Cleaning my burnout house: Part 2
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- Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
- In the second episode of my series, I clean the living room whilst I discuss some commonly asked questions and criticisms.
#cleaningmotivation #cleaning #executivedysfunction #adhd #cleanwithme
I was so angry when I heard that people are saying you are a bad mom...you are compassionate,loving and deeply caring towards your children,your family and your partner. You are always thinking about your children's needs and wants and I admire that. Keep up the great work Ms. Remi !
Seriously! She's the mom I wish I had been.
I agree . Hatred is a very taught trait . An there is never any need for it . Always live for the good. ❤😂
I saw your new video uploaded and saved it for tonight. I've been struggling for years with housework and motivation. It's mad, when I was married with a blended family of 4 kids with 5years between them, the house was so busy and constantly messy and noisy. When my kids were getting ready to go off to university and fly the nest, my husband suddenly died. We'd had so much loss in a short space of time. I lost everyone from my mum, both my parents in law and my 20year old stepson in less than 5years. Then within 8months the rest of the family broke down. Everything was my fault and the kids left home suddenly. I've moved house twice since then. I've lived in this house for nearly 7years. I was always struggling with motivation and never cook anymore. I live on rice krispies and yoghurts at bedtime. I started decorating my living room in May, I was excited making a fresh start for me and my menagerie of pets. Then my already destroyed right knee had other ideas and I ended up chair bound with a meniscus tear on top of the fact it's actually crumbled and bone on bone already. My friends have tried to help me but they're so busy and lots of things need me to sort out. So now I'm literally buried under a mountain of amazon boxes as I can hardly get out the house anymore. I am very depressed and adhd and many many other mental and physical issues to deal with. That lady would that called you a bad mum would say it's excuses obviously. In some ways these are all excuses. I really struggle to get everything blitzed ready for my hubby coming in from a long Police shift and tea in the oven. Now its just me, I don't care!! There's no one to bother for. Even my self care is suffering. I keep going back to bed and I haven't showered or clean clothes for days as I'm just exhausted. My dad's funeral was last Tuesday and since then all I've done is sleep or want to be asleep. The temperature has suddenly dropped so much, I can't afford to have the heating on so although tidying up would warm me up, I just sit under a blanket with my puppy having cuddles. Sorry for rambling on 🙃 I just wanted to say I love your videos and your empathy for others is to be admired not criticised. I know your husband helps loads and works hard too. Although he does have a problem with his hair loss 🤣 the hairiest man alive, you'd think that much hair loss he'd be bald 🤣🤣 I am only joking!!! Your kids are little and deserve to be children. I was running my parents home from 8years old when my nanna died and I stepped into my mum's shoes. Now at 52 and all alone I just can't find a long enough time out of pain to get everything done. Anyway, sorry for filling up your comments section. I love your videos and look forward to them. I also love Mack at mmc too. Take care, keep being you ❤️❤️❤️
@@karencleary6732oh my i have just read this and im so sorry for what your going through 😢 that’s such a lot to have to deal with. No wonder you feel the way you do. I know you don’t know me but you can message or chat with me if you like. I don’t like to see anyone suffer 😢 bless you huni ❤
❤❤ well said … no one on this planet is perfect
People can be so rude
Remi, my sweet young mum. I just had my 80th birthday. When my children were little, I spent too much time cleaning and not enough time with my children. When your children are grown, they will not remember the clean house, but they will remember the time you spent with them. Keep on making the videos, ignore the nay-sayers. You are perfect just the way you are now!💕
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So true ❤ Remi is just ever so lovely and caring. Those you can't feel her...just leave the channel and keep your thoughts to yourself. Be kind to others, especially those struggling with mental health. All of us go through different phases in life and try out best. What more to ask for!
I really admire the way you go through life with your beautiful family, Remi. Just skip nasty comments. ❤
I"m 70 and you can still enjoy your kids and teaching them picking up after playing or putting dishes on the counter teaches kids lets help mom and it would be less stressful But if she did do this method there would be no video and viewers
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sandra, 🎂 and blessings upon you!!! I, too, just celebrated my birthday 🥳, 10/10, and entered my 79th year!
