He Could Not Stay Here! ~ Abandoned Home of a Loving French Family

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  • Опубликовано: 23 окт 2024

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  • @karyannfontaine8757
    @karyannfontaine8757 2 года назад +81

    A lovely home. I wish the son could have stayed in his home with a carer. When his parents were alive all the furnishings and yard were taken care of with love. A very sad story about a loving family and their abandoned home.

  • @kellysvetkoff
    @kellysvetkoff 2 года назад +85

    That kid who own's that house is probably better off living in a group home because not all mental asylum's are safe. I lived in two group home's in my life, is now living on my own since I was taught how to live by myself. The two group home's helped me, kept me safe. The staff was amazing I was happy there at the time.

    • @helengren9349
      @helengren9349 2 года назад +2

      Agree with you! 🙌 Maybe he is not that bad as for mentalilness & nowadys, there are alternative ways to help persons with mental disabilities live their lives on their own with help of some personal carers...👍

    • @kellysvetkoff
      @kellysvetkoff 2 года назад +9

      @@helengren9349 Thank you because not alot of people care, understand thing's I go through. I had been bullied by my adoptive father, adoptive brother but the two group homes saved me from harm from them. You are right about what you said. I gave you're comment a like.😊

    • @cateeadens5545
      @cateeadens5545 2 года назад

      Save the apostrophe!

    • @kellysvetkoff
      @kellysvetkoff 2 года назад +7

      @@cateeadens5545 Don't tell me how to write my word's please. I don't need people correcting me.🙄

    • @miaknig3130
      @miaknig3130 2 года назад +7

      @@cateeadens5545 youtube is global and not everyone speaks English, and less speak English as a primary language. If it isn't ESL, perhaps someone who lived in group homes had bigger worries than remembering correct punctuation. It seems like people who are usually better at English, read more than those who aren't as good. Again, that could be the result of not having the time to read as much, for people who had to start working at a young age or had more important stuff going on.

  • @DeborahScotts153
    @DeborahScotts153 2 года назад +96

    The items in the box at 19:10 are knife rests. They were used to rest cutlery on, in between courses (when the same set of cutlery was used for various courses), to save the table cloth from being soiled. 💙

  • @pollarbear6492
    @pollarbear6492 2 года назад +188

    Can’t compliment you enough on how you respect everything of the people that used to live in all these places ! My extreme compliments to you sir !

    • @НаталияИлясова-т3е
      @НаталияИлясова-т3е 2 года назад +5

      Ребята Вы супер,почему дома брошены.жилье ведь такое дорогое.Продать нельзя а жит?

    • @tejaahkhamis7424
      @tejaahkhamis7424 Год назад

      😄😄😄🙋‍♀🙋‍♀🙋‍♀💪💪👍👍

  • @reeseni7620
    @reeseni7620 2 года назад +47

    Someone should show Juul this so he can always look at his home when the memories come rushing in

    • @shelitaalbury9681
      @shelitaalbury9681 2 года назад +6

      Is that child still alive if he was born in 1960 he should be about 60 years old now someone should let him know that he has a beautiful mansion and take him to it

    • @user-nb4ne5mu8f
      @user-nb4ne5mu8f 2 года назад

      @@shelitaalbury9681 he is mentally ill and in a mental asylum since his parents both passed away. He owns this home but is unable to care for it.

    • @hazeltreeretreat9035
      @hazeltreeretreat9035 Год назад +1

      ​@@shelitaalbury9681yes thats good idea . Is anyone local to help let me know plse

  • @debbieschultz9768
    @debbieschultz9768 2 года назад +42

    That home is beautiful with the furniture and drapes and beautifully decorated. It’s a shame someone couldn’t care for their son and keep him in his home. 😢

    • @anadiliarestrepo6548
      @anadiliarestrepo6548 2 года назад

      Me encanta todos tus videos me hace sentir que yo estoy en esa época es algo que sorprende felicitaciones

    • @anadiliarestrepo6548
      @anadiliarestrepo6548 2 года назад

      Me da nostalgia escuchar todas estás historias

    • @tygerlily1700
      @tygerlily1700 2 года назад

      🙏❤🕊

    • @jbanana1776
      @jbanana1776 2 года назад +1

      That was my thought! Perhaps things are different in European countries than in the U.S. .

  • @donnapowers6523
    @donnapowers6523 2 года назад +98

    Hello from the Great State of Ohio - USA! I can’t even imagine what their son must have gone through to lose his parents. Any individual who has developmental disabilities may find it difficult to adjust from moving out of his house - let alone losing his loving parents. My heart hurts for him. You are truly a compassionate and caring person Lesley. Thank you for being respectful to this family.

    • @MontanaKat1912
      @MontanaKat1912 2 года назад +17

      I was born with a learning disability. I've lost both of my parents. My mom 7 years ago and my dad 5 years ago. When my mom was on hospice, and she was worried about me. I'm doing great. I do work, I drive, I bought a house last year. I do get help from my caseworker. So sad to watch this. What a beautiful home.

