Homosexuality, Gay Marriage, and Holiness

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  • Опубликовано: 14 сен 2017
  • In this segment from Ascension's program "YOU: Life, Love, and the Theology of the Body", Jason Evert discusses homosexuality, gay marriage, and the Catholic Church...including why he looks forward to the day the Catholic Church has a same-sex-attracted saint.
    For segments addressing transgender issues, pornography, contraception and more, check out the program here: bit.ly/3vAUoiG
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  • @jaurellodragon1995
    @jaurellodragon1995 3 года назад +320

    I've been in the closet since I was 8. I'm 17 now. This has been the best and most direct video about homosexuality and the catholic church. I sobbed my eyes out. I'm seeing the world in a new perspective. Thank you.

    • @Helsynch
      @Helsynch 2 года назад +24

      as a catholic, i just want to personally remind you that you are loved. yes, you experienced very gruely difficulties. but that is your cross you have to bear. i love you, the church loves you, and God loves you most of all.

    • @alawafidelia4585
      @alawafidelia4585 2 года назад +17

      I'm glad you found it helpful. God loves you very much and we're all much more than our sexual attractions. We all love you very much!

    • @Grokford
      @Grokford Год назад +5

      @@Helsynch
      How cruel to call a fruit of a the spirit a cross to bear.

    • @dariacosma6822
      @dariacosma6822 Год назад +1

      @@Grokford what did helsynch call a cross to bear what was really a fruit of the spirit?

    • @carolhannah4635
      @carolhannah4635 Год назад

      May God keep blessing you. X

  • @davidboubion9500
    @davidboubion9500 6 лет назад +603

    Thank you for sharing this with me. I'm a gay man and was raised in a Mexican, catholic household. I experienced trauma as a child and was always told that being gay was wrong. My parents would tell me that being gay would be a sure way too be condemned too hell. A couple of years ago, I would attend SAA meetings because I thought I had a sexual addiction. But, like the young man you mentioned, I also had that yearning to be loved and accepted by a father. My father was absent for most of my life. He would provide for the home, but, he never truly spent time with me. So, I felt very neglected. He divorced my mother 2 years ago and has abandoned the household. Your words are very comforting and loving. I found myself very drawn to the love I was feeling. Thank you and god bless you.

    • @annakataoka5599
      @annakataoka5599 6 лет назад +17

      David Boubion Beautiful story. You have a Cross and you carry it. God bless you, man!

    • @friedpilot4663
      @friedpilot4663 5 лет назад +7

      Good for you and god bless man❤️🏳️‍🌈

    • @aleksanderlorentzen
      @aleksanderlorentzen 5 лет назад +4

      Thanks for sharing! Praying for you and hoping you find fulfilment and joy.

    • @MichElle-sd6gj
      @MichElle-sd6gj 5 лет назад +3

      Brother David, Even if our parents do not love us or “we often feel they do not love us” God Our Creator loves us like no other. Sorry for you but stay strong in Jesus Christ alone and His Blessed Mother - gloriapolo.com in Brazilian Español,Francais German Croatian Arabic etc. & salvationisfromthejews.com 🙏🏼

    • @anamaldooli
      @anamaldooli 5 лет назад +4

      Hey David!! Praying for you as you continue on your journey to Heaven!! The Lord deeply desires to love you and heal you. I don't know if you've ever heard of the John Paul II Healing Center but they put on wonderful retreats to equip people in healing with their trauma. Just thought I'd throw it out there. you are so loved!

  • @seewhathadhappenedwas328
    @seewhathadhappenedwas328 6 лет назад +417

    I clicked this video a little afraid, but five seconds in I knew the message would be gentle and uplifting. I mean seriously, this man is so truthful but not brutal. He wasn't at all hateful, and he spoke the truth in a kind way that wouldn't push people away. God bless, and thank you for this message, I really needed it

    • @roxanardh
      @roxanardh 5 лет назад +2

      Same

    • @STHFGDBY
      @STHFGDBY 5 лет назад +1

      Oh please. Are you serious.? What you are agreeing with is not of the holy spirit but of the devil himself.

    • @STHFGDBY
      @STHFGDBY 4 года назад +1

      @rowan orre Really, explain why?

    • @cl0v3rg4rd3n
      @cl0v3rg4rd3n 4 года назад +2

      @@STHFGDBY Wow. Be quiet and actually listen to this video. It's not the devil, it's love. Nothing is wrong with who you love. In the Bible it says "Man shall not lay with man" Which translates to "Man shall not lay with boy" Which has to do with pedo things. You know what God also hates? Hate. I hope that you find peice and become more accepting towards others. Thank you.

    • @STHFGDBY
      @STHFGDBY 4 года назад +2

      @@cl0v3rg4rd3n Good job you twisting the scriptures to appease the devil.

  • @colleenlongua9752
    @colleenlongua9752 5 лет назад +877

    This is what the Catholic Church is supposed to be, love, intelligence and reason.

    • @MichElle-sd6gj
      @MichElle-sd6gj 5 лет назад +19

      It is but those not well educated misinterpret God’s Word

    • @dalmatinka9084
      @dalmatinka9084 5 лет назад +9

      Number221 B
      This is what the Catholic Church IS.

    • @mariaesparza4067
      @mariaesparza4067 5 лет назад +5

      we are, sadly, it's a personal behavior. All "religions" point that finger at us, but don't look at themselves.

    • @STHFGDBY
      @STHFGDBY 5 лет назад +3

      And what else? Acceptance of all kinds of vile practices. Give me a break. You people are an affront to the church of Jesus Christ. You no longer recognise sin and when you do you mask it with false beliefs.

    • @STHFGDBY
      @STHFGDBY 5 лет назад +3

      It is, but it also obeys the holy scriptures regarding sexual immorality and fornication. Do you follow that rule ? .

  • @thecandidcounterbalance1492
    @thecandidcounterbalance1492 5 лет назад +354

    "Your sexual attractions are *not* your identity."
    Thank you for saying this. I have two master's degrees, and I have never heard anyone utter these words before - not a professor, colleague, classmate... But as you said them, I realized how absolutely true those words are.

