8 BAD Money Habits That Kept Me Broke & How I Turned It Around 💸

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 155

  • @Pandas0918
    @Pandas0918 Месяц назад +131

    This is timely. Literally sat down this AM to see where I am budget-wise. Ladies, please take this time to know where your money is going!

  • @QueenGail
    @QueenGail Месяц назад +93

    I’m in my 70’s and I’m watching to see what I can learn from this beautiful baby (respectfully)
    Blessings 💜💚

  • @princesspink5944
    @princesspink5944 Месяц назад +111

    I make a list before grocery shopping with estimated prices for each item. This way I stay on budget and getting what I need.

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  Месяц назад +1

      @@princesspink5944 wonderful input!

    • @anissahoward
      @anissahoward Месяц назад +4

      I did this recently and found that I saved more money! This is definitely what I'll be doing going forward

    • @cece9604
      @cece9604 Месяц назад +5

      I have no choice but to do this I live pay check to paycheck

    • @francesmelendez1303
      @francesmelendez1303 Месяц назад +4

      That is me. I also shop around, of course if you have a variety of grocery stores nearby it works. If you spend more gas than the saving is not worth it.

  • @pitbull4christ
    @pitbull4christ Месяц назад +106

    What I started doing this year in Jan is saving $1,000 a month for the entire year, for my vacation fund and an additional $200 a month towards my emergency fund.
    I then picked a country that I want to go to where my dollar will stretch further and go within the time where it will be less busy and inexpensive. After that, I take half of my vacation fund and put the other half into my emergency savings fund.
    So in total, I will saved $12,000 a year for my vacation fund, minus $6,000 of that to go into my emergency savings fund, plus I saved an additional $2,400 from my emergency savings fund, which gives me a total of $8,400 that I saved for the entire year, along with being able to go on a international vacation trip for the year.
    In all honesty, it takes discipline to save money and make sure that you understand basic economics of the “Need Vs Want” concept. That is what helped me to save money and budget well.

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  Месяц назад +10

      I love this sis! Thanks for sharing!

    • @ShanaTalks
      @ShanaTalks Месяц назад +5

      Glad to see you put the majority away. A neat trick is even with that $6k , you can aim for a budget friendly trip. Then whatever is left over, goes to your next vacation. It’s a win win.

    • @belizeanempress71
      @belizeanempress71 Месяц назад +3

      I'm from Belize, it's beautiful, your US dollar will definitely stretch! 🇧🇿🏝

    • @bargainbeauty7529
      @bargainbeauty7529 29 дней назад

      Where you work at? 😁

    • @pitbull4christ
      @pitbull4christ 2 дня назад

      @@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol no worries my D9 Sis. I’m a guy by the way.

  • @tamekadavis6641
    @tamekadavis6641 Месяц назад +61

    This message is giving grown woman attitude.❤❤❤

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  Месяц назад

      @@tamekadavis6641 ayyyyeeeeee! Let me know what else you want to see.

  • @kimberly3837
    @kimberly3837 Месяц назад +50

    I rent books from the library instead of impulse buying on Amazon or Audible (where you accumulate but never read).

    • @BrianaIsir
      @BrianaIsir Месяц назад

      Good one!! I need to do this

    • @iampoetminor
      @iampoetminor Месяц назад +1

      Absolutely! The library also have apps for audio books and movies.

    • @rafiqah4106
      @rafiqah4106 Месяц назад

      ​@@iampoetminor yes! I recently got the Libby app and it has made a difference for me.