    • @TheAnonyy
      @TheAnonyy 2 года назад +7

      It's same situation for autistic who have at the worst end. My. Friend son is autistic he would have to go into state care when she is gone if no one in the family want to care for him as he can't live alone. It's sad but it happens

    • @carpdude73
      @carpdude73 2 года назад +6

      My wife and son work at a peer modeling autistic school in central Ohio. There are many stories like this that no one knows about so it is great that people like Leslie can shed at least a little light on one story.

    • @ariesrobdiamond1794
      @ariesrobdiamond1794 2 года назад +6

      I'm feeling very sad for their son.

    • @ildikoconstantin5467
      @ildikoconstantin5467 2 года назад +3

      Foarte trist povestea,îmi pare foarte rău că el a rămas singur 😭

  • @melissa7745
    @melissa7745 2 года назад +15

    Out of all the urban explorers, the Bros of Decay find the best homes and tell a most wonderful story about what discoverys they find. Good job guys ,keep it up.

  • @douglaslee7776
    @douglaslee7776 2 года назад +17

    This place looks to be livable with only moderate repairs and cleaning. Thanks for your continued respect for property and persons as you explore.

  • @ramona_rami5643
    @ramona_rami5643 2 года назад +11

    Couples used to have a life time marriage ,back in the day and do anything for their families; the story of this beautiful family is really admirable and touching;how lovely the furniture,the tapistry and the wallpapers are! Thank you for this special exploration!

  • @annmargaret6992
    @annmargaret6992 2 года назад +9

    Dear Lad, I thank you Son for your love of people and history. I am 99 yrs old. I have mental illness in my family and it is terrible. It is a shame some lawyers could sell this home and lands for the son . again Lad thank you Lad for your respect and love of this sweet family. God Bless you Son!

  • @evabojtos1978
    @evabojtos1978 2 года назад +3

    Hovà tünt a csalàd ? Gyerekek ,rokonok? Senki nincsen örökös ? Ennyit èrnek a tàrgyak ,mindent itt hagyunk vègül ! Köszönöm ,hogy időutazhatok veled ! Szèp munka ,àldàs ,egèszsèg !

  • @janiebrossmann1178
    @janiebrossmann1178 2 года назад +15

    So heartbreaking to hear about these types of tragedies 💔 😔 I just wish that there was some type of estate sale and the house would be sold and the money would be donated to the mental institution where the son is currently living. 🙏

  • @carlahelin5203
    @carlahelin5203 2 года назад +11

    Love the respect given to the parents with a moment of silence. So sad for their grown child.

  • @luvmyrecords
    @luvmyrecords 2 года назад +4

    Poor guy - it seems a shame that nobody is looking out for him, and that the house isn't being sold so that he can have the assets for his care and needs. Thank you for your respect and care.

  • @squirrelbaby-c7r
    @squirrelbaby-c7r Год назад +1

    I feel sorry for Joule, how is he now? I sympathized with him that he did not live in the house his parents had built for him so sad
    The house is very beautiful ... he should be able to live and have someone take care of him.;(

  • @careyh38
    @careyh38 2 года назад +15

    Wauw! The house is beautifully decorated . The rooster crowing at the beginning of the video was funny. Our neighbors have a rooster 🐓.
    Great respect for the family and sad story. Their son played accordion 🪗

  • @lindaelick6067
    @lindaelick6067 2 года назад +18

    Unless France used them as brooms, the stick with the feathers is called a feather duster and used as such. Such a very sad story of the people who lived there, it’s a shame it appears they had no other family. Depending on the year Juul was born he could be 57 to 60 years old now. Stories like this just break my heart, having to leave the only home he’s ever known to live in an asylum of some sort is so sad. The video was amazing though, with great respect and feeling to their legacy.

  • @kathleenodriscoll3203
    @kathleenodriscoll3203 2 года назад +14

    You have great respect for people's homes and you're careful with everything it was a beautiful house and as you said there's a lot of love in the home with their special son , may his parents rest in peace.❤🙏🙏🙏🌹

  • @michaelpatterson5811
    @michaelpatterson5811 2 года назад +7

    Your total respect for someone else's property shines out, Lesley, as always. Thank you for that. Your respectful pause in the bedroom was quite special.
    The little glass blocks in a box on the dresser in the Dining Room are cutlery rests - the French used to use just one set of cutlery throughout a meal, and these were used to kep the tablecloth clean ('gardez vos couverts!' the waitress may still tell you in small rural restaurants).

  • @nannyofmany8315
    @nannyofmany8315 2 года назад +6

    So beautiful. What an amazing home. So sad. The boy is alive presume. So nothing can be done to sell the house or anything like that. Tragic that it must just be left rather than being used to home a new family. Much impressed by the property. Struck by the lack of vandalism too. Wonderful.
    Wouldn’t it be great if you could find out what will happen to the property. I absolutely love it!! 🤗💜😁

  • @lynncorvillion7557
    @lynncorvillion7557 2 года назад +9

    Beautiful house! But I feel sorry for the son! Gorgeous antiques there. Some of the wood pieces are really pretty! Thank so much for show us this💜

  • @lindacaboni6523
    @lindacaboni6523 2 года назад +5

    Grazie x la tua dolcezza nel raccontare questa triste storia. In questa casa resterà x sempre l'amore di mamma e papà x il loro dolce figlio. Nel cuore di Jul ci sarà la forza e l'amore dei suoi amati genitori. Grazie ragazzi siete grandi e sempre rispettosi educati e gentili.

