There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
I saw a hilarious meme where dude was laying in his driveway due to depression. He looked at the phone of a girl he has been dating and his phone number was under the contact name of of "free food" 🤣
If I were single again and a girl didn’t offer to pay for her own meal I’d go to the restroom pay for my meal and dip out without her noticing. Don’t waste time with these broads.
Nah, 50 to 100 first dates or more. Speaking as someone who has done it, you learn more of what you want and don't want and enjoy most of the experiences along the way, especially after the first half. Assuming you're learning fundamental pickup principles, actively learning from your interactions and cultivating your own social acuity and personality along the way.
That whole " if he doesn't have social media hes a redflag " that most women be running with is exactly why i dont date out here. Brothers who keep off social media but want to date are at a disadvantage. Especially you Gen Z guys. Social Media aint good for your mental health in general. So the fact these women be basing there judgement off your profile is a redflag to ME. Narcissism is a thing guys watch out for that BS. Big up for the vid Austin
@@-whackd Thats only a part of it bro, It needs to display you have a active life style, you could probably buy followers but overall its BS to portray a lifestyle you don't actively live.
Dating is extremely simple be successful and the ladies love you. I got my own business drive fast car and all my dates are good. I come to the conclusion is all about money. I recently come into to money and I can clearly see the difference in how I'm treated by women.
Man, I don't know if I already mastered dates, but I never get nervous on a first date... I just assume that everything is going to be okay and the date always ends well... People get nervous because they are on their heads... You just have to be natural and that's it... Woman goes on a date searching for reasons to not like you... you just have to be natural and know what you really wants... You don't have to be their friends! Be bold and go for what you want!
and also that he's likely an incel somehow, despite being good looking and with money. 1000 dates and literally nothing to show for it but shitty dates?
@@LDGRXR it doesn't matter. He can't attract a woman beyond a fuck who is worth anything and he needs to run trash like this because he has no marketable skills so yapping is what his life comes down to.
I haven’t either although I could have plenty of times. Women mostly only wanted me for sex though . Not really for dating . Might sound crazy but I kinda wish it was the other way around .
@@jeffbro1021 even then that’s not really tall, slightly above average 🤷♂️ and most guys add atleast an inch so if he says he 5’10 chances are he 5’9 💀 5’10 looks a lot cooler cause the extra digit 💀
@@AustinDunhamVlogsyo Austin! Can you give us like a one year update on your fat graft/subscicion on your acne scars please. I believe you had just got the procedure done when you first mentioned it. This would definitely help out a lot of dudes w/ acne scars!
Point one is true, while i'm not the most attractive guy women on the first date mostly gave me compliments how they feel save and comfortable around me. The bar is set really low out there, dunno what you guys are doing.
nah its a good idea to meet them away from ur place with how crazy some of these women be. i used to be down w the straight to the crib game but not anymore
The title is clickbait. Hes probably been on between 70 to a 100 in actuality. Does he know what hes talking about for online dating and looksmaxxing? Probsbly. Does he have the skills and knowledge of an average cold approacher? Absolutely not
No you didn't. But I went on around 100 and I can tell it gets really old. You will eventually talk about the same stuff, even if you're an interesting person and the girl is also interesting.
I went on a first date recently and I thought it went ok because she texted me after asking if I got home safe. Normally when I encountered that it meant she wants to see you again. This instance she went low interest after which was surprising
That's too many bro you can find your wife within 10 dates. Im guessing you did that in hopes of reaching a really high bodycount, which is lame anyway.
austin is probably the only dude i listen to when it comes to dating, , theres a lot of people out there saying stuff but this dude just knows what hes talking about
Don't know if I agree on the follow up. If she's really interested, she's going to follow up with you or she'll show up. If she doesn't, it sucks, but it's an amazing filter. You also have her wondering about you before the date happens.
1000 first dates. Lets say you took every woman to two for $30. Thats over 30k in dates. Wow thats too many dates. A waste of money if you asked me. Now if those dates were $100 to $200 each a total waste of money is an understatement.
The confirm before noon tip was probably the best bit about this video. People are so flaky these days. Good advice. 1000 dates though.....man. That sounds tiring. lol
Normally, I would agree with you, but as a dating coach, going out with girls is part of his business. He makes videos about it and gets paid well for it. For the normal guy though, going on multiple dates is going to hold you back.
