Emergency Surgery for Ectopic Pregnancy Rupture - This is NOT What I Expected | Let's Talk IBD
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 15 апр 2024
- Many of you already know if you have been following my channel, but I wanted to share the videos clips from the night my ectopic pregnancy ruptured. I had been treated with methotrexate that was lowering my HCG appropriately, but my right fallopian tube ruptured anyway and I was rushed to surgery. Let this be a lesson to pay attention to your body and believe your pain!
For 𝙗𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 & 𝙘𝙤𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 requests ONLY, please reach out at maggie@redefined-agency.com!
𝙒𝙤𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙄 𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙢𝙮 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤𝙨?
◈ Camera: amzn.to/3QFyF6P
◈ Vlogging Microphone: amzn.to/3SogUdr
◈ Sit-Down Filming Mic: amzn.to/49g03j4
◈Music Software: share.epidemicsound.com/2vs2jc
◈Editing Software: Adobe Premiere Pro
𝙇𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙡?
◈ Become a Channel Member! / @letstalkibd
◈ Intimate Rose Get $5 off Coupon at www.intimaterose.com/?ref=LET...
◈ Let's Talk IBD Gear www.letstalkibd.shop/
◈ Amazon Favorites www.amazon.com/shop/letstalkibd
Links within this description may be affiliate/sponsored links in which I receive compensation from purchases made. Thank you for supporting my channel!
*This video is not meant to diagnose or treat any illness or condition. This is for entertainment purposes and to get you thinking! Please ALWAYS refer to your physician for medical care.
Having difficulties hearing this video? Please click the "CC" button on the bottom left of the video screen!
Hi, I'm Maggie and I have Crohn's disease. I am thrilled to be here sharing my personal experiences with Inflammatory Bowel Disease as well as living with an ostomy. I'm proud to share a little bit from a clinical experience as well, having worked as a GI pediatric nurse and ostomy telehealth nurse. I am so glad you are here. ♥ #ibd #crohnsdisease #ostomy
Thank you so much for your kindess on this and previous videos. I feel so fortunate to be part of this community! I want you to know I am over a week out from this surgery and everytbing is healing well! ❤
So glad to hear that!!😊 thank you for keeping us updated, you guys are very special to all of us, stay strong. Much love and respect from NJ ❤❤
Great the hear, hope everything will heal completely with no complications.sorry about the loss.
Wishing you all the best.
Is this your second one?
Tears for you and I'm not a crier. I know your body will heal but I hope you will find peace. I hope Zack heals too. It can't be easy for him either.
The heartbreak is real and don't worry about crying about it all. We have been through this experience. Was at work, extreme sharp pain, told the manager I had to go to the bathroom, laid on the floor, shouted for manager to call my husband, next thing I know I'm being carried to the car and wanted to go home. My husband said he took a look at me and thought "nope". The ER surgeon said that he saved my life. It was a shocking experience and took about two weeks before I sobbed about our loss. And I was scared to get pregnant again since the ectopic was my first. Well, time heals. Four children later here we are. Y'all will actually be fine. Just hang on tight to each other. Time; just time. I pray for y'all.
Dont forget your body will also have to cope with the crash in hormone level as well as everything else. I think a previous reply said that your baby's DNA will be mixed with yours, so that means that any future baby will have a part of this baby with them too. You will never forget this one, or their due date, but be gentle with yourself as the grief is as raw and real as any other which many people do not understand.
This is so beautifully said.
Its true! Pregnant womens brains store their babies DNA! Great thought.
I am so glad that Dr took the time to actually sit down, in your room, and talk to you like a person going through a huge thing. I'm glad he answered your questions and made you feel comfortable. We as patients need more of this. Again, very sorry for your loss.
You are the luckiest woman on the planet to have a husband who loves and adores you. Embrace him, love him, and you will find peace.
And her husband are the luckiest too I hope to have such a great wife!!♥️
You would hope any married couple would have partners who love and adore each other!
You are a real trouper... you have been through so much and I'm so sorry. Praying for you.