    • @kimberlymartin459
      @kimberlymartin459 23 дня назад +2

      I've taken it to an whole new level. When I finish reading my library book. How much the book cost in retail, I stuff that amount in my jar I have specially for that reason. Money still stacking up... just have no idea what I'm going to do with it.
      Those $29 adds up quick😂😂

    • @kimberlymartin459
      @kimberlymartin459 23 дня назад

      ​@@iampoetminorI just found out that our library loan out music instruments. I was joking with the lady... "Do you loan out pianos?" She said, "YES... they have keyboards"
      Now I'm going to checkout a key board and learn on RUclips 😂😂😂

  • @latashawalton7739
    @latashawalton7739 Месяц назад +47

    Make sure you’re not getting pimped for interest 😂😂that’s big facts

  • @kimjackson3362
    @kimjackson3362 Месяц назад +22

    Investing
    Saving and
    Budgeting
    SPOT ON!!!!
    Hi 👋🏾 Dr Nina
    Thanks so much for sharing this very informative/vital information
    I appreciate you wholeheartedly 🤗 👍🏾👌🏾
    I’m currently in the midst of financial strain but I am researching, zeroing in and learning to break bad habits that create financial stress and as you stated in your video keeping me broke

  • @raylayaaaa
    @raylayaaaa Месяц назад +7

    I started getting in the habit of "paying me first" meaning that all of my savings/investments get paid first and then whatever is leftover i will use to budget with or let it rollover to next months expenses (if everything is paid on time)

  • @kendalldarien2918
    @kendalldarien2918 Месяц назад +11

    This is something I’m still learning! I found that my anxiety increased when I felt unprepared financially to deal with unexpected issues. My therapist talks about this often! Always have a plan. Thank you for this!

  • @Nappy2theRoot
    @Nappy2theRoot Месяц назад +27

    I literally just said I am going to open a high yield savings account and your video popped up. Great timing, mother universe❤

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  Месяц назад +5

      That is awesome! I hope you enjoyed the video and GO YOU!

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot Месяц назад +2

      @@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol I always enjoy your videos. You're so down to earth, beautiful, and luxurious

  • @juber0411
    @juber0411 Месяц назад +10

    Credit card offers with 15-18 months no interest are thee best! 🙌🏾 The last 2 CC I got had those special intro offers and I was sure to keep utilization under control and have them paid in full Prior to that interest kicking in.

  • @valerieberry6174
    @valerieberry6174 Месяц назад +11

    Knowledge is action. Knowledge is listening and learning. Beautiful Brown is sharing tips for all of us. Thank you❤❤❤.

  • @Elmyonn
    @Elmyonn Месяц назад +8

    I did an audit of myself, best decision ever

  • @kathleenepugh9495
    @kathleenepugh9495 Месяц назад +11

    Sometimes, you need to see in real time what may befall you if you don't manage your finances/spending. Perhaps take a ride to one of those areas....you know... where people who are sleeping under the bridges and are in shelters. Sometimes, you will see whole families in desperation. All of these people aren't addicted to drugs or mentally ill. Some were just living life, and because they may have been overly in debt or living paycheck and those paychecks stopped... they are now struggling to find a roof for themselves.
    Stay on guard because the "financial life" you save may be your OWN.

  • @yesherestherj
    @yesherestherj Месяц назад +9

    These are great tips about getting finances in order. Thank you for sharing this ❤

  • @WeightLosswithPCOS
    @WeightLosswithPCOS Месяц назад +12

    These are great tips and just recognizing that we have to have control of our spending overall.

  • @juber0411
    @juber0411 Месяц назад +12

    Also remember to check with CC holder and see if you qualify for your interest rate to be lowered if you have a newer CC. I was with Citi for a little over a year and qualified for an interest rate drop of 5% without penalty or changes to original terms. 😉

    • @lilmommagray8069
      @lilmommagray8069 Месяц назад

      I have tried that and they usually say no even when my balance is low. My credit score wa even higher than when I originally qualified for the card.

