10 (Simple) Ways to De-Escalate Arguments and Fights
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- Опубликовано: 3 июн 2024
- We believe in reconciling and reconciling fast, but many times our earthly flesh gets in the way of that! Listen in for 10 practical tips on how to handle conflict within your marriage.
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Thanks for this! I have found these two things very helpful as well: pray silently in the moment for wisdom when you pause/breathe. Also, try to show affection… give your spouse a hug.
Saying, "I like Jesus, but not the Church" is like telling a husband, "I like you, but not your wife".
I pray I can apply these in my marriage. I get very defensive even when my husband wasnt pointing a comment at me... i pray for the patience and abilitity to breath and see clearly and control the tone of my voice and my thoughts.
Once we recognize we are escalating into an argument, my wife and I have adopted the phrase... "Let's both stop...This is not who we are." Sometimes it's a statement of faith in a tense situation 🙂, but it does cause us to stop and immediately remember we're on the same team and can discuss things in a calm manner... We've found that most of the emotional side of conversations isn't really between us, but it's easier to "target" each other with the emotions. It's been almost 33 years and counting and it only took us 30 of it to get better at this.... LOL😂
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