I am so sorry you have had to endure this hell. I do really think the way you have shared has educated so many people, as most don't understand ectopic pregnancies at all. This comment may sound really weird, but these videos have given me something. My husband died suddenly just 3-1/2 yrs after our ectopic pg. My mom was diagnosed with terminal cancer just weeks he died after so our lives and many memories those years became a blur due to grief and stress. Your videos about this have brought back many of my memories of our own ectopic experience, and this video brought back the moments when I had just woken up from my surgery. When my OB told my husband she had to take my fallopian tube, he knew how upset I would be so asked if he could be the one to tell me. Watching this video, I remembered waking up from the anesthesia, and the man who never cried had tears in his eyes and told me so gently. I had forgotten that moment and it all just came back so clearly for me. For a minute I felt him like he so close and right next to me again. When we lose loved ones, they and the memories start fading, feeling further away each month, then year, they are gone. The moments we can suddenly feel them again like they are still here mean everything, and this video gave me one of those today. ❤❤
I am so sorry for your many losses. Thank you for sharing, I’m sure it will be helpful for Maggie to hear about what others have experienced yet managed to come through. Sending love from Texas.
Shout out to Zack. He’s a keeper and is having to be the strong one. I’m sure he’s relieved at this point. ❤
Don't ever say sorry for you feeling. You have every right to show how you are feeling. You have been though a lot.
I am so sorry that you felt like it wasn’t okay to believe yourself about your pain until it became critical. 😢 I know that we as women are gaslighted so much by medical professionals that we fear censure if we go in “too soon.” God bless you and praying for peace as you continue along this journey. 😊
Gosh after having my own near death health scare I could hear the fear and uncertainty in your voice before the surgery. When you talked about the phone call I replayed my cry for help as i went unconscious. Im so greatful for my boyfriend. I woke up diaphoretic and cyanotic in the ER. I was afraid of the hospital shower so i had body wipes for 4 days.... i smelt awful in the ER. After 4 days i felt so icky.
Girl, you are the bravest person, ever. I am praying that things finally decide to smooth out for you. Sending hugs. ❤
I've been following you since i found you which was after the rupture of my colon, (from infected diverticulitis, June 5, 2022.) Shorthand:on toilet-severe pain began- I was -only a few feet from my bed. made it there then passed out.-woke up in the hospital bed after having major surgery to clean out my gut and with my new friend, SURPRISE, my stoma! Maggie! You have been to Hell and back and pulled through with the awesome strength God gave and of course with the and the strength that comes from Zach and the rest of you're family; loving you and keeping strong through your struggles.
You are loved and admired by all here at IBD. And some of us are so thankful for you because you taught us all how to deal with all the issues regarding our new way of life! Between you and Erik gan Ostomy you saved me by taking a lot of my fear and anxiety away and really educating me about the variety of items that.ave made life easy all around! God Bless you and yours always. And i know you will be a great Mom when the day comes ( and I have faith that it WILL) Until then, cuddle close with hubby and your fur babies and just breathe in all their love for you. And please remember the one who takes care of us all, our Lord and Savior, Jesus who showers us all with his love and healing! Amen.
Just another Ostomat,e Susan Thein, New york
It's ok. Just let it out. Your husband is a very good man, Maggie. He really knows the meaning of for better or worse.
I had this with my second pregnancy. I was in absolute pain, and the surgeon said I had an hour to live. After the surgery came the guilt. My body killed my baby. That was 25 years ago. I had 2 children after that, but I will never forget the pain of losing my baby
Same! They didn’t know and one doctor suspected ectopic and urged them for emergency surgery or I would die. Most excruciating pain ever.
I had an ectopic pregnancy in 1988. It was a horrible experience. I had about the same scenario as her. I had bleeding for a day or two. When the pain hit it as very sudden. The hallmark of an ectopic pregnancy is shoulder pain which I didn’t know at the time. I also thought it as gas. I begun to feel faint and nauseous but I didn’t want to call my husband he was watching a ballgame on TV. I called my doctor he said go to the ER NOW. My blood pressure was dropping fast. The doctor on call checked me out and immediately called to get the OR ready. I had a right sided ectopic pregnancy where I lost my right ovary also. They said I had a pint of blood n my abdomen. I had two miscarriages after this. My incision is vertical and I’ve not been happy with it.
Your body killed your baby? No. It was never a viable baby, it nearly killed you.
Why would you feel guilty over a perfectly natural, if difficult, complication of trying for a baby?
not your fault... a lot of things can go wrong... there IS NOTHING you could have done to change what happened. NOT YOUR FAULT!
had a gf w ectopic, and I had a blighted ovum/missed miscarriage. sucks.
(Melanie here) I am so sorry that this happened to you. I had an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured and ended up in emergency surgery also. Sending hugs
You are strong and have a wonderful husband who takes very good care of you.
