2.02 - The List (part 2)

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
  • "...The truth is, I can't be with you like this. I know I said that I could, but I just can't compromise myself like that. I mean, I'm an emotional person. I feel things, and I need to be able to get upset and talk about how I'm feeling. That's who I am, and I can't change it, and I don't want to. And the thing is, you knew that. You knew it, and you still pursued me. Because you want something with me. You just aren't strong enough to have it, which in a way makes you a coward. And the saddest part is that one day, you're gonna wake up and you're gonna realize what you missed and it's gonna be too late..."

Комментарии • 70

  • @BrucasBangelBrylan
    @BrucasBangelBrylan 14 лет назад +100

    one of the greatest scene of the show, she is who she is, take it or leave it.
    Love them

    • @judibitner3947
      @judibitner3947 Год назад

      just watched an interview with Scott- who admitted that seeing the haircut was such a shock that he blew the scene. lol. She looks great with long hair but that cut was INCREDIBLE.. She is strikingly beautiful.

  • @angel03601
    @angel03601 7 лет назад +114

    God I love this show because it's so real, I was in the same situation as Felicity and after I watched this I realized I should never compromise myself for a guy no matter how crazy I am about him. It hurts to let go, and it still hurts but there's so much more to life than a cute guy. It takes so much guts to do what she did, thanks Felicity.

  • @TheCookieChronicles
    @TheCookieChronicles 6 лет назад +94

    I love the break up speech!! I always watch it when I'm having a hard time with a guy, it gives me courage.

    • @billyloomisotherdaughter
      @billyloomisotherdaughter 6 лет назад +1

      TheCookieChronicles me too! Thinking of saying this to someone right now.

    • @ywcrd15
      @ywcrd15 6 лет назад +1

      OMG... me too!! I'm preparing my speech right now for my future ex... :c

    • @dinahwestallen
      @dinahwestallen 4 года назад +1

      👌🏾

  • @billyloomisotherdaughter
    @billyloomisotherdaughter 3 года назад +32

    I watch this every time my heart gets broken. It reminds me that not every person is where you are and you shouldn't have to wait for them.

  • @janemargolis2428
    @janemargolis2428 8 лет назад +64

    her delivery is very realistic in this scene.

  • @midoomar4941
    @midoomar4941 3 года назад +40

    " the truth is, I can't be with you like this. I mean i know that I said that I could, but I can't, I just can't compromise myself like that. I mean I'm an emotional person. I feel things and I need to be able to get upset and talk about how I'm feeling. I mean that's who I am and I can't change it, I don't want to. And the thing is, you know that, you know it, and you still pursued me, because you want something with me, you're just not strong enough to have it. Which in a way makes you a coward. And the saddest part is that one day you're gonna wake up and you're gonna realised what you missed, and it's gonna be to late. " 😕😭

    • @mightybitchy
      @mightybitchy 2 года назад +1

      She’s right.

    • @justmerosie
      @justmerosie Год назад +3

      I want to say exactly this to a guy I love right now. That I can't be with someone who claims he wants to be with me but is too much of a coward to actually be with me. And he's going to realize what he missed one day, but it'll be too late.
      (I guess it wasn't too late for Ben because he ended up realizing his mistake months later and got her back, but I don't see that happening with this guy. I see him realizing it when he's in his 50s and alone.)

    • @AbirVyvance
      @AbirVyvance Год назад

      @@justmerosie do it giiiirl ! Don't betray yourself! 🤗

  • @Lubbylove89
    @Lubbylove89 5 лет назад +43

    When I watched this as a teenager I remember feeling bad for Ben. Watching it back as an adult I am livingggg for Felicity's speech! Ben absolutely needed to grow up. Felicity was just too good for him at that time. He didn't deserve her.

    • @aliali-ce3yf
      @aliali-ce3yf 3 года назад

      wasn't she stalking him?

    • @Lubbylove89
      @Lubbylove89 3 года назад +3

      @@aliali-ce3yf No lol she followed him to college in NY but they were starting to date at this time.

    • @aliali-ce3yf
      @aliali-ce3yf 2 года назад

      @@Lubbylove89 Ben was 19 , seems entitled to still play the field and not get all serious with Felicity. At that age, it's ok to just go for something easy and just have fun. Felicity came off as being way too serious.

    • @canuck21
      @canuck21 2 года назад +2

      Actually, Felicity herself needed to grow up too and understands that you can't be serious too fast. She learnt this lesson when she freaked out when David was talking about love and she wasn't at the level yet. That's when she realized she was in the same position Ben was. When they eventually dated, both were at the same level of seriousness.

    • @aliali-ce3yf
      @aliali-ce3yf 2 года назад +1

      @@canuck21 exactly, it's like she read about love in a book and was acting it out

  • @portishphonic
    @portishphonic 14 лет назад +51

    Keri's acting here is perfect. I wouldn't change a thing

    • @majatadic549
      @majatadic549 4 года назад +4

      Oscar worthy... 😍😍😍😍

  • @gia7890
    @gia7890 15 лет назад +29

    Love this!
    I loved how Keri Russell played Felicity. She showed such emotion through and through. You could feel it right through the screen. When she laughed. When she cried. She is an amazing actres. I would love to see her more.

  • @tessaje
    @tessaje 13 лет назад +29

    Ben and Felicity

  • @eyoung506
    @eyoung506 5 лет назад +24

    "You just aren't strong enough to have it, which in a way makes you a coward."
    Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu@% this would hurt to hear. But a guy in his situation would be (in the long-run) fortunate to learn this particular lesson.

  • @Dean814
    @Dean814 3 года назад +3

    I miss this show so darn much.

