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  • @withamberarya
    @withamberarya 3 года назад +765

    Being alone is best. Never beg for friendship.
    Earn money and respect.
    People will already get attracted to you.

    • @vega21985
      @vega21985 2 года назад +31

      It's pathetic if you want people to respect you just for your wealth.
      Rather people should remember you for your good deeds and positive impact on society.

    • @satyampandey890
      @satyampandey890 2 года назад +7

      Absolutely Bro!

    • @britee6876
      @britee6876 2 года назад +4

      @@vega21985 right bro...

    • @madhurshinde4988
      @madhurshinde4988 2 года назад +20

      @@vega21985 tired of being good. noone wants a good friend, all they want is either a rich, funny or a smart one.

    • @darshannirin4843
      @darshannirin4843 Год назад +1

      Yesss

  • @jaipandey7142
    @jaipandey7142 3 года назад +7551

    Don't be too obssessed to get a friend, just talk normaly to everyone and do your own work. Btw, being alone or single is very cool!

    • @nishantdeo304
      @nishantdeo304 3 года назад +170

      Absolutely broo.. I also feel the same..

    • @devarshidwi
      @devarshidwi 3 года назад +113

      Umm. That's bullshit. Humans crave interactions with other humans and if they don't get that, mental health starts to deteriorate very fast. So no, if you have no one to do bakchodi with then you're not happy with life(scientifically proven), and if you're not happy with life then what's the point of having Money in the bank account?

    • @zeliang5101
      @zeliang5101 3 года назад +80

      @@devarshidwi that's what happening with me

    • @huie7582
      @huie7582 3 года назад +32

      @@devarshidwi holy fuck dude finally there's a person with brain

    • @danishmusic7069
      @danishmusic7069 3 года назад +99

      I don't have friends. I am lonely

  • @Coco-hg3es
    @Coco-hg3es 3 года назад +2893

    This guy is sooo mature at 24 only🙏

    • @AdityaRSC
      @AdityaRSC 3 года назад +130

      24 is a mature age so there's nothing big deal here

    • @muskan0574
      @muskan0574 3 года назад +130

      @@AdityaRSC there are too many people of his age and also elder then him who are just nonsense so it’s a good thing that he is mature enough in this era..... you know what I mean to say !

    • @AdityaRSC
      @AdityaRSC 3 года назад +15

      @@muskan0574 ya man

    • @Coco-hg3es
      @Coco-hg3es 3 года назад +2

      @@muskan0574 exactly frn👍

    • @muskan0574
      @muskan0574 3 года назад +1

      @@Coco-hg3es hmm🙃

  • @danishdolta9260
    @danishdolta9260 2 года назад +121

    LAST THREE WORDS SAYS REALLY
    FRIEND >>>END 😁
    GIRLFRIEND >>>>END 😆
    BOYFRIEND>>>>END😄
    FAMILY SAYS >>>ILY mean I LOVE YOU☺

  • @karteeksingh4821
    @karteeksingh4821 2 года назад +48

    aapka kaam apke sath rahega aapka dost nahi -best line👌👌

  • @smile-17
    @smile-17 3 года назад +2018

    I was obsessed with my friends there were 5 girls in the group including me ..I was comparatively from simple family as compared to them...I used to go with them everywhere like to their houses and bdays etc even after getting scoldings from my lil bit strict parents...but when I got serious for my neet preparation for just 1 year ...I found myself alone which hurted me a lot I mean I used to cry missing them and think why they don't miss me ...only one of them even called on my bday ... overall they showed the reality of life in just 1 year ......now I am happy and will always be happy even if I had no one with me just my family....

    • @jatinkr6380
      @jatinkr6380 3 года назад +108

      Sabka ye he haal h🙂

    • @Anonymous-kz3ih
      @Anonymous-kz3ih 3 года назад +9

      True ! 🙂

    • @nikhilmittal5598
      @nikhilmittal5598 3 года назад +172

      Sis, the same is for me...but but but...
      When I tried to view it from another angle, I asked from myself...maine khud kitne dosto ko call kiya?
      We tend to say ki hamara koi acha dost nahi ... But ask from urself ... kya tum ho skte ho kisi ke ache dost..
      Plz don't mind me...m bhi unhi me se hu who remains alone at recess...remain alone in free periods...and all that...who can just chat but can't talk face to face.
      Phir ye sab krne ke baad sochta hu ki mera koi acha dost nahi, sare matlabi h...bt m konsa kisi ka acha dost bana🙃
      Khair...maine ye bhi dekha ki ache dost to unke bhi nahi ban pate jo jyada dosti rkhte h...
      I am satisfied with my life, with my own family🤗

    • @Jayshreeusedtomakevidoes
      @Jayshreeusedtomakevidoes 3 года назад +35

      Yahi hua hai friendship was my life now I realised no one actually cared

    • @hammadraza9018
      @hammadraza9018 3 года назад +6

      Did you crack neet?

  • @sarthaksanatani05
    @sarthaksanatani05 2 года назад +144

    I thought i was alone 😂😂😂 here everyone is alone 😅

  • @btsarmygalaxy
    @btsarmygalaxy 2 года назад +612

    Bitter fact :-There can never be friendship without selfishness

    • @shiddhantgaming7958
      @shiddhantgaming7958 2 года назад +8

      Right said

    • @ukashk1071
      @ukashk1071 2 года назад +18

      Chanakya said "There is an element of self interest in every friendship"

    • @Sanju_478
      @Sanju_478 Год назад +1

      Right

    • @factgalaxy2503
      @factgalaxy2503 Год назад +4

      Bhai mera bhi koi frnd nhi hai agar koi mera frnd banna chahata hai toh pls reply m 🙏🙏🙏

    • @factgalaxy2503
      @factgalaxy2503 Год назад

      Bhai mera bhi koi frnd nhi hai. M bhot lonely or depressed rehta hu.🙁 agar koi mera frnd banna chahata hai toh pls reply m and give m your insta🙂🙏🙏🙏

  • @deboditray5834
    @deboditray5834 3 года назад +587

    The worst thing about betrayal is that it doesn't come from the enemy . ( Eren and Reiner )

  • @nitishsingh4316
    @nitishsingh4316 3 года назад +215

    Friends are those who motivate each other with what work,study you're doing and help you when you're feeling low in your life but unfortunately nowadays these type of people are rare who understands you except your mom and dad.And what you've said in your video is a truth and a real talk of maturity and its rare!

