Teresa's not being dramatic about the "situation", she's crying about the horrible things people were saying to her. It's not the situation, it's the hateful messages.
She should grow some thicker skin or log off .... she's not entitled to people being "nice" if she can't take the heat, get outta the kitchen or off social media, this generation is SOOOO SOFT, y'all need to learn "sticks and stones may break my bones, but WORDS will NEVER HURT ME" Y'all are pxssies
@@Sarah-dl4sl an honest reaction to an overwhelming amount of hate whether intentional or accidental is not being dramatic. He isn’t bullying, but she’s not being dramatic
Oh people can be insane. I'm not even a hair dresser but I have so many customer service horror stories. When I worked at Edible Arrangements we had over 900 orders to make and deliver on Valentine's Day and we were a small store, so the fact that we were able to get almost everything made and delivered in one day was insane for us. Key word there - *almost* everything. There were 6 orders that didn't get delivered, and five of those customers we contacted at the end of the day and they either got their refund or arranged a new delivery for the following day. But that sixth customer... She lost her ever loving mind on us. She was threatening to take us to court and run our business to the ground. She kept calling our store non-stop for three days straight just to scream at us some more. We all very quickly memorized her phone number and did our best to avoid answering her calls. I was unfortunate enough to get her first call and she was screaming at me and insulting me so much that it triggered a panic attack so severe that I had to leave work early.
its not just hair. anyone who deals with the public knows these are barely exaggerated. I used to work for lawyers. For 'educated' people, it was almost funny how assuredly wrong they were, and willing to argue with you about it for hrs, like they thought reality was a court case they could win. 'No sir, I'm just a worker, I cant change the prices for you no matter how long you argue with me over them. Yes sir, I can hang up on you." CLICK.
I worked customer service, I know people who worked hair....can we stop pretending these stories are not fake af? Like, yeah, people can be rude, most of them in normal ways, every now and then you will get one who is unhinged amounts of rude. But the kind of people in some of these skits would literally make the news, because they do make the news. Some of them pretend that a wealthy brat came in, used all the makeup on display, then threw it on the ground on purpose and was screaming don't you know who my dad is. Then tipped over a display and everyone was staring. Yet no one called the cops because then the stylist finds out who her father is and he is a big shot lawyer and she calls him up and he is like "my precious baby would never do that" and then she sends him the CCTV and he pays her for the damages. Heck, even a good portion of the Karen videos that purport to be recording a real Karen breakdown are faked. If you think someone who consistently has "real" stories that are more dramatic than actual ER hospital admittance and mental health admittance nurses is realistic, you might want to really check over your stories and your own memory. Because having one or two crazy stories is normal. Having regular customer interactions where some woman is so unhinged that the police should be involved is not.
@@camdenhunt7565 Former Nail Tech/Salon Receptionist, and oh lord these are not exaggerated in the slightest. 😂I have seen it all and only worked there 2 years.
living in the same area as Teresa, these scenarios are not exaggerated much. I’ve seen fist fights in the Target parking lot in the same town as Fantastic Sam’s over a parking spot. I’ve seen a customer grab a cashier by the hair because a coupon wouldn’t scan. We’re south of Chicago. We’re like the Upside Down of Chicago, less gun violence, more rural area, equal nutball behavior. I worked at a farm supply store in the area and someone cracked open multiple cans of doe piss deer attractant for hunting and sprayed them all over the back wall of the store. It reeked for weeks. We had to close for the rest of the day he’d done it. I know for sure other states have areas like this but god I can’t wait to move.
The people who say it's over exaggerated are the same people who respond to any crazy story with something like "you're lying, you just want to be the main character". They're just basement dwellers who aren't worth the oxygen they waste on a daily basis. That, or they just have no grip on reality. 😂
Thanks for making this and explaining the situation! Neither Nicholas or I really understand how this whole thing got so out of control. But it was easily the most insane amount of hate I’ve ever received
Love from an internet stranger and a former retail worker. People are crazy and will send hate and anger for absolutely no reason. I know there are days it's like rain on glass and easy to ignore and other days it hits hard and people forget that you are a person. Too many cooks in the kitchen I say, you continue to be you and you will find the people who wanna see you. I don't think Nicholas did anything wrong as he just stated his opinions. It's the bullies/instigators who are to blame. Well my anxiety says I've said to much, but I genuinely hope you have a good day/night.
Girl, I’m so sorry! When you started tearing up, my heart broke for you! No one deserves to be treated in such a way! Sending you lots of love & warmth 💜
I’ve worked retail for over 25 years. The insane shit customers have said and done during this time is almost unbelievable. The bloke making that video clearly has never had to work in customer service cause of the videos of yours I’ve seen that he classes as ‘exaggerated’ seemed positively mild to me! I’m so sorry you’ve received crap over this. Keep your chin up and know that there are more of us supporting you than hating. Take care.
@@Mikayla_Games24he was telling the BULLIES to grow up and stop picking on other creators, he wasn't picking on Teresa for crying. He was defending her in her video, you completely missed the point in what he was saying.
Just under ten years ago, my sister had her hair done by Teresa at Fantastic Sam’s and Teresa is the SWEETEST human being in the entire world. She is so kind, warm, welcoming, and her videos do not do justice to how insanely talented a cosmetologist she is. Seeing her get emotional was so heart breaking, shes such a sweet lady
I own a fantastic Sam's in Minnesota and to have one who is so absolutely professional and intelligent would be a huge blessing! If your looking for work girl.. hit me up😊
@idkausername4035 yea.. I was just thinking she may read the comments. I did not intend to respond directly to the comment but I clicked in the wrong space
Truth! Anyone with a brain wouldn't waste their time sending threats and harassment to a stranger...especially when everything can easily be traced back to you and potentially ruin your life if you go too far with the wrong person. Privacy and internet anonymity is dead, people.
It’s gotta be kids cuz what adult would ever? That’s just such a strange thing to do and if you are an adult that does this, you are crazy and need help
I don’t necessarily think Nicholas needs to apologize, but that apology video was NOT it. You don’t just tell someone they weren’t “actually being bullied” because it’s “just hate comments” Like bro have you ever heard of cyber bullying
I took it as he was acknowledging that people were going far past what could be considered bullying and is actually getting straight up hate comments? Am I mishearing it cuz it sounded like he was acknowledging how bad it was not that he was downplaying it?
@ It’s been an hour since I’ve seen the video so I may be wrong but he was basically saying her reaction was unwarranted because it’s not “real” bullying due to the fact she can delete comments
@@Harudodothat's what makes his apology so wrong and tone deaf. In no way does that make the bullying less real. She still read it. They still sent it. It doesn't delete it from her mind. She shouldn't have had to go through that, period. He shouldn't have made fun of her when she didn't make fun of him.
Neither creator was initially wrong, but when Nicholas said that Theresa should just delete the comments and move on bc they don't know her I feel like he was wrong. A harassment campaign can take a lot of of a person.
He was childish for randomly insulting her. Was he raised in a barn? What happened to "if you have nothing nice to say then say nothing at all. " If he wants to dish insults, he needs to be able to take insults.
While I don’t think his initial video was funny, I don’t think it was what people were making it out to be. However when she is clearly very upset his brush off and downplay of ignore it, its not that big of a deal gives me the ick. You can’t say strangers shouldn’t affect you when there have been people who unalive themselves because of strangers on the internet.
That and it sounded like he told her to grow up? Buddy.... he's handling this soooooo badly. Idk who he is but I don't wanna know. He sounds like a childish jerk.
@@ceecee2304 he body shamed under the guise of playing the "customer" in the interaction. Otherwise why bring up weight at all? he's being a mean person online and then pretending like everyone else took it the wrong way
@ceecee2304 please you can turn the internet off. You can close social media and be fine. The problem is people live and validate themselves through social media when they need to get off.
"just ignore it" or "just delete and block" only works in regular situations. When theres an active harassment campaign going on, that just fuels the flames, they see being blocked or ignored as "winning". They make more backup accounts just to keep going. These arent just regular ppl who go "oh she blocked me, guess ill move on" lol.
Yup, just listen to the teenagers who get cyber-bullied by their school bullies. You can't just block and move on, and even deleting an account isn't enough. They literally stalk you just to keep harassing you.
@ actually everyone has the “luxury” of saying what they want and expressing it. It’s called your first amendment right. I understand that you kids want to strip those rights and make types of speech and thought illegal. But trust me, that’s the last thing you would want. The “luxury” of free speech is very much a luxury and freedom that has been fought for on our behalf. You shouldn’t take it for granted. You might not like the way it’s used. That’s tough. Life is tough. People are going to hate you for terrible reasons. That’s life sweetie. And yes, people COULD just not bully but they choose not to. Some people just suck.
