imagine being the quietest kid in the class and you suddenly walk up to the friendliest guy out of everyone else (who is surrounded by his friends 24/7) and just start talking i just dont know how to approach him and talk to him 😭
What she's saying is true, because every time I am or at least appear to be more confident and carefree, people want to talk to me but whenever I'm "my usual self", the world just seems so dark and unwelcoming. It's crazy how our approach can change the entire trajectory of anything we do
I have random bursts of confidence sometimes so there have been times where I see someone and say out loud “oh shit ur cute can I get ur number”…the confidence works lol
@@HollieClark-qh5cv bro ill be staring and he will look back at me and my mind is like "oh shit oh shit oh shit oh shit oh shit oh shit!!!!" and i look away.....
@@moraa2saltyyyes! If ur in like first yr of hskl or middle school and they say “but not rn” that’s good! That means that they know that those relationships don’t last long so when ur older it will most likely last longer!🤭
Just try speak to her and she will find you attractive . Ask her what she likes and whatever she says you say oh yeah I like that top and you two will be wayy more close, trust me bro it always works ❤️
my crush knows i like him and whenever we are together alone it gets so awkward cause no one says anything, both want to say something, and are looking at each other like say smt first and then we either leave and go to find some friends or wait until someone else comes to break the awkwardness😭😭😭
Me and him will just stare at eachother it’s funny and on Thursday it was raining rlly hard outside and I was behind him and the school day was over and I was rlly far and man just stood there holding the door for me even tho I was far while it was raining I said thank you and ran away cus I got shy I don’t even know what they said bk 😂😂😂😂
people can't talk to their crush anymore bro. like whenever some talks to someone they don't normally talk to they literally go "why tf u talkin to me."💀🤚🏽
I did this for 3 years and I told him… He said I’m the most annoying person he’s ever f***ing met 💀💀💀 story: Once in 5th (I’m in 9th now so that was a while ago) I had a crush on this boy we r gonna call him K, so in 5th grade we had to sit next to each other in class bc yk assined seats so we started talking and we liked a lot of the same things so we became like best friends ppl in class started to ship us and that’s when I developed a crush on him a year goes by and we are still really good friends another year now in 7th grade we entered middle school still like best friends we had 4 classes together one day i get paired up with him in science for a project and I told him that he is kinda hot and he said back to me, “you too”… I will continue at 17 likes
my crush makes trick shots with his bottle every day and when he gets it in I do a little clap and when he doesn’t get it in I giggle a bit. We had a conversation about how sentences with too much of the same word actually make sense
I talked to him about studies since we both LOVE maths and after like 7-8 months still the only thing we ever talk abt is studies like he'd come out of nowhere asking questions that are like out of the syllabus (but he's so cute doing that)
how do i start talking to him when i only have one class with him that no one talks in when i sit far away from him, and when he knows i like him? dude i would kms to even talk to him
As a guy, I prefer the woman to be the one who talks lmao, I don’t wanna be the talkative one because I don’t wanna come off as weird. Also, people love to talk, so I let the women talk so I could be more mysterious
my confidence is soo random rn. But i think im gonna go with the flow and become friends with him somehow even though hes surroundef by his friends 24/7 365 (wish me luck today)
Guys I need advice, so there’s this guys that I think is into me, I told him I had feelings for him and he said basically that he wants to wait until the summer to date anyone. He tells me all the time how beautiful smart cute ect that I am and sends 🥰😘😉 emojis in almost every text. He texts me nonstop every day. Sometimes I’ll rant on FaceTime and I’ll see him just staring at me smiling. We talk all the time about like he talked about how when he gets his license he’s gonna drive me around everywhere and how when we go to the same school next year he’s gonna walk me to all my classes and make sure I know people and help with my homework and all those things, also he sent me a pic of him shirtless and asked if I had any “hot pics” he also mentions that he talks to his friends abt me a lot but he shows him the worst pic he has of me
I don't think my crush will like me back like he looks so Happy around my friends but not me he only ignores me and he looks so happy around my friend Georjiena and felt jealous cause he never act the same if I go talk to him😞😞🙁
pov: you want to text your crush but you dont know how to bcuz your friend told him you like him but he isnt ready for a relationship but he thinks your pretty and nice so now its just kinda awkward 🥲
Is it just me or does anyone else also become like best friends after theyre over their crush?? Like everytime i got over a crush, i literally became the bestest friends w them
Ngl I feel like most females are just nice like lmao when I go talk to guys they go like tf who are you💀💀 like relax… but anyway maybe it’s just a girl boy thing sorry
bro me and my crush both like eachother, and we stare at each other and stuff and a few weeks ago we held hands😆 but the thing is… we never talk 😂😭 i heard from my friend that my crush liked me and then all of this stuff just happened… i want to talk to him but either i’m always with my friends or hes always with his friends, so yeah it’s kinda awkward. and also, idk how to talk to him. all of my conversation starters i think of in my head sound dumb😭
So.. it’s basically already confirmed that you guys like each other? No way this should still be weird.. I’m the quiet girl in the class Ngl. He likes you already. Just a slight bit of confidence.
