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*Story 1:* OP is definitely not the jerk in this story. Who the hell is Uncle to go against nephew's wishes and have construction done on his house? Good for OP for standing his ground and telling them *"No! This is not happening!"* 🏠
Story 1: This is why you never cave into the "family" card. If this were me, i would've issued a cease and desist on the construction. Who knows what kind of crap work was done here. As for the new contracts, i wouldn't even be giving him any kind of new contract. Once the existing one is up, do NOT renew it or give him others. Get him out of there. Also, whats the deal with the grandma all her guilt-tripping? I would cut everyone out for good over this. Story 2: Yeah, OP, you should feel guilty and bad here and i have absolutely zero sympathy for you and your current dilemma. There never is any reason to cheat, and made even worse but actually thinking that your husband would cheat. The husband deserves way better then you. Story 3: Just tell your mom already, no matter how strict she is. The OP is 19, not 16. You're an adult now. Stop trying to beat around the bush here and just get it over with. Your mom willl find out eventually, so just tell her.... regardless of what her reaction will be. If she accepts, then great. If she doesn't, then too bad. It's your life and relationship, not hers. Story 4: No way is the OP a jerk here and i would be 100% demanding that money back. With all the BS told about the MIL here, i'm surprised that you're ever given her a single dime, muchless a couple hundred dollars. She only does this because she knows she can get away with it. Get your money back, and then limit or cut contact with her. Story 5: OP is not a jerk and has done nothing wrong here. The OP's name is on the lease, not Becca's, so if anyone should be moving out, it is her, not the OP. Stop trying to use pregnancy as some kind of bargaining chip here. If i were the OP, i would let the landlord know about what's going on as well. Story 6: There is absolutely no way on earth i would ever forgive or cancel these child support payments for the niece here. First off, i highly doubt that the sister is doing any better, probably just some lame gaslighting attempt here by the family... but considering the facts that the niece wants next to nothing to do with her mom, along with all the money spent on the courts here, there's no way i would ever let this slide. If you don't get the money for your niece, at least get it for yourself to recover all the legal fees and anguish you had to go through. The sister and anyone on her side are the jerks.
Story 1: My preference: halt construction. Unknown trash was dumped here. I wouldn't extend his contracts. NO renewals or offers after it finishes. Get him out. Why is Granny guilty? Leave everyone for this. Story 2: OP, you should feel terrible, but I don't care. Cheating is never justified, especially if your husband would. Husband deserves more than you. In Story 4, the OP isn't a jerk Story 5: No wrongdoing by OP. The lease says Becca must go, not the OP. Avoid using pregnancy as leverage. I would notify the landlord as the OP.
Whats even worse, the construction without permits just ruined that house, as EVERYTHING will need to be torn out and replaced. As for the family card, one never mixes business with family.
I once spent a summer working at a friend's business. They were surprised at how I kept business and friendship separate. Same goes for working for family. Once the working day is done, then it's time for fun with friends. But not during business hours.
Second story. Yea I have to agree with the narrator, the OP best tell her husband as soon as possible otherwise she will just come up with excuses as time goes on. And after the OP tells the truth she should leave up to her husband to decide whether they will stay together or not. Fourth story. The OP should have explained the issue from a different angle, make him see that his mother is now crossing new line by using his child to extort money out of him.
*Story 1:* Talk about insane people this family is. Just because they're family, they shouldn't bully OP into signing anything he refuses to do. This is so obnoxious and so wrong. Good for OP for standing his ground and hiring an attorney to help.
Story 2: and then if the husband said,”okay we need to do something about you and that coworker” and suggested her finding another job the husband would be labeled controlling. But like, come on, this and countless other stories show why that is a proper response. I think ive said it here before but ill say it again. Marriage is dead. There is no point in marrying.
Story two. You should tell your husband. I couldn't figure out if this was a full affair or emotional but the truth is always best. If you have a priest or pastor, get with them to help you walk through this.
story 2; op i love my husband also op; cheats on him refuses to tell and acts like the victim nah girl your for the streets the poor husband sounds like a Sanit he Deveres better
Last story, here's another view: those child support garnishments are probably the only motivation she has keeping her clean, assuming she is. She's getting clean to try and get you to stop, but if ypu do, she's nosedive. So you're helping both your niece and her mom by keeping them up.