Woah woah woah woah WAIT...... 8:20 Mullet-boy is complaining about people hating on him then 2 SECONDS LATER is telling people to grow up and just delete hate comments?!?! 😂
Yeah, and saying that no bullying is happening? 😭 i think people forget that being hateful to the extent you are making fun of them and commenting horrible things to someone without reason IS bullying even if its so normalised nowadays. If it were translated to an in person scenario nobody would be saying otherwise. like don’t downplay how shes feeling whilst kinda defending her I agree with his overall point but yknow lol, don’t tell her to grow up after she is rightfully hurt by all this
her educational skitz are fire and really helpful.. washing your hair too frequently if you have psoriasis can be really damaging.. an it might be hard to recognise. so hell no dont bully this woman shes helping people
Especially since she did say (in the one we watched) that she wasn't educated but recommended who to go to- absolutely what you're supposed to do she's peak
Also like... anyone talking about stuff like this helps remove the stigma around it. I have psoriasis (on my joints, not my scalp, but still) and uninformed people can be incredibly rude about it. By talking about it, she's helping people realize "Oh, this is normal, we don't have to be worried about catching it" or whatever.
As someone who struggled with being 89% covered in Psoriasis and finally found a medication that works after nearly 18 years--- i am so appreciative to anyone who tries to educate people about it. It has such a stigma and is a draining condition.
“Mocking her unprovoked “it’s a skit get over yourself. You could say she “mocked people unprovoked “ in her videos, but it’s not that fucking serious relax
Eh.... I agree tho! It's just a skit the same way as hers annnnd it wasn't directed towards her at all..? Making customer service skits are not an exclusive thing to her so she was honestly verrrrry childish to turn it into a why does the world hate me thing. Wasn't that deep at all and it was a joke towards the bigger community. There's like at least 3 other creators i can think of off the top of my head that makes the same sort of videos that I could've thought of. She's entirely too grown to be getting this upset over a skit. That never mentioned her explicitly. Ever. I will say the hate she got from other people was unwarranted and sad though. Now that I get her being upset about i genuinely feel like those people are just as childish as she's being. But who is she to make him like a villain for completely random people deciding to bully her?
Harassment is bullying, bro made a video that was clearly pretty mocking in nature, and while I certainly don't think it's their fault she got harassed and it probably wasn't *meant* in a bad way, responding "um no bullying is happening grow up" is so disgusting.
mocking in nature and throwing in a weight joke in there, which his audience latched onto being about her. of course her feelings are hurt. he was way too comfortable spitting out a 'why are you so fat' in there when he was the "customer" in the situation.
@princessofjedi that is a reach, the video wasn't about her, he wasn't "comfortable" saying it, he was saying that in some of these skits that Karen's are such archetypal villains that people do not act like. People do not say "do not speak to me, why are you so fat" after you say hello. But in some of the customer service skits that purport to be real, the Karen's will launch into absolutely unhinged rants and say things that should make you question the reality of them. Him playing one of those Karen over the top archetypes and mentioning fatness is not indicative of cruelty or a sign of comfort with making fun of fat people, because he is referencing material where they are the villains of the story.
I don't like his reply video. He doubled down on being a bit of a dick to her. If his followers are going and being nasty to others, at the level that it makes that person want to leave the platform, then he's doing something wrong on his channel. Are their actions his responsibility? No. But if you've got that many nasty followers then you're clearly doing something that makes them charged enough to go do this. Had he never mentioned other creators and just done his own skit them that would have been one thing, but he clearly meant to call out the people that do this, and it came off as shitty. Then doubles down and tells her to grow thicker skin. What a prick.
This 100%. And hell, the initial video was bad, but nothing too bad. If he'd just said "Hey guys, heard you were doing this, please stop. She's clearly really upset by this and you're bad people if you do this." then that's one thing. But the AUDACITY to complain about hate comments, then tell someone they aren't being bullied and they can just delete the comments is not it, especially since that doesn't work with hate campaigns, it just fuels them.
He didn't mock her. He mocked hairdresser Karen content which could include Theresa, Bailey, Siiri etc. It's the COMMENTERS who are bullying and harassing her.
@Nish-ej3zn sure, but he mocking relatively harmless contents, so it seems he got nothing better to do, just hating others for no reason and there's no smoke without fire, he is the trigger that ended up making people harassing other creators.
I adore Theresa! Her videos always bring a smile to my face, educational or not. And how does he not care if the videos are real or not if he MADE A VIDEO about them being "fake"?
Exactly. You know they're exaggerated or fake for the sake of being educational like every other educational skit so why even bother making a whole skit mocking it??
the “just block people if they’re being rude” thing he says is so dumb and deflecting. Like blocking only works so well when you have thousands of people harassing you and saying awful things. And the “her crying was dramatic she’s being a baby” thing from his followers is so heartless. We don’t know anything about her personal life or what she’s dealing with privately so all these comments might just be too much on top of something else. I’m pretty sure everyone’s had a day were something terrible happens and u just keep going until a seemingly small or comparatively small thing that gets you crying or overwhelmed.
It's not deflecting. He didn't do anything wrong. He made a skit about people who make skits about people. He can't control people on TikTok and trying to do so only lights a fire under the trolls' butt's to be even worse.
@@refinnej5302his video led to an influx of harrasment to a specific person. He may not have meant it but thats what his actions led to. He was dismissive of her response and dismissive of the harm thats been done. Its not hard to say “it wasnt my intention im sorry” and sure telling people to stop doesn’t get people to stop but people clearly value his opinion enough to go harrass someone on mass so if he’d said at least said something instead of having a toddler tantrum some people may have stopped 🤷
Honestly, it doesn't even matter whether she had stuff built up or more going on in life because even if she didn't and life was going great its just straight up a normal response to hatred but the internet hates it when people have emotions, especially when it comes to hate comments because they think its weak to have anything except apathy towards them.
I used to watch Theresa’s videos when it was like peak time for Karen skits so like lots of other tiktokers were making about them about their various jobs. I’m so confused what anyone could send hate about. I don’t know why I’m shocked that the internet is the internet but it’s so cruel.
Having worked in insurance and dealt with people on a regular basis, I really don't think it's that exaggerated. Not that long ago I had to have a half hour long conversation with somebody about why it is that I cannot force the DMV to have a document faster. She then asked to speak with a supervisor..
My husband works in car insurance, can confirm he gets threatened and bullied by strangers on a daily basis 😅 Police have had to be called on a few occasions.
Along with just dealing with the world's dumbest people on the planet, and people who think my husband won't find out through the DMV check that the person has been in several at-fault accidents. 😂
@@yelhsasokolova8561 I just became a supervisor. Before that I worked in a department that was the middle person between insurance and the state..so like if someone's license was pending suspension I was who they called. I believe it..the amount of times I've been called little girl cause I wouldn't unsuspend their license for them. Like...I'm not committing fraud for you. Lmao. You didn't pay your insurance!! Also I'll never get why would you curse at or threat the person who you're asking for help from?! What people don't know is we keep a log of who is abusive on the phone.. eventually we will terminate your policy.
Working in telephone banking for years, people used to lock their debit card by putting the wrong PIN in 3 times and be mad af we couldn't reset the card pin by phone. Nah dude, a teller needs to swipe that, get your head in the game 😂 Nobody knows their PIN, they just want to yell about it 🙄 I used to crochet while they lost their minds because there was no stopping them anyhow, why waste my breath?
The part that gets me is nicholas saying "they're not real" about the people sending hate lol...I get the pov of "ignore them, they don't know you" but they are still actual real life people who took time out of their day to send a hateful message to another real life person. Of course that could upset her, especially if she's receiving hundreds or thousands of them. It's not fake or less hurtful just because it's online
I love her educational videos - they are genuinely needed and very helpful and she is such a lovely and sweet person. I hope she continues to get lots of support. ❤❤❤
He was absolutely making fun of her. He painted her in a negative light and didn't understand that her videos are skits, not "fake" reenactments. From now on, he needs to think about what he says before he says it. He should know by now that people on the internet are hungry sharks looking for prey.
It's easy for me to see he was doing it to be mean but trying to make it funny in the classic mean girl attitude. Like this was something on his mind DAY AND NIGHT and for what?
Yes! I was just thinking of one girl in particular who pops up in my feed a lot, who’s a barista. There’s SO many of these creators. Why single out this one woman?!
I BET that the people sending her hate about these "hypothetical situations" Are the exact people that do that kind of stuff in real life. They are a reflection of themselves and they cannot stand being called out on it. YES we SEE you people. People see you for what you are and you cant handle it. Shame on anyone sending hate. people suck so bad. Edit: Ill keep sayin it... Creators are not responsible for the way that people respond to their videos. Unless we are talking about Babies and li children here (which we arent) People are responsible for their own reactions and actions in every situation.. including watching tik tok videos. So stop telling creators they need to apologize for crap others did who watched their video. That guy never said "Go send so and so hatred" That literally never happened. Its not his fault some of his viewers suck a$$
Yeah, I worked in a salon for a while, and every skit she showed, was highly accurate and I have seen it in person. Stylist have HORROR STORIES. ((And yes, people think psoriasis is dandruff and blame people saying they don't wash their hair.))