    • @tushaar5835
      @tushaar5835 2 года назад +5

      Oh means i fulfill all these qualities

    • @studyjunkie2546
      @studyjunkie2546 2 года назад +1

      Yes
      I have one Frnd who's like this. Others are for chutyaaapa

    • @Slayy_123-p4e
      @Slayy_123-p4e Год назад +2

      ​@@tushaar5835 same but i don't have anyone sadly

  • @sanchisingh02
    @sanchisingh02 3 года назад +1217

    I have said goodbye to 3 or 4 toxic friends of mine last year; who used me a lot for their purpose, now my life is going so good 😅❤️

  • @lipikax
    @lipikax 3 года назад +726

    Family, career, health are the fundamentals of life, anybody who is doing good in even one of them, will never have time for unnecessary socializing.

  • @Kp-ms3bj
    @Kp-ms3bj 3 года назад +2432

    There is no permanent "Friends" no permanent "Enemies" Only Permanent "Interest" - By Avadh Ojha Sir ❤️❤️

    • @ridhimaias
      @ridhimaias 2 года назад +43

      Upsc aspirant lgte ho 😂

    • @ImRajdip
      @ImRajdip 2 года назад +4

      @@Kp-ms3bj 🙂bare loog

    • @tusharsachdeva4781
      @tusharsachdeva4781 2 года назад

      Hmmmm.....ye career aur ye gadhe ki race se dimag bahar nikaloge tab to milenge dost. khud hi ke tum log rules banake rakhte ho fir bolte ho "friends" nahi bante hain.

    • @sanny751
      @sanny751 2 года назад +27

      Guru vo international relations m hota h

    • @vishnuvardhan8921
      @vishnuvardhan8921 2 года назад +31

      Winston Churchill ko avadh ojha bana diya 😆😂

  • @vardaanagarwal3629
    @vardaanagarwal3629 3 года назад +825

    If you don't have friends that means you are self capable....make friends with god, get into devotion / gratitude and there is no stopping you after.....💪💪

  • @AdityaRaj-gj4dl
    @AdityaRaj-gj4dl 2 года назад +261

    Moral of this video: Friends are temporary but families are permanent.♥️

    • @srishti1091
      @srishti1091 2 года назад +2

      ofc !!❤

    • @factgalaxy2503
      @factgalaxy2503 Год назад +2

      Bhai mera bhi koi frnd nhi hai. M bhot lonely or depressed rehta hu.🙁 agar koi mera frnd banna chahata hai toh pls reply m and give m your insta🙂🙏🙏🙏

    • @jitingehlaut5038
      @jitingehlaut5038 Год назад

      ​@@factgalaxy2503 kahan se ho bhai?

    • @factgalaxy2503
      @factgalaxy2503 Год назад

      @@jitingehlaut5038 kolkata

    • @aeolus1071
      @aeolus1071 Год назад

      ​@@factgalaxy2503bot?

  • @sriharidinesh
    @sriharidinesh 3 года назад +957

    Beware of those so called friends who r selfish. Their job is to bring u down but u should always escape from them. I'm telling this from experience🙂

    • @rakeshb.7766
      @rakeshb.7766 3 года назад +8

      Iferg ki photo kyu laga rkhi h 👀 ?????????

    • @AdityaRSC
      @AdityaRSC 3 года назад +31

      @@rakeshb.7766 its his choice

    • @player-ne6hs
      @player-ne6hs 3 года назад +3

      @@AdityaRSC 😂no offense per ye sun k mujhe neha mam yaad aa gai 🙄

    • @ankita6599
      @ankita6599 3 года назад +3

      So damn true!

    • @rakeshb.7766
      @rakeshb.7766 3 года назад +1

      @@ankita6599 same me bhi yahi bolne wala tha😂

  • @kanishkkala8324
    @kanishkkala8324 3 года назад +1774

    Fun fact:The people who wishes you happy birthday by putting up a story doesn't really mean they are your friend.
    And the people who forgot to wish you happy birthday doesn't really mean they are not your friend.
    The people who says they have a lots of friends are generally lying .Put them in a tough situation and i bet nearly all of those "friends" would abandon him.It's a natural human instinct

  • @soul_existing
    @soul_existing 3 года назад +384

    Really this is the harsh truth brother/sister, I'm in 12th, since my class 8th , I had 2 best friends, but at the end of my class 10th boards, ond of my best friend died, and the other one shifted to other school,and even I went for other school,
    Strange is that, its been 2 years, no one of my classmates/schoolmates, ever took an effort to ring me nor text, (meanwhile even i wished them, they didnt see the wish, on their bday), so brother what I realized is that " Your Passion, your sacrifice, your parents, your work, your studies are your best friend forever", ❤️

    • @ShubhamKumar-kn4dl
      @ShubhamKumar-kn4dl 3 года назад +1

      Right Sister...✍🤗👊🇮🇳

    • @archanakumari1344
      @archanakumari1344 3 года назад +4

      feels like my story! :)

    • @soul_existing
      @soul_existing 3 года назад

      @@archanakumari1344 🙃

    • @tanishkagoswami5794
      @tanishkagoswami5794 3 года назад +4

      Here..same my best friend left for other school ..after 10th.nvr contacted me..

    • @studiousboy644
      @studiousboy644 3 года назад +11

      I'm sorry for your loss. But you also need to change yourself. You NEED to have friends. That's a basic modern requirement. Make new friends. People didn't text you because they don't remember you. I had many "friends" in 10th grade. After i shifted my school in 11th, I lost contact with everyone except 5-6 boys and girls. They are my very good friends. Be a little more outgoing. Only friends can give you true happiness, knowledge can not. This is a fact, irrelevant if you disagree.

  • @StrongVidhi
    @StrongVidhi 2 года назад +33

    Mera koi dost nahi hai.. I m my own friend..true ur parents will be there with u in every situation...