  • @judyh.6956
    @judyh.6956 Год назад +2

    I love the respect he shows for the homes he tours and the people who lived in them. And it’s wonderful to listen to him weave the story of their lives as he guides us through the home. Also, his accent is adorable.❤

  • @donnabradshaw3307
    @donnabradshaw3307 2 года назад +47

    Sad but beautifully told. I’m surprised the state doesn’t take it. You are getting better and better at these videos. Keep it up. Love you all.💚🍀♥️♥️

    • @lissanne9769
      @lissanne9769 2 года назад +1

      I'm not trying to be a troll. Could you explain your comment "You are getting better and better at these videos "? What's better?

    • @donnabradshaw3307
      @donnabradshaw3307 2 года назад +3

      What I meant was when he first started doing his videos he jumped around too much with camera was hard to see things. Now he is great.

    • @janetshaffer423
      @janetshaffer423 2 года назад +5

      I always loved his respectdul behavior...How he is speaking about the current owners parents and grandparents....Its lovely and a poignant reminder how short life is!

    • @ranisrikumar5735
      @ranisrikumar5735 2 года назад +1

      True, wonder the state doesn’t take such properties! Even the house of their parents’ eventually abandoned.. sad to see

  • @esthermarcen7587
    @esthermarcen7587 2 года назад +9

    the box with the little shiny rectangular flower thing is a tool for putting to rest cutlery when you set a table for guests and you dress the table for an elegant meal. you put that and the guest can put their forks etc to rest there while they are chatting or whatever and is more elegant than if you put them on the dish, also resting there is not mistaken that you did finish the meal as if they were left on the dish. that is an old way, in some European countries

    • @melissapekarek3283
      @melissapekarek3283 2 года назад +1

      This is fascinating. Thank you. Lovely idea, it's a shame it didn't catch on in the US.

  • @cindyhazelton9683
    @cindyhazelton9683 2 года назад +13

    The house was lovely. However, I can not comprehend in any way why people would go through stuff and leave the incredible piles on the floor or furniture being flipped.. .maybe they have to look for money and jewelry but in my mind..they need to be drop kicked where they stand for all the destruction they cause.
    I'm looking forward to your next video and the feather broom was for dusting..probably for Walls, the top of door ways and ceilings. Shorter handled feather dusters were for table and bureau tops..things that could be easily reached.

  • @emoji5005
    @emoji5005 2 года назад +8

    What a wonderful family,thank you for sharing their story. Much love from USA

  • @KaiqueNask
    @KaiqueNask 2 года назад +4

    The respectful and enthusiastic way that you go through the house is admirable - shows how great and professional this channel is. I love it!

  • @maryroche5633
    @maryroche5633 Год назад +3

    You are so kind and reverent in every video. This was a great one, sharing their lives with us is an honor.

  • @Chereese0808
    @Chereese0808 2 года назад +4

    Beautiful home.
    The artwork is amazing.
    Such a sad story.
    The son may not still understand where his parents went.
    I hope he was able to understand that it was a tragic accident.
    Thanks for the tour.
    Your respect for others property is admired.
    Bless your kind heart for taking a moment of silence.
    That's very sweet of you.
    Bless your big heart. 💗

    • @andychris7647
      @andychris7647 Год назад

      That’s nice to hear. Hi Chereese how are you doing with your family i do hope you’re safe from the Covid?

  • @hunhun23
    @hunhun23 2 года назад +8

    IT IS SO SAD THAT NO ONE IS GOING IN THERE TO CARE FOR THE PLACE

  • @charlottebarbour1944
    @charlottebarbour1944 2 года назад +6

    If the govt is taking care of the son that they would be allowed to sell the property. But every country has different laws. Another beautiful video. Thank you.

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie 2 года назад

      I suspect the house was built on the grandparents land and now the aunts and uncles are battling it out. It happens more often than you would think. Everybody trusts their parents' word and then the parents don't bother making a will.

  • @kayunderwood8598
    @kayunderwood8598 2 года назад +6

    Such a sad story. Appears to have been a beautiful and warm welcoming home.
    What you call an accountancy desk we (U.S.A.) call a secretary. Also, the feather broom, lol, it was a feather duster. Love the delicacy with which you handle these abandon places. Looking forward to next week's video!!!!

  • @tracywarbritton2811
    @tracywarbritton2811 2 года назад +7

    Heartbreaking story.

  • @jeannettethorsby7085
    @jeannettethorsby7085 2 года назад +5

    Beautiful lives lived and a beautiful home. They together created it all. I'm glad you are the person to tell parts of their story. Your always respectful to the people who have lived in all these places you share with us. I hope one day I can leave behind my story to be told with such honor and respect. Thank you for another wonderful exploration. May God bless you all and keep you safe always.

  • @ellietobe
    @ellietobe 2 года назад +12

    Don’t people write wills? It is so strange that there are so many beautiful abandoned homes there. People with a handicapped child should always have a will not only for property but for the care of their children should something happen to them. Certainly they must have had some family or friends or even an agency to leave the child and the home to. The sale of the house would help to pay for the care of the child. An insurance policy could have paid for the son to be well cared for instead of in the care of some government agency. It is just amazing that these homes are just left abandoned for decades with no resolution!
    The people who lived in this home knew how to decorate and had an appreciation for art. What a shame.

