What matters to the kids is to see respect and civility. As a kid I had to live through a toxic, marriage that damaged me far more than a simple, civil divorce ever could have. Not everything can be just “worked out” and to claim so is willful ignorance.
Then do not get married if you do not believe that you can work something out. Being married to someone is still a choice. You either want to fix it or you do not. I also grew up in a toxic home, very toxic. However, I have a high expectation of my relationship succeeding even when there are bouts of frustration.
It is not better for the kids…there’s documented research that proves children from intact families thrive even if there’s arguing. It’s up to the PARENTS to work it out. Children shouldn’t have to carry a cross that we as parents were meant to carry. This is about vows, commitment, and perseverance. Not throwing in the towel because it doesn’t “feel” good anymore or someone isn’t “happy.” Love is sacrificial and marriage is until death.
What matters to the kids is to see respect and civility. As a kid I had to live through a toxic, marriage that damaged me far more than a simple, civil divorce ever could have. Not everything can be just “worked out” and to claim so is willful ignorance.
Then do not get married if you do not believe that you can work something out. Being married to someone is still a choice. You either want to fix it or you do not. I also grew up in a toxic home, very toxic. However, I have a high expectation of my relationship succeeding even when there are bouts of frustration.
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It is better on the kids if parents that fight all of the time divorce.
No it’s not.
@@dantheman909 That is your opinion. I lived through it and I know that it is.
It is not better for the kids…there’s documented research that proves children from intact families thrive even if there’s arguing. It’s up to the PARENTS to work it out. Children shouldn’t have to carry a cross that we as parents were meant to carry. This is about vows, commitment, and perseverance. Not throwing in the towel because it doesn’t “feel” good anymore or someone isn’t “happy.” Love is sacrificial and marriage is until death.
@@daniellemoss7746 I lived through it, and I can tell you that that is BS