obvious learning disabilities that aren’t diagnosed and treated accordingly it can and will effect your grades. Had she had some freaking support in school & at home her grades probably could’ve improved. This is coming from someone who wasn’t diagnosed with learning disabilities until their high school years. Now on to the sister it sounds like she never really had OP’s back. Like she didn’t love or really care about her sister so long as she had mommy and daddy in her corner. People were saying things like ‘what was she supposed to do for OP?’ in the comments on Reddit. For starters she could’ve shown love, and support to OP. She also could’ve confronted the parents about their behavior. My brother was the golden child of the family, the favorite, and he literally stood up to my parents one night and told them they had two children besides himself and that they needed to step up before refusing to speak to either of them. He was an ally for my youngest sibling and I… and it meant the world to us. Emma failed as a sibling, period. As for OP… she’s letting her childhood trauma dictate her life. It’s good she’s getting therapy for it now, especially with a child of her own on the way. BUT she needs to realize that no matter what she does in life it’ll NEVER be good enough for her narcissistic parents and sister. They clearly never cares about her and never will… so she needs to focus on herself, her husband, and her beautiful baby. She might want them in her life, but she’s better off without them.
THIS, while what op did wasn’t cool she wouldn’t have done that had her parents did their job. And I agree the comments calling her a delinquent baffled me she clearly states she worked hard and tried her best but all she got in return was “so what? Emma did this. Years of that of course would lead to op feeling inferior and having resentment towards Emma. And the last straw is them going to all of Emma’s events and none of OPs like at that point just say you don’t care about op. And what really got me was the comments defending the parents saying of course they should reword Emma for her success and why should they reword op. And I agree that you should reword you kids accomplishments but you better keep that same energy for your other child even if it’s small if they are working hard and improving your job is to praise them and encourage them to keep improving. But all they did was brush her off they are failures as parents. As for Emma I also agree if you notice your siblings being treated unfairly it is your job to speak up or at the very least acknowledge your siblings hard work. But instead Emma not only did nothing she actively ignored op as-well. And at the end she could’ve contacted op and told her how she felt and acknowledged the bad treatment op received but she clearly showed she just like her parents. As for op again I agree she needs to understand that trying to please those failures is only gonna lead to more hard ache for her. Instead she should be thankful that she lost three toxic people and gained people that will actually give her the love she needs. I too am a parent and I have one kid that isn’t as smart as the other two be he works hard and I praise him just as much as I do them and I encourage him to continue to improve not to match up to them but so he can live a good life. And I go to all of their events no matter how small it is. That is what OPs parents should’ve done.
@@Xrk-krx I feel like that was also a factor in their mistreatment of op.ti be blunt they saw her as defective while sister was perfect. It's F-ed up but this wouldn't be the first time a parent neglected a child over something they couldn't control.
There isn’t just one AH in this story. The parents are wrong for having a clear favorite, and then OP is definitely in the wrong for announcing her pregnancy at Emma’s graduation… but it was clear that no matter when OP announced her pregnancy it would be seen as her trying to one-up Emma. As made evident when Emma announced her engagement at the do-over graduation party and had their mother popping off about the pregnancy just being used to one-up Emma. The parents and Emma herself clearly think the world revolves around her… and while it’s true OP is also hungry for attention you can at least understand the WHY she is the way that she is. Not that it 110% justifies it… but you feel her pain and desperation to just be acknowledged for once by her family. I pity her and hope she gets the help she needs for her childhood trauma.
Seems like people are misconstruing my comment. 🤦🏻♀️ So let me make it easier for y’all. • The parents are awful for having an obvious favorite. • It’s wrong to hi-jack someone’s celebration to announce things regarding yourself. Even if the person is the biggest AH on the planet. It’s not okay to do this ever and just shows you are petty and immature. • OP has issues she needs to work on. Her parents and Emma are clearly NEVER going to change so why should she be stuck in this never ending cycle of craving their approval and acknowledgment when they’ll never give it to her? She deserves better, and a life that’s free of them all together. Let the narcissists do what they do best and move on. She’s got a loving husband and precious baby on the way so her time and energy is better spent on them + herself.
