crushinsatan It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know that I was referring to an “EARTHLY” father. Furthermore, I’ve been walking with our “HEAVENLY” father for 46 years and I know that He walks with me and He talks with me and He tells me that I’m His own. Find someone else to thump your bible on and to dissect. #beautyfromashes #survivorofchildhoodabuse
I have always strived for “flawlessness or perfection”. Always there for everyone. I am now taking time for me...with all my flaws...and imperfections. Because to me...I am perfect. I am beautiful...I love myself. I may miss many that were important to me but as long as I love and respect myself...and listen to my higher power I am complete. Praise GOD...
You are spot on pastor. Postpartum depression is the result of not having individuals (your man) to speak life into you and build up your self esteem after having precious new life.
Edit: I'm almost in tears because I have allll 3 psychological defects of broken consciousness.. **Perfectionism **Expectation Management **Self Condemnation Everything you said about women who have these defects I do. Society didn't break my consciousness, my biological mother's family did. I'm better than I used to be, but I still stress about being perfect. Thankfully, I ordered Queenology and The Father Daughter Talk books a while ago. I just ordered 3 additional copies of both, and my 3 daughters and I are going to read them both together when they finish school. I dont want them to whind up like me. Thank you for this word.
Tony gaskins even said it took him 2 years to fully fall in love with wife after they got married. He didn’t mean he didn’t care and wouldn’t just treat her like she was nothing, it’s just for a man hard to get him to open up all the way until he fully trust you. You have to let a man get to know your mind and who you are. Both RC and Tony have been helping me with dating and helping me realize my inner queen. Even when I get married I’m going to abstain for 6 months just so that it gives us more time to know each other and fall in love
M Jones yeah my friend her sister after she got married abstained for 1 year. I just think maybe for an extra 6 months while married get to know each other on this new level, but of course things happen. That’s just what I want to try
my sister abstinence is not advisable in marriage, even the Bible says you are not to keep yourself from being with your husband or wife without agreement unless if the devil tempts you, you will invite bad things into your marriage even if he doesn't cheat on you he may resort to porn or masturbation. Maybe Tony Gaskins was not saved when he met his wife, maybe they were having sex hence he didn't respect her ~1 Corinthians7:5
You went directly to the root of many of my problems. I’ve always been kinder to others rather to myself. Sometimes I’m very perfectionist with me and patient with others. I think that what I’ve been teached at church and by my father has a lot to do with that. You end up feeling you are never good enough. I still remember some verses because they are engraved to my mind like “Be perfect as your father who is in heaven is perfect” Mathew 5:48. At this age I’m a bit better, trying to love me more exactly as I am and focus on all the gifts that God has given to me
I just bought your book Queenology on Kindle. Nothing more powerful than a changed mind. Thank you, Pastor. Thanks for being a substitute for the resource that was absent in my life.
Didn't think this message was for me but as you got into it Pastor, I realized through you God is trying to tell me something! My youngest son informed me last yr that he sees me as a unfit mother and no good grandmother! He is 34 and I'm 70! I had friends n family say " What did you do wrong? I had been feeling guilty sometimes because this hurt me more than words can say! But you what Pastor! I taught my children. Once you do the best you can, there is no reason to feel guilty about anything. Thanks to God and your videos. Im taking my own advice! Thank you.
@Rosita Young I am sorry to hear this and my heart goes out to you. I'm dealing with the same thing from my 17 y.o. son who's been mentally poisoned by his narcissist father. It's tough and heartbreaking but we must continue to trust in God. He truly knows our heart.💕
The understanding Dad you never had...smh....GOD BLESS THIS MAN...IM 30 YEARS OLD AND LEARNING THINGS I SHOULD HAVE BEEN THOUGHT WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER TO PREVENT ALL THE DAMAGES.🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 NEVER TO LATE TO LEARN.
