I Hate My Job! But It Pays Well… (Should I Stay?)

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Комментарии • 165

  • @et1016
    @et1016 3 года назад +152

    Please let the callers ask the questions before you assume you know what the questions are going to be. You are starting to cut people off and make assumptions and I don’t think your assumptions are necessarily accurate.

    • @fascinatinglist9654
      @fascinatinglist9654 3 года назад +19

      He keeps interrupting and wont let them answer

    • @kaelaleedaley
      @kaelaleedaley 3 года назад +5

      Totally agreed! It's great to be enthusiastic about helping others but Ken is strangling the call x

    • @Piccolo_Re
      @Piccolo_Re 3 года назад +13

      Most radio show hosts are narcissist and love themselves in the spotlight. That’s why they do radio.

    • @lofilockz2497
      @lofilockz2497 2 года назад +1

      Totally agree!

    • @cw5948
      @cw5948 2 года назад +2

      Ironic considering how often he’s interrupted by Dave.

  • @cleopatrasibiya8911
    @cleopatrasibiya8911 3 года назад +133

    Its mind blowing to see the number of people going through this . I am working at a verbally abusive job, mentally draining. Everyday i wake up, I'm struck by fear of going to work, I'm always anxious and now resembling depression traits. I am damn good at my Job! That's the one thing they can't take away from me. With that said, My job has taken more from me than what it's giving. My confidence has depreciated, my mental well being is suffering, I'm losing myself. Sadly I can't quite, I need the salary. Im still trying to find a job elsewhere , I keep praying, I'm studying towards my degree currently, still no luck. I wish healing and unlimited opportunities to everyone going through something similar. We will get through this, somehow!

    • @lifeandmorechannel2987
      @lifeandmorechannel2987 2 года назад +13

      I am on the same boat. I have anxiety because of my job. Even after working hours, im still thinking if i did my job right or not. It makes me anxious 24/7. I can’t sleep, eat properly and my health is taking a toll. The part where I can’t quite because i need an income makes me more sad. Been like this for almost a year.😢

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 2 года назад +6

      I’m in the same situation it’s so bad my depression has gotten worse I now I have insomnia as well due to my hours. I can’t find anything else it’s honestly depressing don’t know how I’m going to make it out. but I hope you were able to find something better

    • @kevinsavinon6059
      @kevinsavinon6059 2 года назад +4

      You need to leave. Even though that job Is getting you by it's not worth your sanity. And your mental health. You probably bust your ass at a job that would easily replace you in a day. Find something temporary until you finish school and are able to find better career opportunities.

    • @kevinsavinon6059
      @kevinsavinon6059 2 года назад +7

      @@lifeandmorechannel2987 I know this feeling. I work a sales job. And if I don't perform I don't eat. This had me stressing alot and made Me super anxious. Try taking ashwagandha for the stress and anxiety and remember to focus on your health. It matters way more then your job. Don't drain yourself. God bless.

    • @kevinsavinon6059
      @kevinsavinon6059 2 года назад +7

      @@SharlenesJourney you are going to be okay. I would seriously find another job that does not take a huge mental toll on you. You need to remember that your health is more important than a job. And you can find other opportunities.

  • @AbidurUllah
    @AbidurUllah 2 года назад +73

    I quit my 175k a year job because I just couldn’t take it anymore. I loved the job and how fulfilling it was, but I absolutely hate working 70 hours a week.

    • @solvingthrillers5294
      @solvingthrillers5294 Год назад

      IS that the only thing you hated about it?

    • @AbidurUllah
      @AbidurUllah Год назад +14

      @@solvingthrillers5294 yes, i hated working 70 to 80 hours a week. However, it was a very good job, just not worth slaving away for.

    • @solvingthrillers5294
      @solvingthrillers5294 Год назад +2

      @@AbidurUllah where do you work now? and what is your background? The reason I ask is beause im not knocking you at all. We are two different people. I just believe a lot of people would love to be in your shoes. I work a very simple job that doesn't pay well and they barely allow overtime at all. I only make around 5 to 600 dollars a week. That is absolutely nothing.

    • @AbidurUllah
      @AbidurUllah Год назад +19

      @@solvingthrillers5294 I went back to school to get my masters degree, an MBA. Keep in mind that I am 23 years old. Anyways, I was a Healthcare Executive, with a very important license that allowed me to operate nursing homes. I was able to get this license at a young age because of my formal undergraduate education. And yes, I know that a lot of people would ABSOLUTELY KILL to be in my shoes, a fancy job with a fancy title and salary. I grew up very poor, but my parents were so much happier while making 20k a year than I was making an executive salary. It all comes down to what’s important to you, I have learned that you can’t be happy and rich-you have to choose what’s important to you, I chose happiness and family time over working crazy hours. I also understand from experience that making 500 to 600 a week is not a life worth living. I think the key is find a good balance because no one needs that much money, most people need just enough to be happy.

