10 Good Questions to Ask to Get to Know Someone FAST!

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  • @Mantelligence
    @Mantelligence  7 лет назад +16

    Check out the full post here: www.mantelligence.com/good-questions-to-ask-to-get-to-know-someone/
    I LOVE these questions! Each tells you something insightful, and different, about a person... and helps you get to know them better QUICKLY!
    Which is your favorite? What other questions to you ask to get to know someone?
    ...My favorite is #7 (2:14)

    • @rigidfinger
      @rigidfinger 7 лет назад

      1. Do you have any spare change?2. Can you get some spare change?.........that is typically enough to at least get me a different interviewer.

    • @cosmopolitan4598
      @cosmopolitan4598 7 лет назад

      Ahh, that superpower thing. Well on a second thought, not gonna ask it. I'm gonna ask it to MYSELF!

    • @anantakurak6501
      @anantakurak6501 5 лет назад

      If someone is broke up with their partner what are the questions that i can probably ask or tell inorder to know whether he or she is broke up or not? Please make this video.

    • @sasruto9089
      @sasruto9089 2 года назад

      What about for someone you just met you can't just start asking this

  • @georgekolotouros230
    @georgekolotouros230 7 лет назад +298

    What is your credit card limit ?

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 лет назад +42

      Hahahah, I ldon't think that's gonna go that well my dude

    • @A.I.-
      @A.I.- 7 лет назад +6

      @MantelligenceDating Super rich and plenty of successful people have an advice on the matter:
      Never marry someone who is in debt. Never marry someone who is financially incompetent. You can marry them if you want at your own risk/demise. ruclips.net/video/PkbWBDeLrJ4/видео.html

    • @DayanaDeHabana
      @DayanaDeHabana 5 лет назад +2

      No, first you ask whats your social number? XD

    • @ac-nf5hu
      @ac-nf5hu 4 года назад

      Golddigger

    • @ghia.the.aussie3918
      @ghia.the.aussie3918 3 года назад

      60 million

  • @jacobsmith1912
    @jacobsmith1912 4 года назад +38

    I didn't need this for dating I needed it for making friends and small talking to people online.

    • @tomato1087
      @tomato1087 3 года назад +1

      online people are boring man

  • @idunoh1902
    @idunoh1902 5 лет назад +131

    “What is your Social Security #?” Works every time.

  • @joshuasmith7369
    @joshuasmith7369 7 лет назад +432

    A real question: if you had six months to live what would you do? Answer: go live my mother in law, because it will be the longest six months of my life. Haha.

  • @maithilisingh5457
    @maithilisingh5457 3 года назад +51

    The questions -
    10. If you could only take three items with you to a deserted island, what would they be ?
    9. If One of your Five senses will be lost forever, which one would it be ?
    8. What animal best represents you and why ?
    7. If you could've one superpower, what would it be and how would you use it ?
    6. If you could live in a book, T.v show or movie, what would it be ?
    5. If you're OK a death row, what would your final meal be?
    4. What's the craziest thing you've ever done ?
    3. If your house was burning and you could save 1 item, what would it be and why ?
    2. If you could've dinner with one person living or dead, who would it be and why ?
    1. Which 90's era would you travel back to and why ?
    Yeah ! you're welcome :)

  • @Bugumir
    @Bugumir 7 лет назад +86

    This is a two-sided situation. If you're cool and she likes you, these'll help. If you're awkward and weird (the very sub-species that needs these tips) you'll just come off as creepy.

    • @phalvorantos
      @phalvorantos 5 лет назад +3

      Bugumir damn who hurt you

    • @danielguansing
      @danielguansing 4 года назад +1

      Maybe ask this questions if she's already comfortable with you, and I think it's how you approach her using this questions.. Is it lame approach or a cool attitude approach? I hope you get my point

  • @jacklincoln7786
    @jacklincoln7786 7 лет назад +40

    I always ask one question that has gotten me through.
    “Do you have herpes?”

  • @sarahgranados1929
    @sarahgranados1929 6 лет назад +34

    You should ask what thier passion is when you ask that their face just lights up I may be a kid but I love that question

  • @tbtb9431
    @tbtb9431 7 лет назад +66

    Nice video. But lol
    If someone asks me those questions I do feel like I’m getting job interview.

