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I found the video. It was a year ago called "What kind of men do fillipinas like, 20 things you should know". And the quote " Fat is seen as Fat so if you want to make a good impression lose the weight.
I experienced that "curse" with my very young ex Pinay wife. Also with my 2nd Thai ex wife. Thai #1 was the best looking of the three, and she and I were married for 30 years. All three were "hit" one constantly here in the US. I won't be bringing #4 to the US. Instead I'll move to Talisay when I can.
I brought my Filipina and kids to the USA in 2017. After she got her US citizenship, she filed to divorce me. I remember that she had been comparing me to other guys, and evidently found that I wasn’t the prize in the US that she once thought I was when we lived in the Philippines. Guys…save yourself from the pain and suffering of divorce and DONT bring them back in the USA to live.
Take that as lesson number 1. Anytime you go overseas to find a woman. Make sure you are open to making a life there. To protect yourself against green card intentions. Can always visit the u.s. but. Try to make a life in their country.
Not just Filipinas. I brought my Brazilian wife back to the USA. She came from a small town. We lived great in Brazil. When we got back to the USA, American culture, modern feminists, attention from other men, etc changed her. We got separated 2 years being here. Learn to live in another country and be happy there.
Yep, why destroy a good thing by bringing her to the West. You need to be serious about living there and have the means to do so all setup BEFORE you meet your Filipina. I would suggest moving there and having that all done first and then take your time to find your life partner. Takes patience and discipline though as we all want everything now.
My stunning wife was told ,all her life,that she was just a “little dark Filipina “that wouldn t amount to nothing ! Let me tell ya .... Shes dark and FREAKIN GORGEOUS ! She s also got a college education , and can handle situations ,and People , like falling out of bed ! She s definitely been a blessing to this White Boy ... 20 years worth ! !
The Filipina woman I ended up marrying was already living in the US for seven years as a permanent resident working as a nurse, so I didn't have to deal with the issue of meeting her overseas and bringing her here. Still happily married after 24 years!
You hit the nail on the head Pea. When I brought my Filipina dentist back to Canada she would be hit on every day. A couple guys even tried to sabatoge our relationship in an attempt to win her over. I was fortunate she was a mature woman and we shared many interests in common. So we had developed a solid relationship before that happened. Whenever we were out socially and I went to the restroom or to get something, guys would be on her right away. She just started telling them, "Sorry, I'm here with my husband" even though we were not yet married.
It doesn't matter how smart or beautiful or even what nationality a woman is... the hardest quality to find these days is loyalty and someone who doesn't constantly need to bask in and feed off the attention of other men. Yours sounds like a keeper and a Dentist to boot. I note your comment is six months old now, so I hope this is still the case for you. 👍🤞
How true Pea! Met my wife in the Philippines back in 1984 two months later she was in the U S A and she was only 24 and alot of men was hoping she was single. But even some mothers wanted her for there sons to go out with them. One guy was trying to get her and he was married another woman they broke up. But 38 years later were still married, and she is still very beauiful !!
Congrats, we are coming up on the big 30, this summer. Yes, Filipinas age well. I really didn’t have that much problem with people hitting on her, but I was by her side most of the time. I did have one recent case with guys half her age hitting on her and her friend who was a similar age. They both broke out laughing. I had been socializing at a nearby table and turn around to see these guys being so thoroughly humiliated. They simply didn’t realize how old they were, lol. To make them feel better I showed them some pictures of my our daughter on my phone (who was their age)…they disappeared from the scene rather quickly, haha.
@@TheFilipinaPeafirst off you are absolutely gorgeous , and any man would be lucky to be with you. The thing is your beauty comes from the inside. Your attitude and the way you Cary yourself , Your heart,the way you care about people . And last thing is your genuine, and all of that put together just makes you glow 😇 keep up the good work I appreciate all you do... If I could recommend and interview? Your parents 💡
Agreed. Come to the Philippines and enjoy the great benefits you'll find here. And if you are lucky enough to find a beautiful Filipina, stay here. Love her. Leave your insecurities back home and let her love you. And stay here with her. That's my advice as an American expat.
That is good advice. Just live with them in the Philippines. Have you ever met a Filipina from California? They are just as bad as the other Western women. Do not bring them here to the United States.
The hardest thing / activity for me to give up would be deer and turkey hunting. I could still fish here though. And in 3 - 4 years maybe my son would want to come stay here.
@@Chris_Clark1MaidenFan not sure about the Philippines but i know there's wild pig in Micronesia. Anywhere there are domestic pigs they get out and go feral. I'd bet there's wild pig hunting over there somewhere
All this stuff is completely true. It took me years to understand it now but I do understand it now. You break it down incredibly well. Better then I could imagine. My wife is a petite and a little bit dark skinned filippina and she is very attractive but in the Philippines she is considered ugly. We have been married for 6 years and together for 7. Although i am older then her i was still young when i met her, I was 30. What you said toward the end of the video rings true. Every western person will be fawning and flirting with your wife when she ends up living in the west and it can create a lot of problems in your marriage as it is attention she thought she would never have in her life. Another thing I find is Filippinas can also become extremely clingy and dependent on other Filippinas, they may meet other Filipino girls in the work place and stick together and will not make friends with other people I would actually consider her xenophobic which is ironic considering she moved away from her country to live here. She ended up being completely reliant on her friends for everything food, advice etc and these girls will live in each others pocket until things ultimately and rather predictably become very toxic. My wife must have at least 60 friends and not one of them is another ethnicity other then Filipino, these so called friends can even end up trying to cause rifts in each others relationships.
OH PEA: I really needed that laugh at the end of your video. "stuffing beavers" made me almost fall out of my chair. This ending clip series you are on is totally a pure gem. Operation Snag a Foreigner could go so many directions it's funny to even imagine where you could take it. Personally in my case, if I could make it to the Philippines and find a beautiful Filipina to share my life with, there is no version of me that has a desire to bring her back to Canada. (maybe for a few vacations ) but not for long term living. Even though my friends and family would be happy for me if I did have a beautiful life partner (finally) I know they would never do anything to intentionally try to break us apart. It's the rest of the population here that I feel would spoil the relationship with modernizing a traditionally valued woman into believing the mass modern day western way of ruining a persons life to advance your own is the path to success. EG, marry for money many times, demanding a guy to have 6 figure salary, 6 pack abs, and be hung 6 inches from the floor. Not to mention the whole "don't need a man for anything " line that gets fed to vulnerable women like it's part of their daily breakfast. One part of the meaning of "independence" they keep forgetting is - on your own. For those types of women, I say, go- be on your own, just remember not to take anyone down with you.
Bro'... looks like most of the women out there are looking to get out of the Philippines... just watch her other videos with interviews with other women from there, most of them have as far as the next 5 years goals to get out of the country... nothing to blame them for that when I understand the cost of living a comfortable life is at least 1.5-2k USD per month with a great standard of living for about 3k USD per month while locals barely make 10% of that, of course they want to leave... I'd want to leave to given similar conditions not to mention chaotic traffic, unreliable electricity and internet and indoor plumbing and such amenities we take for granted in the west... Might not be easy to find your dream girl that doesn't want to leave...
So true. Let me speak to the foreigners who are just starting out. "Get over it". I'm no prize, except in this lovely country. It was hard for me to accept it at first, but I was welcomed with open arms & made to feel attractive. Even at this late stage in my life pea you really do understand both cultures. Or the Philippines and all others from the west. Your videos continue to show the remarkable woman that you are. Keep up the good work. And thanks.
It all comes down with training n enlightening her with RP content, culture and what women are like, you guys don’t know how to make your woman femin..st bullet proof so obviously she can get cultured easily. It all depends on you and what you teach your Filipina. We have a lot of RP content for her to learn the truth about westn women
Well that’s the thing, when I first met my Filipina I got treated like I was normal. I did have that feeling visible inside thing and I didn’t like it either. That completely changed when I met her. not just her, most of the community. There’s still some there that’ll treat you invisible but then everybody gets treated invisible by a certain part of the population because you can’t be best friends with everybody. Getting treated invisible by Western people in general. They are just on a different level. I listen to them talk and joke around and what they laugh at have no idea why they find it funny or even interesting but they do. So I treat them like they’re invisible also. I don’t know why I get along so much differently with Filipinos and other cultures of such that I do with Western people.
@@tomster7574 yes western people are the meanest people on the planet. When I travel to the east, I wonder am I still on earth. Even to Europe. People much more friendly, invite you to their social circles etc. in the west that will never happen. And if they talk to you it’s at work. Bringing you in their social circles, is a no no cause they shall ask who the hell is this. But in the East even folks you think more valuable than you are even if it’s their financials bring you around their social circle
When I was stationed over there I met and lived with a Pilipina that had the face and body to be on any mens magazine, we lived together for about 2 1/2 years and then I came back to the US and brought here her and married her. My first deployment after we got married she was in the clubs and bars almost every night and when I got back home I took her to the Catholic father on base for some counseling. She said right in front of me to the father, "Its just having fun, Im looking for a rich husband" Needless to say we were not married for much longer, she did get disowned by her family though because of her actions.
As a Filipina, I am liking your videos. It is different from other content creators who only show the good side. You have delved into topics that are not usually talked about in other videos for fear of a backlash from the viewers. I am learning a lot about what the West thinks about the Philippines and its people, so thank you.
@@TheFilipinaPea Your videos are actually informative and people should learn how to accept criticisms to evaluate themselves. If only they watch with an open mind, they would realize that your content is not an attack on Filipinos but actually to inform other cultures why we behave in certain ways. It's giving people a realistic preview of what Filipinos are before they interact with them.
My last Filipina just kept asking for money. No I didn't marry any of them. And yes, I sent her a small morsel of cash just once. I bet it was a grand amount for her. Did it ever occur to her that if she struck me as honest , more integrity, didn't ask for anything for herself that I would then reward her much more generously ? Apparently not.
Your story is amazing. I met what I felt was an average looking Russian woman but we connected in a deeper way. I went to Russia and we fell in love. Then, I brought her back to the states and the same thing happened. Naturally, she was not as overweight as the locals so she attracted a lot of admirers. She LOVED the attention and soon decided that she could get a man with more money and that was the end of our relationship. She turned into a completely different person. As such, I realized that you could take a woman out of Russia but you can't take the Russian out of the woman. Unfortunately, she was not trustworthy.
That’s crazy! Especially because you said you all fell in love, that had to be traumatic. Wasting all that time and putting all that energy into that relationship.
My nephew is in the service in Germany and married a German girl and brought her back here and almost immediately she divorced him all she wanted was citizenship here. B****
I have an acquaintance who is a police officer. One of his brother officers was married to a beautiful Ukrainian woman. She introduced him to her friend, another beautiful Ukrainian woman who was living in Ukraine. They visited each other, got married and she was granted US citizenship. She was a doctor in the Ukraine, and my acquaintance supported her while she studied to get licensed in the United States. She had to do a residency, and was placed at a hospital in another state. He set her up in an apartment there, got her a car, and endured the temporary long-distance situation. She abandoned him and married another doctor.
One other thing we ran into with my beautiful Filipino bride was American women trying to talk her out of our marriage! This happened a LOT. Watch out for the American women who becomes friends with you gal!
When I first started watching your videos, I was convinced that I would meet a wonderful Filipina and take her back to the US. After spending a month in the Philippines I realized Filipino culture is the reason there are so many amazing women Philippines. The children there are kind and respectful and everyone greets everyone else as sir or ma’am. If you fall in love with this woman and she has children, do you really want to expose them to western culture? I don’t. I’ve heard several stories from Filipinos about their cousins that have moved to the west have changed. It’s a lot to expose anyone to. Besides I want to become more like a Filipino, not the other way around. So I plan to meet a Filipina to build a life with, travel back and forth to the US to visit, but spend most of our time in the Philippines. Personally I feel the quality of life is better there.
You are on target. It is both partners who change based on cultural influences. I was married to 2 europeans, both left me. In both instances, I did take them for granted over the years. Also, both were drawn in by the culture of leave him, you deserve better, yada yada. So, staying in the Phillipines should help keep you grounded and appreciative of your partner who will thrive in their native habit. And your partner will not be bombarded by the feminists with zero morals and loyalty to marriage/relationships.
My wife watched you along with me .... I met her when I was stationed there in the late 80's , asked for marriage after 6 days ... been married over 35 years ... tearing it up
Yea I’ve been talking to a woman for 3 days and I already said when we meet in September, we can plan to marry at the end of my visit if we like each other as much in person as we CLEARLY do via video chat. It’s so obvious they want to be a wife and are so excited to be with YOU TOO. Unlike American women who are under the impression they are dating down no matter how effing fat or ugly they are. I’m so incredibly excited to begin a chapter of my life where I can expect someone to care about my needs TOO. I will treat her like gold just because she’s willing to cook a damn meal. I hope more men learn about this. It will be amazing to make American women feel the heat and start realizing they suck.
I had a friend who married a Filipina. After them being wed for fifty years she passed away. After all the years she wasn't a stunner but to see pictures of her in her twentys. A beautiful woman inside out. Five years later he joined her. A real shame. Miss them both. Their boys are as wonderful as they were.
I became the victim of the “Curse of the hot Filipina.” I brought a young beautiful wife back to the states way back in the early 90’s. There was a nine year age difference. While I was in the Philippines, she was a great partner. In the US, she quickly became overwhelmed. Instead of a partner, she became more like a daughter that I had to raise. And yes, she was constantly getting hit on. Eventually, she had a mental breakdown and the relationship tanked, as she decided to move on to find another man. The cultural differences can be overwhelming. It is always in her best interest to keep her in the Philippines where she can live life optimally. Your Western money will provide her the security she needs without the added stress of living abroad.