Your voice is so soothing.
Thank you ☺️
I agree. I could listen to her all day. I’m hoping when Remi does her book it’s available in audio
I agree. Sounds like a laid back, super chill, down to earth friend.
Yea you have a lovely voice! You’re doing amazing, inspires me to get things done!
Seriously people if you don’t like remi’s content. Then this is not the channel for you.
Also depression is not just one thing it comes in many forms
Be kind or jog on. Simple as
Rant over.
Agreed Angela!!
Yes, people with depression do smile, and many would not seem depressed by antiquated standards.
I’m 66 years old and have struggled with my mental health all my life. When I need motivation you are my go to girl! I put on one of your videos and instantly feel better and ready to crack on. You are a wonderful young lady and help so many people that you don’t even know. I send you and your lovely family lots of love xxxx
I find exactly the same thing with Remi's videos, she's an angel 👼
I have to say i think personal criticism often comes feom a person who is projecting or has been triggered...its always their issue not yours ❤ i think you are fabulous!!! ❤
I think you’re right…at least 99% of the time!! ❤️
Yup. I was just going to mention projecting. They are likely jealous.
It’s very true.
Please don't let ridiculous negative comments get you down. You're an inspiration to others and a wonderful mother. I love your videos and your practical outlook on what is important in life. A spotless home is NOT on that list!
If anyone has watched more than one of your videos, they will know how much love and respect you and your family members have for each other. People will say stupid things behind a screen-- don't pay any attention to that. Keep doing you and enjoy the happy life you have created for yourself!
Thank you. It really means a lot that people pick up on that ☺️❤️
After losing my Dad and my Grandfather last year, your videos are so comforting. They’re the warm hug I need that I won’t get from them!
I am so very sorry for your loss ❤️
Thank you Remi! Keep doing what you’re doing, you’re helping so many people in more ways than just cleaning!
wow, those are two huge losses all in one year...I'm so sorry hon!
Thank you!
Awwww ive been so excited seeing your name pop up!
I loooooooove your videos so much!
Thank you so much!!! I’m really glad you like them ☺️❤️
I really love the gentle, sweet way you push back against haters. Being non judgmental is not judging the haters because who knows what they have suffered or are going through? I applaud your patience. Comments must hurt sometimes but you handle negativity with grace and understanding. Keep going Remi! I love your cleaning and chatting.
Hi Remi, I was suffering from depression and my house was even worse than that. there were days, weeks when I didn't even have the strength to take care of myself! Of my children yes....but not of me! Then I started making videos, here on RUclips and the situation changed, thanks to the people who helped and supported me! My house isn't perfect (and maybe it never will be!) the depression isn't gone...but it's much better now! I understand you and you'll see that you will succeed too 💪🏼 come on, one step at a time 💪🏼 one day at a time 💪🏼 one room at a time 💪🏼 hello from Italy and Silvia 😘
The state of the house and housework can get you down now but in just a few years, the boys will be older, baby toys in the past, and in hind sight, the years go by way too fast. Your messy house is a symptom of now and it will be different later. Give yourself a break, Remi, and try to enjoy these chaos days. Really, they ain’t so bad ❤❤❤
REMIIIIIII!!!!! You are InCrEdiBLe!!! You have done so SO well keeping up with the kitchen. You do help so so many of us! You should be so proud of the accomplishment you made in the living room in this video…BRAVO, Girl! Hugs to you from Missouri, USA!
I don't think you over explain. I think what you say is perfect. Listening to you while I try to build up the energy to clean gives me strength.
It saddens me that you get negative comments because I think you are a Super Woman 💪🏼
Thanks for every single second you have shared with us.
Thank you Remy. You inspire to keep going.