I had a ruptured ectopic in 2005. Ended up with open surgery, removal of right ovary and tube and also a cyst. Good luck, you will be fine. X
I am so thankful that you and Zac have each other to lean on during all the trials you face in life. You both are loved by this RUclips community. If we could all show up to your home and give you hugs I'm sure we would. Better days are ahead.
JFC! This just devastates😭 me! I really am very sorry that you went through this. I wish you all the best of luck in the future. Nothing is impossible. Never give up hope
Prayers are being sent to you and Zak. I am so very sorry for all you’re going through Maggie. You are a trouper for sure.
Please take all the time you need and never ever apologize for crying. 🙏🙏😊
I delivered my first child at 28 weeks. The second pregnancy was ectopic, and I experienced the same surgery as yours. The third and fourth ended in miscarriages with subsequent D&Cs. I am always amazed at the strength of a woman.
At the strength of a human body. My neighbour, a man, has died this week after 21 years fighting several cancers. It is incredible how mean and awful a part of our bodies can be, and how resilient the other can be. A positive and strong mind helps a lot too. Maggie has all the weapons of a great warrior!
i was really thinking that because your hcg levels were dropping, you were not going to need surgery. you really have been through things and i hope you start to feel better soon
Don't worry about crying, you cry as much as you want, we are here to support and love you, sending love and hugs ❤
You are one of the strongest women I have ever seen. You have been through so much and you are still fighting. Thank you for sharing and Prayers are happening for you.
My heart goes out to you. I’ve had several ectopics and several emergency surgeries. Methotrexate didn’t work for me on those occasions. I had one fallopian tube removed and later on had an ectopic in the remaining tube that also required surgery. The doctor left my remaining tube even though it was damaged. I was devastated, but my healthy daughter was conceived with that remaining tube that was previously operated on. I wish you the best. Everything will be okay. It’s so hard. I completely empathize with what you’re going through. Xoxo.
I'm so glad you are safe and home.❤❤❤ Wish you luck in all your future plans
Thank you!!
Prayers to you both!!
@@LetsTalkIBDSame Here!!!
Hope you getting soon
I feel so heartbroken for the 2 of you. Maggie, you're always a beautiful bright light to watch. So inspirational. I have lost 3 children, aged 8 months, 16 years, and 38 years. You can survive and find joy again. I'm very happy about your birthstone ring and it's a lovely idea. ❤
So thankful that you got to the hospital when you did! I don't have your issues but a spinal cord injury for 35 yrs. It's amazing what we can do to get through some really bad things. Prayers for you and Zak!!!!
My god young lady you have been through hell and back. My heart breaks for you and your husband. You are an inspiration. Prayers and good health to you.
Warm hugs to you both. I completely sympathize. C-section. Gall bladder. Barbie Butt surgery (rectal cancer). VSG. Oh, and a craniotomy (brain cancer), but that was the opposite end 😅. Keep going, warrior! 💜
There are no adequate words dear sweet Maggie to say how sorry I am that your joy turned into this horrid experience. It’s high time you and Zack caught a major break and the joy you both deserve. Sending healing thoughts and love.
That cramping…that’s how my perforation started and one of my bowel obstructions. One minute you are fine and the next you can’t move because the pain is so bad. Absolutely horrific.
Breaks my heart that you went through this and it makes me even sadder hearing you question what you were feeling. Having my doctors beat it into my head that it is all in my head I get those same thoughts. It is scary going through stuff like this and you help so many people; you gave people a place to come and talk to others who know what is it like.
Stay strong and hope your recovery is going well
Much love to you both... It is scary how things can escalate but so glad you got a Dr that actually sat and spent time talking to you.
Zac you are what everyone woman would wish for calm and loving.
From a Rainy Chilly Scotland I hope each day is getting easier.
My rescue dog Piper sending tails wags to you pack ❤
Maggie, I appreciate your courage to share your experiences online. Despite your loss and grief, doing so will help others.
I'm saddened they didn't just go in like they did year's ago. Your Doctor is correct about having hope.
Heal up and get reassessed in another five months.
Hold your gut with a couch pillow when sneezing or coughing.
No bending or lifting above 5 lbs for six weeks.
You don't want excessive scar tissue to cause pain later. It form's quickly.
Big side hugs 💜🌻🪻🌷🌸🌼🌹🌺
Oh dear, sweet girl. What a grievous event. Prayers ascending for you, your husband, and your Dad.
