My Double Mastectomy Update

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024

Комментарии • 19

  • @paul5149
    @paul5149 2 года назад +5

    3 years later and I'm listening to this as my wife is getting ready to go through this in a few days. I have to say I absolutely love your spirit and message.

  • @raquelfreeman81
    @raquelfreeman81 2 года назад +2

    Do you have an update for this?

  • @nadinewyche3353
    @nadinewyche3353 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for saying that other people will not understand. You are exactly, 100% correct ... it’s not about them.

  • @cathyleegrantham-schreifel7269
    @cathyleegrantham-schreifel7269 2 года назад +2

    So glad to find a woman of faith who isn’t embarrassed to acknowledge Jesus and our Father God. So encouraged by you. I’m just beginning my journey at 68 years old and have been terrified, afraid I’ll wind up walking this road alone. I cannot and do not believe my husband will stick around. Married since 1988 and, so far, I’ve seen nothing that assures me he will stand by me. Wake up in the middle of the night and he’s no longer n bed with me. When I call for him, he gets angry and comes storming into my bedroom. He broke three of my toes last week when he took a swing at my feet under the covers. I’ve been so emotional and fragile the last few weeks since being diagnosed. He says he has nowhere to go or he would leave. Great support, huh? He comes a very weird and dysfunctional family. I’ve told him God sees and hears everything. He’s so afraid and worried that nobody will be around to care for him when it is his time to deal with health issues. I have 3 kids. Oldest two are from previous marriage and in their early 40’s. Current husband and I have a mentally disabled daughter who lives with us. She’s so afraid of losing me. I loved her so and don’t want to leave her. I ask God to put a hedge of protection around her when I’m no longer here to protect her. I’ve been both parents since her birth and we are very close. The two oldest are just as heartless and cold and distant as their father was. It hurts to admit it, but that is the truth. My oldest is the worst. She’s judgmental, cruel and mouthy, always angry and just says anything that crosses her mind. I’ve tried to make her understand that what goes around, comes around. She has 3 beautiful, grown boys in. College and she’s very bossy and telling them what to do all the time. She and her husband have their own business that she runs. She belongs to a church that is run by a very controlling preacher, but she hangs on every word he says. So many control issues here, which is why I divorced her father 40 yrs ago. And she’s just like him. She’s cold and mean, cruel and insulting and judgmental and mouthy and almost heartless. I wonder what it’s gonna take to bring her down, and that’s what I’m afraid of for her. She breaks my heart because somehow, someway, her behavior will come back to haunt her. She has the prettiest smile and is almost angelic, but her mouth spews poison all the time. Not sure how else to describe her. I worry about her future after I’m gone. Her dad died of lymphoma and I’m pretty sure she treated him as badly as she’s treating me. Maybe worse. Everybody sees how she is yet are afraid to say anything to her. She can snap back with such harsh words that dumbfound most people, including me.

    • @marquettabreslin
      @marquettabreslin  2 года назад

      Hello Cathy Lee. Thank you for sharing your story. We're sorry to hear that you are going through all this. And wish you the very best on your healing journey. - Team Marquetta

    • @kenyabean7781
      @kenyabean7781 2 года назад

      Wow Cathie Lee I can't believe that I'm reading this story we have a lot in common I believe in healing God almighty and you are healed in Jesus name I know that you are you just have to know it and have faith in Jesus Christ God almighty he's healed so minty and he is still the Healer if you ever need to talk just text me and I can text you my phone number You Are Not Alone God bless you and also glad that the Marqueeta!!!! is doing well in her surgery praise God almighty

    • @tigress241
      @tigress241 2 года назад

      Cathy family is not always blood. Place all of your energy in your disabled daughter and yourself. Get strong and healthy. God will grant you that. If you have good friends you cab count on, do it. If not, make some. Stay away from your husband and your daughter's negative energy. God will bess you my pink sister.🙏

  • @asmrgeek123
    @asmrgeek123 3 года назад +2

    I just finished watching this series (except the second one about going to the ICU so I don't get scared). Thank you for sharing your journey. I look forward to the next update. I was diagnosed with breast cancer and am in the middle of chemo and targeted therapy. I will get a mastectomy in September and will probably do a double. I will probably do immediate reconstructive surgery since I am young (I'll be 37 next week). I'm sorry you had complications and I pray it ends with your last surgery. I pray I don't have any complications, especially since I have an aggressive, long treatment plan that's already filled with plenty of suffering. I'm sorry your mother died from this. Hearing her story inspires me to get a double mastectomy (only my left breast and lymph nodes are affected). My goal is the same as yours, be alive for my children and family. No one can argue with that. Thankfully mine isn't genetic though. Nonetheless, I will get my daughter tested when she's old enough because her great grandmother on her father's side had breast cancer. Praying for our children they never have to experience cancer! 🙏💝

    • @marquettabreslin
      @marquettabreslin  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing and for your kind words to Marquetta. We will be sure to let her know. Marquetta is doing well now and we wanted to make sure to share that with you so you knew her complications were healed. We wish you the absolute best in your recovery and total healing. - Team Marquetta

    • @RonnieReneeBlue
      @RonnieReneeBlue 3 года назад

      Sounds like my journey. I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer of my left breast in March. No genetic tracing. I have one more chemotherapy treatment left! You can do it keep fighting! Because of my type of cancer I have decided to get a double to remove the possibility of it going to my other breast. Plus, I'm terrified of radiation and I'm only 38 so this just seemed like the best decision for me. I'm sending you healing energy and positive vibes 🙏🙌❤

  • @lbrown8040
    @lbrown8040 2 года назад

    God is good. I am a veteran who has recently been diagnosed with TNBC. The VA and community care are a good & bad experience. Fearing this journey with this. Thank you for sharing 🌸🙌🏾

  • @cathyleegrantham-schreifel7269
    @cathyleegrantham-schreifel7269 2 года назад

    I’m putting you on my pray list. Thank you for this video and allowing me to vent.

  • @asariarchibong2628
    @asariarchibong2628 4 года назад

    Thank God for life. I pray you heal completely in JESUS name Amen. Lost my Sister in law on the 15th of Nov through cancer. I know what it is the go through it. Seeing your love one suffer is is difficult.

    • @marquettabreslin
      @marquettabreslin  4 года назад +1

      We're so sorry to hear of your loss and hope you find healing as well. - Team Marquetta

  • @judyrivera5113
    @judyrivera5113 3 года назад

    God Is Good 🌟

  • @tasesmith6772
    @tasesmith6772 4 года назад

    🙌🏾👏🏽