He's talking over like the last few yrs. Hell that's like 2 a wk for 10yrs. It's possible. And especially the last few yrs since he's stepped into the dating coach role.
As a older gentleman I like your content. But why date and spend money on a first date? I only went out to eat if she was a regular with potential. Outside of that a coffee house, "starbucks", then back to her place.
Thanks for putting this together man. I appreciate the work and info. @9:30 Interesting take. I never personally do this. In my experience, once I set a date and time, I show up. I did get stood up about 10% of the time but I always have things to do as a backup. In fact one of my best nights ever was a 7pm no show that lead to me finding a new lady that night by 9pm. The few times I did check in (and this is why I stopped doing this) I got wishy washy replies or no replies at all. Generally speaking; the less you communicate after setting the date (ideally zero communication) the better. Look guys: your time is valuable. Once you set a date and time with anybody, you show up. If they don’t, it tells you everything about them.
Women be pulling that bring a friend trick for a long time they bring their friend to use her for an escape method remember when tpain got chopped and screwed and the girl said i can't leave my friend women do that to prevent going back home with you
Even tho I levelled up and get dates/women, even sex and short-term stuff. Usually doesn't last long tho. Just had a woman obsessed with me, and she did a u-turn after 2-3 months.
Honestly, for a guy who's done "1000" first dates. Which I call bullshit on, unless you consider a cold approach a date. These aren't insightful lessons. You can learn these after 15-20 first dates. What about dealing with objections to bringing her to your place? Objections to getting physical (touching, kissing, sex)? Setting a sexual frame? Making her feel non judged about sex? What happens if she pins you in the boyfriend box from the get-go, how do you set more a fuckboy frame? Things like that are what most guys, whether they're aware of it or not, need to really deal with. Wouldn't listen to this "coach"
Yo Austin how you doing I’m thinking about doing sum photo shoots but how do u plan the clothes budget tho I saw ur videos but can you make a video on that
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There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
if you dont learn relationship skills then u are gonna suck anyway.
1,000 first dates? thats alot of money spent my guy. lol
I think he earns more then enough so that his time is much more valuable than the money he spends on food and drinks.
@@VR_Wizard either way. I make a lot too but its better to try and smash as much as possible without going on dates. That shits adds up overtime
😂
@@FilmsByjoshhyou’re not wrong
He’s a millionaire
I saw a hilarious meme where dude was laying in his driveway due to depression. He looked at the phone of a girl he has been dating and his phone number was under the contact name of of "free food" 🤣
If I were single again and a girl didn’t offer to pay for her own meal I’d go to the restroom pay for my meal and dip out without her noticing. Don’t waste time with these broads.
i wouldve thrown the phone into a body of water
1000 first dates? come on guy your bugging . you can learn alot in 10-50 dates, and you can find your wife probably within that range
He said in 2020-21 he went on dates, everyday
Nah, 50 to 100 first dates or more. Speaking as someone who has done it, you learn more of what you want and don't want and enjoy most of the experiences along the way, especially after the first half. Assuming you're learning fundamental pickup principles, actively learning from your interactions and cultivating your own social acuity and personality along the way.
how old are you?
Yall just be finding stuff to complain about 🤣🤣
@@Damion- 34, i know the game. 1,000 is insane. you can pick up everything you need to know much much sooner than that. if thats even a real number
Austin you don't have the Bad Boy look you have the pretty boy with tattoos look.
lol exactly!
To girls that’s a bad boy
And what do tattoos insinuate, the bad boy look maybe?
In yo own words what’s the “bad boy” look? Also pretty boys >>>>>>>> gymbros
right, you cannot be bad boy unless you have low-set & positive tilt eyebrows
I was literally watching old vids and thinking "Sunday feels weird without Austin's new vid" and saw a notification🔥🔥
Solid advice my guy. As a lifelong bachelor in his 30's who has had very similar gameplans, this will def help the young dudes out.
Bro all due respect. Even if i was a 9/10 gigachad i would never deal with that many women
Yeah what a waste of time. They're 99% the same
It's a clickbait also it doesnt mean shit. Not everyone looks like him
Yeah most guys cant even get a date in the first place so most dont relate.
Facts
Every man can get a date stop this bs weak mindset
@@Motivationmighty its not a weak mindset its facts...statistically most men cant glean a date because of their whereabouts.