    • @susanfuller9942
      @susanfuller9942 2 года назад +1

      I have raised my totally disabled Autistic daughter for 48 years and when I pass away my son and his wife will care for her. Here in the US, my daughter cannot own or inherit any real property or she would not be able to receive any financial living expense from the Government. She would be forced to sell mine and her home and live off of that money until it ran out.

    • @kathleenstanley6751
      @kathleenstanley6751 2 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry you have this government rule to live by. Your daughter should be able to inherit and receive living expenses from the government. You are, undoubtedly, not a very wealthy person who dodges taxes and owns multiple homes and yachts with bank accounts in the Cayman's. Those folks don't need assistance and it is those folks who make the rules for every one of us so that we will always be less-off than them. Best of luck to you and your family.

    • @ellietobe
      @ellietobe 2 года назад

      @@kathleenstanley6751 A mentally handicapped person certainly can inherit property in the US. One issue would be that the income from the inheritance may effect the child’s social security benefits. Mentally disabled children receive income from the government if they live on their own or if they live with parents that have an income that is under a certain amount. That amount varies according to the amount of property owned and/or any additional income from stocks etc. If the child inherits a large sum it could effect their social security benefits. These benefits are not a lot of money but enough for a person to live on with the other government assistance programs available.
      In the US disabled children with no income or low income receive disability/social security money monthly. There are also many other services provided. Obviously, a severely handicapped person would need a caretaker to help oversee their care and any inheritance, should the parents die. This caretaker can be appointed by the parents in a will.
      As in any civilized country a mentally disabled person or minor child has to have a caretaker to help them handle their daily care and finances depending on the level of disability. There are many mentally handicapped people who are able to live on their own and handle their own expenses. A minor child or adult that is severely mentally handicapped and cannot handle their own finances would need an appointed guardian to help handle any inheritance but the property would still belong to the child who inherits. If the parents do not leave a will appointing that guardian then the state has to do it as the instance in this video. I would assume that in most cases parents would much prefer deciding their child’s future over having the government do it.
      Any will has an executor to handle the dispensing of the possessions of the deceased. The appointed executor is usually in charge of making sure that a severely handicapped person’s inheritance is properly dispensed. Many times parents will choose a lawyer to do it. If the estate is too small to pay for a lawyer or executor to care for the finances then the parents can appoint a guardian for their child to oversee the care.
      The guardian would help take care of the over site of the inheritance and the care of the child. It is up to the parents to put their desires in their will. If there are no arrangements made by the parents ahead of their death then the state is forced to get involved.
      A child whose parents leave no will or income would be taken care of by government agencies and, yes, any property would be sold to help pay for the care of their child. This is why it is so important for parents, such as those referred to in this video, to make a will ahead of time. No one knows when an accident may happen. Even if the children have no handicap; parents should have a legal and binding will that states exactly who they want to care for their children and the division of the property. If there is no will then the state steps in and handles it in court. If there is a family member that wants the children there may be no problem but if their is a family squabble about who gets the children then it can get messy. It is important to see to such arrangements ahead of time.
      Disabled people with no additional income from the parents are pretty well taken care of in the U.S. by government agencies. If someone does not want their property to go to their disabled child upon their death they can leave it to someone else. It would seem that if they are not now paying for the care of their child then they probably will not leave any inheritance to that child that would take away their government benefits. Is that fair? Someone is paying for the care of that child. It is up to each person to decide.

    • @susanfuller9942
      @susanfuller9942 2 года назад

      @@kathleenstanley6751 Government does get in the way sometimes, but Sarah and I are comfortable and happy. It does gall me that people like Jeff Bezos does not pay income tax and continues to pollute our fragile earth with his phallic machine, just for 30 seconds above the earth. Think of all the people on this earth he could save from hunger and disease with all the millions spent on his colossal ego.

  • @JaKaiMS
    @JaKaiMS 2 года назад +5

    I mostly enjoy these type of vids for the decoration and architecture, but I honestly have a hard time watching any other channel after finding this one. They just never have such amazing respect and obvious passion for the places and there always seems to be a gimic of sorts. I will keep eagerly waiting for more of these beautiful vids.

  • @СветланаСорокина-ь6э
    @СветланаСорокина-ь6э 2 года назад +7

    Спасибо за замечательный фильм, красивый дом, сразу видно, что здесь жила прекрасная семья

  • @gloriacgiraldog4644
    @gloriacgiraldog4644 2 года назад +17

    Que lástima que nadie se hiciera cargo de Juul, y sus cuidadores pudieran vivir con el en esta casa y evitar que el tiempos los años acaben con la casa
    Los muebles son hermosos y el gallo canta lindo
    Me gustan tus videos Leslie, por el respeto que le das a todas las pertenencias de personas, que alguna vez vivieron allí
    Saludos desde Colombia 💁🇨🇴🇨🇴🇨🇴
    Olvidé decirte que muero por un mueble de secretaria, aqui en mi pais, no los conocen

    • @Chereese0808
      @Chereese0808 2 года назад +2

      Look on ebay for a secretary desk.
      You should be able to find many there, but I'm not sure.

