A fascinating talk by the world's greatest living psychologist. Kernberg's approach, Transference Focused Psychotherapy, traces its lineage to Object Relations Therapy and Melanie Klein, then bi-passes Ego Psychology (the least spiritual form of psychology in my opinion) and goes straight back to Freud. As a Lacanian Freudian I believe that Freud's discussion of the Todestrieb in Jenseits das Lustprinzips is one of the most succinct and brilliant passages in the entire literature of psychology, but I nevertheless appreciate Dr. Kernberg's attempt to interpret it in light of contemporary schools and trends Kernberg, by the way, says that he is "a closet cognitive behavior therapist," which I find quite amusing.
1:24:00. Q:. Death drive. Secondary phenomenon. Self destructive behaviour. Struggling to have a self and identity. Objects seemingly enemies to be destroyed. A: bad self to salvage a good self. Self destructiveness. Suicidal and severe depression. Malignant narcissism, no integrated good self. Self psychology value, self objects and introspection. Aggression is the decomposition of the self. Linkage to sadomasochisticm. Rather deconstructed grandiose self. Primitive idealised and persecutory relationships.
In my personal self analysis, I never needed to confront a death instinct. I doubt that neurotics have this drive. I've never studied it, no need - it did not fit. Is it reality-based 🤔 Psychoanslysis is not for everyone. Many are too damaged, in my view of society.
1:07:00 Barriers to remaining and falling on love. Extension of aggressive drive as death drive. Group psychology, idealisation of a political figure. Answer. Affects and drive. Instinct,. Bergen and Wilson. Inborn perception mechanism triggered by environment. Instinctive disposition. Unconscious meanings. With object relationship. Hyperactive amygdala.
1:13:00 amygdala, neuro biology questions. Cortical steroids and atrophy. Question. Hypetarousal disassociative states. A. Affect storms. Approaches. Negative attitudes with sexual repression. Firm decision for patients by therapist. Unrealistic fear, relationship ethics. Use of fear in the therapist. Limbic/prefrontal cortex not understood in analysis. Violent repetition and later learned experience. Neurobiology affect. Neuro Transmitters.
Strengthening the cortical functions of cluster B people must be done along with somatic therapies - or the patient will get worse. Speaking from experience. The field must stress the importance of this or you are just making people worse and it feels like planned obsolescence. My own self work has been far more useful than any therapist or psychiatrists I have seen, and these types of discussion have been pivotal. Thank you for sharing!
1:03:00 nirvana and ego dissolution? Unity with the totality of the world. Not a death drive. Mindfulness, cognitive behaviour and subjective exploration. Self reflection in analysis is more objective not concrete with significant others.
Self-destructive behavior is not innate or natural, it’s a result of inabilities to free oneself from stress.. I have seen this in animals, and it’s the only time animals engage in self-mutilation, besides a OCD issue
the first guy who asked the question clearly didn't understand a word of what was being said here. Such a dumb inappropriate question. This topic is a new step stone towards understand complex self destructive behavior.
No defeet no bad feelings other than vivid realizatin i was right all my life and still have same problems as i have BPD but not same as he is saying tring to embaress the patiant through therapy then say they feel stoopid for wanting to feel about a way of life much like the gays we finaly excepted is a real thing but the heart broken beat by capitolisam are wrong for saying the playing table is rigged by us or the government the bank or the church you cant say that thats wear my job turns in to slave masters right hand with a whip telling them to run back in to what did destroy them and do to there makeup as a human will only happen again. ??? Im right. Prove me wrong without now bringing in some form of christian mystasysem or western thought in reflection of western reality to justfy it. Then i ask you who are you actually working for at end of day how smart are you and did😮 you not see you are just jutifying man kinds short commings and justifying there continued existance for church bank government. You are locking suffering in to reality by having your view of reality cuz you not smart enough to understand reality.
Me new Jung and ya I lost my mind getting to this point for mankind. Its my job did you not know. I did not pick my job no man would want to do this but had to be done to show the world how things are really operating right now.
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this guy talking about things left to do while 80+ years old, what a freaking hero
Starts at 14:50
A fascinating talk by the world's greatest living psychologist. Kernberg's approach, Transference Focused Psychotherapy, traces its lineage to Object Relations Therapy and Melanie Klein, then bi-passes Ego Psychology (the least spiritual form of psychology in my opinion) and goes straight back to Freud. As a Lacanian Freudian I believe that Freud's discussion of the Todestrieb in Jenseits das Lustprinzips is one of the most succinct and brilliant passages in the entire literature of psychology, but I nevertheless appreciate Dr. Kernberg's attempt to interpret it in light of contemporary schools and trends Kernberg, by the way, says that he is "a closet cognitive behavior therapist," which I find quite amusing.