When you had 12 things to do today and you only did nine of them, tomorrow you might have 14 things to do. Then you are stressed cause you are behind. Everybody is behind. There are so many laws, very few are 100% legal. Cops are out there filling their quota, with YOU as the victim if you step out of line. Your female partner does little at home, in the kitchen or the bedroom, and you are paying most of the bills. Oh what fun. If only there was a country out there where they speak English and drive on the right side of the road, and where my money goes far and my sexy partner is truly appreciative and gives me lots of attention to stop me straying. If only.......
Sorry to hear about your experience sir. My situation with two love scammers and one cheat who I never got the chance to take to the west has left a bitter pill in my mouth. My last filipina gf went AWOL until I discovered she was now on holiday in Thailand with her new German bf. More than two years and a considerable amount of money gone as she had 'traded up'. The Pea really does have some sound advice which could save her subscribers a whole lot of the heartache both you and I have suffered if they take it on board.
A then 60 year old guy I know came home with a filipina he had just married in 2008. She was 20, from a very poor rural mountain province and absolutely beautiful, with wonderful dark eyes, a fantastic personalityand deep tan skin. He was an average Joe, much older, but a kind person with a nice pension and owned several houses. I could still not believe that guy actually snagged that young beauty. Now I understand that in the philipines a significant portion of the local single men might have valued her "average", because of her upbringing, impoverishedfamily and dark skin color. But in my hometown in the west any single man would have labeled her at least a 7, and some even a 8-9. But the kicker is that they are still married, 15 years later, has a kid and are very happy...... That union was an absoutely success, cause they both got exactly what they wanted out of the partnership, stuck together and the obstacles that would have sunk the "project" even before it had begun in the west as irrellevant for both of them. Small wonder filipina women and western men are a good match!
Yeah, my ex-girlfriend, met online, is very insecure about her look herself, whereas she is beauty pageant material. We never talked about the social stigma which has troubled her and I honestly didn't like to tackle the subject for fear to open old wounds. I know that in the Eastern countries in general, having a light skin tone is considered as a sign of delicate beauty. She is very concerned about that, but what I find strange is how she does her utmost to stay thin, even though it's not the general Filipino canon of beauty.
I learned the hard way! US Air Force assigned to Clark AB in 1973, my first duty assignment after joining the Air Force. Met Jasmine, so maganda, so sexy, so sweet, feel in love. Dated less than a year, married, went stateside. No sooner did she become accustom to the western world, learn to drive, had a check book, got a job, met lots of other "people"... I was no longer good enough. A few years of marriage and 2 kids later, and that was the end of that. Hard lesson to learn.
@@ardshielcomplex8917 Happened to me - after 17 years and 2 kids!! Separating now. She thinks she can do better, but I gave her everything. Emotional and financial security, and I'm quite the hunk - for my age! 6'2" and 90 muscular well hung kgs! She may find I'm not so easily replaced after all??
yup yup....keep her in the phils and relocate. If you bring her here you will have to be such a controlling asshole that she will resent you and you will be portrayed as the bad guy. If she stays in the phils you dont have to worry.
I'm sorry to hear that, Chief. What's your top tier SNCO dating advice? I am not being sarcastic. Women in our country are useless and selfish. USAF guys like us get used and lied to. I am not jaded. I am 43, 23 years in. I am trying to keep my MSgt paycheck/retirement!
This is absolutely true. I've dated two different Filipinas in the U.S. who came there on a marriage visa and then divorced the American within a few years. They are absolutely vicious when released into the culture. They will use everything they have to get what they want without hesitation. As it turns out, the thing they want most is to be widely respected back home in their village as the smart Filipina who seduced an American, married and divorced him, took a bunch of money from him and now her family is wealthy because she supports them. If you're going to take a Filipina to the states, at least have a very strict pre-nup agreement, minimum. Then you'll only loose you heart and not your money too.
So, at the end of the day, the rule, as everywhere else in the world, remains the same: Before you get disarmed by the charms of love and romance, know where your money is; and that it is under lock and key.
@@mikeingeorgia1 Purchase assets such as houses into different Trusts. Best assets to own and can draw income off of them. Own 10 houses each giving $800 per mth and you can live like a king in many countries
After my experience with relationships here and in the Philippines. I can honestly say that I would not trade my partner for anything. Of course they're are people who look better or have certain traits, but the person she sees me as in nothing short of a miracle. I definitely see the positive impact of her in my life, but she's definitely a lot more mature than most women around here.
Another problem you have to deal with in the US is stereotypes. If it's not guys hitting on your Filipina, then they are saying things about her intentions or treating them like a kid, because they are short and look so young. My friend that lives in Moalboal said that is what drove him to to the leave the US and move to the PI. I love your closing skit, that's 3 in a row that had me rolling! The beaver part really got me!
I have heard a few other guys mention this kind of stuff from both the UK and the USA but personally I have never experienced any such issues when dating young Asian girls from other countries in my home state of California. Of course, if you are with a really hot woman of any race then guys are naturally going to be hitting on her all the time. That just goes with the territory I’m afraid. By the way, I also have a friend who married a drop-dead gorgeous Thai women over 20 years ago and they have never talked about having any such issues.
Great presentation! Women in the west think they are too good for an average looking man, or a man older than 60. Therefore, we older gentlemen go to our grave without a woman. Your words are reassuring to someone like me. In March I will be visiting the Philippines. My wife died eight years ago, and I have been alone since, so if God will provide me with a Felipina, I will be grateful. Thank you, P.
Good luck with your trip. It will change your outlook on life forever. I love it here, and will stay as many years as possible. I do see family once a year, in the USA.
Hope you have a wonderful trip. Married to a philipina. Live half of the year in the Philippines and half in America. She has not visited the USA yet. Just remember that in the Philippines you marry not only the girl but the family so if you do find someone be prepared.
You are a national treasure, Pea. I've known these truths for years, thanks to being married to an amazing Filipina.... but it took me a long time to come to terms with the reality. Now, as for bringing a Filipina back to the West... I think it's not ALWAYS a bad thing. You have to truly KNOW your Filipina and understand how the move would affect her. I lived for over a year in the Philippines, most of the time with my wife, and I knew it would be fine for her to be here... and it is. Every person is different... different thoughts, ideas, intelligence levels, maturity levels, exposure to Western ideas, etc. etc. Understanding all these and how they fit together will make it more understandable if it's good to make the move or not. I think Pea would do very, very well in the West.
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Pea there is one exception to what you mentioned about bringing a Filipina too the US , not that I would even consider doing so. Which is what describes me, I chose a true Christian woman and confirmed so by testing and getting too know her for three years, as best as possible by video chatting. Then when I arrived after being married I really got too know her which turned out too be Betty than I could have imagined. Woman that has such exceptional characteristics are I’m sure a hard find in any Country. I would and do trust her with my future. I’m Blessed
That’s where So many of the ‘Passport Bros’ make their mistakes.. they are looking for Love thru Lust filled eyes. Finding a genuine Christian woman, in any country, should always be the key!
You're very wise, insightful and smart for such a young lady! Thanks for enlightening me on some of the cultural differences of the Philippines, it's educating as well as entertaining. The Philippines is one Country I have always wanted to go back to. Blessings and Love... :)
My wife was constantly hit on by a guy at her workplace until she listened to me and went to her boss and reported the guy for harassment. I guess that is much harder in the Philippines, endure or leave.. but here it worked. The guy was relocated. I know many older guys with gorgeous younger Filipina wives, but usually there is no issue, they adapt to life here and stays loyal. Biggest age difference I know of is 36 years, but they have been a couple for well over a decade now. Some relationships have crashed but usually due to mutual inability to understand each other - intercultural relationships are a little more challenging... For the looks, I still struggle with making my wife understand that if I wanted a whiter woman, I wouldn't have had to go all the way to the Philippines. At least she stopped using whitening soap now.
My Filipina wife was astounded to see tanning salons in America. In her country women either stay inside or use an umbrella to avoid the afternoon sun and skin products usually have bleaching agents to lighten skin. Seems no one anywhere is happy with their color!
As a retired sailor who often visited the Philippines and was stationed at NAS Cubi Point for three years and married a Filipina, I have some insight into the "Filipino Perspective" of skin tones. The general consensus in the Philippines seems to be that dark skin=being poor as it denotes someone who is working outside (usually planting rice) all day. The Filipino employees who worked at cutting grass throughout the base using sycles would ALWAYS be covered from the tip of their heads to their toes under the hot tropical sun. When I would take a "date" to the beach, seldom did she lay in the sun beside me so as to not get that dreaded tan. That was one of the things that attracted me to my Filipina wife, she didn't care if she tanned or not. Most actors in the Philippines tend to be of the mestizo (mixed blood), usually European, lineage for the same reason (one could make the same argument about Mexico, another country I'm very familiar with as I grew up there). And as for how faithful or not a Filipina is or isn't, I've found them to be on par with "womanhood" in general and engage with women on an "individual" basis rather than by race. Love the content.
@@chuniquepaceno470 I wouldn't say _Mestizo_ , per se, but of _EurAsian_ lineage, which many are due to the Spaniards controlling the islands for 500 years.
No not everyone. Just European and Asian cultures for some reason pedestalize light skin. African Americans tend to do the same but of course that is just because that prejudice was instilled into them throughout the course of slavery and segregation.
My first wife (best friends and family to this day!) is Jamaican. Because of her high cheekbones, they made fun of her when she was young, calling her donkey-face. When she moved to New York City, she couldn't understand why they all went nuts for her and she had modelling contracts, etc.
Pea, you have wisdom beyond your years and what you say is very true. I met a lovely woman in the Philippines, 27 years younger and beautiful. Like many western man before me, I believed that bringing her back to America on a 90 day Visa was the best way to go. However, there was one thing I did that changed what could have been a disaster. I focussed on creating a life here that could make her happy. I patiently helped her adjust to American life. I found an area to live in that had a lot of Bisayan Filipinas to socialize with. I helped her find a career path that both suited her abilities and she enjoyed. We made a child together that we both love more than life itself. Maybe I beat the odds, but the one thing I always considered before bringing her here was, could I make this person happy? A foreigner has to understand Filipinas, maybe better than they know themselves, before they ever consider marriage, but I did my homework and I think I got it mostly right. I did date a few Filipinas before finding the right one, but the one thing I had foremost in my mind while dating was, can I make this woman happy? She still laughs at my jokes, sings while cooking and hugs me every morning after saying "Maayong Buntag." Maybe I just beat the odds and got lucky, but I do think that a man with the right plan can find the right woman, and the Philippines may just have some of the most wonderful women on earth if you know how to make them truly happy and loved.
In order to beat the odds you must stack the deck; congratulations and Thank you for taking the time and effort to comment. I will remember your words.
Great video! I have been married for 14 years to a very beautiful Filipino, and she has spent 10 years in the west, also getting flirted up! No problem as we lived for 2 years in the Philippines before going to USA, also she is a very mature, loyal gal. But the experience of many of my friends is much different, they took a young beauty to USA and promptly lost her! I has happened to many of my USA friends, so its real. It will and can happen, my suggestion is spend at least a year in the Philippines getting to know and love each other before going to USA to get married. I also know some guys that spent less then 4 weeks in the Philippines with there intended bridge, then went home and waited for them to arrive, NOT A GOOD IDEA, it has not worked out for any of them well.
I'll never be able to visit your country or meet the women there, but your work has enlightened me about the richness of the Philippines and its people. Thank you for your continued efforts at improving the world's awareness.
Hi Rick, You did not say why coming here, to The Philippines is not possible. If your circumstances change, you would more than likely would love it here. I could recommend spending at least 3 to 4 weeks here. It would be better to stay for 2 months. But anyway have some savings and spending money for the trip. My first time was in 2001. After that trip I would stay for up to 4 months and return to the USA to make money. 2016 I moved here full time. If I can do it, most people could also! I like Cebu and Bohol, but there are so many nice places. I like Cebu because of the airport. I always get the one year airline ticket, from the USA. I return each year for my health insurance annual. Because of Covid, this trip is on Asiana Air. Normally I fly with Korean Air. Korean has the most flights from many USA cities. Then it’s only Two rides from the major city to Cebu. One airline for baggage transfers, and any other issues. Good luck!
Dude there are Filipina here already. Start with the churches. There are a LOT of single beauties that have conquered western life. You will never regret it. You'll have to weed through but it'll be easier than dating western women.
My wife, 34 years younger, actually suggested I move to the Philippines. She reasoned that we could have a better life here living on my small pension, and she could be near her family and not suffer culture shock. Sometimes we chat about the many marriage failures when the young Filipina wife lives in the west. We are both thankful we live in the Philippines 🙏 The funniest thing you said was "Stuffing the beavers" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My cousin met his wife in Cebu, dated her for a year, and bought her to America. They have been happily married 16 years and have two children together. They go back and forth between the Philippines and the US. My Fiance will be coming to the US as well and we will get married here. Here is the catch-We are both very health focused visually appealing people, but the key she is older and smarter. We are very faithful people from traditional families that have met eachother many times.
