Actor and author Matthew Perry: On his addiction journey

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  • Опубликовано: 14 ноя 2022
  • Elizabeth Vargas sits down with actor Matthew Perry for an emotional conversation recorded during his book tour for his bestselling book, “Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing.” Matthew shares an incredibly honest, inside look at his decades-long struggle with an alcohol and substance use disorder. Despite his wildly successful career, things were not as perfect for Matthew as they appeared: he has been to 14 treatment centers, 65 detox centers, has spent over $9 million on his recovery and admitted that at one point he had a 2% chance of living.
    Join Matthew and Elizabeth for the season three finale of “Heart of the Matter,” as they discuss his addiction journey, how his “Friends” co-stars supported him during his darkest days and what advice he’d give to those with addiction.
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    Actor and author Matthew Perry: On his addiction journey | Partnership to End Addiction

Комментарии • 66

  • @LweissTTU
    @LweissTTU 7 месяцев назад +87

    I find it so tragic that a man, who worked so hard to stay sober, and helped so many people by sharing his struggle, died yesterday. Condolences to his family, friends, and fans around the globe

  • @kathleenl.7125
    @kathleenl.7125 Год назад +44

    I didn't appreciate what a great actor Perry is until I read his book. To be able to perform as he did while suffering so much is amazing.

  • @mer369
    @mer369 6 месяцев назад +16

    Listening to this after he passed away. So sad when they talk about how he’ll now be able to flourish and he just didn’t get enough time 😞

  • @karenpower1643
    @karenpower1643 Год назад +25

    It's very interesting to hear two recovering alcoholics discuss their disease

  • @todiann27
    @todiann27 Год назад +42

    Just finished the book. I'm awestruck at his survival from this terrible disease. I wish him the best, and to let him know so many of us are so proud of him.

  • @lorraineb.4698
    @lorraineb.4698 7 месяцев назад +10

    So sorry and sad he is gone.

  • @chrisyore3233
    @chrisyore3233 11 месяцев назад +26

    I have 36 years in my program and when I LISTEN to recovering people my connection with the person speaking is as deep as their truthfulness and I feel you are my brother. Live your new life well …God Bless

  • @FatimaSorianoOfficial
    @FatimaSorianoOfficial Год назад +46

    So grateful that this conversation got recorded. Keep it up, Matthew! We are inspired by you. You have our love, support, and prayers with you!

  • @rburns9248
    @rburns9248 7 месяцев назад +12

    It made me sad after he said, "My life is going to flourish" when he was asked, 'whats next? RIP Matthew. God had another plan.

    • @christinecolborne7939
      @christinecolborne7939 7 месяцев назад +3

      That was sad.. not fair he didn't get to flourish for long. And finish his projects and continue helping people

    • @luciabitonte8276
      @luciabitonte8276 6 месяцев назад +1

      Già...purtroppo

    • @luciabitonte8276
      @luciabitonte8276 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@christinecolborne7939D'accordo con te...che rabbia

  • @sharonrockwell-ruffin3575
    @sharonrockwell-ruffin3575 7 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you Elizabeth and Matthew Perry… RIP Matthew ❤

  • @annap1191
    @annap1191 Год назад +15

    Writing about traumatic experiences is great therapy

  • @christinestudley3982
    @christinestudley3982 7 месяцев назад +9

    Great job Elizabeth, been there myself RIP Matthew ❤️

  • @susanstranahan21
    @susanstranahan21 Год назад +22

    So proud of my favorite "friend". My daughter is 2.5 years clean so I've seen the struggle first hand. Keep up the good work Matthew.

    • @gregpalumbo2503
      @gregpalumbo2503 Год назад +3

      Susan - Godspeed to perfect health and sobriety for your Daughter.

  • @hollygill1839
    @hollygill1839 Год назад +14

    Never give up.

  • @lorraineb.4698
    @lorraineb.4698 7 месяцев назад +7

    Great interview!❤ RIP Matthew.

  • @noneofurbusiness5223
    @noneofurbusiness5223 Год назад +10

    As a compulsive over eater some of us read the Big Book. Another book that was very helpful when I had a lot of anxiety about the future was CAME TO BELIEVE.