Man imagine glazing one kid and disregarding the other and being shocked that eventually that kid snaps. I agree what op did wasn’t cool but I don’t blame her I blame the idiotic parents. For years they glazed everything one daughter did but when the other daughter tried doing her best and worked hard their only response was to brush it off of course it would lead to op feeling jealous. Cause her parents didn’t properly do their freaking job. If anything she should cut content with them and not want them anywhere near her baby. Especially cause the moment their golden child has a kid they’ll forget her kids even exist then those kids will also suffer the way she did.
@senatorarmstrong4662 Indeed, I was born with a learning disability as well and struggled in school. I'm just thankful my parents at least tried to get me help.
@@paarthurnax8519 same I was born with very poor vision and my eyes get tired when I read too much cause of how much I have to focus. My sisters had none of my issues and excelled in school while I struggled a bit but I did my best and made pretty good grades. But my parents always acknowledged my hard work and encouraged me to improve and made it clear as long as I worked hard and improved at my own pace they were proud of me. They went to each and every one of our events no matter how small it was and if they were at the same time one of them would go to mine while the other went to my sisters. They’d alternate each time and made sure to celebrate both achievements no matter how small it was. And I do that same thing with my kids That is what your supposed to do but OPs parents did not do that they celebrated Emma’s but brushed off OPs.
i hate it when the op gets mistreated yet goes "despite all that, they are my family" like, tf u mean? you just gave fuck tons of reasons why they arent anymore
Yeah, OP was the azzhole. Retaliation is immature. Announce your baby at your own damn party. A party for someone else is not the place for payback. She also ruined a party for her sister when she keeps saying it’s her parents who are treating her poorly. The Golden Child didn’t ask to be the Golden Child. That’s on the twisted parents.
I haven’t finished watching the video yet but the OP is a little unreasonable to be upset nobody would ask about her at her sisters graduation party, don’t get me wrong it would have been nice if someone asked but most of the time you can assume that each child will get their own graduation party so that’s probably why she wasn’t asked. Edit: OP’s parents suck for sure, favoritism is horrible but it sounds like OP’s sister didn’t do anything wrong OP sounds super jealous of her sister getting the attention, rightfully so but she’s 100% TA for taking over her sisters event and not apologizing. She 100% should have gone at least low contact with those sucky parents of hers tho.
Honestly I can’t fully blame OP for that outburst constantly being compared to her sister her parents going to all of Emma’s events and rewarding Emma while not going to any of op and even brushing off her successes cause they weren’t as big as Emma’s. It’s easy to say she should’ve been the bigger person but actually doing it yourself isn’t so easy. As for Emma she does have some responsibility in this too if you notice your sibling isn’t getting the same treatment or constantly being compared to you as you as their sibling you should be the one to congratulate or encourage them but from the sounds of it Emma was too busy enjoying all the praise that she failed to notice OP feelings. Emma should’ve reach out to op and explained how she felt and if she was a good sister she would’ve let op know she understood how op felt but what she did wasn’t cool. So in my eyes Emma isn’t innocent in this either since at no point did she acknowledge op or even speak up about their favoritism.
Your hubby is right. You deserve your moment too but it would've been nicer if you'd have waited until a while after her toast. Your family are assholes and are so used to everything being about your sister. I completely understand why you basically lashed out and took your moment when it came 😢
So after wrecking her sister's graduation and not getting ongoing positive results, OP is shock pikachu face? Having a baby doesn't negate OP's negativity to her sister - the sister may be right, ongoing jealousy has other consequences too.
Again of course she is jealous. She is being bullied by her parents and sister while the sister is being praised for things SHE accomplished first but was dismissed for. Wouldn't you be upset and want at least some attention more?
@@Blackrosecreaterfor real your constantly being compared to your sibling and all your accomplishments are met with oh you got good grades well your sister got all straight As. Years of that only leads to the child feeling inferior to their sibling. And while I agree OP shouldn’t have done that it’s her parent’s blatant favoritism that pushed her to that point. Had they actually did the right thing and treated both their kids equally instead of glazing one kid while disregarding the other we wouldn’t even be here.
@@quix66hiya22 where I'm from glazing is like glazing a donut it also means to over-praise and over-compliment someone. Or when you show blatant bias toward one person over the other person. The parents did this by constantly praising Emma for everything she did but also downplaying Op’s achievements despite her working hard. Op is definitely in the wrong for what she did but that might've never happened had her parents actually acknowledged her hard work.