Girls have it WAY MORE easier to get together with someone than a Boy Like sure We get Nervous everyone does it’s natural But For women Usually a guy wants A girl not someone who is sassy or mean or horrible but someone who cares and accepts them and stuff like that Its way more easier for women cause Guaranteed the guy already likes u For us Men We have to struggle with saying things and making a speech and preparing and praying that we won’t get laughed at Its way more of a struggle cause for us We have EVERY SINGLE BAD THOUGHT POSSIBLE about us and what would happen and if we are good enough and are we big enough etc Just Sayin Girls have it way easier when it comes to getting somebody
Dang. I'm a girl and had no idea you guys felt that way. I sometimes feel like I'm not good enough for my crush, but seeing how guys are with their crushes makes me feel sympathetic. Maybe that's also why they say they aren't interested in having crushes, to avoid feeling like they'll be made fun of by a girl and trust me, some girls are absolute idiots
i mean not really 💀 it depends on like everyone’s personalities to be honest..like i have bad social anxiety and im quiet so every day is deathh dude 💀
I ALWAYS TALK TO HIM AND I DON'T THINK HE LIKES ME BACK I SOMETIMES STUTTER AND HE IS LIKE HOW R U SO GOOD AT ENGLISH BUT CAN'T EVEN FORM A PROPER SENTENCE BAHAHAHHA ANYWAYS SO
Hey! I really like this guy and I have for a year he is 13 and well i told him I liked him last year but he said he wasn’t ready but never said he liked me the only problem is im unpopular and he is popular what should i do to get him to like me i also have no classes with him
I've only spoke to this boy like one time and I got his number from his sister that I'm friends with and I told him I liked him this was two weeks ago and now we're talking🎉
For me my crush is like like rlly popular and one time I was working outside in the hall when he’s going to the bathroom my friends goes up to him and tells him I like him I’m just hiding in my class and my friends was pulling my arm but I was staying so still and after that he said he had a gf so now I have to ignore him keep 8n mind he’s friends with all of the boys from my grade
The problem is I only have an opportunity to talk to him once a month 😭😭 I see him once every week but can’t talk to him during that time and there’s occasionally hangouts where he’s there but there’s a lot of other people and he rarely ever comes 😔😔😔
I barely see my crush in person and I got to today and I was going to go up to him a start talking but his mom and my mom were right next to me and I KNEW my mom would say something if I went up to him and now I’m sad I didn’t talk to him😭😭😭😭
I like this guy from my youth group and I think he might like me too, I don’t know him to well, but we’ve talked a few times and know each other’s names, but I just don’t know what to talk about to start a conversation with him!😭😭
ok y'all. i need advice. so i like this really popular guy... we will call him tom. his best friend, let's call him mike, invited my friend group to have pre-party before cotillion with them with mike, tom, mikes twin brother (ima call him luke), and two other (call them bill and matt) my friend viv is exes with luke, so she knows all of the guys. she was originally going, but she just said she couldn't anymore. i really don't want it to be akward and don't know what to do if it is. i don't want it to ruin things with the guy i like or this friend group because if this turns out good then i will be relevant in high school. how do i make it not akward
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imagine being the quietest kid in the class and you suddenly walk up to the friendliest guy out of everyone else (who is surrounded by his friends 24/7) and just start talking i just dont know how to approach him and talk to him 😭
same . 😭😭
I’m scared of that and rejection
I’m legit the quiet kid 😭
Both of us are really quiet...
