Why Women Will Go Back to an Ex
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When the future doesn't look too bright or promising most people will turn back to their past - SAD REALITY
Truth.
Familiarity has kept a lot of dead relationships on life support.
Rom said that often when a woman leaves a good man, the man ends up with a better looking woman. I have found this to be true on infidelity forums. A wife cheats, the husband is devastated, he tries to reconcile, she eventually leaves, they get a divorce, then often the man ends up with a younger, more attractive, more loving woman.
I'm seeing this with men I know right now. Men always upgrade.
I've seen it as well. Little do these women know that we are the commodities, the prize; not them. Guys who have their sh!t together, who have kept their noses clean, who are working or own a profitable business, own a working car, and have their own place who are still willing to even spend a second of their time around women are a prized commodity in today's times. A lot of guys are checking out and resorting to their video games, their careers, and Android boxes/Fire sticks instead of dating chicks in hopes of getting some 6+ months later. Marisol, Becky, Mae Ling, and Emma know this, which explains why so many of them are aggressively going after black men who are in this position. Meanwhile, the sistas have been told for decades that a glut of high post men will be there after they're done riding the c0ck carousel are totally unprepared. Even after a divorce or three, they still have no answer when their grand scheme goes sideways...
my wife left me she said she is done with me she doesn't feel happy with me anymore but I love her we met each other in high school she is my high school sweetheart we got married and had a child together back in high school she dated guys that cheated and used her I'm the only one who didn't cheat or used her That's how much I love her I never cheated on her no even once I'm loyal good honest guy . one of her ex bf made her to Ditch school and she got in trouble really bad with the principle and family her ex didn't give a f if she got in trouble or not I never did that to her all her ex bfs always walk and talk to other girls in front of her face I never did that because I wanted to show her my love for her is true love I know she will met and go out with cheaters or worse and I also know she is talking to her cheating fuck boy ex or other cheaters I really hope she regrets leaving me a true love loyal, honest guy right now I'm focusing on my self I'm trying to open a business and I'm also studying politics
There is always a younger more beautiful woman out there.
Some women don't think that.
Rom Wills exactly many of them think age won't affect the options they have.
You ain't lyin!!! lol
Samuel A Im a mid age Viet Nam Veteran &I speak other languages
A lot of times once a women realize what she had she has already let herself go and now is looking like a outside linebacker while her ex is still attracting nice younger women.
Truth. Lol
BOOM!!!
charles murry exactly
you mean she's looking like Vince Wilfork.
That how it goes.
That's why a man must cut off ALL contact. Block #, block social media, no contact with her friends/family. I've talked to very attractive Hispanic women (who are constantly the most feminine women and honest in my experience) about that. And EVERYONE of them agreed!
Respect yourselves and understand once the cards are shown. That's it... one life... one chance! Not bitter, it's simply pragmatic.
Another great vid Rom! You're spoiling us!
salchih thank you u hit nail on head once cars are shown get out lol
salchih I did the same with my ex wife some family and friends. I deleted all previous social media moved and changed my phone number, best move of my life.
Well said Bro. Salchih.
Like the song say it ain't nothing to cut that bitch off lol
Exactly.
Move on. You dumped her or him for a reason. Remain focus on your purpose. They all regret it.
Alot of this is true even when it's the man who leaves. I've been the one who walked away from pretty much all my exes (once they started treating me like crap) and they all insist on hitting me up even when they got a new dude and even years after the fact. My most recent ex is wit a dude way better looking than me and even two years after I left she damn near still throwing herself at me. But yet she look happy as fuck wit this dude on social media...women are a trip.
Saw a clip from a show The Doctors where a black female therapist said out of her female patients who confessed to cheating, 70 percent of the time it was wit an ex. She claims women mostly cheat wit a man they knew before their current boyfriend (an ex, a so called male "friend" or a man they know professionally/from work). Dudes worry about some new handsome stranger getting wit their girl but according to this therapist the vast majority of the time it's gonna be a dude she knew before you, and many of the times its an ex boyfriend she never got out of her system
Everything you said is true.
Real facts G, you know the game.
A lot of women settle for a certain type of man because mentally the type of man she needs is to challenging.. Like for instance, the notion of exercising.. If I pushed you to eat healthier, drink more water, clean up your diet mentally, and go to gym or track.. Depending on the value you see in yourself, you would either 1: Appreciate the fact I see your potential and use that as an incentive to do something for yourself or 2: Cast responsibility on me because you're only benefitting yourself because I asked you to.. On the flip side, another man could see you just the way you are and tell you that your perfectly fine and you accept it because you didn't want to put in the work in the first place.. Relating to the video.. A lot women just go back to whatever they're comfortable with and then rationalize their decisions when they become insecure about the reasons they left in the first place..