@devhxh1558 She's not a delinquent. She struggled in school with dyslexia and her parents refused to give her help and constantly compared her to her sister. She had been treated like an afterthought since her sister was born. What her parents did was cruel and heartless.
That doesn’t mean you should ignore your other child’s accomplishments. If they are trying their best and working hard AS A PARENT you need to let them know you are also proud of them otherwise you are sowing seeds of hatred jealousy and resentment. What op did was wrong yes but we wouldn’t be here had her parents simply said” we are proud that you are working hard but we know you can do better than this and we aren’t saying this cause we want you to be like your sister but so you can be the best your best self keep working hard and improve. That sentence tells your child you love them just as much while also encouraging them to do better. But instead of doing that they glazed one kid and brushed off the other.
It isn't like she was a total lost cause, she had her art events which they didn't celebrate or acknowledge, she got engaged, married and pregnant. So many things they could've supported and celebrated.
@@aditivashishth1948it’s one thing to not acknowledge your other kids hard work. But to not even go to her events or acknowledge them na that’s when you fail as a parent. Especially considering they went to all of Emma’s events the least you can do is go to OPs as well.
@@paarthurnax8519 I three kids and one isn’t as smart as the other but I always take the time to celebrate each of their achievements even if it’s small. If it’s an improvement and they did their best I tell them great job but I also encourage them to improve more not because of their siblings but cause I want them to have a good life and I go to each and every one of their events. But her parents did the exact opposite not only did they fail to show op that they loved both of them equally they flat out ignored OPs achievements and events. But acknowledged each and every one of Emma’s. And to be brutally honest the people that can’t see where the parents screw up really shouldn’t have kids themselves. I hope OP doesn’t make the same mistakes her parents made.
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So OP wants to have her parents involved in her baby’s life. Wonder how she will feel when her parents dump her baby in favor of Emma’s children.
I am happy she’s gonna take steps to avoid what her parents did. But she needs to forget about them and honestly cut them out completely it’s very clear those failures she calls parents could care less about her. Especially considering one of their kids was in danger of losing her baby and instead of making sure she was alright they immediately brushed it off and went back to talking about Emma. At that moment both her and husband should’ve cut them off immediately. And she shouldn’t feel bad about it cause people like that don’t change unless something happens to Emma and you better believe they’re gonna come to OP and beg her to help Emma.
Does OP want to have her child treated like she was, ? LC or NC . Stop "keeping the peace "
@@jdavis7613This is the most annoying part of these stories. What family? Family supports, she has never been supported, so what is there to lose? This OP is especially annoying with her willingness to be crapped on.
@@Mop222 honestly, she should be happy she gained a husband and kids and in-laws that Actually give a dam about her and the only thing she lost were two toxic parents and a sister that did nothing to stop them. So really she gained more than she lost to hell with those losers.
so you feel sorry for this loser, bitter petty bit..
personally, I really don't feel bad for the sister. she is just as narcissistic as her parents and if she screws up in life, and the parents come crawling back to her, I wouldn't blame her for turning them away.
And watch the moment Emma’s life goes bad they’ll come crawling to op begging for her to help Emma. Or if something happens to Emma is when they remember they had two kids and are shocked when OP slams the door in their face. Parents like this annoy me cause the moment their actions come back to bite them they’re shocked and don’t realize what they did wrong.
@senatorarmstrong4662 I'm saying it was right for OP to steal the spotlight at her sister's party, but again, it was the parents fault for her turning out this way.
@@paarthurnax8519 agreed it wasn’t cool but she wouldn’t have done that had her parents done their job. Even her sister should’ve understood why op did what she did and actually communicated with op. But because of her parents constantly shining the spotlight on her the moment it was off her she lost it. And that will come to bite Emma in the future. So the parents negatively affected both kids cause now one kid has an
Inferiority complex and the other will be narcissistic and lash out when something doesn’t go her way or when the attention isn’t solely on her.
@senatorarmstrong4662 in my opinion, she should focus on not only her husband and son, but also her art. Improve her skills as an artist and start her own RUclips channel and let herself thrive! It would be cool if she became famous one day and earn way more than her own sister. Would be cool to see her sulk in anger and jealousy.