    • @dtschuor459
      @dtschuor459 6 месяцев назад +2

      I really feel for those with food addiction/compulsive eating.
      As a person in recovery, I can make it through a bad day as long as I don’t use.
      Food, though? Now you have to learn to actually control the substance of your choice…I mean, you can’t just quit your relationship with the need for food.
      Much love to you and your continued success. 💜☮️

  • @bettinadanielsen6348
    @bettinadanielsen6348 6 месяцев назад +7

    What a remarkable person he was.

  • @josephgrumet
    @josephgrumet Год назад +14

    I noticed as a young man watching friends he was in trouble by his appearance thank god He was given another chance at life because 1 he’s a good guy
    2 he’s talented and funny
    3 he’s honest
    4 he’s a real hard core addict and the money and fame should could have killed him quicker as it has! So so so many good people! Also the lack of quality critical care for the ones who can’t afford it often go through it in a jail cell or a subpar facility with best intentions! Very complicated stuff for complicated people making it the ultimate challenge to survive

  • @GenerationXChick
    @GenerationXChick 7 месяцев назад +10

    RIP

  • @philc4520
    @philc4520 Год назад +25

    It is life & death literally. My experience too as an alcoholic. In recovery now for nearly 10 years sober.
    Alcohol is the symptomatic medication.
    The root or underlying cause is a dysfunctional psychosis of the personality. It is complex & deep rooted in the subconscious psyche.

    • @josephgrumet
      @josephgrumet Год назад +4

      Congratulations 1 day at a time friend! You inspire me

    • @gregpalumbo2503
      @gregpalumbo2503 Год назад +3

      - it really is the symptomatic poison...

  • @Wildrover82
    @Wildrover82 7 месяцев назад +13

    Poor guy. Life's a bitch. R.I.P.

  • @natlyfranks6856
    @natlyfranks6856 Год назад +4

    THANK YOU
    THANK YOU
    THANK YOU
    I AM NOT A THREE HEADED MONSTER, I AM ADDICTED.

  • @002lisamarie
    @002lisamarie 5 месяцев назад +1

    Love you Matthew xx

  • @LoveWinsMovement
    @LoveWinsMovement Год назад +8

    Don't give up !!!

  • @sbeck2639
    @sbeck2639 Год назад +3

    My favorite friend!

  • @MS-bs8dd
    @MS-bs8dd Год назад +5

    ❤ really appreciated

  • @paprgl
    @paprgl Год назад +8

    Sad the audio is so terrible.

  • @truthheals6790
    @truthheals6790 Год назад +7

    "Step 11....." Anonymous: -
    To us, however, it represents far more than a sound public relations policy. It is more than a denial of self-seeking. This Tradition is a constant and practical reminder that personal ambition has no place in A.A. In it, each member becomes an active guardian of our Fellowship.

  • @waldosgrade
    @waldosgrade Год назад +2

    Matthew - I hope you channel your talents into some good acting gigs. Happy Holidays§!

  • @ImaCatMaia
    @ImaCatMaia Год назад +40

    I wish the elephant in the room was talked about - we'll never end addiction without universal healthcare. Never. Even with a corporatized health system we don't even have enough beds...and the addicts who can't afford the available beds that are emptied and filled the same day - they're not even an afterthought for most of these treatment facilities.

    • @noneofurbusiness5223
      @noneofurbusiness5223 Год назад +10

      I don't disagree about need for universal health care. But there are alcoholics in countries w/universal health care.

    • @kochaos6129
      @kochaos6129 Год назад +3

      You shouldn't generally hear recovering addicts talk about what is lacking in the system. That conversation is hugely important, but it is for another forum because it is irrelevant and counter-productive to the addict's mission--to find ways to help people TODAY with the tools available.

    • @hlowrylong
      @hlowrylong Год назад

      This is garbage.
      Free healthcare will lead to scarcity, it always does. Besides we have quasi-govt controlled healthcare in the US, and it is a failure.

    • @mrfake675
      @mrfake675 Год назад +7

      It's bigger then that. It's both a medical and spiritual problem.