Well said.
Rom Wills I'm going through this vid in my day to say life as we speak. The thing is: if a woman thinks the guy is too far off of her dream/ideal (even if their competencies match) she's gonna keep things on fallow ground until she's absolutely sure there isn't a better man waiting for her. I'd imagine that causes resentment on her part, that you (I) represent a ceiling in her life. Women are so confounding I tell ya...
Thomas Goode that's exactly how the Game goes. Their assumed masculinized mindset tells them, "be the boss". So any constructive criticism to them is nit picking. Plus a culture of insecurity. Great breakdown Brotha.
Great explanation. In my case she left me and got with a bum that doesn't want anything out of life except a blunt then there's me the ex the guy that always pushed her to do more and to become greater and came up with all the clever ideas but I'm the ex that she's trying to get back to. Like uncle Rom said I think she's grown up now and sees what it is out in the real world and want me back now. Just Sad bad parenting and influences
Women always go back to the ex cause they view men as an investment, if they have spent more than a year with you they don't want to lose the time and effort in trying to save or change you. So if a woman you recently met tells you I'm recently single or separated run away cause if the ex wants her back or she wants him back you are going to be the looser in this equation. Even if the guy is a total absolute looser she will go back to him cause of the time invested.
I really hope my wife comes back my wife separated with me we've been together more than 2 years we known each other almost 6 years since high school . she told me she is done with me she doesn't feel happy with me anymore but I love her so much I never cheated on her I'm loyal to my wife but it's really sad she doesn't see it how rich my love is for her I know she will met and go out with cheaters or worse she will regret it leaving me leaving a true love loyalty honest good guy
@@theshield1613 she'll come back eventually once she realizes that the cock carousel offers nothing she'll ring you up they always do don't take her back you are worth more than that God bless brother.
I really hope she realize that I'm the right guy for her I never cheated on her I'm loyal to my wife but it's really sad she doesn't see it how rich my love is for her I really hope she does come back do you think she will regret leaving me leaving a true love loyal honest good guy me Thank you God bless you too brother
@@theshield1613 Hey man, whatever happened to you both? If you don't mind sharing
You actually did it! Thanks uncle Rom! Funny thing is, she sent me a Facebook friend request, apology email and even called me at 6am WHILE STILL WITH THE OTHER DUDE. I'm running away far as I can
all this 2 years later too
It's a significant issue as you can see from the comments.
I heard a girl once say some women go back to their ex because they're trying to keep their body count down
Many women do go back.
I heard this too.
@@RomWills So true.
This is a facts.
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I was with an ex who was entitled and grandiose at times I think she had BPD. I made her look better than she was and she didn't get it until when we were out women would openly flirt with me in front of her which I never encouraged. One evening one dude asked her how she got to be with me. The look on her face was priceless. Very sobering! I discarded her in the end.
I see it happen a lot they go out and explore and find out the grass on the other side is not green its actually brown and damn near dirt then they want to put some miracle grow on it to get it back then its to late the man done turned the grass into cement
Pretty much what happens.
DEEP
That is why I always say: " I don't do refunds". Rom combine this video and the "pretty broad can't find a boyfriend" and you have a recipe for disaster OR revenge. These 2 vids relates to my "pretty broad" ex, she is keeping up on my progress. She even told my cousin that she was a bitch to me, when we were together. After she dumper me, man was I relieved. So actually she threw salt in her own game, because I was upgrading her and now other broads are checking for me. Revenge is hella sweet.
Success is indeed the best revenge.
ive noticed every time I'm talking to a new woman and I drop her because she's giving me 'the hard time' instead of 'the good stuff' literally like a couple days later they either sleep with their ex or get back with their ex like its some safety net for them
well not every time but its frequent. happened with one early this month
Many women have a safety net.
You exposed a truth hidden behind pain and grief. Great job
Thank you.
جواد احمد خان that is why has a black man it's good to know other languages and cultures
👏👏👏👏👏 so true bro! had ex who use to call mutual friends and try to keep tabs would come up to my old job trying to link up for lunch dinner. The same ex prior to my mothers passing told her im sorry I want him back this video brought back memories and even the ex that think your going to do bad without them but in actuality you do so much better in your life.
Many want you to do bad because it justifies their decision.
My last girl (ex) did the same thing. I still have the text I didn't answer of her trying to contact me 2- 3 months after the brake up. I feel it's simping behaviour to get back with an ex because she been sucking and fucking other men and trying to come back. Naw this can't gwan. Blessed video guy
You doing the right thing.