Ah, people 😩 You have an excellent attitude towards those who refuse to see beyond their own noses. Keep on keepin on 💐💃🌸
@@ladysparkymartin beyond their noses I love that I’m going to use it❣️
@@ladysparkymartin beyond their own noses❣️ i’m going to use that❣️
Ah, Remi you're my solace. Not bad news and no hateful words , only a lot of compassion for others and good advice. Keep going. Hugs from Denmark😇🤗
Thank you, Remi. Your straightforward, matter-of-fact videos are always such a pleasure to watch. Much love to you for sharing the harder parts of daily life, as well as the sweet moments and the little wins. You really do have a special way of presenting them to us. Xx
Remi I love your channel!! People don't understand unpleasant words scar you for life!!Don't absorb negativity its not healthy !! we all struggle with some type of issue .Be blessed 🙌
You are my favourite body double!! Honestly, I love it when you put out content because it’s like listening to a friend and I envision you sitting at my counter with a cuppa and biscuit, and encouraging me to keep on and I’ll get there! I’m sure I’d scare the life out of you if we ever met IRL because I’d give you such a massive hug for being there for me in all of the times I felt: I just can’t do this! You are an inspiration to me and I’m forever grateful!
I love your videos and your narration is absolutely perfect.Im 60 and got so discouraged and depressed when I believed things would never change. I took a decade off caring and doing the absolute minimum. It was awful. Now I am the power that removes the negative from my life. But still the struggle is real. You teach me about myself and help me to understand family members. ❤
Pay no attention to the trolls that try to get under your skin, they are all bully's that feel better when they make someone else feel bad. I always marvel at how easy you make it all look, because you are good at what you do..
I like how you said about the things placed in the closet, “That’s a task for another day” and how you didn’t search for the dustpan because if you did, you knew that would be the whole task for the day. That was such an “ah-ha” moment for me because I realized that I’d also go in search of the dustpan and completely lose track of the activity I was doing. I’ve always struggled with time management and I think it’s because I start one thing and go in search of the metaphorical dustpan over and over and over again. A task like cleaning my room can take all day because I start one task and get side tracked and start another and then go back to the original project all over again. The idea that I could do one task and set aside another big task for another day gave me the idea that I don’t have to try to tackle it all at once but purposely save a portion for another time. I know that this sounds ridiculously simple but for some reason that concept finally handed in my brain and sunk in. For example, I could clean my bathroom and do the sink and toilet but save the scrubbing of the bathtub for another day if it’s too time consuming. As someone who tries to do it all, all the time, and as a result struggles to get anything done, this tip was a godsend. Thank you!
Cherie from the US Kansas I love you and your little family you motivate me❣️ my adult attention deficit disorder is so bad that I will be in the living room thinking I’m going to make a cup of tea and by the time I have stood up, I have forgotten… it drives me crazy so I end up going from room to room doing one thing and then thinking oh this goes in the other room not finishing a room😢 make your house work for you❣️
You're so right about the "I have depression too, but I just/I don't .." 🎯
I'm constantly having the same, triggering battle with the "my parents never abused me, so no parents ever abused their children." I'm truly happy for those who didn't have to go through hell or struggle, and I get that it's hard for people to imagine something they never experienced themselves - but it's equally hard for me to imagine having a normal childhood. I imagine it's the same for anyone struggling with anything, it's the only normal we know
I am one of your many avid fans. There are always going to be people who will criticize. Ignore them. I am sure you have loads more positive feedback than negative. You inspire me to find ways to get my housework done. Thank you!
Hi Remi, it's great to see another post from you. I understand the challenges of raising two kids, since I have a 13-year-old with raging hormones. I can relate to feeling overwhelmed by clutter, but I found inspiration in a Japanese lady who decluttered houses, and then I got into Swedish death cleaning. I became ruthless in decluttering and only kept essentials. My son also learned to keep things in their place from a young age, so our house is relatively clutter-free. However, watching old videos made me nostalgic for when my son was cuddly and cute, compared to now when he's a moody teenager. You're doing a fantastic job as a mom, Remi, and your family is lucky to have you. Keep coaching others that it's okay not to be perfect, as imperfections can be the best qualities. Thank you❤️🇬🇧🇹🇷
I always love to hear what you have to say while you're cleaning. I got diagnosed with ADHD in my 40's and your videos help remind me to be kind to myself. ❤
I love your genuineness!!!!! I'm sure your children appreciate that about you as well.
