@@nxtvie2558 For a parent even if you turn 40 you will still be their child. They will always care for you and your well being and try to protect/help you out.
Bullets in Bacon Grease i agree and disagree. i think some people would get very angry and defend the man, but i don’t think it would be treated as quite as big of a deal, which is sad
Yep! I agree! I was about 22, on Fort Myers Beach, walking along the sidewalk and minding my own business, when a guy in a car pulls over and grabs his girlfriend or maybe wife, and tried to shove her into the car with her screaming. I tried to intercept, he punched me straight in between the eyes, I went down like a rock. He broke my glasses in half! But when I came to, some real men had seen him punch a girl in the face and had pulled over to take care of him. Crazy night! BUT, I would do it again in a heartbeat! My daddy used to pull this crap, I'll never put up with it no matter who it is!
The 6'6" dude looked so damn calm. Assertive but gentle. Loved it. And the 19 year old standing up when so many didn't! And her and the actress hugging and crying.
@lukewayne I think the meaningful conversation they will have at home, could turn out badly for the women. They don't have problems. SHE has a problem. I like how you think, but this guy won't change his behavior, maybe in public but not at home.
I've seen men trying to help women who are being abused in public and tell the man to "stop no leave my husband/boyfriend alone" it's like the abuser has some kind of control over her and she's weak. She keeps going back because she feels he'll change. I understood why mostly women intervened because we understand and no one deserves to be treated that way. As soon as he said to her "that's why I cheated on you" the guy turned around and walked away. I guess the guys felt like it wasn't their business. The huge tall guy of course he wasn't about to back down.
@Anthony Gomes You'd be wrong to assume fat people aren't stronger than they average person. Carrying all that weight around builds a decent amount of muscle
I love your comment he looks and acts very gау I’m also bi he’s not my type but if he wants to fuсk any one of us here what other options do we have except out of gesture of kindness
Ya, it runs on my Dad's side of the Family, too. I guess caregiving is in our blood. I was thinking "That big dude could sit on the other man, pass gas, and it would be game over!
That 19 year old is absolutely phenomenal. The way she looked straight at him and said “she’s not going” and then said “then she won’t be alone”.. wow. She’s so young and so strong, I hope she’s there if I’m ever in a bad situation.!
Oh my goodness she was so brave. She has a beautiful soul. I loved her saying she’s not leaving, my dad is a cop and he’s on his way or something to that effect. Her mother however scolding her for doing the right thing, I don’t know how I feel about that. If it was my son I would be so proud of him even if I was worried about his safety. My son is 15 and is already 6’3 and 240 lbs so he’s going to be HUGE like the man that stepped in
AGREED. No hesitation. And even if she didn't show it, you know there was fear. There's always some level of fear when confrontation happens. Even if you don't realize/admit it. I'll say it with you. WARRIOR!
Well she isn't a child, but she was her child... I don't have kids, but I still understand why she said that. I would have helped my daughter, but don't judge her for trying to protect her kid. They still seem to have a good relationship, so chill
Padraig H I know, I was just saying, because the mother called her a child so I was saying about children... and she’s almost a kid/still a teenage adult...
Maybe. But parents look out for their kid first and foremost and a domestic situation can become violent. You don't know if he is armed and what he's willing to do. As a parent, the last thing you want is your teenager getting wrapped up in an abusive situation where they could be harmed or killed, especially since there is no guarantee that it will fix anything. Abusive relationships are complicated and people struggle to leave even when their own families are trying to get them out. A stranger isnt likely to fix it in one afternoon.
Nah this is out of context allt of woman are snakes and act like victims in public on purpose they cheat or go psycho on the way to the ma then when they enter the store have the husband all heated up and then just put on a puppy face and stay quiet.
Well it’s not like her mother wasn’t being courageous exactly. She just wanted to play it safer than being outright confrontational. Which isn’t exactly a bad thing at all it’s a normal response. So was the response the young woman had. Everyone just reacts to things differently there aren’t many downright “wrong” approaches especially to situations like this🧐🤷🏾♀️
She just showed what she'd been taught, "let the men protect her". When she realized they weren't she started getting louder. They both did great! & the mother probably had something to do with how amazing her daughter turned out. Lol
I agree wholeheartedly. I know she was just being protective as a mother, but she should have chimed in and said similar things to that man. Everyone should speak up when they see that type of abuse.
Honesty Rios I would edit the comment to fix that mistake you made. I’ve tried that effect, and you always have to put the asterisks outside of the quotation marks.
3P1C_G4M3R5 Yeah. Some people decide that instead of being a normal person and coming up with something funny that’s actually worth a lot of likes, they decide to be as cringey and dumb sounding as possible. I’m assuming that most of the obvious, cringey comments are just a kid who stole their parents phone or something.
TWENTY ØNE MISTAKES true. But the part when she said “let men deal with it” is the reason why people dont intervene. They always wait for the next person to do so, preferably men. I get that women are fearful that the man might go off on them, but when you’re in a crowd you have the advantage. But what you’d said is understandable.
when the mother tried to say stop helping your a child let the men help and she says shes not a child anymore I don't know how to describe how that make me feel so amazing
As someone who was abused for years by my ex, this was triggering and beautiful at the same time. It reminded me how far I’ve come from being abused. Thank you to those who stood up for this woman.
No grown, mentally competent adult should ever ever utter the words “abused for years”. Unless you were held against your will, you CHOSE to stay in an abusive relationship. Abused for a month and then you left? Sure that’s all on him, but stay for years??? Sorry, but you were an enabler to your own abuse.
@@alexblaze8878 I somewhat agree with that, especially if it happens in the U.S. where there are so many resources and help for abvsed women. But it's also not that simple. Some people have deep self-esteem issues and abvsers take full advantage of that... it's evil.