Its not worth it bro. There's more women worth your time. They call it the PAST for a reason.
this video is the truth always spitting jewels uncle rom! I've had that situation when my ex a while back cheated on me and i left her because of all she did...when she started seeing the types of women i dealt with after her which all looked better than her and were in better shape she always had something to say about them..she even asked me one time..oh so you want to date women prettier than me now? smh!
She kept asking to get back with me over the years i kept telling her to go to hell literally but when she found out i got engaged she called me crying and said we should get our family back together i said we never had a family..we do have a son together so i have to keep reasonable contact...lmao!
so MUCH truth!
Many women really need counseling on choosing a mate.
Rom Wills totally agree
Good job Rob!
All this you speak of is so true in my 40 years of life experience. As women get more mature their sexual market value is declining while their criteria for what they want in a man becomes more demanding. It is interesting to see. Thanks for sharing.
As always, love choppin' it up with the brethren. Gonna head a slightly different direction and go "Red Pill" first. We have to start with Briffault's Law- the quick version is her loyalty is connected to stuff(money, house, good sex, etc.) and if she think there's a better deal out there she's gone. One of the more common scenarios is one of the last ones Mr. Rom mentioned. The women simply thinks she can do better and is "entitled" to better-she may or may not already have a man in waiting. Many times on the way out the door she'll say "I have NEEDs...and I'll find them elsewhere etc". Fair enough. Well the woman is often a "6.5" and after a few kids and 45 lbs or more wt. gain she's a solid "5". Now she doesn't realize this because she has a man that treats her like a "9" and she has a chorus of "girlfriends" in her ear telling her the same-many of them don't have a decent man. So she decides to leave/divorce etc. only to find out what a 35-45 yo female "5" gets treated like. If the treatment was good you'd never hear from her again but the fact that she's standing in your face(the person whom she said she could do better than) tells you it didn't work out so well. We don't want to admit it but in addition to her being a "5" is the MGTOW/IBMOR/#goingghost effect. I belong to five groups on meetup.com and I can clearly say "The brothers have left the building..." the male scarcity is devastating to the "sistahood" And as the "Malik Smiley" cohort comes along it's sure to get even worse. Now the sista is at your doorway and "wants to talk"...You really have only two solid options 1. Politely, close the door and tell her to "Take Care" 2. Possibly invite her to be part of the "stable" with upgraded version of her already on board- if you even want to be bothered(shrugging shoulders). What you CANNOT do is invite her back-normal status as if nothing ever happened. In the "Red Pill" world this is one of the ultimate "shi*t tests"...If you do this with a woman(especially Black) she will have ZERO respect for you and most likely will leave or cheat again...This is not a very fun task but if you remove the consequences of said actions- nobody wins. Wishing Peace, Clarity And Blessings To All
*Standing Ovation* This is the script down to the last detail.
I see someone other than me have studied Briffault's Law; well done. If she's not willing to take on the role of a backup or a jumpoff, she should have no place in your life after leaving you high and dry. She doesn't get another shot at the belt...
This man here is very intellectual and very bold for telling the truth
Don't miss a good thing until its gone.
PREACH!
You're totally correct and proper!
ALSO, many of them once they get older and mature and see through the foolishness of listening to other foolish, immature females...
That's what is going on with me, but I left her cause she is foolish as hell and I already see what's going to happen, and I'm already upgrading!
PEACE!
so amazing listening to this video the same exact thing happened to me...... she left me for another guy I guess meanwhile I got better. and she wants to come back a couple of years later sometimes you feel like you the only one going through the bullshit LOL
That's why I talk about these things. Men need to know that it's not just them.
another classic,
i dnt care about clothes or cars.(i look basic-cool) its been interesting to see/ learn how much imagery means in the begining to attach woman. ive learned a lot Uncle Rom
Seen.
My baby mom left me in 2014 for another guy even kick me out and move him in that shit really hurt me and broke me,I got with another women that I knew already she road that wave me,then my baby mom can back and I went back then she did it again so I went back to my women and now in 2017 my baby wants me back smh that womb thing they follow only back fires on them
It's crazy. Many women think with their wombs.
You are so right brother Rom I was married for six years with my ex it's been 2 and half years and couple weeks ago I get a text from saying I quote I really miss you over these holidays I hope all is well, I said yes God bless you I hope all is well with you and your family be blessed bye bye I'm not going back period I divorced her and that is what it is you know your stuff bro! peace!
These type always want options. If I can't be her only option vice versa then it's a rap.
I can verify this all is true this just recently happened to me. An ex of 20 years recently ranged me up😂
This was another great video. I've commented on a few of your videos. Off-the-top of my head I can think of at least 3 videos that fit my current situation. I rewinded certain parts of this video and listened again...like u knew my exact situation.
It happens so much.