Another excellent lecture...I love the steps, #1, 2, etc. I need to start making notes ;).Not only a broken consciousness but a broken soul/ spirit. People pleasing gets you nowhere. In mid-forties, my ex husband did this, ex fiances, my own father, colleagues, bosses, supposed friends, I could go on and on...be careful ladies. To be myself, I do first then tell later so others don't discourage but could still do better with 'celebrating me.' My self-quaranteen happened long before this virus. It happened due to the 'people' virus of selfishness based on conditions. Until I find good folk, I remain solo with my loving animals who give unconditionally to my spirit. Prayers to RC and all of us. Living in difficult times.
Pastor Blakes I feel like this entire message was meant for me. Moved me to tears at work and opened my eyes. God is using you for wonderful things! Thank you 🙏❤️
8 minutes in and I have tears in my eyes as he is telling me I'm good enough as I am as God has made me😭 This that he is describing I have some of in me I had a man tell me that he could see my insecurities like I was wearing them on the outside
I’m not Christian ✝️ but I love your Channel and I Thank you for all of your light and what you do for the community to lift us up as the King Father you are 🙏🏾 #1Love
I'm listening to you and Tony Gaskins from France. I've been doing it since December. Both of you have helped me to start my healing process, thanks to your books and courses. Both of you were sent by God to help women. It is high time to stop all that suffering. Many thanks to you. I'm going to pray for you and the first lady, so that God keeps you alive and in good health. Be blessed!
I just can't express how much I love and am grateful for this man! I gave up on the church because of the hypocrisy and false, surface teaching. I would gladly attend this church if I lived near!!! Blakes is a real pastor, one who truly cares, speaks truth and uses the Bible effectively. I, like others, wonder what heights I could have reached in my life if I had had a father like Bishop Blakes. This teaching is so necessary, there are many broken souls in need of it, I certainly am one!
The postpartum depression comment.... your very right. My gyno told me she believed my PPD was “environmental” I moved out immediately and separated from my husband and guess what. That weight was lifted off my shoulders and I started to slowly feel better. Please keep preaching and spreading the good word Pastor! You have taught me so much!
Listening to you Pastor has given me the courage to stop repeating the generational curse of the spirit of perfection. Such anxiety going shopping with my mom who can be critical and obsessive over clothing and hair in every place.
I’m not passing this on to my daughters, Holy Spirit please be with me as i work through this. May i be more conscious of my words and what i’m modeling for them.
Pastor Blakes, I hear you loud and clear with appreciation. I embody, at least a couple of the characteristics mentioned. I believe this is due to the fact that I have had to balance two cultures as if I lived between two worlds. I was born to traditional Nigerian parents but raised in the US (came here when I was less than a 1yr). The expectations of my parents were so high when it came to every aspect of my being. The outcome is what you have discussed. I too have high expectations but somewhere along the lines they seem to have diminished in order to accommodate. I am believing God has a plan for me. "Nothing changes if nothing changes".
This is for me,I pray one day to fix me,I have been with men,that have asked for disrespectful sexual acts to turn around and still get dumped, I don't move how to cut men off,like I no it's no good, but I still hang on,until it's almost makes me scared,that I don't make it work,I got used a lot.
It is a sad cycle of damage for our young men and women. I ,myself, have struggled with fighting the demons of societal norms. Thank you for this message.
RC Blake's, thank you for thee book Queenology, I cried so much in the Introduction and the first chapter...I feel I am a new woman after reading this book. I purchased all your books in Amazon, all of them! I have a teenager who enjoys reading , I am a single mother and these books are my tools to be a queen and for my daughter to be a queen. God gave you a purposed to woman like me who never had a father in their lives, thank you Blake's, muchisimas gracias
ABSOLUTELY, women develop depression because the men they are with do not know how to pour into them. Saw this in my family and with other women I encountered. Glad I had the wisdom to see this early, it saved me.
Hi pastor Rc blakes my name is carolyn and iam from Kenya.iv just started to listen to the videos and my life has changed forever.i was going for wrong relationships bcz i was broken i thank God for you bcz i have learnt a lot .God bless you man of God.thank you.