@@adrukova1407 oh I agree but she still enabled the abuse. IMO, some abusers also have “deep, self-esteem issues” but that doesn’t alleviate them from blame nor does it give a pass to the woman who enabled their own abuse. I say this with the experience of someone who grew up with a very violent father who abused my mother almost daily. I hate my father for what he did but I also can acknowledge that my mother had her own part to play in refusing to leave him even when she had the means and the clear opportunity to do so; she once inherited a large sum of money while my father was working out of state for 4 months and STILL wouldn’t leave him even though I pleaded with her nonstop. Worse, she stayed with him as he abused us four kids also (even after he violently raped my 15-year old sister that suffered from Downs Syndrome) as well as molesting me along with physically abusing me from as far back as I can remember: I often walked around with scabbed- over welts from a razor strop he was fond of using from my lower back all the way down to my ankles. As much as I loved my mother growing up, as an adult with wisdom and maturity I can now see where she absolutely enabled the abuse he dealt to all of us. It’s one thing to endure abuse being done to you, it’s an entirely different and inexcusable thing when you allow your children to be subjected to that abuse. [wow, this turned into a “tell-all” story-sorry about that). I’ll cut this short by saying when I was 14 I made plans to make sure he was no longer wasting valuable oxygen (to state it delicately). Fortunately I backed out at the last second and ran away from home. Was taken in by Child services and eventually adopted by a kind family and the rest is history.
@@alexblaze8878 lots of ppl stay with their abusive partner thinking that they will change but that rarely happens, my mom wasted 20 years on my dad who gave her nothing
@@Neko.Virtual yes I think sometimes a spouse will stay thinking the other spouse will change. But mostly I think it’s just a toxic relationship dynamic wherein the abused spouse suffers from Stockholm Syndrome.
Yeah, I wanted to hug her and say I dont know you but after what you did (that most dont have the empathy or courage to do) you have my respect God bless you.
Phinehas46 the cops have been alerted of the situation so sit down and watch the videos, and if you gone criticize every single detail then click away and go watch something else.
@@tine2835 How is that savage? Savage is more absolutely destroying the person, he was being assertive, it was a great statement but definitely not the comeback of the year or savage.
I don’t like how the mother hugged John. Like she didn’t do anything she was PREVENTING her daughter from standing up and calling her a child. Then when she gets on TV, the mother acts like she did the right thing? Bro that’s some bs
It would be interesting if you did one with a single father trying to buy sanitary products with his daughter and someone telling him that it's not his role, that a female should be the one shopping for the sanitary items with the daughter.
@@thelifeyenvision8242 I don't blame her. A lunatic who abuses his wife could do terrible stuff to a stranger's daughter. I'm 19 too and my mom probably would hold me back if we were in the situation
No she was just protecting her she didn't want her to get hurt at least she let her try to knock some sense into the guy, I feel like most parents would do the same and then get involved themselves if they had the time
when you're a mom, that's different, you want the best for your child and don't want to be embarrassed in front of your child as well so she needs to act big when the camera came
I think as a mom myself your scared for you own childs safety. If he had a gun or was abusive you never know what he could do. But she is a woman young but a woman capable of making her own decisions.
Amber Nicole I hate that everyone’s using this same excuse... it’s a pathetic one. It doesn’t cost anything to stand up for someone. You don’t even need to confront the person, call security, the police, or comfort the victim... if the guy tried anything, police would definitely get involved..
LOVE LOVE LOVE that girl who said, "I'm not a child anymore." And stood up for the woman. Wow Edit: thank you so much for all the likes!! ❤️❤️❤️ I love you all
People commenting rude about her mother, listen up... As a mother she was scared for her daughter that the crazy man would attack her. It's every mothers heart / love to protect their children no matter what happens.
My mother and I 1000% do not get along but at the same time I can at least trust that if I was going to step into a horrible situation to help somebody and she knew I wouldn't back down then she would have the courage to have my back. She and I fight but we refuse to take someone else's shit. She taught me that.
Courtney Nunez that was such a powerful statement. I would be so proud of her if she was my daughter. Heck, I’m proud of her anyway. She is an inspiring woman.
stlouie88 wouldn’t call her a coward. Mom was afraid that the man would attack and hurt her daughter. But in the end, she assisted her daughter in helping the woman.
Absolutely that 19 year old is a gem and a one of the kind brave soul. But something about the 1st woman and her changing from "You don't have to take that" to "Please don't take that" will always get me. Just the sincerity and genuine pleading with her.
"So many men, and you're the only one who came to my defence" speaks volumes and absolutely broke my heart. These brave, brave women. One after the other, it was women coming to her defence, risking their own safety, because in some way or another, we've all experienced domestic abuse. I started sobbing at the nineteen year old young woman who stepped in. "Lifeguard" indeed.
What a brave young woman. Standing up for the abused woman. Doing the right thing in speaking up. There's a lot of public abuse like that, so it feels good that some people try to help.
I love how these women just instinctively act like they know each other, like saying "I know her from work" or "I recognised her" is such a smart move. If you do see someone being abused the best way to go about it is to walk into the situation acting like you've known each other forever. Then call authorities once you're there.
Im a big ass dude my prefered method is imediatly beating the abusers ass its a water boy scenario where i envision my dad in that person its almost an uncontrollable reflex for me men that beat women fold like laundry in a fight with an actual man and the best part is that the police will usualy just write it all off because you did what they want to but cant hell ive had the abuser end being the one in cuffs ive served about 1.5 years in totall at this point and every second inside was worth it to see a evil man get what was coming to see the women realize that they now had a chance to leave i grew up doing martial arts the lifestyle is important to me innthat you never use your ability to hurt only to protect yourself or someone in need ive never been in a frivolous fight
It's not really realistic. I've never seen a man or a woman yelling at their partner like that in public(apart for the many pranks on youtube). This is going on in private.
KupKate215: Just to be clear I don’t know what kind of faith you have and I believe when being abused verbally or physically there should be separation, so here it is. The bible says the woman should commit to the man, as well as submit. Therefore, the husband should have power over here in things such as houses, jobs, and even the small things such as “okay, let’s leave now.” The man in this video is obviously an exception to this, but there’s my opinion. And yes, I am prepared for feminism coming right back at me.
@@danielhiebert6167 women are to be submissive, yes, but men are supposed to love their wives as Christ loved the church. And the Jesus I was taught about wouldn't treat the church like this.