    • @oopsiepoopsie2898
      @oopsiepoopsie2898 4 года назад +5

      The Candid Counterbalance I didn’t even go to college and most college people I know say your sexuality isn’t your full identity it’s just part of it

    • @pastorbri
      @pastorbri 3 года назад +11

      homophobia should also not be an identity

    • @pastorbri
      @pastorbri 3 года назад +2

      @TheEndtimes good point really, and so same goes for the homophobics, they should wear that tag if that is who they are.

    • @fla8623
      @fla8623 2 года назад +3

      yes but they are a big part of your identity. Stop pretending that it isn't. If it wasn't, you wouldn't even be thinking about it.😂😂

    • @thecandidcounterbalance1492
      @thecandidcounterbalance1492 2 года назад

      @@fla8623 The mainstream media & academics have made them an "important" part of identity. But it should actually be private. Keep it on your dating apps. Your colleagues and family members don't need to know what you get up to in the bedroom.

  • @firebeard2412
    @firebeard2412 5 лет назад +780

    I am actually looking into becoming a catholic. I had multiple catholic friends and as I accepted jesus a God and the holy spirit into my life I was drawn to the church. This was one subject that always worried me though. I'm not homosexual but I have many homosexual or bisexual friends and I was worried as to whether the church was truly homophobic. Thank you for clearing it up.

    • @zu1788
      @zu1788 5 лет назад +32

      Welcome Home!

    • @yeolebutton4233
      @yeolebutton4233 5 лет назад +30

      The Church is a beautiful place to be :)

    • @nickshininger
      @nickshininger 5 лет назад +19

      God bless you! I will be praying for you and your conversion 😊

    • @littlebird2438
      @littlebird2438 5 лет назад +13

      Look into the Traditional Latin Catholic Mass. It is the most beautiful blessing given to man. The New Order mass will just lead you to confusion with all its incongruencies.

    • @yeolebutton4233
      @yeolebutton4233 5 лет назад +3

      @@littlebird2438 Peace, Love, TLM

  • @jakebagnod3751
    @jakebagnod3751 5 лет назад +144

    That honestly the first tim in 14 years that I have felt like I'm not an abomination. When he apologized for all the those that have rejected me I felt a dagger come out of my heart. I forgive you and I pray that you can forgive me for all of the bad thoughts and things I have thought. God bless YOU all lets make it a great Easter!!! where we celebrate the defeat of sin and death and the resurrection of christ and our hearts

    • @xHannaHx33
      @xHannaHx33 4 года назад

      ♥️✝️♥️

    • @fla8623
      @fla8623 2 года назад

      God loves you and you should love yourself. Love yourself enough to find someone who you love even though they might be from the same gender.

  • @tito810
    @tito810 6 лет назад +1125

    Wow this is beautiful. This is why I love Catholicism. The church is able to speak the truth to reach the hearts of the sheep outside of the herd.

    • @tito810
      @tito810 6 лет назад +10

      BornAgain happyfriday lol as catholics we believe only jesus saves us. You should do research on the history of Christianity my friend.

    • @tito810
      @tito810 6 лет назад +7

      BornAgain happyfriday yeah I know what the gospel means. Since coming back into the catholic faith I learned where Christianity has come from and it's come Jesus Christ who gave the keys to peter. Who started your church?

    • @n.c.108
      @n.c.108 6 лет назад +6

      tito810 So is this guy is the Catholic Church ? Is he the Holy father ? Do you realize he speaks against Jesus and the sacraments of Catholicism? Don't be naive and deceived

    • @tito810
      @tito810 6 лет назад +1

      BornAgain happyfriday I ask you a question yet you do not answer it. Please do not dodge the question.

    • @tito810
      @tito810 6 лет назад +2

      N. C. Sorry bro I don't have time for you. My attention is towards born again happyfriday.

  • @anaizabelortiz7121
    @anaizabelortiz7121 5 лет назад +84

    Thank you for being an ambassador of love in the Catholic church. This is a fine example of saying the truth in kindness.

    • @GavinAlexander.
      @GavinAlexander. 5 лет назад +1

      Nothing about his video is about love. It's about manipulation.

    • @walterromanoff2953
      @walterromanoff2953 3 года назад

      False teachings by a false prophet
      Everything he said is a lie
      Nothing he said was in the Bible
      His opinions not even Catholic
      Is he a priest I doubt it

    • @addieschmit9366
      @addieschmit9366 3 года назад

      @@walterromanoff2953 you don’t have to be a priest to express the word of God

    • @pastorbri
      @pastorbri 2 года назад +1

      we should be an ambassador of the christian church, not a religion.

  • @francisluke4739
    @francisluke4739 3 года назад +97

    I'm a bi Catholic and hearing this is so amazing, I stepped away from the church because I was afraid of what would be said about me and my partner but then I saw this sought of love from other catholics and priests and have come back stronger than ever in my faith. Am I still nervous to talk openly about my relationship with new priests, yes but I'm getting there.

    • @DaughterofGod333
      @DaughterofGod333 3 года назад +30

      The Catholic Church still and forever will teach that God's marriage is one man plus one woman ONLY. Plus, there are only two genders, male and female. Stick with the truth 🙏🏽

    • @DaughterofGod333
      @DaughterofGod333 3 года назад +10

      Also, be careful of the heresies of Fr. James Martin, S.J.

    • @francisluke4739
      @francisluke4739 3 года назад +29

      @@DaughterofGod333 Did I refute either of those things? My partner and I aren't married and I didn't say anything about gender (although male and female are sexes not genders)

    • @MZONE991
      @MZONE991 3 года назад +29

      @@francisluke4739
      Homophobia is a plague in the Church, we must eradicate it quickly, we preached too long that same sex relations are sinful but we forgot that homophobia is also deeply sinful
      the Church must stay in the middle and make a balance, as St. Augustine teaches, do not hate man because God made him, but however hate the sin because humans made it

    • @GavinAlexander.
      @GavinAlexander. 3 года назад +5

      How can this be amazing to you? It's a pile of condescending, manipulative hogwash, designed to keep you locked into participation with an immoral institution and belief.

  • @Jeanjellybean13
    @Jeanjellybean13 6 лет назад +413

    "God hates your stupid signs." Put some ice on that burn.

    • @efandmk3382
      @efandmk3382 4 года назад +5

      God hates? Are you sure you're a Christian?