Being someone with chronic pain, mental health issues (such as ptsd, cptsd etc), is autistic, who has many times suffered with severe matting of my hair and who has a high care needs son who is audhd with high sensory issues that caused him to only be able to go barbers at almost 16yrs old (he had long hair pretty much till then would only let me and mum trim it), I find it lovely that she talks about people with specific issues that may have found difficulty going to get hair done. She talks about normalising accommodations and compassion as well as funny Karen stuff, which i really appreciate as it is not something i have seen often spoken about. She seems so nice.
as an autistic person myself im sure you’d be thrilled to hear that she is equally kind and accessible IRL and ALWAYS HAS BEEN. My sister had her hair done by Teresa probably 7 years ago, prior to TikTok, and she was super sweet, super kind to me, a young awkward teen, and my sister’s hair looked AMAZING. Her salon is called Fantastic Sam’s in Illinois, its a chain but she only owns one location. I wish I’d established myself as a client before she got so popular so I could get my hair done by her but im so happy shes got such loyal fans
@notericforeman that is so lovely to hear. Thank you for letting me know this, it really does make me happy to know, at the same time it makes it all the worse that she has been getting such hate. I started tearing up at her video about leaving tik tok. Having someone be kind about various issues without being condescending is great to see, just cause she may not of experienced them doesn't mean it is not setting an example for others and also encouraging to those with a variety of issues to go find an accessible/ accommodating salons. The man that does my sons hair has a SEN son also and was so understanding. He is the only person my son sees for his hair, he let's me know if we need to rearrange, if it's busy etc. He is lovely and it truly makes such a difference. Even my daughter likes him, he will make them both laugh, asks how we all are are and jokes about with us all. I recommend him in the local SEN groups to other parents all the time, and those that have gone all have had great experiences with his patience, laid back nature and understanding. It really does make the world of difference. My son was scared of it all and now he gets excited to go. It's still a bit of a sensory nightmare but he will try make sure as little hair goes on his face and neck as possible when he cuts it. We need more people like him and Theresa. The fact she is the same in real life i think she deserves all the love and success. Genuine, accommodating and empathetic people is something many of us don't get to experience often, if at all. Wishing you and your sister a great Xmas and new year 💜
So messed up! How is she getting hate? She clearly is a very sweet and sensitive person. Dude who didn't correct people in HIS comments, messed up. If you wanna be an influencer, expect to influence crappy people and their opinions too! Why do you think Markie tells us EVERY single video, not to send people hate?
Theresa is hard of hearing, she wears hearing aids and has been bullied, so she’s going to be more sensitive with all this hate directed towards her, for no reason
@@WinterWitch01Anyone who is getting thousands and thousands of hateful comments and DMs would be affected by that. Her having hearing loss and hearing aids has nothing to do with how she reacted to that situation. I don't know what the point of you bringing up her hearing loss and pass bullying is. This has nothing to do with past bullying. This has to do with the current harassment/bullying she's getting. Such a weird thing to comment and honestly kind of ableist
@@kayla68779 obviously I can't know what this other person really meant, but I took it as "She's been bullied before for really personal things that are also not her fault, so this current campaign is probably triggering and making her response today even more emotional." I don't think it was about her hearing, it was the fact she's been severely bullied before.
@@Listening_Books12345 Even taking out the hearing and just having been bullied in the past I don't think that her response is considered more emotional. My point was that anyone who was getting thousands and thousands of hate comments and hateful DMs (and I think it's safe to assume death threats) would react that way. I don't think her being bullied in the past or her hearing have any significance on her reaction right now. I think anyone can say that they wouldn't react that way but until you've witnessed it for yourself you can never know. Seeing it happen to someone is very different from having it happen to you.
Wait , this whole drama is seriously because the tik tok generation see it as ‘fake’ content. They’re just stupid and can’t decipher her intent. (I’ve worked in salons, while the skit isn’t real, there are people who are totally unaware of psoriasis and think it’s dandruff / unwashed hair)
Why does this dude feel he needs to piggyback on top of her videos, making fun of them, and then tag her in them where people who aren't familiar with her at all will go over there and hate on her thinking they're real and she's lying. He should know how social media works by now. No one wants to wake up in the morning getting a boatload of hate from some git with 3M followers. Geez.
@@SmileyxKyley Oh, I misheard then, but still, not sure why he needs to piggyback on top of her. Again, people just seem to love someone they can direct some anger onto.
I hate when people try to avoid responsibility for their actions by saying their "intentions" weren't bad or mean. It literally doesnt mattee what you meant or intended to do, your actions had negative and hateful consequences. Own that, like he said, if the shoe fits.
It’s not his video that hurt her feelings, it’s all the random ass people commenting hate. I have no idea in the world why she is so incapable of ignoring both of those as a grown adult woman she needs to grow up.
@@crazycakemonsterCrazy how u understood why she was upset but still cant fathom how upsetting cyberbullying is. Grow up, you aren’t tough bc u suspect u could handle the level of hate she was receiving if u were in her shoes lmfao
It’s so funny that Nicholas is like “it’s OBVIOUSLY over exaggerated” like yeah dude it’s entertainment. Does he also watch movies and shows and say THAT IS OVER EXAGGERATED.
The thing people forget is that humans were never programmed (if you will )to handle negative feed back on such a large scale. Like we’re just not made to handle that much attention. And if you can handle it then you are definitely built different. But for most people it takes time to learn how to handle that and also they never fully do it’s like grief … you just get used to it
I feel so bad for her. I used to watch her when I had tiktok and her videos have always been harmless? And she just has good vibes. People are terrible for no reason.
If people think these are fake then you are lucky not to have to work with the public in this way. I’m a barista at a hospital and you would be surprised how insane people can get. Yesterday my coworker got cussed out because someone was charged correctly for what she got. Then she came back to the cafe and tried to return to the cafe asking for a refund because she only wanted one order of something not two. When told she couldn’t return her food she started cussing my coworker out
Tbh we really need to have a chat about male stylists/cosmetologists being so toxic lol(I am a cosmetologist and worked in a few salons before leaving because of male stylists being toxic to women). Other than that; whether he likes it or not cruel comments and dm's can get to you. Doesn't matter if these people know you.
I’m 40 and was JUST diagnosed with scalp eczema. Had a video like hers existed when I was a kid and anyone in my family saw it, I could have been diagnosed soooo much sooner and not have had as many problems. Beyond the dandruff issues, there were a lot of verbal fights with my parents about washing my hair and different shampoos. They’re divorced, so it also got to a he said she said thing. It was ridiculous. I love her for posting that
As someone who has worked in customer service, these scenarios do actually exist. Theresa is absolutely not lying. I have stories if anyone wants them.
This whole situation is stupid. The real story is why does anyone think it’s normal to send random people they don’t know mean messages or comments for literally the stupidest reasons that affect LITERALLY NO ONE.
Idk why crying has become even more stimatized lately than it already was. Its not "over dramatic" to cry if you're hurt or scared or sad. And its also not something you just "grow up" from. I know that this guy didnt mean for this to happen but being toxic about it isnt helping his case. Loss the 'im so tough" facade and realize that words and actions can hurt whether you meant to do them or not. This guy should take his own advice and "grow up" 🙄
He was literally making FUN of TikTokers making these skits. It was hateful energy and people picked up on that because that's what it WAS. He got caught being a petty bully and told her to grow up. Like make it make sense.
Imagine going online, going to someone's profile/page/whatever, going to messages, and actually sending them a shitty message?? Like what? That takes SO much time and effort. Go find something else to do! Also, get off TikTok. People are insane I swear.
fr! I watched this thinking she actually did something. but then when I was done I was like…seriously? hating on someone because they make skits? like whatt
I work in a library- her videos are not *that* exaggerated (if at all in some instances). People have literally, im not joking, shit into books, and closed them and put them back. Is it stuff that happens every day? no! But its certainly not completely out of the realm of possibility. Im glad he explained his point of view, and I hope people leave her the hell alone.
As someone with horrible mental illness someone that's kind and positive that isn't negative even while covering drama makes me feel like even my day can be positive thank you
i don’t think it was nicholas’s fault necessarily, but i do think he should have taken accountability for the harm he unintentionally caused. the response video was kind of off putting and he was clearly very worked up about it, i think he really should have given it another go once he had calmed down a bit. saying it wasn’t “really bullying” is ridiculous- even if you could reasonably delete hundreds or even thousands of comments, reading them in the first place is hurtful. either way i hope he does take some accountability at least, she wasn’t overreacting.
His initial video was fine imo. It’s unfortunate that it caused her to get so much hate, but I think it’s not realistic for him to foresee that happening. Where he went wrong was, once he realized she was getting a bunch of hate because of his video, he should have made a video condemning the bullying and saying he didn’t want anyone to harass any of these creators. Instead of reacting with anger, he should have cooled down and responded better.
