Hiking has always been my absolute favorite and most natural way of meeting women. It's so easy to say, "Beautiful day, may I walk with you?" Most of the time, the answer is yes.
it seems this is becoming the new modern trend, i don't think it was always like this, because i'm sure it wasn't like this hundreds of years ago or centuries ago, but its the new modern thing for guys, men, to seek help from dating coaches or pick up artists on how to meet and attract women, successfully interact with them, because i read this statement from someone who used to be a dating coach, but not anymore, the statement was: "Do you think over a 100 years ago, centuries ago, generations ago, guys, men, needed a dating coach for help in order to meet and attract women? Oh Hell No, this need for assistance and help has only emerged very recently"
Yes, the landscape of dating has shifted quite a bit over the years, and we found the need for many men to seek the support of a dating coach. Similar to any other area people want to learn more about, you can find help with anything you'd like to explore: fitness, foreign language, instruments, and more! :)
Yeah but you are glossing over the fact that the mating landscape is completely different than it was over 100 years ago. We evolved to meet mates in tribes where you would know each other your whole life before coupling up, not meet randomly as strangers. And after that, women were subjugated in most societies into basically forced marriage situations. Neither of those conditions are true anymore so a strategy for dealing with modern conditions can give you an advantage.
1. Most Sports are by gender - I can’t find any mixed sports groups in my city, which is logically as the athletic abilities of the sexes is too different 2. Dancing? Maybe- Unfortunately, I don’t like dancing. I also noticed that dance classes in my city is mostly made up of old people, 90%+ are pensioners 3. Other classes (I.e. Meetups): The big problem is that the chances of finding a single woman is extremely low. Few people, many not single, of those only about 20% are in the right age range. Statistically, you have to go to hundreds of classes to potentially find a date. 4. Parties - maybe, but I don’t know anyone who hosts a party.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Our hope for this video is to inspire men to think of places where they can meet women, by providing some examples as "starting off" points. What are some of your hobbies where you might be able to meet women? Some other examples we find helpful are volunteer opportunities, church/religious groups, art exhibits, cooking classes, book clubs, travel groups, hiking groups, and so on. Does your area offer tennis where you could sign up for a mixed doubles league?
@@Introvertedalpha Thank for your input. My hobbies are not helpful; they are male-dominated things like chess, AI, blockchain, and other deep tech things that attract barely any women. I do regularly volunteer work (for blood donations, and refugees), but the problem is similar to Meetup groups (I visit several Meetup groups and run my own group as well). The number of women I encounter is very small, so the chances of finding a date is extremely low. Religion we can rule out as I am an atheist. I went to atheist and humanist organizations, but that's 99% men showing up. Somehow women avoid such topics. Art exhibits can be nice, I met several awesome women there..but so far, all were married (and there are not that many new exhibits). Double sports leagues are not common where I live (I am currently in Germany), I think that's more a North American thing. I was in a mixed soccer club when I lived in Toronto, but even then, few women showed up, and those were gay. I like educated and feminine women, and I am not aware of any place where they come in larger numbers. In the end, dating is a numbers game, but without a significant number of women, finding dates seems impossible.
@Rick Sin Thank you for your input. Appreciate it. I have to go out more. After Covid, there are not many groups left though. Strange times. I do use cold approach, but so far all women I met over the years were already married. That is the biggest obstacle. Feminine, kind women are usually taken and not on the dating market.
@Rick Sin However you still cannot blame the guy for having the interests he does. You cannot blame someone who just happens to have interests/hobbies that are more male dominated. Interests develop through partly genetics, culture, environment, upbringing, etc...on the other hand just developing more interests is not so simple as well because again it usually comes down to life experiences. That is how people change careers/jobs...they gain more life experience, insight and knowledge and then use that to change their mind and make new decisions on what they want to do in life. Sometimes no matter how hard we try to enjoy something new or like something, we will just never like it because it does not resonate with us and fit who we are as individuals. Social circle is the best bet but it is hard to start and develop one if you do not have a basis or foundation. School is a good place to start now and potentially your workplace if there are females there but that is a little harder. If you are an introvert who does not go to clubs, bars or parties, then you are already at a disadvantage absolutely. Let alone if you cold approach random women in the street. Problem with cold approaching is that it is inefficient because you have to go through so many people just to find one that may potentially like you back and you have no idea about these peoples' (womens' ) personalities or lifestyles so it is very random and largely due to luck and chance. The advantage of getting to know someone first or spend time with them is that you learn who they are without it being awkward and become more comfortable in their presence which increases the potential of a romantic relationship (or at least friendship). But yes for introverts ironically the best bet is to get to know as many people as you can and meet as many people as you can and thereby exposing yourself and increasing your chances of meeting someone...but how to go about that is very difficult...you almost always need at least some sort of luck.
@@ProfWho-ut5he We can empathize with the challenges you're facing while trying to meet women in your area. Do you have any friends or coworkers who could introduce you to single women in their friend circle who they feel would be a great match for you?
I really appreciate what you are trying to do with this channel but I find the frequent forced smiling in your delivery unnatural, distracting, and inauthentic. It makes it a bit of a struggle for me to push through these videos to get the information. I would prefer an authentic deadpan delivery to forced smiling when it doesn't seem to match your actual emotional state.
Thank you for your feedback! If you find that our videos are not well-suited for you, you can find a lot of the same information on our blog. Check it out here: introvertedalpha.com/blog
Thanks for watching! Have you ever utilized any of these locations before to approach a woman? We'd love to hear your experience!