"Put demands on him", I would really like someone to show me how to ask for these things in the right way. I learned at an early age that no one would help me and I should do everything myself, so I don't know how to ask for things and receive them. Thank you for your wise words which are lifting me up.
I missed this live Pastor Blake. Finally, someone is speaking on the real issue of broken women...we do exist...we do need help...we cry, with no hearing....help.
This man/father/pastor is full of wisdom, one thing I can say is I may not know the full value of how God sees me but by golly I know Im valuable to me, my customers and God!
The title caught my attention, but the content kept it! My God, My God! I can't tell you how much you helped me, but I now know that I will never be the same again. Keep teaching, and I'll keep praying that God will continue to use you to deliver us from wrong thinking! God bless you 🙏🏾
So glad God is about to work on the brothas. We women can be taught all day long how to be queens but we need some kings to look forward too after the lessons are learned.
We don't come here for 10min of teaching.. heck.. 2hrs is still good.. Never concern your brain about the length of your teachings.. Learning something GOOD takes times... Thank you for being real.
I realized that I had been in broken consciousness for so long due to being raised with a toxic parent that is not til you wake up and see that it was all an illusion. Reparenting has to take place in consciousness thru the power of the Lord. Thank you pastor may God continue to keep you for giving us information.😊🙏
Perfection had a hold on me In my twenties.. It was more about hiding my internal cracks in my soul.. I realized people can still see the very thing you're trying to cover up. I had to look perfect from head to toe.. But my inside was trashed out by childhood trauma.. God healed me completely 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen!! We stand together and trust that the holy spirit will remove what is not meant for us. Removing all doubt, confusion and uncertainty. We pray for healing for the comments below and thank God for Pastor RC Blakes and peaceful sleep. Stay blessed Queens.
God bless you Preacher. Your message is always much needed and well received. I share every chance I get. I will keep you and your family in my prayers for years to come. Much love 👑 ❤️
The wisdom GOD has blessed you with is amazing. I can't thank you enough for sharing it with us Sir. Your teaching is a blessing to my life. This is much needed information. Eye opener wisdom.
I love what you do and how you do it. I don't see anything wrong with you shouting out to the people who donate to you and your ministry. Keep being you, Pastor, we love you.
This is the best talk I heard from you. It explains so much... I wish I heard this 10 years ago and save myself some suffering. I'm so done being a punching bag, thank you Pastor. And thank you, it touched me when you said we're good enough as God created us. I've heard this before, but somehow this time I really believed it.
You are a strong strong man . Thank you, for your love for womwn to be a Queen. You are so real and TRUE. Thank you ,soooooo much for caring. I 🙏 that meant you in person one day. I pray that you be part of my MASTERMIND CLASS FOR BROKEN DOLLS. BE BLESS MAN OF GOD
Excellent teaching! I'm a former perfectionist and people-pleaser. This defect, almost worshipped in my family, almost completely ruined my life. Of course, as always, I became everyone's scapegoat, victim of abuse and, sure, I met "that guy".... guy who broke my heart, too advantage of me and then rejected, abused and ridiculed me. Thank you Lord Jesus for showing me the truth.
You haven't even gotten into the understanding of what you're saying and I'm already crying I'm so sad to hear that because I feel that I feel every part of it thank you Pastor thank you for blessing us with your WORDS of wisdom
Thanks, Pas Blakes - this message is balm to my soul,your teaching is making a true difference in my life. Thanks to first Lady Lisa, for sharing you with us. May God raise you to higher heights of wisdom and love.
I had all three for as far back as I can remember. You have opened my eyes to so many things and my healing is certainly taking place and it's a beautiful journey. I praise God that he has used your ministry to bring such transformative information to me at this time. There is a season to everything under the sun. I am forever changed because if you. Thank you.
@Veronica Santoscoy- hello, queen, I'm sorry to hear you are struggling. Hold your head up high. Know you are getting better, wiser and more discerning and even more beautiful with age. Know you are like wine. You keep getting better. The only opinion of you that matters is yours. You are worthy!💕
Thank you & Lisa for this ministry I desperately needed these teachings @ 41 years of age I’m just not gonna accept anything less than what my savior already says I should have!