If there's one thing I could pick out of what I've learned from your videos is "if you go to the Philippines and find a partner, stay in the Philippines". Just like we'd potentially get "spoiled" by the traditional, more slow-paced life there, someone from the Philippines would get "spoiled" by the often awful style of life here. I'm already pre-planning for staying if I move there, and thank you for all the advice, Pea!
Then you have learned the wrong thing. Know who you fall in love with. There are always obvious signs of the type of person you are with. But most men ignore them because they fear being alone while forgetting that for every filipina they are with, there are 1000 just like her that can replace her if there are red flags. And you can't bring your wife to your home country and treat her like a slave and expect her to tolerate it. Which A LOT of men do. They think because they paid for her to get there, they can control her and make demands and have stupid expectations.
This is very sweet and promising. This is something I have been saying to cover the grief coming out a broken marriage. Visiting Philippines seems as a hope to find a person who actually will respect.
Hey Pea, I don't make it a habit to go on different Filipina vloggers' channels and comment on their looks much, because I've been raised to believe that's a bit creepy if they aren't my wife or girlfriend. I typically comment my thoughts on their topic, or just try to add to their topic, or share my own experience, etc. In this case, the topic IS your looks (or Filipina in general looks), and it sounds like you wouldn't mind a little encouragement. So let me say that you are most definitely a solid 10 to western men. The shape and look of your face is very cute to us, your slender build and overall body shape are an absolute bombshell. Your hands are very cute, and your long black hair is also very attractive and luxurious. If there were anything less than attractive about you, I'd be honest about it right now so my feedback would be balanced, but there really isn't. Every physical aspect of you is gorgeous to us, and I safely speak for most of us. Hope that didn't come off as creepy, I just wanted you to have some positive feedback in a culture that apparently doesn't value you like we would. It's the same for us over here. Also LOL @ the beaver skit at the end.
Attractive Filipinas are a magnet when traveling outside of the Philippines. I have personal experience since my better half is a Pinay. Fortunately, I am not an overly jealous person, and we discuss individual men hitting on her. She is a DEVOTED PRACTICING CATHOLIC which helps take care of her being faithful! Constant admiration and come ONS for her by many strange men and even acquaintances can become tiring over time!
I absolutely love my filipina. I always do my best to encourage her and build her up. She's the one person in the world I'll never fight with, I only got good things to say about her. 10 years of long distance dating is nothing to sneeze at, our relationship has lasted longer than most marriages in the United States. I take pride in her.
"Long distance dating" is a contradiction in terms.....to consume the relationship you can't really be more than about....lets say....6 inches apart.....so I admire your reach....🤪😊🏆🏅🥇↗️😯😯🤏🍖🏹🪃
@@gerhardvanderpoll7378 well whats the dating called if I live in the United States and she lives in the Philippines? We don't exactly live together yet because my country has made it pretty difficult for her to just visit and I've visited her country a total of 4 times in those 10 years for about 1 month each and ill be going again this coming March for another month, I'm almost pushed to the point that I'm debating on moving to her country and giving my country the middle finger for making our time apart so long. And each time I fly there, its a 26 to 60+ hour travel time depending on the ticket plan just to go visit her, another 26 to 60+ hour time to get back home. If this isn't long distance, what is it then?
Thanks for taking the time to discuss this topic and all the others. I really enjoy listening to your advice and look forward to watching more of your videos! Best wishes.
My wife is Filipina. I met her after she'd lived in the US for several years. We've been together for 15yrs and been married for most of those. She's the best person I've ever known. Filipinas are special for sure.
I guess I got very lucky or did a few things right, My beautiful Filipina was brought here to be married to me in the USA when she was 22 years old and I only spent a month at a time with her in the Philippines, a few times before bringing her here. That was almost 24 years ago and things are going great, cross my fingers that things don't go South in the future, but so far so good.
Only 18 seconds in and she nailed it. Once upon a time 20 years ago, I hung out with some college friends for 2 1/2 months in Singapore and bounced around a few of the places from Thailand to Philippines. I saw exactly what she is talking about in this video. What this video might not talk about is the fact that when people return to places like the United States. A lot of the problems that made people travel in the first place or likely end up inside of your relationships.
4:35 sadly, colorism destroys peoples idea of their self-worth. Wonder if it’s something ingrained in the society or it’s an unexpected reality of our modern deification of all things white skinned. 😢
8:16 I must be psychic, because I didn’t have to watch this video at all to know exactly what she meant about bringing people back to the west. #Upgrade.
You tell it like it is Philipina Pea! I can't get enough of your factual videos! I had a Philipina girlfriend who I haven't seen in a year but I still love her even though we were both married when we began our relationship. So everything you have mentioned in all of the videos I've watched are absolutely spot on.
Hahaha - Pea I love your "Stuff a Beaver" skit. That bring back old memories!! I have several friends that brought their filipinas to the west and have been married 15 to 20 years now. These women are devoted to the men who love them and provide for them and is one of the reasons I married a Filipina. I have no regrets so far !!
My wife was initially the skinny little girl you’re talking about. She was 90 pounds when I first met her and I was 180 pounds. I am literally twice her size. But she’s gained weight since then now she’s 120 pounds that seems like a lot of a difference but she’s gained it all in the right areas so it’s really hard to tell :-) mind you I’ve gained the same amount of weight and it’s all in the one area so it’s really easy to tell. No not there, get your mind out of the gutter.
I have lived in the Philippines for almost five years now with my wife. I'm coming up on 4 years married this August. Pea is right about living here with your wife first. Get established with her but more importantly get established with her family. You will be amazed at how much your wife listens to her parents and elders. Trust me when I say her parents will be very upset if she throws a marriage in the trash no matter what part of the world she is in. You not only marry your wife but you also marry the whole family. That is a good thing, i promise! I was lucky enough to marry a woman who is considered beautiful here. I got to see how she responds to that type of attention. She gets a lot of random guys trying to get her to cheat. My friends back home at first didn't believe me when I showed them a picture of her and said this is my wife until they video called me with her sitting next to me lol.
I met my little Leyte girl about 14 years ago. I'm 19 years older than her. Visited her twice, 2 years in a row and the 3rd visit brought her back to the states. In 1 week (Feb 2nd) will be our 11th wedding anniversary. I was 40 when we married. We did agree on some ground rules before she came. For one, she is not to work, which was great for her as she doesn't want a job. 2nd.... if we're ever in a situation at a party or just around people in general, if either of us is uncomfortable for any reason, we say "lets leave" and that's it, no questions asked or arguments to stay, we simply leave promptly and explain later why we wanted to leave. 3rd... If we ever have a falling out that's bad enough for her to want to leave, she is not to stay with anyone here at all, including her close friends or even my family. If it's that bad, I will put her on a plane to the Philippines until we cool off. Thankfully that's never happened, we haven't had a major argument since we met. 4th.... I agreed to send her home every year as long as it's possible financially for me to do so, and so far that has worked out great. I usually try to go also but that isn't always the case. This has been the best 11 years of my life. We've purchased land in 2 different locations in Leyte. One is a 5 hectare coconut farm and then a smaller plot near Tacloban for building a house and plan to start building in December. I'm looking forward to retirement there, hopefully an early retirement. I recommend guys who want to meet a Filipina to stay away from the larger cities and find a good province girl. They're just as beautiful, yet more down to earth and you're more likely to find one that doesn't play games. I'm not saying that can't happen, just that your chances are better. Wow! I wrote a book here, sorry.
@@TheFilipinaPea Salamat po ;). Edit: I almost forgot to ask. Have you ever been to Pasqualino's Italian Restaurant just across the bridge from Tacloban in Samar? I took my Father in law and Sister in law when I was there in August, as I wanted them to try steak similar to here and it was probably the best steak I ever ate, and you get an amazing view of the bridge form where you get seated. I highly recommend it, but it isn't cheap.
Were you married before meeting her? Kids from a previous relationship? Want to know how you handled bringing her into that part of your world with the ex and kids.. Also if she doesn't work, what does she do on a daily basis? I like your strategy but trying to wrap my head what it looks like in real life. Thanks for sharing.
You are physically, attractive, it’s true. But the most attractive thing about you is how obviously intelligent and thoughtful and articulate you are. Keep up the good work.
Great video, Pea! As always you nailed it. My Filipina wife is beautiful in my eyes too. Dark skin. Shorter than me. We were both single parents before marriage. I am older too with mileage. I insisted four years ago that we get married in the Catholic Church of the Philippines 🇵🇭 in front of her whole family who attended our wedding. Her parents gave her away in front of our family. We did pre-marriage counselling with a priest in the Philippines. We agreed that my wife must stay in the Philippines 🇵🇭 after our wedding for reasons pertaining to the age of our children. Then COVID hit the world 🌎! More delay… My wife has recently been approved for a Spousal Visa after all this time. We have property now in both the Philippines 🇵🇭 and in America 🇺🇸. Foreign men wanting to marry a Filipina must take the time to marry her in a respectful and public way in the Philippines. Eventually your wife must come to your country for financial and personal reasons: life insurance benefits, pension benefits, social security, permanent residency, your family in your country, etc. These issues require planning and work. My wife is 30 years old now and we are raising our family together. Western men, if you want a traditional wife you must be a traditional husband. You must go to the Philippines for the woman you love. You must embrace her family as your own. When the time is right, bring her to your country when she is ready. But plan to retire one day in the Philippines with your bride. 😊
Detective Frank Drebin "Hey that's a nice beaver." Jane Spencer "Thanks, I just had it stuffed." The Naked Gun (That scene still makes me laugh today)😁
I brought my Colombian wife home to the US 22 years ago and we've been very happy. I was looking for a traditional wife and found one but Colombia has plenty of modern women so be careful, as I'm sure the Philippines does as well. It's worth it and a lot of good advice in the video. Pea hope you find someone, you're beautiful, sorry London didn't work out.
As a young sailor in the 70's I was always told about the beautiful women of the Philippines. I tried everything to get there, but could only get as close as Taiwan. I envied my buddy that was married to a Filipina. I even worked with a Filipina doctor that was gorgeous, but married. Sigh! Bad luck. I am single again , but in my 70's, so maybe I can get lucky this time. LOL!
Um how hard is it to fly to the Philippines? Since you are 70 they will see you as an insurance policy to get your retirement after you die. Stay single bro, they see you coming before you realize it and they will lie their way into your bank account and drain you dry.
Lol. I joined the military to get to the Phillipines and first base i recieved orders to........England. Awww! That was a long time ago and i'm 7 months out from retirement and plan on going then.
@@johnwayne2103 Exactly. Don't expect all Filipina girls are angels. If he really want to travel here in Philippines. He can. But don't look for marriage in that age. Just Enjoy your retirement money yourself. We also have the thing here. Look for 4M's means "Matandang, Mayaman, Madaling Mamatay." In English Rich Old Man that can easily die. So you can take his money. Some Filipina's can be so sweet and nice to you with that motive. You think they are sincere to you but not. They are just gold diggers in Form of a sweet Angel Filipina.
A few years back I tried online dating and got spoken to by this beautiful woman- she was more beautiful than most models in the west and was a waitress at a cafe I asked if she was a model or something and she just responded with 'no' - I thought it was a scam profile so I stopped messaging her and assumed the whole online dating thing was a scam.
Pea your presentation skills and charisma are absolutely awesome. You could make a great living on US television in advertising or news . Videos like this one would be all the resume you would need. Thank you for your information and delightful entertainment!
After many conversations with my fiance and a lot of back-and-forth plus investigating the different visas my fiance and I have decided that she's going to stay in the Philippines and she's going to go to school there. Which is actually a huge relief on my mind. Because I know what the modern campuses here in the United States are like and I was not looking forward really to having her going to school here because I know as soon as she got enrolled at school he would be hit on by every single guy on campus. Now I'm not saying that she would give in but just the prospect of having to face that it's not something I was looking forward to. And yes I do have to watch your videos in private because I can't mention them to my fiance without her getting jealous or upset. So I don't even mention to her that I still watch your videos. Now I will say this this is why you are most of the time rated as a 10 and it isn't just because of your attractiveness it's also your personality you have a very open very friendly personality which is a very attractive quality. I watched your videos since almost from the beginning and have gotten a lot of good and useful information from them. By the way when do you plan on running for president because you mentioned a lot of things about the Philippines that you would like to change in past videos. It's too bad foreigners can't vote for you if you did you would definitely get a lot of votes
It doesnt matter if she stays in the Philippines or the US, if she is hot she will get hit on. Ive spent 20 years working in Manila. The first 10 years, I just played around. I cant even count the number of girls I "dated" that had foreign boyfriends, foreign husbands, local boyfriends or husbands. It was an incredible amount and it obviously wasnt just me. And these were girls working the offices in BGC and Makati. It occurs more often the lower you move down the economic scale. Everybody I know it was like that and it still continues through today, although I stopped and have stuck with the same person for the last 10 years. But if I found out my partner was messing around, I wouldnt even be surprised and in fact, it wouldnt even bother me anymore because its just so rampant throughout the society. In all honesty, she would probably be hit on less in the US then the Philippines.
@@flicks28 I doubt she would be less hit on in the US. Her SMV would go way up over there in the same way yours has gone way up in Philly. Even if your success rate in Philly was 10 times better than in the US that would still not be enough to prove that Philly girls are easier in general - just easier for Western men.