    • @manojmaitydm
      @manojmaitydm 8 дней назад +1

      We all need good friends in life

  • @maggiesinging768
    @maggiesinging768 3 года назад +219

    Literally, I have no any frnds to whom I can say that he/she is my frnd, even in class I feel so low, after covid I attended today's offline class in school and I found that I cannot able to speak to anyone comfortably and u know I've no frnds with whom I can say my things and can confidently come to school and not even a single frnd, it feels like everybody is trying to go away from me, n u know whenever I go to school I come back sad from there n when I go there my mind says time to enter the hell I jus feel very bad every single day bcuz I just think all about this in my entire day this anxiety don't even let me study, I've literally no one
    And I also know that my msg is not going to matter to anyone but still to keep my heart light m jus writing that all
    M literally crying guyss!!!!:'(
    And it's easier to say that being alone is good but we really need someone who can be with us, he or she shares things to us n we too..:-|

    • @meermal222
      @meermal222 3 года назад +9

      Be my friend!

    • @maggiesinging768
      @maggiesinging768 3 года назад

      @@meermal222 thanks sanvi!

    • @meermal222
      @meermal222 3 года назад +1

      @@maggiesinging768 btw, you're in which class?

    • @maggiesinging768
      @maggiesinging768 3 года назад +2

      @@meermal222 okay,so I'll tell u every thing, just wanna find a way to connect to u

    • @shreyajha487
      @shreyajha487 3 года назад

      Heyyyy

  • @mahika6200
    @mahika6200 3 года назад +1125

    My rule: Make money, not friends.

    • @Estarsxtroier
      @Estarsxtroier 3 года назад +5

      @PRATIK vLOGS neet aspirant no

    • @dishamehta420
      @dishamehta420 3 года назад +42

      True.. Money is very imp

    • @_RAJAN_BHU
      @_RAJAN_BHU 3 года назад +18

      Spend time not life .

    • @01.Ritesh
      @01.Ritesh 2 года назад +15

      That's means you only run behind the money not life.

    • @bluestar4799
      @bluestar4799 2 года назад +33

      @@01.Ritesh Teri Nazar Me Wo Bhagta Paiso Ke Piche
      Par Bhuk Ko Bhukha Hi Janta Hai

  • @prakhardixit861
    @prakhardixit861 3 года назад +1513

    Books are your best friend,rather than finding so called friends it's better to enjoy reading and gaining knowledge.

    • @pritishgarg6320
      @pritishgarg6320 3 года назад +49

      Jab books se dosti krne lgta hoon tho phone bich mein aa jata hai😷

    • @techton07
      @techton07 3 года назад +7

      @@pritishgarg6320 wah 👌

    • @badalkumar4775
      @badalkumar4775 3 года назад +26

      Humans are social being...
      APJ Abdul Kalam once said -
      "Defeating someone is easy, but winning someone is a big deal."
      If you have someone who is by your side irrespective of the situation you are in, you have found a treasure, mate ! 🙏
      .
      Having said that, I'm not denying your statement. Reading Books is such a good quality that it can't be priced ✌️

    • @badalkumar4775
      @badalkumar4775 3 года назад +10

      Yaar, mujhe ek gaana yaad aa gya...
      😄😄
      .
      💓
      Chahe jo tumhe pure dil se,
      Milta hai wo mushkil se..
      Aisa jo koi kahin hain...
      Ek wohi sabse haseen hai..
      Ush haath ko, tum thaam lo
      Wo meherbaan...
      Kal Ho Na Ho... 💓

    • @mohittak3916
      @mohittak3916 3 года назад +1

      Bhai easy to say😊

  • @gravity_armwrestler
    @gravity_armwrestler 2 года назад +1683

    "Not friends, Not enemies
    Just some strangers
    With some memories! "
    - 😇

    • @sunshines801
      @sunshines801 2 года назад +16

      @SAHIL THENICS This perfectly defines
      my present relation with most of my classmates from school except for the fact that there r 1000 memories..

    • @adityaya.333
      @adityaya.333 2 года назад +10

      Same with me never ever had any best or even friend they all were just like strangers
      But fir bhi Kami lgti hai and yes friends hona jroori hai but best friends bnana nhi
      Best to koi bhi nhi ho sakta

    • @rohitb405
      @rohitb405 2 года назад +7

      @@adityaya.333 yr ek toh school aur college me dhang ka kuch bn nhi paaya saara time bs ek imaginary race pe lga hua tha ke bs padhai krte rho aur kisi chiz pr dhyan hi mt do...aur upar se doosre state/city me shift hogya. Ab pta chlta h kitna kuch miss hogya unknowingly

    • @adityaya.333
      @adityaya.333 2 года назад +3

      @@rohitb405 shi khe bro same happpens when people says ki padhai pe dhyan do aur usi me hum lyf ke other important things ko bhool jaate hai
      bs yehi sb vjah hai qki india me ratta fiction hota hai aur practical knowledge ki koi baat ni krta
      social skills , communication , ye sb koi ni btata

    • @edits9287
      @edits9287 2 года назад +5

      Same 😭😭 my bestie left me ...

  • @demon.747
    @demon.747 3 года назад +68

    You'll be an important person for your friends 🥺 , until you're useful to them 🧐
    Simple logic friends for benefits 👀

  • @parulparul4696
    @parulparul4696 Год назад +21

    Weird how we already know all these things but still start feeling low sometimes, and at those times, someone is needed to counsel and remind of all these hard core truths of life.
    Got to watch this one at a much needed time.
    Invested so much of myself into people at college but don’t feel like anyone of them is actually a friend. Ye video sunn kar yaad aa gaya ki school vale dost kaha matter krte h abhi, vaise hi ye vale bhi nahi karenge college khatam ho jane ke baad. Thanks for the brutal but much needed video sir!

