This type of Content is Top Tier, i want more of this. It is raw and natural, therefore it will also be easier for you to produce this type of content. But dont overdo it, keep a nice balance. lov u bro
Exactly what I was thinking about during video. I'm from Poland and it's expensive, but luckily pool/billiards is 3 times cheaper and it's even better idea.
One of my favorite spots to go to for first date is frozen yogurt/ice cream shop. is casual, tasty, and low investment. Get her to talk about herself while she is eating ice cream and she will absolutely love the experience.
Great way to tell if she is high maintenance. If she complains about going to an ice cream shop instead of an expensive restaurant, you know where her priorities are.
I have a question, does he post juicy content, aka business meetings on his patreon vlogs? And how long are usually his uncut patreon vlogs, like miami vlogs, new york vlogs, colombia vlogs etc?
@@trxndesign3331He does post dope stuff like when he was on a first date, but business meetings are hard to post cuz its explicit content His vlogs when he travels are usually 10-20 minutes long
My number 1 date is a park somewhere close in the city all you need is a bench a coffee on the go. No one else to meddle with your conversation , you are both alone that means you can go for the kiss whenever it's suitable and you actually brush off the gold diggers that want flashy shit and your money.
My thought is a picnic in a park or scenic area where you can be secluded from others so you can get to know each other. No grilling, just bring sandwiches or stop and get something such as chicken on the way there. My thought is once you get to know each other and you both feel you want to continue on, go to a place which is more active. I have a casino nearby which has great live music on weekends. A few drinks, dancing, and indulging in a few slots together can be great fun and the end to a great date. If you realize during the picnic you're not compatible, just end the date and wish each other the best. No hard feelings.
Activity dates can be more creative/fun than those examples: rock climbing, drone racing, bumper cars/kart racing, tennis/ pickleball/basketball, VR arcade and paintball. My go to is star gazing, especially as a stack. I have a good portable telescope and will carry a girl up to some look out point. Being able to show them the moon, Venus, Jupiter and especially Saturn is both inpressive and romantic...buttt they are usually suspicious about how many girls Ive done it with 😅. Ive gotten to 4th base twice, practically in public doing that shit
movies at cinema is only good if you have been hanging out for 2 3 dates and she still dont feel comfortable to come over for a netflix (good girl), than watching first movie in cinema is a good stepping stone to watch movie in your place next time. at that point its just a seamless and logical thing to do to propose movie at your place, its feels like she already done it with you and its not a big deal
@@wrestler-kickboxer2524 haha, i love stuff about psychology and life, sometimes finances. but i keep it relevant and light hearted to girls. anyways, u actually asked me a right thing here, maybe i should be more playful
6:00 The club’s the WORST place to take a new girl who you have zero rapport on and you’re not a mogger. You’ll be heightmogged into oblivion, as well as mogged by men who are just better looking, better dancers etc. Furthermore, you both get sweaty, sticky and gross clubbing. I’m a clean freak and stench of stinky 😻 is too nasty 😷 Back in summer of 2019, my friend took a Chinese girl he met on a club date and I was there as a 3rd wheel. They started off hot, they were making out, fingers were slipping in the 🐈 when we were outside but later on we entered the club and she started making out with some random guy on the dance floor. We returned to her place to smoke up but he didn’t escalate and that was the last date ever. Edit: 10:00 Coffee dates can be easily escalated if you head back to yours or hers. I closed on the 1st date with my ex & I know others who’ve done very similarly.
Dinner dates are the most boring type of dates. Simps spending a large sum of cash on dinner hoping the woman would sleep with them. A walk in the park or a free city event are more realistic
& no offense or disrespect to absolutely anyone but why are grown men so obsessed with taking a girl out for drinks? (And I’m not necessarily talking about Austin! because he clearly said going out for drinks doesn’t have to involve alcohol!) But I feel like that’s an indirect cope, because it’s as if you NEED alcohol and or any other form of drugs to spark up a vibe or to spark up something sexual that you clearly can’t spark up yourself. Because let’s me honest when a guy is taking a girl out for drinks, 95% of them are not getting virgin pina coladas 😭 they want to get the girl turnt up to make their move. Or drink to give them the confidence or a vibe that they don’t naturally have when they’re sober.
Well it’s not just that. Having drinks could be a way of having a good time. That would be like saying why take someone out to eat when you can just cook the food yourself? Or why go out to watch a movie, play laser tag when you can just buy the stuff and do it yourself? However it does become a problem when the guy wants his partner to drink so he can get the laid easier. Then you weren’t there for the dating and relationship building. You were just there for the sex.