    • @movingpicutres99
      @movingpicutres99 2 года назад

      11.25 Figurines (little statues) not puppets.

    • @movingpicutres99
      @movingpicutres99 2 года назад

      12.47 lampshade. Rome.

    • @movingpicutres99
      @movingpicutres99 2 года назад

      13.57 not accountancy desk. Secretary desk. Drop leaf writing table.

  • @jameshunt2603
    @jameshunt2603 2 года назад +2

    Leslie your Incredible videos are becoming like a Docu-Series/ Visual History of these homes. I watch your videos as soon as I am able to and I have sometimes found myself so engrossed in them that I will laugh along with you or get emotional when you lovingly share about the families who left their homes behind. Your Channel is absolutely incredible and I say again, Thank you for your inspiring videos. Thank you for being so gentle with the items in the homes. Thank you for taking the time to give us extra insights into the amazing and exciting finds that you encounter. Your excitement when finding breath taking/hidden places, caves, grottos, is felt by your viewers! Truly you have found your gift, Bringing abandoned Homes to life.
    Once again. Thank you!

  • @TamaraM72
    @TamaraM72 8 месяцев назад

    Sweet Lesley I loved your moment of silence! I’ve never seen you do that before and it was truly lovely. No one else could do what you do how you do it! Your respect for the places and families is so beautiful. Love you so much my dear! 🥰♥️🇺🇸

  • @rebeccawoods5119
    @rebeccawoods5119 2 года назад +3

    You always pour your heart out to us when you tell the story of the family that lived in these places.You definitely have a beautiful soul.Thank you for taking us on another as you say, epic adventure.Have fun here in America and as always, we love you too.

  • @elianeradoux2825
    @elianeradoux2825 2 года назад +1

    Quel beau commentaire.
    Merci pour le respect que vous avez eu dans la visite de cette maison j'ai était très touché. Bonne continuation.

  • @carrieg.4995
    @carrieg.4995 2 года назад +1

    Those little items with the flowers, in the box in the dining area, were knife rests used on the table.

  • @garygrondin3982
    @garygrondin3982 5 месяцев назад

    Your minute of silence to them was amazing, thank you.

  • @lesliegrossman916
    @lesliegrossman916 2 года назад +3

    SOME OF THIS LOOKS IN PERFECT ORDER WOW. AND YES THIS ONE IS A SAD ONE. .. I WONDER WHY FAMILY DOES NOT . DO ANYTHING WITH THESE AMAZING PLACES.

    • @TheAnonyy
      @TheAnonyy 2 года назад

      Probably taxes! That roof would be expensive to deal with it's obviously started before they died May not had enough to fix it the plaster upstairs mostly fallen away

  • @nesasyahirah4928
    @nesasyahirah4928 2 года назад +3

    My godness beautiful finding abandoned house…i always admired all the stunning caste/house that u bring to us Lesly…

    • @jmitterii2
      @jmitterii2 2 года назад +1

      This one isn't "really" abandoned. It's just not occupied by the currently mentally incapacitated person.
      I don't know... glad he risks it for us... to watch.. but... this one is breaking and entering... and that's a felony in the US. I wouldn't do it LOL!

  • @donnavaughn5393
    @donnavaughn5393 2 года назад +2

    Thanks you my friend see you soon

  • @silviacarducci6691
    @silviacarducci6691 2 года назад +1

    Che tristezza ..ma questa è la vita ...io non perdo un video tuo ammiro con quanto sentimento entri in queste case sei una bella persona...sei grande. Lesly

  • @marystonge1
    @marystonge1 2 года назад +2

    You really honor these families with showing such respect to their homes. Thank you so much for doing these videos.

    • @andychris7647
      @andychris7647 Год назад

      Same here!
      Hello Mary how are you doing with your family i do hope you’re safe from the Covid?

  • @gachagachajen
    @gachagachajen 2 года назад +1

    I greatly appreciate the care you take with everything you touch, no matter how dilapidated it is. You appreciate that the items and home once belonged to someone and you respect that and I respect and appreciate you for that. Thank you for sharing these wonderful places with the world.

    • @andychris7647
      @andychris7647 Год назад

      Same here he did a great Job.
      Hello Jen how are you doing with your family i do hope you’re safe from the Covid?

  • @schamblin45
    @schamblin45 2 года назад +2

    What a sad story. The home is beautiful and I hope the Son is able to sell it soon. Fantastic video again, Lesley! Stay safe out there!

  • @MistressElviraa
    @MistressElviraa 2 года назад

    Beautiful story I hope the couple’s beloved son is able to see this video and is living a good life. The photo of him playing the instrument is beautiful. H

  • @kathsmith4924
    @kathsmith4924 2 года назад +8

    I’m sure the parents would have hoped there son took over all they worked for in there lives so sad 😞 it looks like someone has already been in and ransacked the property

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie 2 года назад +1

      I suspect the house was built on the grandparents land and everyone is squabbling over it.