After working in customer service l, people don’t understand how unhinged people can be 😅😅 everyday i had at the very least 3 people that thought they were the kings and queens of the world 😂😂
people don't seem to take harassment seriously sometimes. sure, some creators can shrug off hate comments, but not everybody can, and it doesn't mean that they're weak or anything. i feel so bad for her
How is she overreacting and being a baby by getting probably 100s (maybe 1000s) of DMs and comments that are nothing but hate? That would affect anyone negatively. People these days just want something to complain about.
Nicolas is 100% at fault. He could have just not made it. He didn't recognize that he has his audience, and influence over that audience. It was a video with the core concept being mocking creators like that. Because of that mockery, people ganged up, and harassed her to the point of her LEAVING THE ENTIRE PLATFORM.
Markie, thanks for keeping me updated on Tik Tok drama. I'm not on it and never will be. How this situation blew up boggles my mind! I can't wrap my head around it. 😮 Teresa's seems genuinely nice and has stated she enjoys the changes she's made in her content. She was clearly upset about the awful DM's and not even close to being overly dramatic. My opinions on Nicholas's response video are a little mixed. I thought it was cool he stood up for Jessica and liked her content enough to do his own skit because he found it entertaining. He was also on-point about putting the shoe on, going outside to touch the grass. Where he missed was (IMHO) was not completely understanding how hurtful hateful DM's can really get to a person aka cyber bullying.
I'm a hairdresser of 9 years, anyone in any service or customer facing jobs know how rude and stupid customers can be sometimes. You'd think no one is THAT crazy or stupid that it has to be an exaggeration, but people try some dumbass shit lol. Just this past week (busiest week of the year before Christmas), I've been yelled at on the phone 3 times already lol , for being fully booked up, for not being open christmas day, AND for not being able to stay late for someone because I was already staying late for another client. No patience for it anymore, I truly think we need to match their energy for them to realize how fucking dumb they sound.
Her skits are the reason I know so much about hair care and realistic hair goals, my hair dresser loves the fact I've tried to learn so much and know the limits of care and color changes. I think his response was beyond insensitive, he took ZERO accountability. Clearly people took his video as a go ahead to harass her and that does fall back on him, unintentional or not.
The only people that think those videos are exaggerated are the ones that either act like that or have never worked in customer service. There's a created that does hotel skits and having worked at a hotel it is SAD how real they are. Customers are actually insane.
There are some videos where the creator acts annoyed at reasonable customer requests and I guess people are becoming annoyed by them. But honestly, never saw one of those that involved hairdressers. It's mostly servers that make these "Karen videos" and the "Karen" is just someone asking for a to go bag.
Him acting like his video wasnt throwing shade is just backtracking. However i dont believe he had the intention of sending haters to her page. That was just an unfortunate consequence of his video.. Hopefully everyone can just swiftly move on. And he can hopefully learn from it that tiktok is full of hateful kids desperate for a reason to hate on people 😂😂😂😂
Bro Theresa actually may have helped me in this very video about the problem not being washing your hair. I have been struggling with that my whole life!!! Never knew about or considered psoriasis.
I am hairdresser and the few little skits I saw are really base on. Sorry to see her hurt is sad! If does FB, or you tube I will find her. Love girlie!
I stopped taking anything from TikTok comments when I saw hundreds of people blaming a girl for being SA when she was little. Just a bunch of hateful trolls. Not to mention the “bubblegum pink” comments and “hear me out” comments under videos of literal babies.
I used to watch Teresa's videos all the time back when I still used Tiktok and it hurts my heart to see her so down and hurt. She doesn't deserve any of the things she's going through.
he said shes talking about things that probably never happened, then threatens to throws a punch in his skit @ 2:45 exactly how Robin did. Iykyk cause "that was a lotttt Robin" lmaoo These things do happen in real life sir, ppl do take it there. But either way, i think its obvious her skits arent portraying true personal stories every time, but her videos are harmless with an educational twist. I swear you can catch some serious strays being a content creator on the tikkidy tok
I feel like people just want something to dogpile on these days and be mad about, so the second they see an opportunity, the keyboard warriors hit the frontlines of TikTok, not caring that there are real people on the other side who are being genuinely affected by the hate.
The only people who ever need to be held accountable for saying and/or doing ugly hateful things are the people doing and/or saying ugly hateful things. Just bc someone else does or says something doesn't mean you have to fallow suit. I thought we learned this when our moms taught us not to jump off a bridge just bc our friends did. Grown people acting like children is something that will always having me smh.
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People who think mean customer skits are made up have never worked in customer service roles lmao
the fact that it’s closer to the truth than being made up is what blows me people really don’t know
They’re usually the ones causing the problems.
I never worked in customer service, but I saw those kind of Karen while shopping a few times.
Exactly!! Some of the stuff that happens to me at work has me questioning my own reality
I work in the fast food industry, and the number of times I had to talk myself down from slapping the shit out of a customer is unreal 😭😭
Teresa's not being dramatic about the "situation", she's crying about the horrible things people were saying to her. It's not the situation, it's the hateful messages.
You watch Markie, too!?
@@TheCatsofVanRaptoroh, hey!! 😃 what a fun coincidence seeing you here! Small world, huh? 😂
She should grow some thicker skin or log off .... she's not entitled to people being "nice" if she can't take the heat, get outta the kitchen or off social media, this generation is SOOOO SOFT, y'all need to learn "sticks and stones may break my bones, but WORDS will NEVER HURT ME" Y'all are pxssies
Nobody was bullying or hating her. Influencers say this every time they get attention. He did nothing wrong and she is being dramatic.
@@Sarah-dl4sl an honest reaction to an overwhelming amount of hate whether intentional or accidental is not being dramatic. He isn’t bullying, but she’s not being dramatic
I did hair for 12 years. That guy has no idea how absolutely unhinged clients can be
Oh people can be insane. I'm not even a hair dresser but I have so many customer service horror stories. When I worked at Edible Arrangements we had over 900 orders to make and deliver on Valentine's Day and we were a small store, so the fact that we were able to get almost everything made and delivered in one day was insane for us. Key word there - *almost* everything. There were 6 orders that didn't get delivered, and five of those customers we contacted at the end of the day and they either got their refund or arranged a new delivery for the following day. But that sixth customer... She lost her ever loving mind on us. She was threatening to take us to court and run our business to the ground. She kept calling our store non-stop for three days straight just to scream at us some more. We all very quickly memorized her phone number and did our best to avoid answering her calls. I was unfortunate enough to get her first call and she was screaming at me and insulting me so much that it triggered a panic attack so severe that I had to leave work early.
holy reminds me of how today at work i got blunt n ash water thrown at me thru the drive thru window 😭
its not just hair. anyone who deals with the public knows these are barely exaggerated.
I used to work for lawyers. For 'educated' people, it was almost funny how assuredly wrong they were, and willing to argue with you about it for hrs, like they thought reality was a court case they could win.
'No sir, I'm just a worker, I cant change the prices for you no matter how long you argue with me over them. Yes sir, I can hang up on you." CLICK.
I worked customer service, I know people who worked hair....can we stop pretending these stories are not fake af? Like, yeah, people can be rude, most of them in normal ways, every now and then you will get one who is unhinged amounts of rude.
But the kind of people in some of these skits would literally make the news, because they do make the news. Some of them pretend that a wealthy brat came in, used all the makeup on display, then threw it on the ground on purpose and was screaming don't you know who my dad is. Then tipped over a display and everyone was staring.
Yet no one called the cops because then the stylist finds out who her father is and he is a big shot lawyer and she calls him up and he is like "my precious baby would never do that" and then she sends him the CCTV and he pays her for the damages.
Heck, even a good portion of the Karen videos that purport to be recording a real Karen breakdown are faked.
If you think someone who consistently has "real" stories that are more dramatic than actual ER hospital admittance and mental health admittance nurses is realistic, you might want to really check over your stories and your own memory. Because having one or two crazy stories is normal. Having regular customer interactions where some woman is so unhinged that the police should be involved is not.
People are awful when they think someone is beneath them
Honestly, having worked in customer service, I don’t think those scenarios are very exaggerated.
They're usually not, i'm a former librarian and you would be surprised the questions i am asked🥴🥴
@@camdenhunt7565 Former Nail Tech/Salon Receptionist, and oh lord these are not exaggerated in the slightest. 😂I have seen it all and only worked there 2 years.
Bartender here, not as much exaggeration as you think.
living in the same area as Teresa, these scenarios are not exaggerated much. I’ve seen fist fights in the Target parking lot in the same town as Fantastic Sam’s over a parking spot. I’ve seen a customer grab a cashier by the hair because a coupon wouldn’t scan. We’re south of Chicago. We’re like the Upside Down of Chicago, less gun violence, more rural area, equal nutball behavior. I worked at a farm supply store in the area and someone cracked open multiple cans of doe piss deer attractant for hunting and sprayed them all over the back wall of the store. It reeked for weeks. We had to close for the rest of the day he’d done it. I know for sure other states have areas like this but god I can’t wait to move.