    • @markwilkie7633
      @markwilkie7633 4 года назад +4

      @@efandmk3382 Actually is theologically accurate to hate certain things

    • @heathsavage4852
      @heathsavage4852 4 года назад +20

      Idiots carrying hateful, spiteful, violent signs in God's name are the problem. Usually they are carried by protestants.

    • @tryhardf844
      @tryhardf844 4 года назад +13

      @@heathsavage4852
      Exactly.
      In the bible it states clearly that God even laughs at those who pratice hatred to one another,because it is absurd.

    • @just-nv4559
      @just-nv4559 4 года назад +3

      @@efandmk3382 He/she is true tho.. God doesn't hate the sinner he hates the sin and the sin is the sign.
      (kindof)

  • @KevinQualls
    @KevinQualls 6 лет назад +283

    Baptist here and fellow brother in the Lord saying "Amen".

    • @jyn-ivanbusulwa6727
      @jyn-ivanbusulwa6727 5 лет назад +5

      God bless you

    • @STHFGDBY
      @STHFGDBY 5 лет назад +2

      Baptist ? Baptist of what ? Not of Jesus that's for sure. Shame on you for believing you are a man of God. You are not, not by a long stretch.

    • @xotan
      @xotan 4 года назад +8

      @@STHFGDBY What a hateful thing to say. You come across as shamelessly intolerant. Is that really what you are? If so, then may I remind you that Our Lord was never a Catholic. He was a Jew and would certtainly have said the Jewish testament of faith:'Sh'ma Yisroel Adonai Elohenu..': Hear Israel the Lord our God; you shall love the Lordn your God.n with all your heart....... and your neighbour as yourself. And who is your neighbour? Even the Samitan is your neighbour, as Jesus's parable makes clear.

    • @STHFGDBY
      @STHFGDBY 4 года назад +1

      @@xotan Don't you dare point your finger and accuse me you hypocrite. I'm stating facts. And Jesus formed the Catholic church by his Apostles. Jesus said ''Simon Peter you are my rock and upon this rock I will build my church'' What church do you believe Jesus was referring to. And where is St Peters tomb? Oh I get it, St Peter is buried under St Peters Basilica in Rome the Vatican. Isn't it strange the Catholic Church is built on Top of St Peters tomb when you consider what Jesus said to him.? So yes, Jesus did form the Catholic Church .And remember it was the Jews that had him crucified because he challenged their beliefs. And even to this day most Jews do not believe Jesus is the son of God. So Let me ask you a question, do you believe his Mother Mary was a Virgin when and after she gave birth to Jesus ? I want to see how much you call Jesus a Liar.

    • @Alexander44665
      @Alexander44665 4 года назад +3

      @@STHFGDBY reading your post makes me glad that my Protestant mother stood up to my Catholic father and insisted that I be Protestant. Sounds like she was right!

  • @michelledurocher7524
    @michelledurocher7524 5 лет назад +20

    👏🏻this video is answer to prayer. Thank you for so eloquently putting this into words! I have been in search for something like this for so long and I am so thankful for you Jason! God bless you!!

  • @arubani-7592
    @arubani-7592 6 лет назад +466

    The guy is such a sweetheart! I'm a girl who's been struggling with homosexuality, soon to turn 20 years old and I've never laid a hand on a man or woman before. I feel sometimes that I'm in a state of romantic limbo and I'm in a state of permanent abstinence and will be for the rest of my life. Sometimes I feel I'll miss out on certain qualities of life or if I ever had a soul mate who I let down.
    This video cheered me up a little though! Very good content.
    God bless

    • @catrionamcneill6307
      @catrionamcneill6307 6 лет назад

      Amiii Mi I

    • @AnnInFL
      @AnnInFL 6 лет назад +23

      kevin
      Celibacy affirms the goodness of marriage. Because marriage is a holy sacrament given by God, to forego it out of love is a great sacrifice to make for God. To do this requires grace from God.

    • @pcjgrjpaj
      @pcjgrjpaj 6 лет назад +16

      Hi Amiii Mi,
      you may have heard of Courage, a Catholic apostolate, which helps people with SSA to live their Catholic faith. The Courage website includes the testimonies of souls who are on a journey to Christ. Their witness to living the Faith is extremely powerful. I am not SSA, yet I draw deep inspiration by how these souls carry a great cross which has been bestowed upon them by God. This cross will make them saints, great saints, perhaps unknown to the world yet known to God.
      God Bless
      Paul J

    • @ezinnwa
      @ezinnwa 6 лет назад +7

      I Wil pray for you everyday. God loves you and we all love you too. Remember to go to church and pray to God. his grace is always sufficient. God bless

    • @MrJsloma41
      @MrJsloma41 6 лет назад +39

      Amiii, you're breaking my heart. You're young, and you're earnest, but just like you said--you're on the verge of missing out on what life has to offer. It's so tough to read a story like yours. I hope you'll hear me out.
      People like the man in this video and in this comment section are genuinely well-meaning, good people. And that's great. It's awesome to be supported. It's awesome to be part of something larger than yourself. And it's even more awesome to be supported by those who share your belief in that larger thing. I'm sure you feel a sense of warmth, love, and belonging when you hear a genuinely caring man affirm your humanity like this. But there's something else going on here. Something insidious.
      The ideas put forward in this video are crafted to accomplish two things. First, the video aims to educate people about the doctrinal reasons the Catholic Church rejects homosexual behavior. Indeed, homosexuality and Catholicism don't get along very well ideologically. In the past, things were much uglier and much more hateful. There has been improvement in the church, and this video is evidence of that improvement. Thank goodness for that.
      Secondly, once its made the case, the video aims to then combat homosexuality with quite a bit of careful rhetoric that makes it appear that gay and lesbian Christians are actually accepted by the church. All you have to do, you're told, is embrace your homosexuality but deny the homosexual behavior. You're told that abstinence is not a denial of your identity because sexual preference isn't a part of your identity--only godliness is. You're told that gay marriage is not about inequality, but about a misunderstanding of terminology. You are made to believe that since kind, thoughtful people like this man will always accept you, that you must believe them when they tell you to deny your immoral urges and proclivities. All of this advice probably comes across to you as another instance of the same support and concern you've always felt from this community. You are supposed to feel accepted--not pushed away. All you have to do is suppress, and that acceptance will continue.
      Amiii, leave this community of believers.
      Find people who will not make your decision to remain abstinent a barrier to entry. Find people who encourage you to embark on a journey of self-discovery in which you arrive at your own decisions by your own means. Find people who will not steer you away from life choices unless those choices are infringing on the free choices of others. Find people who will not only accept who you are spiritually, but who will celebrate ALL aspects of your identity, including your sexuality, your religion, your passions and interests, and whatever else YOU choose. Life is short, and being human is too beautifully complex to deny such large aspects of your experience as your sexuality.
      You yourself sense that you might be missing out. You're still young--there's still time to change.
      Please venture beyond this corner of the internet. You will find other communities of support--heck, you will find thousands of gay and lesbian Christians who are not commanded to suppress their sexualities. In their denominations, they are just accepted for who they are! Really, all I want is for people like you to not fall for this rhetoric. It's appealing, and it's convincing, but it isn't healthy. Your life experience will be so much fuller if you branch out, even just a little bit.
      Best of luck, Amiii. I hope you don't find the extensive life advice of a random internet commenter too off-putting :)