You are my angel 😭 this was so on point...the only person i talked about this with was God like earlier then I come across this video. Wow.. I just started my relationship with God and he is using you to speak to me! Im so grateful for you !!!!! 😭❤😊😊 I needed this talk I struggle with perfectionism when in fact i should be aiming for excellence ✔
God Bless. I can definitely say you helped changed my life by the grace of Almighty God. Thank you so much Pastor RC Blakes. Love you and Thank God for you. You touch and enlightening every broken part of me of things i never knew. I am healing every day with your blessed messages. 🤗🙏
Doing for others is what you can’t do for yourself. The need to satisfy others is the need and desire to be satisfied for yourself. All comes back to self worth, Yes, the wrong man will wear a woman out even if others think you have a great man who can provide financially. Self love and self worth is crucial for life. Anything else is not worth living and this is why so many are depressed.
Never had a loving father until I came to this channel. Been watching for 4 years now.
crushinsatan It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know that I was referring to an “EARTHLY” father. Furthermore, I’ve been walking with our “HEAVENLY” father for 46 years and I know that He walks with me and He talks with me and He tells me that I’m His own.
Find someone else to thump your bible on and to dissect. #beautyfromashes #survivorofchildhoodabuse
Same
🙌🏾
I feel the same sis
"People will continue to use you as long as you allow!" -RC Blakes Jr
Yes you teach people how to treat you!
@@memeaw76 it took me a long time to understand this! Better late than never! ❤🙏🏾
Exactly
Truth 🙏🏾
When a man love you unconditionally he will find no fault in you
Amen
I have always strived for “flawlessness or perfection”. Always there for everyone. I am now taking time for me...with all my flaws...and imperfections. Because to me...I am perfect. I am beautiful...I love myself. I may miss many that were important to me but as long as I love and respect myself...and listen to my higher power I am complete. Praise GOD...
Same here!
Amen sister
I am saying no, No more being used, Thank you God for using Pastor Blakes
1.Perfectionism
2.Expectation Management
3. Self Condemnation
Thank you!
Thank you
You are spot on pastor. Postpartum depression is the result of not having individuals (your man) to speak life into you and build up your self esteem after having precious new life.
you’re dropping gem after gem
Edit:
I'm almost in tears because I have allll 3 psychological defects of broken consciousness..
**Perfectionism
**Expectation Management
**Self Condemnation
Everything you said about women who have these defects I do. Society didn't break my consciousness, my biological mother's family did. I'm better than I used to be, but I still stress about being perfect. Thankfully, I ordered Queenology and The Father Daughter Talk books a while ago. I just ordered 3 additional copies of both, and my 3 daughters and I are going to read them both together when they finish school. I dont want them to whind up like me. Thank you for this word.
So do I 😥
@@cassandrawilliams829 It's time for us to heal, learn and grow 🙏🏽❤.
I agree my sister . Thanks for the encouragement 👍
@@cassandrawilliams829 You're welcome 💛
You're changing the world by doing those things! Butterfly effect!
Tony gaskins even said it took him 2 years to fully fall in love with wife after they got married. He didn’t mean he didn’t care and wouldn’t just treat her like she was nothing, it’s just for a man hard to get him to open up all the way until he fully trust you. You have to let a man get to know your mind and who you are. Both RC and Tony have been helping me with dating and helping me realize my inner queen. Even when I get married I’m going to abstain for 6 months just so that it gives us more time to know each other and fall in love
Laci Davis Even after you get married you will abstain?
M Jones yeah my friend her sister after she got married abstained for 1 year. I just think maybe for an extra 6 months while married get to know each other on this new level, but of course things happen. That’s just what I want to try
my sister abstinence is not advisable in marriage, even the Bible says you are not to keep yourself from being with your husband or wife without agreement unless if the devil tempts you, you will invite bad things into your marriage even if he doesn't cheat on you he may resort to porn or masturbation. Maybe Tony Gaskins was not saved when he met his wife, maybe they were having sex hence he didn't respect her ~1 Corinthians7:5
Building intimacy is important the most stable couples don't have sex all the time. Good for you not making sex an idol.