Smart moves, Michael! That could have been a very very dangerous position for her to be in. It’s like the fruit tree in the Garden of Eden, with 5,000 talking snakes 🤣🤣
Found your channel after deciding to check out the Philippines after checking out the surface level of the culture. Finding a good woman was quite easy after getting by the city girls and finding the province girls. You must be getting a lot of attention yourself, so I'm surprised if you haven't been snagged up yet. It most likely comes down to time constraints I would guess, as I understand how much work content creation is. If you bring a Filipina back with you, then make really sure she get to keep her culture in your home. If she understands that you want that, it should make it easier to bring her back. It's all about finding a good one and knowing how to keep her. After seeing what can come of a good culture, it brings real hope for the future. Truly inspiring to see the everyday life after taking away most of the drama of the west, and just living every moment.
I get what you're saying. My wife who was from the Philippines, but whom I met after she came to the USA, said she was attracted to me due to my "exotic" looks and fair skin. She's pretty dark, and I think she looks great. She always says that mixed American and Filipina children are the most beautiful. However, being of Italian descent, I get darker than her in the summer and we have a good laugh about that.
Great insight on human nature in general and how and why the perspective of Filipina is different from western gals. Plus, your spotlight on the curse and dangers of the Hot Filipina makes perfect sense.
You are absolutely right about taking a young Filipina to a western country because she will get every man hitting on her. You amaze me because you always hit the nail on the head and you are 100% right the way you analyze things. You are very mature beyond your young age and you are gorgeous as well.
Admittedly, I'm really struggling to believe my Filipina girlfriend when she tells me how attractive I am. I've told her it's the only time I'll tolerate her lying to me lol. It's almost a red flag to me. She calls herself plain, and I constantly tell her I wish she could see herself through my eyes. Like you and so many of your commenters say, I guess I need to try to see it from their perspective. Thanks again Pea for yet another informative video!
Isn’t it funny how a large contingent of the population in both the Philippines and other Western countries who look down upon themselves or are put down, find exactly what they want in each other? The men who think they are really nothing are prized there and are sought after. Less mature men could let it go to their heads and change them. The same for Pinays going to the west. Many cannot handle fame. Fame feeds the ego, but fame also leads to very sheltered lives. Many crash and burn. No matter which country you live in you will get talked about. Both partners need to have a thick skin concerning this or it can break you apart. Filipinas are as jealous of their “prize” in their country as you are of them in your own country. But in my own opinion it’s far easier for the older mature men to handle it there in pinas than it is for younger girls to handle it in the western country. Nobody really want to live a secluded sequestered life like those of fame and fortune, but sometimes the choice is made to have a home far away from prying eyes and constant temptations. All us “ugly ducklings” are meant for each other 😁. If ya think about it, it’s like the mature older men being from a cold frigid land will adjust better to a tropical life that it would be a young tropical girl to adjust to a cold frigid life. 🧐🤔🥶🥵😅. Gone are the days of only having your own home town to choose a mate. The advent of the internet has opened the whole world in which to search. Pea reminds us not to rush into anything and take an in depth look good and bad before choosing. Don’t be so enamored by being accepted that you turn a blind eye to the warnings. This goes for both sides. Another thought…learn the language!!! How many times here in the west I hear people complain “ if you in our country, at least speak the language”. As much as you appreciate people in the Philippines speaking English to you, they appreciate if you speak their language to them. It’s just so much easier to understand each other. It’s more comforting. They admire you for taking the time and dedication to learn it. If you have such dedication in this, it conveys an important part of your personality, character , and motives.
The reality is there is just a higher percentage of Beautiful Women here in the Philippines and unlike the norm in the West Beautiful Filipinas are not necessarily high maintenance and difficult like the Beauties back home. My experience in the West was the prettier the girl the more trouble, narcissistic and difficult she would be. Here the pretty Filipinas often don’t even realize they’re beautiful.
This is 100% accurate. I had a very fair skinned filipina ex-gf that was busty. I just thought she was okay looking cause I was more attracted to dark girls. The locals would constantly tell me how lucky I was and that she was a true beauty in the Philippines. I was honestly shocked
This is so good to hear, Pea. It is one of my top reasons for wanting to visit. The other reason is, I love snorkeling with coral and beautiful fish. I have already experienced having a geographical upgrade in perceived status. I lived in Nicaragua for a couple of years, and I have blue eyes. Sometimes I would be walking down the street and women would exclaim "wow!" when they saw me pass. I was 62 then and ended up with a beautiful 26-year old girlfriend who was a professional model, had a college degree, and was a Zumba instructor. The bizzare thing was, she thought I was a catch!
Your comedic sketch writing is improving by leaps and bounds as you test new boundaries and figure out what you can get away with on RUclips and how your subscribers will enjoy what they perceive and then get a Filipina with an edge. I used to write comedy sketches for this tiny 5 foot tall redhead innocent looking comedienne. Expanding her boundaries sold out her shows similar to your growth in subscribers. Keep up the good work expanding your repertoire and don't get distracted by done young stud who is capable of being a sausage stuffing machine.
I can understand how being told for years how you look affects your self esteem. I've been told I'm ugly for a long time and never once has a woman said I was attractive. It does have effect on how you see yourself. I can also understand when she was talking about not getting the time of day. Maybe I should travel to the Philippines. Never been there, but I have worked with several. All but one were very nice people and had no problems speaking English so I can understand
Hi Pea our men didn' t find me attractive back there, probably because I looked with so much simplicity . I did not allow the trend of the world , floods of fashion & beauty products in the market corrupt my natural beauty. I dressed up with modesty and cloth my innerman godly. My western husband found me at 45 and we stick together through thick and thin. Many men here in the U.S flirted and love my beauty and Im schocked with the word BEAUTIFUL !!! Anyway thanking God for my husband who loves me unconditionally, and I will not bargain him for anything, my husband is my first & he is my last. Thats love from the Barrio grown traditional & old fashion godly woman.
Watching this video reminded me of the movie called "Phat Girlz", starring Mo'Nique. The movie was about how different cultures view beautiful verse how we see ourselves. I saw a video yesterday where a guy meet a Filipina online and soon developed an online relationship with her and started sending money. When he arrived early to surprise her he found out she was married and living with her Filipino husband and had 2 kids. He was shocked and went to a TV news reporter in the Philippines and stated that he wanted her exposed so this doesn't happened to anyone else. When they asked him how much he sent he stated it was 294,000 php. For he stated he was in Love with her and thought he was going to spend the rest of his life with her. Officials got involved because he was a Foreigner and had the couple and the foreigner sit down to resolve the issue. The husband stated he did not know what his wife had done and was only able to come up with 60,000 php to give back to the foreigner. The husband stated he only makes 20,000php a month and can only afford to pay 2,000php a month back to the foreigner. So a contract between the couple and the foreigner was sign with the stipulation that if one payment is missed for any reason the foreigner would file a case against them. As for the wife she didn't look like she was sorry, sad. Gentleman, please, it might be better to first come to the Philippines and stay in a city that has a lot of Expats for the first time. Walk around meet the people in the Expat community before venturing out. The saying goes, "what's for you, is for you". Take your time, learn from others and never make a choice out of emotions.
I wish I had had that advice before 'investing ' in what I thought were going to be my future wife. Two love scammers and one cheat ( she thought it was ok to have a pinoy bf at home and me as a LDR for the ATM ). Ten years and a whole lot more than that foreigner was getting taken for.
I have my own saying "as soon as my feet touch the tamat in the Philippines I FEEL handsome " :) And you are correct there are too many 'hot' women in the Philippines every time I travel there I think I have seen the most maganda girl I have ever seen and then look the other way and see one even more maganda at least it gives my eyes good exercise . I often tell the girls I meet that white wash their face that if they are after a western man we prefer the Pinoy skin tone
I think people get confused between beauty vs preference. While I prefer brown and black skin, curvy or athletic body, I definitely found you VERY attractive. Therefore, my preference doesn't impede me to appreciate the beauty of a woman, just because I have other preferences. Actually, most of the women I dated are white. Most of them catholic but I don't believe in god. None of that have been a problem in my past relationships. The personalities, attitudes and selfish behavior has been what caused the break-up of some my relationships. What you said about bringing a Filipina to the west and then she start thinking the she is the hot commodity, I have seen in a slightly different way. I had several coworkers with foreign women (Filipino, Korean, Italian, etc.). They are traditional women and great wives. These guys had more status for having good traditional wives that the people with higher positions and bigger paychecks just because everybody what impressed on how their wives treat them. Their wives made them look good in front of the whole office (packing lunch like a 3 stat Michelin restaurant, sending great food to several of us at the office, etc.) Nevertheless, my coworkers started having trouble with them, when their wives started to get influenced by western women (don't cook, don't clean, don't pack their lunch, spend money unnecessarily, etc.). They had to have serious conversations with their wives to get things straighten up and get them out of the influence of the western women.
When I meet my wife in the PI, I only knew her for 9days ask her to marry me. One year later we were married. We will have been married 10 years in November. No regret! 😘
Hahaha I laughed so hard at the concept of you not being a catch in the Philippines! Beauty, intelligence, and so damn sexy! What is wrong with guys over there!
What I've been told, and have seen, works is gently introducing your partner into a new culture so they know what to expect. I had a friend with a Filipina wife, and she absolutely adores him, and the change of culture from there to here in NZ wasn't a shock because they travelled back and forth between both countries at first quite regularly.
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I found the video. It was a year ago called "What kind of men do fillipinas like, 20 things you should know". And the quote " Fat is seen as Fat so if you want to make a good impression lose the weight.
Thank you. I'm learning and thinking about visiting in 3 years when I'm free have income.
I experienced that "curse" with my very young ex Pinay wife. Also with my 2nd Thai ex wife. Thai #1 was the best looking of the three, and she and I were married for 30 years.
All three were "hit" one constantly here in the US. I won't be bringing #4 to the US. Instead I'll move to Talisay when I can.
Do you consider yourself a hot beautiful Philippine woman ?
I brought my Filipina and kids to the USA in 2017. After she got her US citizenship, she filed to divorce me. I remember that she had been comparing me to other guys, and evidently found that I wasn’t the prize in the US that she once thought I was when we lived in the Philippines. Guys…save yourself from the pain and suffering of divorce and DONT bring them back in the USA to live.
Words to live by!
I'm willing to bet there's more to this story. Either you chose very poorly or acted very poorly.
Take that as lesson number 1. Anytime you go overseas to find a woman. Make sure you are open to making a life there. To protect yourself against green card intentions. Can always visit the u.s. but. Try to make a life in their country.
Those don’t take your advice who will go through your bad experience as a lesson. Thanks for sharing, buddy.
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Not just Filipinas. I brought my Brazilian wife back to the USA. She came from a small town. We lived great in Brazil. When we got back to the USA, American culture, modern feminists, attention from other men, etc changed her. We got separated 2 years being here. Learn to live in another country and be happy there.
I think Brazilian woman would cause more heartache than a Filipina!
Brazilian women are a pain in the arse. They're very jealous and a bit crazy. I honestly think you doged a bullet on that one.
Same with my Japanese ex. Brought her to the UK then suddenly being a mother wasn’t enough. Now she’s single and struggling to pay bills.
Never bring any foreign woman back to the U.S. Once they become American-ized the relationship is over.
Yep, why destroy a good thing by bringing her to the West. You need to be serious about living there and have the means to do so all setup BEFORE you meet your Filipina.
I would suggest moving there and having that all done first and then take your time to find your life partner. Takes patience and discipline though as we all want everything now.
My stunning wife was told ,all her life,that she was just a “little dark Filipina “that wouldn t amount to nothing ! Let me tell ya .... Shes dark and FREAKIN GORGEOUS ! She s also got a college education , and can handle situations ,and People , like falling out of bed ! She s definitely been a blessing to this White Boy ... 20 years worth ! !
My Filipina just got back from home for a 4 week vacation and is dark.....of course she says Nego! hahahaha......but, I too love it! :)
I likes my Filipina like my coffee, dark and sweet.
Wow all the very best for the future 👍
That’s insane that she was told that growing up but I believe it.
This will be year 15 for us. 3 kids, and I wouldnt trade anything for what I have now.
The Filipina woman I ended up marrying was already living in the US for seven years as a permanent resident working as a nurse, so I didn't have to deal with the issue of meeting her overseas and bringing her here. Still happily married after 24 years!
Wonderful. Congratulations!
Congratulations Man and Filipinas are a Keeper
you have any ewok looking children with her or do they look like gremlins? worst race to breed with.
Wish I could meet one.
Very happy for you both
Same exact story here! She is independent, never needed or wanted my money, she's a nurse practitioner and makes more money than me!!
You hit the nail on the head Pea. When I brought my Filipina dentist back to Canada she would be hit on every day. A couple guys even tried to sabatoge our relationship in an attempt to win her over. I was fortunate she was a mature woman and we shared many interests in common. So we had developed a solid relationship before that happened. Whenever we were out socially and I went to the restroom or to get something, guys would be on her right away. She just started telling them, "Sorry, I'm here with my husband" even though we were not yet married.
Ew boomer married a young girl
Now that's a women of rare class that unfortunately the cesspit of western culture can never create anymore in today's vile society!
You are a very blessed man. Keep her, she's worth the price.
It doesn't matter how smart or beautiful or even what nationality a woman is... the hardest quality to find these days is loyalty and someone who doesn't constantly need to bask in and feed off the attention of other men. Yours sounds like a keeper and a Dentist to boot. I note your comment is six months old now, so I hope this is still the case for you. 👍🤞
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How true Pea! Met my wife in the Philippines back in 1984 two months later she was in the U S A and she was only 24 and alot of men was hoping she was single. But even some mothers wanted her for there sons to go out with them. One guy was trying to get her and he was married another woman they broke up. But 38 years later were still married, and she is still very beauiful !!