  • @WisdomSeekingWriter
    @WisdomSeekingWriter 5 лет назад +36

    After reading MANY of the comments shared here, I couldn’t help but be reminded of how IMPORTANT our ATTITUDE is.
    Regardless of where we stand on ANY issue of sin, I am confident that God wants us to approach any discussion with LOVE and NOT PRIDE or DERISION.
    We must ALWAYS examine our heart and our INTENTION when discussing any subject.
    May the Holy SPIRIT always be our Guide. 🙏🏻

  • @RainsCloud777
    @RainsCloud777 5 лет назад +149

    All I can say is thank you. This definitely influenced my decision to convert to Catholicism , I’d been thinking about it for sometime now and I was afraid bc of this topic..but this settled my soul💓

    • @pastorbri
      @pastorbri 4 года назад

      Go christian not catholic

    • @andreslara2377
      @andreslara2377 4 года назад +7

      pastor brian stop using the Bible then, it was put together by the Catholic Church

    • @pastorbri
      @pastorbri 4 года назад

      @@andreslara2377 the bible was put together by christians and bible scholars, get educated.

    • @andreslara2377
      @andreslara2377 4 года назад +5

      pastor brian who were these scholars? When was it put together? Who has the original texts?

    • @pastorbri
      @pastorbri 4 года назад

      @@andreslara2377 who were these scholars? A huge range of people, did u not know?
      When was it put together?
      After Jesus died and rose again, it was written by witnesses, the deciples and more over a few hundred years....
      Who has the original texts?
      Religious folk now hold them.

  • @captainsheerbun9814
    @captainsheerbun9814 6 лет назад +177

    ATTA BOY JASON. Way to communicate effectively with love and intelligence. You make this confusing, broken world a much...much better place. God Bless you, bro.

  • @GregAitchison
    @GregAitchison 6 лет назад +155

    Thank you SO MUCH for posting this. As a middle school theology teacher I've become convinced that this is the number one misunderstood issue for teenagers today and one that holds many of them back from ever fully embracing their faith.
    As Jason references, most young people today have been brought up thinking there are only two sides to this issue: "Gay pride" or "gay shame". The third, Catholic way, has never been presented to them, especially in such a respectful and loving manner as in this video. I’m sure there’ll be some kickback, but I am also sure those who actually watch the entirety of this clip with an open mind and heart will be richly blessed.
    May God bless all who watch this video, all who experience same-sex attraction, and especially all who have ever been hurt by members of the Church. Know that you are loved, welcomed with open arms, and prayed for.

    • @jamz3243
      @jamz3243 6 лет назад +4

      Do you know why the catholic way of abstinence isn't really followed by many people? its because human sexuality is basically something we can't run away from or pray away.
      What would be better if priests (and specifically bishops/cardinals) got their collective heads out of their behinds and realize that God isn't offended by how we have sex. (he lets kids be bombed by asshole presidents/dictators around the world but cares how two people have sex? what kind of sick pervert is God? )
      But in 100% seriousness bishops and cardinals alike need to be against these cannon laws (109.1, 226.1-2, and 1061.1) and change them to allow for gays to be married or not claim that BECAUSE they can't have children its "a sin". These types of official paperwork allow for bigots to continue being bigots in our church.

    • @jamz3243
      @jamz3243 6 лет назад +2

      Seriously as a theology teacher I am eager to learn how dictators who harm children, murders, etc. are equal to two happy people (of the same sex) who decide to play a little naked wrestling in bed. (or you know wherever appropriate)
      I mean you can make the argument dictators and murders are similar to spousal abusers and thieves but you can't even compare thieves and robbers to gay people who actually love one another. (no not being able to have kids is not stealing or killing anyone because your sperm and or eggs are not alive)
      Or rather your sperm and eggs are not alive UNLESS you believe that one part of the gospel where Jesus says that "God can make men/sons of abraham of these stone" and you also respect every pebble you step on.
      I know. I know, I've already had a very lengthy discussion with quiet a few theologians about "pro life" and while I disagree, there is an argument to be made for that.... but there isn't one for gays being sinners.

    • @congratulationslol2826
      @congratulationslol2826 6 лет назад

      Jose Mendoza God has a valuable reason (in his defence),to ALLOW the Dictators harm the children and let the murders take place.
      I could tell you the reason if you want.

    • @andrewbennett6089
      @andrewbennett6089 5 лет назад +2

      Jose Mendoza That doesn’t make sense. I think God DOES care if a man forced a woman to have sex without consent. So should the law.

  • @joshmaher3301
    @joshmaher3301 6 лет назад +101

    “God hates your stupid sign” IM DYING😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @RitaBlanchard
      @RitaBlanchard 3 года назад +1

      I loved that!

    • @kenthefele113
      @kenthefele113 Год назад

      The Westboro Baptist Church gives Christianity a bad name. They are disgusting.

  • @transfigurationyouthminist3619
    @transfigurationyouthminist3619 6 лет назад +13

    This was truly amazing and covered so many different arguments and questions in one video! Thank you Jason! :) I look forward to sharing this video with the kids in my youth group. :)

  • @Britfan06
    @Britfan06 6 лет назад +121

    Very very very well said! I feel the Church is so misunderstood about this topic, and hope more people get to see this.