@@MotivationmightyIt's not a "weak mindset" you jus lack education on how women treat certain guys depending on their looks.
@@Motivationmighty Stats don't care about your mindset
That whole " if he doesn't have social media hes a redflag " that most women be running with is exactly why i dont date out here. Brothers who keep off social media but want to date are at a disadvantage. Especially you Gen Z guys. Social Media aint good for your mental health in general. So the fact these women be basing there judgement off your profile is a redflag to ME. Narcissism is a thing guys watch out for that BS. Big up for the vid Austin
the irony is its the opposite of a red flag. if anything u gotta be a loser or a marketer to be a dude on social media.
You just need an IG with a bunch of pics from a couple years ago. I don't actually use the IG.
@@-whackd Thats only a part of it bro, It needs to display you have a active life style, you could probably buy followers but overall its BS to portray a lifestyle you don't actively live.
depends on the girls you try to date. I find girls who dont like guys on social media and dont care for it
This man has been on 1000 dates I'm still struggling to get 1 lol.
Dating is extremely simple be successful and the ladies love you. I got my own business drive fast car and all my dates are good. I come to the conclusion is all about money. I recently come into to money and I can clearly see the difference in how I'm treated by women.
Man, I don't know if I already mastered dates, but I never get nervous on a first date...
I just assume that everything is going to be okay and the date always ends well...
People get nervous because they are on their heads... You just have to be
natural and that's it... Woman goes on a date searching for reasons to not like you...
you just have to be natural and know what you really wants... You don't have to be their friends!
Be bold and go for what you want!
probably good looking so ppl just give u the benefit of the doubt always
This needs to be the top comment, guys just need to go in there with that mindset.
Guy just said the bad boy look 😂😂😂😂
Bro clarted 1000 chicks in the name of research
Hahah😅
True scientist 😅
Going on 1,000 first dates shows confidence & dominance
Yea he better get check for stds aids krabs clamida if did date 1000
Nah, it's just shows that you really crave an ego boost. Some men would do anything to satisfy their ego, except fight.
and also that he's likely an incel somehow, despite being good looking and with money. 1000 dates and literally nothing to show for it but shitty dates?
@ethosterros9430 200+ bodycount, doesn't seem incel to me. You are coping
@@LDGRXR it doesn't matter. He can't attract a woman beyond a fuck who is worth anything and he needs to run trash like this because he has no marketable skills so yapping is what his life comes down to.
lmao bro has been on 1000 first dates. I'm 28 and have never been on 1.
Forreal?
Why have u never been on one?
He's just exaggerating for the title. I'm sure he's been on plenty
@@Ban00 No, I'm serious.
I haven’t either although I could have plenty of times. Women mostly only wanted me for sex though . Not really for dating . Might sound crazy but I kinda wish it was the other way around .
Most important one is to be good looking dude and tall
You just had to bring that up.
Auston is like 5’9 stop with the height cope
I'm 6ft3. Definitely not a problem boss lady
@@HM2FLYAustin is 5ft 10
@@jeffbro1021 even then that’s not really tall, slightly above average 🤷♂️ and most guys add atleast an inch so if he says he 5’10 chances are he 5’9 💀 5’10 looks a lot cooler cause the extra digit 💀
Lesson 3 is very true. Everything that happens is all up to you.
longer hair + those sunglasses make you glow down bro
nope
No, stop the cap
I tbought buisness meetings meant ...smash
Interchangeable
When you're Austin, business meeting means both date and smash lol
@@trxndesign3331 noted ...👌💪
@@AustinDunhamVlogsyo Austin! Can you give us like a one year update on your fat graft/subscicion on your acne scars please. I believe you had just got the procedure done when you first mentioned it. This would definitely help out a lot of dudes w/ acne scars!
Austin never fails to help us
😂😂 if you need this guy it’s a problem
@@tannerboy34 if you need a doctor then there's a problem, but thats what the doctor is for. If they have a problem then why not fix it?
@@tannerboy34why would you say that?
Hes a hater. Nothing wrong with seeking help. When needed. Otherwise you ended up in the same situation.@YoungKing50
Actually he never helps to fail us
He belongs to the streets.
Bro has spent more money on first dates than I have on my car
😂
@@TheMudsnake and I was right: loser
Point one is true, while i'm not the most attractive guy women on the first date mostly gave me compliments how they feel save and comfortable around me. The bar is set really low out there, dunno what you guys are doing.