  • @melgarifico323
    @melgarifico323 7 лет назад +256

    This is not typical of what a real human being would ask.these questions are a cliche. These questions would be asked by a serial killer to get to know you before turning you into a lampshade. I would be suspicious of a person asking these questions.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 лет назад +37

      It's all about delivery big man. If you ask these out of the blue, without a normal-human intro... or if you just fire them off... it will come off as not normal. But if you ask them correctly, and use them correctly, they're neither cliche or serial-killer-y. They're fun, and tell you a surprising amount about a person

    • @maliaagf3846
      @maliaagf3846 7 лет назад

      MAURIFICO then what questions would you ask ?

    • @homebrandrules
      @homebrandrules 7 лет назад +1

      MAURIFICO
      maybe you should have yourself tested, see what kind of psyche you have, your opinion maybe indicative

    • @requiembeatz4476
      @requiembeatz4476 7 лет назад +2

      MAURIFICO A surprisingly easy way to make questions like these less weird is to just be transparent and say "chit-chat questions are honestly kinda boring for me, you game for more thought-provoking ones?"
      It also helps if you answer them as well. Predatory individuals generally try to keep the playing field tilted in their favor, and avoid revealing information about themselves. Sharing equally as they do displays that you are willing to be as vulnerable as they are.

    • @cosmopolitan4598
      @cosmopolitan4598 7 лет назад +2

      But, "Meal on a dead row" and "Losing which sense" are not what I'm gonna ask. Love the "three things in a island or what superhero strength" though.

  • @laurenwilson899
    @laurenwilson899 2 месяца назад +1

    Seriously or indubitably? ;)
    To be or not to be…? that is the question!!

  • @parthagarwal4328
    @parthagarwal4328 4 года назад +1

    Each one gives us important information about the world, and different way to enjoy it. Ummm like seeing beautiful views, hearing music, tasting food

  • @deepaktopno126
    @deepaktopno126 2 года назад

    It's really helpful for me... thankyou mantelligence

  • @alfonsolandin1083
    @alfonsolandin1083 4 года назад +2

    Nice video to elicit "speaking" in my English Class. Thanks!

  • @markjones6358
    @markjones6358 7 лет назад +3

    1: A large role of tear resistant, thick mill plastic, long-lasting firestarter and a machete 2: Taste, there are few really good cooks in the world 3: Crow, inquisitive/adventurous/territorial/loyal 4: Teleportation, I could travel and acquire needed supplies easily 5: Avatar, far too many humans suck 6: A glass of hemlock juice on the rocks, One must rage against the machine 7: I'm not telling 8: USB drive with my passwords on it. Enough said. 9: Nikola Tesla, provided that he was talkative and the meal was light 10: I wouldn't…

  • @BunnyDump1ings2010
    @BunnyDump1ings2010 3 года назад +2

    I’d choose to have dinner with my great grandpa one more time... I would want to get to know him more. He tried to get to know me but I wasn’t very interested because he didn’t seem interesting- but now I regret it now that he’s gone...

  • @punkpoetry
    @punkpoetry 6 лет назад +19

    The only thing you'll learn by asking most people these questions is how much patience for unbearably earnest & cliched bs they have.

  • @robertwhite386
    @robertwhite386 7 лет назад +10

    Honestly these videos have helped a lot. I hope to see more😊.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 лет назад

      Robert! More videos coming soon brother!!!

  • @klarskov283
    @klarskov283 6 лет назад +2

    This works to well, i did habe to back to each question because i started to think

  • @jandoherty5299
    @jandoherty5299 6 месяцев назад

    Would be fun to ask family members and friends that you know well

  • @najlasyed9172
    @najlasyed9172 5 лет назад +11

    If you wanted to change your profession... what would it be and why?

  • @adina9751
    @adina9751 3 года назад +1

    10. I don’t want to go to a deserted island, why would i? If i got stranded, how can? I don’t go outside of my home unless it’s in the same city.
    9. Probably i would rather to not be able to taste things so i can eat vegetables.
    8. Panda lol. I do love lion tho.
    7. Be invisible.
    6. No. I don’t live in a lie world
    5. My traditional country meal.
    4. Nothing. I just laugh in the mall & people stop to watch me
    5. My phone
    6. Marilyn monroe
    7. 1900. Because people look more formal in their clothing lol.