  • @DanceIt0ut
    @DanceIt0ut 6 лет назад +19

    I have been thinking about how I'd respond to this topic for a while now; thank you Jason Evert for mapping it all out. Everything makes so much sense when he explains it.

  • @anastasiawasylinko5482
    @anastasiawasylinko5482 5 лет назад +45

    The constant sexualization is an all too true and sad situation. I'm looking forward to the day when that's not the case.
    This was such a great video! Good job!

  • @cristinasuarezpareja738
    @cristinasuarezpareja738 6 лет назад +13

    Jason, thank you so much for everything you teach us! THANK YOU!!!

  • @kristeandreatujague7016
    @kristeandreatujague7016 10 месяцев назад +7

    "You don't change your attractions, you choose your behaviors"
    Amen.

  • @Pilgrim06
    @Pilgrim06 4 года назад +5

    A blessed sermon, so much wisdom, so much love. This is very spiritual, I was waiting 55 years to hear this. Amen.

  • @VideoMask93
    @VideoMask93 5 лет назад +119

    This is what Fr James Martin should be saying. Glorious witness.

  • @aquaarietta
    @aquaarietta 6 лет назад +135

    I had a conversation almost exactly like this with my mom just the other day when discussing the state of our culture. Thank you so much for wonderfully summing up these beautiful truths. I myself was once caught up in all the confusion and identities for many years in middle and high school, yet still considering myself Catholic, until about two years ago when I came to understand the fullness of God's word and intentions for our lives. My struggle now is in how to share this truth and love with others I helped lead astray. While I am a little afraid of the inevitable conflict from some, which I have already faced a little bit, I am reminded of a priest I once read about who said "It's my job to be countercultural." All Christians are called to this because Jesus Christ himself is countercultural (despite whatever claims some might make about "Western" society). How much more countercultural can it be to understand love as holy and love as suffering and love as SELFless. When there is self, there is identity and image. Without the self, there is only God and love for each other so great that it extends beyond this world and this life time. I hope all of us can love so boldly and show to the world what love truly is.

    • @yandes1004
      @yandes1004 6 лет назад +5

      I can't agree with that any more 😉

    • @ftt3057
      @ftt3057 6 лет назад +4

      Very strong statement, being selfless is the key

    • @MichElle-sd6gj
      @MichElle-sd6gj 5 лет назад

      salvationisfromthejews.com

  • @carilyn1031
    @carilyn1031 6 лет назад +4

    I couldn't "like" this video more. Great video Jason! Also, this channel is awesome. It is so practical and close to our daily questions and life. I learn something good after each video.

  • @donoose
    @donoose 5 лет назад +6

    Thank you Jason Evert! I hope I meet you one day. You have melted my hard heart in ways you will never know

  • @daytonjames511
    @daytonjames511 6 лет назад +12

    This is one of the best videos I have seen in a while.

  • @acathia
    @acathia 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Jason, you always put it across with such clarity. I am touched. I hope one day, I may find the words.

  • @cristinagonzalez-antatorre7365
    @cristinagonzalez-antatorre7365 5 лет назад +10

    You are amazing! You go directly yo the core arguments! I love It. I wish there were more videos like this!

  • @fsnicolas
    @fsnicolas 5 лет назад +5

    How incredibly eloquent and encouraging. Great video and message!

  • @briankelly85
    @briankelly85 6 лет назад +11

    Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage...

  • @nrof
    @nrof 4 года назад +1

    Great video! This is what I was looking for! Thank you Ascension Presents, you always give me answers. God Bless!

  • @iris__and_rhizomes
    @iris__and_rhizomes 5 лет назад +21

    I’ve never thought of that: we could have a saint who had same sex attractions. That’s an amazing thought! Thank you.

    • @arullivingston4972
      @arullivingston4972 4 года назад

      That's not true

    • @Wisdomlies
      @Wisdomlies 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@arullivingston4972It is true. I am attracted to men but have Holy Spirit. Which if you respect big brother Paul who is now in Heaven, reminds us that Holy Spirit is evidence of our inheritance and how we are sealed as God’s saints.
      So are you calling Brother Paul a liar and God who told him such things a liar?

    • @jatwangismyname900
      @jatwangismyname900 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@WisdomliesYou seem confused

  • @myriamc.
    @myriamc. 5 лет назад +5

    This is just awesome! I will refer many to this video! Thank you! Amen!

  • @captainsheerbun9814
    @captainsheerbun9814 4 года назад +1

    Spoken LIKE. A. BOSS. Jason- you are drastically changing hearts throughout this broken world! Never stop! Love you bro.

  • @karenmiller5267
    @karenmiller5267 5 лет назад

    All praise to God for the full cup, overflowing. You have blessed us all, Mr Evert. I, for one, am going to give this another viewing to let it sink in.

  • @squirtle7G1
    @squirtle7G1 4 года назад +6

    God wants us to be United in his love and in his Church! ♥️ God bless you all at Ascension Presents!

  • @antoniob.italia79
    @antoniob.italia79 5 лет назад +9

    I appreciated every single word that you said in this video! For years I considered myself an "untouchable" and I lived like an hermit....Now I stopped to live in that way...but I keep my homosexuality for myself...I have never said that to people who I love because I am afraid of losing them.... Thanks for these great words.

    • @lieskekeegstra7455
      @lieskekeegstra7455 Год назад +1

      Sending big hugs and I hope you find people who will make you feel welcome and loved enough to share. Sorry you have felt like you can’t share. Lots of love from Ireland.

    • @antoniob.italia79
      @antoniob.italia79 Год назад

      @@lieskekeegstra7455 Thanks ,hugs from Italy

  • @claytonwenrich3588
    @claytonwenrich3588 5 лет назад +2

    wow. Just what i needed to hear. Thank you so much for your love.understanding and help. God Bless.

  • @johndavidjovellanos4383
    @johndavidjovellanos4383 5 лет назад +4

    This is really good! Thank you Sir Jayson!:) God bless us all. :)

  • @Sam-iw5rl
    @Sam-iw5rl Год назад +4

    I really needed this as a Demigirl who’s aroace and Catholic. I tend to be conflicted and fearful with the Catholic Church for a while since all the news channel and outlets say very harmful information towards the LGBTQIA+ but this video really changed my perspective, so thank you really 🙏

  • @ThisIsMyRectangle
    @ThisIsMyRectangle Год назад +3

    So many years I've been needing to hear this, and I'm so thankful today I found this.