Story 1: Wait, wait, wait, wait, He had enough money to do some construction and yet not enough to actually pay the rent. Yeah, uncle and grandma are the jerk and if anyone is calling op the jerk in that family, then they should help the uncle with the payment. My mom and dad owns my grandparents', my dad's parents, home after their death and let a cousin of his live they and there wasn't anything close to what op is facing. They are civil and paid on time and actually speak with my parent on what they are going to do at the property. However, when my the dust settled when both of my grandparents died, my uncle wanted to live there and both of m parent knew where this was going to lead so they manage to nip that plan at the bud and got a different family member instead. Fight hard op and stand your ground because they desperately want that property. Story 2:Yeah, op is in the wrong needs to face the music or just break-up now. She betrayed her husband's trust and now she seek sympathy from others to justify her actions and grasping at straws for her husband to cheat to also justify on her cheating. Grow up and face the facts that you f-ed up and there is no going back and just tell him. It's going to get a lot worst for when he finds out. Not if, when he find out because lies and secrets come out in one form or another. Story 3: Grow up and tell her or break-up with your boyfriend because your mother will not change her attitude and way of thinking. You just want reason to either break-up with him or get into a fight with your mother. Story 4: Yeah op is not the jerk and needs to hound on her MIL and hear her husband out but only when it doesn't revolve the combination of money and his mother. He needs to grow a spine and actually say no for any dumb request the "Mother Dearest" wants. Story 5: Yeah unless she's also paying and have the lease under her name as well, then that's a stalemate. So yeah op is not the jerk and why isn't the roommate moving into her baby daddy's place? He knocked her up so he needs to take responsibility for her being near him. Story 6: Yeah, I just love it that op points out that if his family wanted to help his sister by canceling the child support if they paid everything that she owed that they actually showed their true attentions. They don't want to hear sister bitch and moan about being in-debt because she couldn't stay clean for HER daughter. If anything, op is making and investment on his niece for her future. He's a better parent than his own sister. Also, where is the baby daddy in all this because if he is still alive then op needs to watch himself in case his sister throws in her ex into the mix in order for her not to pay a cent.
The problem with telling him before his job is with his job he's going to be said to take care of two people, and if he's going to have to take one, he deserves the extra because of what you did to him.
Story 2: Why is it that for women the "solution" to "I'm bored" or "I'm new here and don't have an established circle of friends or family" is to go and fuck around? When for men the solution would be something like "Let me go buy a Playstation, or join a gym, or join a book club."
a friend went 5 mounts with out knowing she was pregent and that was under the care of a doctor they thought she had a blood disorder going on so i could see going a long time with out knowing you are pregent going on.
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@@DDTTHESECONDthe video wasn't public until now?
@@DDTTHESECONDyeah right
*Story 1:* OP is definitely not the jerk in this story. Who the hell is Uncle to go against nephew's wishes and have construction done on his house? Good for OP for standing his ground and telling them *"No! This is not happening!"* 🏠
Story 1: This is why you never cave into the "family" card. If this were me, i would've issued a cease and desist on the construction. Who knows what kind of crap work was done here. As for the new contracts, i wouldn't even be giving him any kind of new contract. Once the existing one is up, do NOT renew it or give him others. Get him out of there. Also, whats the deal with the grandma all her guilt-tripping? I would cut everyone out for good over this.
Story 2: Yeah, OP, you should feel guilty and bad here and i have absolutely zero sympathy for you and your current dilemma. There never is any reason to cheat, and made even worse but actually thinking that your husband would cheat. The husband deserves way better then you.
Story 3: Just tell your mom already, no matter how strict she is. The OP is 19, not 16. You're an adult now. Stop trying to beat around the bush here and just get it over with. Your mom willl find out eventually, so just tell her.... regardless of what her reaction will be. If she accepts, then great. If she doesn't, then too bad. It's your life and relationship, not hers.
Story 4: No way is the OP a jerk here and i would be 100% demanding that money back. With all the BS told about the MIL here, i'm surprised that you're ever given her a single dime, muchless a couple hundred dollars. She only does this because she knows she can get away with it. Get your money back, and then limit or cut contact with her.
Story 5: OP is not a jerk and has done nothing wrong here. The OP's name is on the lease, not Becca's, so if anyone should be moving out, it is her, not the OP. Stop trying to use pregnancy as some kind of bargaining chip here. If i were the OP, i would let the landlord know about what's going on as well.
Story 6: There is absolutely no way on earth i would ever forgive or cancel these child support payments for the niece here. First off, i highly doubt that the sister is doing any better, probably just some lame gaslighting attempt here by the family... but considering the facts that the niece wants next to nothing to do with her mom, along with all the money spent on the courts here, there's no way i would ever let this slide. If you don't get the money for your niece, at least get it for yourself to recover all the legal fees and anguish you had to go through. The sister and anyone on her side are the jerks.
Story 1: My preference: halt construction. Unknown trash was dumped here. I wouldn't extend his contracts. NO renewals or offers after it finishes. Get him out. Why is Granny guilty? Leave everyone for this.
Story 2: OP, you should feel terrible, but I don't care. Cheating is never justified, especially if your husband would. Husband deserves more than you.
In Story 4, the OP isn't a jerk
Story 5: No wrongdoing by OP. The lease says Becca must go, not the OP. Avoid using pregnancy as leverage. I would notify the landlord as the OP.
Story 2:I wanna yell and cus out op omfg
Whats even worse, the construction without permits just ruined that house, as EVERYTHING will need to be torn out and replaced. As for the family card, one never mixes business with family.
Oh yeah after rehearing the story you’re right. He probably did that on purpose. If not then he is really incompetent.
I once spent a summer working at a friend's business. They were surprised at how I kept business and friendship separate.
Same goes for working for family.
Once the working day is done, then it's time for fun with friends. But not during business hours.
Dating story. You're over 18. Tell her, and then she either gets over it or has a heart attack. Either way it's not your problem who you date.