We are all behind you. I was in bed for the first day having had a cesarean for my second child at 28 weeks. I got up on the second day and walked around a second ward. I bumped into a friend who said how come your out of bed. It gets less painful if you can walk around. When it's across it can.pull more. I was told I couldn't have kids due to another problem. One born at 26 weeks one born at 28.i guess what Im trying to say is your a fighter girl. Grieve cry and process the whole thing. You have a wonderful man ZAC to help with things. You are a STRONG PERSON.
I am so sorry!! I have had a cesarean with my fifth child. I have had a horrible miscarriage. Then my rainbow baby died. The emotional pain and trauma was quite an awful journey. I’m in my late fifties now. I have had seven children and now have eight grandchildren. Sending lots of hugs and prayers. ❤❤❤
Please take all the time you need emotionally, and physically. We will all be here .❤
Sending you lots of healing love. About 10 years ago I became pregnant and was so happy!
I was a week out from getting my first ultrasound and I started bleeding. It was not a lot but I felt something was wrong. My friends kept telling me that spotting can be normal during pregnancy. That evening I had excruciating pain in my right lower abdomen. It came and then went quickly. I dismissed it that night but decided to go to the ER in the morning. I remember them taking my blood and my HGC levels were showing I was definitely pregnant. When they did the sonogram I remember the technician not saying much. When the doctor came in and told me that they had to terminate the pregnancy I was devastated. He looked at me and said we have to do surgery immediately, you will die if we don’t. The doctor said if I waited any longer I would have potentially bled to death in a matter of hours. I had never even heard of an ectopic pregnancy. It broke my heart.
It was one of the hardest things I have ever gone through. I think about that baby a lot.
I hope you recover quickly and know there are a lot of women out there who are here to support you!
So sorry for another hard adventure you have gone through. You bring so much inspiration and joys to all of people. God bless you and thank you
So sorry you had to go through this ❤ prayers for a quick recovery
I’m so sorry for all you’re going through. You will get your well deserved miracle one day!
I also had an ectopic pregnancy about 8 years ago now.. and watching how you handled this made me so proud... for lack of a better word.. It's a different kind of impossibly hard. Much love to you Mama
You are so amazing. I wish you a speedy recovery ❤
I'm so sorry for all you have been through. I'm sending you hugs and prayers for a good recovery. Stay strong ❤❤❤❤
Sweet Girl, I am so terribly sorry. I lost two by ectopic pregnancy. Nearly killed me. I was devastated. Obviously having my own was not going to work. My husband and I adopted two new borns, 4 years apart. The rest of my story is one of joy , love and great happiness. Both now happily married. We have 4 beautiful granddaughters! Our son and daughter are close to us and each other. They love the Lord and us . What more could we ask for. I cannot imagine my life without them.
Not sure where your journey will take you, but I am positive you will be very happy.
I’m so sorry for what you have been through. Please take care of yourself. Sending you love, hugs, and prayers for your recovery.
You are so strong girl. Always praying for you 🙏🏻
Continuing prayers for a full recovery 🙏🙏
This series was probably so tough to edit but I appreciate how much you’ve shared and i’m so sorry for your loss ❤
So sorry you've been through so much. I've been following and had hoped the previous video was the last of this experience for you. I'm so glad that doctor took time to sit and talk it over with you. It's so important isn't it? Just praying that you heal physically and emotionally and that you and Zack can take time to process and when ready decide what is best for you guys. Gentle hugs.
So glad you are safe, Maggie. Sending big hugs ❤
So happy you're doing well! So sorry for what you went through. Glad you are safe and well!❤️🙏
You feel everything you need to feel. Prayers for your recovery and healing, both of you.
I'm so sorry you've been through all this. And sorry for your loss. Go easy on yourself - what you've been through, physically and mentally, will take time to heal.
I’m so sorry for what has happened to you, you have my prayers and sympathy ❤
Thank you Zak! You both have been in my prayers ❤
Maggie, this is so heartbreaking. I am so sorry you have to deal with this. It’s so unfair. I hope you feel better soon. I’m sending love ❤️
Continued prayers for your recovery, strength, and comfort during this difficult time! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
Bless you for being willing to share this.
You are very brave to share this experience the way you have. Thank you. I am so sorry for your loss.