@@paarthurnax8519 exactly the best revenge is to live a long and happy life. And honestly, she gained more than she lost she has a loving husband a son, and in-laws who I'm sure will give her the love her parents never did. And I agree she should work on her craft but the issue is if she becomes too famous and it does lead to her becoming rich. We both know that will be the day her parents show up and start gaslighting her into believing they always had faith in her. And it's very clear they only care bout their own status so if op gets famous she needs to be ready for them cause they will do what ever it takes to get in her good graces. Or worse they may not like the fact that she's more successful than their precious Emma and may even try to sabotage her career.
I've experienced a parent claiming your angry over nothing cuz it's from your childhood. The problem is if it's still happening, then it's still occurring and not old news..... You're completely in the right and I commend you for standing up for yourself ✅️ 👏. For your own mental health, you need to separate yourself for a while and protect your own family 😊
First time where I’ve seen the comments so split lmao.
The parents are awful for several reasons. Parents really aren’t supposed to play favorites, period. It feeds resentment, feelings of inadequacy, and just lots of sadness all around. OP was made to feel invisible, and less than. Someone in the comments compared her to a delinquent which is baffling because she clearly states that she tried hard to be the daughter her parents wanted. She tried to study hard and make good grades. When you have obvious learning disabilities that aren’t diagnosed and treated accordingly it can and will effect your grades. Had she had some freaking support in school & at home her grades probably could’ve improved. This is coming from someone who wasn’t diagnosed with learning disabilities until their high school years.
Now on to the sister it sounds like she never really had OP’s back. Like she didn’t love or really care about her sister so long as she had mommy and daddy in her corner. People were saying things like ‘what was she supposed to do for OP?’ in the comments on Reddit. For starters she could’ve shown love, and support to OP. She also could’ve confronted the parents about their behavior. My brother was the golden child of the family, the favorite, and he literally stood up to my parents one night and told them they had two children besides himself and that they needed to step up before refusing to speak to either of them. He was an ally for my youngest sibling and I… and it meant the world to us. Emma failed as a sibling, period.
As for OP… she’s letting her childhood trauma dictate her life. It’s good she’s getting therapy for it now, especially with a child of her own on the way. BUT she needs to realize that no matter what she does in life it’ll NEVER be good enough for her narcissistic parents and sister. They clearly never cares about her and never will… so she needs to focus on herself, her husband, and her beautiful baby. She might want them in her life, but she’s better off without them.
THIS, while what op did wasn’t cool she wouldn’t have done that had her parents did their job. And I agree the comments calling her a delinquent baffled me she clearly states she worked hard and tried her best but all she got in return was “so what? Emma did this. Years of that of course would lead to op feeling inferior and having resentment towards Emma. And the last straw is them going to all of Emma’s events and none of OPs like at that point just say you don’t care about op.
And what really got me was the comments defending the parents saying of course they should reword Emma for her success and why should they reword op. And I agree that you should reword you kids accomplishments but you better keep that same energy for your other child even if it’s small if they are working hard and improving your job is to praise them and encourage them to keep improving. But all they did was brush her off they are failures as parents.
As for Emma I also agree if you notice your siblings being treated unfairly it is your job to speak up or at the very least acknowledge your siblings hard work. But instead Emma not only did nothing she actively ignored op as-well. And at the end she could’ve contacted op and told her how she felt and acknowledged the bad treatment op received but she clearly showed she just like her parents.
As for op again I agree she needs to understand that trying to please those failures is only gonna lead to more hard ache for her. Instead she should be thankful that she lost three toxic people and gained people that will actually give her the love she needs.
I too am a parent and I have one kid that isn’t as smart as the other two be he works hard and I praise him just as much as I do them and I encourage him to continue to improve not to match up to them but so he can live a good life. And I go to all of their events no matter how small it is. That is what OPs parents should’ve done.
Not treating dyslexia is harmful op can sue them for neglects
@@Xrk-krx I feel like that was also a factor in their mistreatment of op.ti be blunt they saw her as defective while sister was perfect. It's F-ed up but this wouldn't be the first time a parent neglected a child over something they couldn't control.
Please sue them for educational neglect for untreated dyslexia. Your schools have the prove.