@@delgado2883 I'm sorry that nobody stood up for U. I wasn't there when it happened or I would've. I wouldn't let this happen to any man, woman, or child. I'm so happy things R better 4 U now ❤🧡
The 19 year old woman is more courageous than her grandmother. I know her grandmother was trying to protect her from danger but she did the right thing
6:16 tears came down my face instantly Her shirt says "Lifeguard" too. "And I was raised right I guess" She is the most thoughtful human being, with all those cameras and attention, she didn't forget about her mother and making sure she shares that moment with her by giving her praise as well.
@@Blazdragon34 I don't think she meant it that way because she did raise a really great woman. I think what the mom was concerned about was anyone getting physical with her daughter after she spoke up, and when she said "let the men do their work" i think she meant fighting the guy incase it escalated. Just my opinion
OMG😭This 19 year old girl is amazing. I wish I could tell her that in person.When the actress is holding her face and telling her thank you for defending her and the teenager is crying is so heartbreaking. God bless and protect her always💕
That's the part I liked too it touched my heart. More people should stand up for others when they are being hurt. People should never stop feeling humane for each other.
I burst into tears after seeing the young teenager not backing down… Some people care enough and not afraid to stop and help another person in need. Thanks for showing some good sides of humanity.
Yeah, but to a mother, their child will ALWAYS be their child. She wanted to make sure that her daughter didn't get hurt, but I really am glad that the daughter stood up.
The young girl brought me to tears. She stood up to that man and her mother for the sake of someone else’s safety. She is a special and courageous human being!
When she said "I'm not a child anymore " I felt that that hit hard
deedee wilson SHES like actually not a child because she’s 19 wtf that’s a freaking adult
@@nxtvie2558 For a parent even if you turn 40 you will still be their child. They will always care for you and your well being and try to protect/help you out.
Barbara_ yea ofc but she had her rights she’s not a little kid anymore
Yea
@@nxtvie2558 19 may be legal but it's actually not fully adult quite yet,but VERY close..it's an older teen, 20+ is technically young adulthood
And that young girl is wearing a sweatshirt saying LIFEGUARD. Couldn’t be more accurate!
@Wayne96819 *I would bet she is or was a Lifeguard as many are of High School or College age...*
i love her omg
Bullets in Bacon Grease i agree and disagree. i think some people would get very angry and defend the man, but i don’t think it would be treated as quite as big of a deal, which is sad
“What if he turns on you?” Young woman confidently says, “Then she’s not alone.” Touched my soul.
Yep! I agree! I was about 22, on Fort Myers Beach, walking along the sidewalk and minding my own business, when a guy in a car pulls over and grabs his girlfriend or maybe wife, and tried to shove her into the car with her screaming. I tried to intercept, he punched me straight in between the eyes, I went down like a rock. He broke my glasses in half! But when I came to, some real men had seen him punch a girl in the face and had pulled over to take care of him. Crazy night! BUT, I would do it again in a heartbeat! My daddy used to pull this crap, I'll never put up with it no matter who it is!
i thought you said “what if he turns you on”
@@carri3792 😆
@@carri3792 sameeeeeeee!!!🤣😂😅😅😂🤣
@@GirlMomma god bless you girl
The 6'6" dude looked so damn calm. Assertive but gentle. Loved it.
And the 19 year old standing up when so many didn't! And her and the actress hugging and crying.
Husband material for sure . Teddy bear energy. ❤❤
The big guy is just 6'6"? Probably more. Just saying.
@leonie8525 He was a class act and Angel for sure, already working in the Health system. He has the most gorgeous smile.
@@AbiZolanski na, he said "you don't need to do this in public"...so what, save it for when you're home?
I love how the 19 year old’s sweatshirt says “LIFEGUARD”. She’s just that.
She brought tears to my eyes with her bravery! "Then she's not alone" in response to John asking what she would do if she became the target of attacks
This right here is a beautiful comment!
Right
Generic RUclips Account , she is a sensitive and caring woman.
Sweet girl,she got me,I started crying. Such a brave little one♥️
I can’t believe all the men that walked by. That 19 year old woman was amazing.
Sad to see, ain't it?
@lukewayne I think the meaningful conversation they will have at home, could turn out badly for the women.
They don't have problems.
SHE has a problem.
I like how you think, but this guy won't change his behavior, maybe in public but not at home.
Bruh switch the genders and you wodnt say shit-_-
I've seen men trying to help women who are being abused in public and tell the man to "stop no leave my husband/boyfriend alone" it's like the abuser has some kind of control over her and she's weak. She keeps going back because she feels he'll change. I understood why mostly women intervened because we understand and no one deserves to be treated that way. As soon as he said to her "that's why I cheated on you" the guy turned around and walked away. I guess the guys felt like it wasn't their business. The huge tall guy of course he wasn't about to back down.
lukewayne preach
That second man is the
DEFINITION of a gentle giant
Yep
As big as he is he would have made a pancake out of him.
@Anthony Gomes
Well that’s rude
@Anthony Gomes You'd be wrong to assume fat people aren't stronger than they average person. Carrying all that weight around builds a decent amount of muscle
@Anthony Gomes no matter how strong he is, if he bodychecks you with his weight you are going down.
TOTAL RESPECT to that last girl, Martina. The fact she had the guts to stand up for the abused woman when four guys walked right past them.
Traci needs to be in there verbally abusing her husband now that would be scary
Jagger 123 Traci* sorry I had to! I’m a perfectionist
WoofleGang thank you!
Then the video would just be about that,because nobody would do anything about it
😄gosh I love Traci..she’s the 🐐
That'd be good
I’m just surprised that Traci didn’t play the mean husband honestly
bitch said husband...I CAN'T
Wonderland LMFAOAOOA
I screamed 😂😂😂😂
IM WHEEZING😂😂😂
I was about to cry and I read your comment and it made me laugh, love that
when that girl at the end looked into the husband’s eyes and says “she’s not going” sooo brave
@Makayla,
*Damn, you sure are a lil’ CUTIE 😍! May I PLEASE make direct payments towards your college tuition/student loans (Soon-To-Be Dr.) 😩?*
@@glowblank17 what lol 😂
glowblank17 Simp
glowblank17 Bruh 😂
For all you Harry Potter fans out there, she’s a Gryffindor!!!!
I am a grown 42 year old man and I shed a tear when the 19 year old woman stepped in.
Aww!
It means you have empathy
baby
Gay
Men aren't supposed to cry. Especially a 42 year old man.