Hiking has always been my absolute favorite and most natural way of meeting women. It's so easy to say, "Beautiful day, may I walk with you?" Most of the time, the answer is yes.
Love that! Thank you for sharing!
it seems this is becoming the new modern trend, i don't think it was always like this, because i'm sure it wasn't like this hundreds of years ago or centuries ago, but its the new modern thing for guys, men, to seek help from dating coaches or pick up artists on how to meet and attract women, successfully interact with them, because i read this statement from someone who used to be a dating coach, but not anymore, the statement was:
"Do you think over a 100 years ago, centuries ago, generations ago, guys, men, needed a dating coach for help in order to meet and attract women? Oh Hell No, this need for assistance and help has only emerged very recently"
Yes, the landscape of dating has shifted quite a bit over the years, and we found the need for many men to seek the support of a dating coach. Similar to any other area people want to learn more about, you can find help with anything you'd like to explore: fitness, foreign language, instruments, and more! :)
Yeah but you are glossing over the fact that the mating landscape is completely different than it was over 100 years ago. We evolved to meet mates in tribes where you would know each other your whole life before coupling up, not meet randomly as strangers. And after that, women were subjugated in most societies into basically forced marriage situations. Neither of those conditions are true anymore so a strategy for dealing with modern conditions can give you an advantage.
1. Most Sports are by gender - I can’t find any mixed sports groups in my city, which is logically as the athletic abilities of the sexes is too different
2. Dancing? Maybe- Unfortunately, I don’t like dancing. I also noticed that dance classes in my city is mostly made up of old people, 90%+ are pensioners
3. Other classes (I.e. Meetups): The big problem is that the chances of finding a single woman is extremely low. Few people, many not single, of those only about 20% are in the right age range. Statistically, you have to go to hundreds of classes to potentially find a date.
4. Parties - maybe, but I don’t know anyone who hosts a party.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Our hope for this video is to inspire men to think of places where they can meet women, by providing some examples as "starting off" points. What are some of your hobbies where you might be able to meet women? Some other examples we find helpful are volunteer opportunities, church/religious groups, art exhibits, cooking classes, book clubs, travel groups, hiking groups, and so on. Does your area offer tennis where you could sign up for a mixed doubles league?
@@Introvertedalpha Thank for your input.
My hobbies are not helpful; they are male-dominated things like chess, AI, blockchain, and other deep tech things that attract barely any women. I do regularly volunteer work (for blood donations, and refugees), but the problem is similar to Meetup groups (I visit several Meetup groups and run my own group as well). The number of women I encounter is very small, so the chances of finding a date is extremely low. Religion we can rule out as I am an atheist. I went to atheist and humanist organizations, but that's 99% men showing up. Somehow women avoid such topics. Art exhibits can be nice, I met several awesome women there..but so far, all were married (and there are not that many new exhibits). Double sports leagues are not common where I live (I am currently in Germany), I think that's more a North American thing. I was in a mixed soccer club when I lived in Toronto, but even then, few women showed up, and those were gay. I like educated and feminine women, and I am not aware of any place where they come in larger numbers. In the end, dating is a numbers game, but without a significant number of women, finding dates seems impossible.
@Rick Sin Thank you for your input. Appreciate it.
I have to go out more. After Covid, there are not many groups left though. Strange times.
I do use cold approach, but so far all women I met over the years were already married. That is the biggest obstacle. Feminine, kind women are usually taken and not on the dating market.
@Rick Sin However you still cannot blame the guy for having the interests he does. You cannot blame someone who just happens to have interests/hobbies that are more male dominated. Interests develop through partly genetics, culture, environment, upbringing, etc...on the other hand just developing more interests is not so simple as well because again it usually comes down to life experiences. That is how people change careers/jobs...they gain more life experience, insight and knowledge and then use that to change their mind and make new decisions on what they want to do in life. Sometimes no matter how hard we try to enjoy something new or like something, we will just never like it because it does not resonate with us and fit who we are as individuals.
Social circle is the best bet but it is hard to start and develop one if you do not have a basis or foundation. School is a good place to start now and potentially your workplace if there are females there but that is a little harder. If you are an introvert who does not go to clubs, bars or parties, then you are already at a disadvantage absolutely. Let alone if you cold approach random women in the street. Problem with cold approaching is that it is inefficient because you have to go through so many people just to find one that may potentially like you back and you have no idea about these peoples' (womens' ) personalities or lifestyles so it is very random and largely due to luck and chance. The advantage of getting to know someone first or spend time with them is that you learn who they are without it being awkward and become more comfortable in their presence which increases the potential of a romantic relationship (or at least friendship).
But yes for introverts ironically the best bet is to get to know as many people as you can and meet as many people as you can and thereby exposing yourself and increasing your chances of meeting someone...but how to go about that is very difficult...you almost always need at least some sort of luck.
@@ProfWho-ut5he We can empathize with the challenges you're facing while trying to meet women in your area. Do you have any friends or coworkers who could introduce you to single women in their friend circle who they feel would be a great match for you?
I really appreciate what you are trying to do with this channel but I find the frequent forced smiling in your delivery unnatural, distracting, and inauthentic. It makes it a bit of a struggle for me to push through these videos to get the information. I would prefer an authentic deadpan delivery to forced smiling when it doesn't seem to match your actual emotional state.
Thank you for your feedback! If you find that our videos are not well-suited for you, you can find a lot of the same information on our blog. Check it out here: introvertedalpha.com/blog