    • @lochnessmunster1189
      @lochnessmunster1189 8 месяцев назад +5

      Here in the UK, we have "universal healthcare" (it isn't really, because the care varies enormously from hospital to hospital) and it isn't very good at ending addiction. You only need to look at cities like Glasgow to see this.

  • @robertheymann5906
    @robertheymann5906 Год назад +3

    Well said brother

  • @smarinelli19
    @smarinelli19 6 месяцев назад +1

    💔 RIP

  • @mahrokhzargari5265
    @mahrokhzargari5265 7 месяцев назад +3

    😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

  • @susan-7865
    @susan-7865 8 месяцев назад

    Interesting. When I wrote my YA novel "Virgin" on my phone a year ago. I thought it would be faster too. Turned out, it didn't work it was a mess.

  • @gerlinderosensteiner8250
    @gerlinderosensteiner8250 Год назад +5

    What's the laughs about??

  • @susan-7865
    @susan-7865 8 месяцев назад +1

    Did almost the same thing

  • @jayceewriter7826
    @jayceewriter7826 Год назад +21

    Could he BE any sober?!?! Good luck w it, we need your humor.

  • @aleksik4028
    @aleksik4028 7 месяцев назад +2

    Its nice that audience have such a good time on this topic.... ha ha haaa

  • @richiekock8835
    @richiekock8835 7 месяцев назад +1

    My social drinking exceeds 25 years and I always stayed in the 1st phase: magic!!, with the occasional puking once every other year or so :)

    • @crocusgal3950
      @crocusgal3950 6 месяцев назад

      What is social drinking for you? And what happens once a year when you puke? I mean what’s that context? Just saying not all people with potential problems with alcohol are noticeable drunks.

    • @johnkeir4139
      @johnkeir4139 5 месяцев назад

      Hope you are a medic? You drink normally like the rest of us ..?wait until there are to many
      Things that happen to you . As a nurse my heart breaks for many people WHO USED TO
      DRINK NORMALLY . HUMILITY is a place to start your education. Margaret

  • @emjo3669
    @emjo3669 7 месяцев назад +1

    🤍

  • @Sourpusscandy
    @Sourpusscandy Месяц назад

    And then the shot did him in.

  • @My2CentsYall
    @My2CentsYall 4 месяца назад

    @My2CentsYall
    1 year ago (edited)
    I know how to respond to this interview. Matthew Perry is in NO SHAPE to help anyone with addiction right now NONE. He needs all the HE can get. Counsellor are hard to come by because they have had YEARS of stability even when they screw up they are right back to the meetings. MY point is its LONG CONSISTENCY and Matthew does not have it. He is very inconsistent on and off short period of relapse. My advice do not take any advice from him. His track record is not so good and NOR does she ask him about it either.
    He never attended NA or AA. He was never serious about treatment. As I said i doubt the man had a year off substances his adult life. You need to attend support group a majority of people cant make it without one.

  • @kevinbirmingham8629
    @kevinbirmingham8629 Год назад +4

    Just.....don't do....drugs....it's not that complicated. Seriously?!

    • @paulabillanes5084
      @paulabillanes5084 6 месяцев назад +2

      It's not that simple.

    • @crocusgal3950
      @crocusgal3950 6 месяцев назад +2

      A person who does not have the disease might have an inability to understand why making that choice not to use is so difficult. Just don’t let yourself become blind to the truth that addicts are telling

  • @ckotcher1
    @ckotcher1 5 месяцев назад

    Dear Matt, i’m at my lowest ebb. 😢 i’m sorry your gone 💔😞 But i’m glad your demons are at rest ❤️‍🩹🙏🏼. Thank you for sharing your gifts, your sense of humor, but most of all, your pain. Thank you for NOT doing what “nurse f_ckface” , the cold Dr’s, the so called “know it all’s” did which is patronize. I can hear the compassion in your words. Thank you for your honesty and not to sugar coat or omit like so many other celebrity “authors and ‘addicts’” I said“ because it takes one to no one and mostly what I hear from so many of these memoirs are unrelatable and just an easy cash grab. I wish I could’ve known you RIP friend.