  • @mohitshyamdasani2459
    @mohitshyamdasani2459 3 года назад +24

    1:35 itne bade Person ke sath esa hota h , aur yaha hum log abhi sirf students hai aur rote rehte h ki dosto ka phone nhi ata.
    Thank you so much bhaiya ❤️

  • @anushkasrivastava1057
    @anushkasrivastava1057 2 года назад +160

    I helped my friends in making their projects, even teaching them sometimes but when I was facing the low time of my career, not a single friend called or texted me to even ask how was I feeling and I always used to b there for them whenever they needed me or felt low
    Even I initiated and texted my friends myself only and found that everyone was quite busy in their own lives and refused to give time to me or even ask what I was going through. Better to be alone

    • @r65400
      @r65400 2 года назад +11

      I don't know why people say that in college you get busy. I agree ki esa hota hoga but nobody is so busy that they can't take out 5 minutes to just say hello to you ; to make sure you're doing fine. People say- We get busy in our lives,but sabke paas free time hota hai. If you're important to them, they'll text you. Reality is- They get new friends in new cities and now they don't need you because they have entered a new phase in their lives- COLLEGE.

    • @akashsahu1999
      @akashsahu1999 2 года назад +1

      Same happened to me . It was very depressing 😑😑. Now also sometimes I feel very lonely .

    • @elle-jh7to
      @elle-jh7to 2 года назад

      Same lmaoo

    • @misssweetugaming5735
      @misssweetugaming5735 2 года назад

      Same

    • @nishapandey600
      @nishapandey600 2 года назад

      Same thing happened with me

  • @samirgiripunje6963
    @samirgiripunje6963 2 года назад +34

    From my experience i can seriously say that rarest anyone will remain your friend.
    I lost 1.5 years making friends in iit but as soon as they think we are not better than them they will just dump you 😔.

  • @NAYAN-t3e
    @NAYAN-t3e Год назад +13

    In my school life till innocent age, I had friends but later as age passed, I mentally felt insecured because of changing natures of surrounding friends over time. This slowly brought me towards being introvert & self conscious or selfish. Even in college life, I dreamed to get best friends, but there also because of many little little mismatches in thinkings, vibes, I couldn't sustain even a single close friend.....Now a days, I'm just blank how to get dream friends to whom I can weekly if not daily meet, travel, trake or enjoy freely.....I'm confused how much should I change for this 😭😭.....

    • @12-sumanamaji25
      @12-sumanamaji25 Год назад

      Same here😢😢

    • @anonymous2684
      @anonymous2684 Год назад +2

      You shouldn't need to change. Being alone is actually a good choice if are knowledgeable enough (if u know what I mean). Besides u can read books which will make u comfortable and take u away from loneliness. Being alone is good but being lonely is a red sign.

  • @ashishverma284
    @ashishverma284 2 года назад +13

    Really atleast one friend is needed to share problms that cant be share with others, for enjoying as well.A life without friends is very strange.I feel very unlucky for not having friends..

    • @ashishverma284
      @ashishverma284 2 года назад

      @@Morphenn312 🙊

    • @ashishverma284
      @ashishverma284 2 года назад

      Right bro..u r from where?

    • @aryanbhalla5134
      @aryanbhalla5134 2 года назад +7

      Bhai mere bhi sab dost fake nikle aur mai bhi akela ho gya hu ab with my anxiety koi dost nhi bacha :(

    • @ashishverma284
      @ashishverma284 2 года назад

      @@aryanbhalla5134 koi n bhai

  • @Sai-rp2pw
    @Sai-rp2pw 3 года назад +142

    Yaar ye banda kitta awesome hai yaar love you bhaiiiya
    His advices are really amazing koi alfaz nahi hai mere pass😭😭

  • @aman-hs2ht
    @aman-hs2ht 3 года назад +661

    I lied to my friend so that he would maintain his confidence
    He lied to me so that my confidence can be ruined in jee

  • @priyankapuskuri8473
    @priyankapuskuri8473 2 года назад +54

    You will loose lot of your friends when you are serious about your goals.thats the reason a Lamborghini has 2 seats while a bus has 50. - Warren Buffett

    • @Bruce_wayne_52
      @Bruce_wayne_52 2 года назад +2

      Warren Buffett never said that

    • @darkx1732
      @darkx1732 Год назад

      ​@@Bruce_wayne_52 don't ruin it please just don't be need

  • @babby6200
    @babby6200 2 года назад +62

    Once my sir TOld that .. REMEMBER IN FRIEND THERE IS "END" ..

    • @sneha22385
      @sneha22385 2 года назад +3

      But this is a word dear all are not same some friendship have no ends ❤️

    • @MrShabby333
      @MrShabby333 2 года назад +3

      but in family there is "ily" which is = i love you

    • @satyam5849
      @satyam5849 2 года назад +1

      There's FUN in Funeral

  • @anu917
    @anu917 3 года назад +51

    This is absolute legendary words... everyone must watch this

  • @zebakhan2720
    @zebakhan2720 3 года назад +55

    He is such an intelligent man.... Such a beautiful explaination❤️❤️

    • @Games-sr4oz
      @Games-sr4oz 2 года назад +1

      mera koi dost nahi hai kya aap banogi meri dost😔

    • @aladdin304
      @aladdin304 2 года назад +1

      @@Games-sr4oz bro dukhi nay hona chahiye mere paas bhi ache dost nhi hain but I'm happy alone is the best kisi se ladai nay kuch nhi buss khud me raho 🙂

    • @Games-sr4oz
      @Games-sr4oz 2 года назад +1

      @@aladdin304 Yr mera bhi same yhi hai 😊

    • @aladdin304
      @aladdin304 2 года назад

      @@Games-sr4oz 😌😇

    • @Games-sr4oz
      @Games-sr4oz 2 года назад

      @@aladdin304 🥺😇aap mere dost banoge?

  • @anaverageaspirant6228
    @anaverageaspirant6228 2 года назад +27

    The weirdest and some what sad part of everyone's life is that in their teenage they all run behind friends. But they don't realise that in actual they are missing out on their so valuable family time because once you get in college and start running towards job you are not not going to get that time again. I realised this fact now when I am preparing for a competitive exam. I realised how beautiful of a time it was but I never realised it, and now I know I can never get that back. 😔😔

  • @Jayshreeusedtomakevidoes
    @Jayshreeusedtomakevidoes 3 года назад +87

    RUclips recommend me as I don't have friends and I say it again no regrets, I have lived all my life putting friends on top of everything but I guess it's the time for me to put myself up

    • @that_indian_bee
      @that_indian_bee 3 года назад +1

      +1

    • @vpharma8638
      @vpharma8638 3 года назад +1

      Woow what a amezing comment

    • @MAYANKKUMAR-mn7cd
      @MAYANKKUMAR-mn7cd 2 года назад +1

      Don't worry dear jayshree...when no one is their...our family is their and don't feel low...Just focus on ur future and have bright carrier 🙂

  • @Atzee
    @Atzee 2 года назад +202

    Never ever make friendship obsessive from either side. Talk, chat, laugh. That's me than enough.
    Coz if, if someone you're obsessed with, leaves you, believe it or not, it will take **MONTHS TO HEAL AGAIN**
    -another one of those experienced guy, whose comment you'll scroll down, and forgots.