The people who say it's over exaggerated are the same people who respond to any crazy story with something like "you're lying, you just want to be the main character". They're just basement dwellers who aren't worth the oxygen they waste on a daily basis. That, or they just have no grip on reality. 😂
Thanks for making this and explaining the situation! Neither Nicholas or I really understand how this whole thing got so out of control. But it was easily the most insane amount of hate I’ve ever received
Love from an internet stranger and a former retail worker. People are crazy and will send hate and anger for absolutely no reason. I know there are days it's like rain on glass and easy to ignore and other days it hits hard and people forget that you are a person. Too many cooks in the kitchen I say, you continue to be you and you will find the people who wanna see you. I don't think Nicholas did anything wrong as he just stated his opinions. It's the bullies/instigators who are to blame. Well my anxiety says I've said to much, but I genuinely hope you have a good day/night.
Keep pushing girl!! You’re doing amazing and I always enjoy your videos. You don’t deserve any hate! ❤
Girl, I’m so sorry! When you started tearing up, my heart broke for you! No one deserves to be treated in such a way! Sending you lots of love & warmth 💜
I’ve worked retail for over 25 years. The insane shit customers have said and done during this time is almost unbelievable. The bloke making that video clearly has never had to work in customer service cause of the videos of yours I’ve seen that he classes as ‘exaggerated’ seemed positively mild to me!
I’m so sorry you’ve received crap over this. Keep your chin up and know that there are more of us supporting you than hating. Take care.
I’m so sorry - people suck sometimes, for no reason & it’s not fair. Keep doing your thing, you make people happy! I hope you feel better soon 🙏☺️
He absolutely lost me when he said "grow up" about the bullying..
Yes, as he is partaking in it by saying she needs to grow up 😂😂
Exactly. I don’t feel like he’s at fault for it happening, but he doesn’t get to dictate how she feels and reacts to an influx of hate.
That's how you know HE was the bully at school
@@Mikayla_Games24he was telling the BULLIES to grow up and stop picking on other creators, he wasn't picking on Teresa for crying. He was defending her in her video, you completely missed the point in what he was saying.
Exactly
Just under ten years ago, my sister had her hair done by Teresa at Fantastic Sam’s and Teresa is the SWEETEST human being in the entire world. She is so kind, warm, welcoming, and her videos do not do justice to how insanely talented a cosmetologist she is. Seeing her get emotional was so heart breaking, shes such a sweet lady
I own a fantastic Sam's in Minnesota and to have one who is so absolutely professional and intelligent would be a huge blessing! If your looking for work girl.. hit me up😊
@@Dreamcoloredshe was a client lol
@idkausername4035 yea.. I was just thinking she may read the comments. I did not
intend to respond directly to the comment but I clicked in the wrong space
Seeing her tear up made my heart so sad!
I wanted to hug her.
Social media can be ruthless.
The venn diagram of People who have no critical thinking skills and people who would use their time to harass someone over it is just a circle.
This was a top tier comment 👏 😂
Truth! Anyone with a brain wouldn't waste their time sending threats and harassment to a stranger...especially when everything can easily be traced back to you and potentially ruin your life if you go too far with the wrong person. Privacy and internet anonymity is dead, people.
This!!!
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It’s gotta be kids cuz what adult would ever? That’s just such a strange thing to do and if you are an adult that does this, you are crazy and need help
I don’t necessarily think Nicholas needs to apologize, but that apology video was NOT it. You don’t just tell someone they weren’t “actually being bullied” because it’s “just hate comments”
Like bro have you ever heard of cyber bullying
He needs to actually apologize because ovi he is also a bully if he doesn't think harassment isn't a big deal
@ oh yeah definitely. In case it was confusing, I was talking about apologizing for “sending people” after her
I took it as he was acknowledging that people were going far past what could be considered bullying and is actually getting straight up hate comments? Am I mishearing it cuz it sounded like he was acknowledging how bad it was not that he was downplaying it?
@ It’s been an hour since I’ve seen the video so I may be wrong but he was basically saying her reaction was unwarranted because it’s not “real” bullying due to the fact she can delete comments
@@Harudodothat's what makes his apology so wrong and tone deaf. In no way does that make the bullying less real. She still read it. They still sent it. It doesn't delete it from her mind. She shouldn't have had to go through that, period. He shouldn't have made fun of her when she didn't make fun of him.
Neither creator was initially wrong, but when Nicholas said that Theresa should just delete the comments and move on bc they don't know her I feel like he was wrong. A harassment campaign can take a lot of of a person.
He was childish for randomly insulting her. Was he raised in a barn? What happened to "if you have nothing nice to say then say nothing at all. " If he wants to dish insults, he needs to be able to take insults.
While I don’t think his initial video was funny, I don’t think it was what people were making it out to be. However when she is clearly very upset his brush off and downplay of ignore it, its not that big of a deal gives me the ick. You can’t say strangers shouldn’t affect you when there have been people who unalive themselves because of strangers on the internet.
That and it sounded like he told her to grow up? Buddy.... he's handling this soooooo badly. Idk who he is but I don't wanna know. He sounds like a childish jerk.
@@ceecee2304 he body shamed under the guise of playing the "customer" in the interaction. Otherwise why bring up weight at all? he's being a mean person online and then pretending like everyone else took it the wrong way
@ceecee2304 please you can turn the internet off. You can close social media and be fine. The problem is people live and validate themselves through social media when they need to get off.
"just ignore it" or "just delete and block" only works in regular situations. When theres an active harassment campaign going on, that just fuels the flames, they see being blocked or ignored as "winning". They make more backup accounts just to keep going. These arent just regular ppl who go "oh she blocked me, guess ill move on" lol.
Yup, just listen to the teenagers who get cyber-bullied by their school bullies. You can't just block and move on, and even deleting an account isn't enough. They literally stalk you just to keep harassing you.
Calm down. Lmao
Stop making content if you don’t like the reactions you are getting. Nobody is owed a positive response.
@@erinwilson3369 no one is owed the luxury of harassing someone online because they don’t like what they post. They could literally just not do that.
@ actually everyone has the “luxury” of saying what they want and expressing it. It’s called your first amendment right. I understand that you kids want to strip those rights and make types of speech and thought illegal. But trust me, that’s the last thing you would want. The “luxury” of free speech is very much a luxury and freedom that has been fought for on our behalf. You shouldn’t take it for granted. You might not like the way it’s used. That’s tough. Life is tough. People are going to hate you for terrible reasons. That’s life sweetie. And yes, people COULD just not bully but they choose not to. Some people just suck.
Woah woah woah woah WAIT...... 8:20
Mullet-boy is complaining about people hating on him then 2 SECONDS LATER is telling people to grow up and just delete hate comments?!?! 😂
Yeah, and saying that no bullying is happening? 😭 i think people forget that being hateful to the extent you are making fun of them and commenting horrible things to someone without reason IS bullying even if its so normalised nowadays. If it were translated to an in person scenario nobody would be saying otherwise.
like don’t downplay how shes feeling whilst kinda defending her
I agree with his overall point but yknow lol, don’t tell her to grow up after she is rightfully hurt by all this
When did he complain about getting hate? He literally said block and delete. It’s not that difficult. It’s TikTok.
Does Nicholas not realise what a skit is....? She wasn't calling them reenactments...
I just feel like he should have worded things differently. Or just not make it at all.
sadly, intelligence and popularity have an inverse correlation. Just look at joe rogan.
You could say the same thing about her and parodies...
''Does Theresa not realise what a parody is...?''
What's your point?
@@happysugarwaifu432The point is it's not a good parody if you don't understand the thing you're parodying. 😂😂
@@happysugarwaifu432 Did he say it was a parody? I watched and it said it was an IMPRESSION. The opposite of a parody.
her educational skitz are fire and really helpful.. washing your hair too frequently if you have psoriasis can be really damaging.. an it might be hard to recognise. so hell no dont bully this woman shes helping people
And genuinely even if she were to make exaggerated videos who cares lol like she’s so sweet and doesn’t hurt anybody
Especially since she did say (in the one we watched) that she wasn't educated but recommended who to go to- absolutely what you're supposed to do she's peak
Also like... anyone talking about stuff like this helps remove the stigma around it. I have psoriasis (on my joints, not my scalp, but still) and uninformed people can be incredibly rude about it. By talking about it, she's helping people realize "Oh, this is normal, we don't have to be worried about catching it" or whatever.
as someone with psoriasis on my scalp i can confirm
As someone who struggled with being 89% covered in Psoriasis and finally found a medication that works after nearly 18 years--- i am so appreciative to anyone who tries to educate people about it. It has such a stigma and is a draining condition.
breaks my heart to see her get emotional… she’s just innocently posting… bless her heart
Him telling her to grow up after mocking her unprovoked is wilddddd
He wasn't telling HER to grow up, he was telling people attacking her to grow up because they took his video out of proportion.
