It’s me Tinx is a podcast that I have been listening to a lot. I need to stop eating so many sweets to help cope with a tumultuous situation… walking helps I find and being out in nature 🌲🚞☀️
there is a quote i really like from rilke that i always repeat to myself during challenging times..."“Let everything happen to you. Just keep going. No feeling is final."
My break up tips are if THEY want to break up, let them. Don’t cling to someone who doesn’t truly want to be with you. If YOU want to break up do it cleanly, firmly, and with kindness. Don’t give the person false hope by being wishy washy. And finally, don’t EVER let someone abuse you or dim your light. Gents, this goes for you too. Live your best life, you only get one. ❤
Great advice! I strongly agree with the no contact part. Never understood how people are friends with their exes. Glad you’re healing and loving your single status era. Hope you take the time for yourself and enjoy dating! My tip is to really enjoy your single hood era. Don’t rush into another relationship and just enjoy your time With work, friends and family. Don’t feel rushed meeting those life goals. I strongly believe the universe has a plan for each of us. When the time comes, you’ll know when you meet your other half. Really take the time to treat yourself and do what you can to move forward. Like you said nourish your body with lots of healthy food and exercise . You got this!!
Just finished your moving to NY series-- I was addicted, lol! It's amazing to see how much you have done during this time. Rooting for you during your healing journey. Breakups are hard. My best tip is to continue pouring into yourself and give yourself grace whenever you need to. Keep showing up for yourself and God will do the rest. I don't know you, but I'm proud of you!
This feels like my exact thoughts when I had gone through a breakup. Just gotta keep pushing by doing the things you enjoy doing or even something you lost sight of during the relationship it helps you maintain your composure. No contact is the best way, I was baffled about 4 or 5 years ago when I realized that people keep talking after their breakups…. i mean beyond getting belongings back, like casual chatter I was like WTF people do this?? No contact has always been what i’ve thought since the start.
I do agree that you should have your own life when in a relationship, however I would say that it's a balancing act because doing a lot of things alone also may make your significant other feel isolated and left out, so it can also backfire. My bf and I have our own friends but we really look forward to spending a lot of time together because we're also friends with each other.
Hi Lucia 🙂 You were completely transparent through your break up, through your videos at the time. I always thought that you dealt with everything as well as anyone can in such an emotional time. And you went through it while continuing to film your vlogs. I guess that the move to New York has given you the fresh start you needed. You certainly give good advice.
Totally agree! Especially with tip #8 & #10. You’re right it will send you in a spiral been there done that for years. Harder because I had a child with the person.
Life is so much simpler and happier when you're not tied down to things that give you stress and anxiety. There's a sense of freedom and happiness from you Lucia as you speak, its a genuine feeling and energy that you exude from your videos especially this one, its kinda of sexy & attractive lol 😂 anyway lemme stop.. keep up the great work Lucia & keep living yah best single life.
@@elizabeththompson1525 lol here is the window to my soul hahhaha jk jk but there are way to many songs on this lol open.spotify.com/playlist/3naxqBH73l7bLwKanqQpxK?si=drms2ICtQW2yCfvp4ZyIBg&pi=u-b1B4ifs6Th6z
What are your best breakup tips or podcasts you find helpful? 🤍
It’s me Tinx is a podcast that I have been listening to a lot. I need to stop eating so many sweets to help cope with a tumultuous situation… walking helps I find and being out in nature 🌲🚞☀️
@ oh nice I haven’t listened to that!! Walking is the best medicine honestly
@@LuciaCordaro It definitely is!!! Thank you again!! Also, yes, I think that you might like her! She is moving to NYC right now :)
there is a quote i really like from rilke that i always repeat to myself during challenging times..."“Let everything happen to you. Just keep going. No feeling is final."
My break up tips are if THEY want to break up, let them. Don’t cling to someone who doesn’t truly want to be with you. If YOU want to break up do it cleanly, firmly, and with kindness. Don’t give the person false hope by being wishy washy. And finally, don’t EVER let someone abuse you or dim your light. Gents, this goes for you too. Live your best life, you only get one. ❤
Great advice! I strongly agree with the no contact part. Never understood how people are friends with their exes. Glad you’re healing and loving your single status era. Hope you take the time for yourself and enjoy dating!
My tip is to really enjoy your single hood era. Don’t rush into another relationship and just enjoy your time
With work, friends and family. Don’t feel rushed meeting those life goals. I strongly believe the universe has a plan for each of us. When the time comes, you’ll know when you meet your other half. Really take the time to treat yourself and do what you can to move forward. Like you said nourish your body with lots of healthy food and exercise . You got this!!
Totally agree!!! Love all those tips and yes don’t worry I am in NO rush hahah I love being single :)
Can’t agree more! Going through a breakup can be a period of self discovery
Def!!!
Just finished your moving to NY series-- I was addicted, lol! It's amazing to see how much you have done during this time. Rooting for you during your healing journey. Breakups are hard. My best tip is to continue pouring into yourself and give yourself grace whenever you need to. Keep showing up for yourself and God will do the rest. I don't know you, but I'm proud of you!
Awe thanks so much!!! 🥹🥹🥹
This feels like my exact thoughts when I had gone through a breakup. Just gotta keep pushing by doing the things you enjoy doing or even something you lost sight of during the relationship it helps you maintain your composure. No contact is the best way, I was baffled about 4 or 5 years ago when I realized that people keep talking after their breakups…. i mean beyond getting belongings back, like casual chatter I was like WTF people do this?? No contact has always been what i’ve thought since the start.
Fair!! Same page
also yeah independence is key!
I do agree that you should have your own life when in a relationship, however I would say that it's a balancing act because doing a lot of things alone also may make your significant other feel isolated and left out, so it can also backfire. My bf and I have our own friends but we really look forward to spending a lot of time together because we're also friends with each other.
Definitely!! It’s such a balance for sure because quality time with your SO is sooo important
Hi Lucia 🙂
You were completely transparent through your break up, through your videos at the time. I always thought that you dealt with everything as well as anyone can in such an emotional time. And you went through it while continuing to film your vlogs. I guess that the move to New York has given you the fresh start you needed. You certainly give good advice.
Thank you for the kind words!
Totally agree! Especially with tip #8 & #10. You’re right it will send you in a spiral been there done that for years. Harder because I had a child with the person.
@@jennyrieras431 ❤️🩹❤️🩹
Nicely said!!!
Life is so much simpler and happier when you're not tied down to things that give you stress and anxiety. There's a sense of freedom and happiness from you Lucia as you speak, its a genuine feeling and energy that you exude from your videos especially this one, its kinda of sexy & attractive lol 😂 anyway lemme stop.. keep up the great work Lucia & keep living yah best single life.
Thank you so, so, so much for this!!! Your timing was right on point for me! You are wise!! 💖💖💖
I’m so glad! 🤍🤍 sending u love
@@LuciaCordaro Thank you!!
Aww you got this!
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expectation: 😮😢😢
reality: enjoying this healing-lifestyle tips❤❤
Awe yaya Yayy ❤
I am happily married, but still watched great tips 💕
@@Danijanet awe love that for u! And thanks!
I always remember that no-one died and then I pretend my ex boyfriends are dead 😂😂😂. That helps me.
Lol 😭
Aloha be strong you are doing ok on your breakup
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Can you share your breakup playlist if it’s not too personal!!
@@elizabeththompson1525 lol here is the window to my soul hahhaha jk jk but there are way to many songs on this lol open.spotify.com/playlist/3naxqBH73l7bLwKanqQpxK?si=drms2ICtQW2yCfvp4ZyIBg&pi=u-b1B4ifs6Th6z
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