There’s plenty of answers on google why drinks are the preferred evening date. Activity dates are costly and you’re stuck doing something rather than getting to know someone.
Tbh like dude above me said, its just easy. Its a good vibe. And almost no girl will say no to it unless she doesn’t drink. That said though its 100% lame if a guys social skills suck so bad that he has to drink alcohol to actually have a personality worth liking. Thats beyond sad.
Damn most the subject i want to do is amateur playboy or seasonal playboy i wonder what rank would you put theme parks like universal studios or disney ?
walk in the park then you go somewhere out to eat if they are in to you after that you can go further but if they say no lets go somewhere else its a red flag
Matthew 6:19-21 KJV [19] Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: [20] but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: [21] for where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
What about a swimming pool date ? You can talk, get to know each other and escalate but I don’t know about invite the girl back. In which category do you put this one ?
4:25 I think Austin might be off on this one-movie dates can be great for building intimacy. Holding her hand on her lap, then maybe a little more, and sometimes even leaving early to take things to the next level Even better if the date is at the drive-in theatre!
This used to be my first date location. They have a bar/food and fun at the same time. You get to see the fun side of her and is not as interviewee as sitting down for dinner.
idk man i dont want take my girlfriend to crowded ass places as a top tier dating place i rather be more lokey but like u said moved n burger joints arent good first date ideas
stacking is goated. coffee works with going on a walk after. drinks and then to the lounge. quick food/appetizers, then wine and chill is straight heat.
Bowling is not low investment its at least 75 at decent bowling alley plus its boring. The casual bites and drinks as long as its under 50 youre good. Just let the girl get some food and you dont get any food so you can make her feel like a fatty. If she tries to go crazy with the food ditch her and bounce. Make sure any food place is super close to your house no more than 5 minutes
Idk about that coz that just depends how much you know them beforehand, if it's a stranger then idk if you wanna invite them to your place or their place. But if it's a friend you already knew then yes that's good
@@nate8965 not me literally for a friend she told him once when he went to work for a temp job doing yard work that he was just going to fuck some other b**** I try to tell him that’s suspicious and I’ve seen that as cheaters guilt he’s comb through her phone and social media but found nothing I doubt he looked for it properly
Question: Should i use Tinder and/or Bumble or wait till im in uni. Never been with girl. And when i tried once from school clasmates said that she is to young for me - (2y). Im not tall about 5.1 and have some health problems. Can you maybe give me some advice? I am also kinda scared to even touch a woman bc you never know if she reports you to police
2 years age difference is nothing. Why wait til uni? Then you'll actually have less time because you're in school, but you can meet a lot of girls in person at university as well
I'll be honest man at 5'1 with health problems girls shouldn't be your top priority because the reality is your not going to be attractive to most women, due to your height being well below average and nobody will want to be with you if you aren't healthy. Your young too so you cant take care of a woman, your basically useless right now. Focus on improving your health first, then you gotta make up for being short so you gotta be in shape and well groomed, and lastly you need to make as much money as possible that way even if your short girls will still see that your taking care of yourself and you have the money to take care of them, making you more attractive to them. Be confident, but that will come more naturally with experience. Good luck.
@@joebenett3667 about meet girls in person is true. I think in person is better bc on dating apps uou never know if you find gold digger, s**t, or actually loyal girl. Even in person you never know on first look
Don't touch a girl ever unless she's comfortable with you, you can attempt a hug when you meet but apart from that don't touch her until she's comfortable, usually she will touch you first If she's feeling comfortable around you but that doesn't happen instantly so give it time and just be relaxed so she can be too
@@joebenett3667 I will soon have surgeries, but those problems does not affect that much as height. But im not in shape. I want to go to gym to loose fat, but there is no motivation. But you are right. Tnx
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Hell no.
Austin are you not going to do any skincare video for us
Walk in the park is definitely the way to go! It also assesses her level of physical activity. If she's in decent shape, she wouldn't decline.
i always do that as well if she declines that offer then that can tell you what type of woman she is
This type of Content is Top Tier, i want more of this. It is raw and natural, therefore it will also be easier for you to produce this type of content. But dont overdo it, keep a nice balance. lov u bro
Rappers would be saying flying a girl out was cool. I would never follow that trend.