There isn’t just one AH in this story. The parents are wrong for having a clear favorite, and then OP is definitely in the wrong for announcing her pregnancy at Emma’s graduation… but it was clear that no matter when OP announced her pregnancy it would be seen as her trying to one-up Emma. As made evident when Emma announced her engagement at the do-over graduation party and had their mother popping off about the pregnancy just being used to one-up Emma. The parents and Emma herself clearly think the world revolves around her… and while it’s true OP is also hungry for attention you can at least understand the WHY she is the way that she is. Not that it 110% justifies it… but you feel her pain and desperation to just be acknowledged for once by her family. I pity her and hope she gets the help she needs for her childhood trauma.
Not really
Spoken like a legitimate golden child. Bravo!
Seems like people are misconstruing my comment. 🤦🏻♀️ So let me make it easier for y’all.
• The parents are awful for having an obvious favorite.
• It’s wrong to hi-jack someone’s celebration to announce things regarding yourself. Even if the person is the biggest AH on the planet. It’s not okay to do this ever and just shows you are petty and immature.
• OP has issues she needs to work on. Her parents and Emma are clearly NEVER going to change so why should she be stuck in this never ending cycle of craving their approval and acknowledgment when they’ll never give it to her? She deserves better, and a life that’s free of them all together. Let the narcissists do what they do best and move on. She’s got a loving husband and precious baby on the way so her time and energy is better spent on them + herself.
@@QrincessQri I agree with you. everyone is an AH
Exactly! Op is also an ahole.
AI seems to not give up with the sentence "Don't know what the future holds for us."
This hit pretty close to home for me, I've had this problem with my older brother.
Man imagine glazing one kid and disregarding the other and being shocked that eventually that kid snaps. I agree what op did wasn’t cool but I don’t blame her I blame the idiotic parents. For years they glazed everything one daughter did but when the other daughter tried doing her best and worked hard their only response was to brush it off of course it would lead to op feeling jealous. Cause her parents didn’t properly do their freaking job. If anything she should cut content with them and not want them anywhere near her baby. Especially cause the moment their golden child has a kid they’ll forget her kids even exist then those kids will also suffer the way she did.
Also some of this comment section is showing me certain people shouldn’t have children yikes.
@senatorarmstrong4662 Indeed, I was born with a learning disability as well and struggled in school. I'm just thankful my parents at least tried to get me help.
@@paarthurnax8519 same I was born with very poor vision and my eyes get tired when I read too much cause of how much I have to focus. My sisters had none of my issues and excelled in school while I struggled a bit but I did my best and made pretty good grades. But my parents always acknowledged my hard work and encouraged me to improve and made it clear as long as I worked hard and improved at my own pace they were proud of me. They went to each and every one of our events no matter how small it was and if they were at the same time one of them would go to mine while the other went to my sisters. They’d alternate each time and made sure to celebrate both achievements no matter how small it was. And I do that same thing with my kids That is what your supposed to do but OPs parents did not do that they celebrated Emma’s but brushed off OPs.
Do you really want them around your child? Wait until the golden child has a baby and your child will be kicked to the curb.
i hate it when the op gets mistreated yet goes "despite all that, they are my family" like, tf u mean? you just gave fuck tons of reasons why they arent anymore
Yeah, OP was the azzhole. Retaliation is immature. Announce your baby at your own damn party. A party for someone else is not the place for payback. She also ruined a party for her sister when she keeps saying it’s her parents who are treating her poorly. The Golden Child didn’t ask to be the Golden Child. That’s on the twisted parents.
So you want your kid to through the same thing????
I haven’t finished watching the video yet but the OP is a little unreasonable to be upset nobody would ask about her at her sisters graduation party, don’t get me wrong it would have been nice if someone asked but most of the time you can assume that each child will get their own graduation party so that’s probably why she wasn’t asked.
Edit: OP’s parents suck for sure, favoritism is horrible but it sounds like OP’s sister didn’t do anything wrong OP sounds super jealous of her sister getting the attention, rightfully so but she’s 100% TA for taking over her sisters event and not apologizing. She 100% should have gone at least low contact with those sucky parents of hers tho.