    • @GavinAlexander.
      @GavinAlexander. Год назад

      Why? It's the same hate and homophobia, wrapped in a shroud of deceit.

    • @balkananimations6389
      @balkananimations6389 9 месяцев назад

      sure buddy sure, it's almost like you have free will to not be a part of the Church and to accept it's teachings. We don't force it @@GavinAlexander.

    • @GavinAlexander.
      @GavinAlexander. 9 месяцев назад

      @@balkananimations6389 Sweetie, your idiotic gaslighting aside, the history of your institution proves you do "force it" by way of manipulating the mechanisms of the state in any society in which your immoral "church" has a sufficient majority to enforce and enact its will on all people within that society. Your comment is a revisionist history joke.

  • @mateusluciano8549
    @mateusluciano8549 5 лет назад +2

    I wanna thank you for the video and for the love that everyone felt watching this video. You helped me a lot. God bless you.

  • @cw4608
    @cw4608 4 года назад +16

    “Our world is hyper sexualized”. You hit the nail on the head, things have become so weird in the last three decades. “Not all attractions are sexual” so many gems in one video!

  • @maddyhoeltke-brown2515
    @maddyhoeltke-brown2515 6 лет назад +26

    I know this might cause a little backlash from some people (not all of course!), but I'm a gay atheist, and I still appreciated this video more than I can express. I appreciate the goal of normalizing opens of sexuality as well as the importance of ALL KINDS of relationships: from friendships to romantic relationships to accountability partners. The way you feel is not always in your control, but the way you react to those feelings and your circumstance is. I deeply appreciate the love you spread over hatred. Despite our differences, I love you all as well, even if our viewpoints are different, and I hope you know that as an atheist, I am not evil, and I don't have an empty life without purpose or goodness or love. I am driven and happy and full of love to spread, and I believe that life is not about me but about coming together to spread hope, joy, love, and peace for all. I know others believe in a different purpose for why we are here, and I completely respect that! I embrace people of all kinds, and I do my best to love unconditionally and live intentionally to make the most of this life spreading the most positivity and good that I possibly can. Whoever you are and wherever you are in your life, you are beautiful, supported, loved, and you can do this! We are all in this life together, so lets help each other along the way! Much love to you all!

    • @lieskekeegstra7455
      @lieskekeegstra7455 Год назад

      Big hug and lots of love back from Ireland

    • @viktorreznov8740
      @viktorreznov8740 Год назад +2

      I'm not sure where you got any of that in the video. Nowhere in Church doctrine does it say a single thing about accepting any form of sexuality other than heterosexual behaviour in the confines of marriage. The RCC is NOT open to allowing say the behaviour you choose to indulge in. You may take what I'm saying as unkind or mean but what you got from this video wasn't really what the Church teaches. Yes we love you regardless but we do not accept the life you're living and pray for you to repent. No one of any amount of Faith will say that any form of sexual act outside of a man and woman in marriage is ok.

  • @Creasingdrip40
    @Creasingdrip40 5 лет назад +61

    This was absolutely beautiful and I'd love to relay this to my homosexual friends to let them know that even if they don't believe or don't practice that they are still loved by me and God and that I hope they someday consider joining the Catholic Church. Thank you for speaking the truth that God loves all of us no matter what our sexuality is and that he will continue to love us and we should do the same for him.

    • @nancyle9507
      @nancyle9507 4 года назад

      Creasing Drip40

    • @geoffcaflisch1352
      @geoffcaflisch1352 4 года назад +3

      As long as you clear with them 7th at they will have a lifetime of celibacy if they become a Catholic and abide by their teachings . If they were my good friends, why would I deny them what I have treasured in my own twenty marriage.

    • @ThinkLuckyThink
      @ThinkLuckyThink 2 года назад +1

      Don't.

    • @fla8623
      @fla8623 2 года назад +2

      Lol, you will lose your friends

  • @gailakraeszig2866
    @gailakraeszig2866 2 года назад +1

    I love this video. There are a few people I really want to see this. I have to admit...... I was born and raised Catholic and this is NOT the Catholicism I grew up with. But I love what I am seeing and hearing now......... at least from this channel. Please keep up the good ministry! It is a mission field in our own back yards; long overlooked and desperately needed! Bravo! God Bless you!

  • @douglastranghese7270
    @douglastranghese7270 3 года назад

    Excellent video! Thank you putting this together for the world to see.

  • @miriamvolaric9445
    @miriamvolaric9445 6 лет назад +4

    Uuuu! Nicee! So true and well put together. Thank you! God bless

  • @zeinfo9346
    @zeinfo9346 6 лет назад +21

    Amazing. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! God bless!

  • @Janhuary
    @Janhuary 5 лет назад

    Goodness! It's so difficult to come up with the right words with modern day context when it comes to this subject and you did such a good job of being open and welcoming. Thanks for teaching me how to clarify our faith when it comes to this!

    • @GavinAlexander.
      @GavinAlexander. 5 лет назад +1

      Translated: *thank you for structuring our ignorant prejudice in an apologetic form which makes it more palatable

  • @brianreillyrosaryreilly3178
    @brianreillyrosaryreilly3178 5 лет назад +135

    Go and don't sin again - jesus Christ

    • @ramonacastro1530
      @ramonacastro1530 5 лет назад +7

      Amen!

    • @waltermromanoff349
      @waltermromanoff349 5 лет назад +27

      Who defines sin
      Society or the Bible or the Catholic Church
      Bible says homosexuality is a sin very clearly
      So is sex without marriage
      So are impure thoughts
      That’s why we needed a savior because we are sinners

    • @ramonacastro1530
      @ramonacastro1530 5 лет назад +3

      @@waltermromanoff349 Amen and Amen! 😊

    • @waltermromanoff349
      @waltermromanoff349 5 лет назад +6

      Ramona Castro
      Thanks for saying hi
      People want to keep sinning and usually
      get mad if you don’t condone what they are doing
      When I got saved I wanted to stop sinning
      Before I was saved I didn’t know or care if I was sinning.
      Have a great day I’m sitting in the sun with my dog and thanking Jesus for being my savior.

