Again, Rom, you hit the nail on the head. One toxic woman, I was involved with felt I was extremely handsome, she would stare at my crouch area and would get the tingles and expressed it to me. At first, my ego had hit the ceiling and I was feeling like king of the world. Once I started becoming too attached and my inner beta started to show, "SHE WAS OUTTA THERE!" She changed like the wind, started looking for my replacement. Once she found him and started dating him behind my back she played the " I NEED SPACE TO FIND MYSELF" statement. She tried to string me along, sending breadcrumb messages just to say hello, and holiday and birthday texts. She claimed to want a nice loving guy but her actions showed differently. She told so many lies I don't think I ever truly knew her. The funny thing is that I always felt there was something wrong with her but didn't listen to that inner voice. Thanks, Rom.
Those guys are mental. It's not a toxic woman best interest to act stupid around them. It's funny. Women always underestimate the guy that is quiet. It is what it is.
I tend to be more like the last one. When they mouth off, I don't waste time bickering with them. If they don't come correct, they are not even there, to me.
Master Jedi I don't get into the arguing thing either. I'd rather ignore them or ask them to please leave me alone with their crap. I've always had a short temper. Losing my cool is something that they really don't want me to do. I'm the kind of guy that knows myself, so I'd rather not end up in jail for letting my temper take over.
Ignoring them is like kryptonite to Superman. I'm not too much with putting hands on em unless they're a threat to my personal safety. I haven't had to slap-a-bitch in 18 years 4 months 8 days 11 hrs. n 24 min. n still counting...lol.
Good video again brotha Rom. In my experience with toxic women I've learned to be indifferent with them. It throws them off because they want you to go off on them to prove that you are not as calm as people think you are.
Currently at 25 years old, I feel like all women age 18-23 are toxic.......They're very immature at the very least. I identify with the third type of dude, and honestly I can't put up with the silly games they play and the attention whoring. Hopefully, the dating pool gets better as I get older.
+Valiant Gent Oh it ain't just the 18-23 age bracket bruh. Lol. Hell you can go all the way up to the 18-34 age bracket. Most women these days don't start acting right till they hit 40 and up unfortunately. Smh.
Rom Wills They tell me the same thing big bro!! I got piercing eyes and it makes them think before they hit me with the bs. The eyes don't lie. They still play games, but I'm learning that's it's because they ain't shit and think life is a battle of the sexes.
True game! Not only will they not get greasy with a debo type, they won't even call the law when he beats that ass...an average guy isn't so lucky though.
The best part of your content is the stories you tell about different experiences you had or know of.thats some real blkman shit bro thanks for sharing.
very good point that's probably why when I was in school they was scared to come to me but they always asked my friends about me lol I never took there bs
Rom, this is so true - maybe you can do a talk on this to dig deeper. I’m an old-school-mindset serious African brother in my thirties but have experienced “turning” several of these toxic fem girls. They cuddle up and turn into little girls around me - even if older. I haven’t gone out of my way to do anything special, but they say my energy feels like being around their father - and they treat me as such - including coming to me for their life decisions. One of my girls right now was the same - her friends keep wanting to meet and talk to me - asking how I converted their girl from a man-bashing machine into a submissive puppy. I don’t have any secrets, but just being myself. In my experience , eventually majority of these girls want to play Dom / submissive deep down - and I give them that - I think it’s all about the masculine energy they are looking for to submit to. With the caveat to brothers: it’s not all rosy - it’s a very demanding life - and one needs to be solid mentally.
Rom Wills you right about toxic black women switching up for the right dude. I remember back in the early 2000s when I was in high school there was this one sista that kinda had that toxic vibe you discussed. Real bad attitude and for some reason I was the one she seemed to pick on the most? Smh. I get along with most people I encounter, but there are a few who would fuck with me just because and she was one of them. Anyway fast forward to the year 2011 this is when I used to have Facebook, and I came across this same toxic sista with the bad attitude I went to high school with. She was actually smiling in her pictures AND apologized to ME and anybody else she offended with her toxicity back in the day. She's married with children now. Lol. So I guess she met that one guy who made her get rid of that bad attitude and toxic behavior?
"Thank God we have prisons type of dude.", that's a good one Mr. Wills. That one made me fall out, it got strangers looking at me like I'm crazy and I don't care. Thanks for the laugh, I needed it.
Rom Wills I agree with you, I have met men and women who belong to that group. I just ment that I have not heard it put quite that way before. Usually, people say, "So and so need to be locked up", but to thank God, it adds something or maybe it's better to say the mental image it creates is slightly different. It has to do with the way we as black men use language, and what makes us great teacher, story tellers, and superior comedians.