    • @higherpurpose1212
      @higherpurpose1212 Год назад +8

      @@AbidurUllah I agree with you, as long as you're happy doing what you're doing, being happy with the job you have, the pay doesn't matter much! Family comes first, and your health too, so if you're stressed and family time is suffering, what's the point of making money if you're missing out on the most important things in life? You did great, Abidur, I salute you! I resigned from a senior position job paying $120k a year to get a job paying $80k, but I'm so much happy and healthy now and I have quality time with my family!

  • @lifeandmorechannel2987
    @lifeandmorechannel2987 2 года назад +40

    For some people who are judging the caller. There are people who are not articulate but are smart and way more skilled than most of us. He might also be an introvert. So to the people who are judging the caller, consider that too.

  • @kbcinmedusn
    @kbcinmedusn 3 года назад +63

    The way I see it, I hate all jobs because I honestly don't like working for someone else. So I have to do a job for money and make the best out of it until I save enough to either work for my self or invest for residual income or an early retirement.

    • @NotShowingOff
      @NotShowingOff 3 года назад +2

      We are all working for someone else. What matters is the accountability

    • @cryptojonny6837
      @cryptojonny6837 3 года назад +1

      I am going to have to find a job eventually I just dont like working around lots of ppl. I applied at many remote jobs on indeed and no luck I do have other streams of income. However I am not at the income I need to be at the moment.

    • @NotShowingOff
      @NotShowingOff 3 года назад +1

      @@cryptojonny6837 do yourself a favour and don’t put further responsibility on yourself until you have steady income. You can have a girlfriend but do not get her pregnant no matter what.

    • @keinelusteinenfakenamenzue7625
      @keinelusteinenfakenamenzue7625 2 года назад +2

      feel you bro

  • @user-vb8it9qn3g
    @user-vb8it9qn3g Год назад +18

    I am currently planning on quitting my job because I hate waking up everyday knowing I have to face my supervisor and be afraid to perform badly, the only thing thats keeping me from doing that is the friends I have in my workplace. I love hanging out with them but I think its time to bounce and look for a place where I dont feel anxious every time I walk inside the office.

  • @didafm
    @didafm 3 года назад +70

    This is why I'm staying single and no kids. I also hate my job. I'm an electrician. But I have the freedom to change if I want. Regardless its not easy to change jobs

    • @richthepup
      @richthepup 3 года назад

      Can you explain what makes you hate it? I know electricians are pretty in demand

    • @didafm
      @didafm 3 года назад +4

      @@richthepup hate is probably the wrong word... but I'm young so it's alot of responsibility at times and the day to day work is pretty dirty and dusty and loud and tiring and sweaty..

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 3 года назад

      But electricians are mostly paid well , world needs electricians

    • @joseafalvel
      @joseafalvel 2 года назад +1

      I'm in a similar situation, I work as a tech support agent and the company that I work for is actually amazing, they pay well, supervisors are cool and I have the chance to skip some shifts every month without consecuences, the thing is I don't like at all what I do, answering calls 8 hours a day is becoming so boring and tedious, I'm thinking what should I do, I don't need the money that much but I'm a little bit scared of starting up again and knowing that probably my next job is going to have big disavantages

    • @alexmotts
      @alexmotts Год назад

      Im in induatrial maintenance and i feel ya. I can quit anytime i want and take half the year off for my mental health. And i can juet get another job somewhere. Consider it everyday here latley. So sick of living at my job.

  • @anonomyss
    @anonomyss Месяц назад +2

    The problem is when you're the only breadwinner in your family and you can't feasibly quit for an easier job

  • @blueboat9581
    @blueboat9581 2 года назад +16

    My boss has me by the balls. They pay me a ton of money but I'm disrespected and treated like crap. I'm hoping to save enough to buy a franchise.

  • @sandrasmith6207
    @sandrasmith6207 Год назад +7

    I left my job because I couldn't stand it anymore after 30 years .I m so much happier now

  • @Givemegymtips
    @Givemegymtips 3 года назад +45

    How do you take a job and not know how much you’re getting paid?