Love Jodi and Mack too, Flawless and Midlife Stockman, and so many other varied personalities. Never thought about criticizing them. The people I watch are encouraging to me. I like to do my work then relax watching others work.😃 I have in-laws that have houses that look unlived in. Perfect, no children or pets or maybe just much neater than me. I stayed home with my children until they entered preschool. I worked 42 years, 30 in a preschool, and retired 2 years ago to care for my granddaughter. My house can get totaled in a day. I find her so fascinating and she goes from one thing to another and if I am engaged in what she is doing I cannot clean as I go. I try to do my cleaning when she goes home and on the weekends. You’re doing a good job from my perspective.😘
Excellent video! You never disappoint.❤
You're a wise woman.
Oh, Remi! You are just so dang reasonable, and gentle. I wish every negative Nellie could see this video before they comment on all the others. Your channel is a blessing, thank you. 🌻🍄
I love your messages because they are so spot on!!! I’m gobsmacked that people feel SO free to be rude. No one is forcing them to watch YT content. Go find less, elsewhere. ❤ u Remi
I love your content and how you talk throughout your videos. You bring a compassionate, intelligent, informative voice to the world. I've said it before but now you have more subscribers and at 186,000 subscribers coming to view your content regularly that your content is reaching more than the population of most towns people live in. That's a massive impact especially when considering before the internet people accessed only their town and not necessarily all of the people in it. I like you compassionate explanations and I reckon that even though you don't have to explain yourself to anyone, it can be helpful to people who don't have the words to share about how they feel and why their homes are not how they'd love them to be. You've found your purpose and it is awesome. As for parenting comments I am a parent and have been a primary teacher for over 30 years. Some of your cleanups, like your loungeroom in this video, kids can make that amount of mess in under an hour and kids view mess very differently to adults. Mostly all kids see are their toys and playing a fun. Adults can complain and be negative all they like but complaining never supported anyone towards progress. Kindness works a treat! Anne, Tasmania 🐨
I love everything about your videos. One change you inspired me to make is to get rid of the ugly kitchen dish rack. Kitchen sink looks so much better and l've re-located the rack into a drawer to hold lids and containers, win win 💐
I definitely am the person with anxiety that can't let things go. I am so exhausted all the time because I clean as I go and pick up after everybody continuously. I can't leave the house with toys on the floor, beds not made, and dishes undone. I literally speed clean everytime I wanna leave the house. Even when I relax I am watching other people clean. I think I developed this after I had my oldest daughter as a way to prove my usefulness. I do believe I had post-partum depression (not diagnosed) and obsessive cleaning was how I managed my feelings of inadequacy. Unfortunately I didn't have the emotional support I needed and felt like I had to prove my value to the household every day. I stopped working so wasn't bringing in any money, I was at home all day with a baby, sleep deprived, and gained alot of weight and constantly made to feel like I was doing everything wrong. The least I could do was keep a clean house and have dinner on the table every day. I know now that I deserved a little more grace and kindness, but it still effects me to this day and I am constantly feeling like I need to be doing something to "earn my keep" so to speak.
Your comment is like reading about myself. As a stay at home mum I felt I had to keep the house spotless at all times to make up for not earning. I developed ocd and at 64 I still can’t leave the house unless everything is clean and tidy. It is exhausting 😢
You are a worthy person, not because of what you do, but because of who you are. Homemaking is a gift to those you love. I hope you can do some nice things for you :)
@@jhutch1681 😘
You’re not a bad mum. Those who are being negative don’t live in the real world where mess just happens. Really look forward to all your videos ❤
I am so sorry that people feel the need to be nasty to you and other people. I love your videos and I hope you continue to make them. Stay strong and positive ❤❤❤
I just found your channel, and I am hooked! Your explanations of executive dysfunction, waiting freeze, and so much lit light bulbs in my head! I can finally understand why I've struggled with the same issues for so long, thank you.