You went directly to the root of many of my problems. I’ve always been kinder to others rather to myself. Sometimes I’m very perfectionist with me and patient with others. I think that what I’ve been teached at church and by my father has a lot to do with that. You end up feeling you are never good enough. I still remember some verses because they are engraved to my mind like “Be perfect as your father who is in heaven is perfect” Mathew 5:48. At this age I’m a bit better, trying to love me more exactly as I am and focus on all the gifts that God has given to me
I just bought your book Queenology on Kindle. Nothing more powerful than a changed mind. Thank you, Pastor. Thanks for being a substitute for the resource that was absent in my life.
Didn't think this message was for me but as you got into it Pastor, I realized through you God is trying to tell me something! My youngest son informed me last yr that he sees me as a unfit mother and no good grandmother! He is 34 and I'm 70! I had friends n family say " What did you do wrong? I had been feeling guilty sometimes because this hurt me more than words can say! But you what Pastor! I taught my children. Once you do the best you can, there is no reason to feel guilty about anything. Thanks to God and your videos. Im taking my own advice! Thank you.
@Rosita Young I am sorry to hear this and my heart goes out to you. I'm dealing with the same thing from my 17 y.o. son who's been mentally poisoned by his narcissist father. It's tough and heartbreaking but we must continue to trust in God. He truly knows our heart.💕
One of the most powerful messages for women in this hour.
Yes I wish I had Dad like him real talk
The understanding Dad you never had...smh....GOD BLESS THIS MAN...IM 30 YEARS OLD AND LEARNING THINGS I SHOULD HAVE BEEN THOUGHT WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER TO PREVENT ALL THE DAMAGES.🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 NEVER TO LATE TO LEARN.
It's okay, he can be your Spiritual Dad. Thats what i call him.😊
My spiritual dad 🥰 and his words that heal....
My entire life would have been different. Smh. Hope men are soaking this in. A role of a father is important.
Same
Another excellent lecture...I love the steps, #1, 2, etc. I need to start making notes ;).Not only a broken consciousness but a broken soul/ spirit. People pleasing gets you nowhere. In mid-forties, my ex husband did this, ex fiances, my own father, colleagues, bosses, supposed friends, I could go on and on...be careful ladies. To be myself, I do first then tell later so others don't discourage but could still do better with 'celebrating me.' My self-quaranteen happened long before this virus. It happened due to the 'people' virus of selfishness based on conditions. Until I find good folk, I remain solo with my loving animals who give unconditionally to my spirit. Prayers to RC and all of us. Living in difficult times.
Pastor Blakes I feel like this entire message was meant for me. Moved me to tears at work and opened my eyes. God is using you for wonderful things! Thank you 🙏❤️
8 minutes in and I have tears in my eyes as he is telling me I'm good enough as I am as God has made me😭 This that he is describing I have some of in me I had a man tell me that he could see my insecurities like I was wearing them on the outside
I’m not Christian ✝️ but I love your Channel and I Thank you for all of your light and what you do for the community to lift us up as the King Father you are 🙏🏾 #1Love
Your statement is so powerful. Thank you for being so transparent.
Please pray for me and this broken consciousness I’m trying to over come.
Hug
You always have a beautiful way with words, thank you for valuing women so much.
I pray that all women who had to learn by trial and error come across this FATHER that I never had! He is a blessing to my life!!
I'm listening to you and Tony Gaskins from France. I've been doing it since December. Both of you have helped me to start my healing process, thanks to your books and courses. Both of you were sent by God to help women. It is high time to stop all that suffering. Many thanks to you. I'm going to pray for you and the first lady, so that God keeps you alive and in good health. Be blessed!
I truly believe that most individuals are struggling with broken consciousnesses. As a mental health professional I teach daily. Shannon
Is this akin to soul loss and then eventual soul retrieval? I ask because this seems to be the path The Lord has for me?