  • @reneedejulia8286
    @reneedejulia8286 2 года назад +6

    I absolutely love the furniture and the whole house thank you Lesley, keep making wonderful videos. I really appreciate the respect that you have to tell and explain what things are so thank you😁🌹

  • @ruthbeck2050
    @ruthbeck2050 2 года назад +3

    This place was beautiful to bad their son wasn't able to keep it up. I wish him the best life can offer him. Parts of the house looks like it has been vandalized. Really enjoyed seeing it, thank you so much. Be careful Leslie don't want anything to happen to you as I love your videos.

  • @amyshoemake
    @amyshoemake 2 года назад +1

    I pray for peace and Jule for the rest of his time on earth. Thank you for introducing us to him and hogs wonderful parents.

  • @curtiss0267
    @curtiss0267 29 дней назад

    You are so adept at bringing the stories of these places to the world with dignity and respect. Thanks for another awesome explore.

  • @mariaorellana867
    @mariaorellana867 2 года назад +4

    Saludos desde Honduras y New Jersey.
    Me gusta la manera de entrar en cada habitación con respeto por las personas que la habitaron. Todo abandonado a su suerte, cada Cosa cada Rincón todo lo vivido alli y a quedado en el olvido. Una recomendación amigo una nevera con tantos años sin uso, nunca se abre es muy peligroso por las bacteria que ahí se Forman, y lo peor sin mascarilla. Bonito video.

  • @colleenasteevesbos6975
    @colleenasteevesbos6975 2 года назад +4

    Beautiful documentary on such a sad story. It’s a shame the the state didn’t sell the home and bank the money for their son. This way the home could be saved and remain beautiful.

  • @vicentaportero3604
    @vicentaportero3604 2 года назад +4

    Bros decay ermosa mansión Équipo saludos megusta asta la próxima.🙋🇪🇸🎥😘😘

  • @christianehuber1145
    @christianehuber1145 2 года назад +1

    This a very incredible place! I like this old dining room. So beautiful and such a sad story behind!

    • @andychris7647
      @andychris7647 Год назад

      Hello Christine how are you doing with your family i do hope you’re safe from the Covid?

  • @watchshout9663
    @watchshout9663 2 года назад

    Im from the Philippines I like watching your videos abandoned houses and I realize how people living in year 1950s,1960s, to 1970s and I feel awful if I seeing the old things reminds of my grandma sewing clothes good luck and more videos to come

  • @anafabiano9019
    @anafabiano9019 2 года назад +3

    A Wonderful video as always!
    Gratitude!🥰🥰🥰🥰🙏🏼🥰🥰

  • @susannasoltanto4786
    @susannasoltanto4786 2 года назад +1

    Sei davvero un caro ragazzo. Adoro vedere le case abbandonate e scoprire la vita di chi ci abitava. È sempre stato un mio sogno... fai urbex con passione e rispetto. Un abbraccio

  • @helenawarsinnak
    @helenawarsinnak 2 года назад +2

    Leslie, u truly are so genuinely sweet, caring and so dedicated in what u do!! You show so much respect to the homes u enter, as well as showing respect to the families who once had lived inside their homes... ur such a sincere gentleman!! unfortunately, there are not many guys like u left in this world!! But, this was such an absolutely gorgeous home!! but what a heartbreaking story...it is so sad that the son can not enjoy it or all the memories that are left behind from his parents and his childhood...if there is no caretakers of this house, unfortunately one day this house will no longer be standing and all of their belongings and memories will be lost forever...so truly saddening...😢

  • @crystaldean183
    @crystaldean183 2 года назад

    What a shame , the wood furniture through out the house is Absolutely gorgeous. RIP Mr.&Mrs. What a beautiful life they lived in this home. It's sad it's just slowly rotting away.

  • @cynthiatomblin5427
    @cynthiatomblin5427 2 года назад +3

    Hi Lesley. What a sad story. Beautiful house and the inside and the furniture too great video great job. Stay safe.😍👍🏻❤️👏🏻🔥

    • @andychris7647
      @andychris7647 Год назад

      Hi Cynthia how are you doing with your family i do hope you’re safe from the Covid?

  • @lalani888ARTblue
    @lalani888ARTblue 2 года назад

    Wow... Leslie I just love you ~ You have such compassion for not only the home but the people who lived there ~ This home could indeed be rescued and renovated ~ It's SO Beautiful!! ~ Having worked with mentally challenged people I feel to put out there that parents create in their will - That if anything happens to them - that their home be used as a group home for their own child but also other children until their child passes ~ That way the home can be maintained and their child doesn't have to experience the trauma of being taken away from the only home they know ~ This place is so special and inviting ~ Bless your 💜 for all the sharing you do for others Leslie ~ Much Love To You 💌

  • @priscillarobinson7740
    @priscillarobinson7740 2 года назад +2

    Very touching story of this family. Such beautiful furniture too. What you are calling tapestries one the wall is called needlepoint. I do this craft and have done it for 50+ years although I’ve never seen it that large. As usual you have done an excellent job taking me through another unique home. See you in your next video 🏡

    • @marilyndenler1370
      @marilyndenler1370 2 года назад

      You said what I was going to say. And I think the wife or grandmother made those beautiful oval ones.

  • @annettechaw3203
    @annettechaw3203 8 месяцев назад

    This video made me cry ...i really feel so so sorry..esp for JULES...