  • @bruhgottanochills
    @bruhgottanochills 3 года назад +50

    In this contemporary world , the definition of friendship is being diluted with an extraordinary amount of betrayals and motives 🙂

  • @r.s6220
    @r.s6220 2 года назад +17

    No friends.... No relationship.... Just study.... Fine along 😎🤗

  • @madmonkey9743
    @madmonkey9743 2 года назад +35

    I know how it feels not having friends or losing friends, but trust me guys you should not feel proud of being alone and not having any friends or social life, i mean its ok for a period of time when you are seriously preparing for something or working upon yourself but then you need to understand that man is a social animal and there are things which you might not share with your family or siblings, there are places where your parents might not come to be with you, there are situations in which you will be needing the help of a friend. Just talk to everyone with a smile be natural , be yourself . never try to be fake to fit in , never try to make someone stay .open up a bit. be really interested in someone. tell them about your story and ask them about theirs, help others when they need it , help others without them asking for it. be kind and respectful .Above all be happy as an independent person. your efforts will never go in vain instead they will return you something . things might seem uphill when you are alone but remember there a lot of other people who feel like you . maybe you can be the first one to extend your hand in friendship and show them that goodness still exists in this world. many would try to emulate and reciprocate that and who knows that might just be the beginning of a magical tale of beautiful friendship because only those who believe in magic find them 💫. i hope that helped you ❣
    P.S. I NEED TO TAKE MY OWN ADVICE 😅

    • @sushreeswain1554
      @sushreeswain1554 2 года назад +1

      @@Anonymous-tv9un talk to people on social media then...make online friends, that will be a good option.

  • @Ash-np6zm
    @Ash-np6zm 3 года назад +66

    parents bhala hi chahte hain but sometimes they don't know ki jo wo chah rhe hain usme hmara bhala nhi hai!! being lonely i onli know the importance of a friend!!! you cant share effin things with your parents coz they don't understand what does it takes being a student!!

  • @meghnadash9076
    @meghnadash9076 2 года назад +4

    i wish i has this maturity when i was in college.. back then i believed friends are the family that you choose.. and have wasted the precious years making memories rather than making career

  • @shubhampurohit8880
    @shubhampurohit8880 2 года назад +11

    Finally a bitter truth and damn good one. Never ever give priority to anyone over your work. You are defined by the work which you do so try hard to improve upon yourself and do your work with diligence. Don't cry for friends. Everybody is there for a favour, and same goes for yourself.

  • @vijaykumar_06
    @vijaykumar_06 3 года назад +51

    Alakh sir also said, your work must be your first priority... ❤❤❤

  • @yuvrajsingh727
    @yuvrajsingh727 2 года назад +13

    0:07 pure reaction 👏👏☺️

  • @Vikash23Feb
    @Vikash23Feb 2 года назад +15

    Trust is a dangerous game.
    Friend's,gf or other can have multiple faces .

  • @preetam6856
    @preetam6856 2 года назад +2

    Ye bahut achi baat bola apne...kisiko dil main jagah nahin dena hota kiyon k jispe jada bhorosa karoge wahi jada taklif dega time ane per... Ab to esa lagta hai ki "saccha dost" is a myth type... Har bar dissapointed hua hoon life main ..is bat akele khud per focus karne ka soch raha hoon

  • @Anikkk787
    @Anikkk787 2 года назад +106

    So, this is my story
    I am an Introvert, when someone comes talk to me, i talk with them,
    I never hated anyone, and nobody hated me as well,
    We were a group of friends, Me,and 3boys and 1 girl
    We were so close to each other for 4-5 years, But then our school life ended, and there comes the real shit
    2 Of them i used to consider them as my True friends, And One named Bishal Was my best Friend like my partner in everything,
    The day came jab college k merit list pe naam aana tha
    Mera name agaya tha first list pe, and Uska name nehi aya tha
    So i told him, Dekh bhai apan dono jaha bhi jayenge sath me jayenge, he also agreed, and i cancelled my name from that college and didnt get admit
    But same college pe 3rd merit list pe uska name aya tha, and Usne admission karwa liya tha 😊Bina mujhe bataye 😀
    I sacrificed my Admission for him, and He Betrayed me cutely without informing me,
    But baat yehi pe end nhi hoti,
    I really didn't care at all jisko jo karna hai wo kare, No I didn't break friendship with him, But jese jese, Time chalta gaya Days passed, I realised, they were all fake and i stopped talkin to everyone
    But as i said above 2 of them were my close ones Ek toh ye Bishal hogaya
    Dusra hai Rakesh(whom i used to think that he may betray me in the future)
    But he is the only one who called me after 9-10 months of no talkin, that too with a joyful manner, ❤️
    And trust me, I now really don't give a shit who is real or fake, I just love being alone, Chillin alone, Eating alone in Restaurants 🥰, Traveling alone😌, and currently focusing for my better future, but living my present at my fullest😘

    • @rishikasinghrajpoot5192
      @rishikasinghrajpoot5192 2 года назад +3

      Impressed by you👍 God bless you 🕉

    • @Anikkk787
      @Anikkk787 2 года назад +2

      @@rishikasinghrajpoot5192 Thank You Mitthi, God Bless You too🥰

    • @ajayjat1914
      @ajayjat1914 2 года назад +2

      It's great!!😊

    • @imgpatil
      @imgpatil 2 года назад +2

      Wahh Bhai Sahab ☺️

    • @krishu9124
      @krishu9124 2 года назад +1

      Will you be my friend?😊

  • @braveimposter
    @braveimposter 3 года назад +41

    That's what my dad tells me all the time whenever I feel bad because a friend of mine betrayed me in some way. My dad tells me this is temporary, they're with me until I pass from this school, after that, they'll be somewhere else, I'll be somewhere else with new world and people.