  • @nialeilakande
    @nialeilakande 9 дней назад

    Thanks Queen about to listen and watch ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉tuning in from New York City

  • @carolyndaniels386
    @carolyndaniels386 Месяц назад +5

    Excellent information! I appreciate you!🙌🏿

  • @missjade25
    @missjade25 Месяц назад +6

    The timing of this has to be because of God! I told myself last night in the shower that i will not spend any money for the month of October except for groceries and bills. I have horrible spending habits and impulsive shopping is a constant battle for me. But when I'm panicking trying to figure out if i can pay my car note, there's a problem that needs fixing

  • @staceyjohnson6280
    @staceyjohnson6280 7 дней назад

    I'm glad I stumbled on your channel. This was soo informative for me. I'm a divorced mom of 2 young children the baby girl is 8yrs old. Im self-employed with no 401(k). And im trying hard to start saving but its been hard. So i really appreciate u doing this video and while ready the comments so many stood out to me to help push me to start somewhere and small. So I thank God for enlightening my understanding on the things i need to cut back on and the wisdom to be wise on what i spend my money on now!!! Thank u again

  • @ellen5711
    @ellen5711 Месяц назад +8

    Whenever I see that notification for a Dr. Nina video my heart skips like three beats and I get so excited!! I absolutely LOVE your videos, Dr. Nina! If you can, would you be able to do a video on meal prep ideas? That would be great. 💖

  • @Luvagirl010
    @Luvagirl010 Месяц назад +2

    Great video, they way times are right now you don't know what to expect having an emergency fund is essential

  • @durrelladams
    @durrelladams 6 дней назад

    That’s for the information!

  • @monicadhenderson8670
    @monicadhenderson8670 11 дней назад

    Wow, I just truly love this Doctor!! . You are spitting out some golden nuggets. Appreciate you!❤

  • @loritasmith5355
    @loritasmith5355 29 дней назад +1

    Love your channel ❤

  • @hortensiacampbell7852
    @hortensiacampbell7852 Месяц назад +2

    Love these! Just in time to refocus for the end of the year and prep for the holiday season. I affirm I am a good steward of my resources ❣️

  • @sheenasaffold5422
    @sheenasaffold5422 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you very much. Needed this. ❤

  • @jordanruth0809
    @jordanruth0809 11 дней назад

    I am now in this place practicing breaking bad money habits. I just take off without thought and seeing how I have money but not being mindful of what’s needed versus an impulsive non thinking mind.

  • @CharCharJars
    @CharCharJars Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much, working on staying focused on this season with new habits & emergency funds always available

  • @kaneshiaginn8650
    @kaneshiaginn8650 Месяц назад +1

    Definitely on a financial freedom journey

  • @nxoxo7322
    @nxoxo7322 Месяц назад +1

    right on time. I have a spending addiction and i’m promising myself to change it starting this payday on friday🤞🏾

  • @alifebydesign2024
    @alifebydesign2024 Месяц назад

    Love your conversational style of talking through these topics!!! Great video presence!

  • @tarolepettigrew7795
    @tarolepettigrew7795 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you. Needed information

  • @Cateye17
    @Cateye17 Месяц назад +2

    I really appreciate this..this was definitely for me.. tfs ❤❤

  • @e2ndcomingsoon655
    @e2ndcomingsoon655 10 дней назад

    Thank you I’m working on cooking at home and just eat outside 1 time per week. Lots of work and 3 weeks of success! This Sunday is happy cooking Sunday and I’ll cook and freeze healthy lunch meals for me, my husband and youngest child for 2 weeks, to eat at work and at school! It’s a MONEY MAKER!! I save (earn) so much money by doing this!! Plus I feed them healthy food so I’m happy!!

  • @AnnnnnaQ
    @AnnnnnaQ Месяц назад +9

    Doordash is my nemesis..smh. I can cook very well, but most of it is laziness and over committing to tasks..

  • @iampoetminor
    @iampoetminor Месяц назад

    I'm glad your channel popped up on the side panel. I've subscribed to keep up-to-date with your valuable content.

  • @konfidentlothevirgo
    @konfidentlothevirgo Месяц назад +1

    Great tips!