😂😂 so true. They were such a bad influence
Now in days, nothing is low investment… even bowling will cost you $100 easy
Exactly what I was thinking about during video. I'm from Poland and it's expensive, but luckily pool/billiards is 3 times cheaper and it's even better idea.
You can do drinks or walks or other low cost stuff
Wine and chill is cheap
Um my bowling alley it's $10 a person depending when you go
@@NelsonHopp yea it's a bit cheaper at working days and until 4 pm. which is bullshit time for date. Everybody is working.
I made an app specifically for this.Over 3000 date ideas - Instant Date - Schedule and meet. Its my first app, don't roast me lol.
Brilliant 👏
Im on yo creative ahhh
Can you send a link? I'm curios
@@stefanarcticjr.6534 It's my first App, I designed and built from ground up. Working on version 2 adding matching system.
Ayy shout out to you
We got first date tier lists before gta 6
Man 😂
Fr bruh 😂
It’s not the Men making it complicated though
One of my favorite spots to go to for first date is frozen yogurt/ice cream shop. is casual, tasty, and low investment. Get her to talk about herself while she is eating ice cream and she will absolutely love the experience.
Great way to tell if she is high maintenance. If she complains about going to an ice cream shop instead of an expensive restaurant, you know where her priorities are.
the facecam is unironically funny
let's go bowling, cousin
gta4
Patreon gang 🔥 saw this months ago
I have a question, does he post juicy content, aka business meetings on his patreon vlogs?
And how long are usually his uncut patreon vlogs, like miami vlogs, new york vlogs, colombia vlogs etc?
@@trxndesign3331 he does here and there & the vlogs are between 15 & 30 minutes but can be longer
@@trxndesign3331He does post dope stuff like when he was on a first date, but business meetings are hard to post cuz its explicit content
His vlogs when he travels are usually 10-20 minutes long
My number 1 date is a park somewhere close in the city all you need is a bench a coffee on the go. No one else to meddle with your conversation , you are both alone that means you can go for the kiss whenever it's suitable and you actually brush off the gold diggers that want flashy shit and your money.
Yh I agree with this for sure. Can never go wrong.
yeah. mines a forest out in the woods, alone.
Bingo! For the exact reason you stated. Sad that many guys still dont know this though.
Agree
park? good luck with that
I needed this FINALLY SOME QUALITY CONTENT
W videos bro keep going
Yoo Austin, nice video, nice idea.
My thought is a picnic in a park or scenic area where you can be secluded from others so you can get to know each other. No grilling, just bring sandwiches or stop and get something such as chicken on the way there. My thought is once you get to know each other and you both feel you want to continue on, go to a place which is more active. I have a casino nearby which has great live music on weekends. A few drinks, dancing, and indulging in a few slots together can be great fun and the end to a great date. If you realize during the picnic you're not compatible, just end the date and wish each other the best. No hard feelings.
Shopping is the worst - I don’t know anyone who has done this but apparently it has happened
bowling shoulda been moved to seasoned playboy, basically the same as pool
Facts I got 85% success rate with bowling 🎳
It’s not really intimate. Like it’s gonna look weird with you touching your date with other people around bowling. Pool and golf is exceptional
very informative video, extra confidence in my date selection
Activity dates can be more creative/fun than those examples: rock climbing, drone racing, bumper cars/kart racing, tennis/ pickleball/basketball, VR arcade and paintball. My go to is star gazing, especially as a stack. I have a good portable telescope and will carry a girl up to some look out point. Being able to show them the moon, Venus, Jupiter and especially Saturn is both inpressive and romantic...buttt they are usually suspicious about how many girls Ive done it with 😅. Ive gotten to 4th base twice, practically in public doing that shit
movies at cinema is only good if you have been hanging out for 2 3 dates and she still dont feel comfortable to come over for a netflix (good girl), than watching first movie in cinema is a good stepping stone to watch movie in your place next time. at that point its just a seamless and logical thing to do to propose movie at your place, its feels like she already done it with you and its not a big deal
Why club?? Don`t you wanna isolate the girl and not going where competition is most likely present?
exactly
You need some confidence, you think a chick is going to ditch you for another guy on your first date ??? You’re too much in your head
@@shark_man_ probably not but they could also exchange contacts while u distracted
I went for a quick bite and then minigolf and drinks.