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 3 года назад +3

      Some are sales job, so it depends on the sales you do

    • @Givemegymtips
      @Givemegymtips 3 года назад

      @@lotuswolf1518 Pure commission jobs are rather rare around where I live. There is still a base pay.

    • @paynebaust1887
      @paynebaust1887 3 года назад +1

      Because he was just lying to make it seem like he crunched numbers.

    • @skwilson34
      @skwilson34 3 года назад

      That's crazy

  • @OSANsAdventures
    @OSANsAdventures Год назад +22

    My problem is I hate ALL jobs in general because they all take away my free time. So I'm not gonna quit my six figure job to have to waste more time and gas running around doing multiple jobs i also hate for less pay. I'll just keep hating just the one job while paying off debt and saving up to quit working altogether.

    • @MyFunSizeBudget
      @MyFunSizeBudget Год назад +4

      Yep, I work two jobs and I love being a physical therapist. I hate doing paperwork all day and explaining to the insurance company that a patient needs therapy after having a brain injury, or hip surgery, etc. 4 visits is not enough!! Saving as much as I can to retire early

    • @KeatonDee
      @KeatonDee 3 месяца назад +1

      Yep, trying to retire as early as possible. Hate my job but I’m well into the six figures as well. Feel stuck here until I pay off the mortgage and cash out my investments.

  • @NR-fx8tk
    @NR-fx8tk 8 месяцев назад +5

    My goodness the show host can't let the caller speak, can he. Always interrupting.

  • @badarahmed5137
    @badarahmed5137 6 месяцев назад +3

    Let the guy speak Ken

  • @sarahzayas4340
    @sarahzayas4340 2 года назад +13

    Ken you deserve a badge of honor for the amount of patience you had answering this question but you have helped so many people. Moral of the Story: If your job sucks and you can't stand it another day, quit, and don't take a pay cut. If your new job is a pay cut, take a second job if you need to.

  • @wrigren216
    @wrigren216 3 года назад +27

    "this is america - you can go and get three jobs!"

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 3 года назад +10

      Yes, you'll probably need three jobs (IF you can find them) just to survive.

    • @bigd9040
      @bigd9040 2 года назад

      Lmao :D

    • @miketheyunggod2534
      @miketheyunggod2534 2 года назад

      Fuck dat.

  • @dontspeak__5930
    @dontspeak__5930 Год назад +4

    this guy convinces people to quit there job
    i love it

  • @JabbaBlue
    @JabbaBlue 9 месяцев назад +3

    I am a government employee doing office job w minimal stress. I don’t particularly love my job but I love doing my side hustle which is reselling on line..I plan on investing more on it soon. I just love the whole process. Been doing it on and off for past 10 years and it gives me balance while securing my pension with my job.

  • @temisdisciple
    @temisdisciple 10 месяцев назад +4

    We have bills to pay but everything has a limit. If you're miserable, try something else. Cut expenses, make plans. It may work, it may not, but you will overcome. People do it all the time.

  • @happyswim1836
    @happyswim1836 2 года назад +13

    Be sure you hate the work, and not just the people. I loved teaching; but, I worked in a very competitive environment. And, the employees were hostile. And, I had no support--because it was "every man-woman for him/her self." That made a good job a horrible place to work.

  • @mlovespring7892
    @mlovespring7892 3 года назад +25

    I loved my job...but didn't want to be around toxic people nor deal with office politics. Left and took a huge pay cut. Regretted it ever since. Pray I get a second chance! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @AaronandAsh
      @AaronandAsh 3 года назад +3

      Y didnt u shop around until u found something with such a huge pay cut?

    • @rcoll60743
      @rcoll60743 Год назад +1

      You will, God got you!!

  • @DarknessFalls29
    @DarknessFalls29 3 года назад +12

    This was painful to watch...Anyway, Most public school districts post their salary on the HR section of the website. Not sure how it is with private school. His wife needs to call the HR department.

  • @calibou6975
    @calibou6975 3 года назад +10

    Let him talk 😖

  • @biznezzacademy
    @biznezzacademy 3 года назад +4

    Great advice👍🏾

  • @bobbyrayofthefamilysmith24
    @bobbyrayofthefamilysmith24 2 года назад +3

    What about rhe opposite??? I enjoy my work but it doesn't pay the bills. I see no one tackle this problem. Personally I'd do any job that paid well even if I hated it because there's nothing worse than struggling just to pay basic bills.