“Were you concerned that he might come after you?”
“Absolutely not.”
*LAUGHS IN GIANT*
😂😂😂
Hahaha😂
@@fbi7927 with DEEP voice
@@bruceaskew2107 ok...?😅
He was probably in his mind like" ha pathetic mortal"
Lol that gentle giant didn't even raise his voice, but in his eyes you could see a "I'm about to break you in half punk" look lol.
When he said "..I understand well I am talking to you.." the same exact thought came across my head. 🤣🤣
because his height is enough to scare that man
I love your comment he looks and acts very gау I’m also bi he’s not my type but if he wants to fuсk any one of us here what other options do we have except out of gesture of kindness
@@stephenpaea177 he does not seem gay
1000000000000000000000 times agree with u...
"You don't have to take that. Please don't take that."
I almost cried
Me Too.
Almost? I definitely did
Actually I cried
😭
I know! It’s so inspirational to anyone who is treated this way.
I used to work at the hospital with the man in the scrubs. He is such a nice and genuine person. So proud of him to see him here
AWE ❤❤❤ He was so sweet!!
if he gets laid off or needs a 2nd job.........I know the EXACT position for him..............LPO (loss prevention officer.....store detective).
@@Waynes-xt9grdon’t be a smarta**
The biggest dude was the softest teddy bear. His parents raised him well
@deliverence what does this have to do with liberals lmao in that case you are the definition of a conservative snowflake... 😂
@deliverence 😂 lmfao stay mad dummy :)
Yea such a sweet guy
That's why they say "big dogs don't bark". This dude doesn't have to mouth off or make a scene, because he knows who will win, if push comes to shove.
Yeah
I love how the big guy was so calm and unphased. You can tell he’s a caregiver
@Wayne96819 He seems to be a registered nurse. Those people make bank. No way he gonna be struggling to find job at a store.
Ya, it runs on my Dad's side of the Family, too. I guess caregiving is in our blood. I was thinking "That big dude could sit on the other man, pass gas, and it would be game over!
Ehm, why do the first two ladies ask "want to call the cops"? He only called her an idiot.
Can you call cops because someone calls you an idiot? WTf
Vipra Khalnayak it’s verbal abuse still a form of abuse
@@ilikeboobieslol9604 Yeah but "idiot". Thats like nothing lmao.
That 19 year old is absolutely phenomenal.
The way she looked straight at him and said “she’s not going” and then said “then she won’t be alone”.. wow. She’s so young and so strong, I hope she’s there if I’m ever in a bad situation.!
I hope you NEVER face this situation.
I wanna be like her 😭😭
Exactly
Oh my goodness she was so brave. She has a beautiful soul. I loved her saying she’s not leaving, my dad is a cop and he’s on his way or something to that effect. Her mother however scolding her for doing the right thing, I don’t know how I feel about that. If it was my son I would be so proud of him even if I was worried about his safety. My son is 15 and is already 6’3 and 240 lbs so he’s going to be HUGE like the man that stepped in
The actress said, "So many men and only you stood up...." Why's the onus always on men to be the saviour?
“What if he turns on you?”
“Then she’s not alone”
That made me start crying my eyes out!
"What if he had turned on you?"
"Then she's not alone."
WARRIOR. ✊👏
Dude for real I was already at tears and that line had them fall
PERIODDDDDD
she dropped the crown. queen.
What a good daughter ❤❤
AGREED. No hesitation. And even if she didn't show it, you know there was fear. There's always some level of fear when confrontation happens. Even if you don't realize/admit it. I'll say it with you. WARRIOR!
The Tall Man in the blue scrubs was such a Gentleman. We need more Men like him in this World.
🙏🏼
The police love killing men ..JUST like him unfortunately.
TeslaYT i dont not give a fuk who u are , wasn’t talking about you because I don’t care about u kid..use your own voice for yourself maybe..
TeslaYT and no one even used the word oppressed you did, stop trying to start RUclips fights and try being productive away from the keyboard..
I totally agree. We need more compassionate, empathetic and genuinely loving people like him ♥️
*“But you are a child.”*
*“I’m not a child anymore”*
*Because children shouldn’t and can’t defend others?!*
Herta Schneider the girl is not a child she was 19 tf not a child she was the only one standing up for the lady
Well she isn't a child, but she was her child...
I don't have kids, but I still understand why she said that.
I would have helped my daughter, but don't judge her for trying to protect her kid.
They still seem to have a good relationship, so chill
@@anja6983 Exactly, she wanted to protect the woman but also protect her child. She didn't know what the man was capable of.
I'm 12 and I would have said something. Idk if my parents got in my way. They would have backed me up.
Padraig H I know, I was just saying, because the mother called her a child so I was saying about children... and she’s almost a kid/still a teenage adult...
The 19 year old showed more courage than her mother. Maybe her mother could learn a thing or two from her daughter!
Maybe. But parents look out for their kid first and foremost and a domestic situation can become violent. You don't know if he is armed and what he's willing to do. As a parent, the last thing you want is your teenager getting wrapped up in an abusive situation where they could be harmed or killed, especially since there is no guarantee that it will fix anything. Abusive relationships are complicated and people struggle to leave even when their own families are trying to get them out. A stranger isnt likely to fix it in one afternoon.
Nah this is out of context allt of woman are snakes and act like victims in public on purpose they cheat or go psycho on the way to the ma then when they enter the store have the husband all heated up and then just put on a puppy face and stay quiet.
Well it’s not like her mother wasn’t being courageous exactly. She just wanted to play it safer than being outright confrontational. Which isn’t exactly a bad thing at all it’s a normal response. So was the response the young woman had. Everyone just reacts to things differently there aren’t many downright “wrong” approaches especially to situations like this🧐🤷🏾♀️
She just showed what she'd been taught, "let the men protect her". When she realized they weren't she started getting louder. They both did great! & the mother probably had something to do with how amazing her daughter turned out. Lol
I agree wholeheartedly. I know she was just being protective as a mother, but she should have chimed in and said similar things to that man. Everyone should speak up when they see that type of abuse.
mom: "you are a child!"
Girl: "I'm not a child *anymore*"
that was literally the moment that her mom realized that shes a woman now.