never have i ever been able to
pov: you were in the talking stage and then he got a gf and now he pretends he doesn't know you - 🧍♀️
Lol this just happened to me
@@Bella-ck8sh keep shooting shots
Me too, lol
He's dating a senior now and idk who I want more him or her
LOL that just happens to me with my ex and now we’re about to start dating AGAIN #i can’t get over my first love 🤷🏽♀️😭😂🤣🤣
Girls advice: they're never gonna know you stare at them
Boys advice: dude, see if they stare at you
Fr I hope my crush doesn’t watch advice for boys
@@Adri.1011 samee
Why is that so me😂
I agree
A lot of boys notice but then might get confused, thinking is it intentional or accidental
Her: ppl like confident, fun happy ppl
Me: shy, awkward and depressed 💀
What she's saying is true, because every time I am or at least appear to be more confident and carefree, people want to talk to me but whenever I'm "my usual self", the world just seems so dark and unwelcoming. It's crazy how our approach can change the entire trajectory of anything we do
Pov: you were finalllyyyy confident to talk
But he is absent in school 😐😐
Worst feeling 🤡
I have random bursts of confidence sometimes so there have been times where I see someone and say out loud “oh shit ur cute can I get ur number”…the confidence works lol
Lucky I could never😭😭😭
same
Yes, it does but it's hard sometimes to break out of that she'll after a while... I'm gradually considering it
my crush didn’t know i existed but now we r dating
Lucky 😂😭
Yea
How, what happened I don't even know what to chat with my crush
Chad
share ur secrets im begging
As a fellow boy, I can confirm that we absolutely notice if a girl is staring at us.
I might help me then why does my crush keep looking at me as soon as I look at him?😭
OH NO 😭 STOP IT. No wonder he keeps looking my way too 💀💀 IM SCARED
@@HollieClark-qh5cvSAME 😭 WHATTT
@@HollieClark-qh5cv bro ill be staring and he will look back at me and my mind is like "oh shit oh shit oh shit oh shit oh shit oh shit!!!!" and i look away.....
My crush confessed 💀💀💀
Lucky my crush knows i like him and said smt date her but not rn is that a good thing??
@@moraa2saltyyyes! If ur in like first yr of hskl or middle school and they say “but not rn” that’s good! That means that they know that those relationships don’t last long so when ur older it will most likely last longer!🤭
@@D1_haterrrr Happened to me. He ghosted me and then rejected me when I said I was ready a few months later and now I think he likes me again 💀💀💀💀
@@moraa2saltyynot rn 💀💀💀
@@A_Dinosaur_With_Muscles well if u made him wait a few months then that totally makes sense
Not me seeing this planning to do it the next day and not doing it but the next day he holds your hand☠️😭
I didn't expected that
WHAT IF I DONT HAVE A CLASS W/ HIM 😩
Man i don’t got a Class with him 😭
ONG!! 😭😭😭 we don’t even have mutual friends either like 💔💔💔
Fr. He was never in my class lmao
😭🥴
As a boy I'm so lucky I sit next to her in math , sit infront of her in English and still able to speak to her at recess 😩
When you picture how youre gonna perfectly ask them but your fear of rejection suddenly comes bursting in
When I want to say a word my mouth is automatically closing
literally me
Agghh i can’t she’s just too beautiful how do I do this
Just try speak to her and she will find you attractive . Ask her what she likes and whatever she says you say oh yeah I like that top and you two will be wayy more close, trust me bro it always works ❤️
my crush knows i like him and whenever we are together alone it gets so awkward cause no one says anything, both want to say something, and are looking at each other like say smt first and then we either leave and go to find some friends or wait until someone else comes to break the awkwardness😭😭😭