  • @gmbiasco
    @gmbiasco 2 года назад +1

    Whenever I hear this I think about Dave screaming "I'VE HAD IT" or need to listen to "We’re Not Gonna Take It!" GOOD FOR YOU, AMERICA! Good for you! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @parler8698
    @parler8698 3 года назад +13

    The wife only needs to make 6 or 7 bucks an hour to make up losing 5 plus transportation.

  • @KleeziEnt.Official.Account
    @KleeziEnt.Official.Account 3 года назад

    Havent even gotten past the first few seconds and cant believe the call is from a town 20 minutes away from me 😂

  • @elizabeth277
    @elizabeth277 3 года назад

    Call HR and ask about the salary. Or look online. Chances are she’s part of a collective bargaining agreement.

  • @mattw6399
    @mattw6399 11 месяцев назад

    I been feeling this way so much lately, like i'm investing my money and making more and more back on it, and that's both reason for me to stay and for me to leave. I should stay cuz i'll get another dollar raze at the end of the year and be making more and this job allows me to make alot to invest with. But at the same time i'm like I could make less and turn it into more. What I really want is time, because I want to make video games and read a lot and just improve myself, but I also don't want to be broke. However with jobs like door dash and other things like this guy said I feel like I could definitely make up the difference as well as if I keep investing. My plan lately has been to use all my paid vacation and then quit at the end of the year, good to know i'm not the only one and I think this guys advice works for me.

  • @MrsThollo
    @MrsThollo 3 года назад +2

    Anyone else sure they've heard this call before?

  • @calebgilman9128
    @calebgilman9128 Год назад

    I’m at like an eight or a 9 been there for almost a year now thinking it’d get better it started out great and got ever worse as the days come

  • @prabalbhadoria1764
    @prabalbhadoria1764 2 года назад +2

    I have only one advice for you all :
    Why can't you leave a job ?
    - Because you have people dependent on you right ? If you were alone, would you have been afraid to leave the job ? ( Sorry for wrong English ! )
    SO LIVE WITH LEAST PEOPLE DEPENDENT ON YOU AS POSSIBLE ! ( MAYBE A WIFE AND A SINGLE KID AT MOST )

  • @robertwilson7736
    @robertwilson7736 Год назад

    It's easy for Ken Coleman to say all this

  • @MsCoochi
    @MsCoochi 2 года назад

    Hell yeah I’d stay if I hate it as long as it’s not back breaking work. Stack that money up

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 Год назад +1

    Simple answer - if you hate your job, yes! There are better jobs!

  • @willieoatnet5396
    @willieoatnet5396 4 месяца назад

    Worked hard to get a promotion at a location I wanted to stay at for a while, they didn’t give me a promotion but another location did but the new place is awful; I don’t can’t even be happy about the promotion cause, I hate my job now.

  • @Ironfist643
    @Ironfist643 2 года назад +2

    This dude sounds so defeated it's scary

  • @f00tpaths
    @f00tpaths 3 года назад +1

    MISERY TRAVELS WITH US WHEREVER WE GO....

  • @prabalbhadoria1764
    @prabalbhadoria1764 2 года назад +1

    Yeah I'm pretty much 10 😂😂.. same here

  • @josephrostkowski8631
    @josephrostkowski8631 Год назад +1

    I would love to see some home owner with kids , maintain three jobs , keep the house in order, have some type of personal life, and not SLEEP? Come on 😮

  • @claredrew8039
    @claredrew8039 3 месяца назад

    Let the man speak.

  • @tranger4579
    @tranger4579 Год назад

    If you are young don't waste your time at a job you don't like. You will grow old in it and come to realize the wasted time .

  • @brianparrish4649
    @brianparrish4649 3 месяца назад

    I think work is a curse, so there is no sunshine and roller coasters job.

  • @muccia7328
    @muccia7328 2 года назад

    This one was painful! 😄

  • @KeatonDee
    @KeatonDee 3 месяца назад

    You can go and get 3 jobs!!!
    Yeah 24 hrs of work per day, seems feasible. Ffs this guy man, he’s never had to walk the hard road. 😂

  • @julieludwig8927
    @julieludwig8927 7 месяцев назад

    Gig jobs are saturated…..
    You don’t just sign up & they allow you on their platform to work for them so plz stop saying that as a quick fix….it isn’t.
    Signed, Gig worker for a year.

  • @zacharybohlman4069
    @zacharybohlman4069 3 года назад

    Man that is was clueless 😂 hopefully he figures his life out

  • @madisonmichele9168
    @madisonmichele9168 5 месяцев назад

    The end was some more bizarre advice from the Ramsay team. Run down your car doing $12 an hour food delivery apps after your 40 hour/week job to justify a temporary $5/hour pay-cut for your sanity?? It would take 3 hours a weekday of food delivery to cover that, and I'm too lazy to factor in gas/electricity costs...and he said it like it was some sort of mic-drop moment too...

