EP 14 - Build Your Own Table | Red Flags Of a Jealous Friend ! That’s Not Your Friend MOVE ON!
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- Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
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EPISODE: 00:07:37
Hey y'all, it's your girl B. Simone, and welcome back to another episode of LTTA! This week, we're diving deep into the importance of Building your own table. I’ll also be explaining the Lets Try This Again trailer that sparked a lot of controversy and how people aren’t using you but God is!
Plus, I'm answering some burning questions from you guys, my loyal supporters! Ever wondered if I've ever tried drugs before? Tune in to find out as I get real and raw with my answers. You won't want to miss this episode - it's all about keeping it 100% real & honest. Let's get into it!
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Pouring into someone only to find out they don’t consider you a friend was the hardest lesson I learned this year. Because why would you waste my time like that. Never again.
Yes amen!!
This‼️
Damn THISSSSSSSSS
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This ‼️💯💯💯
When God brings you out a bad season into your winning season, remember that you need him just as much as you did before because now you’ll need protection, discernment, wisdom etc. in your winning season. The enemy don’t take breaks! Keep praising God✨❤️
@@Yaluvdeetv Amen!! 💕
Amen 🙏🏽 ❤
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And you are a 💯 percent correct sis
Amen
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Hey girlie you don’t realize what you spoke in me…That going through that darkness the depression the overcoming of the insecurities that was projected onto you… im going through that right now the Not want to be alone holding on to ppl trying to force myself to leave those ppl alone because ik they aren’t meant to come with me
I’m working on Creating my own table following god even though I’m scared even though I feel like I’m not enough im still going because even though I don’t feel like I’m good enough god says that I am still following god
Baby that was a sharp black and white dress that B Simone had on!
#SHEDIDTHAT
Thank you soooo much for this episode, it was definitely needed. Also can you send me that Jacket PLEASEEEEE 🙏🏽 @TheBSimone
36:57 THIS!! My best friend of 17 years told me she was jealous of me and had started to despise me. I’m glad she did because I didn’t wanna assume but her actions started to show it. Good riddance to her and bless her spirit.
Heartbreaking. Don’t stop praying for her.
And this is why I can't rekindle a friendship with someone I had been friends with since high school. There were several times I felt like she was jealous of me but she was my best best friend. I ended the relationship last year and although I miss being that close to someone, I just can't go back to those moments that made me wonder.
That is actually scary.
This is scary: was she jealous the entire time or did a blessing happen to you recently ?
I can totally relate! I was past tense WAS!!! friends with this woman for almost 30 yrs. After i started analyzing our so~called friendship it was jealousy written all over it on her end. I confronted her on why be jealous of me. I’ve loved her as a little sister but sadly her jealousy of me started to show each & every day. I said well, if you stop 🛑 making questionable decisions about your life and grow up you would see a different outcome. You can’t keep moving like your 19 whenever your 49. I had to walk away the BEST! decision I ever made.
The gold dress really did your beauty justice! Regal and heavenly ✨
I believe most of us know who are friends are and are not, some people are just scared to walk alone. The truth is they are not your friends or family. So move accordingly, put folks in a category. Coworker, friend, associate, church member, etc
People can say what they want about B. Simone but I’ve had the chance to meet her in person and she has the most beautiful spirit 🤍 I’ve met many celebrities but out of all of them, she was the only person that spoke life into me and showed that she genuinely cared. God knows her heart more than the world ever will and for that she will always prosper
Had the same experience!!! I love her!!!
You opening up about your struggle with people pleasing and feeling used is helping me. I needed to hear, "People aren't using you. God's using you." If we stop and start asking Him where He is in the situation, maybe we'd start realizing that more often. Let me stop focusing on the wrong things and focus on God in my pain.
That was the part for me as well ❤
@@NiecyValentineNow I understand why people are dropping off.