  • @atlantajewel519
    @atlantajewel519 Месяц назад +1

    Hello Dr. Nina, I learned and share my knowledge with others. Great video filled with knowledge, information and clarity. Thank you

  • @Kash_Budgetz
    @Kash_Budgetz 10 дней назад

    Heyyyy DR NINA new subbie & im locked in love ur channel & im here to learn ,share & enjoy the vibez this video was a great one I recommend the book the physcology of money it’s one of my reads this month if u get it let me know I’m enjoying n learning principles n money to do it’s great n great video keep it up !

  • @hnubhliyang7477
    @hnubhliyang7477 Месяц назад

    Love hearing you talk ❤❤ thanks for sharing!!

  • @cassandramichelle6568
    @cassandramichelle6568 Месяц назад +1

    Dr. Nina,thank you so much for this information.

  • @elizabethtrotter623
    @elizabethtrotter623 15 дней назад

    i enjoy your video your terrific and you have a gift !

  • @Peacebestill2
    @Peacebestill2 Месяц назад +2

    Excellent video 👍🏿

  • @yaleshasapp5108
    @yaleshasapp5108 Месяц назад +2

    These are great tips. Most I already do, I recently was able to get free help with a financial advisor looking forward to saving 3-6 months of expenses.

  • @myjournee
    @myjournee 29 дней назад

    Hi Beloved! I just found your channel and I am a new subscriber. Awesome information! Thank you so much for sharing 😊

  • @itsshaytime487
    @itsshaytime487 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for this great information!

  • @joycelyntims7941
    @joycelyntims7941 Месяц назад +1

    THIS is so much needed! Thank you for all of this info!❤

  • @samib8575
    @samib8575 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you, Dr. Nina, there are plenty of things I wish I knew about financing. However, I am learning them now, being older. I know it is never too late, and as I continue to learn and make better decisions, I am seeing better changes in my finances. As always, thank you for your transparency.

  • @Hellobeautiful-s5m
    @Hellobeautiful-s5m Месяц назад +1

    Very informative video. Love this!

  • @loveme2oo
    @loveme2oo Месяц назад

    Hello Dr. Nina, I have been watching your channel for 8 years now. I have always wanted to join your members' mentor membership. It was definitely out of my budget, but now I understand why it's important to never put a limit on how much you spend on your well-being.
    Anyway, although I desire to thrive with women that I admire, I sometimes feel like this channel has outgrown me and that I may be over my head. ❤❤

  • @mariacormier7555
    @mariacormier7555 Месяц назад

    Oh ye! I Love Aura !!!!!!

  • @chinapanion4975
    @chinapanion4975 Месяц назад

    This was soooo good! 🎉

  • @mariewebb2312
    @mariewebb2312 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you

  • @helenwiggins9390
    @helenwiggins9390 Месяц назад +3

    Good info… I am retiring 2025 I have to really get all my finances in order….

  • @sheedwehere
    @sheedwehere День назад

    We here 🙌

  • @karlar8648
    @karlar8648 11 дней назад

    Loose change adds up. I put mine in my CD when I get between $40 to $50.

  • @donniep.1513
    @donniep.1513 10 дней назад

    lol at the emergency fund for catching a fade 😂
    This was a great video!

  • @caroledward1860
    @caroledward1860 Месяц назад +2

    Hey beautiful! Do you have winter skin care video in the works? Especially the face! Thank you...😊

  • @samanthabarberlette-edward8546
    @samanthabarberlette-edward8546 Месяц назад

    Hey sis,Thank you about the information. I started using Aura last year after that huge National Data breach. I am working on my emergency fund and investing a part of my saving in a high yield savings account. I feel like I am more aware of my saving and how I spend. Thank You again.

  • @kekejefferson9219
    @kekejefferson9219 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks for being transparent with us after you had to let go of your first home.