Honesty Rios
I would edit the comment to fix that mistake you made. I’ve tried that effect, and you always have to put the asterisks outside of the quotation marks.
Why did you post this. That was so obvious.
3P1C_G4M3R5
Ikr.
It’s the actually funny comments that deserve all the likes, not the cringey obvious comments that aren’t even funny.
@@NoName-ld7gg lol i see these types of comments all the time, glad im not the only one that notices.
3P1C_G4M3R5
Yeah. Some people decide that instead of being a normal person and coming up with something funny that’s actually worth a lot of likes, they decide to be as cringey and dumb sounding as possible. I’m assuming that most of the obvious, cringey comments are just a kid who stole their parents phone or something.
The daughter was braver than the mother. “Let the men stick up for her” what type of bs is that?
Kris Tovar are you kidding me
She was afraid for Her daughter. It's an understandable reaction. Does not make it correct, but when it's your child you don't think twice about it.
TWENTY ØNE MISTAKES true. But the part when she said “let men deal with it” is the reason why people dont intervene. They always wait for the next person to do so, preferably men. I get that women are fearful that the man might go off on them, but when you’re in a crowd you have the advantage. But what you’d said is understandable.
@@vikuir01 No i totally agree dude, you're correct, i was just tryna explain why she reacted that way 👍
TWENTY ØNE MISTAKES oh ight cool 👌🏾
WHY DID I START CRYING WHEN THE TEENAGE GIRL CRIED. WHY AM I STILL CRYING
Me too. Maybe you were verbally/phisically/ emotionally abused? Emontional abuse is also very serious and so sad
IT'S CALLED BEING AN OVERLY EMPATHETIC PERSON AND ITS A BLESSING AND A CURSE
Me tooooo 😭
Me too! Still crying. My daughter is about to turn 19 and she’s strong like this young woman.
SAMMMMEEEEEEEE
“I understand but i am talking to you “
love that 😭😭😭😊😊
when the mother tried to say stop helping your a child let the men help and she says shes not a child anymore I don't know how to describe how that make me feel so amazing
Same!!!
The younger generations are doing so much better.
I legit cried
She got her ass beat when she got home for sayin that shit to her in public
Yeah that mom is a bitch. The daughters trying to help someone and she belittles her..i was like wtf
"So many men and you're the only one who came to the defense. You're really brave" I'm not crying, you're crying 😢
Idk about you, but I'm bawling D:
No u
Im not you are
You’re right, I am crying 😢
I am 😭😭😭
"What if he turns on you?"
"Then she's not alone"
Holy crap...
She takes the word "Lifeguard" on her sweatshirt seriously.
She's definitely a lifeguard in more than one way.
Willing to risk it all to protect another. God bless her.
@@valmacclinchy great observation.
So wise
Gave me chills, seriously!!!!
As someone who was abused for years by my ex, this was triggering and beautiful at the same time. It reminded me how far I’ve come from being abused. Thank you to those who stood up for this woman.
No grown, mentally competent adult should ever ever utter the words “abused for years”. Unless you were held against your will, you CHOSE to stay in an abusive relationship. Abused for a month and then you left? Sure that’s all on him, but stay for years??? Sorry, but you were an enabler to your own abuse.
@@alexblaze8878 I somewhat agree with that, especially if it happens in the U.S. where there are so many resources and help for abvsed women.
But it's also not that simple. Some people have deep self-esteem issues and abvsers take full advantage of that... it's evil.
@@adrukova1407 oh I agree but she still enabled the abuse. IMO, some abusers also have “deep, self-esteem issues” but that doesn’t alleviate them from blame nor does it give a pass to the woman who enabled their own abuse.
I say this with the experience of someone who grew up with a very violent father who abused my mother almost daily. I hate my father for what he did but I also can acknowledge that my mother had her own part to play in refusing to leave him even when she had the means and the clear opportunity to do so; she once inherited a large sum of money while my father was working out of state for 4 months and STILL wouldn’t leave him even though I pleaded with her nonstop. Worse, she stayed with him as he abused us four kids also (even after he violently raped my 15-year old sister that suffered from Downs Syndrome) as well as molesting me along with physically abusing me from as far back as I can remember: I often walked around with scabbed- over welts from a razor strop he was fond of using from my lower back all the way down to my ankles. As much as I loved my mother growing up, as an adult with wisdom and maturity I can now see where she absolutely enabled the abuse he dealt to all of us.
It’s one thing to endure abuse being done to you, it’s an entirely different and inexcusable thing when you allow your children to be subjected to that abuse.
[wow, this turned into a “tell-all” story-sorry about that).
I’ll cut this short by saying when I was 14 I made plans to make sure he was no longer wasting valuable oxygen (to state it delicately). Fortunately I backed out at the last second and ran away from home. Was taken in by Child services and eventually adopted by a kind family and the rest is history.
@@alexblaze8878 lots of ppl stay with their abusive partner thinking that they will change but that rarely happens, my mom wasted 20 years on my dad who gave her nothing
@@Neko.Virtual yes I think sometimes a spouse will stay thinking the other spouse will change.
But mostly I think it’s just a toxic relationship dynamic wherein the abused spouse suffers from Stockholm Syndrome.
"What if he had turned on you?"
"Well, then she's not alone."
THAT is powerful.
So powerful
Yeah, I wanted to hug her and say I dont know you but after what you did (that most dont have the empathy or courage to do) you have my respect God bless you.
I know right? I probably would have said something dumb like "I would have knocked that ni**a out."
And she didn't even hesitate! That got me!
@@MrMakeme3 her mother wanted to walk away but her daughter showed so much courage!
John: "Were you concerned he might come at you?"
Black Guy: Laughing. "Absolutely not."
lol
Until the guy pulls out a gun. Also the producers of this show should be arrested for people calling the cops for nothing.
bigot
Phinehas46 the cops have been alerted of the situation so sit down and watch the videos, and if you gone criticize every single detail then click away and go watch something else.
Leo i know right
@@Leo-tu8gh No, you.
When he said "is she ur daughter?... Then she don't have to listen to you"... Mannn he's so attractive please have kids and raise em we need more of u
Agreed!
no
she was your friend
raised wrong wtf
we can create people like that...help me baby
"I'm not a child anymore."