  • @guptaujjwal
    @guptaujjwal 3 года назад +11

    Even I don't have any friend. I also have friends who are there with ne for notes and all. Aman bhaiya's knowledge is so vast. Love you ❤️

  • @Brajesh3
    @Brajesh3 2 года назад +45

    Sir love you. The truth and serious you have in your words are really worth it. Thank you for motivating and guiding us 👍

  • @sumiiit_r
    @sumiiit_r 3 года назад +58

    This 4 min video is just as good or deep as an hour Podcast 💯

  • @Smithhindia
    @Smithhindia Год назад +69

    IF YOU GUYS ARE FEELING SAD OR ANGRY, REMEMBER THAT THESE FEELINGS ARE TEMPORARY, GOD BLESS YOU! HARE KRISHNA 🕉️🧡

  • @ankita6599
    @ankita6599 3 года назад +266

    I literally saved this video because Idk why but I felt like this advice will help me not only now but in many aspects of my whole life ❤️

    • @AmitKumar-fn4ul
      @AmitKumar-fn4ul 3 года назад +3

      I also saved this video 😔.

    • @InsaanhuBhai77
      @InsaanhuBhai77 3 года назад +1

      Me too

    • @mirzaraza1359
      @mirzaraza1359 2 года назад

      @ankita ...i can guess u are abundant with lots of frns

    • @khushinayyar655
      @khushinayyar655 2 года назад

      Same

    • @techgamer4433
      @techgamer4433 2 года назад

      ek simple baat yaad rkhne ki life me log aate jate rahege yaha tak family bhi in sab ke chakkar me khud ko kabhi nhi khona

  • @sahilsheikh8897
    @sahilsheikh8897 3 года назад +11

    Aman bhaiya telling about friendship...me watching the cpu behind him...*Found My Love*

  • @samkoriean2873
    @samkoriean2873 3 года назад +165

    Bro I don't think he should generalise parents being the gods of a child , toxic parents do exist , especially in the country like ours , who use their children in a capitalistic way

    • @swapnilsaman2811
      @swapnilsaman2811 3 года назад +17

      @@samayrahere bhai agar kill kerne ke baat aati hai to vo to tumhari wife bhi ker sakti hai to kya shadi nahi kare 😏

    • @shreyajha487
      @shreyajha487 3 года назад +4

      So trueeee

    • @samayrahere
      @samayrahere 3 года назад +1

      @@swapnilsaman2811 I think maine dusre comment ka reply is comment me kr diya...
      Sorry sorry sorry...!

    • @yashs.gosavi4024
      @yashs.gosavi4024 3 года назад +2

      Toxic parents are not worth calling parents

    • @deepaksahu6075
      @deepaksahu6075 2 года назад +1

      Their is toxicity in everything even u can be a toxic person that's y no hav had u as friend that also possible,like toxic parents n friends neighbours, relative's n it's not about country..n ya even I don't hav true friend...just name sake...n ya it hurts boz humans r meant to socialize we can't live isolated but we can take break n I need one I guess but this r my roommates can't ignore n I feel ignored ...

  • @gsammyyy
    @gsammyyy 3 года назад +61

    So, RUclips has also started reading my mind like Ig...lol.
    This is the exact thing I realised in 2019 as a teenager and I was just not accepting it until last year but the earlier you realise and ACCEPT this the happier you'll be.

  • @tanujk3766
    @tanujk3766 2 года назад +61

    1 to 16 years I lived with so called friends,
    Now 16 to 25 age..
    I am alone since 9 years,I dont even have WhatsApp talk.
    Now am accepted my situation. Its doesn't bother me now,spirituality helped me.

    • @Blue_velvet266
      @Blue_velvet266 2 года назад +1

      Depression me chala jayega bhai

    • @tanujk3766
      @tanujk3766 2 года назад +1

      @@Blue_velvet266
      Bro who?

    • @Blue_velvet266
      @Blue_velvet266 2 года назад

      @@tanujk3766 akele akele rehkar

    • @Blue_velvet266
      @Blue_velvet266 2 года назад +1

      @@tanujk3766 isi liye dost jaruri hai life meh bina bakchodi ke life adhuri hai

    • @tanujk3766
      @tanujk3766 2 года назад +14

      @@Blue_velvet266 i rather have no friends then fake ones..

  • @abhishekdubey9920
    @abhishekdubey9920 3 года назад +16

    Ye khass kr gf /bf wale dosto ke liye hai jo😂😂😂 pyarr krte hai😂😂😂

  • @ariftumbagi2547
    @ariftumbagi2547 3 года назад +5

    Bhai ....the maturity level you have at this age is exceptionally good..... Your words has deep meaning...

  • @anshitrahi3580
    @anshitrahi3580 3 года назад +37

    Best thing to listen today. I badly needed to listen about this😰😰😰

  • @zayn4182
    @zayn4182 2 года назад +13

    Im new in Delhi and i see everyone here getting out with their girlfriends enjoying laughing and going to clubs ,malls ,shopping having the best time of their life ,seeing them makes me feel very low and depressed,I don't have a single female friend in my collage till now its been 5 months here

    • @themminaozimik3404
      @themminaozimik3404 2 года назад +4

      Same here..Im also new in delhi currently attending college..I don't have a single friend😭😭 I go to college alone and den go to class alone..Im so jealous seeing this people going in groups wit their frens.
      I really want to quit

    • @zayn4182
      @zayn4182 2 года назад +2

      @@themminaozimik3404 i think there is actually no solution we gonna die single,God has given extra benefits to who's having fun with their close friends,for them everything comes in a natural way but for us we've to struggle

    • @themminaozimik3404
      @themminaozimik3404 2 года назад +2

      I don't know how m i going to go through 3 years alone..But i really hope the right person comes to me..And I really hope the same for you..You deserve it❤ Until then lets endure it :(

    • @cherishcinematics_
      @cherishcinematics_ 2 года назад +1

      I hope u both guys are fine but I guess that's what your power is "staying alone". Most of the people lack that power and can't go on wid the normal lives but u guys are moving on so guys embrace yourselves and move and definitely at some point in life the person will come and u won't regret it until then keep working guys.....u guys motivated me!💪 @Zayn and @Themminao Zimik

    • @sushreeswain1554
      @sushreeswain1554 2 года назад

      @@themminaozimik3404 you can use your time to do something bigger...they might be spending a good chunk of their time distracted, so you can use that time to do better, because they won't be living off their dad's money for their entire life.