If you date a lot, that means you're bad at relationships because you can't hold one long enough 😂
That’s not true
@@Yut-vs7zgI mean it is
great video. learned alot and i experience some of these things, keep up the content. Thank you
Chase excellence and purpose. Stop wasting ur time on women and dating. When ur winning super bowls they will show up!
Here the kid in here getting knowledge an still working on self improvement..nah let no gyal styles man..
Those shades fam, sheesh! 🔥
Meh they’re ok.
Very solid advice
Imagine asking the same question a thousand times. After the first 15 dates u couldn’t find a girl dog?
he just doesn't want to settle. he looks cool but is jaded as fuck about the reality of human nature.
How the hell has he been on 1000 dates and never been married? Does he just ghost these women after the first date lol?
marriage is the last thing you wanna do in the west
worlds quite small surely he must pass a few in the street bruh
Bringing the leftovers of a dinner date to you is wild
Real Zunigas don’t go on first dates
nah its a good idea to meet them away from ur place with how crazy some of these women be. i used to be down w the straight to the crib game but not anymore
@@dna8269what happened if you don’t mind saying haha
Wrong video
We want Jose Zuniga and Austin collab
Really nice and honest video. Not gonna lie, I am impressed!
Thanks for putting in the work so i don’t have to
The title is clickbait. Hes probably been on between 70 to a 100 in actuality. Does he know what hes talking about for online dating and looksmaxxing? Probsbly. Does he have the skills and knowledge of an average cold approacher? Absolutely not
I’d imagine way more than 70-100 . I’ve been on 10 this year and I spent 6 months with two girls
@Yut-vs7zg Also he has like millions of followers on ig so hundreds of girl cud ask him plus other way around
@9:37 very true they send location when they at my crib sometimes I think they may be tryna set me up low key
No you didn't. But I went on around 100 and I can tell it gets really old. You will eventually talk about the same stuff, even if you're an interesting person and the girl is also interesting.
I went on a first date recently and I thought it went ok because she texted me after asking if I got home safe. Normally when I encountered that it meant she wants to see you again. This instance she went low interest after which was surprising
Yea that means nothing
I disagree on this one. I’m not going to ask a guy I like whether he came back safe, I’m not his mother. It does not show interest, rather pity.
@@Discovering_world-jj1yj Good thing no one listens to what you say
@@Discovering_world-jj1yj Could you explain more about this?
This guys fan base is majority high schoolers and unemployed men in their 20-30s 😂
Bro knew what he was doing with that thumbnail 💀
Jose zuniga and Austin collab needed
That's too many bro you can find your wife within 10 dates. Im guessing you did that in hopes of reaching a really high bodycount, which is lame anyway.
Almost as lame as wanting a wife
We bout the business.💦
Time is too precious to waste it on 1000 dates
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austin is probably the only dude i listen to when it comes to dating, , theres a lot of people out there saying stuff but this dude just knows what hes talking about
1000? Bro must be the problem lmaoooooo
6’7 handsome guy here, still im not dating that much. Focus on yourself guys and they will come to you
That's like Shaq giving dunking advice to average men.
Lol no they wont. Its 2024
Do you expect the woman to be the leader and come to you or the other way around
Don't know if I agree on the follow up. If she's really interested, she's going to follow up with you or she'll show up. If she doesn't, it sucks, but it's an amazing filter. You also have her wondering about you before the date happens.
Austin looking stunnin
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1K first dates supposed to be a clickbait title? lol if you’re still single and never married after that many dates then something is wrong with you😂
Well he did say in one of his shorts that he doesn't want to get married.
Austin has stated before he is not getting married
Who said he want's to get married?
marriage is the last thing you wanna do in the west
I can smell jealousy from another side of earth
If you don’t hookup on the first date she doesn’t like u that much
It depends.
1000 first dates. Lets say you took every woman to two for $30. Thats over 30k in dates. Wow thats too many dates.
A waste of money if you asked me.
Now if those dates were $100 to $200 each a total waste of money is an understatement.