I just can't express how much I love and am grateful for this man! I gave up on the church because of the hypocrisy and false, surface teaching. I would gladly attend this church if I lived near!!! Blakes is a real pastor, one who truly cares, speaks truth and uses the Bible effectively. I, like others, wonder what heights I could have reached in my life if I had had a father like Bishop Blakes. This teaching is so necessary, there are many broken souls in need of it, I certainly am one!
I'm so blessed by your ministry. I don't know how I would've coped if I hadn't found your channel.
The postpartum depression comment.... your very right. My gyno told me she believed my PPD was “environmental” I moved out immediately and separated from my husband and guess what. That weight was lifted off my shoulders and I started to slowly feel better. Please keep preaching and spreading the good word Pastor! You have taught me so much!
Listening to you Pastor has given me the courage to stop repeating the generational curse of the spirit of perfection. Such anxiety going shopping with my mom who can be critical and obsessive over clothing and hair in every place.
I’m not passing this on to my daughters, Holy Spirit please be with me as i work through this. May i be more conscious of my words and what i’m modeling for them.
Pastor Blakes, I hear you loud and clear with appreciation. I embody, at least a couple of the characteristics mentioned. I believe this is due to the fact that I have had to balance two cultures as if I lived between two worlds. I was born to traditional Nigerian parents but raised in the US (came here when I was less than a 1yr). The expectations of my parents were so high when it came to every aspect of my being. The outcome is what you have discussed. I too have high expectations but somewhere along the lines they seem to have diminished in order to accommodate. I am believing God has a plan for me. "Nothing changes if nothing changes".
Seem? Or is it a real change from within.
This is for me,I pray one day to fix me,I have been with men,that have asked for disrespectful sexual acts to turn around and still get dumped, I don't move how to cut men off,like I no it's no good, but I still hang on,until it's almost makes me scared,that I don't make it work,I got used a lot.
I’ve done all these things. Thank you Pastor giving us your wisdom. You are saving lives.
It is a sad cycle of damage for our young men and women. I ,myself, have struggled with fighting the demons of societal norms. Thank you for this message.
RC Blake's, thank you for thee book Queenology, I cried so much in the Introduction and the first chapter...I feel I am a new woman after reading this book. I purchased all your books in Amazon, all of them! I have a teenager who enjoys reading , I am a single mother and these books are my tools to be a queen and for my daughter to be a queen. God gave you a purposed to woman like me who never had a father in their lives, thank you Blake's, muchisimas gracias
Thank you for opening our eyes natural and mental issues, many will never address! Blessings to you and your wife!
ABSOLUTELY, women develop depression because the men they are with do not know how to pour into them. Saw this in my family and with other women I encountered. Glad I had the wisdom to see this early, it saved me.
Pastor, you described my life long struggle. Thank you for revealing what I need to see and understand
Hi pastor Rc blakes my name is carolyn and iam from Kenya.iv just started to listen to the videos and my life has changed forever.i was going for wrong relationships bcz i was broken i thank God for you bcz i have learnt a lot .God bless you man of God.thank you.
You are the kindest man on the planet
"Put demands on him", I would really like someone to show me how to ask for these things in the right way. I learned at an early age that no one would help me and I should do everything myself, so I don't know how to ask for things and receive them. Thank you for your wise words which are lifting me up.
Omggg this is me. I struggled with it
Bishop you have more wisdom than most people's full set of hair.
“No.” is a complete sentence - we often forget we don’t owe others an explanation & people are never satisfied
11:20 wow! Getting better every day because of this solid truth and advice! Thank you so much Pastor! ♡♡♡
I missed this live Pastor Blake. Finally, someone is speaking on the real issue of broken women...we do exist...we do need help...we cry, with no hearing....help.
Preach! I love you for Fathering us women without strong Father figures! God bless you tremendously!
1. A woman develops a spirit of perfectionism; 2. Expectation management; 3. Self-condemnation.
Thank you for your belief in women as God’s special being.