@@kodicore Yes he was, you need to rewatch it. He literally says, "there's no bullying going on here".
“Mocking her unprovoked “it’s a skit get over yourself. You could say she “mocked people unprovoked “ in her videos, but it’s not that fucking serious relax
@ correct, it isn’t that serious. Get off the internet
Eh.... I agree tho! It's just a skit the same way as hers annnnd it wasn't directed towards her at all..? Making customer service skits are not an exclusive thing to her so she was honestly verrrrry childish to turn it into a why does the world hate me thing. Wasn't that deep at all and it was a joke towards the bigger community. There's like at least 3 other creators i can think of off the top of my head that makes the same sort of videos that I could've thought of. She's entirely too grown to be getting this upset over a skit. That never mentioned her explicitly. Ever.
I will say the hate she got from other people was unwarranted and sad though. Now that I get her being upset about i genuinely feel like those people are just as childish as she's being. But who is she to make him like a villain for completely random people deciding to bully her?
Harassment is bullying, bro made a video that was clearly pretty mocking in nature, and while I certainly don't think it's their fault she got harassed and it probably wasn't *meant* in a bad way, responding "um no bullying is happening grow up" is so disgusting.
Agree his rant was completely off-putting.
Yeah idk why people are defending him saying he didn't do anything wrong when he was clearly being intentionally mean
mocking in nature and throwing in a weight joke in there, which his audience latched onto being about her. of course her feelings are hurt. he was way too comfortable spitting out a 'why are you so fat' in there when he was the "customer" in the situation.
@@princessofjediyou need therapy, hun.
@princessofjedi that is a reach, the video wasn't about her, he wasn't "comfortable" saying it, he was saying that in some of these skits that Karen's are such archetypal villains that people do not act like. People do not say "do not speak to me, why are you so fat" after you say hello. But in some of the customer service skits that purport to be real, the Karen's will launch into absolutely unhinged rants and say things that should make you question the reality of them.
Him playing one of those Karen over the top archetypes and mentioning fatness is not indicative of cruelty or a sign of comfort with making fun of fat people, because he is referencing material where they are the villains of the story.
As a hairdresser myself that guy has no idea how insane people can be she is not exaggerating
lord forbid people post harmless skits on the internet 🤣I feel bad for her, this is such pointless hate
It's crazy because that's all RUclips was back in the day.
I don't like his reply video. He doubled down on being a bit of a dick to her. If his followers are going and being nasty to others, at the level that it makes that person want to leave the platform, then he's doing something wrong on his channel. Are their actions his responsibility? No. But if you've got that many nasty followers then you're clearly doing something that makes them charged enough to go do this.
Had he never mentioned other creators and just done his own skit them that would have been one thing, but he clearly meant to call out the people that do this, and it came off as shitty. Then doubles down and tells her to grow thicker skin. What a prick.
Completely agree.
Exactly!
This 100%. And hell, the initial video was bad, but nothing too bad. If he'd just said "Hey guys, heard you were doing this, please stop. She's clearly really upset by this and you're bad people if you do this." then that's one thing. But the AUDACITY to complain about hate comments, then tell someone they aren't being bullied and they can just delete the comments is not it, especially since that doesn't work with hate campaigns, it just fuels them.
That guy giving "oh i hate this person for no reason, lets mock and harass them"
he does that a lot i’ve noticed. it’s weird af. zero originality in his content either, unsurprisingly
How? When? How was he harassing anyone? And it’s not mocking. It’s a funny skid. Get the fuck over it.
He didn't mock her. He mocked hairdresser Karen content which could include Theresa, Bailey, Siiri etc. It's the COMMENTERS who are bullying and harassing her.
@Nish-ej3zn sure, but he mocking relatively harmless contents, so it seems he got nothing better to do, just hating others for no reason and there's no smoke without fire, he is the trigger that ended up making people harassing other creators.
I adore Theresa! Her videos always bring a smile to my face, educational or not. And how does he not care if the videos are real or not if he MADE A VIDEO about them being "fake"?
Exactly. You know they're exaggerated or fake for the sake of being educational like every other educational skit so why even bother making a whole skit mocking it??
the “just block people if they’re being rude” thing he says is so dumb and deflecting. Like blocking only works so well when you have thousands of people harassing you and saying awful things. And the “her crying was dramatic she’s being a baby” thing from his followers is so heartless. We don’t know anything about her personal life or what she’s dealing with privately so all these comments might just be too much on top of something else. I’m pretty sure everyone’s had a day were something terrible happens and u just keep going until a seemingly small or comparatively small thing that gets you crying or overwhelmed.
It's not deflecting. He didn't do anything wrong. He made a skit about people who make skits about people. He can't control people on TikTok and trying to do so only lights a fire under the trolls' butt's to be even worse.
@@refinnej5302his video led to an influx of harrasment to a specific person. He may not have meant it but thats what his actions led to. He was dismissive of her response and dismissive of the harm thats been done. Its not hard to say “it wasnt my intention im sorry” and sure telling people to stop doesn’t get people to stop but people clearly value his opinion enough to go harrass someone on mass so if he’d said at least said something instead of having a toddler tantrum some people may have stopped 🤷
Honestly, it doesn't even matter whether she had stuff built up or more going on in life because even if she didn't and life was going great its just straight up a normal response to hatred but the internet hates it when people have emotions, especially when it comes to hate comments because they think its weak to have anything except apathy towards them.
I used to watch Theresa’s videos when it was like peak time for Karen skits so like lots of other tiktokers were making about them about their various jobs. I’m so confused what anyone could send hate about. I don’t know why I’m shocked that the internet is the internet but it’s so cruel.
Having worked in insurance and dealt with people on a regular basis, I really don't think it's that exaggerated. Not that long ago I had to have a half hour long conversation with somebody about why it is that I cannot force the DMV to have a document faster. She then asked to speak with a supervisor..
My husband works in car insurance, can confirm he gets threatened and bullied by strangers on a daily basis 😅 Police have had to be called on a few occasions.
Along with just dealing with the world's dumbest people on the planet, and people who think my husband won't find out through the DMV check that the person has been in several at-fault accidents. 😂
@@yelhsasokolova8561 I just became a supervisor. Before that I worked in a department that was the middle person between insurance and the state..so like if someone's license was pending suspension I was who they called. I believe it..the amount of times I've been called little girl cause I wouldn't unsuspend their license for them. Like...I'm not committing fraud for you. Lmao. You didn't pay your insurance!! Also I'll never get why would you curse at or threat the person who you're asking for help from?! What people don't know is we keep a log of who is abusive on the phone.. eventually we will terminate your policy.
Working in telephone banking for years, people used to lock their debit card by putting the wrong PIN in 3 times and be mad af we couldn't reset the card pin by phone. Nah dude, a teller needs to swipe that, get your head in the game 😂
Nobody knows their PIN, they just want to yell about it 🙄 I used to crochet while they lost their minds because there was no stopping them anyhow, why waste my breath?
@@Whatdoesthisboxdoit sucks you were on the phone because it would be so funny if you were sitting there crocheting in person as these losers yelled 😆
The part that gets me is nicholas saying "they're not real" about the people sending hate lol...I get the pov of "ignore them, they don't know you" but they are still actual real life people who took time out of their day to send a hateful message to another real life person. Of course that could upset her, especially if she's receiving hundreds or thousands of them. It's not fake or less hurtful just because it's online
I love her educational videos - they are genuinely needed and very helpful and she is such a lovely and sweet person. I hope she continues to get lots of support. ❤❤❤
I agree! My brother had psoriasis one his head as a teen. So many hair dressers refused to touch it fearing contagion. So it teaches everyone
He was absolutely making fun of her. He painted her in a negative light and didn't understand that her videos are skits, not "fake" reenactments. From now on, he needs to think about what he says before he says it. He should know by now that people on the internet are hungry sharks looking for prey.
It's easy for me to see he was doing it to be mean but trying to make it funny in the classic mean girl attitude. Like this was something on his mind DAY AND NIGHT and for what?
He literally sounds like shane dawson
Nicholas's response video felt like watching Hazbin Hotel dialogue like does he really NEED to cuss every 3 words it's so hard to take him seriously
I’m crying that’s so real and the fact that he HAS to say “FUCK” with his whole chest like dude what are you trying to prove
He cusses like a kid whose mom gave them permission to say bad words lmfao
That crazy, because there are tons of other hair stylists and other types of careers where people make fake exaggerated skits.
Yes! I was just thinking of one girl in particular who pops up in my feed a lot, who’s a barista. There’s SO many of these creators. Why single out this one woman?!
Exactly! Which is why I don't get why people assumed he was talking about Theresa. He wasn't talking about anyone.