I rarely comment on any sort of social media posts, but after watching every video of this recent heartbreaking journey you've been on, I felt compelled to. I am so very sorry for your loss and for this entire situation you and your husband have gone through. You seem like a wonderful, sweet, and incredibly positive person. Thank you for being so willing to share your experiences with others. I am praying for you and rooting for you. 💕
So wholesome for you to share this wealth of experience, Maggie. And so helpful. So sorry that you have to go through this. Virtual hugs to you ♥️🙏
I am glad you made it out of this as well as you could have! That's a scary situation. Much love
I’m so so sorry for your loss. I’m so sorry for everything you have gone through. My thoughts and prayers are with you. ❤
Love you guys. My thoughts and prayers are headed your way.
Hey Maggie, im so sorry you had to go through all this, but so glad your safe and well, sending a big hug ❤ x
Glad you came through this. It’s so scary. Really glad you left in the footage of you hobbling to the restroom. Such a real moment.
Jeez, all that was waaay more than enough! Glad it's over and you're home. You've been handling it all so well, as usual. I'm sending you healing, strength and peace. And much love. ❤
I love your channel! You and Zack are a wonderful team. Thank you for being so open, so honest. Your attitude toward everything is awesome. We are here
I’m so sorry. Happy you’re safe.
I am so sorry for all of this. You are in my prayers. Glad you are home. ❤
Maggie Gurl, I'm so sorry this happened. I'm so glad to read that you're a week out now and have been healing well - I was just thinking I'll be sending so many get well fast wishes... I'll keep you in my thoughts and my heart!!
I'm so thankful that you are ok and got there in time
I'm new and I subscribed as well. I'm so sorry for what you being through,I hope you get a fast and well recovery. Sending blessings your way from Michigan.❤🙏
So very sorry...prayers.....hope this pain ends and you heal sooner than later
I’m so sorry for your loss. I had this happen so I understand how you are feeling. Stay strong! ❤
You’re a warrior. You’re making it a little easier for others by sharing your story.
Bless you ! Hope you recover quickly !
YOu are such a trouper! I hope you heal quickly and I am sending healing thoughts, prayers and love!
Glad you’re ‘okay’ and hope you recover well ❤❤
I’m so sorry 😢 you are so strong Maggie! Thoughts and prayers for you and Zach ❤️🙏
Bless your heart. It is a tough time and no words can fix it. Prayers for healing and comfort.
Maggie I’m so very sorry for your loss. You are very strong and courageous. This experience has been mind blowing, and I hope this channel has provided you with an opportunity to decompress a bit from the trauma. You have been through so much. Deepest condolences.
Sending you both my ongoing love. I am certain that you are helping so many other couples who have been or will go through this experience. ❤
I am so sorry for what you and Zak have had to go through. I am honestly watching the strongest person ever! Your vulnerability and the way you keep getting up and doing what you need to do is admirable. Really hoping that better things are coming your way, whatever that may look like x
I’m so very sorry for your loss. The extra trauma- physical, emotional, mental- was just ridiculously unfair and you deserve so much better
I’m so sorry Maggie for everything you’ve been through. Sending you healing thoughts. ❤
I am sorry that you went through this. I know sometimes words are not enough to express what you went through but know this there are many that are praying for you. We love you and we are here for you. I know you can overcome many things because you are strong, beautiful and smart.
What a scary experience. I am so sorry you had to go through this. Sending you good vibes 💕.
You are amazing!! You are one of the strongest people I have seen!! Good luck with everything!!❤
You are such a fighter. I’m so sorry for your loss
Praying for your healing both physically and emotionally!
Sending you and your husband gentle hugs and healing vibes ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us, and being so open and real. I also really appreciate the subtitles! Glad to hear you are healing well and I wish you all the love and peace for the coming days. I know its kind of parasocial, but I was tearing up right along with you as you were sharing your raw emotions. You are incredible, and thank you for bringing us on your journey through life.
I am so sorry you had to go through this, I'm glad you have such a fantastic support system, I wish you the best for your recovery and everything, you are doing so great you inspire so many all my best
Oh my goodness, sweet Maggie! I’m sending you love and hugs from California. My heart is so sad and all I want to do is hug you. You are so brave and amazing. I’m keeping you in my prayers every day for a quick recovery and brighter days ahead. ❤️🙏❤️🙏
Glad you in the path to healing. ❤️❤️
Sending prayers and hugs to you and your husband, Keep healing up!! ❤🙏
I just cant believe all you have been through. Thank you for sharing your painful, yet Maggie strong video. I am so glad you are home and able to heal now. So thankful for the positive convo with the surgeon. Hope is here.
So glad you are ok and hopefully you can heal mentally soon. Such a traumatic experience. You are strong and we will pray for you.