I hope at that moment the last young lady's mother saw her daughter as we did: an empowered brave young woman.
Other than the big tall guy, that young girl has the most gut to stand in for the woman. I salute n respect her courage.
Ct Mon that tall guy was definitely amazing, reminds me of the football player, opposite of Sandra Bullock, I can't remember the name of movie though
Micheal Diehl i think it's Quinton Aaron fm d movie The Blind Side
Midnight poppy land!?👀😍
@@theefairest yes!
Unexpectedly blessing us with Tora 🤩
“I’m talking to her okay?”
“I understand, but I’m talking to you”
COMEBACK OF THE YEAR LMFAOOO
Seriously he was like I want all the smoke
Me and my siblings say this to each other all the time😂😂😂
I mean, it wasn't that good, like it was it ok but not anything that special so chill out lmao
Fennec Fox no. He was savage.
@@tine2835 How is that savage? Savage is more absolutely destroying the person, he was being assertive, it was a great statement but definitely not the comeback of the year or savage.
I don’t like how the mother hugged John. Like she didn’t do anything she was PREVENTING her daughter from standing up and calling her a child. Then when she gets on TV, the mother acts like she did the right thing? Bro that’s some bs
Yeah, she's pathetic
You said literally what I was freaking thinking! That bitch really pissed me off! She sounds like a terrible mother to be honest.
But I mean. You have to try to understand... I'm sure she was scared for her daughter. Not everyone is as brave as that young girl was...
@Bullets in Bacon Grease IKR? It's horrible.
Totally agree
Back here just to say that young woman at the end was so amazing. I hope she's doing well in life. She has a good soul.
It would be interesting if you did one with a single father trying to buy sanitary products with his daughter and someone telling him that it's not his role, that a female should be the one shopping for the sanitary items with the daughter.
Yea and them telling him to get a woman for his daughter
i agree
If it was me and my daughter I would tell you to mind your own ducking business.
Everybody hates single fathers they would call the police
@@silverpairaducks You mean mind your own fucking business.
"All those men and you are the only one who stood up for me..."
😭😭😭
Unsurprisingly 🤷♀️
@@Woodesies how do u know?
@@Woodesies A woman just did, an 18 year old girl. Did we watch the same thing? It's obvious your troll baiting, try better next time.
Wait where was that in the video
@@carl9939 at the endish
When the actress and the 19 year old hugged and cried together… my gosh 😭😭❤️ women supporting women is just amazing
Is women empowerment to each other
women turn they back on each other just as fast tho 🤣
That shattered me.
@@zooknutt sadly
Blood cults..
I love the male nurse, he was so kind! He was so soft and didn’t yell but patiently spoke to the woman yet challenged the man confidently
I love that man in the second scene, he has such a calm energy to him, I bet he takes amazing care of his patients.
@Random Random You're rude.
same sensation here, from Italy
I'm tearing up. I wanna hug them. ❤️
You got it right
Love the second guy
"This is your daughter?"
"No she's my wife"
"Right, so she don't have to listen to you"
Yaaas!
Bullets in Bacon Grease you sound dumb asf and that is extremely false
Straight👏Facts!👏
Nikki W it’s the truth you fucking feminazi
Saucy Ravioli don’t get mad at me for stating facts🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ call me a feminazi to disguise your insecurities, how cute💀💀💀
Bullets in Bacon Grease correlation does not equal causation!!! Take a simple college class and learn ab this pls, then we can debate☺️
Child’s mom said ‘let the men stick up for them’ she refused. I love her.
The men weren't going to so she did what she felt needed to be done. Commendable
@@lexvt3551b
@Color Wheel right
& she had the audacity to be the first to run to John. Sad.
@@thelifeyenvision8242 I don't blame her. A lunatic who abuses his wife could do terrible stuff to a stranger's daughter. I'm 19 too and my mom probably would hold me back if we were in the situation
The 19 year old girl should be so proud of herself. Helping the woman being verbally abused.
That 19 year old made me cry, so proud of her :’)
Me too 😢😢
Same :)
Ellie Marie me too .
I cried when I saw her crying :(
Shes so brave.. Fantastic
I'm pretty pissed that the mom tried to make it seem like she did so much when she told her daughter that she shouldn't be defending her.
Same I'm acually so pissed like shut up boomer you didnt do shit
"Let her defend herself" "let the men deal with it" smh
Maybe she was just concerned for her daughter's safety.
No she was just protecting her she didn't want her to get hurt at least she let her try to knock some sense into the guy, I feel like most parents would do the same and then get involved themselves if they had the time
when you're a mom, that's different, you want the best for your child and don't want to be embarrassed in front of your child as well so she needs to act big when the camera came
I honestly hated how the mom was like “you’re a child just let her defend herself” it got me so mad tbh
I think as a mom myself your scared for you own childs safety. If he had a gun or was abusive you never know what he could do. But she is a woman young but a woman capable of making her own decisions.
Amber Nicole I totally agree with you
Amber Nicole I hate that everyone’s using this same excuse... it’s a pathetic one. It doesn’t cost anything to stand up for someone. You don’t even need to confront the person, call security, the police, or comfort the victim... if the guy tried anything, police would definitely get involved..
Ehm, why do the first two ladies ask "want to call the cops"? He only called her an idiot.
Can you call cops because someone calls you an idiot? WTf
Vipra Khalnayak,
It was verbal abuse. She called the police so they could put the wife in a safer household and environment.
That one dude is the very definition of a gentle giant. Really tall, yet soft-spoken and compassionate.
LOVE LOVE LOVE that girl who said, "I'm not a child anymore." And stood up for the woman. Wow
Edit: thank you so much for all the likes!! ❤️❤️❤️ I love you all
CallMeWolf yes!!!! I loved that.
Yes shes a role modelll
"what if he turned on you"
"I don't know then she's not alone"
That's some of the most wholesome shit I ever heard.
Love this! ❤️
That’s when I started crying lol. So brave
Right!!! Gets you in the feels. That's a strong young lady right there.
I wept. ♥
People commenting rude about her mother, listen up... As a mother she was scared for her daughter that the crazy man would attack her. It's every mothers heart / love to protect their children no matter what happens.