Was casual and fun.
if you didn't smash after then you just a betabux
was just thinking about this austin posted at the right time🔥
i honestly prefer cafe date most. important for me to keep and eye contact and discuss ideas
Discuss ideas? Are you trying to start a business with them? 😂
@@wrestler-kickboxer2524 haha, i love stuff about psychology and life, sometimes finances. but i keep it relevant and light hearted to girls. anyways, u actually asked me a right thing here, maybe i should be more playful
I get clubs however it's loud so talking is a problem
Most dudes have a better chance if they don't talk lmao
Agreed. I think clubbing would be a 2nd or 3rd date
@@whome806true 😂😂😂
@@whome806problem is if you’re not one of them and you talk well it could be an issue.
Thank you so much for this video Austin
A Cafe works if there are couches where you can get more intimate and you know how to talk to women, the. The second date, invite them over
If Austin can dance imma start taking dancing classes
Almost 500k lets go 🚀
First dates shows confidence & dominance
Shows you to be a sucker to women that get asked out all the time. Just finna be another dude to them
what u think about arcade? I'd assume amateur playboy n seasoned playboy tier cuz of bowling/minigoal/pool
Had to be the first one
6:00 The club’s the WORST place to take a new girl who you have zero rapport on and you’re not a mogger. You’ll be heightmogged into oblivion, as well as mogged by men who are just better looking, better dancers etc.
Furthermore, you both get sweaty, sticky and gross clubbing. I’m a clean freak and stench of stinky 😻 is too nasty 😷
Back in summer of 2019, my friend took a Chinese girl he met on a club date and I was there as a 3rd wheel. They started off hot, they were making out, fingers were slipping in the 🐈 when we were outside but later on we entered the club and she started making out with some random guy on the dance floor. We returned to her place to smoke up but he didn’t escalate and that was the last date ever.
Edit:
10:00 Coffee dates can be easily escalated if you head back to yours or hers. I closed on the 1st date with my ex & I know others who’ve done very similarly.
Yea club is almost as bad as movie dates for most people
Dinner dates are the most boring type of dates. Simps spending a large sum of cash on dinner hoping the woman would sleep with them.
A walk in the park or a free city event are more realistic
& no offense or disrespect to absolutely anyone but why are grown men so obsessed with taking a girl out for drinks?
(And I’m not necessarily talking about Austin! because he clearly said going out for drinks doesn’t have to involve alcohol!) But I feel like that’s an indirect cope, because it’s as if you NEED alcohol and or any other form of drugs to spark up a vibe or to spark up something sexual that you clearly can’t spark up yourself.
Because let’s me honest when a guy is taking a girl out for drinks, 95% of them are not getting virgin pina coladas 😭 they want to get the girl turnt up to make their move. Or drink to give them the confidence or a vibe that they don’t naturally have when they’re sober.
Well it’s not just that. Having drinks could be a way of having a good time. That would be like saying why take someone out to eat when you can just cook the food yourself? Or why go out to watch a movie, play laser tag when you can just buy the stuff and do it yourself? However it does become a problem when the guy wants his partner to drink so he can get the laid easier. Then you weren’t there for the dating and relationship building. You were just there for the sex.
There’s plenty of answers on google why drinks are the preferred evening date. Activity dates are costly and you’re stuck doing something rather than getting to know someone.
It's an easy way to go out. No need to overthink the first date. Save that for the 3rd or 4th date
Tbh like dude above me said, its just easy. Its a good vibe. And almost no girl will say no to it unless she doesn’t drink.
That said though its 100% lame if a guys social skills suck so bad that he has to drink alcohol to actually have a personality worth liking. Thats beyond sad.
@@xDUxEXcluSIvEyou get to know them as youre doing the activities
Back in the day, we didn't have to worry about where to take women. She choosed you the first time you asked her out.
Movie date for a young guy has to be average Joe bro
Damn most the subject i want to do is amateur playboy or seasonal playboy i wonder what rank would you put theme parks like universal studios or disney ?
Getting something to eat & going for a walk sounds good to me. But I'm obviously not a woman so idk what they think
walk in the park then you go somewhere out to eat if they are in to you after that you can go further but if they say no lets go somewhere else its a red flag
Matthew 6:19-21 KJV
[19] Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: [20] but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: [21] for where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
Hey austin bro whats your thoughts on LONG DRIVE DATES?
What about ice cream dates?
What about a swimming pool date ?
You can talk, get to know each other and escalate but I don’t know about invite the girl back.