  • @carolanncortes368
    @carolanncortes368 2 года назад +1

    I agree very respectful, love and appreciate these films thank you..
    Wish I can understand why everything left behind unless they passed away

  • @annsmith4739
    @annsmith4739 2 года назад +4

    Great place sad story,thank you Lesley lv Ann uk 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧❤️❤️❤️

  • @marilyndenler1370
    @marilyndenler1370 2 года назад +1

    I live in the state of Minnesota, US and back in the day they took photos of area farms, and if you saw yours in the local newspaper you could go to the newspaper and you’d receive a glossy 8”x10” photo of your farm. My grandparents had theirs displayed in the living room for years. Also, the large tapestry that you said was two women ? I believe was a man on the left and the woman on the right . Leslie, this was a charming home at one time with some lovely pieces of furniture. Thank you for making this video … oh, just want to add my parents were 2 weeks shy of their 70th wedding anniversary when my dad died. My mom had two brothers and three sisters and all celebrated sixty or more years of marriage except her younger brother who died before he and his wife were married that long. Hope you are enjoying your trip in the US!

  • @janedoe6489
    @janedoe6489 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for this touching Video and your great respect for the former owners. Great work🙏 Greetings from germany🍀

  • @carlahansen4000
    @carlahansen4000 2 года назад +1

    I certainly agree... the care taken while looking at the places is awesome and admirable...

  • @canadiancritical2988
    @canadiancritical2988 2 года назад +2

    🎶I love the classical music in the background🎶
    It suites the homes you explore perfectly.

  • @carmengalindopelaez9159
    @carmengalindopelaez9159 2 года назад +6

    Como siempre precioso video. Que triste ver la decadencia en estas casas que en otro tiempo se decoration con tanto gusto. Como en la mayoría de las casa que nos enseñas ya han sido saqueada y es una verdadera lástima.
    Un saludo

  • @karenshawn8406
    @karenshawn8406 2 года назад +2

    the back part of the house is collapsing. The place must have been gorgeous gardens. Love the wall paper. They do that now, flying over and taking pictures and then try to sell the photos to you. Great video and thank you for showing us this place. lean on God

  • @paulap.m.4515
    @paulap.m.4515 2 года назад +2

    MARAVILLOSO LUGAR CASI INTACTO. ME GUSTA VER EL RESPETO QUE SIENTES POR ESE LUGAR Y DARLE SU TROCITO EN LA HISTORIA. BUEN TRABAJO.

  • @carladulcebraga3290
    @carladulcebraga3290 2 года назад +1

    Amei teu vídeo!!!!!! Emocionante!!!!

  • @froggieredcliffe8097
    @froggieredcliffe8097 Год назад

    Hi Lesley, this is another sad story. You do a great tribute to the Families that you document. Thank you

  • @rusnahjalani8535
    @rusnahjalani8535 2 года назад

    With lots of love and gratitude...
    From North Borneo Sabah Malaysia
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @christinelaurent165
    @christinelaurent165 2 года назад

    Very sad story... I hope the son have found a very pleasant refuge, with plenty of very nice people to take care of him...

  • @alipeacock3685
    @alipeacock3685 2 года назад +1

    Love watching you, you are so respectful…softly spoken that often reflects the sad situation of these abandoned properties ..you love what you do and it shows ..respect

  • @sarahfarrell8214
    @sarahfarrell8214 2 года назад +1

    Such a beautiful home Lesley, thank you for having so much respectful for the family who once lived there. Annother great video, love ya!

  • @sevillahablero1318
    @sevillahablero1318 Год назад

    Hello Leslie,i really appreciate your respect to the every owner abandon house, see to your vlog God Bless!!!im from the Philippines!!!

  • @Sabrina-hu1bs
    @Sabrina-hu1bs 2 года назад +3

    Такой дом красивый как жалко что хозяев нету грустно становится 🙇‍♀️ .Спасибо 💯👍👍👏👏👏

  • @gwenlaw4644
    @gwenlaw4644 2 года назад +2

    What a beautiful home! How I would love to explore these amazing properties. Living this dream through you my friend.

  • @willyegger4488
    @willyegger4488 2 года назад +1

    Heyy dear Lesley, Already your introductory narration was again from a breathtaking beauty, how you were telling the sad background
    story of the disabled son and the terrible car accident of his parents. I was so deeply touched by your sensitive words. I was completely
    overwhelmed by your narration about the background story of the fate from this French family with their disabled son, who is still
    alive. - so entirely heartbreaking!
    You always show so much deep empathy and sincere compassion, which clearly shows in the expression of your face, for instance,
    when you said: .."but even to the best people in life the worst things happen". - Listening to that I couldn't help having tears in my eyes!
    And then - this silent moment of memory for these people! - Lesley, you are so wonderful!
    What a wonderful house! - The living room was still so surprisingly well preserved with very comfortable and beautiful furniture.
    The dining room was somehow really quite elegant, and the whole place does not even look so long abandoned, considering
    the well preserved condition of the location. - I loved seeing your climbing skills! Amazing, hahaha...! - The red velvet curtains provide
    an elegant atmosphere to this room. - I couldn't help laughing a bit, when you were saying: "When I was young...", so funny to hear
    that from you, because you are still very young, but of course not more a child, what was certainly your intention to express, my
    dear friend. - No wonder, the Eau de Cologne from that bottle was smelling very good, because the company "Roger et Gallet"
    is one of the most famous and oldest perfume producers in France. - Dear Lesley, this was once more an absolutely awesome
    and entirely wonderful explore video with a wonderful comment by you as well, where I enjoyed following you in mind through
    all these rooms. I was even rewatching your video! -- Stay safe, and wishing you still much more unforgettable inspirations
    in the USA and Canada together with Maureno.
    Please send my kindest regards also to your lovely brother Jordy, "who likes to open fridges", hahah!
    Many hugs, blessings, peace and kindest regards.