Great video my brother. It speaks to me so profoundly. My ex keeps tabs on me on social media while she is in the Midwest & plans to return to the Pacific Northwest in a couple of years.
Peaceful men vs dramatic women
Hummm....ill just say two words to this review topic
"LESSON LEARNED!"(old skool & select men know) lmao....love your reviews bro
thank you im in the getting my self back together stage but whats funny my wife let me go but contacts me just "enough" on stupid stuff dont know why
Women really don't let go that easily.
im going to mess with you on the pay membership today
I think about the song “I ran a good man away.”
What about the situation when your woman's a six or seven will you give her so many compliments make her feel so good about herself she starts feeling like an eight or nine and then she thinks she can do better and leaves.
I been there before Rom & she had to learn the Hard-Way great video so real 👋 👣 ..
Many women learn the hard way.
An ex is therefore a reason. It's over. Funny when females go back too somebody that didn't understand them in the first place. With me it's simple an ex in any way of form is in the past. It's different if a female goes for a men where she never was intimate with that's different but that's an other story. Females are so funny they will goo back to a guy that was bad in bed because they don't wanna be alone. It's sad.
It's their nature.
She's Lonely.
Preach field master
Thanks Master Teacher.
appreciate you two..learned alot already!!
What's up Big Rom Why did I date and marry an older woman, Thinking on a mature level of a younger man, That didn't work so now it's time to go to my level to enjoy the young fine ladys that enjoys the mature man for how I am When I come across any of my ex's while I'm out they say what are you doing with that young lady I'll look at my fine Gail and she would say I'm not rebellious and I wants a man to lead the way to secces and happiness, I'll say goodbye and enjoy. If the guy's leave the old ex's alone the new fine young lady's will come it's like up dating your wardrobe for modern fashion let's keep up gentleman.
Great advice.
Sounds like some ones been listening to some old Shirley Murdock albums. Lol
Yep.
See it as a blessing as soon as she leaves it is better for you. karma is a bitch
Real talk.
@@RomWills Damn thank you so much Unk three yrs ago I'm so blessed I Learned a lot from your teaching and actually relocated to Maryland I'm in Columbia MD, I have moving busniess now..
My new video senses were tingling.
Yep.
right on point. this happen to me...
Seen.
Funny thing is this actually goes both ways. men r known for this kind of weak minded behavior as well. and to ALL the men who think getting a YOUNGER chick is better then tell that to my 50 year old ex who is losing EVERYTHING he has worked for messing with a 20 year old. I feel sorry for u brothers out here but pay ATTENTION to the warning signs of confusion that a woman gives off. 9 times out of 10 u ALREADY knew better
Seen.
Chevaun you're not really sorry for him- you just want to come in a talk of guys space and have some lip service
Hahaha you see this more than men want to admit
Rom u are 10000000 percent correct all u saying u right I'm going through all that now...I fuck with U rom forreal
Thank you.
I just went to your website a saw some really good material there..I have audible so I can listen while I work are your products on there sir
Hey Rom, great video I was thinking about this this week.
Common issue.
Jermaine Fucking Dupri😂😂😂😂 #SoSoDef
Thanks for the subject uncle Rom, I appreciate
Brotha I love to want you talking about, listen to this brotha.
6:05 🎯
Powerful Video
What number do you want me to play on the organ uncle Rom?
LOL!
What about if you broke up with her,do you still think the same?
Naw you got more power then.
Real shit
GREAT CONTENT
5:05 it aint obvious but thas why I showed , force translation strength🎯 cuz yeah a chick will do something pretty darn stupid tbh. So I never Forced..... yet...... put A Broad in the future and brought her back. like ya actions LITTLE GIRL have repercussions. U don’t get treated same “monkey branchin’” back. So a chick imprint hecka chasing her per se
hecka kind spoil her etc. like pursues her heavy as heck!! And DELIVERS
it’s like at least be sure u wanna “lose that”
I said, not totally certain about it
but been with a number of females in life so just off the top of my head
at the time the only one who’s only been with me and only me
it’s more a respect and bond thing
broad woulda way different decisions
but to the point of
nobody gonna chase a chick the way a certain dude will
and it’s her imprint
and hecka Sexual Chemistry
so u spoil a chick too much
u’ll be all right actually
u just gotta guide her still
Cuz looking back I see why she stayed faithful
Had to sub for this
good morning that is a very true statement that happened to me love your content
Thank you.
Great video
Thank you.
Uncle rom could the same be said when a man leaves that good woman /wifey material? Would appreciate a video like this for the women channel aswell
I'll think of something.
Great message...
Thank you.
Uncle rom I can use some advice right now
Hit me up privately, www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html.
Classic
Thank you.
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A1 game rom