Interesting perspective, especially the last type of Men whom I can relate with. Indeed, although I have been in the States for 15 years, I was raised in a very African fashion and I am very calm, somewhat proud, and I keep to myself for the most. I have realized that American women in general don't fuck with me, merely because of the way I carry myself. My girl is black American, and I had to make a woman out of her in the beginning. She was very hard headed and difficult but I am the man in the relationship and no woman will take my money or talk to me any kind of way. That is just out of question! Even her family was surprised by the change in her behavior and attitude I must reckon. Like I stated, she was somewhat the " stereotypical Black American girl" when we met, but now her attitude has adjusted to a great extent. I am fairly strict, demanding with myself and others, but loyal and respectful. I am still redpilled though, it is a lot of work dealing with women in general and it can be draining. American women don't really know how to deal with me since I do not flirt, play games, or pay them compliments for no reasons. I believe respect is the cornerstone of any interactions, males or females regardless. Too many women take men for granted and talk to them any kind of way. The bottom line is that a Man ought to carry himself in a Manly fashion. Maybe that is what feminist are crying out for at the end.
I think it's a matter of establishing physical dominance on such women. I mean you have create an intimidation factor to show such toxic women that there is a potential for violence if they push you too far.
any women is easy because i dealt with toxic women all my life because they my family lmfaoooooo... but on the real the unpredictable shit will fuck them up. true story.
U HIT IT AGAIN! that last type is me. that toxic chick( I comeent on the last video) i was dealing with hated and was trying to leave me that i was serious minded me being raised by my father who was a marine in vietnam. i liked the girl but she avoid me like a bullet because of that challenge she got and found another dude lol
I never really thought about it, but that's all right. The only type I would add would be a truly manipulative User ( I guess that's close to the PLAYER type ). Someone who can tap into her primal need for attention and validation. Someone who can play on her insecurities to keep her in line. But at the same time knows how to get her addicted to Him sexually.This type is extremely intuitive and domineering at the same time, is always playing the angles. That shit gets tiring after awhile, I personally choose not to go that route. I just talked a whole lot of sh*t, I know. In a nutshell, these negative broken harpies are dysfunctional, but they want what all other women want to a certain extent, they are just so malformed that they can't keep a Positive Man. But you can get one to behave for a while if you can: 1. Find some sort of Emotional or other leverage point that gives you the upper hand at all times (Blackmail) 2. Dominate her Psychologically and Emotionally with ruthless and sometimes cruel verbal skills. 3. Absolutely Dominate her in a Sexual Manner ( and usually not in a healthy way, they have Daddy issues ). 4. Convince her (subconsciously) that you will give her pretty babies and make her the envy of other harpies with your very presence, as long as she toes the line.... ;) Basically be a good Vampyre. Great Video.
2:58 facts. Girls love thee dudes and they keep them around for "dumb muscle". I knew dudes who would mess with a girl who has dumb muscle and she basically would forcefully finesse them cause they knew if he heard anything dude would break down a house
remember beloved, that "midnight" brother is a direct descendant of the Original Man. the father of science, mathematics, law, religion medicine, engineering and all other disciplines of the world. none before him and none will be after him. *Spirit of Khalid Muhammad leaves.* how'd I get here?
and i well put something more on your topic , i think women they don't play with any one that who actually look like a drug dealer and the man who have a huge beard and the one how have a big muscle what do you think on what i said rom ?
Joe Mama that is from the movie Friday, by ice cube 1995 the character in the picture is Debo a guy in the neighborhood that ride around rubing everybody just by threating to beat them up. I remember all black kids in school about this movie
So there is actually a type of man that a toxic woman likes? I didn't think that was possible. 🤔 I always took any attraction and advances from these kinda women as somewhat of a novelty or some kinda sick joke.
1. D'BO
2. Pretty Niggas
3. Men who take no mess.
Pretty much.
Again, Rom, you hit the nail on the head. One toxic woman, I was involved with felt I was extremely handsome, she would stare at my crouch area and would get the tingles and expressed it to me. At first, my ego had hit the ceiling and I was feeling like king of the world.
Once I started becoming too attached and my inner beta started to show, "SHE WAS OUTTA THERE!" She changed like the wind, started looking for my replacement. Once she found him and started dating him behind my back she played the " I NEED SPACE TO FIND MYSELF" statement. She tried to string me along, sending breadcrumb messages just to say hello, and holiday and birthday texts.
She claimed to want a nice loving guy but her actions showed differently. She told so many lies I don't think I ever truly knew her. The funny thing is that I always felt there was something wrong with her but didn't listen to that inner voice.
Thanks, Rom.
Yeah that inner always tells us but the booty in front of us makes us deaf.
Same here, glad you got out of that one.
@@RomWills It's not always the booty that calls you to her.
Sometimes that have a sad story that sucks you in.