Me and him will just stare at eachother it’s funny and on Thursday it was raining rlly hard outside and I was behind him and the school day was over and I was rlly far and man just stood there holding the door for me even tho I was far while it was raining I said thank you and ran away cus I got shy I don’t even know what they said bk 😂😂😂😂
people can't talk to their crush anymore bro. like whenever some talks to someone they don't normally talk to they literally go "why tf u talkin to me."💀🤚🏽
fr like what happened i just wanna talk bro
man covid messed us all up
Thanks so much for the advice I’m going through a thing like this with a girl I like
He said my name today and I was flattered asf
I love her energy wow
Pov: you're a guy and wish this could happen to you
You got me
POV: U watched (your now gf) from afar for months and couldn't be happier 😁
Omg me and my crush sit next to each other
IN ALL FIVEEEE of your classes that we do
so right and so simple but sooooo right
I did this for 3 years and I told him…
He said I’m the most annoying person he’s ever f***ing met 💀💀💀
story:
Once in 5th (I’m in 9th now so that was a while ago) I had a crush on this boy we r gonna call him K, so in 5th grade we had to sit next to each other in class bc yk assined seats so we started talking and we liked a lot of the same things so we became like best friends ppl in class started to ship us and that’s when I developed a crush on him a year goes by and we are still really good friends another year now in 7th grade we entered middle school still like best friends we had 4 classes together one day i get paired up with him in science for a project and I told him that he is kinda hot and he said back to me, “you too”…
I will continue at 17 likes
Full story at 10 likes
Story
@@twenty25five oki
Storyyyy
the alpha male confidence 💪💪💪💪
Man, i gotta send this to my friend. Whe really needs this lol
my crush makes trick shots with his bottle every day and when he gets it in I do a little clap and when he doesn’t get it in I giggle a bit. We had a conversation about how sentences with too much of the same word actually make sense
Pov he calling me mommy jokingly and complimenting my eyes..(he is a kind boy+watches anime+is loyal):BUTTERFLIESSS
She is more excited then me 😂
Not me already seeing him staring at me
I talked to him about studies since we both LOVE maths and after like 7-8 months still the only thing we ever talk abt is studies like he'd come out of nowhere asking questions that are like out of the syllabus (but he's so cute doing that)
ur the first person I've ever met who likes math..., are you sure you mentally sane?
It’s just a person.
That’s scary
Ooo~ ty!
Nah people can’t recognise being confident …They recognise being desperate.
I don’t even look at them, how could I possibly talk to them?!
How do you even get into the texting phase?
how do i start talking to him when i only have one class with him that no one talks in when i sit far away from him, and when he knows i like him? dude i would kms to even talk to him
STOPS THATS LITTERALLY HAPPENING TO ME RN
BRO SAMEEE
Oooo I tend to make friends by having people we both hate and we talk about how awful they are
THANK YOU VERY MUCH IM DOING IT TODAY AT SCHOOL THANK YOUUUUUUUUU ❤❤
As a guy, I prefer the woman to be the one who talks lmao, I don’t wanna be the talkative one because I don’t wanna come off as weird. Also, people love to talk, so I let the women talk so I could be more mysterious
heres the thing:
idk why but im so chill around other dudes but to my crush I just cant talk to him 😭
Girls need to realize that if they made the first move they have a MUCH better chance of not being rejected than a guy.
Tysm!