That is amusing, indeed. I wonder what prompted him to say that?
55:00 structures. Psychic Structure. Good exposition of Freuds famous Ego Superego.
1:00:00 paranoid and self destructive transfer with therapist of representation and affects.
1:24:00. Q:. Death drive. Secondary phenomenon. Self destructive behaviour. Struggling to have a self and identity. Objects seemingly enemies to be destroyed. A: bad self to salvage a good self. Self destructiveness. Suicidal and severe depression. Malignant narcissism, no integrated good self. Self psychology value, self objects and introspection. Aggression is the decomposition of the self. Linkage to sadomasochisticm. Rather deconstructed grandiose self. Primitive idealised and persecutory relationships.
In my personal self analysis, I never needed to confront a death instinct. I doubt that neurotics have this drive. I've never studied it, no need - it did not fit.
Is it reality-based 🤔 Psychoanslysis is not for everyone. Many are too damaged, in my view of society.
1:07:00 Barriers to remaining and falling on love. Extension of aggressive drive as death drive. Group psychology, idealisation of a political figure. Answer. Affects and drive. Instinct,. Bergen and Wilson. Inborn perception mechanism triggered by environment. Instinctive disposition. Unconscious meanings. With object relationship. Hyperactive amygdala.
That sounds like Laconian nonsensical understanding.
1:13:00 amygdala, neuro biology questions. Cortical steroids and atrophy. Question. Hypetarousal disassociative states. A. Affect storms. Approaches. Negative attitudes with sexual repression. Firm decision for patients by therapist. Unrealistic fear, relationship ethics. Use of fear in the therapist. Limbic/prefrontal cortex not understood in analysis. Violent repetition and later learned experience. Neurobiology affect. Neuro Transmitters.
41:00 malignant narcissism destructive tendencies ambivalent loved object drawn into ego. Melanie Klein. Ideal and paranoid.
One of the best speeches on RUclips!
So relatively short, but very good, it can be done / said!
Strengthening the cortical functions of cluster B people must be done along with somatic therapies - or the patient will get worse. Speaking from experience. The field must stress the importance of this or you are just making people worse and it feels like planned obsolescence. My own self work has been far more useful than any therapist or psychiatrists I have seen, and these types of discussion have been pivotal. Thank you for sharing!
i love it! spread the word! watch carefully & share @ 44:23 !
Viscerally disturbing
31:30 repetition compulsion PTS.
37:35 negative therapeutic reaction
15:00 rewatch start
53:28 self destructive motivation
Elimination of all significant others
1:03:00 nirvana and ego dissolution? Unity with the totality of the world. Not a death drive. Mindfulness, cognitive behaviour and subjective exploration. Self reflection in analysis is more objective not concrete with significant others.
He got the point...
@MrWhooy - Thank you very much! Saved me 14:50 minutes.
1:02:00 speech ends and questions
Self-destructive behavior is not innate or natural, it’s a result of inabilities to free oneself from stress.. I have seen this in animals, and it’s the only time animals engage in self-mutilation, besides a OCD issue
the first guy who asked the question clearly didn't understand a word of what was being said here. Such a dumb inappropriate question. This topic is a new step stone towards understand complex self destructive behavior.
what about those that self destruct by taking drugs?
Probably differs for each person. You'd have to analyze the function for each individual. For some, it may be driven by the death drive.
14:50
appreciate it!
Just drop drives.
he sounds like woody alan
No defeet no bad feelings other than vivid realizatin i was right all my life and still have same problems as i have BPD but not same as he is saying tring to embaress the patiant through therapy then say they feel stoopid for wanting to feel about a way of life much like the gays we finaly excepted is a real thing but the heart broken beat by capitolisam are wrong for saying the playing table is rigged by us or the government the bank or the church you cant say that thats wear my job turns in to slave masters right hand with a whip telling them to run back in to what did destroy them and do to there makeup as a human will only happen again. ??? Im right. Prove me wrong without now bringing in some form of christian mystasysem or western thought in reflection of western reality to justfy it. Then i ask you who are you actually working for at end of day how smart are you and did😮 you not see you are just jutifying man kinds short commings and justifying there continued existance for church bank government. You are locking suffering in to reality by having your view of reality cuz you not smart enough to understand reality.
Me new Jung and ya I lost my mind getting to this point for mankind. Its my job did you not know.
I did not pick my job no man would want to do this but had to be done to show the world how things are really operating right now.
absurd mythology
Boring intro
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