Bruh if you watch him you know he always does low cost first dates
@@trxndesign3331low cost still equals at minimum 10 dollars. 10 dollars on average with 1000 first dates and yea u know
Never thought about it from that perspective
@@trxndesign3331 low cost even it's $10 a date..times that by 1000....that's 10k
even If he went to coffee dates 1000-1200$ still not worth it I could buy a whole collection of fragrance with all that money lol
The confirm before noon tip was probably the best bit about this video. People are so flaky these days. Good advice. 1000 dates though.....man. That sounds tiring. lol
1,000 first dates? boy stop lying !
3, 4 and 5 are absolute facts
No disrespect but, what man has time for 1,000 dates? Certainly not a man about his business 🤷🏽♂️
it's part of his business 😂
@@archiecane1617 50 dates would have sufficed. Human beings aren’t that interesting.
Normally, I would agree with you, but as a dating coach, going out with girls is part of his business. He makes videos about it and gets paid well for it. For the normal guy though, going on multiple dates is going to hold you back.
He said in 2020-2021 he went on dates everyday, it aint that hard when you're AD haha
He's talking over like the last few yrs. Hell that's like 2 a wk for 10yrs. It's possible. And especially the last few yrs since he's stepped into the dating coach role.
As a older gentleman I like your content. But why date and spend money on a first date? I only went out to eat if she was a regular with potential.
Outside of that a coffee house, "starbucks", then back to her place.
The more you date the more you got picky 😂
Goes both ways
New haircut makes you look like a freshie dawg.. old haircut was way cleaner
business meetings lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Phenomenal video dude
Cool cheers bro. 🍺
Y'all be complaining about those are so many dates, focus on the message lol 😏😂
By lesson 2, think you're mixing up nervousness and fear / safety hahaha
1000?! Bro went on 300 dates and said, you know what? I’m going to go on 700 more dates
Which animal is more scared of you than you are of it? 😭 they’ll tear you up immediately
He's got a point . There's a lot of animals who are scared when they see a human being. That's why they start to become very agressive and defensive.
Thanks for putting this together man. I appreciate the work and info. @9:30 Interesting take. I never personally do this. In my experience, once I set a date and time, I show up. I did get stood up about 10% of the time but I always have things to do as a backup. In fact one of my best nights ever was a 7pm no show that lead to me finding a new lady that night by 9pm. The few times I did check in (and this is why I stopped doing this) I got wishy washy replies or no replies at all. Generally speaking; the less you communicate after setting the date (ideally zero communication) the better. Look guys: your time is valuable. Once you set a date and time with anybody, you show up. If they don’t, it tells you everything about them.
early on this one love ur videos
If you spent $100 on each date that is $100k. If u spent like 2 hours that is 2000 hours and a you went on 2 dates a day that is 500 days
1000 is crazy bro
Austin is just trying to be in a category that he’s not. Bros Ego is crazy
How ?
This guy is a scientist
Nearly every date I went on women fully paid for it. When youre dripping with sex appeal, they want it.
Thanks for this video.
Good stuff
He just started with calisthics
80% guys dont get a date per year ...
how many second date in all of that, that seem crazy to think there was 1k date and no second date lol
Whoo! He spent like 100k on dates. I hope he got his moneys worth.
Where did you buy your glasses ?
Someones future husband
Didn’t know Alfie from emily in paris was a real skirt chaser! 🤣Bro, just max your attractiveness
Now you know who gets all the dates ;)
Women be pulling that bring a friend trick for a long time they bring their friend to use her for an escape method remember when tpain got chopped and screwed and the girl said i can't leave my friend women do that to prevent going back home with you
Good advice
step 1: have money
step 2:.............
Even tho I levelled up and get dates/women, even sex and short-term stuff. Usually doesn't last long tho. Just had a woman obsessed with me, and she did a u-turn after 2-3 months.
🐐
Nice glasses
Honestly, for a guy who's done "1000" first dates. Which I call bullshit on, unless you consider a cold approach a date. These aren't insightful lessons. You can learn these after 15-20 first dates.
What about dealing with objections to bringing her to your place? Objections to getting physical (touching, kissing, sex)? Setting a sexual frame? Making her feel non judged about sex? What happens if she pins you in the boyfriend box from the get-go, how do you set more a fuckboy frame? Things like that are what most guys, whether they're aware of it or not, need to really deal with.
Wouldn't listen to this "coach"
Yo Austin how you doing I’m thinking about doing sum photo shoots but how do u plan the clothes budget tho I saw ur videos but can you make a video on that
No guy is saying that Austin 😂
Good tips
Frankly I’d rather have a nice cup of tea