Me sweating to talk to my crush but my homie calling her and says HEY OLIVIA JAKE IS CALLING YOU
OK BUT IM LITERALLY SO AWKWARD
Ok thank god I actually talk to my crush instead of menacingly staring like I used to do with my old crushes 😂
IM LITERALLY ASKING MY CRUSH OUT TOMORROW
my confidence is soo random rn. But i think im gonna go with the flow and become friends with him somehow even though hes surroundef by his friends 24/7 365 (wish me luck today)
Guys I need advice, so there’s this guys that I think is into me, I told him I had feelings for him and he said basically that he wants to wait until the summer to date anyone. He tells me all the time how beautiful smart cute ect that I am and sends 🥰😘😉 emojis in almost every text. He texts me nonstop every day. Sometimes I’ll rant on FaceTime and I’ll see him just staring at me smiling. We talk all the time about like he talked about how when he gets his license he’s gonna drive me around everywhere and how when we go to the same school next year he’s gonna walk me to all my classes and make sure I know people and help with my homework and all those things, also he sent me a pic of him shirtless and asked if I had any “hot pics” he also mentions that he talks to his friends abt me a lot but he shows him the worst pic he has of me
Thank you Niki
That is so helpful thx so much ❤❤🎉
I don't think my crush will like me back like he looks so Happy around my friends but not me he only ignores me and he looks so happy around my friend Georjiena and felt jealous cause he never act the same if I go talk to him😞😞🙁
Omg thank you😊
Thank you so much
I just went for it this week with a love noteee AAA❤ HELP MORE ADVICE
👇🏿
can you do a video on having a crush but he lives far away? like i moved but still like him
Thank you so so so much I tried this in class today even tho it was a little bit awkward I still pulled it off
bro he has so many friends 😭 and im like the quiet girl kinda and im new too so i dont have many friends so my confidence rn is very loww
like casually look them up and down in conversation-
like AAAAH
POV ur friends and he tells u he likes ur friend
pov: you want to text your crush but you dont know how to bcuz your friend told him you like him but he isnt ready for a relationship but he thinks your pretty and nice so now its just kinda awkward 🥲
Is it just me or does anyone else also become like best friends after theyre over their crush?? Like everytime i got over a crush, i literally became the bestest friends w them
i see, dont be nervous. noted. damn. i never knew i could not be nervous by just not being nervous. pooof my brain...
Please do one for the guys I’m afraid of females💀
if your a guy i need some advice how do i talk to i guy ive only talked to a couple times, and i think he likes me back but not sure
@@aggiesecretacc I'm a guy and if u wanna get a guy's attention try to be friendly talk to them like it's your friend and act normal be bold
@@bruh_550 got it tysm!!
Ngl I feel like most females are just nice like lmao when I go talk to guys they go like tf who are you💀💀 like relax… but anyway maybe it’s just a girl boy thing sorry
bro me and my crush both like eachother, and we stare at each other and stuff and a few weeks ago we held hands😆 but the thing is… we never talk 😂😭 i heard from my friend that my crush liked me and then all of this stuff just happened… i want to talk to him but either i’m always with my friends or hes always with his friends, so yeah it’s kinda awkward. and also, idk how to talk to him. all of my conversation starters i think of in my head sound dumb😭
So.. it’s basically already confirmed that you guys like each other? No way this should still be weird.. I’m the quiet girl in the class Ngl. He likes you already. Just a slight bit of confidence.
Girls have it WAY MORE easier to get together with someone than a Boy
Like sure
We get Nervous everyone does it’s natural
But
For women
Usually a guy wants A girl not someone who is sassy or mean or horrible but someone who cares and accepts them and stuff like that
Its way more easier for women cause Guaranteed the guy already likes u
For us Men
We have to struggle with saying things and making a speech and preparing and praying that we won’t get laughed at
Its way more of a struggle cause for us
We have EVERY SINGLE BAD THOUGHT POSSIBLE about us and what would happen and if we are good enough and are we big enough etc
Just Sayin
Girls have it way easier when it comes to getting somebody
I’m a girl and I go through what you do
Dang. I'm a girl and had no idea you guys felt that way. I sometimes feel like I'm not good enough for my crush, but seeing how guys are with their crushes makes me feel sympathetic. Maybe that's also why they say they aren't interested in having crushes, to avoid feeling like they'll be made fun of by a girl and trust me, some girls are absolute idiots
So your a boy how do I talk to my crush when his friends are around him all the time!?😭😭😭😭I'm always to scared to talk to him!