My mother and I 1000% do not get along but at the same time I can at least trust that if I was going to step into a horrible situation to help somebody and she knew I wouldn't back down then she would have the courage to have my back. She and I fight but we refuse to take someone else's shit. She taught me that.
@@Mistrelia that's so great
I agree...
I agree
I agree with you, india
The mom saying she was afraid for her daughter. 😂 mom you raised an intelligent and smart young lady. 💀 she wasn’t backing down.
John: “What if he had turned on you?”
19 year old girl: “well then she’s not alone”
Me: 😢
Courtney Nunez that was such a powerful statement.
I would be so proud of her if she was my daughter.
Heck, I’m proud of her anyway.
She is an inspiring woman.
Snowdog's Shorts same but I’m def not proud of her cowardly mom
stlouie88 Worried mom, you mean.
Zurelius worried mum is a better phrase.
It is natural for a mother to want to protect her child, however old they are.
stlouie88 wouldn’t call her a coward. Mom was afraid that the man would attack and hurt her daughter. But in the end, she assisted her daughter in helping the woman.
You know that an actor is good
when you wanna punch ‘em where it hurts
Highland Panda hehehe yassss
🍆
⚽️⚽️
River's Plushies I will admit I’ve never seen anybody do that with emojis before!
Watchman 006 haha
Hahahaha ikr
That giant " is she your daughter"
Husband - " no"
The giant- " then she doesn't have to listen to you "
😂😂😆😆🤣
🤣🤣🤣
Should change ‘giant’ to something else. I see ur trying to be humorous but it might come across as rude
@@luhueychua3468 true it's so rude
Jollybell Chua then his new name is BFG
I can speak from personal experience that often husbands think their wives have to do everything they say.
Absolutely that 19 year old is a gem and a one of the kind brave soul. But something about the 1st woman and her changing from "You don't have to take that" to "Please don't take that" will always get me. Just the sincerity and genuine pleading with her.
" is she your daughter?"
"No, shes my wife"
"Then she doesnt have to listen to you"
To true man, to true...
Still tho, even daughters don't deserve this. :(
@@navyasanthosh6331 facts I wouldn’t be surprised if he treats his daughters like that!
True? No, man.
Ofc she should listen to her husband, are you trolling?
thats true, but that statement implies that it would be ok if it was his daughter, and no one should be treated like that, no matter the relation
@@Cpt_Dave 👈🥴🥴🥴🥴🤡
The big guy who’s a nurse/doctor is like an angel in real life 💙 So calm and under control but so powerful at the same time 🙏🏼
I know, right? He has such kind eyes.
he was such a big teddy bear😊
Gentle giant :p
I wish we knew his ig
@@JaneDoe-yf6gs I often find big guys like that may look intimidating, but most of the time they're giant teddy bears at heart. 🙂
Those girls had more gutts than those dudes.
Women usually do, when it counts.
Because they know they can’t get touch
Motherly instincts
Garrick Allen so true
@@Lock_Nation if a man will harm his wife, he'll most likely have no problem harming another woman
"So many men, and you're the only one who came to my defence" speaks volumes and absolutely broke my heart. These brave, brave women. One after the other, it was women coming to her defence, risking their own safety, because in some way or another, we've all experienced domestic abuse. I started sobbing at the nineteen year old young woman who stepped in. "Lifeguard" indeed.
When that young girl started crying in relief I started bawling alongside of her. ) :
Same
Me too
Me three
Me four
Can't lie... one of my eye got a lil watery still....kinda restored my faith in humanity
Actor ”I am talking to her
Customer ”I understand, but I am talking to you.”
Ohhh shit, he’s already my favorite
Person: kills an actor
John Quiñiones : it got a lil ugly over here
Imagine if it was a gangster or a real tough guy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
_What made you kill this gentleman?_ :)
And of course, we have already alerted the authorities.... oh shit
I had to reevaluate how I go out. Im from south side of Chicago if I seen something like this in person I'm catching a case smh Thanks John
What a brave young woman. Standing up for the abused woman. Doing the right thing in speaking up. There's a lot of public abuse like that, so it feels good that some people try to help.
She was definitely raised right but by who 🤔
Jay Jay 😂😂
Jay Jay her dad forsure.
Her mom
30th like and the dad, aunt, or uncle
Jay Jay. God put her on right path.
"What if the guy turned on you?"
"Then she's not alone..."
*My heart*
“I’m not a child anymore”
Love this young lady
“what if the guy turned on you?”
“then she’s not alone.”
Wise words
I love how these women just instinctively act like they know each other, like saying "I know her from work" or "I recognised her" is such a smart move.
If you do see someone being abused the best way to go about it is to walk into the situation acting like you've known each other forever. Then call authorities once you're there.
I actually had a girl walk away from a man who was making her uncomfortable and pretend she knew me from somewhere, I went along with it lol
Most women know that rule.
Im a big ass dude my prefered method is imediatly beating the abusers ass its a water boy scenario where i envision my dad in that person its almost an uncontrollable reflex for me men that beat women fold like laundry in a fight with an actual man and the best part is that the police will usualy just write it all off because you did what they want to but cant hell ive had the abuser end being the one in cuffs ive served about 1.5 years in totall at this point and every second inside was worth it to see a evil man get what was coming to see the women realize that they now had a chance to leave i grew up doing martial arts the lifestyle is important to me innthat you never use your ability to hurt only to protect yourself or someone in need ive never been in a frivolous fight
Yeah they were nice to her
We are just programmed to stick up for our sisters.
mom: you're a child, let the men stick up for her.
girl: no, boomer
- e l y s s e no,boomer. HAHAHHA
What's a boomer?
heroshyma69 baby boomer
@@lildipsy08 is it meant as an insult? Lol
heroshyma69 yes lol
"Were you concerned he was going to come at you?" *6 and a half foot bear of a man, laughs* "no" 😂😂😂😂 bro this dude is just yes!
The last one was an amazing young woman and her family should be VERY proud of her.
"what if he came after you"
"then shes not alone, i dont know"
good god did i feel that.
She's so pure
That was amazing
@123fort andbree Indian, aka Native American.
@Bullets in Bacon Grease Is that ALL you got out of this video?
Yessss indeed!