This is the one that made me start watching again ! When you posted that clip about “that’s not your friend” it’s like you spoke directly to me and I felt that in my soul. I immediately started watching the podcast from episode one after seeing that. Keep speaking B we love it 🤍
The most "friend losing ass season" lol B.Simone, im so proud of you. Keep God first and everything else will fall in line after that. You are so genuine, so real; its not an act at all. You can tell when people be "acting" whether acting like friend or family, the truth will always come to light. Be encouraged baby! And continue to let your light shine!
Real talk!
So true. Glad that more ppl are stepping into their spiritual awakening.
If my Truth is Shade, then so be it!!!!
This 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@@nicolehernandez11 👏👏👏
I'm going through a process of realising 2 of the people I deemed my closest friends don't see me and love me the way I do. The light bulb recently switched on and I realised they never treated me as a friend. The most painful realisation and I'm scared to end up friendless at 30 but I can't go on like this.
Love, let me tell you something. When you notice “friends” aren’t reciprocating what you’ve been giving and actions aren’t matching their words, you leave them alone if communication hasn’t been successful. Once you let go of what should’nt be in your life, you make space for what should be there. I don’t have many friends and my world is peaceful and I’m comfortable with that. Now I have mentors who have become good friends, and church sisters but other than that I focus on my peace and growth. You got this ❤
I’m in a season where I’ve done cut off all the “Not My Friends “ and I’m inviting in genuine like minded friends. My discernment has grown so much and I’m beyond grateful for that. Everything I do I’m being intentional, I’m making my WHY matter to me way more now. This episode was needed and I really appreciate you. I love it here #MyBigSis 😊
“I focus on the woman I want to become, and everyday I try to be her!! Yessss B! Awesome awesome perspective and reminder ! To wake up on future self time! What do I need to do now to be who I want to be! Loved this episode!
‘ those people ain’t using you, god is’ 😮 I’ve never resonated with something more in my life. I thank you b for pouring into us every single week ❤
Merch is launching soon on IG in the LTTA group chat ! Make sure you join to get the link🫶🏽
I really needed this episode. I’m tired of waiting it’s time for me to create my way!
Make sure you subscribe! NEED TO GET YOUR VISION BACK? Here’s another great episode of LTTA ! This episode is all about getting your vision back and getting back to you - m.ruclips.net/video/gRCo4iQAPiw/видео.html
Thank you sooo much for this! This resonates with me at this season of my life! I love your solo podcast more than the interviews! Thank you for speaking life into me! ❤❤❤
The way I was beasting for this episode to start! This is really my therapy like b Simone you literally speak life to me and every episode seems to resonate with my life especially since I've been a ppls pleaser forever I'm learning to stand up for myself more and love myself more and I thank you so so so much B ❤ you're younger than I am and it's amazing the things I've learned from you speaking your truth you're truly amazing ❤
YOU DID AN AMAZING JOB, B.!!! I was ecstatic to see you on my screen. I’m so happy for and proud of you!!!
You should teach children B. I just felt like they would cling to your words. You're so creative and animated. God bless you.
I love watching the solo episodes because it feels like it is just me and B talking and I love it. Hearing this episode was what I needed to hear. B you have a gift, continue to spread the word of wisdom.🙏🏽♡
I have been loving and enjoying LTTA!! Taking notes and binge watching!! You are sooo amazing and encouraging! Such a beautiful light 💖🌟☀You've encouraged me to stop stalling and start my podcast ❤ Please keep going and growing! I love being able to watch your journey.
Never missed an episode, RUclips or Spotify on my way to work, you relate to you so much, in ways of life, lessons and faith, humour and all, and most importantly putting god first, mashallah B Simone!!, I’ve been watching from the jump
Such a powerful message I felt this in every bone of my body. You’re so authentic and real from the heart.