Midwest Magic Cleaning gave you a shoutout on his channel, which led me to you.
Remi, you are wise beyond your years. This is coming from a 58 year old grandma. Ignore the naysayers. You are a great mom and person, in general. ❤
Great show once again Remi, just adore you and your wee family ❤🏴❤️
I have four children each a year and a few months apart. The ONLY thing that helped me with keeping up with house is becoming a minimalist. And we only did art outside. I’m lucky enough to live in year round warm climate, but it really was a game changer.
You, Gabby & Mack are the most funny & heartwarming people on YT. You all just make my day. Thank you so much. 😊
Who just loves these videos 📹 amazing. These videos do help.they do get me motivated and sending much love and appreciation ❤❤❤❤
Perfect timing. I just took my lunch break ❤
@@brianamullins9979 I hope you enjoyed! And I hope work goes quickly for you! 😊❤️
I love your videos. Watching from Indiana in the US
I love your channel and find your words very comforting. I think you're a genius for doing what you do on RUclips!
@@rubyrose24881 the biggest compliment! Thank you so so much! 😊
I just love your videos, your views on life and your positivity 🩶
You are a doll Remi. ❤
You, Remi, whom I admire, have always been a riddle to me. You are not defensive in your perspective about life. You seek to understand and relate, period, how very refreshing 🫶🏻
Well I’m a 72 year old Granny and I love watching your channel. You are just lovely and so honest….a breath of fresh air. Thank you. Sending love to your family.
I work from home and am Self Employed too. It feels like I am at both my jobs (work and home) 24/7. Best advice is to get out of the house and find your support system for the kids because you can't be everything to everyone all the time.
I have to watch your videos twice. Once before bed as your voice is so soothing it helps me sleep (in the nicest possible way), and then again in the morning to actually watch it! 😂 love your vids hun x
So lovely to see you back Remi xx love your videos so much xx 😘
Yay new video! Was just catching up on an old one. Thank you Remi, your videos are extremely comforting and motivational 🎉❤
Thank you so much! It means so much to hear this! ☺️❤️
@remiclog keep it up! Your videos always make me kinder to myself ❤
You’re a real gem Remi, I could listen to you all day because you are so relatable and real! ❤
Remi, you’re doing the right thing and you’re helping a whole big bunch of people including me. You’re a massive blessing. Keep going, young dear.
I have learned so much from you! Not just about cleaning, executive dysfunction & more, but also about kindness and how to show grace & compassion for others & myself! Keep going Remi, so many of us crave these messages & motivation. Have a great weekend.
Tell the haters to piss off! You are a great mom, and a very nice person. I enjoy your videos❤❤❤
The way my mother’s house looked was THE most important thing to her when I was growing up…or that’s how it felt to me and my brothers. I literally was grounded for not color-coordinating my clothes in the closet and for having lint on my bedroom carpet. Keep doing exactly what you are doing!!!❤❤❤
I love your videos and your chatter. Don't let online bullying affect you. You are doing a great job with your house and your family.
You are doing great and your comments prove your enormous empathy and intelligence.
Remi you are a true inspiration. I love listening to you throughout your videos. You are true to yourself. The negative comments flow off your back. As they should. Your house is your home, and it is obvious that the people in your home come first. That is the definition of family. Your children are allowed to be children and express themselves through play in the comfort of your home. I tell my very houseproud friends that I feel like I am visiting a hotel when nothing is out of place, and I know they come to visit me not my home because my house certainly looks well lived in and my kids have left home. Keep this up. You deserve the rewards for all your efforts. You are a breath of fresh air.
Remi - I appreciate you sharing real videos. Looking at people's homes that aren't real or authentic is like watching a movie - a fantasy that doesn't exist. You are 1000% correct about Autism and messes. My son has autism and my adult daughter has Asperger's and BOTH are the messiest mess makers ever. There's a mess blindness to them. They can sit surrounded by piles and not see it. I'm very proud of what you've accomplished being neuro-diverse - others may not understand but I get it! ❤❤
I just want to thank you. My 12 year old granddaughter watch your show on going from room to room and she said it helped her so much. So thank you.