  • @shrishtipuri6279
    @shrishtipuri6279 4 года назад +2

    Such a great questions to ask👍

  • @tanviroi7057
    @tanviroi7057 Год назад

    Supper interesting!

  • @katieobrien8301
    @katieobrien8301 3 года назад

    Im using this to try and make friends

  • @balakishore376
    @balakishore376 6 лет назад +2

    Thanks for awesome information.

  • @emilycunningham8125
    @emilycunningham8125 5 лет назад +2

    Interesting vid. Helpful. Ignore the critics.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  5 лет назад

      Yoo big man! So glad that you liked the vid! Glad to have you on the channel + in the community!

  • @alexdagreat4008
    @alexdagreat4008 7 лет назад +48

    Sooo... basically ask lots of hypothetical questions. Gotcha

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 лет назад +2

      Some are. They lead to fun conversations... others on there aren't

  • @TheNibYeah
    @TheNibYeah 6 лет назад +7

    No sane person would ask or answer these questions. Be spontaneous, thoughtful and genuine, that's the most important thing.

  • @lindseyboureston2681
    @lindseyboureston2681 7 лет назад +3

    Love this!! Such great questions to ask!

  • @aidanwatt9276
    @aidanwatt9276 5 лет назад +1

    If you ask any of these questions is how you fuck your chances up. Just ask her to the movies

  • @DoubleAIV
    @DoubleAIV 7 лет назад +116

    Question 1 is a white ppl only kinda thing ..

  • @blessedmslady7016
    @blessedmslady7016 4 года назад +1

    Sounds fun🤗

  • @gonnawantseconds6090
    @gonnawantseconds6090 7 лет назад +27

    I love this video! These questions are super thought provoking.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 лет назад +1

      So glad that you liked it!

    • @davidgarcia9308
      @davidgarcia9308 6 лет назад +1

      They are to a certain degree, but instead of asking these questions and having to "decode" their replies. Why not just ask the question directly?

  • @curtiserecacho1401
    @curtiserecacho1401 6 лет назад +1

    That's really cool. I like the what tv show book or movie would they live in. Interesting.

  • @wtf_huntergt9385
    @wtf_huntergt9385 5 лет назад +1

    I wanted to ask my crush this but I realised that I was asked this Qns by some anonymous person on a social media and now I m like wow

  • @unknown-jd3dz
    @unknown-jd3dz 4 года назад

    Is it worth it to get to know a guy who I haven’t met before, who lives a few states away, and I’m unsure about how it’ll work out?

  • @mimilils9335
    @mimilils9335 5 лет назад

    These are good to do in 20 questions

  • @GutFeelings
    @GutFeelings 6 лет назад +2

    Awesome deep inspiration​, thank you! Great video style with text and b-roll, love it! ​I think I'll try asking some of these even to my clients... curious what happens. :-)

  • @DYKWINNING
    @DYKWINNING 4 года назад +2

    Remember to ask a question and say your own opinion so it's not a clinical interview

  • @liyon316
    @liyon316 6 лет назад +9

    An addendum to question #5: What would you be on Death Row for?!?!? lol

  • @jaredleemease
    @jaredleemease 7 лет назад +1

    Great! 😀

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 лет назад

      Thanks, man! We're working hard to keep the good stuff coming.

  • @Tmkeady
    @Tmkeady 7 лет назад +2

    Death row meal = Would love to get fresh pesto sauce to put on chicken or some veggies (tomatoes) from my garden!

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 лет назад

      Much healthier than what I would do... but love it!

  • @techgamerboy8807
    @techgamerboy8807 4 года назад +1

    Song at 0.00 is adventures by A himitsu, thank me later :)

  • @motherdaughtervlog.8653
    @motherdaughtervlog.8653 6 лет назад +2

    Hahaha i try this to my friend and i laugh at her answers!!!! Hahahahahahaha

  • @Mainline2U
    @Mainline2U 7 лет назад

    STRONGLY DISAGREE!
    Since this channels name is "Mantelligence", and most videos are related to dating girls, I would ask these dating related questions:
    1. Political perspective?
    2. Age?
    3. Wedding ring - price she would expect you to pay?
    Bonus Question (If you make it through the first 3):
    4. How much debt do you have?