  • @Gkvoce
    @Gkvoce 3 года назад +16

    Alone best ❤️. Thoda muskil h lekin trust me aph distraction se bhaut dur ho. I experienced ❤️❤️❤️. Dost apke future mai apki family ko khila kr denge ky koi nhi dega yr. Nhi hoke toh ek baat sochna "Sher joh hota hna akela hi chalta h"🔥

  • @ramllahanuman1881
    @ramllahanuman1881 3 года назад +429

    God is one and only true frnd so love him and increase your friendship with krishna 🥰

    • @yashkhaneja6603
      @yashkhaneja6603 3 года назад +5

      So true😇

    • @GamesKaBhandar
      @GamesKaBhandar 3 года назад +10

      Hare krishna bhai🙏🏻

    • @adarshkrsingh4096
      @adarshkrsingh4096 3 года назад +16

      True but thats a believe that we have created in our mind but reality we need some support to handle life I might be wrong but I heard something like this somewhere

    • @mousadhukhan580
      @mousadhukhan580 3 года назад +7

      Hare krishna 🌿🌿🌿

    • @WouldIwasShookspeared
      @WouldIwasShookspeared 3 года назад +8

      @@adarshkrsingh4096 There is no one who stand numb and belive god will do everything for him. We work, work our sweat and tears but the result in not in our hands and here we seek help to god. to do evevrthing right

  • @orion9761
    @orion9761 2 года назад +7

    A friend is one whose mere presence makes u happy...
    A friend is one who doesn't let u tear apart...
    A good friend is a gift of God.. 😊

  • @HEROgamer8085
    @HEROgamer8085 Год назад +2

    Sir bhot gehri baat bol diye aap. 😇😍Thank you sir.

  • @RehanShaikh-rz8do
    @RehanShaikh-rz8do Год назад +2

    Aapne bilkul sahi kaha is duniya mai koi dost nahi " we trust our parents "

  • @sattvik_shukla
    @sattvik_shukla 2 года назад +9

    The best thing u can do is to make online friends... U can never get too attached... Most probably they wouldn't hurt you... They wouldn't waste ur time... And most probably will be with u on hard times

  • @priyadubey5561
    @priyadubey5561 2 года назад +35

    I m 18 yrs old... And now I understand friends are not so important in life than our carrier.. And may I m too late to understand this.. I ruined my 12th bcoj of them🥺

    • @satyampandey890
      @satyampandey890 2 года назад +3

      Oho ! I am 21 & I destroyed my 11th ,12th after befriending Brahmans or same caste students due to facing abuses on being Brahman! No one supported me & ignored me 😡

    • @prithviraj-r9f
      @prithviraj-r9f Год назад

      ​@@satyampandey890bhaiya your 12th got damaged because of this

  • @sushmasharma6360
    @sushmasharma6360 3 года назад +21

    I am 19 years old honestly I never had a single friend and I am OK with it I don't care I am fine with it but for others this is a very big deal

    • @aman.7035
      @aman.7035 3 года назад +2

      @@shubhamr3982 banalo? as If it was that easy...People judge you if you approach them and if you don't, then youre the one left out..making friends isn't easy at all especially if you're not cool or smth in their eyes...so "koi dost nhi h toh, banalo" is a very wrong statement indeed.

  • @AKRaj-gs3vp
    @AKRaj-gs3vp 3 года назад +12

    There is one guy who is my classmate and everytime i talk to him he just demotivates me by giving examples who failed,and never motivates me. Earlier i was considering him as a friend of mine.

  • @MdAman-bs3vm
    @MdAman-bs3vm Год назад +2

    Thanks sir smjahne ke liye maine dosto ke liye kafi kuch kiya but aaj wo hi log bolte ha tune kuch nhi kiya ha or wo ab baat bhi nhi karte mujse kafi time tak me akela hi paresaan rha rota rha but ab dheere dheere samjh aarha ha maa baap ke alawa is duniya me koi apna nhi ha thanks for motivation

  • @manojjanasale857
    @manojjanasale857 3 года назад +138

    Bhaiyya aap great ho!! Kyuki being neither IITian and NITian aap bahut achieve kiye ho...

    • @kushpatel6567
      @kushpatel6567 3 года назад +32

      Padhne sa koi successful thodi hota ha , insan ma kabiliyat honi chaiye.

    • @sohan-IA
      @sohan-IA 3 года назад +11

      @@kushpatel6567 ye log nehi samjhne ye to padhelikhe jahil he ye naukar banenge sab

    • @kushpatel6567
      @kushpatel6567 3 года назад +5

      @@sohan-IA 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sidharathangurana6891
      @sidharathangurana6891 3 года назад +15

      Mere bhai woh NSUT se hai our NSUT is equivalent to top NITs

    • @manojjanasale857
      @manojjanasale857 3 года назад +4

      @@sidharathangurana6891 NIT alag hota hain aur NIT equivalent alag hain.

  • @greatdeals3420
    @greatdeals3420 3 года назад +29

    After 10th I joined diploma
    1 st year i had a gang of 8 frnds
    2 nd year it started decreasing to 5 then 3
    In final year I was preparing hard for my ecet then I realised , I was the only one left but I was happy because I was chasing my dream

  • @madhurgupta639
    @madhurgupta639 2 года назад +3

    Dosti jaisa kuch nhi hota, sab matlabi hote hai

  • @silkytak4636
    @silkytak4636 2 года назад +8

    Hey!! I am sharing my story...
    When I was in 9th standard three girls came into my life n gradually they became my best friends in 10 th standard, in April one girl also came she also beacme my best friend after 2-3 months....There were four best friends in my life in class 10th but honestly unmeseh mai 2 Ko best friends manti thi n 2 Ko good friends...
    Hua yhi jo sab stories mai hota hai Ab koi best friend ni hai.. currently I'm in 12 standard ....
    1- No contact..
    2- jst normal friends..
    3- jst good friends
    4- jst good friends
    I know the story is quite funny😀
    But, from my past 4 years I think there is one who always there for me i.e. "god".. he listens all my problems. Dear, sooo don't feel alone , focus on your health, make good habits, etc. etc..
    .
    Yad rkhna soul or atma humesha parmatma k touch mai rhte hai..😊
    Good day!!