  • @jillpruett4772
    @jillpruett4772 3 года назад +7

    I'm from Cheyenne Wyoming and in our territory we say there's a five dollar fine for whining and that's what that guy's doing.

  • @quartytypo
    @quartytypo 3 года назад +1

    Jobs exist to provide money for you to invest. How can you hate a job that does that?

  • @bettysmith4527
    @bettysmith4527 Год назад +1

    I would proceed with caution, a recession is coming, and he will likely get laid off again!

  • @William14094
    @William14094 2 года назад

    It'd be nice if this Ken guy would stop talking and listen more. So what does this guy actually do?? Be nice as a viewer to know that from the beginning.

  • @KennTollens
    @KennTollens Год назад

    $5/hr cut and your wife will make more than $5/hr. I would be calling that other company, can I start tomorrow.

  • @alexandriamares1402
    @alexandriamares1402 2 года назад +3

    I married but no kids . alot more flexibility.

    • @johnmartin4641
      @johnmartin4641 2 года назад

      You still have a wife to provide for. Anyone that would willingly take a pay-cut with a wife and/or kids to provide for like this guy is selfish.

    • @YoMike91
      @YoMike91 2 года назад +2

      @@johnmartin4641 The wife could perhaps get a job herself lol

  • @Marylebonian
    @Marylebonian Год назад +1

    This guy is a terrible host. He just wants to speak himself. Doesn’t let the caller speak. What’s the point 🤔?

  • @johnmartin4641
    @johnmartin4641 2 года назад +5

    Don’t quit. Liking your job doesn’t pay the bills and send your kids to college.

    • @salwaz
      @salwaz 2 года назад +2

      What kind of job is that who didn't pay out your loans?

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 Год назад

      Not always.

  • @thomask8298
    @thomask8298 2 года назад

    0:23 - 0:53 just stop talking Ken

  • @crow-vz5lx
    @crow-vz5lx Год назад

    Well also they laid you off in the past ..Sooo. I'll pass

  • @MM-el9fv
    @MM-el9fv 3 года назад +2

    Shes probably working for free.

    • @lotuswolf1518
      @lotuswolf1518 3 года назад

      I worked for free when I did internship I loved that internship

  • @furiogiunta556
    @furiogiunta556 Год назад +1

    Ken is unwatchable, is constant interrupting is so annoying.

  • @KayFabe87
    @KayFabe87 3 года назад +10

    This caller is a horrible communicator. I applaud Ken for tolerating this mealy mouthed caller for as long as he did.

    • @TheKjwood34
      @TheKjwood34 3 года назад +1

      So bad he seems so unsure of himself

  • @breej3055
    @breej3055 Год назад

    What a waste of my time.

  • @Roquea.207
    @Roquea.207 Год назад

    I don’t mean to make a comment here that is not positive but is sad and dark to see how doubtful,scared,weak and out of leadership of their lives MEN have become nowadays in America
    The dude basically answer questions with question tone

  • @unitaper
    @unitaper Месяц назад

    This interviewer is painful to watch

  • @jbone79
    @jbone79 3 года назад +5

    Based on this call, I would say this dude is barely worth $5 per hour total.

    • @Mangobaby1
      @Mangobaby1 3 года назад +6

      What a mean thing to say... based on your attitude I’m not sure what company would find you valuable.

    • @zackarystewart9214
      @zackarystewart9214 3 года назад +2

      Some of these people manage to make like 100k a year and it confuses the crap out of me

    • @coloursoftherainbow8399
      @coloursoftherainbow8399 3 года назад +1

      Very judgemental, you don't even have any idea what he does or his skills.

    • @zackarystewart9214
      @zackarystewart9214 3 года назад

      @@coloursoftherainbow8399 most people who have standards do judge things. Thank you. Now quit your high horse position, fix the problems in your own life, and let us get back to doing meaningful work

    • @lizziemiss945
      @lizziemiss945 2 года назад +1

      Based on your choice of words, I would say you're worth minimum

  • @sweetpeathebreadtamer411
    @sweetpeathebreadtamer411 2 года назад

    Omg he talks so slow… say things faster. Giving me anxiety

  • @dnlprls
    @dnlprls Год назад

    I make 21 dollars an hour but I hate my call center job. What should I do ?