  • @joshuakingal
    @joshuakingal 3 года назад

    Best video

  • @TheHappyWanderer
    @TheHappyWanderer 5 лет назад +2

    If you could ask an intriguing question to anyone, what question would that be?

  • @varunshridhar1310
    @varunshridhar1310 6 лет назад +2

    They'll feel like being interviewed :-D

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 лет назад

      Dude, that's a great observation. Interviewers ask questions that are meant to reveal a lot of info, and these questions do the same thing.

  • @redsox4life
    @redsox4life 7 лет назад +4

    That was another great, practical video.

  • @nathanbryan8655
    @nathanbryan8655 7 лет назад +3

    Wages, "ETC" and so on…

  • @utkrandy4936
    @utkrandy4936 5 лет назад +2

    I would go with smell or taste

  • @CIAagent12
    @CIAagent12 6 лет назад +2

    Sounds like I am going to have an interview with someone

  • @johnschaefer1904
    @johnschaefer1904 7 лет назад +9

    Wow, you're really going to to remember all these questions and then retain his or her answers?

    • @Mainline2U
      @Mainline2U 7 лет назад

      John Schaefer
      Most guys don't think in these terms.
      These questions may be suitable for several dates down the road when/if you really want to get serious and know each other at a deeper level for a long term relationship / marriage.

    • @yct5458
      @yct5458 7 лет назад

      John Schaefer

  • @elite4436
    @elite4436 5 лет назад +2

    Please do not use these questions. These are super awkward. These will tell you nothing about a person. No offense to the video creator, he clearly just doesnt know better. You should ask questions that pertain to who people are and their interests. Watch a video on the FORD method, those are a 1000 times better than these.

  • @sidharthpullarkkattumukund963
    @sidharthpullarkkattumukund963 6 лет назад +2

    The answer for 3rd Question is --"house "

  • @FirstnameLastname-co2cq
    @FirstnameLastname-co2cq 4 года назад +1

    How da fuck do i put those in a normal conversation?🤷‍♂️

  • @mbotasofficial4172
    @mbotasofficial4172 7 лет назад +2

    Respect!!!!

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 лет назад

      Thank you brother!!! Welcome to the channel/community!!!

  • @christopherellis2663
    @christopherellis2663 7 лет назад +2

    Taste is the least useful
    Save my bug out bag!
    George Orwell

  • @sun-illrai304
    @sun-illrai304 4 года назад

    What animal best represents you and why?..

  • @Pippemi
    @Pippemi 5 лет назад +2

    I feel like you should only ask one or two of these per conversation

  • @ablegr
    @ablegr 6 лет назад +1

    If my house was burning i’d save my house

  • @davidwhitcher1972
    @davidwhitcher1972 8 месяцев назад

    What animal represents me best: Human. I read SiFi and Fantasy, These worlds are full of death. I would not want any of them. The most dangerous thing i have done on purpose is jump out of a third story window.

  • @kick7132
    @kick7132 3 года назад

    Hearing

  • @aspectaura
    @aspectaura 5 лет назад +2

    *I cant think of anything to type*

  • @ronnie9572
    @ronnie9572 3 года назад

    Wow

  • @theUnicornOfPower
    @theUnicornOfPower 6 лет назад

    7. Laser eyes

  • @requiembeatz4476
    @requiembeatz4476 7 лет назад +1

    On that last one, can I choose to not go back at all? xD

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 лет назад

      Sure! There are no wrong answers - only bad explanations...

  • @100yearsand6
    @100yearsand6 7 лет назад

    My answers to some of these questions would be more like my fantasy (which I'm not at all so I could imagine only in this kind of hypothetical situation) than what I exactly am (because it'd boring to regurgitate what I already know very well).
    For instance,
    I (don't have a pet because a pet keeps away from much else. but I) would definately bring one to a no man's island because there is not much else.

  • @rontom-l4h
    @rontom-l4h 7 лет назад +1

    if you had to take a sit, and there was no toilet paper, what would you do

  • @ronmiller7916
    @ronmiller7916 7 лет назад +3

    I found these questions pedestrian

  • @guruprashanthrao1093
    @guruprashanthrao1093 5 лет назад +1

    try asking these questions to an introvert, he/she would run away to an another continent !

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  5 лет назад

      Hahaha. Good call man. You do have to be able to tell when the other person isn't comfortable and ease.