  • @CA_AbhishekGupta
    @CA_AbhishekGupta 2 года назад

    Kamaal hai .. ek ek word exactly yahi Maine kisi special insaan ko samjhaya tha.. Blessed to see meri soch sahi hai.

  • @anindyahaldar5859
    @anindyahaldar5859 3 года назад +9

    Akdam honest review..
    I totally agree with you
    Aman bhaiya❤❤

  • @aksharashukla6895
    @aksharashukla6895 3 года назад +13

    I was feeling so low. I was just scrolling youtube and found your video. Helped me really. 💯

  • @andrewtate85
    @andrewtate85 2 года назад +6

    Being alone is best, tum akele hi kaafi ho bhai.. Haa frnds ache hote hai pr sirf sache dosto ki baat kr rha hu.. Mene apni zindgi me bhut dosto ki asli chehra dekh chuka huu.. Isiliye ab kisi se baat bhi nahi krta.. Akela hi khush hu❤😊

  • @thebasedbitch
    @thebasedbitch 3 года назад +68

    Hehe legends don't need friends🙌...

    • @Meghamotivationalshorts536
      @Meghamotivationalshorts536 2 года назад +1

      Yeah

    • @shiddhantgaming7958
      @shiddhantgaming7958 2 года назад +3

      Easy to say right

    • @gunnu_dabas
      @gunnu_dabas 2 года назад +1

      It is easy to say that we didn't need any friends but itna lonely feel hota ha !!! Literally log sochte ha sahi ha yr koi dost nhi ha iska apna hi enjoy karta ha but nhiii isme koi maza nhi ha banda depression me chala jata ha iss karan 🙂

    • @thebasedbitch
      @thebasedbitch 2 года назад

      @@gunnu_dabas ye scinerio majority of People ka ha.... lekin trust me...we can become a people who don't need friend....i literally don't have a friend and i don't think i need one.... believe in yourself...and spend time with yourself....and there are people who like loneliness.... That's what I think... You guys may have different perspectives... But it doesn't mean one's perspective is wrong

    • @gunnu_dabas
      @gunnu_dabas 2 года назад +1

      @@thebasedbitch yeah u are right i like loneliness but phir bhi i feel like i need atleast someone in my life who truly cares about me 🥲👍 and thanks for replying 🙂💞

  • @jnshaikh7132
    @jnshaikh7132 3 года назад +12

    I got in college last week and nobody talked with me nor they sit with me I felt bad but then I realize they don't worth it cause after college they will stop talking to u so why to care about them

  • @ishanichaudhary8327
    @ishanichaudhary8327 2 года назад +10

    You are favorite mentor in my life 🥰
    Thank you so much for guiding us in a correct way🤩

  • @subhajitdey9964
    @subhajitdey9964 3 года назад +27

    True words ❤️❤️

  • @surya-kn7tl
    @surya-kn7tl 2 года назад +19

    "Friendship is on of the beautiful thing,
    But friends are not necessary. "
    - me

  • @RAJKISHOR-uw6ve
    @RAJKISHOR-uw6ve 2 года назад +2

    Kya baat bole ho Bhai ek dam Sahi

  • @Lifeishardvlogs
    @Lifeishardvlogs 2 года назад +6

    Ones upon a time I have lots of friends but now in 22 year old I have not a single friend..but believe me I am happy more than that time...because I do what ever I want now...I don't need to share my happiness or sadness...and now I focus on my work my goal not to time waste

  • @just_a_guy3346
    @just_a_guy3346 3 года назад +5

    the smile in the beginning omg....as if to say "what is going on with these kids"

  • @d1vy0m
    @d1vy0m 2 года назад +7

    See if you don't want friends in your way to your goal just don't have them and do your work and when your alone and do good the respect you will get will be worth more

  • @RahulGupta-xc4fg
    @RahulGupta-xc4fg 2 года назад +9

    Damn true words, saved it so that it can help when am depressed....
    Literally experienced when personal interest finishes friendship also ends

  • @swatinanda9725
    @swatinanda9725 2 года назад +1

    Thankyou bhaiya...need this badly.
    You told the truth evn if it harsh.
    We all have to understand this .

  • @getrelaxed5813
    @getrelaxed5813 3 года назад +8

    Yes I have few friends and actually I am happy without them also😅😅🤣🤭ab samjh aya h kya zaruri h

  • @suvo-yoga
    @suvo-yoga 3 года назад +10

    School friends are the best ones🤝.
    Friends formed in early childhood without the mindset of compare and compete will remain forever.

  • @likithaliki4044
    @likithaliki4044 3 года назад +18

    This helped me aaa lot bhaiya 💕❤️💫✨😭😭

  • @rutujasalve3956
    @rutujasalve3956 3 года назад +9

    Mere pass to koi bhi type ka dost nh h... Ek h jisse 2-3 months me ek dafa baat ho jati h😅😂 .. Baku sb hi-hello types...

  • @anuragsawarkar2540
    @anuragsawarkar2540 3 года назад +1

    Absolutely bhai👍👍🔥🔥pr kbhi kbhi toh friends chaiye kyuki life mai ek void feel karne k liye...haa apne sahi kaha jyada priority toh kisi ko mat do yani dil mai aur dil mai bhi taaki woh usme ghar na kr paye

  • @hridoychakraborty2746
    @hridoychakraborty2746 3 года назад +4

    Friends r only a known face for few days to me, i had one best friend
    but he left me alone when i needed someone badly beside atleast to talk,but when he saw that i had become more lower than his level, he left me. Sometimes it hurts dont matter how much u wanna ignore.

  • @preethamfernandes597
    @preethamfernandes597 3 года назад +17

    This guy's motivation can make many millionaires