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Congrats, we are coming up on the big 30, this summer. Yes, Filipinas age well. I really didn’t have that much problem with people hitting on her, but I was by her side most of the time.
I did have one recent case with guys half her age hitting on her and her friend who was a similar age. They both broke out laughing. I had been socializing at a nearby table and turn around to see these guys being so thoroughly humiliated. They simply didn’t realize how old they were, lol. To make them feel better I showed them some pictures of my our daughter on my phone (who was their age)…they disappeared from the scene rather quickly, haha.
Isn’t it something that 1984 was years ago! That’s when my ship visit the Philippines I myself married a Filipina but went back in 2007
@@TheFilipinaPeafirst off you are absolutely gorgeous , and any man would be lucky to be with you. The thing is your beauty comes from the inside. Your attitude and the way you Cary yourself , Your heart,the way you care about people . And last thing is your genuine, and all of that put together just makes you glow 😇 keep up the good work I appreciate all you do... If I could recommend and interview? Your parents 💡
Agreed. Come to the Philippines and enjoy the great benefits you'll find here. And if you are lucky enough to find a beautiful Filipina, stay here. Love her. Leave your insecurities back home and let her love you. And stay here with her. That's my advice as an American expat.
Thanks for the insight, good sir! I agree.
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That is good advice. Just live with them in the Philippines. Have you ever met a Filipina from California? They are just as bad as the other Western women. Do not bring them here to the United States.
The hardest thing / activity for me to give up would be deer and turkey hunting. I could still fish here though. And in 3 - 4 years maybe my son would want to come stay here.
@@Chris_Clark1MaidenFan not sure about the Philippines but i know there's wild pig in Micronesia. Anywhere there are domestic pigs they get out and go feral. I'd bet there's wild pig hunting over there somewhere
All this stuff is completely true. It took me years to understand it now but I do understand it now. You break it down incredibly well. Better then I could imagine.
My wife is a petite and a little bit dark skinned filippina and she is very attractive but in the Philippines she is considered ugly.
We have been married for 6 years and together for 7. Although i am older then her i was still young when i met her, I was 30.
What you said toward the end of the video rings true. Every western person will be fawning and flirting with your wife when she ends up living in the west and it can create a lot of problems in your marriage as it is attention she thought she would never have in her life.
Another thing I find is Filippinas can also become extremely clingy and dependent on other Filippinas, they may meet other Filipino girls in the work place and stick together and will not make friends with other people I would actually consider her xenophobic which is ironic considering she moved away from her country to live here. She ended up being completely reliant on her friends for everything food, advice etc and these girls will live in each others pocket until things ultimately and rather predictably become very toxic.
My wife must have at least 60 friends and not one of them is another ethnicity other then Filipino, these so called friends can even end up trying to cause rifts in each others relationships.
OH PEA:
I really needed that laugh at the end of your video. "stuffing beavers" made me almost fall out of my chair. This ending clip series you are on is totally a pure gem. Operation Snag a Foreigner could go so many directions it's funny to even imagine where you could take it.
Personally in my case, if I could make it to the Philippines and find a beautiful Filipina to share my life with, there is no version of me that has a desire to bring her back to Canada. (maybe for a few vacations ) but not for long term living. Even though my friends and family would be happy for me if I did have a beautiful life partner (finally) I know they would never do anything to intentionally try to break us apart. It's the rest of the population here that I feel would spoil the relationship with modernizing a traditionally valued woman into believing the mass modern day western way of ruining a persons life to advance your own is the path to success. EG, marry for money many times, demanding a guy to have 6 figure salary, 6 pack abs, and be hung 6 inches from the floor. Not to mention the whole "don't need a man for anything " line that gets fed to vulnerable women like it's part of their daily breakfast. One part of the meaning of "independence" they keep forgetting is - on your own. For those types of women, I say, go- be on your own, just remember not to take anyone down with you.
Just don't slip one past the Goalie while stuffing that Beaver . lol
she is soooooo clever
I almost spewed my Diet Dew out my nose. That was a good one, Pea deserves a round of applause for the beaver stuffin'.
Bro'... looks like most of the women out there are looking to get out of the Philippines... just watch her other videos with interviews with other women from there, most of them have as far as the next 5 years goals to get out of the country...
nothing to blame them for that when I understand the cost of living a comfortable life is at least 1.5-2k USD per month with a great standard of living for about 3k USD per month while locals barely make 10% of that, of course they want to leave...
I'd want to leave to given similar conditions not to mention chaotic traffic, unreliable electricity and internet and indoor plumbing and such amenities we take for granted in the west...
Might not be easy to find your dream girl that doesn't want to leave...
@streetfreakpatrol240 The feminists would go on offense.
So true. Let me speak to the foreigners who are just starting out. "Get over it". I'm no prize, except in this lovely country. It was hard for me to accept it at first, but I was welcomed with open arms & made to feel attractive. Even at this late stage in my life pea you really do understand both cultures. Or the Philippines and all others from the west. Your videos continue to show the remarkable woman that you are. Keep up the good work. And thanks.
See? Murph knows the score 👍❤️
It all comes down with training n enlightening her with RP content, culture and what women are like, you guys don’t know how to make your woman femin..st bullet proof so obviously she can get cultured easily. It all depends on you and what you teach your Filipina. We have a lot of RP content for her to learn the truth about westn women
Agree with you 100%
*ahem* I think I AM a prize. Sorry ladies, I’m taken. 😊
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No matter what culture you come from or what country; feeling invisible hurts people on the inside somewhere near the soul.
Well that’s the thing, when I first met my Filipina I got treated like I was normal. I did have that feeling visible inside thing and I didn’t like it either. That completely changed when I met her. not just her, most of the community. There’s still some there that’ll treat you invisible but then everybody gets treated invisible by a certain part of the population because you can’t be best friends with everybody. Getting treated invisible by Western people in general. They are just on a different level. I listen to them talk and joke around and what they laugh at have no idea why they find it funny or even interesting but they do. So I treat them like they’re invisible also. I don’t know why I get along so much differently with Filipinos and other cultures of such that I do with Western people.
I'm 43, and I've known that feeling my entire life!
Well, ever since high school that is.
@@tomster7574 yes western people are the meanest people on the planet. When I travel to the east, I wonder am I still on earth. Even to Europe. People much more friendly, invite you to their social circles etc. in the west that will never happen. And if they talk to you it’s at work. Bringing you in their social circles, is a no no cause they shall ask who the hell is this. But in the East even folks you think more valuable than you are even if it’s their financials bring you around their social circle
I'm the same with Hispanic people. I fit in better, even though I'm not Hispanic.
No wonder this is one of your most watched videos, because it has the Best info, and also outro humors.
Thank you for explaining and entertaining!
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When I was stationed over there I met and lived with a Pilipina that had the face and body to be on any mens magazine, we lived together for about 2 1/2 years and then I came back to the US and brought here her and married her. My first deployment after we got married she was in the clubs and bars almost every night and when I got back home I took her to the Catholic father on base for some counseling. She said right in front of me to the father, "Its just having fun, Im looking for a rich husband" Needless to say we were not married for much longer, she did get disowned by her family though because of her actions.
As a Filipina, I am liking your videos. It is different from other content creators who only show the good side. You have delved into topics that are not usually talked about in other videos for fear of a backlash from the viewers. I am learning a lot about what the West thinks about the Philippines and its people, so thank you.
Thank you SO much for that, Sammy! Most Filipinos hate me because it talk about the ‘bad stuff’ too 🤣👍❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea Your videos are actually informative and people should learn how to accept criticisms to evaluate themselves. If only they watch with an open mind, they would realize that your content is not an attack on Filipinos but actually to inform other cultures why we behave in certain ways. It's giving people a realistic preview of what Filipinos are before they interact with them.
How can I find a nice Filipina girl? I’m in London and have been to Mindanao
Having a Filipina is the best choice I ever made after being married to the American woman who is not faithful and true after a few years
My last Filipina just kept asking for money. No I didn't marry any of them. And yes, I sent her a small morsel of cash just once. I bet it was a grand amount for her. Did it ever occur to her that if she struck me as honest , more integrity, didn't ask for anything for herself that I would then reward her much more generously ? Apparently not.
A filipina's family and culture is what makes her the lovable caring person she is... never separate your filapina from what makes her wonderful.
Your story is amazing. I met what I felt was an average looking Russian woman but we connected in a deeper way. I went to Russia and we fell in love. Then, I brought her back to the states and the same thing happened. Naturally, she was not as overweight as the locals so she attracted a lot of admirers. She LOVED the attention and soon decided that she could get a man with more money and that was the end of our relationship. She turned into a completely different person. As such, I realized that you could take a woman out of Russia but you can't take the Russian out of the woman. Unfortunately, she was not trustworthy.
That’s crazy! Especially because you said you all fell in love, that had to be traumatic. Wasting all that time and putting all that energy into that relationship.
My nephew is in the service in Germany and married a German girl and brought her back here and almost immediately she divorced him all she wanted was citizenship here. B****
I have an acquaintance who is a police officer. One of his brother officers was married to a beautiful Ukrainian woman. She introduced him to her friend, another beautiful Ukrainian woman who was living in Ukraine. They visited each other, got married and she was granted US citizenship. She was a doctor in the Ukraine, and my acquaintance supported her while she studied to get licensed in the United States. She had to do a residency, and was placed at a hospital in another state. He set her up in an apartment there, got her a car, and endured the temporary long-distance situation. She abandoned him and married another doctor.
@@genxx2724 Ukrainian and Russian women have deservedly bad reputations...
Love how Pea doesn't sugar coat anything. She always tells the truth about the good and the bad.
One other thing we ran into with my beautiful Filipino bride was American women trying to talk her out of our marriage! This happened a LOT. Watch out for the American women who becomes friends with you gal!
This is a common theme with American women.... The great majority of them are horrible creatures
Watch out for the Americanised Filipina women who become friends with your gal!
Yes seen this with "British" wives too.
Told my foreign wife that American women friends are off limits. 😂
They see it on the internet
When I first started watching your videos, I was convinced that I would meet a wonderful Filipina and take her back to the US. After spending a month in the Philippines I realized Filipino culture is the reason there are so many amazing women Philippines. The children there are kind and respectful and everyone greets everyone else as sir or ma’am. If you fall in love with this woman and she has children, do you really want to expose them to western culture? I don’t.
I’ve heard several stories from Filipinos about their cousins that have moved to the west have changed. It’s a lot to expose anyone to.
Besides I want to become more like a Filipino, not the other way around. So I plan to meet a Filipina to build a life with, travel back and forth to the US to visit, but spend most of our time in the Philippines. Personally I feel the quality of life is better there.
Absolutely. Marry a Filipina, and live in the Philippines. No point bringing her to an anti-marital, anti-family, anti-life country.
100% on target 🎯
Just STAY in the PI!!!!
You are on target. It is both partners who change based on cultural influences. I was married to 2 europeans, both left me. In both instances, I did take them for granted over the years. Also, both were drawn in by the culture of leave him, you deserve better, yada yada. So, staying in the Phillipines should help keep you grounded and appreciative of your partner who will thrive in their native habit. And your partner will not be bombarded by the feminists with zero morals and loyalty to marriage/relationships.
Well then you literally have every reason to be here 👍❤️
My wife watched you along with me .... I met her when I was stationed there in the late 80's , asked for marriage after 6 days ... been married over 35 years ... tearing it up
Yea I’ve been talking to a woman for 3 days and I already said when we meet in September, we can plan to marry at the end of my visit if we like each other as much in person as we CLEARLY do via video chat. It’s so obvious they want to be a wife and are so excited to be with YOU TOO. Unlike American women who are under the impression they are dating down no matter how effing fat or ugly they are. I’m so incredibly excited to begin a chapter of my life where I can expect someone to care about my needs TOO. I will treat her like gold just because she’s willing to cook a damn meal. I hope more men learn about this. It will be amazing to make American women feel the heat and start realizing they suck.
lucky son of a...
You got one back when society wasn’t fucked, congratulations
I had a friend who married a Filipina. After them being wed for fifty years she passed away. After all the years she wasn't a stunner but to see pictures of her in her twentys. A beautiful woman inside out. Five years later he joined her. A real shame. Miss them both. Their boys are as wonderful as they were.
Excellent comment sir
That brought an actual honest to god tear to my eye.
I became the victim of the “Curse of the hot Filipina.” I brought a young beautiful wife back to the states way back in the early 90’s. There was a nine year age difference. While I was in the Philippines, she was a great partner. In the US, she quickly became overwhelmed. Instead of a partner, she became more like a daughter that I had to raise. And yes, she was constantly getting hit on. Eventually, she had a mental breakdown and the relationship tanked, as she decided to move on to find another man. The cultural differences can be overwhelming. It is always in her best interest to keep her in the Philippines where she can live life optimally. Your Western money will provide her the security she needs without the added stress of living abroad.
Ohhhh nooooo 😳🥺😢
When you had 12 things to do today and you only did nine of them, tomorrow you might have 14 things to do. Then you are stressed cause you are behind. Everybody is behind. There are so many laws, very few are 100% legal. Cops are out there filling their quota, with YOU as the victim if you step out of line. Your female partner does little at home, in the kitchen or the bedroom, and you are paying most of the bills. Oh what fun. If only there was a country out there where they speak English and drive on the right side of the road, and where my money goes far and my sexy partner is truly appreciative and gives me lots of attention to stop me straying. If only.......