    • @ramonacastro1530
      @ramonacastro1530 5 лет назад

      @@waltermromanoff349 I totally agree with u! We just need t stand firm in our belief, and pray for humanity and each other for strength to endure the bashimgs we believers go thru! The day I accepted the Lord I wasn't looking for him, but am so happy he was looking for me😊! God bless you brother! I love you! In Wat part of this world r u? Blessings! 😊🙏💞

  • @bitty4994
    @bitty4994 4 года назад +3

    This cleared up somethings that I asked to someone who was doing some talk at my (Catholic) school. He didn’t give a direct answer, but this helped a lot!!

  • @tiagoguimaraes
    @tiagoguimaraes 5 лет назад +27

    What a great video. I have SSA and with God's grace I accept my cross and may He work through me.

    • @happymbaga4820
      @happymbaga4820 3 года назад

      thia is blasphemy before the sight of God

    • @erravi
      @erravi 3 года назад +2

      Me too. I recently got baptized and confirmed. Seeing how with His grace my SSA has subsided and I am able to start putting it aside so relieving.

  • @tomstopshots
    @tomstopshots 6 лет назад +2

    Every time I come back to this channel I fall more in love with my faith. The undeniable moral and biological truth is so refreshing to hear in a world where people are "supposed" to live their "own truth".

  • @SunderlAndy
    @SunderlAndy 5 лет назад +4

    God bless you. Thank you for this succinct, illuminating video of the Catholic Church's very own heart. Your talents of communication are very apparent. Thank you for using them for Christ and His Church.

  • @henrywilson5204
    @henrywilson5204 5 лет назад +12

    I’ve never heard this subject put so eloquently. Thank you!

  • @amypolsinelli7948
    @amypolsinelli7948 3 года назад +5

    What we need more than anything...MORE PEOPLE LIKE YOU!!❤

  • @pattiraithel5412
    @pattiraithel5412 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this message to understand what the church believes.

  • @kathicip
    @kathicip 6 лет назад +6

    Very interesting. I need to watch this again.

  • @profilename3206
    @profilename3206 4 года назад +14

    I am a transgender Catholic in the Philippines. This message made my day and restored my faith in humanity and God. I hope all churches would be as progressive as Jason and i hope that churches would tackle similar issues during their homily to enlighten people that the LGBT community is part of the church's community. When it happens, it will be lead more LGBT people in coming back to church and to God.

  • @elliot7404
    @elliot7404 6 лет назад +17

    I love you man im not religious and you just are amazing ive experienced a lot of homophobia and its nice to see you arent discriminating against people

  • @Fiftynine414
    @Fiftynine414 5 лет назад +4

    Thank you for truth. Our Church is a beacon of Light. God bless you.

  • @manojs9943
    @manojs9943 6 лет назад +1

    Best answer for all my doubts about the homosexual community.
    Thank you soo much.
    Love ascension presents.
    continue your great work.
    God bless.

  • @lane7177
    @lane7177 5 лет назад +21

    MY HEART! I’m transgender and Pansexual. This warms my heart! ❤️ I’m Christian and still in the closet because I’m scared of what my family will think. This gives me courage. Thanks!

  • @TheChio116
    @TheChio116 6 лет назад +34

    WOW 😮 beautiful Thank You! So much

  • @theohoelker733
    @theohoelker733 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much ascension presents. I was thinking earlier that not enough people in the Church talk about this, and then I watched this video and it made me so happy. Please continue to make such amazing videos and continue to help others find the truth.

    • @GavinAlexander.
      @GavinAlexander. 3 года назад

      What "truth" was provided by this video?

    • @theohoelker733
      @theohoelker733 2 года назад +1

      I saw a lot of truth in this video. First, he made a lot of important clarifications about what the Church says on marriage and homosexuality, many of which are ignored or not known by many people; second, he showed that there are more options than the world says there are for those with homosexual desires, namely that they can acknowledge their desires, realize that their desires do not come from their own choices, and take up their cross of having to deal with those desires, which is truly difficult. Third, and probably the most important, is that he, along with God and the Church, love all men and women, regardless of their desires. God made us all in His image and likeness, and desires for us all to be with Him in heaven forever; in His love for us, he has given us the ability to make our own decisions, and shows us that we ought to make our decisions out of love as well.

  • @TheNyakaat
    @TheNyakaat 6 лет назад +12

    Thank you very much for this video.

  • @ablaze1989
    @ablaze1989 6 лет назад +7

    This was beautiful and very well worded good work.

  • @PeterShieldsukcatstripey
    @PeterShieldsukcatstripey 5 лет назад +17

    you just answered all my questions

  • @aidangonsalves9933
    @aidangonsalves9933 3 года назад +1

    This was extremely helpful video of what the Church teaches. I appreciate this!

  • @joaopauloalves4323
    @joaopauloalves4323 6 лет назад +1

    Great video!!! Very usefull and truthfull. I would only recomend one thing it would be good to split the videos in three different ones and make short videos about one theme. This way I think more people will watch the video untill the end.

  • @BOBlolema67
    @BOBlolema67 6 лет назад +12

    Amen. Beautifully said.

  • @TheRayjane
    @TheRayjane 4 года назад +3

    Wow. I feel so much better after listening to your explanation. We are all different children of God. He wants us to love one another
    Thank you for this video 🙏🏻❤️

  • @westonlovelette4053
    @westonlovelette4053 6 лет назад

    Awesome video Jason! So incredible on explaining this subject. Praise God for the gift you have for bringing people the Truth love of God!

  • @maureenwalsh8752
    @maureenwalsh8752 3 года назад

    Right on! What an amazing talk...thank you and God Bless you

  • @elleville
    @elleville 4 года назад +9

    Thank you for this very relevant discussion. I am married with 3 children and I take care of young people in our community and I struggle in this topic. I was born Catholic and will die a Catholic for I love the Catholic Church. What you have discussed today made me love my Church more for I see the Truth in our faith.

  • @Alexander_No_Muy_Estupendo
    @Alexander_No_Muy_Estupendo 6 лет назад +477

    Great video! I'm a Christian and am also attracted to men (I'm a guy by the way). Your video really resonates with me.