i mean not really 💀 it depends on like everyone’s personalities to be honest..like i have bad social anxiety and im quiet so every day is deathh dude 💀
How can I talk to my crush if he already knows that I like him
pls do this
I ALWAYS TALK TO HIM AND I DON'T THINK HE LIKES ME BACK I SOMETIMES STUTTER AND HE IS LIKE HOW R U SO GOOD AT ENGLISH BUT CAN'T EVEN FORM A PROPER SENTENCE BAHAHAHHA ANYWAYS SO
Does it work on girls too???
Hahahahaha she's funny IDK why
Hes my friend and ever since i been hanging out with him i just cant bro im deeply falling for him
Do it u only live once
TYYYYYY
TYSM MY CRUSH DOESNT KNOW I EXIST ❤
I have a cruch on this guy at my volleyball, and I literally only have one friend there💀
Y'all wish me luck imma meet my senior crush irl who is 2yrs older than me tmrw^^
shes always staring at me and i like her but like bro i aint takin that risk
we need crush advice for snapchat
Hey! I really like this guy and I have for a year he is 13 and well i told him I liked him last year but he said he wasn’t ready but never said he liked me the only problem is im unpopular and he is popular what should i do to get him to like me i also have no classes with him
JUST A PERSON 😢😢😅😅
If I tried to talk to him he would come up with smth like “why are you talking to me” or “none of your business”
I called my crush old man, and a tomato
oh nah i got shy energy lol
I've only spoke to this boy like one time and I got his number from his sister that I'm friends with and I told him I liked him this was two weeks ago and now we're talking🎉
Me who walks in with depression broken deadly face n rlly introverted 😐
For me my crush is like like rlly popular and one time I was working outside in the hall when he’s going to the bathroom my friends goes up to him and tells him I like him I’m just hiding in my class and my friends was pulling my arm but I was staying so still and after that he said he had a gf so now I have to ignore him keep 8n mind he’s friends with all of the boys from my grade
The problem is I only have an opportunity to talk to him once a month 😭😭 I see him once every week but can’t talk to him during that time and there’s occasionally hangouts where he’s there but there’s a lot of other people and he rarely ever comes 😔😔😔
My crush is my friend and we sit next to each other in class
I had a problem with him and he doesnt even give shi about me, he had a crush on me when i was younger but now i have a crush on him
Fun facts : my crush is 1 year older than me and in another class 😅 that's why I'm nervous
Pov: you didn't know that girls have crushes on guys, well at least not guys that look like you💯
I barely see my crush in person and I got to today and I was going to go up to him a start talking but his mom and my mom were right next to me and I KNEW my mom would say something if I went up to him and now I’m sad I didn’t talk to him😭😭😭😭
We keep blushing at eachother bc I blushed at him but he could just be shy and embarrassed I blushed at him and idk what to do 😭
POV ur bsf dated your crush and ur the one that got them together
I’m the shyest kid in my class…if I go up to a boy and try and make friends 🌝
I like this guy from my youth group and I think he might like me too, I don’t know him to well, but we’ve talked a few times and know each other’s names, but I just don’t know what to talk about to start a conversation with him!😭😭
exactlyyyyyy
@@SanviSingh-ek2pt 😭
ok y'all. i need advice. so i like this really popular guy... we will call him tom. his best friend, let's call him mike, invited my friend group to have pre-party before cotillion with them with mike, tom, mikes twin brother (ima call him luke), and two other (call them bill and matt) my friend viv is exes with luke, so she knows all of the guys. she was originally going, but she just said she couldn't anymore. i really don't want it to be akward and don't know what to do if it is. i don't want it to ruin things with the guy i like or this friend group because if this turns out good then i will be relevant in high school. how do i make it not akward
He:hi
She:hi
He:....................🤔
I have like a boy for 3 years and he has liked me for 3 year but we don’t talk
when. I. took. the. advice. he. kissed. me. aggressively and. I. was. like. so. happy 😊