Sorry to hear about your experience sir. My situation with two love scammers and one cheat who I never got the chance to take to the west has left a bitter pill in my mouth. My last filipina gf went AWOL until I discovered she was now on holiday in Thailand with her new German bf. More than two years and a considerable amount of money gone as she had 'traded up'. The Pea really does have some sound advice which could save her subscribers a whole lot of the heartache both you and I have suffered if they take it on board.
Wasn’t love !!
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A then 60 year old guy I know came home with a filipina he had just married in 2008. She was 20, from a very poor rural mountain province and absolutely beautiful, with wonderful dark eyes, a fantastic personalityand deep tan skin. He was an average Joe, much older, but a kind person with a nice pension and owned several houses. I could still not believe that guy actually snagged that young beauty. Now I understand that in the philipines a significant portion of the local single men might have valued her "average", because of her upbringing, impoverishedfamily and dark skin color. But in my hometown in the west any single man would have labeled her at least a 7, and some even a 8-9. But the kicker is that they are still married, 15 years later, has a kid and are very happy...... That union was an absoutely success, cause they both got exactly what they wanted out of the partnership, stuck together and the obstacles that would have sunk the "project" even before it had begun in the west as irrellevant for both of them. Small wonder filipina women and western men are a good match!
That’s exactly the type of unlikely relationship that I’m talking about. Sometimes we really are a good match ❤️👍
Yeah, my ex-girlfriend, met online, is very insecure about her look herself, whereas she is beauty pageant material. We never talked about the social stigma which has troubled her and I honestly didn't like to tackle the subject for fear to open old wounds. I know that in the Eastern countries in general, having a light skin tone is considered as a sign of delicate beauty. She is very concerned about that, but what I find strange is how she does her utmost to stay thin, even though it's not the general Filipino canon of beauty.
I learned the hard way!
US Air Force assigned to Clark AB in 1973, my first duty assignment after joining the Air Force. Met Jasmine, so maganda, so sexy, so sweet, feel in love. Dated less than a year, married, went stateside. No sooner did she become accustom to the western world, learn to drive, had a check book, got a job, met lots of other "people"... I was no longer good enough. A few years of marriage and 2 kids later, and that was the end of that. Hard lesson to learn.
Happening here in Australia every day.
@@ardshielcomplex8917 Happened to me - after 17 years and 2 kids!! Separating now. She thinks she can do better, but I gave her everything. Emotional and financial security, and I'm quite the hunk - for my age! 6'2" and 90 muscular well hung kgs!
She may find I'm not so easily replaced after all??
yup yup....keep her in the phils and relocate. If you bring her here you will have to be such a controlling asshole that she will resent you and you will be portrayed as the bad guy. If she stays in the phils you dont have to worry.
Air force so you found her in a bar as entire sex industry was built around US bases there.
I'm sorry to hear that, Chief. What's your top tier SNCO dating advice? I am not being sarcastic. Women in our country are useless and selfish. USAF guys like us get used and lied to. I am not jaded. I am 43, 23 years in. I am trying to keep my MSgt paycheck/retirement!
This is absolutely true. I've dated two different Filipinas in the U.S. who came there on a marriage visa and then divorced the American within a few years. They are absolutely vicious when released into the culture. They will use everything they have to get what they want without hesitation. As it turns out, the thing they want most is to be widely respected back home in their village as the smart Filipina who seduced an American, married and divorced him, took a bunch of money from him and now her family is wealthy because she supports them. If you're going to take a Filipina to the states, at least have a very strict pre-nup agreement, minimum. Then you'll only loose you heart and not your money too.
So, at the end of the day, the rule, as everywhere else in the world, remains the same: Before you get disarmed by the charms of love and romance, know where your money is; and that it is under lock and key.
Put everything in Trusts and you won't ever have to worry about "loosing" your stuff and/or money.
or don't bring them back to the states.
@@rekartrustee , you put your own money into a Trust?
@@mikeingeorgia1 Purchase assets such as houses into different Trusts. Best assets to own and can draw income off of them. Own 10 houses each giving $800 per mth and you can live like a king in many countries
After my experience with relationships here and in the Philippines. I can honestly say that I would not trade my partner for anything. Of course they're are people who look better or have certain traits, but the person she sees me as in nothing short of a miracle. I definitely see the positive impact of her in my life, but she's definitely a lot more mature than most women around here.
yeah yeah everyone has an incredibly perfect filipina! Seems to be a lot of them getting around lately.
Loved this presentation. Plenty of laughs and can relate although never been in these situations. Liked and subscribed.
Thanks for finding me, Vincent 👍❤️
Another problem you have to deal with in the US is stereotypes. If it's not guys hitting on your Filipina, then they are saying things about her intentions or treating them like a kid, because they are short and look so young. My friend that lives in Moalboal said that is what drove him to to the leave the US and move to the PI.
I love your closing skit, that's 3 in a row that had me rolling! The beaver part really got me!
I’ll shoot for a fourth, Stu 🤣🤣🤣
I have heard a few other guys mention this kind of stuff from both the UK and the USA but personally I have never experienced any such issues when dating young Asian girls from other countries in my home state of California. Of course, if you are with a really hot woman of any race then guys are naturally going to be hitting on her all the time. That just goes with the territory I’m afraid. By the way, I also have a friend who married a drop-dead gorgeous Thai women over 20 years ago and they have never talked about having any such issues.
Great presentation! Women in the west think they are too good for an average looking man, or a man older than 60. Therefore, we older gentlemen go to our grave without a woman. Your words are reassuring to someone like me. In March I will be visiting the Philippines. My wife died eight years ago, and I have been alone since, so if God will provide me with a Felipina, I will be grateful. Thank you, P.
100% American woman want 6 ft+ rich handsome guys and blow off the normal nice guys.
Good luck with your trip. It will change your outlook on life forever. I love it here, and will stay as many years as possible. I do see family once a year, in the USA.
Sorry bro. But God don't provide sh!t. Pea is the only one that provides. WAKE UP!
Hope you have a wonderful trip. Married to a philipina. Live half of the year in the Philippines and half in America. She has not visited the USA yet. Just remember that in the Philippines you marry not only the girl but the family so if you do find someone be prepared.
Why you don't take a woman of your age?
You are a national treasure, Pea. I've known these truths for years, thanks to being married to an amazing Filipina.... but it took me a long time to come to terms with the reality.
Now, as for bringing a Filipina back to the West... I think it's not ALWAYS a bad thing. You have to truly KNOW your Filipina and understand how the move would affect her. I lived for over a year in the Philippines, most of the time with my wife, and I knew it would be fine for her to be here... and it is. Every person is different... different thoughts, ideas, intelligence levels, maturity levels, exposure to Western ideas, etc. etc. Understanding all these and how they fit together will make it more understandable if it's good to make the move or not. I think Pea would do very, very well in the West.
And know better than to bring her to Satan's Den. LOL
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Wow, thanks for the unexpected support, ToD ❤️❤️❤️❤️👍😊
Thank you for the poignant and honest PSA. You are doing the Lord's work, girl.
She really is
And thank YOU so much for your generous support, Khemistry 👍❤️😊
I love my Filipina. She has a beautiful heart.
And that’s 99% of what matters 👍❤️
Well okay, maybe 90% …
80%? 🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea 😂
Pea there is one exception to what you mentioned about bringing a Filipina too the US , not that I would even consider doing so. Which is what describes me, I chose a true Christian woman and confirmed so by testing and getting too know her for three years, as best as possible by video chatting. Then when I arrived after being married I really got too know her which turned out too be Betty than I could have imagined. Woman that has such exceptional characteristics are I’m sure a hard find in any Country. I would and do trust her with my future. I’m Blessed
That’s where So many of the ‘Passport Bros’ make their mistakes.. they are looking for Love thru Lust filled eyes. Finding a genuine Christian woman, in any country, should always be the key!
@@dj2fangaz948 Amen amen; engaged to a pastor's daughter in Mindanao.
You're very wise, insightful and smart for such a young lady! Thanks for enlightening me on some of the cultural differences of the Philippines, it's educating as well as entertaining. The Philippines is one Country I have always wanted to go back to. Blessings and Love... :)
My wife was constantly hit on by a guy at her workplace until she listened to me and went to her boss and reported the guy for harassment. I guess that is much harder in the Philippines, endure or leave.. but here it worked. The guy was relocated.
I know many older guys with gorgeous younger Filipina wives, but usually there is no issue, they adapt to life here and stays loyal. Biggest age difference I know of is 36 years, but they have been a couple for well over a decade now. Some relationships have crashed but usually due to mutual inability to understand each other - intercultural relationships are a little more challenging...
For the looks, I still struggle with making my wife understand that if I wanted a whiter woman, I wouldn't have had to go all the way to the Philippines. At least she stopped using whitening soap now.
My Filipina wife was astounded to see tanning salons in America. In her country women either stay inside or use an umbrella to avoid the afternoon sun and skin products usually have bleaching agents to lighten skin. Seems no one anywhere is happy with their color!
As a retired sailor who often visited the Philippines and was stationed at NAS Cubi Point for three years and married a Filipina, I have some insight into the "Filipino Perspective" of skin tones. The general consensus in the Philippines seems to be that dark skin=being poor as it denotes someone who is working outside (usually planting rice) all day. The Filipino employees who worked at cutting grass throughout the base using sycles would ALWAYS be covered from the tip of their heads to their toes under the hot tropical sun. When I would take a "date" to the beach, seldom did she lay in the sun beside me so as to not get that dreaded tan. That was one of the things that attracted me to my Filipina wife, she didn't care if she tanned or not. Most actors in the Philippines tend to be of the mestizo (mixed blood), usually European, lineage
for the same reason (one could make the same argument about Mexico, another country I'm very familiar with as I grew up there). And as for how faithful or not a Filipina is or isn't, I've found them to be on par with "womanhood" in general and engage with women on an "individual" basis rather than by race. Love the content.
@@chuniquepaceno470 I wouldn't say _Mestizo_ , per se, but of _EurAsian_ lineage, which many are due to the Spaniards controlling the islands for 500 years.
No not everyone. Just European and Asian cultures for some reason pedestalize light skin. African Americans tend to do the same but of course that is just because that prejudice was instilled into them throughout the course of slavery and segregation.
My first wife (best friends and family to this day!) is Jamaican. Because of her high cheekbones, they made fun of her when she was young, calling her donkey-face. When she moved to New York City, she couldn't understand why they all went nuts for her and she had modelling contracts, etc.
Exactly, Udor - same thing 👍👍😊
Pea, you have wisdom beyond your years and what you say is very true. I met a lovely woman in the Philippines, 27 years younger and beautiful. Like many western man before me, I believed that bringing her back to America on a 90 day Visa was the best way to go. However, there was one thing I did that changed what could have been a disaster. I focussed on creating a life here that could make her happy. I patiently helped her adjust to American life. I found an area to live in that had a lot of Bisayan Filipinas to socialize with. I helped her find a career path that both suited her abilities and she enjoyed. We made a child together that we both love more than life itself. Maybe I beat the odds, but the one thing I always considered before bringing her here was, could I make this person happy? A foreigner has to understand Filipinas, maybe better than they know themselves, before they ever consider marriage, but I did my homework and I think I got it mostly right. I did date a few Filipinas before finding the right one, but the one thing I had foremost in my mind while dating was, can I make this woman happy? She still laughs at my jokes, sings while cooking and hugs me every morning after saying "Maayong Buntag." Maybe I just beat the odds and got lucky, but I do think that a man with the right plan can find the right woman, and the Philippines may just have some of the most wonderful women on earth if you know how to make them truly happy and loved.
In order to beat the odds you must stack the deck; congratulations and Thank you for taking the time and effort to comment. I will remember your words.
Great video! I have been married for 14 years to a very beautiful Filipino, and she has spent 10 years in the west, also getting flirted up! No problem as we lived for 2 years in the Philippines before going to USA, also she is a very mature, loyal gal. But the experience of many of my friends is much different, they took a young beauty to USA and promptly lost her! I has happened to many of my USA friends, so its real. It will and can happen, my suggestion is spend at least a year in the Philippines getting to know and love each other before going to USA to get married. I also know some guys that spent less then 4 weeks in the Philippines with there intended bridge, then went home and waited for them to arrive, NOT A GOOD IDEA, it has not worked out for any of them well.
I'll never be able to visit your country or meet the women there, but your work has enlightened me about the richness of the Philippines and its people. Thank you for your continued efforts at improving the world's awareness.
Hi Rick,
You did not say why coming here, to The Philippines is not possible. If your circumstances change, you would more than likely would love it here. I could recommend spending at least 3 to 4 weeks here. It would be better to stay for 2 months. But anyway have some savings and spending money for the trip. My first time was in 2001. After that trip I would stay for up to 4 months and return to the USA to make money. 2016 I moved here full time. If I can do it, most people could also! I like Cebu and Bohol, but there are so many nice places. I like Cebu because of the airport. I always get the one year airline ticket, from the USA. I return each year for my health insurance annual. Because of Covid, this trip is on Asiana Air. Normally I fly with Korean Air. Korean has the most flights from many USA cities. Then it’s only Two rides from the major city to Cebu. One airline for baggage transfers, and any other issues.
Good luck!
Dude there are Filipina here already. Start with the churches. There are a LOT of single beauties that have conquered western life. You will never regret it. You'll have to weed through but it'll be easier than dating western women.