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  Месяц назад +1

      @@kekejefferson9219 hey sis! Of course. At that time I was excellent in finances but knew I was spending unneeded money. Many lessons learned. Sometimes I wish I didn’t sell it but I’m also happy I did ❤️

  • @lilianasaba9846
    @lilianasaba9846 24 дня назад +1

    I have 3 kids and the youngest is 16 y/o. I have been struggling to follow the budget so the last 2 months I did envelope stuffing and assigned each one of them a number of envelopes. So far we are doing very well. I get paid once every 3 months so I must manage the funds very well. But I was failing hence enlisting the involvement of my kids. We just concluded our review this morning in a short family meeting and they all agree this is working.
    We have money for fuel, food, pet food, toiletries, essential bills paid & I can afford to buy some plants and flowers for our garden.
    I am a single mum raising 3 kids and one of them has serious health emergencies. I did it with my kids so can you.

  • @braneeshawilliams8565
    @braneeshawilliams8565 Месяц назад

    Heyyyyyy Dr. Nina ❤❤❤

  • @Winter_Babe_Saves
    @Winter_Babe_Saves 27 дней назад

    New subscriber ❤

  • @regale1995
    @regale1995 Месяц назад +8

    Yes the world is crazy!!!!

  • @tonyarmoore894
    @tonyarmoore894 Месяц назад +1

    I've had to learn and put in to practice these same 8 habits. My husband and I have our EF in HYSA and HYCDs, we use my rewards cc for our vacations and pay it off with our vacations savings account in which I save every 2 weeks. We keep our monthly expenses on a spreadsheet and have been for about 5 years now. We can go back to see what we paid for utilities, etc...a year ago. We have a financial positions ss that have all our life insurance, investments, mortgage balance, etc... we update this quarterly or more often as needed. I have a student loan bal less than 5k and another debt payment we are quickly eating away at. We don't have any cc debt to carry over, we pay the whole balance by the due date.
    It took a while to get here. We made a lot of mistakes along the way, but we are in a much better position than 5 years ago. I'm proud of us 😅. Love your tips. Keep em coming.

  • @crystalpatton4475
    @crystalpatton4475 Месяц назад

    Thank you😊

  • @beverly924
    @beverly924 Месяц назад +1

    Happy Belated Birthday Beloved 💕

  • @bernadettesandoval3990
    @bernadettesandoval3990 12 дней назад +1

    If you don't have the discipline to budget your spending, don't get credit cards and NEVER use your debit card! It is not secure! Only use cash until you have the discipline required to keep your spending under budget!

  • @mercyh193
    @mercyh193 Месяц назад

    ❤ this!

  • @ElegantPaws01
    @ElegantPaws01 Месяц назад +6

    Great topic.

  • @Jankerr1903
    @Jankerr1903 Месяц назад

    Obsessed with your videos!!❤

  • @judyj7816
    @judyj7816 Месяц назад +5

    Hey good blessings 🙏🙏🙏

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  Месяц назад +1

      @@judyj7816 thank you! Same to you!

    • @judyj7816
      @judyj7816 Месяц назад +1

      Thanks for the money tips I'm starting all over

  • @FrankieWright-bc3gq
    @FrankieWright-bc3gq Месяц назад +3

    Working on an emergency fund then pay off debt

  • @kevinhollingsworth8356
    @kevinhollingsworth8356 23 дня назад

    Very common ideas that we must apply and understand it's more important to build your empire or your nest egg it's more behavior than anything so so so true

  • @UniquaDaBackyardigan
    @UniquaDaBackyardigan Месяц назад +2

    1:36 I solve this by using an ad blocker browser 😂.
    Also, I abhor ads, so I go out of my way to NOT purchase that item.