I BET that the people sending her hate about these "hypothetical situations" Are the exact people that do that kind of stuff in real life. They are a reflection of themselves and they cannot stand being called out on it. YES we SEE you people. People see you for what you are and you cant handle it. Shame on anyone sending hate.
people suck so bad.
Edit: Ill keep sayin it... Creators are not responsible for the way that people respond to their videos. Unless we are talking about Babies and li children here (which we arent) People are responsible for their own reactions and actions in every situation.. including watching tik tok videos. So stop telling creators they need to apologize for crap others did who watched their video. That guy never said "Go send so and so hatred" That literally never happened. Its not his fault some of his viewers suck a$$
Yeah, I worked in a salon for a while, and every skit she showed, was highly accurate and I have seen it in person. Stylist have HORROR STORIES. ((And yes, people think psoriasis is dandruff and blame people saying they don't wash their hair.))
I’m confused, I don’t get any of what’s going on.
@@StawberryStranger he didn’t say “go send hate” but his response was condoning the behavior by saying it’s not bullying when it is.
He could have said all that without invalidating her and ignoring that his influence comes with responsibility
Being someone with chronic pain, mental health issues (such as ptsd, cptsd etc), is autistic, who has many times suffered with severe matting of my hair and who has a high care needs son who is audhd with high sensory issues that caused him to only be able to go barbers at almost 16yrs old (he had long hair pretty much till then would only let me and mum trim it), I find it lovely that she talks about people with specific issues that may have found difficulty going to get hair done. She talks about normalising accommodations and compassion as well as funny Karen stuff, which i really appreciate as it is not something i have seen often spoken about. She seems so nice.
as an autistic person myself im sure you’d be thrilled to hear that she is equally kind and accessible IRL and ALWAYS HAS BEEN. My sister had her hair done by Teresa probably 7 years ago, prior to TikTok, and she was super sweet, super kind to me, a young awkward teen, and my sister’s hair looked AMAZING. Her salon is called Fantastic Sam’s in Illinois, its a chain but she only owns one location. I wish I’d established myself as a client before she got so popular so I could get my hair done by her but im so happy shes got such loyal fans
@@notericforemanThat’s really lovely to hear and makes this whole situation feel a whole lot horrible.
@notericforeman that is so lovely to hear. Thank you for letting me know this, it really does make me happy to know, at the same time it makes it all the worse that she has been getting such hate. I started tearing up at her video about leaving tik tok. Having someone be kind about various issues without being condescending is great to see, just cause she may not of experienced them doesn't mean it is not setting an example for others and also encouraging to those with a variety of issues to go find an accessible/ accommodating salons. The man that does my sons hair has a SEN son also and was so understanding. He is the only person my son sees for his hair, he let's me know if we need to rearrange, if it's busy etc. He is lovely and it truly makes such a difference. Even my daughter likes him, he will make them both laugh, asks how we all are are and jokes about with us all. I recommend him in the local SEN groups to other parents all the time, and those that have gone all have had great experiences with his patience, laid back nature and understanding. It really does make the world of difference. My son was scared of it all and now he gets excited to go. It's still a bit of a sensory nightmare but he will try make sure as little hair goes on his face and neck as possible when he cuts it. We need more people like him and Theresa. The fact she is the same in real life i think she deserves all the love and success. Genuine, accommodating and empathetic people is something many of us don't get to experience often, if at all. Wishing you and your sister a great Xmas and new year 💜
@@ghoultooth it really does. It is such a genuine shame and so horrid
Why would you ever have a child when you can’t even function on your own? That’s horrible.
As a hair stylist sometimes the skits are still not dramatic enough.
The people who are saying she’s being over dramatic have no idea how it feels to have so many different people seemingly hate you for no reason.
So messed up! How is she getting hate? She clearly is a very sweet and sensitive person. Dude who didn't correct people in HIS comments, messed up. If you wanna be an influencer, expect to influence crappy people and their opinions too!
Why do you think Markie tells us EVERY single video, not to send people hate?
Theresa is hard of hearing, she wears hearing aids and has been bullied, so she’s going to be more sensitive with all this hate directed towards her, for no reason
@@WinterWitch01Anyone who is getting thousands and thousands of hateful comments and DMs would be affected by that. Her having hearing loss and hearing aids has nothing to do with how she reacted to that situation. I don't know what the point of you bringing up her hearing loss and pass bullying is. This has nothing to do with past bullying. This has to do with the current harassment/bullying she's getting. Such a weird thing to comment and honestly kind of ableist
@@kayla68779 obviously I can't know what this other person really meant, but I took it as "She's been bullied before for really personal things that are also not her fault, so this current campaign is probably triggering and making her response today even more emotional." I don't think it was about her hearing, it was the fact she's been severely bullied before.
@@Listening_Books12345 Even taking out the hearing and just having been bullied in the past I don't think that her response is considered more emotional. My point was that anyone who was getting thousands and thousands of hate comments and hateful DMs (and I think it's safe to assume death threats) would react that way. I don't think her being bullied in the past or her hearing have any significance on her reaction right now. I think anyone can say that they wouldn't react that way but until you've witnessed it for yourself you can never know. Seeing it happen to someone is very different from having it happen to you.
O.o either I'm very blind or Markie changed his picture recently, making me think this wasn't the real Markie.
He definitely changed it recently
It got me to
Lol well that is good to know, that I wasn't the only one thinking "MARKIE imposter" for a little bit 😄
Yeah he changed it a couple days ago.
Wait , this whole drama is seriously because the tik tok generation see it as ‘fake’ content.
They’re just stupid and can’t decipher her intent.
(I’ve worked in salons, while the skit isn’t real, there are people who are totally unaware of psoriasis and think it’s dandruff / unwashed hair)
This guy takes zero responsibility for what he started.
TikTok is a curse all around.
Why does this dude feel he needs to piggyback on top of her videos, making fun of them, and then tag her in them where people who aren't familiar with her at all will go over there and hate on her thinking they're real and she's lying. He should know how social media works by now. No one wants to wake up in the morning getting a boatload of hate from some git with 3M followers. Geez.
he didn’t tag her in them?
@@SmileyxKyley I thought he said he tagged her and other creators doing sort of the same thing and they figured out who she was.
@ not in the original video, someone commented her name and the comment got a bunch of likes
@@SmileyxKyley Oh, I misheard then, but still, not sure why he needs to piggyback on top of her. Again, people just seem to love someone they can direct some anger onto.
I hate when people try to avoid responsibility for their actions by saying their "intentions" weren't bad or mean.
It literally doesnt mattee what you meant or intended to do, your actions had negative and hateful consequences. Own that, like he said, if the shoe fits.
The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
It’s not his video that hurt her feelings, it’s all the random ass people commenting hate. I have no idea in the world why she is so incapable of ignoring both of those as a grown adult woman she needs to grow up.
@@crazycakemonsterCrazy how u understood why she was upset but still cant fathom how upsetting cyberbullying is. Grow up, you aren’t tough bc u suspect u could handle the level of hate she was receiving if u were in her shoes lmfao
It’s so funny that Nicholas is like “it’s OBVIOUSLY over exaggerated” like yeah dude it’s entertainment. Does he also watch movies and shows and say THAT IS OVER EXAGGERATED.
He's right actually about one thing. People are spending way too much time on tiktok and need to get the hell outside and touch grass!
He needs to as well
His video is definitely to blame
@@deaditeerayeah he made a good point while lacking the self awareness to see he’s in that group too😅
The thing people forget is that humans were never programmed (if you will )to handle negative feed back on such a large scale. Like we’re just not made to handle that much attention. And if you can handle it then you are definitely built different. But for most people it takes time to learn how to handle that and also they never fully do it’s like grief … you just get used to it
I feel so bad for her. I used to watch her when I had tiktok and her videos have always been harmless? And she just has good vibes. People are terrible for no reason.
Anyone who’s worked customer service ESPECIALLY during covid knows that customers are actually insane.
If people think these are fake then you are lucky not to have to work with the public in this way. I’m a barista at a hospital and you would be surprised how insane people can get.
Yesterday my coworker got cussed out because someone was charged correctly for what she got. Then she came back to the cafe and tried to return to the cafe asking for a refund because she only wanted one order of something not two. When told she couldn’t return her food she started cussing my coworker out
im convinced that guy has never worked customer service in his life
4:59 she seems so sad :/ I feel terrible for her
Tbh we really need to have a chat about male stylists/cosmetologists being so toxic lol(I am a cosmetologist and worked in a few salons before leaving because of male stylists being toxic to women). Other than that; whether he likes it or not cruel comments and dm's can get to you. Doesn't matter if these people know you.
I’m 40 and was JUST diagnosed with scalp eczema. Had a video like hers existed when I was a kid and anyone in my family saw it, I could have been diagnosed soooo much sooner and not have had as many problems. Beyond the dandruff issues, there were a lot of verbal fights with my parents about washing my hair and different shampoos. They’re divorced, so it also got to a he said she said thing. It was ridiculous.