@@Michael-xp9ln he may be a felon
Wow Pea, I went back to look at this one. Incredible and informative. Love your work 😊
My wife, 34 years younger, actually suggested I move to the Philippines. She reasoned that we could have a better life here living on my small pension, and she could be near her family and not suffer culture shock. Sometimes we chat about the many marriage failures when the young Filipina wife lives in the west. We are both thankful we live in the Philippines 🙏
The funniest thing you said was "Stuffing the beavers" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Hahaha , yeah. I had a small laugh when the " beaver" word was mentioned. I wonder if she is aware of the relation of this word?
Where did you meet your wife? I am trying to find a nice conservative/traditional woman and move to Asia but don't know where to start
Reverse:Imagine going to the united states with a old women that brings in 10k every months and youre a 30 year old dude never need to work..... ....
lmao so true and not sure if she would@@daryldaryl913
My cousin met his wife in Cebu, dated her for a year, and bought her to America. They have been happily married 16 years and have two children together. They go back and forth between the Philippines and the US. My Fiance will be coming to the US as well and we will get married here. Here is the catch-We are both very health focused visually appealing people, but the key she is older and smarter. We are very faithful people from traditional families that have met eachother many times.
If there's one thing I could pick out of what I've learned from your videos is "if you go to the Philippines and find a partner, stay in the Philippines". Just like we'd potentially get "spoiled" by the traditional, more slow-paced life there, someone from the Philippines would get "spoiled" by the often awful style of life here. I'm already pre-planning for staying if I move there, and thank you for all the advice, Pea!
Then you have learned the wrong thing. Know who you fall in love with. There are always obvious signs of the type of person you are with. But most men ignore them because they fear being alone while forgetting that for every filipina they are with, there are 1000 just like her that can replace her if there are red flags. And you can't bring your wife to your home country and treat her like a slave and expect her to tolerate it. Which A LOT of men do. They think because they paid for her to get there, they can control her and make demands and have stupid expectations.
This is very sweet and promising. This is something I have been saying to cover the grief coming out a broken marriage. Visiting Philippines seems as a hope to find a person who actually will respect.
Hey Pea, I don't make it a habit to go on different Filipina vloggers' channels and comment on their looks much, because I've been raised to believe that's a bit creepy if they aren't my wife or girlfriend. I typically comment my thoughts on their topic, or just try to add to their topic, or share my own experience, etc. In this case, the topic IS your looks (or Filipina in general looks), and it sounds like you wouldn't mind a little encouragement. So let me say that you are most definitely a solid 10 to western men. The shape and look of your face is very cute to us, your slender build and overall body shape are an absolute bombshell. Your hands are very cute, and your long black hair is also very attractive and luxurious. If there were anything less than attractive about you, I'd be honest about it right now so my feedback would be balanced, but there really isn't. Every physical aspect of you is gorgeous to us, and I safely speak for most of us.
Hope that didn't come off as creepy, I just wanted you to have some positive feedback in a culture that apparently doesn't value you like we would. It's the same for us over here.
Also LOL @ the beaver skit at the end.
Well thanks, Fit! We Filipinas are happy to hear it ❤️❤️❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea I think you might've missed the point, he was directly complimenting YOU. I agree with him by the way.
Attractive Filipinas are a magnet when traveling outside of the Philippines. I have personal experience since my better half is a Pinay. Fortunately, I am not an overly jealous person, and we discuss individual men hitting on her. She is a DEVOTED PRACTICING CATHOLIC which helps take care of her being faithful! Constant admiration and come ONS for her by many strange men and even acquaintances can become tiring over time!
I absolutely love my filipina. I always do my best to encourage her and build her up. She's the one person in the world I'll never fight with, I only got good things to say about her. 10 years of long distance dating is nothing to sneeze at, our relationship has lasted longer than most marriages in the United States. I take pride in her.
Ten … years? 😳
Congrats, my dude ❤️❤️❤️
😳 Long Distance?🫣
Why ten years? That's so long.
"Long distance dating" is a contradiction in terms.....to consume the relationship you can't really be more than about....lets say....6 inches apart.....so I admire your reach....🤪😊🏆🏅🥇↗️😯😯🤏🍖🏹🪃
@@gerhardvanderpoll7378 well whats the dating called if I live in the United States and she lives in the Philippines? We don't exactly live together yet because my country has made it pretty difficult for her to just visit and I've visited her country a total of 4 times in those 10 years for about 1 month each and ill be going again this coming March for another month, I'm almost pushed to the point that I'm debating on moving to her country and giving my country the middle finger for making our time apart so long. And each time I fly there, its a 26 to 60+ hour travel time depending on the ticket plan just to go visit her, another 26 to 60+ hour time to get back home. If this isn't long distance, what is it then?
Thanks for taking the time to discuss this topic and all the others. I really enjoy listening to your advice and look forward to watching more of your videos! Best wishes.
Thanks James 👍❤️
My wife is Filipina. I met her after she'd lived in the US for several years. We've been together for 15yrs and been married for most of those. She's the best person I've ever known. Filipinas are special for sure.
I guess I got very lucky or did a few things right, My beautiful Filipina was brought here to be married to me in the USA when she was 22 years old and I only spent a month at a time with her in the Philippines, a few times before bringing her here. That was almost 24 years ago and things are going great, cross my fingers that things don't go South in the future, but so far so good.
After 24 years, you’ve already beaten the odds! Congrats and kudos 👍👍❤️
Bruce, any advice on how you vetted her and how you were able to keep the usa culture from ruining her?
Only 18 seconds in and she nailed it. Once upon a time 20 years ago, I hung out with some college friends for 2 1/2 months in Singapore and bounced around a few of the places from Thailand to Philippines. I saw exactly what she is talking about in this video.
What this video might not talk about is the fact that when people return to places like the United States. A lot of the problems that made people travel in the first place or likely end up inside of your relationships.
0:55 once again, the speaker absolutely nailed it. #NoLiesWereTold.
3:44 I caught that 👀😳😂
4:35 sadly, colorism destroys peoples idea of their self-worth. Wonder if it’s something ingrained in the society or it’s an unexpected reality of our modern deification of all things white skinned. 😢
8:16 I must be psychic, because I didn’t have to watch this video at all to know exactly what she meant about bringing people back to the west. #Upgrade.
You tell it like it is Philipina Pea! I can't get enough of your factual videos! I had a Philipina girlfriend who I haven't seen in a year but I still love her even though we were both married when we began our relationship. So everything you have mentioned in all of the videos I've watched are absolutely spot on.
Yo what 💀
Hahaha - Pea I love your "Stuff a Beaver" skit. That bring back old memories!! I have several friends that brought their filipinas to the west and have been married 15 to 20 years now. These women are devoted to the men who love them and provide for them and is one of the reasons I married a Filipina. I have no regrets so far !!
My wife was initially the skinny little girl you’re talking about. She was 90 pounds when I first met her and I was 180 pounds. I am literally twice her size. But she’s gained weight since then now she’s 120 pounds that seems like a lot of a difference but she’s gained it all in the right areas so it’s really hard to tell :-) mind you I’ve gained the same amount of weight and it’s all in the one area so it’s really easy to tell. No not there, get your mind out of the gutter.
I have lived in the Philippines for almost five years now with my wife. I'm coming up on 4 years married this August. Pea is right about living here with your wife first. Get established with her but more importantly get established with her family. You will be amazed at how much your wife listens to her parents and elders. Trust me when I say her parents will be very upset if she throws a marriage in the trash no matter what part of the world she is in. You not only marry your wife but you also marry the whole family. That is a good thing, i promise! I was lucky enough to marry a woman who is considered beautiful here. I got to see how she responds to that type of attention. She gets a lot of random guys trying to get her to cheat. My friends back home at first didn't believe me when I showed them a picture of her and said this is my wife until they video called me with her sitting next to me lol.
Love your channel. Thanks for posting. 😍
I met my little Leyte girl about 14 years ago. I'm 19 years older than her. Visited her twice, 2 years in a row and the 3rd visit brought her back to the states. In 1 week (Feb 2nd) will be our 11th wedding anniversary. I was 40 when we married. We did agree on some ground rules before she came. For one, she is not to work, which was great for her as she doesn't want a job. 2nd.... if we're ever in a situation at a party or just around people in general, if either of us is uncomfortable for any reason, we say "lets leave" and that's it, no questions asked or arguments to stay, we simply leave promptly and explain later why we wanted to leave. 3rd... If we ever have a falling out that's bad enough for her to want to leave, she is not to stay with anyone here at all, including her close friends or even my family. If it's that bad, I will put her on a plane to the Philippines until we cool off. Thankfully that's never happened, we haven't had a major argument since we met. 4th.... I agreed to send her home every year as long as it's possible financially for me to do so, and so far that has worked out great. I usually try to go also but that isn't always the case. This has been the best 11 years of my life. We've purchased land in 2 different locations in Leyte. One is a 5 hectare coconut farm and then a smaller plot near Tacloban for building a house and plan to start building in December. I'm looking forward to retirement there, hopefully an early retirement. I recommend guys who want to meet a Filipina to stay away from the larger cities and find a good province girl. They're just as beautiful, yet more down to earth and you're more likely to find one that doesn't play games. I'm not saying that can't happen, just that your chances are better. Wow! I wrote a book here, sorry.
I’m not sorry you wrote that book - I enjoyed reading about your excellent strategy!
Congrats to you both 👍❤️❤️❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea Salamat po ;). Edit: I almost forgot to ask. Have you ever been to Pasqualino's Italian Restaurant just across the bridge from Tacloban in Samar? I took my Father in law and Sister in law when I was there in August, as I wanted them to try steak similar to here and it was probably the best steak I ever ate, and you get an amazing view of the bridge form where you get seated. I highly recommend it, but it isn't cheap.
Were you married before meeting her? Kids from a previous relationship? Want to know how you handled bringing her into that part of your world with the ex and kids.. Also if she doesn't work, what does she do on a daily basis? I like your strategy but trying to wrap my head what it looks like in real life. Thanks for sharing.
You are physically, attractive, it’s true. But the most attractive thing about you is how obviously intelligent and thoughtful and articulate you are. Keep up the good work.
The hottest thing about Filipina Pea is her intelligence. She speaks highly colloquial English, and that's a lot of work to learn.
@@daveeyes Equally hot: her sense of humor.
Great video, Pea! As always you nailed it. My Filipina wife is beautiful in my eyes too. Dark skin. Shorter than me. We were both single parents before marriage. I am older too with mileage. I insisted four years ago that we get married in the Catholic Church of the Philippines 🇵🇭 in front of her whole family who attended our wedding. Her parents gave her away in front of our family. We did pre-marriage counselling with a priest in the Philippines. We agreed that my wife must stay in the Philippines 🇵🇭 after our wedding for reasons pertaining to the age of our children. Then COVID hit the world 🌎! More delay… My wife has recently been approved for a Spousal Visa after all this time. We have property now in both the Philippines 🇵🇭 and in America 🇺🇸. Foreign men wanting to marry a Filipina must take the time to marry her in a respectful and public way in the Philippines. Eventually your wife must come to your country for financial and personal reasons: life insurance benefits, pension benefits, social security, permanent residency, your family in your country, etc. These issues require planning and work. My wife is 30 years old now and we are raising our family together. Western men, if you want a traditional wife you must be a traditional husband. You must go to the Philippines for the woman you love. You must embrace her family as your own. When the time is right, bring her to your country when she is ready. But plan to retire one day in the Philippines with your bride. 😊
I saw ur vid decided to watch it. I did not know about any of this and u are a huge eye opener. THANK TOU FOR THE EDUCATIONAL INFO. !!!
Detective Frank Drebin "Hey that's a nice beaver."
Jane Spencer "Thanks, I just had it stuffed."
The Naked Gun (That scene still makes me laugh today)😁
I brought my Colombian wife home to the US 22 years ago and we've been very happy. I was looking for a traditional wife and found one but Colombia has plenty of modern women so be careful, as I'm sure the Philippines does as well. It's worth it and a lot of good advice in the video. Pea hope you find someone, you're beautiful, sorry London didn't work out.
The skit at the end where Pea is talking to her mom is absolutely hilarious. I didn't realize she was such a comedian.
Very insightful. Very nicely presented!
As a young sailor in the 70's I was always told about the beautiful women of the Philippines. I tried everything to get there, but could only get as close as Taiwan. I envied my buddy that was married to a Filipina. I even worked with a Filipina doctor that was gorgeous, but married. Sigh! Bad luck. I am single again , but in my 70's, so maybe I can get lucky this time. LOL!
Um how hard is it to fly to the Philippines? Since you are 70 they will see you as an insurance policy to get your retirement after you die. Stay single bro, they see you coming before you realize it and they will lie their way into your bank account and drain you dry.
Taiwan had super nice women in the 70s, 80s.
Lol. I joined the military to get to the Phillipines and first base i recieved orders to........England. Awww! That was a long time ago and i'm 7 months out from retirement and plan on going then.
@@johnwayne2103 Exactly. Don't expect all Filipina girls are angels. If he really want to travel here in Philippines. He can. But don't look for marriage in that age. Just Enjoy your retirement money yourself. We also have the thing here. Look for 4M's means "Matandang, Mayaman, Madaling Mamatay." In English Rich Old Man that can easily die. So you can take his money. Some Filipina's can be so sweet and nice to you with that motive. You think they are sincere to you but not. They are just gold diggers in Form of a sweet Angel Filipina.