Second story. Yea I have to agree with the narrator, the OP best tell her husband as soon as possible otherwise she will just come up with excuses as time goes on. And after the OP tells the truth she should leave up to her husband to decide whether they will stay together or not.
Fourth story. The OP should have explained the issue from a different angle, make him see that his mother is now crossing new line by using his child to extort money out of him.
she likely wont tell him form the sounds of it
For the strict parent one, I’ve been there. The answer is to just hide until you can move away. Then she can’t say anything
Cheaters are complete scumbags. When I hear them rationalize and excuse their choices, it makes my skin crawl. I will never be with anyone...
Nope he is trying to take advantage of you I would not budge it is yours till he pays all of it I would make it higher 😊
Tell yr uncle to move out or u will not only sue him for everything he got but make sure he never set foot there and to pay the full amount or get out
*Story 1:* Talk about insane people this family is. Just because they're family, they shouldn't bully OP into signing anything he refuses to do. This is so obnoxious and so wrong. Good for OP for standing his ground and hiring an attorney to help.
Story 2: and then if the husband said,”okay we need to do something about you and that coworker” and suggested her finding another job the husband would be labeled controlling. But like, come on, this and countless other stories show why that is a proper response.
I think ive said it here before but ill say it again. Marriage is dead. There is no point in marrying.
Absolutely keep the house if he can't pay the 377k. Update the house and get it up to code and sell it for a million.
Story two. You should tell your husband. I couldn't figure out if this was a full affair or emotional but the truth is always best. If you have a priest or pastor, get with them to help you walk through this.
story 2; op i love my husband
also op; cheats on him refuses to tell and acts like the victim nah girl your for the streets the poor husband sounds like a Sanit he Deveres better
Made even worse by her trying to find "proof" of him cheating. She was likely doing that in the hopes of justifying what she did.
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Last story, here's another view: those child support garnishments are probably the only motivation she has keeping her clean, assuming she is. She's getting clean to try and get you to stop, but if ypu do, she's nosedive. So you're helping both your niece and her mom by keeping them up.
It's not just about the right and wrong thing, timing and forethought is crucial.
Story 1: Wait, wait, wait, wait, He had enough money to do some construction and yet not enough to actually pay the rent. Yeah, uncle and grandma are the jerk and if anyone is calling op the jerk in that family, then they should help the uncle with the payment. My mom and dad owns my grandparents', my dad's parents, home after their death and let a cousin of his live they and there wasn't anything close to what op is facing. They are civil and paid on time and actually speak with my parent on what they are going to do at the property. However, when my the dust settled when both of my grandparents died, my uncle wanted to live there and both of m parent knew where this was going to lead so they manage to nip that plan at the bud and got a different family member instead. Fight hard op and stand your ground because they desperately want that property.
Story 2:Yeah, op is in the wrong needs to face the music or just break-up now. She betrayed her husband's trust and now she seek sympathy from others to justify her actions and grasping at straws for her husband to cheat to also justify on her cheating. Grow up and face the facts that you f-ed up and there is no going back and just tell him. It's going to get a lot worst for when he finds out. Not if, when he find out because lies and secrets come out in one form or another.
Story 3: Grow up and tell her or break-up with your boyfriend because your mother will not change her attitude and way of thinking. You just want reason to either break-up with him or get into a fight with your mother.
Story 4: Yeah op is not the jerk and needs to hound on her MIL and hear her husband out but only when it doesn't revolve the combination of money and his mother. He needs to grow a spine and actually say no for any dumb request the "Mother Dearest" wants.
Story 5: Yeah unless she's also paying and have the lease under her name as well, then that's a stalemate. So yeah op is not the jerk and why isn't the roommate moving into her baby daddy's place? He knocked her up so he needs to take responsibility for her being near him.
Story 6: Yeah, I just love it that op points out that if his family wanted to help his sister by canceling the child support if they paid everything that she owed that they actually showed their true attentions. They don't want to hear sister bitch and moan about being in-debt because she couldn't stay clean for HER daughter. If anything, op is making and investment on his niece for her future. He's a better parent than his own sister. Also, where is the baby daddy in all this because if he is still alive then op needs to watch himself in case his sister throws in her ex into the mix in order for her not to pay a cent.
I HATE when people say, "You should because 'It's family's.
Definitely wait until he has the job.
The problem with telling him before his job is with his job he's going to be said to take care of two people, and if he's going to have to take one, he deserves the extra because of what you did to him.
#1: Just think, he'd be way closer to the full amount if he had not started all that construction...
The controlling mother story I’d tell her she is not in control of my life I’m an adult
Story 2: Why is it that for women the "solution" to "I'm bored" or "I'm new here and don't have an established circle of friends or family" is to go and fuck around? When for men the solution would be something like "Let me go buy a Playstation, or join a gym, or join a book club."
a friend went 5 mounts with out knowing she was pregent and that was under the care of a doctor they thought she had a blood disorder going on so i could see going a long time with out knowing you are pregent going on.
The way you phrased it implies it took five lays before discovering her oven had a bun in it.
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Cheater story. You're a bad person and you should feel bad. Hope hubby dumps you.
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