You had me in tears.
I really appreciate you, Pastor, and your bluntness twined with love. GOD Bless YOU!!!
This man/father/pastor is full of wisdom, one thing I can say is I may not know the full value of how God sees me but by golly I know Im valuable to me, my customers and God!
The title caught my attention, but the content kept it! My God, My God! I can't tell you how much you helped me, but I now know that I will never be the same again. Keep teaching, and I'll keep praying that God will continue to use you to deliver us from wrong thinking! God bless you 🙏🏾
So glad God is about to work on the brothas. We women can be taught all day long how to be queens but we need some kings to look forward too after the lessons are learned.
Where were you 40 years ago? but I'll start from here,Thank God for letting you flow! put it on em!!
We don't come here for 10min of teaching.. heck.. 2hrs is still good.. Never concern your brain about the length of your teachings.. Learning something GOOD takes times... Thank you for being real.
I agree. And what the hell is the playback speed button for? Hmph
I realized that I had been in broken consciousness for so long due to being raised with a toxic parent that is not til you wake up and see that it was all an illusion. Reparenting has to take place in consciousness thru the power of the Lord. Thank you pastor may God continue to keep you for giving us information.😊🙏
Gerri bonilla Same here... Toxic parents. They had nothing positive to deposit in me, only negative words and behaviors.
Perfection had a hold on me
In my twenties.. It was more about hiding my internal cracks in my soul.. I realized people can still see the very thing you're trying to cover up. I had to look perfect from head to toe.. But my inside was trashed out by childhood trauma..
God healed me completely
🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen!! We stand together and trust that the holy spirit will remove what is not meant for us. Removing all doubt, confusion and uncertainty. We pray for healing for the comments below and thank God for Pastor RC Blakes and peaceful sleep. Stay blessed Queens.
Thank you! God Bless you for your beautiful heart ❣❤️❤️❤️
I'm from Kenya. Thanks so much,your teaching is a blessing
Thank you, this was for me.. Hallelujah to the Lamb..
God bless you Preacher. Your message is always much needed and well received. I share every chance I get. I will keep you and your family in my prayers for years to come. Much love 👑 ❤️
The wisdom GOD has blessed you with is amazing. I can't thank you enough for sharing it with us Sir. Your teaching is a blessing to my life. This is much needed information. Eye opener wisdom.
My mother and grandmother told me that "u betta give him some or someone else will" smh🥴☹🙁😕
I love what you do and how you do it. I don't see anything wrong with you shouting out to the people who donate to you and your ministry. Keep being you, Pastor, we love you.
Pastor keeps it 100 all the time. Love him and Miss Lisa and Mother Blakes ❤
The protection of the Holy Spirit Interceed for me!!!! Soo Thankful to God for His Goodness and Mercies!!!
Maaaan this right here is for EVERY woman to hear. Nothing but truth. WAKE UP LADIES. Im waking up to this message. Great message Mr. Blakes
Wow. That makes a lot of sense. I was dogged before and after gicing birth...
I am just glad that I am learning this. Goodness ♥️
Thank you Sir for this message. It's so LIBERATING
This is the best talk I heard from you. It explains so much... I wish I heard this 10 years ago and save myself some suffering. I'm so done being a punching bag, thank you Pastor.
And thank you, it touched me when you said we're good enough as God created us. I've heard this before, but somehow this time I really believed it.
I feel so blessed to have found your videos 2 weeks ago. I am 56 and knew better.
You are a strong strong man . Thank you, for your love for womwn to be a Queen. You are so real and TRUE. Thank you ,soooooo much for caring. I 🙏 that meant you in person one day. I pray that you be part of my MASTERMIND CLASS FOR BROKEN DOLLS. BE BLESS MAN OF GOD
Give an inch and they expect a mile!!! Amen Pastor! Thank you for this message!🙏🏾♥️
We are moving to Houston in August- I already know where our church home will be. If the Lord says the same.
Thank you for your wisdom. God bless you.