Came to this episode because scrolled past a snip on IG and I thought to myself “that’s a real direct message out the blue for what I’m currently experiencing at this time” just to tune in and feel like this was made for me😮💨B it’s so many distractions in these comments speaking on what they know not baby do youuuuuuu enjoy your life and keep these episodes coming because you are speaking for women like me in the dark but finding their way … your messages are being well received thanks girl much love
This episode is my fav thus far. It was so relatable to my personal experiences. It felt like you were talking directly to me! Thank you for being you & sharing your story. ❤
“My babies be my businesses i start.” YESSSS B! ❤❤❤
YOU ARE A COMEDIANNNNNNN Honey 😂😂😂😂😂 comedyyy and so relatable. I'm pray God will continue to prune you. "For what is it worth to gain the world but lose your self" "therefore whoever wants to be a friend of the world makes themselves an enemy of God" and this is something I'm personally struggling with. Knowing more is required but missing things you know was never good for you. "Every decision is directly connected to everyone around you', SO TRUEEE. So praying that we all walk in God's will and grow a personal relationship. This episode is a gem. And I'm going to rewatch. Also for the keeping them off the prayer list and keeping your anointing to yourself... the bible days to pray for your enemies but we also need boundaries. Prayer from a distance is necessary at times
Thank you for being authentic. Thank you for your solo episodes. I appreciate this as a woman on a similar journey. This was a great episode!
I'm thankful I saw this today it came at the right time thank you b today you saved my life with this message 😭 I was ready to end it all today but this gave me the strength I needed to hold on an keep going thank you ❤😊
Hold on - beautiful days are coming ❤️ your best days are yet to come ❤️ I pray that God will release on you his healing, blessings & peace through the storm in Jesus mighty name.
God has plans for you, you are called & I feel in my spirit you are chosen… the devil come to kill steal and destroy before the breakthrough, before the sunshine. So glad you kept pushing, and I pray you keep doing just that, everyday. day by day 🥹 the best is yet to come
This was such a good episode!!! Every Tuesday at my desk, I’m tuned in. I’ve been so inspired from the first episode to the last! Thank you for walking in your purpose🤍
I love that no matter how successful you are… you stilll grind like you’re a beginner. Proud of you!
WOW THIS PODCAST WAS FOR ME B !! I prayed last night about a friendship i did nothing wrong in and i woke up to watch this video
This was Soooo Gooood B!! I loved it all!! Needed to hear all of it! 💯Thank you so much for the insight, realness, and sharing your experiences. I really appreciate it!❤ ~ Snappa
People are not using you. God is using you!
Girl, I cried! Thank you for inspiring others and speaking light❤❤
Ok ur officially my fav podcast. Clearly. I always been a fan, bt just in what would pop up on my feed. Once I saw ur interview with Jilly, and after following u and watching u, ur podcast is mentally what I need right now. 💪 Keep going. No matter who dought u, its people out here influenced positively by you. Love it 💪 👏 💜🩷💛
Honestly I prefer the solo videos. So inspiring!
Same !!
Me three😊
Same
I’m skipping around to all the solo videos rn 😊
Anyone that’s not in my life is because I’ve DETACHED MYSELF FROM THEM. I felt this!
Man! This episode resonated with me oh so well! B, I love what you’re doing out there. I’m sending love from Tallahassee, Fl.
STOP YELLING AT ME!!!! This was definitely for me B. Thank you
This episode was FULL of gems!!! Thank you.
I absolutely love how u still make vlogs!!!!!! Ugh its my daily dose of vitamin L (love)
Thank you so much for this episode. A really put me back in a perspective that I need to get out and continue to create after hearing how you are building your table and we do have people that are in our lives that want to help but they can only bring the sides, paper plates or napkins. That was a great analogy. My name is Phillip and I am an inspiring filmmaker who won they want to have his own production company. Hoping one day that I find my purpose and feel making.😊
THAT IS NOT YOUR FRIEND !!!!!!!!!! Went through a much needed friend breakup. Right after this dropped. How did you know ?! I love you you are gifted funny amazing beautiful. 💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘
Maaaaaaannnnnn B!!! "Nobody owes you anything" WHEWWW THAT HIT FOR ME. I've been in a season where I have been feeling entitled & I NEEDED THAT! Thank you for this episode it resonates so much with my life
This episode and you are pure GOLD!! Thank you for all of this!! I cannot wait to see you manifest everything you are calling into your life!!