In which category do you put this one ?
at first glance, this is a nice video idea , keep it up Austin !
You forgot arcades and amusement parks
I like this! Tough!
What about going to a sporting event like mlb, nba or nfl game? I feel like that falls into white night, no? Also what about going to the beach
I like coffee, park or drinks. Low investment and I can leave early if I don't like her. Bowling is good for 2nd date
I’ve had great success at the movies lol
What category does a “comedy show “ fall under?
Thx g
austin i just want a girlfriend bro
4:25 I think Austin might be off on this one-movie dates can be great for building intimacy. Holding her hand on her lap, then maybe a little more, and sometimes even leaving early to take things to the next level
Even better if the date is at the drive-in theatre!
Cooking at house is one thing but cooking class yeah not great
what's the purpose of dating
Dude really forgot to add arcades. @_@
What about an arcade like Dave n Busters? Ive closed off a first date on that what tier is an arcade?
This is a good ine
Damn I’m thinking that as my definite second date option! 👌🏼
This used to be my first date location. They have a bar/food and fun at the same time. You get to see the fun side of her and is not as interviewee as sitting down for dinner.
Either this is an old video or Austin cut his hair
Yo what happened to your live streams
Don't fart when you date.
All the dates he said was average I do all the time. Lol.
idk man i dont want take my girlfriend to crowded ass places as a top tier dating place i rather be more lokey but like u said moved n burger joints arent good first date ideas
stacking is goated. coffee works with going on a walk after. drinks and then to the lounge. quick food/appetizers, then wine and chill is straight heat.
thats like over $100 for one first date though
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best first date: ur crib
Clubs are cool till fcknnn Chris Brown walks in lmfaooo
Walk in a park is the best date to get tk a girl
Bowling is not low investment its at least 75 at decent bowling alley plus its boring. The casual bites and drinks as long as its under 50 youre good. Just let the girl get some food and you dont get any food so you can make her feel like a fatty. If she tries to go crazy with the food ditch her and bounce. Make sure any food place is super close to your house no more than 5 minutes
My favorite is to take a chick on a motorcycle ride to a destination. Like grab a beer and sneak to a secret location and drink it there.
Yo when are we getting a video of you actually approaching women rather than talking about looks maxing?
What about cooking? Same as wine date or?
Idk about that coz that just depends how much you know them beforehand, if it's a stranger then idk if you wanna invite them to your place or their place. But if it's a friend you already knew then yes that's good
What tier is a spa treatment for?
Anyone have a link to get Austin Dunham to see if a girl is cheating? Asking for a friend seriously
If you even gotta do that she’s probably cheating
@@nate8965 not me literally for a friend she told him once when he went to work for a temp job doing yard work that he was just going to fuck some other b**** I try to tell him that’s suspicious and I’ve seen that as cheaters guilt he’s comb through her phone and social media but found nothing I doubt he looked for it properly
Motorcycle ride
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Question: Should i use Tinder and/or Bumble or wait till im in uni. Never been with girl. And when i tried once from school clasmates said that she is to young for me - (2y). Im not tall about 5.1 and have some health problems. Can you maybe give me some advice? I am also kinda scared to even touch a woman bc you never know if she reports you to police
2 years age difference is nothing. Why wait til uni? Then you'll actually have less time because you're in school, but you can meet a lot of girls in person at university as well
I'll be honest man at 5'1 with health problems girls shouldn't be your top priority because the reality is your not going to be attractive to most women, due to your height being well below average and nobody will want to be with you if you aren't healthy. Your young too so you cant take care of a woman, your basically useless right now. Focus on improving your health first, then you gotta make up for being short so you gotta be in shape and well groomed, and lastly you need to make as much money as possible that way even if your short girls will still see that your taking care of yourself and you have the money to take care of them, making you more attractive to them. Be confident, but that will come more naturally with experience. Good luck.
@@joebenett3667 about meet girls in person is true. I think in person is better bc on dating apps uou never know if you find gold digger, s**t, or actually loyal girl. Even in person you never know on first look
Don't touch a girl ever unless she's comfortable with you, you can attempt a hug when you meet but apart from that don't touch her until she's comfortable, usually she will touch you first If she's feeling comfortable around you but that doesn't happen instantly so give it time and just be relaxed so she can be too
@@joebenett3667 I will soon have surgeries, but those problems does not affect that much as height. But im not in shape. I want to go to gym to loose fat, but there is no motivation. But you are right. Tnx