  • @imai4745
    @imai4745 5 лет назад +20

    I miss Felicity 😩

    • @binkyfaith
      @binkyfaith 2 года назад

      My all time favorite

  • @cacao123451
    @cacao123451 4 года назад +10

    She was right, he regret it ....

  • @tarynedisse
    @tarynedisse 5 лет назад +5

    Keri is such a good actress!

  • @judibitner3947
    @judibitner3947 Год назад +1

    Keri Russell is beautiful. I love this show still 20 yrs later. Her hair- long and then so GREAT short to show that amazing face. I enjoy watching this video- she was so right. He was a coward or he just listened to Sean too much. I am a fan of Eli. Felicity did not know Eli, but her trust for him allowed her to be with him when she could not be with Ben or Noel.Eli is my favorite for Felicity. Too bad This edit and part 1 are my all time favorites. I come back often. Perfect statements. He does WAKE up... in S2...#10- 2#23 "I love yous"> Great.

  • @jaileyrobicheaux8610
    @jaileyrobicheaux8610 2 года назад +2

    why i didn’t discover this in my early 20s😩 a gem

  • @TheLilics
    @TheLilics Год назад +3

    ainda bem que ele não falou nada! tinha que ficar quieto e ouvir mesmo. Típica reação de garoto bobo, imaturo que, claramente, não tá pronto ainda pra estar com um mulherão.
    Eu amo esse discurso e como algumas pessoas já falaram aqui, sempre que eu tenho o coração partido ou tô passando por um momento difícil em um relacionamento com caras imaturos, eu volto aqui pra rever essa cena.
    E essa atuação da Keri é irretocável!

  • @alessandrasg4943
    @alessandrasg4943 3 года назад +1

    Minha série favorita, de toda minha vida ❤

  • @donanova11
    @donanova11 3 года назад +5

    I just sent this to a guy who fits this description. I couldn't have said it better. :) bye bye

  • @marlenec1600
    @marlenec1600 Год назад +3

    Is it weird that I know Felicity’s break up speech by heart?

  • @Lupirablu
    @Lupirablu 15 лет назад +3

    ella es mi heroe, la admirooo

  • @Adriana-vp1rm
    @Adriana-vp1rm Год назад +1

    It is not going to be 2 late.
    He knows what he wants. He will be with a Jewish girl one day is what matters to him most.

  • @Woockasz
    @Woockasz 14 лет назад +2

    Red Delicious - Sort of a prayer

  • @kelleyruppe8825
    @kelleyruppe8825 10 месяцев назад

    Loved this scene! But im bummed that it doesn't have the song that played when this episode originally aired! The song was so beautiful and really gave the scene an extra emotional punch....I know its because of the licensing of songs and all that, but dang, i wish I could find this scene how it originally aired🤫

  • @greywolfwalking6359
    @greywolfwalking6359 5 лет назад +1

    Ouch! Brutal much??!! So Ben ... How's it hangin', oooohhhh uh my bad... OUUUCCHH!

  • @robertopedrazzini6209
    @robertopedrazzini6209 3 года назад

    Peccato che non si vedrà mai più però è stata la serie TV ( Felicity ) che non la dimenticherò.

  • @helenm5124
    @helenm5124 2 года назад +1

    I had my Ben. We never made it though...

  • @IrishBlueandBlonde
    @IrishBlueandBlonde 14 лет назад +3

    Does anyone know what song plays at the end of this scene?

    • @yoni5570
      @yoni5570 2 года назад

      “Sort of a Prayer” by Red Delicious

  • @notinucleo
    @notinucleo 15 лет назад

    oyeeeeeeeee siiii yo quiero la serie completa!!! creo que en mix up puedes conseguirla o si no en mercado libre...bueno ahi consiguio mi hermano la de los años maravillosos...en seriooo porque no suben la serie completa tengo que conformarme con retazos y lo peor esque solo entiendo los que estan en ingles...los de portugues ni madres!!!

  • @aliali-ce3yf
    @aliali-ce3yf 4 года назад +3

    "You just aren't strong enough to have it, which in a way makes you a coward." ---- she totally misread Ben. He wasn't interested in anything serious. Sure, he wanted her. But was put off by her emotional state. It doesn't make him a coward, just a young guy with options and no interest in settling into something serious as a college student.

    • @dinahwestallen
      @dinahwestallen 4 года назад +11

      No. You're wrong and missed the entire season. She was bang on about Ben and he admitted it later. The night he ghosted their date he was going back and forth in a ferry. He was being a coward and he woke up later.

    • @aliali-ce3yf
      @aliali-ce3yf 4 года назад

      @@dinahwestallen he's 19, its normal not to be interested in anything serious. She says she's an emotional person and doesn't want to change.........but expects Ben to change? That seems pretty arrogant. Turns out he was right given how flaky she is throughout the series.

    • @sabihaahmed5758
      @sabihaahmed5758 4 года назад +9

      He is a coward because as she says he wants something with her and he knew that involved some commitment on his part with a girl like her but when push came to shove he chickened out. Why did he pursue her in the first place if he was never serious? The best part of what she says is that one day he will wake up and realise what he missed and that's exactly what happened.

    • @aliali-ce3yf
      @aliali-ce3yf 4 года назад +1

      @@sabihaahmed5758 why did he have to pursue her for something serious? what if he just wanted something casual ? after all , not everyone wants something long term

    • @brendacastillo8146
      @brendacastillo8146 3 года назад +3

      Watching a an adult, this show is very unrealistic, at 19 you don't behave like Felicity, Ben is accurate, a guy who follows his instincts and is afraid of commitment, but Felicity acts 30.