“I was ready to run to the knife shop”
John: tHe kNiFe sHoP
That wouldn't stop the problem. That would be making it worse. Think about that.
@@ilovenoodles7483 i think she meant it in joking way to be honest
Kat Kk it was obvious she knows she’s on tv
@@katkk538
Maybe, but nowadays people are trained to believe that a comment like that should be taken serious no matter what.
@@ilovenoodles7483 I would know 😂
finally a more realistic WWYD
neøn gravestønes tru
The last one gave us so much impact
Waluigi wakes your dinner
But from 2016... yes I was like, FINALLY, but no not new... new to RUclips tho 😆
It's not really realistic. I've never seen a man or a woman yelling at their partner like that in public(apart for the many pranks on youtube). This is going on in private.
The 19 year old made me cry. Bless you! The big dude . Bless you too!
'Is she your daughter?'
'No, she's my wife.'
'Then she don't have to listen to you.'
Oh snap.
Seriously, great segment. Martina was raised right.
It was probably her dad that taught her though. Her mom wanted nothing to do with the situation😂
Honestly disagree.
Hate replies coming in in 3....2....1....
@@danielhiebert6167 why's that?
KupKate215:
Just to be clear I don’t know what kind of faith you have and I believe when being abused verbally or physically there should be separation, so here it is.
The bible says the woman should commit to the man, as well as submit. Therefore, the husband should have power over here in things such as houses, jobs, and even the small things such as “okay, let’s leave now.” The man in this video is obviously an exception to this, but there’s my opinion. And yes, I am prepared for feminism coming right back at me.
@@danielhiebert6167 women are to be submissive, yes, but men are supposed to love their wives as Christ loved the church. And the Jesus I was taught about wouldn't treat the church like this.
As a DV survivor I cried watching this. No-one stood up for me ever! This was a daily thing for me.
I'm glad they helped her
Sending love❤️
I'm proud of you for surviving, and I hope you're flourishing now.
Yes 5 years 1/2 years... My kids and I are blessed and we celebrate our new life anniversary (7/23/2015) every year😊
@@delgado2883 I'm sorry that nobody stood up for U. I wasn't there when it happened or I would've. I wouldn't let this happen to any man, woman, or child. I'm so happy things R better 4 U now ❤🧡
@@delgado2883 I'm so happy to hear this. I'm glad you and your family are safe and thriving. Sending my best wishes for continued happiness. ❤️
The 19 year old woman is more courageous than her grandmother.
I know her grandmother was trying to protect her from danger but she did the right thing
Yeah courageous and stupid.
That was the 19 year old ' mother, not grandmother. 💖
1084 John asked her and she said she is the grandmother
@@ms.williams6009 I just watched the video again and the lady in the baby blue shirt told John that Is her "daughter".
@@ms.williams6009 She hugged John and said "I know who you are, I'm afraid for my daughter".
The second guy was so calm and gentle when speaking to her it literally made me tear up. You can tell he was raised right ❤️
so proud of the 19 year old who stood up for her even when her mom told her not to!
I was tearing up when the girl was tearing up... That was just heart touching, she wasn't afraid to stand up for that woman
6:16 tears came down my face instantly
Her shirt says "Lifeguard" too.
"And I was raised right I guess" She is the most thoughtful human being, with all those cameras and attention, she didn't forget about her mother and making sure she shares that moment with her by giving her praise as well.
That little 19-year-old girl brought me to tears. Such an amazing young woman!!!!
Start making realistic videos like this again with SERIOUS topics, not with people arguing about aliens
Omg yes
Facts
Zactly
LOL YES 😂😂
IKR 😅😂
Anyone notice the 19yo's jumper has "lifeguard" on it? She guards life.
If this was real she could have really saved that woman's life that day.
Yeppp !
666 likes this must the devil’s doing!
That girl really made me cry she took a big step that her mom her grandmother and big men didn't take I really cried
"your just a child" those words get on my nerves every god damn day. we are not just kids
how old are you?
@@peterjackson1095 15 why tho
That and “let the men do their work.” Like, what? Us women can’t stand up for another too?
@@ezzariahdavidson8663 You don’t have to answer his question and say how old you are. That’s how predators get you.
@@Blazdragon34 I don't think she meant it that way because she did raise a really great woman. I think what the mom was concerned about was anyone getting physical with her daughter after she spoke up, and when she said "let the men do their work" i think she meant fighting the guy incase it escalated. Just my opinion
*LIFEGUARD*
That sweatshirt meant everything. She really guarded her life.
What a great girl. Everyone needs a friend like her.
Indeed they do. How courageous she was.
She is a Woman
@@casual1466we know... So ?
John: What if the guy turned on you?
Girl: Then she is not alone.
🤯 serious......
That shows so much courage tbh.
underrated youth, man, UNDERRATED YOUTH!!!!
The strength of character and compassion in her was truly inspiring.
me nine
@@fekrytesfaye1058 Underrated Youth sounds like a great name for a punk band lol
OMG😭This 19 year old girl is amazing. I wish I could tell her that in person.When the actress is holding her face and telling her thank you for defending her and the teenager is crying is so heartbreaking. God bless and protect her always💕
Albania M, you must be a kind being 💓
if talent agents see this vid.....they might call John Q or his production team to hunt for her.........she would become a rising star!
“ I’m so sorry we upset you like this!” But ratings are ratings
@@richardlacey4923 completely understand
That's the part I liked too it touched my heart. More people should stand up for others when they are being hurt. People should never stop feeling humane for each other.
I burst into tears after seeing the young teenager not backing down… Some people care enough and not afraid to stop and help another person in need. Thanks for showing some good sides of humanity.
The very tall guy and the 19-year-old in the end were both amazing!!
Mom: “you’re just a child!”
The girl: Is 19
Me: 😐
Yeah, but to a mother, their child will ALWAYS be their child.
She wanted to make sure that her daughter didn't get hurt, but I really am glad that the daughter stood up.
lool
She say I'm not a child
19 is a kid, but you don't have to be a grownup to call bs
At 19 you still are a child. I’m 21 and I’m just now considering myself not a child 😂
When the 19 year old girl started crying I cried too
K Grier me too
The young girl brought me to tears. She stood up to that man and her mother for the sake of someone else’s safety. She is a special and courageous human being!