Honestly I can’t fully blame OP for that outburst constantly being compared to her sister her parents going to all of Emma’s events and rewarding Emma while not going to any of op and even brushing off her successes cause they weren’t as big as Emma’s. It’s easy to say she should’ve been the bigger person but actually doing it yourself isn’t so easy. As for Emma she does have some responsibility in this too if you notice your sibling isn’t getting the same treatment or constantly being compared to you as you as their sibling you should be the one to congratulate or encourage them but from the sounds of it Emma was too busy enjoying all the praise that she failed to notice OP feelings. Emma should’ve reach out to op and explained how she felt and if she was a good sister she would’ve let op know she understood how op felt but what she did wasn’t cool. So in my eyes Emma isn’t innocent in this either since at no point did she acknowledge op or even speak up about their favoritism.
Op lame as hell. Don't talk to these people. Simple.
Your hubby is right. You deserve your moment too but it would've been nicer if you'd have waited until a while after her toast. Your family are assholes and are so used to everything being about your sister. I completely understand why you basically lashed out and took your moment when it came 😢
If emma kid hit op kid then they will blame op thsts for sure also he cant hit him or he gomna get the beatkng out of his life
So after wrecking her sister's graduation and not getting ongoing positive results, OP is shock pikachu face? Having a baby doesn't negate OP's negativity to her sister - the sister may be right, ongoing jealousy has other consequences too.
Okay karen
Guess someone was the golden child of the family.
Also, I don't think her announcing her pregnancy at graduation party ruined it. Her sister's nothing but an entitled drama queen.
Its an Ai Story, the timeline makes no sense.
OP is just mean and jealous... This is just stupid
Again of course she is jealous. She is being bullied by her parents and sister while the sister is being praised for things SHE accomplished first but was dismissed for. Wouldn't you be upset and want at least some attention more?
@@Blackrosecreaterfor real your constantly being compared to your sibling and all your accomplishments are met with oh you got good grades well your sister got all straight As. Years of that only leads to the child feeling inferior to their sibling. And while I agree OP shouldn’t have done that it’s her parent’s blatant favoritism that pushed her to that point. Had they actually did the right thing and treated both their kids equally instead of glazing one kid while disregarding the other we wouldn’t even be here.
@@ToxicVex267glazing? I’ve not heard that term in regard to people. Is that a colloquialism where you’re from?
@@quix66hiya22 where I'm from glazing is like glazing a donut it also means to over-praise and over-compliment someone. Or when you show blatant bias toward one person over the other person. The parents did this by constantly praising Emma for everything she did but also downplaying Op’s achievements despite her working hard. Op is definitely in the wrong for what she did but that might've never happened had her parents actually acknowledged her hard work.
Lmfao wats next ? A delinquent and A topper cant be treated the same... Achievements are to be celebrated...
OP is just jealous !!
@devhxh1558 She's not a delinquent. She struggled in school with dyslexia and her parents refused to give her help and constantly compared her to her sister. She had been treated like an afterthought since her sister was born. What her parents did was cruel and heartless.
That doesn’t mean you should ignore your other child’s accomplishments. If they are trying their best and working hard AS A PARENT you need to let them know you are also proud of them otherwise you are sowing seeds of hatred jealousy and resentment. What op did was wrong yes but we wouldn’t be here had her parents simply said” we are proud that you are working hard but we know you can do better than this and we aren’t saying this cause we want you to be like your sister but so you can be the best your best self keep working hard and improve. That sentence tells your child you love them just as much while also encouraging them to do better. But instead of doing that they glazed one kid and brushed off the other.
It isn't like she was a total lost cause, she had her art events which they didn't celebrate or acknowledge, she got engaged, married and pregnant. So many things they could've supported and celebrated.
@@aditivashishth1948it’s one thing to not acknowledge your other kids hard work. But to not even go to her events or acknowledge them na that’s when you fail as a parent. Especially considering they went to all of Emma’s events the least you can do is go to OPs as well.
@@paarthurnax8519 I three kids and one isn’t as smart as the other but I always take the time to celebrate each of their achievements even if it’s small. If it’s an improvement and they did their best I tell them great job but I also encourage them to improve more not because of their siblings but cause I want them to have a good life and I go to each and every one of their events. But her parents did the exact opposite not only did they fail to show op that they loved both of them equally they flat out ignored OPs achievements and events. But acknowledged each and every one of Emma’s. And to be brutally honest the people that can’t see where the parents screw up really shouldn’t have kids themselves. I hope OP doesn’t make the same mistakes her parents made.