  • @kokokok8288
    @kokokok8288 4 года назад

    I hate all of those questions because I have to think

  • @BOMBAGUY25
    @BOMBAGUY25 6 лет назад

    Question 5 is a serial killer question

  • @samislam2746
    @samislam2746 3 года назад +1

    Video summary: ask weird questions

  • @garymitchell5899
    @garymitchell5899 6 лет назад

    I get your point, but I'm not sure these are good date questions.

  • @medjytop5
    @medjytop5 4 года назад +3

    Imagine asking a girl thes question lmao

  • @markreilly4577
    @markreilly4577 5 лет назад +1

    These sound more like job interview questions and not questions I would ask while on a date. Just be yourself, talk about your interests and goals in life and if there is a connection it will come naturally, if not then just move on. Leave this cheesy shit for the romantic comedies.

  • @adambutts2608
    @adambutts2608 7 лет назад +1

    Doesn’t question 7 reveal an insecurity

  • @aaronfield7899
    @aaronfield7899 4 года назад

    or they could just say "I don't know" to literally every question on this list

  • @cyberkitty172639
    @cyberkitty172639 6 лет назад

    Um.. I would be very concerned and weirded out if someone I barely knew would ask me these kind of questions.. I mean "If you were on death row what would be your LAST MEAL" like... way to kill the mood... I mean... I don't really think anyone would ask this to people whom they just met... and even in a "Hypothetical situation" where we were with our group of friends with whom you already share stuff in common and have somewhat a bit more confidence to talk about other topics more openly... Not even in this situation I would use any of these questions... These would just make people very uncomfortable!

  • @EON314
    @EON314 6 лет назад

    8. I’m a bear chill and calm until you bother the fuck out of me

  • @luziela.dugart6987
    @luziela.dugart6987 7 лет назад +3

    I don’t think that is good for knowing the core of a human being this is just silly cuz u never know their real self

    • @thenewjord50
      @thenewjord50 6 лет назад

      Luziel A. D ugart what you suggest I'm just wondering

  • @josephashie5140
    @josephashie5140 4 года назад

    Im watching this in 2020.......who else?

  • @AnimeSongsNightcore
    @AnimeSongsNightcore 7 лет назад

    this could never work in my country (Tunisia)

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  7 лет назад

      Brother! TBH, we made some of these vids with US in mind... but since our vids are already reaching guy worldwide, we're working to improve that. Stay tuned big man!!!

    • @yasminly5169
      @yasminly5169 4 года назад +1

      3andik el 7a9😂

  • @geoffreymongella714
    @geoffreymongella714 7 лет назад

    Dope

  • @guilherminhu
    @guilherminhu 5 лет назад

    I'd rather talking about my job than answering those stupid questions...

  • @curtisnewton895
    @curtisnewton895 3 года назад

    10 x the same question..this sucks, this is not how you break the ice

  • @jacksonthomas6381
    @jacksonthomas6381 6 лет назад

    D

  • @tinolino58
    @tinolino58 7 лет назад +1

    Ca I get my 36 seconds back?

  • @jkbleach4902
    @jkbleach4902 5 лет назад +2

    I'd lose my sense of smell

    • @mrmadness278
      @mrmadness278 5 лет назад

      Taste. Taste is made up mostly from smell

  • @drizzy-rm1mm
    @drizzy-rm1mm 3 года назад

    Plz don't ask any of this shit when your trying to get to know someone

  • @Bubbles99718
    @Bubbles99718 6 лет назад

    No.

  • @כורשמשרתו
    @כורשמשרתו 6 лет назад +4

    These are very awkward questions, it ain't work in real life

  • @darkjolt9571
    @darkjolt9571 6 лет назад +3

    Wanna get a girlfriend with no effort? Listen carefully! What you have to do is say to the girl " Hi how is your day going." They say what they have to say then what you do is say " Hey sexy you like my ninty trillion dollar car outside?"

  • @judyradin
    @judyradin 4 года назад

    Guys dont this😂 its a bit socially off

  • @Ilovecats082
    @Ilovecats082 6 лет назад +5

    im a girl.....oh welp

  • @gti500
    @gti500 7 лет назад

    Those questions are not going to get you laid.

  • @toothbrush5190
    @toothbrush5190 4 года назад +1

    10 really bad questions