Thank you B, thank you for being a vessel for us and using your platform to tell not only your truth but allowing room for GROWTH! I love these solo podcasts so much
Oh MY GOSH “Every decision you make is directly connected to every single person around you” JESUS! Forgive me for all of my disobedience…. WOW! Smh 🤦🏽♀️ The epiphany I just had from those words should be illegal. Wow God please guide me to be obedient and continue to bless me with discernment 😢😢
It's so wonderful to see so many young ladies evolving into discerning women. I wish I had this type of discernment when I was younger, but it's never too late ladies and gents. Do the work!! Excellent job with your messaging Simone! God bless you on your journey! All Love!!
after hearing the breakdown behind the trailer and pausing the video to go watch the trailer with a different lens literally filled me with overwhelming emotions because that’s also me in this season! Thank you God because I needed that visual aid! Let’s try this again! ❤
26:53 absolutely loved this. “I’m not being used by ppl, I’m being used by God.”
I started crying when B said “I’m sorry but that’s not your friend” cause I knew she wasn’t my friend. 12 years of friendship and the way it ended I was telling myself I’m okay. I knew she wasn’t a good person but I really thought if I loved her enough she would change and she would be okay. But it was the “I’m sorry” part that B said that made me cry. It’s not easy losing friends. Letting them go. It’s not easy cause you almost miss the manipulation the abuse the lies the shade they would throw. It was like a regular thing you knew they did.
Thank you for showing up in your purpose. Your words whether they are comedic, empathetic, genuine and are helping me step into who God is calling me to be
This podcast resonated with me so much and the same signs keep getting thrown in my face and it’s my job to grasp it and go for it
The word “friend” is used very lightly unfortunately some so called “friends” operate on the dark side and have a dark spirit representing such. When they are in the presence of a child of God operating in his will for our lives those “friends” will always clash and never be for us. As the closer you walk with God the less people you have around he reveals true intentions. It can be a very hard pill to swallow, but God always has our best interest and is always in protection mode over his children. So B you are on the right track and truly operating in your spirit love your transparency on the show. God bless!!
Girl, you are so encouraging, and inspiring, This was so good! A lot of things you shared were a confirmation of what I have been hearing in my spirit. Thank you!!!
I needed this episode in a real way it confirms what I knew but what I didn't believe in me
I think this was one of the best episodes thus far. Especially when she spoke on the topic of the fact that they are not your friends. I know many people are going through the same thing right now, but you need to know that the change in which you make is the way in which you believe you need to be treated by others.
“That’s not my friend” PERIOD
THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIEND!! I needed that real bad . You always get me girl 🤧🩷
Every week i watch/ and or listen i feel i grow more and more. i re quote you or go back to your videos while talking. you've helped me in more ways the 1! thank you for being here every week and thank you for showing your true heart and soul! this is my therapy...i appreciate you more than i think anyone realizes
Send me Jesus I’m ready!! Thank you B! You have opened my eyes so much. I needed to hear this. 🙌🏽❤️
Always love listening an watching your podcast. Your journey is helping me on my journey to grow. Literally be speaking life an understanding into people. ❤️🔥❤️🔥
I want go to be sent by God. It's a challenging position but if I keep my mind stayed on Him through it all, I realize that I'm here because He brought me here to make it through it. Keep growing B because God is doing a new thing in you to bring people closer to Him through you. I love you sister with the love of Christ Jesus and keep thriving!
Omg this episode was definitely for me. It put alot of things into perspective especially about the type of woman I want to be. I can picture that woman I see myself in my mind as well and I'm going to focus on that more.