Excellent teaching! I'm a former perfectionist and people-pleaser. This defect, almost worshipped in my family, almost completely ruined my life. Of course, as always, I became everyone's scapegoat, victim of abuse and, sure, I met "that guy".... guy who broke my heart, too advantage of me and then rejected, abused and ridiculed me. Thank you Lord Jesus for showing me the truth.
You haven't even gotten into the understanding of what you're saying and I'm already crying I'm so sad to hear that because I feel that I feel every part of it thank you Pastor thank you for blessing us with your WORDS of wisdom
Thanks, Pas Blakes - this message is balm to my soul,your teaching is making a true difference in my life. Thanks to first Lady Lisa, for sharing you with us. May God raise you to higher heights of wisdom and love.
Thank you Pastor. I had no idea I needed this talk. HALLELUJAH, thank you JESUS!
I had all three for as far back as I can remember. You have opened my eyes to so many things and my healing is certainly taking place and it's a beautiful journey. I praise God that he has used your ministry to bring such transformative information to me at this time. There is a season to everything under the sun. I am forever changed because if you. Thank you.
Wow I’m struggling with my looks getting older will do that.
@Veronica Santoscoy- hello, queen, I'm sorry to hear you are struggling. Hold your head up high. Know you are getting better, wiser and more discerning and even more beautiful with age. Know you are like wine. You keep getting better. The only opinion of you that matters is yours. You are worthy!💕
Donnetta Davis Thank you sweet beautiful Queen 🌹🙏🏽✝️❤️
You're beautiful 😊
Thank you & Lisa for this ministry I desperately needed these teachings @ 41 years of age I’m just not gonna accept anything less than what my savior already says I should have!
I Love the positivity. Thank you for this real true messasge.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS MESSAGE, I HAVE NEEDED THIS TEACHING ALL MY LIFE YOU HAVE GIVEN ME SUCH A FREEDOM AFTER SO MANY YEARS OF ABUSE
I'm not always gonna hit the mark. I love that and I will remember this forever .Words of wisdom.
There is now no condemnation to them that are in Christ Jesus.
AMEN🥰👏🙌
Thank you for being here for us.
This message was for ME!! #1 hit HOME. You are God-sent Pastor Blakes!!
Thank you i needed to hear this to help me get a good night sleep. 💓💓
Thanks my spiritual dad... ❤️ Blessings... I'm getting better by the day...🙏🏽
I'm truly truly grateful for finding RC Blake and his word on what needs to be said !!
Late to the party but boy does this speak to me!! Thank you for your father daughter talks they are much needed
You are my angel 😭 this was so on point...the only person i talked about this with was God like earlier then I come across this video. Wow.. I just started my relationship with God and he is using you to speak to me! Im so grateful for you !!!!! 😭❤😊😊 I needed this talk I struggle with perfectionism when in fact i should be aiming for excellence ✔
I'm love listening from newzealand
I don't think people appreciate how much gold, silver and rubies are in this video. Pastor Blakes is getting to the soul of a woman. ❤
IT's so powerful to hear you say that God put you on the planet to help women's consciousness.
All of your teachings have been such a blessing to me. Thank you for your wisdom, insight and knowledge.
God Bless. I can definitely say you helped changed my life by the grace of Almighty God. Thank you so much Pastor RC Blakes. Love you and Thank God for you. You touch and enlightening every broken part of me of things i never knew. I am healing every day with your blessed messages. 🤗🙏
Thanks Pastor Blakes. You and Lisa are such a gift to the Kingdom of God.
The world breaks everybody which is why it’s called kingdom of the prince in the power of the air
Doing for others is what you can’t do for yourself. The need to satisfy others is the need and desire to be satisfied for yourself. All comes back to self worth, Yes, the wrong man will wear a woman out even if others think you have a great man who can provide financially. Self love and self worth is crucial for life. Anything else is not worth living and this is why so many are depressed.
Your words provide daily nuture
Thank you sir Blake's you always say your not gonna be long and you talk with us for a hour lol. Love that love you.