    • @billythekidd4571
      @billythekidd4571 6 лет назад +10

      BornAgain happyfriday Really? Sort of interesting that you'd think that, because I'm Catholic and I don't think you can work your way into heaven. You know, when Paul mentions works in the Bible, he's not referring to good deeds we do to glorify God, he's talking about the works of the Jewish faith, that is, things such as circumcision and other Jewish mandates that were thought to be necessary for salvation. The works of the Jewish faith aren't necessary for salvation, that's what the passage means. I don't think your really understanding it, your just reading it aloud without much context.

    • @mjanczakowski
      @mjanczakowski 6 лет назад +31

      BornAgain happyfriday Indeed it is ultimately God's grace alone that saves us. However, it is that same faith that compels us into action. For example, in the case of the thief on the cross, the man surely had faith, but this faith compels him to take action - to ask Jesus for forgiveness. If he doesn't do that, it makes us question the rigor of that faith. Thus, salvation comes from faith and works by virtue of the fact that true faith demands action.

    • @RX7FDfreak
      @RX7FDfreak 6 лет назад +7

      Michael James Janczakowski excellent response.

    • @Alexander_No_Muy_Estupendo
      @Alexander_No_Muy_Estupendo 6 лет назад +22

      BornAgain happyfriday - don't ever tell me that I'm not a Christian because of my sin. Did you listen to the video? As I stated, I'm attracted to men, I never said that I engage in the activity. Even if I did, I still accept Jesus as my Lord and savior so yes I am most certainly a Christian. If you have a problem with that then that's your problem. Take your self-righteous nonsense and shove it up your arse.

    • @hellymia88
      @hellymia88 6 лет назад +11

      BornAgain happyfriday "a true christian does not continue in sin..." so are you saying that you as a christian NEVER sin?

  • @mzmerlz
    @mzmerlz 6 лет назад +2

    Can I just say that I love Ascension Presents and the content that it produces. I have learned so much over the past few months. My prayer is that someone who has felt hated by the church because of their sexuality, will see this video and believe this truth over the lies that they may have encountered. For those of us who may have propagated that hate in one way or anther, just know that It is not easy to love what you don't understand or what you don't want to understand, but it is not impossible.

  • @olFreddylo
    @olFreddylo 6 лет назад

    Wow what a message! We need this in every language. God bless

  • @2012loveyourself
    @2012loveyourself 6 лет назад +9

    Waou!!! Thank you!! This is amazing .

  • @thebacons5943
    @thebacons5943 4 года назад +11

    Why do we actually care, though? As a *straight* Catholic that’s what I don’t understand. What is so sinful and wrong about it, what is the difference between homosexual relations and having a tattoo, which is also forbidden but no longer looked down on?

  • @Skyezrlj
    @Skyezrlj 5 лет назад

    That was an absolutely rounded and warm truth laid out. Thank you

  • @alex-bw1io
    @alex-bw1io 4 года назад

    Awsome explanation. Sincere, honest, deep, grounded and enlightning. Million Thanks

  • @elplanetadedelfos4939
    @elplanetadedelfos4939 6 лет назад +8

    We need to re read "The four loves"!

  • @Sumeri_Barusu
    @Sumeri_Barusu Год назад +3

    I cried when watching this, i’ve been looking into converting to christianity and/or catholocism and many sources said that same sex wasn’t supported. but I also saw that the church came before the bible, so if a few people in the bible are quoted saying same sex couples are wrong that doesn’t matter and my attractions and romantic love shouldn’t hinder my faith. Bless you sir, I love you

    • @GavinAlexander.
      @GavinAlexander. Год назад

      Nothing in this video says your attraction and romantic love won't hinder your "faith". It's saying the opposite. It's manipulative trash telling you to not name your orientation, calling your orientation confusion..etc. It's the same old homophobia wrapped in sugar.

    • @Cheezegazelle
      @Cheezegazelle 8 месяцев назад

      ❤❤

  • @akemi-chan9697
    @akemi-chan9697 3 года назад +2

    2 minutes in to this I liked it! We need more people to watch these things. Way more..

  • @David-md7nf
    @David-md7nf 4 года назад

    Wow, this was very informative, and it makes sense, thank you for this video.

  • @casio3235
    @casio3235 5 лет назад +15

    EXCELLENT !!! Catholicism one on one. Thank you

  • @wendyvanessamosqueraortiz3714
    @wendyvanessamosqueraortiz3714 6 лет назад +29

    Oh I love this!!!!

  • @joebiondi6085
    @joebiondi6085 5 лет назад +1

    Powerful. Well put. God bless you. God bless all our brothers and sisters. "All it is, is us..."

  • @Joyfultime1127
    @Joyfultime1127 7 месяцев назад

    What an amazing way to describe Love.
    Thank you so much that you put it out for everybody to hear the real truth about the Love of God and the Church.
    You explanation was magnificent 🙏🏼🕊
    I am very happy to finally hear some one that is Catholic like I am to put it the way you Did!
    Congratulations, we are all children of God and He ❤ us All!!

  • @hutch1505
    @hutch1505 6 лет назад +29

    This dude is so cool. Amen, man. Amen 🙏

  • @oscarramos606
    @oscarramos606 6 лет назад +119

    These is what I love about being a Catholic.

    • @deathsheadhawkmoths
      @deathsheadhawkmoths 6 лет назад +7

      :) me too ♡

    • @Sebas-zn2he
      @Sebas-zn2he 4 года назад

      You realize the church doctrines aren’t what you’re supposed to follow it’s the Word of God? If the Catholic Church says that (let’s just say) using God’s name in vain is not a sin anymore that doesn’t mean that His rules suddenly change.

    • @merum3692
      @merum3692 4 года назад +1

      Me tooooo

    • @beastboy2596
      @beastboy2596 4 года назад

      No being Catholic to fellow what God commanded us to do Marry one Man and one Women. To violate this is like a restaurant violating the health code.

    • @SrbijaCG
      @SrbijaCG 3 года назад

      What? Practicing of false christianity?

  • @junebug0000
    @junebug0000 6 лет назад +1

    Brought me to tears. Thank you.

  • @szfehler
    @szfehler 5 лет назад +2

    this is so well said. thank you!