I love her for posting that
As someone who has worked in customer service, these scenarios do actually exist. Theresa is absolutely not lying. I have stories if anyone wants them.
This whole situation is stupid. The real story is why does anyone think it’s normal to send random people they don’t know mean messages or comments for literally the stupidest reasons that affect LITERALLY NO ONE.
I grew up in salons. Trust me. These hypothetical videos are absolutely based in reality. I have stories, y’all. 😂
Idk why crying has become even more stimatized lately than it already was. Its not "over dramatic" to cry if you're hurt or scared or sad. And its also not something you just "grow up" from. I know that this guy didnt mean for this to happen but being toxic about it isnt helping his case. Loss the 'im so tough" facade and realize that words and actions can hurt whether you meant to do them or not. This guy should take his own advice and "grow up" 🙄
He was literally making FUN of TikTokers making these skits. It was hateful energy and people picked up on that because that's what it WAS. He got caught being a petty bully and told her to grow up. Like make it make sense.
Imagine going online, going to someone's profile/page/whatever, going to messages, and actually sending them a shitty message?? Like what? That takes SO much time and effort. Go find something else to do! Also, get off TikTok. People are insane I swear.
Theresa is so un-problematic holy moly 😅 I can't understand the hate
fr! I watched this thinking she actually did something. but then when I was done I was like…seriously? hating on someone because they make skits? like whatt
This is heart breaking. She’s having to deal with this is so sad.
I work in a library- her videos are not *that* exaggerated (if at all in some instances). People have literally, im not joking, shit into books, and closed them and put them back. Is it stuff that happens every day? no! But its certainly not completely out of the realm of possibility. Im glad he explained his point of view, and I hope people leave her the hell alone.
As someone with horrible mental illness someone that's kind and positive that isn't negative even while covering drama makes me feel like even my day can be positive thank you
i don’t think it was nicholas’s fault necessarily, but i do think he should have taken accountability for the harm he unintentionally caused. the response video was kind of off putting and he was clearly very worked up about it, i think he really should have given it another go once he had calmed down a bit. saying it wasn’t “really bullying” is ridiculous- even if you could reasonably delete hundreds or even thousands of comments, reading them in the first place is hurtful. either way i hope he does take some accountability at least, she wasn’t overreacting.
His initial video was fine imo. It’s unfortunate that it caused her to get so much hate, but I think it’s not realistic for him to foresee that happening. Where he went wrong was, once he realized she was getting a bunch of hate because of his video, he should have made a video condemning the bullying and saying he didn’t want anyone to harass any of these creators. Instead of reacting with anger, he should have cooled down and responded better.
After working in customer service l, people don’t understand how unhinged people can be 😅😅 everyday i had at the very least 3 people that thought they were the kings and queens of the world 😂😂
people don't seem to take harassment seriously sometimes. sure, some creators can shrug off hate comments, but not everybody can, and it doesn't mean that they're weak or anything. i feel so bad for her
This goes to show people have nothing better to do in their lives. The guy is preaching!
No the guys stinky attitude didn't help.
@@GrapeCheez2I think they meant Markie is preaching (?)
I’ve got psoriasis, which is chronic, and can be managed with medical help. Educational videos like that can be so helpful!!!
Omg Teresa!!! I was JUST thinking about her today!! I love her skits
Some stores have the scales that are for theft prevention, but not most (aka Target).
Ppl are so UNHINGED these days!
Aww she seems so sweet. I wanna give her a hug!
How is she overreacting and being a baby by getting probably 100s (maybe 1000s) of DMs and comments that are nothing but hate? That would affect anyone negatively. People these days just want something to complain about.
I starting following her on TikTok in vivid and loved her skits!
Nicolas is 100% at fault.
He could have just not made it.
He didn't recognize that he has his audience, and influence over that audience.
It was a video with the core concept being mocking creators like that.
Because of that mockery, people ganged up, and harassed her to the point of her LEAVING THE ENTIRE PLATFORM.
Poor Theresa! I genuinely love her content and it’s awful that she’s going through this
Markie, thanks for keeping me updated on Tik Tok drama. I'm not on it and never will be.
How this situation blew up boggles my mind! I can't wrap my head around it. 😮
Teresa's seems genuinely nice and has stated she enjoys the changes she's made in her content. She was clearly upset about the awful DM's and not even close to being overly dramatic.
My opinions on Nicholas's response video are a little mixed. I thought it was cool he stood up for Jessica and liked her content enough to do his own skit because he found it entertaining. He was also on-point about putting the shoe on, going outside to touch the grass. Where he missed was (IMHO) was not completely understanding how hurtful hateful DM's can really get to a person aka cyber bullying.
I'm a hairdresser of 9 years, anyone in any service or customer facing jobs know how rude and stupid customers can be sometimes. You'd think no one is THAT crazy or stupid that it has to be an exaggeration, but people try some dumbass shit lol. Just this past week (busiest week of the year before Christmas), I've been yelled at on the phone 3 times already lol , for being fully booked up, for not being open christmas day, AND for not being able to stay late for someone because I was already staying late for another client. No patience for it anymore, I truly think we need to match their energy for them to realize how fucking dumb they sound.
Her skits are the reason I know so much about hair care and realistic hair goals, my hair dresser loves the fact I've tried to learn so much and know the limits of care and color changes. I think his response was beyond insensitive, he took ZERO accountability. Clearly people took his video as a go ahead to harass her and that does fall back on him, unintentional or not.
ooooh my god. my heart breaks for her! I’m sending her some love and a new follower ❤
The only people that think those videos are exaggerated are the ones that either act like that or have never worked in customer service. There's a created that does hotel skits and having worked at a hotel it is SAD how real they are. Customers are actually insane.
There are some videos where the creator acts annoyed at reasonable customer requests and I guess people are becoming annoyed by them. But honestly, never saw one of those that involved hairdressers. It's mostly servers that make these "Karen videos" and the "Karen" is just someone asking for a to go bag.
Him acting like his video wasnt throwing shade is just backtracking. However i dont believe he had the intention of sending haters to her page. That was just an unfortunate consequence of his video.. Hopefully everyone can just swiftly move on. And he can hopefully learn from it that tiktok is full of hateful kids desperate for a reason to hate on people 😂😂😂😂
Bro Theresa actually may have helped me in this very video about the problem not being washing your hair. I have been struggling with that my whole life!!! Never knew about or considered psoriasis.
I am hairdresser and the few little skits I saw are really base on. Sorry to see her hurt is sad! If does FB, or you tube I will find her. Love girlie!
Literally the only people who are at fault are the keyboard warriors that took a simple video too far
Nah it’s his fault too. He was trying to start drama over literally nothing
love her and have been following her for years
Jesus Christ, that Nicholas guy couldn’t make a decent response if he was given a script and and autoprompter.
I stopped taking anything from TikTok comments when I saw hundreds of people blaming a girl for being SA when she was little. Just a bunch of hateful trolls.
Not to mention the “bubblegum pink” comments and “hear me out” comments under videos of literal babies.
I used to watch Teresa's videos all the time back when I still used Tiktok and it hurts my heart to see her so down and hurt. She doesn't deserve any of the things she's going through.
The folks who sent hate in ANY direction are at fault here, and nobody else ! You all should be ashamed of yourself! 😤
Got my coffee, and blankie fresh out of the dryer ☕️ 🛌 I’m ready
he said shes talking about things that probably never happened, then threatens to throws a punch in his skit @ 2:45 exactly how Robin did. Iykyk cause "that was a lotttt Robin" lmaoo These things do happen in real life sir, ppl do take it there. But either way, i think its obvious her skits arent portraying true personal stories every time, but her videos are harmless with an educational twist. I swear you can catch some serious strays being a content creator on the tikkidy tok
It's funny cause I love her videos so it's insane to me. She's fairly sweet and you know they're just skits like-
There’s so many people that his skit refers to lolll
RIGHT like how did tiktok decide Theresa was the one to gang up on??? Wtf
I feel like people just want something to dogpile on these days and be mad about, so the second they see an opportunity, the keyboard warriors hit the frontlines of TikTok, not caring that there are real people on the other side who are being genuinely affected by the hate.
It’s crowd mentality.
poor girl, she just made some skits and her recent one's are actually good for education people are just so mean 🥺
He's dumb if he thinks people can tell his videos were made in "good intentions". There was no good intent in them.
im pretty sure he was making a parody of her and other peoples skits. i didn’t see a single thing wrong with his original video
I've always loved Teresa and the fact that she's dealing with this shit is so sad
The only people who ever need to be held accountable for saying and/or doing ugly hateful things are the people doing and/or saying ugly hateful things. Just bc someone else does or says something doesn't mean you have to fallow suit. I thought we learned this when our moms taught us not to jump off a bridge just bc our friends did. Grown people acting like children is something that will always having me smh.
💯 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
You should look into the crochet 6 star blanket drama 😂