Love your videos! Watching from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦👍
Same here ❤
I just can't even deal with people up on their moral high horse! I love your channel for all the kindness, motivation and education. One way does not fit all!
Thank you for your channel and videos. I always was thinking that it was only me who struggle with being perfectly organized in one moment and completely overwhelmed by chores in other. Much appreciate to show that it's normal and not everyday you can do everything and be on top. When I watch other cleaning videos when clean house is cleaned - it got me more depressed that mine is not the same, even if I love watching them at the same time. Please keep posting your videos because they help a lot of us when struggling !!!! :)
So grateful for slow cookers. My slow cooker is the only thing that keeps me and my husband fed 😅💖 thank you for another upload, Remi! 💖💖💖
If people aren't feeling joy from your videos they can skip go look at another video. I hate that anyone says negative things about you. Your videos give me a sense of calm and mental peace. Always looking forward to seeing you post new videos. Thank you Remi.
Remi you are such a fantastic mom. You let your children be children. You know that they are more important than the way the house looks every moment of the day. If i had little ones playing and enjoying themselves my house would look just like yours. You don't have to show on social media how you parent your children, that's just opening yourself to comments on what you should or not do. Parenting should be a private matter. It's nobody's business how you run your household.❤
So glad you posted this today. I'm in the same boat as you with burnout and chaos in the home. I unexpectedly have tomorrow morning off and my kiddo is with her Dad this evening. So I'm going to be giving myself a reset too.
Your home is so cozy and welcoming, and your caring heart is a beautiful example for your sons.❤
Love your videos and voice overs. I watch Mack, Clean with Barbi, Aurikaterina, Fife Cleaning and a couple of others. I live in Southern California. You do a great job cleaning and taking care of your kids.
Remi, a lot of people don’t understand or appreciate just how much effort it takes for someone with ADHD to manage all the everyday tasks like working, looking after the house, being a mum, being a wife, and just general adulting! But I get it and think you’re amazing - thanks for being such an inspiration and encouragement, especially to others who feel the struggle too - thank you! 💖
I relate to you so much. Please ignore the ignorance that is being spewed at you, we all know you're a great mother and human ❤❤❤
I think you’re absolutely great Remi. Some people just love to look down on others, and think they’re better than them, it’s sad and weak. It takes a lot more strength to be someone that actively seeks to uplift others, which is exactly what you do.
I used to be a really tidy person until I got really sick and I can no longer keep up with it. This has been extremely hard to cope with as my environment has always been important to me for my mental health. Watching your videos, I have learnt to be kinder to myself. I've cried my eyes out over things I can't do anymore but hearing you talk about all this stuff makes me realise there are more important things and things will get done when they get done. Being present with my little boy, family and pets is a better feeling in our lived in home than using what energy I do have to get one task done. Thank you Remi, you are the best
Remi, mess is normal when we have a family. Thanks for all you do to help and inspire 😊
I don’t suffer with mental health or depression and I enjoy housework but at 63 I can really relate to you and I love the kindness and understanding you show others keep it up well done xx❤
Always so glad when a new video of yours pop up. You are such a wise young woman and I love your videos.
I love your videos, because they show normal life with normal results. Not a pigsty before and a Better living magazine afterwards. Your videos encourage to follow and do the same in my messy home. I'm alone so i can't give someone else the fault for my status, and i'll have to tidy up and clean without help. I'm over 60, not too healthy, but i found a way to manage my mess. I have a to do list for each room, and each room has it's special day: Monday bathroom, Tuesday kitchen etc... And each day i do about the half of my list, on good days everything gets a check on my list, it's so satisfying ! The to do list writing i learned from you ! Please keep on motivating us ! You are awesome !
THANK YOU SO MUCH !!!
Most effortless tipp for those who are interested:
● Reduce Toys! Only display a few of them and switch them like weekly or monthly for novely without having to but more of them.
