Toxic Femininity - What Women Do To Emasculate Men & Why
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- Опубликовано: 29 фев 2024
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Absolutely needs to be taught to our girls today.
Great video. Subscribed
Straight to the point…which I am facing right now.
Little girls are being taught that they can be superheroes like Xena, warrior princes, or Harley Quinn. That's OK for the movies, but not so much in real life. If a woman is so defensive that she has to be in conflict with the masculine, a man needs to walk away, like I have. When you hear a woman constantly complaining about men this... men that... keep on walking.
Feminism gave women some rights they didn't have before, but somewhere along the line, it got side tracked by bitter women who weren't satisfied with equal rights. They had a chip on their shoulders and took it to a personal level with a vendetta against men. We all know this but you can't talk about it publicly. There have always been people with resentments from their past. That's nothing new, but now it it being politicized.
So true. Balance is key to a good relationship. So much patience to go step by step when the choice was wrong from the beginning.
This is such an important topic and I'm glad to see that you are bringing it to conscious awareness. It very much hits home as this was prevalent in my family of origin.
Right on point. ❤
I wanted to scream it aloud when you said it.
Its almost as if those of us who do the self work to achieve and grow get those same exact vulnerabilities and communications used against us. Causing what i call the “sarCasm” or “SCARcasm” . 🕳️
Then all the progress you made becomes empty space instantly and is filled by those very same things you are working to eliminate.
The woman instincts are completely contrary to anything we desire.
It makes no sense and never will.
I said this to my friend “woman hate when you talk about something, what they really want is for you to talk AROUND it.”
Woman in general do not like to engage in any activities or conversation that requires reflection, accountability, analysis, or understanding.
They pretend to but its all performance art they just want to “express all the time!”
Its always output and never input for them.
Im in a 20 year relationship and i make this “joke” every time my spouse is “activated” now.
I just look at her and say “tell me when you just want an audience and not a person.” 😂
Collective consciousness cannot evolve further without dealing with the emasculation of men; it is the next frontier. This is why we have plateaued on the spiritual plane. Even the Goddess is suffering from feminism
this is really on time, thanks for your videos❤
Thank you for your kind words and support.
Women have fought so hard for equality ,risked their family and very existence for this cause.
A woman can be strong minded or seemingly submissive yet strong but botox,false eyelashes and falling down drunk in the streets is certainly not what they fought for .
Really great video! I’m not sure I was listening when the cute puppy was on screen, I should probably rewatch that part 😅.
I had to put a cute puppy in there. :)
Pretty much you’ve described him and me and me me and him what I’ve come to the conclusion of is we are both just screwed up individuals and neither one of us are good enough for any relationship so singledom for me
Wow
I was in a 30-year marriage to a woman, and I was going through an MDD. I discovered she was interacting with one of her friends, who had developed a ferocious set of names for me. This only increased my suffering. Fast forward 3 years after the end of the marriage and the MDD is over, I am a better version of myself, and I become an active member of a yoga studio. On multiple occasions, married women are describing what wimps, a-holes, or whatever their husbands are, obviously after they understand I am there for yoga, not pick-ups. At this point, I will probably find another yoga studio (I have been there for several years) because I have noticed that I am getting triggered.
I have had enough interaction with the studio leaders, who teach this treatment of men as some form of empowerment.
What women do not understand is that when you are insulting or complaining to your inner circle, you are emasculating them. The emasculation extends to men that you complain to.
Thank you for sharing this.
These new trend of women wanting to behave like children in a relationship seems a little bit boring to me ...
I was like this 😢😢it hurts alot
Key word is "was." You have healed and grow, thank you.
Men. Life is too short to deal with "traumatized" women. The only rule you should have is it's not my fault and not my problem.
Omg the victim the tribe! 🎉
I agree with the points that you're making about these behaviors being negative, but I don't agree with the framing of "emasculating." If a man does these things to a woman, it's just as hurtful, but we wouldn't call it defeminizing. That would sound ridiculous. The video seems to be talking about respect and should apply to men and women equally.
Agree this applies equally. There’s plenty of videos and focus on toxic masculinity, so I think this is a helpful video to bring awareness of the dynamics and reasons behind the behaviours when it’s the woman being overly dominant.
I was in a relationship where she became too controlling. It was her focus on her own feelings at the expense of others which caused issues. It made me question whether she valued my own happiness and wellbeing, and ultimately whether she really loved and cared about me. It was a really valuable experience overall, but to rebalance the relationship would have needed her to recognise how it was a problem and want to change, which is why videos like this can help.
Yes and I will be making a video on that next.
Because there is a double standard, a woman behaving like a woman is positive, if she is behaving like a man it is also positive... a man is not allowed to act as a woman. So the word emasculating exists for a reason, you just cant "defeminize" a woman .
Comments like these perpetuate emasculation
no offence, but I'm going to say this without even watching the video...
if a man feels emasculated, that's his issue to deal with. how much longer do women have to change their behaviour to please men?
What would you suggest he could do?
(I’m curious, not asking in a confrontational way 😊)
@@steveco1800 I think it's not just an individual issue, I think it's a societal issue. There's a really narrow way that men are allowed to act and feel and still be considered masculine. And men internalize that. And become very defensive if anything seems to threaten their status of masculinity. It's not our job as women to protect that. It's men's job to dismantle these outdated ideas altogether by having the courage to not care about them so much anymore!
@@ankaschannelI think I see what you’re saying and would agree (correct me if not) - men shouldn’t feel insecure about the woman taking the lead or being the more knowledgeable or higher paid. But I would say it can become an issue if it’s at the detriment of the other person.
I think the best relationship is one where you’re both equally respected and supported to develop into better people. You are serving each other, and not one person the lesser or slave to the needs of the dominant (whether that’s the man or woman). So both have to take the right approach to allow this to happen, otherwise if one person asserts themselves the other won’t allow or recognise their viewpoint/needs.
@@steveco1800 well I think it doesn't make sense to take it personally how knowledgable another person is. That's actually a great example for my point... If a man feels demasculated by a woman being smart, it's definitely the man's issue. What is the woman supposed to do, get a lobotomy?
Because we are Not The Same! I'm sure you probably grew up with buying into this feminist "boss babe" mentality that western society champions but it isn't sustainablebwhen it comes to developing relationships. Men don't want to compete with their significant others. It's not our job to "handle" someone that is a fully grown adult.