I hate it 😭 honestly I've been laughing so much at vlad ncl's videos because those creeps get payback 🤣🤣🤣 and guys actual get to see what we go through
It's so disgusting and disrespectful... Happened to me a lot when I lived in a different country for two years which made it even worse because I didn't feel at home there to begin with...
I’m 12 and one time I was wearing a skirt (with tights underneath mind you) in the city while I was on my way to the theatre cause I was acting in a play there with my theatre group and while I was walking towards the theatre I saw like sm dudes giving me weird looks 😭
I was having dinner in a restaurant with my husband. I was wearing a beautiful skater dress, to the knee (so nothing too sexy). I went out to smoke, I had a guy bothering me! I told him hubby was inside, he replied "oh I’m not jealous!" Disgusting!!! 🤢
I don’t think it matters what you believe here. Only the words on a paper may be read as a compliment, but saying those words in that tone, with that body language etc turns them into harassment. Stop playing devil‘s advocate and let this woman tell you that she was harassed. No „um, aCtuALly…“
@@lilalizzard the first sentence isn’t needed, show some respect. Secondly, when it’s someone you like that does so it’s flirting and compliment but when someone not that good looking does it it’s gross?? That’s the actual truth about harassment
@@NotYourRemy No, that is not the actual truth about harassment. Yes, it’s not harassment when you’re flirting with somebody when it’s WANTED. Like, that’s the whole point. Unwanted = harassment. I do not think that you get to define what harassment is. Certainly, one can argue about pretty privilege in society but not under a video of a woman sharing her personal harassment experiences, there’s no correlation. I still stand by my first sentence. You weren’t there, you cannot know and interpret. You can only know her experience as she‘s telling it to you. Why dismiss it?
@@lilalizzard you said I wasn’t there, so was you? And how come I don’t get to express my point of view? I reckon it’s best we end our argument here because you’re just trying to prove your correctness but in an arrogant manner
As a man, there was no mal intend, you obviously dont need to engage but just so you know both were probably cringing about that interaction as much as you were cringing about them.
As a man it doesn't take much thought to see why she felt unsafe by some guy standing in her way telling her she looks pretty. WTF did he think how that would work out? If you want to hit on a girl don't corner her like a prey animal.
@@lnplum Sure, im not defending him, im just giving perspective. In this gen there are more socially awk guys than ever, its more healthy for everyone to know that he prob was awk and stupid instead of creepy and pervy.
I hate it 😭 honestly I've been laughing so much at vlad ncl's videos because those creeps get payback 🤣🤣🤣 and guys actual get to see what we go through
Girl that sound horrible😭 hopefully one day men will be taught just how weird it is to stare at people like that
Try oil based cleanser especially for cleaning make up. It melts it right off.
It's so disgusting and disrespectful...
Happened to me a lot when I lived in a different country for two years which made it even worse because I didn't feel at home there to begin with...
I’m 12 and one time I was wearing a skirt (with tights underneath mind you) in the city while I was on my way to the theatre cause I was acting in a play there with my theatre group and while I was walking towards the theatre I saw like sm dudes giving me weird looks 😭
I'm sorry this happened to you. It's disgusting.
I was having dinner in a restaurant with my husband. I was wearing a beautiful skater dress, to the knee (so nothing too sexy). I went out to smoke, I had a guy bothering me! I told him hubby was inside, he replied "oh I’m not jealous!" Disgusting!!! 🤢
Oh I am so sorry girl, it is disgusting 😩
As a man, I get it when you feel harassed and they continue to do so, but I believe they were just complimenting you
Cool! Next time use the learned experience and don't block our way to give us creepy "compliments" because we don't want them jackass
I don’t think it matters what you believe here. Only the words on a paper may be read as a compliment, but saying those words in that tone, with that body language etc turns them into harassment. Stop playing devil‘s advocate and let this woman tell you that she was harassed. No „um, aCtuALly…“
@@lilalizzard the first sentence isn’t needed, show some respect. Secondly, when it’s someone you like that does so it’s flirting and compliment but when someone not that good looking does it it’s gross?? That’s the actual truth about harassment
@@NotYourRemy No, that is not the actual truth about harassment. Yes, it’s not harassment when you’re flirting with somebody when it’s WANTED. Like, that’s the whole point. Unwanted = harassment. I do not think that you get to define what harassment is.
Certainly, one can argue about pretty privilege in society but not under a video of a woman sharing her personal harassment experiences, there’s no correlation.
I still stand by my first sentence. You weren’t there, you cannot know and interpret. You can only know her experience as she‘s telling it to you. Why dismiss it?
@@lilalizzard you said I wasn’t there, so was you? And how come I don’t get to express my point of view? I reckon it’s best we end our argument here because you’re just trying to prove your correctness but in an arrogant manner
As a man, there was no mal intend, you obviously dont need to engage but just so you know both were probably cringing about that interaction as much as you were cringing about them.
As a man it doesn't take much thought to see why she felt unsafe by some guy standing in her way telling her she looks pretty. WTF did he think how that would work out? If you want to hit on a girl don't corner her like a prey animal.
@@lnplum Sure, im not defending him, im just giving perspective. In this gen there are more socially awk guys than ever, its more healthy for everyone to know that he prob was awk and stupid instead of creepy and pervy.