● Toy area: Get a rug or playpen and make sure there is ONE area in a corner where mess is allowed. Bins help to organize fast in this corner if you want a little more tidyness.
Hope I could help ❤
Um… when I am overwhelmed, trying to follow your tips would make me just want to crawl under the covers. Couldn’t add it to the already mountain of tasks.
“Reaching for a better feeling.” That resonates.❤
Hey Remi, I don't even have children, just me and a husband, we can trash our home in an instant.. you're doing great.. and of all the channels I watch you are the one I look forward to the most to inspire me. You go girl ❤
Remi nut shell and all that ! In my 57 yrs I can honestly say I’ve never heard anyone make absolutely anybody feel comfortable and happy in their own skin ! You’ve got the knowledge and the capability do so . I feel your wonderful you tube channel is just a stepping stone in your career . Clearly with that fabulous head on your shoulders , you’d make the best therapist ! To me you have the package ..... a massive understanding of human beings / a huge amount of compassion for people/ the most soothing voices ever ! / and a beautiful heart 💓 ! Flippin love your videos !! Remi THANK YOU 🤗💐
I feel like this video really resonated with me. My ADHD and depression have recently been putting me in the same spiral. It’s so helpful to recognize the cycle and how it affects everything in our life. Thank you for always being so transparent and unapologetically yourself.
You have really helped me kick start my cleaning. Thank you for sharing your art 🙏 so meaningful
I love listening to you i ralate so much to how your feeling and how you think ❤
I think you are awesome juggling work, home, children, and all the tasks to be done!!!!❤
This video was the perfect start to my day. I could listen to your kind, caring and common sense advice constantly. Thank you for sharing your home and real life situations.
Remi, I love you. All of the parts of you that you choose to share with us and more. I'm sorry about all of the people who don't get it and say things that aren't kind. I find myself agreeing with everything you say and appreciate your unique perspective. My house is a nightmare all of the time, and you inspire me to get things done ❤ I get so excited every time I see a new video. I'm pregnant and have a lot of work to do before the baby comes! I hope that I will be as good a parent to my son as you are to yours.
Remi, I'm 61 now and still learning about people. What I absolutely know though is that anyone who takes the time to attempt to take another person down gives far more away about their own state of mind than anything to do with the focus of their spite. Just keep on keeping on pet. You're doing a great job.😊
You are just a lovely person! Being further down the road in parenting and decluttering, I just want for you to have less…getting rid of things makes all the upkeep so much easier. One of the best things I ever heard is “You can’t organize clutter!”. Also not allowing eating anywhere but in the kitchen keeps everything so much easier to clean! KEEP IT UP, SWEET MAMA!
Yay top 75 and top 11 likes and comments. Love this channel. Best to you and your family. Thanks for making this video.
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New subscriber here. I am an Aspie and my thoughts, house, and everything in my world are chaos! I’d never heard of executive function but I’m definitely relating to your feelings. Especially the ‘hold’ before an appointment. I’d never heard anybody else even voice that, and I’ve been that way my whole life! I’m happy I found your channel 😊
I absolutely love all the comments! I love the chatter! We’ve all watched people pick up and sweep… I love the insights that you provide, and how you’re figuring things out for yourself! That really helps me, too! Keep talking!
You should write a book or create a podcast called ‘The Meaningful Mundane’, it would be a blessing for ourselves 💛🙏🏼 Proud of you. Never stop being you, Remi!
You are wonderful. I am so happy when you post. I always feel energized. Your videos make me get off my butt and take care of stuff around the home. Thank you!
Remi, all I see is a mother who wants the best for her family and for herself...a mother who wants to put cleaning and tidying in its proper order of priority with your other priorities....a mother who wants to spend time playing with her family and teaching her children how to take care of their things and their space so that they have those habits instilled in them when they go out on their own in the world. That is the epitome of a good mom. Don't let anyone makenyounthink otherwise of yourself. You alone know how hard you actually work to be that kind of mom and wife and homemaker. But it's obvious to many of us just from the glimpses we get.