B….. thank you! My God I needed this and I come to listen to your podcast at the right time because it always confirms so much for me. Thank you, all praises 🙏🏽
This podcast is getting me through, fighting depression is so hard and messages like this always give me a little more hope to keep going…
Girl I needed to hear that. “They’re not using you I’m using you.. go where I tell you and leave when I tell you to leave.. you’ve done enough” WOW ON POINT.
This episode was everything 🫶🏾. I am very inspired by your work and words. Babygirrrl (your voice ) I can’t wait to see what God has in store for you 🙌🏾.
Again… thank you B! A lot of this applies and hit real close to home for me. I needed these reminders. Thank you for continuously being vulnerable and sharing with us❤ loving the solo one on one episodes. Feels like the girl talk I need
im in tears @ 52:00 ... this is sooo important. I have never thought like that before. It's so valuable. Jesus!!!!!!!! Let me start being THAT WOMAN because who I am now isn't the priority... becoming HER is.
B! You be PREACHING ❣️💚❣️
Childhood memory unlocked to simpler times with the Winans Phase 2 track - The way I cherished Wow gospel compilations as a lil kid in London 🙌🏾🥰
I ❤ B Simone ❤ she is a positive light and wants better. I strive to get here.
Beautiful discussion here and so necessary ❤🙏🏾🧡🙏🏾💛🙏🏾!!!
Speak B you speaking my life I just turned 24 and about to shine even more!
Love Love Love your podcast and previous podcast. Im a business owner and you help me so much on my journey with god and business! ❤
Yessss! Seeking a partner who know how to fall on their knees and pray or open a bible.! I’m Not going back to that man bed😫🙏🏾🤣(he get scared to say grace and bless his food smh!) B you could be a life coach! Always receive a blessed message when I watch you🙏🏾🫶🏾
THIS!!! Thank you @bsimone! This pod cast is what I needed And that song!!!! I have not heard in years…putting it back in rotation!!!!
Thank you for your transparency. Thank you for laying out a plan and strategy of thought for some of us who never had this conversation with themselves or others because no one taught them how. Even if they are older than you. Be encouraged and stand. I see you in the future and you remind me of Samoa. not comedically, but her health, wealth, and standard of living.
Wow. The way you are speaking to my soul right now is phenomenal. It was meant for me to see this, I resonated with everything you said B Simone.
I feel the holy spirit all over this episode. I needed this so much ❤❤❤thank you B
This was needed for me today. Thank you
"In this season it's me and God."
I really needed this episode, thank You B ❤
I absolutely love you B! Thank you for pouring into us. You always give me all the right gems at the right time! God is definitely using you! ❤
A worddddd!!! I stay trying to cheer everybody on and thought I found my village. Those girls broke my heart 💔 I’m definitely in my solo season and it’s lonely here but I know it’s necessary
Wow every word you spoke was needed in my life! I love how you and pretty vee complimented each other!! That’s true sisterhood
Such a great episode. Love your channel. Keep going and when is the merch coming?
Speak to me Bray!! Thank yooou!! A lot of the messages in this episode were speaking loud to me. Let me go ahead and listen again so it can set in the way I need it to. 💖💖💖
Everytime she said “that not your friend”
That one person kept coming to mind….
Thank you
Creating my own tables made way for people to see what I'm capable of and bring me opportunities. I keep making my own opportunities even when I have some from others. ❤❤❤❤ remain valuable!
Absolutely love tuning in to her channel. I'm definitely a new fan ❤
You literally are speaking on my thoughts, spirit and feelings! Let’s goooooo!!! He guides and I’m followingggg!!! #LetsGo sis! Seriously !
Whew! When I Say Thank You So Much For This Message! You Were Speaking To Me x I Needed This So Bad #RealBad God Definitely Using You. 🙏🏾
This was soooo good!!! You literally talk to me in every episode. I love you ❤
Yess I love this episode B. What's not transformed will be transferred, so yes, we must make chances. pray, god, connect me with my tribe ❤