A few years back I tried online dating and got spoken to by this beautiful woman- she was more beautiful than most models in the west and was a waitress at a cafe I asked if she was a model or something and she just responded with 'no' - I thought it was a scam profile so I stopped messaging her and assumed the whole online dating thing was a scam.
Pea your presentation skills and charisma are absolutely awesome. You could make a great living on US television in advertising or news . Videos like this one would be all the resume you would need. Thank you for your information and delightful entertainment!
US Television???? dude she has CLASS
@@Itachi_Uchiha666-n7d haha EXACTLY 😅😅😂.
Quite interesting. I think you hit it on the head. It is the cultural differences that make thing challenging.
After many conversations with my fiance and a lot of back-and-forth plus investigating the different visas my fiance and I have decided that she's going to stay in the Philippines and she's going to go to school there. Which is actually a huge relief on my mind. Because I know what the modern campuses here in the United States are like and I was not looking forward really to having her going to school here because I know as soon as she got enrolled at school he would be hit on by every single guy on campus. Now I'm not saying that she would give in but just the prospect of having to face that it's not something I was looking forward to. And yes I do have to watch your videos in private because I can't mention them to my fiance without her getting jealous or upset. So I don't even mention to her that I still watch your videos. Now I will say this this is why you are most of the time rated as a 10 and it isn't just because of your attractiveness it's also your personality you have a very open very friendly personality which is a very attractive quality. I watched your videos since almost from the beginning and have gotten a lot of good and useful information from them. By the way when do you plan on running for president because you mentioned a lot of things about the Philippines that you would like to change in past videos. It's too bad foreigners can't vote for you if you did you would definitely get a lot of votes
You could go all the way and make the big jump- citizenship...then we could make her do it ;)
It doesnt matter if she stays in the Philippines or the US, if she is hot she will get hit on. Ive spent 20 years working in Manila. The first 10 years, I just played around. I cant even count the number of girls I "dated" that had foreign boyfriends, foreign husbands, local boyfriends or husbands. It was an incredible amount and it obviously wasnt just me. And these were girls working the offices in BGC and Makati. It occurs more often the lower you move down the economic scale. Everybody I know it was like that and it still continues through today, although I stopped and have stuck with the same person for the last 10 years. But if I found out my partner was messing around, I wouldnt even be surprised and in fact, it wouldnt even bother me anymore because its just so rampant throughout the society. In all honesty, she would probably be hit on less in the US then the Philippines.
@@flicks28 I doubt she would be less hit on in the US. Her SMV would go way up over there in the same way yours has gone way up in Philly. Even if your success rate in Philly was 10 times better than in the US that would still not be enough to prove that Philly girls are easier in general - just easier for Western men.
Smart moves, Michael! That could have been a very very dangerous position for her to be in. It’s like the fruit tree in the Garden of Eden, with 5,000 talking snakes 🤣🤣
@@flicks28 Did it ever occur to you that you may be of low integrity lol
Found your channel after deciding to check out the Philippines after checking out the surface level of the culture. Finding a good woman was quite easy after getting by the city girls and finding the province girls. You must be getting a lot of attention yourself, so I'm surprised if you haven't been snagged up yet. It most likely comes down to time constraints I would guess, as I understand how much work content creation is. If you bring a Filipina back with you, then make really sure she get to keep her culture in your home. If she understands that you want that, it should make it easier to bring her back. It's all about finding a good one and knowing how to keep her. After seeing what can come of a good culture, it brings real hope for the future. Truly inspiring to see the everyday life after taking away most of the drama of the west, and just living every moment.
I get what you're saying. My wife who was from the Philippines, but whom I met after she came to the USA, said she was attracted to me due to my "exotic" looks and fair skin. She's pretty dark, and I think she looks great. She always says that mixed American and Filipina children are the most beautiful. However, being of Italian descent, I get darker than her in the summer and we have a good laugh about that.
Great insight on human nature in general and how and why the perspective of Filipina is different from western gals. Plus, your spotlight on the curse and dangers of the Hot Filipina makes perfect sense.
You are absolutely right about taking a young Filipina to a western country because she will get every man hitting on her.
You amaze me because you always hit the nail on the head and you are 100% right the way you analyze things.
You are very mature beyond your young age and you are gorgeous as well.
Admittedly, I'm really struggling to believe my Filipina girlfriend when she tells me how attractive I am. I've told her it's the only time I'll tolerate her lying to me lol. It's almost a red flag to me. She calls herself plain, and I constantly tell her I wish she could see herself through my eyes. Like you and so many of your commenters say, I guess I need to try to see it from their perspective. Thanks again Pea for yet another informative video!
Isn’t it funny how a large contingent of the population in both the Philippines and other Western countries who look down upon themselves or are put down, find exactly what they want in each other? The men who think they are really nothing are prized there and are sought after. Less mature men could let it go to their heads and change them. The same for Pinays going to the west. Many cannot handle fame. Fame feeds the ego, but fame also leads to very sheltered lives. Many crash and burn. No matter which country you live in you will get talked about. Both partners need to have a thick skin concerning this or it can break you apart. Filipinas are as jealous of their “prize” in their country as you are of them in your own country. But in my own opinion it’s far easier for the older mature men to handle it there in pinas than it is for younger girls to handle it in the western country. Nobody really want to live a secluded sequestered life like those of fame and fortune, but sometimes the choice is made to have a home far away from prying eyes and constant temptations. All us “ugly ducklings” are meant for each other 😁. If ya think about it, it’s like the mature older men being from a cold frigid land will adjust better to a tropical life that it would be a young tropical girl to adjust to a cold frigid life. 🧐🤔🥶🥵😅. Gone are the days of only having your own home town to choose a mate. The advent of the internet has opened the whole world in which to search. Pea reminds us not to rush into anything and take an in depth look good and bad before choosing. Don’t be so enamored by being accepted that you turn a blind eye to the warnings. This goes for both sides. Another thought…learn the language!!! How many times here in the west I hear people complain “ if you in our country, at least speak the language”. As much as you appreciate people in the Philippines speaking English to you, they appreciate if you speak their language to them. It’s just so much easier to understand each other. It’s more comforting. They admire you for taking the time and dedication to learn it. If you have such dedication in this, it conveys an important part of your personality, character , and motives.
Hahahahaha
Well now you know she means it 👍😊❤️
The reality is there is just a higher percentage of Beautiful Women here in the Philippines and unlike the norm in the West Beautiful Filipinas are not necessarily high maintenance and difficult like the Beauties back home. My experience in the West was the prettier the girl the more trouble, narcissistic and difficult she would be. Here the pretty Filipinas often don’t even realize they’re beautiful.
Exactly 👍😊
Thank you, for your input. You articulate, with honesty. But to be honest, the indulgence, can be just an infatuation.
This is 100% accurate. I had a very fair skinned filipina ex-gf that was busty. I just thought she was okay looking cause I was more attracted to dark girls. The locals would constantly tell me how lucky I was and that she was a true beauty in the Philippines. I was honestly shocked
This is so good to hear, Pea. It is one of my top reasons for wanting to visit. The other reason is, I love snorkeling with coral and beautiful fish.
I have already experienced having a geographical upgrade in perceived status. I lived in Nicaragua for a couple of years, and I have blue eyes. Sometimes I would be walking down the street and women would exclaim "wow!" when they saw me pass. I was 62 then and ended up with a beautiful 26-year old girlfriend who was a professional model, had a college degree, and was a Zumba instructor. The bizzare thing was, she thought I was a catch!
Pea has brought some serious introspective material here! I never looked at it from the perspective she mentioned! This stuff is other level!!!
Thanks Hugh, I’m always trying to tell a story from another point of view 👍😊
Incredibly enlightening! That makes total sense, and explains a lot of things.
Your comedic sketch writing is improving by leaps and bounds as you test new boundaries and figure out what you can get away with on RUclips and how your subscribers will enjoy what they perceive and then get a Filipina with an edge. I used to write comedy sketches for this tiny 5 foot tall redhead innocent looking comedienne. Expanding her boundaries sold out her shows similar to your growth in subscribers. Keep up the good work expanding your repertoire and don't get distracted by done young stud who is capable of being a sausage stuffing machine.
I can understand how being told for years how you look affects your self esteem. I've been told I'm ugly for a long time and never once has a woman said I was attractive. It does have effect on how you see yourself. I can also understand when she was talking about not getting the time of day. Maybe I should travel to the Philippines. Never been there, but I have worked with several. All but one were very nice people and had no problems speaking English so I can understand
Hi Pea our men didn' t find me attractive back there, probably because I looked with so much simplicity . I did not allow the trend of the world , floods of fashion & beauty products in the market corrupt my natural beauty. I dressed up with modesty and cloth my innerman godly. My western husband found me at 45 and we stick together through thick and thin. Many men here in the U.S flirted and love my beauty and Im schocked with the word BEAUTIFUL !!! Anyway thanking God for my husband who loves me unconditionally, and I will not bargain him for anything, my husband is my first & he is my last. Thats love from the Barrio grown traditional & old fashion godly woman.
You are making me cry with joy ma'am. Bless you.
Love your video Pea. Your exactly right about those younger woman.
🥰🥰 no woman compared to the beauty of Ms Pea 🥰🥰 anyone would be lucky to have her on your arm .... ❤❤
Until they find out what they have 🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea don’t think so. We men adapt more to our woman than our woman to us. Ever heard the phrase the woman makes the man.
Watching this video reminded me of the movie called "Phat Girlz", starring Mo'Nique.
The movie was about how different cultures view beautiful verse how we see ourselves.
I saw a video yesterday where a guy meet a Filipina online and soon developed an online relationship with her and started sending money. When he arrived early to surprise her he found out she was married and living with her Filipino husband and had 2 kids. He was shocked and went to a TV news reporter in the Philippines and stated that he wanted her exposed so this doesn't happened to anyone else. When they asked him how much he sent he stated it was 294,000 php. For he stated he was in Love with her and thought he was going to spend the rest of his life with her. Officials got involved because he was a Foreigner and had the couple and the foreigner sit down to resolve the issue. The husband stated he did not know what his wife had done and was only able to come up with 60,000 php to give back to the foreigner. The husband stated he only makes 20,000php a month and can only afford to pay 2,000php a month back to the foreigner. So a contract between the couple and the foreigner was sign with the stipulation that if one payment is missed for any reason the foreigner would file a case against them. As for the wife she didn't look like she was sorry, sad.
Gentleman, please, it might be better to first come to the Philippines and stay in a city that has a lot of Expats for the first time. Walk around meet the people in the Expat community before venturing out. The saying goes, "what's for you, is for you".
Take your time, learn from others and never make a choice out of emotions.
I wish I had had that advice before 'investing ' in what I thought were going to be my future wife. Two love scammers and one cheat ( she thought it was ok to have a pinoy bf at home and me as a LDR for the ATM ). Ten years and a whole lot more than that foreigner was getting taken for.
I have my own saying "as soon as my feet touch the tamat in the Philippines I FEEL handsome " :)
And you are correct there are too many 'hot' women in the Philippines every time I travel there I think I have seen the most maganda girl I have ever seen and then look the other way and see one even more maganda at least it gives my eyes good exercise .
I often tell the girls I meet that white wash their face that if they are after a western man we prefer the Pinoy skin tone
Wow pea! This is pretty crazy! I look forward to testing this theory when I get there…
Good work again hardworking pea!
I think people get confused between beauty vs preference.
While I prefer brown and black skin, curvy or athletic body, I definitely found you VERY attractive.
Therefore, my preference doesn't impede me to appreciate the beauty of a woman, just because I have other preferences.
Actually, most of the women I dated are white. Most of them catholic but I don't believe in god.
None of that have been a problem in my past relationships.
The personalities, attitudes and selfish behavior has been what caused the break-up of some my relationships.
What you said about bringing a Filipina to the west and then she start thinking the she is the hot commodity, I have seen in a slightly different way.
I had several coworkers with foreign women (Filipino, Korean, Italian, etc.). They are traditional women and great wives. These guys had more status for having good traditional wives that the people with higher positions and bigger paychecks just because everybody what impressed on how their wives treat them.
Their wives made them look good in front of the whole office (packing lunch like a 3 stat Michelin restaurant, sending great food to several of us at the office, etc.)
Nevertheless, my coworkers started having trouble with them, when their wives started to get influenced by western women (don't cook, don't clean, don't pack their lunch, spend money unnecessarily, etc.). They had to have serious conversations with their wives to get things straighten up and get them out of the influence of the western women.
Im amazed at the age difference in ages . Like 30 year difference.
Great video pea :)
You'll get used to it Francisco.
When I meet my wife in the PI, I only knew her for 9days ask her to marry me. One year later we were married. We will have been married 10 years in November. No regret! 😘
That was a very nice take on world perspectives... Thanks!
Hahaha I laughed so hard at the concept of you not being a catch in the Philippines! Beauty, intelligence, and so damn sexy! What is wrong with guys over there!
What I've been told, and have seen, works is gently introducing your partner into a new culture so they know what to expect. I had a friend with a Filipina wife, and she absolutely adores him, and the change of culture from there to here in NZ wasn't a shock because they travelled back and forth between both countries at first quite regularly.
Your "Project Snag a Foreigner" clips are hysterical. Thank you for making me laugh so hard, today.
Thanks Douglas! I’ll keep it going as long as I can 🤣🤣🤣👍
Thanks for your input my dear , I learned a lot from this clip. Have a bless night.🙏🏿