  • @robertladue7647
    @robertladue7647 2 года назад

    Leslie, you always amaze me with your gentility.
    The house, once again, loved you. You were so thoughtful and caring, especially about Jule. Your respect of the parents was so heartwarming.
    Thank you Leslie. Vous etes un bon homme. Merci.

  • @glenyshanlon5112
    @glenyshanlon5112 Год назад

    Very sad there was no other family to take care of the son its heartbreaking 💔 that he had to be put into a home God bless 🙏 all the family. 🙏

  • @aquatadevore9335
    @aquatadevore9335 2 года назад +3

    Those blackberries outside of the garage look delicious, I'd be picking a basket full for jam and a pie 😋

    • @lindatimmons3675
      @lindatimmons3675 2 года назад +1

      Aquata DeVore.....
      I didn't see blackberries, I need to watch again.

    • @aquatadevore9335
      @aquatadevore9335 2 года назад

      @@lindatimmons3675 They're literally right when Leslie walks out of the garage into the driveway and I could just barely see a few clusters of them in the bushes, but they weren't all ripe though, about half of them are ripe but the other ones are red

  • @kristineguetschow9134
    @kristineguetschow9134 2 года назад +38

    Surely Jules’ parents were aware of the fact that their son was incapable of maintaining the family homestead. Why, then, would they not arrange for the sale of the property after their deaths and for the proper care of their son in a facility? Instead, Jules is made to leave his home and is put in a mental asylum. The tragedy here is not so much in the abandonment of the homestead, but is in the forced living arrangements made for Jules after the death of his parents.

    • @MissPresley69
      @MissPresley69 2 года назад +3

      Truth be spoken. I also don't believe that he was "born" with a mental illness. Dysfunctions in a family are often not recognised, until they show up in mental illnesses of the children.

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie 2 года назад +2

      It says so much if people don't put their affairs in order before they die. Sort of reminds me of the fella in Australia who abducted the little girl. His mother had died and obviously he couldn't cope either. Sad all around.

    • @Iam-me
      @Iam-me 2 года назад

      Need to create trustee if you ve disable kid

    • @elimac5613
      @elimac5613 2 года назад +3

      As a resident of France, I can assure everyone that it is likely that the son would have been made a ward of the state by his parents before their death. The house will only be disposed of once it is established that NO other relatives have a claim on it. France has very established inheritance laws and the process of sorting this out can take many years. The French state does not sell homes to pay for the care of those too old or incapable of looking after themselves. It should also be noted that whilst the house has been left, french neighbours and friends would be pretty unhappy to see someone looking about this house, no matter how respectful the presenter appears!

    • @MariaGonzalez-wg4fm
      @MariaGonzalez-wg4fm 2 года назад +3

      Can somebody help juul ?, try to arrange visits to his home this video it's heartbreaking 💔😭 just hope someone can come forward & help him!🙏🏻

  • @trishrogers7981
    @trishrogers7981 Год назад

    Hello Lesley from the furtherest country on the planet - New Zealand. Love your work, your passion and utmost respect that you have for what you do. Its so nostalgic, but also love that the abandoned places you share here are so rich in history and reflections of times past.
    Your sincerity, compassion and respect is warm and you breathe life into every discovery. Thank you. It would be nice if Juul's caregivers could let him revisit and revisit his happy childhood. Stay doing what you do so well, God Bless and keep you always.

  • @gorelblennow2405
    @gorelblennow2405 2 года назад

    I live the way you explain and tell about the things and the people. Very soft, romantic and respectful. 💕🌹You're special. 😊

  • @tetapiricca7538
    @tetapiricca7538 2 года назад

    Ciao. I tuoi video sono bellissimi, ma soprattutto mi piace il rispetto e la discrezione che dimostri di avere nei confronti delle persone che hanno abitato in quelle case. Sei una bella persona. Ti abbraccio.

  • @gloriaayala238
    @gloriaayala238 2 года назад +8

    Que hermosa casa ,gracias por los subtítulos en español y nos cuantas la historia de lo que pudo a ver sucedido con las personas que vivieron hay soy de México y me encanta ver tu trabajo agradezco mucho los subtítulos 😘😘😘

  • @ritafoster8625
    @ritafoster8625 2 года назад +9

    Too bad he doesn't have aunts or uncles that could help him sell the place. So sad

    • @helengren9349
      @helengren9349 2 года назад

      It is better if they continued to look after him in his home, instead of selling it...