  • @charleneharris7579
    @charleneharris7579 Месяц назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @velmacoutee2613
    @velmacoutee2613 Месяц назад

    I love this content it is wonderful as always everything you do is good. I have one high-yield savings account but I also have a 401k on my federal job, my question to you is where else can I invest my extra savings

  • @Ebizzill
    @Ebizzill Месяц назад +2

    im stuck between Sofi and ally for high hield savings account. I want a set it and forget it type

  • @GoThaliaGoThaliaGo
    @GoThaliaGoThaliaGo 11 дней назад

    My think is overdrafts!!! They happen a lot but I'm not working 😩 any ideas?

  • @INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha
    @INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha Месяц назад +5

    Actually, a debit card is just as bad as a credit card. I was taught to use mostly cash

  • @Vesta0831
    @Vesta0831 27 дней назад

    I want Anthony O Neal to interview you ❤

  • @mummykamitho
    @mummykamitho Месяц назад

    Hi dear, I just saw your videos and got great information about underarm infection. I'm suffering from an abscess it's 1inch now the mouth of the bean shaped abscess is open and water and sometimes blood comes out but its not going for tw weeks now. I don't want surgery. Please help how get rid naturally? I'm slim with wrak immune system and I take bath frequently. I damaged ny armpit by hair removal strip as I never had a pimple on my skin. I'm iny 40s now. If you give some guidance I'll be grateful for your response.❤

  • @arethalee428
    @arethalee428 Месяц назад

    Amen 4real 🎉❤

  • @midorimairi
    @midorimairi 2 дня назад

    🙏🏽 ❤

  • @claireclaire970
    @claireclaire970 Месяц назад +1

    This is a little off topic but (respectfully 🙏🏽) does anyone know if Dr. Nina has been able to breastfeed after her breast reconstruction several years ago?
    I recently had my first consultation with a plastic surgeon for my breast lift so I've been doing a lot of research. I came across Dr.Nina's breast reduction videos and I like the way she broke it down, however I was wondering if she was able to breast feed normally years later, since breast feeding is a major consideration of mine as a prospective mother.
    (I will appreciate any relevant feedback 🙏🏽)

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  Месяц назад +3

      @@claireclaire970 got a video coming up for you!

    • @claireclaire970
      @claireclaire970 Месяц назад +1

      @@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol Oh thank you so much! I'm subscribed so I'll be on the lookout 🙏🏽🤍

  • @cynthiabanks-holman6952
    @cynthiabanks-holman6952 20 дней назад +1

    💕🌸💕I’m not even a minute in…😊✨Where have I been!? 👍🏽✨✅✨

  • @rareblackbutterfly100
    @rareblackbutterfly100 Месяц назад

    Hi I am unable to open the links

  • @Janaemarie99_
    @Janaemarie99_ 13 дней назад

    Why are you in buisness lol 😂❤❤❤ thank you for this video!

  • @irminemode3053
    @irminemode3053 Месяц назад +2

    I use my tax return to pay off my credit cards so now I only have my mortgage .

    • @LolaSemone
      @LolaSemone Месяц назад

      That’s what I did last year and still put myself back in debt

  • @cocoknowsbest5254
    @cocoknowsbest5254 Месяц назад

    Tks.❤❤🙏🙏

  • @gladysekong9515
    @gladysekong9515 27 дней назад

    I tell myself and my kids. We don't buy ad stuff in this house. That's a rule. 😅😅

  • @mzskipwith
    @mzskipwith 10 дней назад

    I equate every dollar spent for hours worked. Are these shoes worth 5 hours of work??? Probably not 9/10

  • @LimeyKat
    @LimeyKat Месяц назад

    Interest rate already came back down. Companies arent about to let go of the death grip on our wallets though...

  • @tamiekamaxwell2154
    @tamiekamaxwell2154 Месяц назад

    💯

  • @jodianngardner8433
    @jodianngardner8433 Месяц назад

    This is for me😢😢😢

  • @Nomthandazo-d5q
    @Nomthandazo-d5q Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤

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    @BrianaIsir Месяц назад

    I have the smarty pig high yield savings with Sallie Mae! And it’s more beneficial and I actually have good monthly returns!