@@RomWills FACTSSSS
Those guys are mental. It's not a toxic woman best interest to act stupid around them. It's funny. Women always underestimate the guy that is quiet. It is what it is.
They can't read a quiet guy.
Never.
You're right
Thanks.
Lol, I’m quiet... shiiit kinda strokes my ego.
I stay as far away from toxic women as I can.
Good move.
Same here brother.
I tend to be more like the last one. When they mouth off, I don't waste time bickering with them. If they don't come correct, they are not even there, to me.
They hate when you don't engage them.
Rom Wills Yup.
women hate it and respect it
Master Jedi I don't get into the arguing thing either.
I'd rather ignore them or ask them to please leave me alone with their crap.
I've always had a short temper.
Losing my cool is something that they really don't want me to do.
I'm the kind of guy that knows myself, so I'd rather not end up in jail for letting my temper take over.
i do a lot of business with brother's from senegal. i find them easy to work with and true hustlers. lot's of integrity.
Senegalese brothas don't play when it comes to getting that money.
Ignoring them is like kryptonite to Superman. I'm not too much with putting hands on em unless they're a threat to my personal safety. I haven't had to slap-a-bitch in 18 years 4 months 8 days 11 hrs. n 24 min. n still counting...lol.
Very true. Ignoring them drives them crazy.
Supa 5th mmh this bitches are really outta pocket
That’s not going to end well, best to talk with a soft voice and isolate yourself
Good video again brotha Rom. In my experience with toxic women I've learned to be indifferent with them. It throws them off because they want you to go off on them to prove that you are not as calm as people think you are.
That's very true.
Ant James I had that experience so I know you on point with that one!
Yeah just had one of them!
You might be on to something
Currently at 25 years old, I feel like all women age 18-23 are toxic.......They're very immature at the very least. I identify with the third type of dude, and honestly I can't put up with the silly games they play and the attention whoring. Hopefully, the dating pool gets better as I get older.
George Jefferson said it right.
+Valiant Gent Oh it ain't just the 18-23 age bracket bruh. Lol. Hell you can go all the way up to the 18-34 age bracket. Most women these days don't start acting right till they hit 40 and up unfortunately. Smh.
Valiant Gent I'm the same dude I can't stand the silly games women play
I like this one. A big thing is the man's eyes. The eyes don't lie. I usually intimidate women just by looking them in the eye. It's crazy.
Women tell me I look like I'm looking through them.
Rom Wills They tell me the same thing big bro!! I got piercing eyes and it makes them think before they hit me with the bs. The eyes don't lie. They still play games, but I'm learning that's it's because they ain't shit and think life is a battle of the sexes.
@@digitalindustries6697 same
True game! Not only will they not get greasy with a debo type, they won't even call the law when he beats that ass...an average guy isn't so lucky though.
They know a real Goon ain't playing that.
falkonform1 facts lol
The best part of your content is the stories you tell about different experiences you had or know of.thats some real blkman shit bro thanks for sharing.
I don't like to talk theory.
I know another kind of man toxic women won't play with a man who's crazy and don't have to be a thug to be crazy
You're right about that.
I wasn't talking about niggas like them I meant a dude who's crazy and still have sense
why you say like that bra?
Real talk.
Truth
very good point that's probably why when I was in school they was scared to come to me but they always asked my friends about me lol I never took there bs
That's how they do.
Rom, this is so true - maybe you can do a talk on this to dig deeper. I’m an old-school-mindset serious African brother in my thirties but have experienced “turning” several of these toxic fem girls. They cuddle up and turn into little girls around me - even if older. I haven’t gone out of my way to do anything special, but they say my energy feels like being around their father - and they treat me as such - including coming to me for their life decisions. One of my girls right now was the same - her friends keep wanting to meet and talk to me - asking how I converted their girl from a man-bashing machine into a submissive puppy. I don’t have any secrets, but just being myself. In my experience , eventually majority of these girls want to play Dom / submissive deep down - and I give them that - I think it’s all about the masculine energy they are looking for to submit to. With the caveat to brothers: it’s not all rosy - it’s a very demanding life - and one needs to be solid mentally.
Well said.
toxic woman be hving that bomb azz p. lmao get u everytime
LMAO! That's the problem. They crazy but they got skills.
@Perverted Alchemist wow
Rom Wills you right about toxic black women switching up for the right dude. I remember back in the early 2000s when I was in high school there was this one sista that kinda had that toxic vibe you discussed. Real bad attitude and for some reason I was the one she seemed to pick on the most? Smh. I get along with most people I encounter, but there are a few who would fuck with me just because and she was one of them. Anyway fast forward to the year 2011 this is when I used to have Facebook, and I came across this same toxic sista with the bad attitude I went to high school with. She was actually smiling in her pictures AND apologized to ME and anybody else she offended with her toxicity back in the day. She's married with children now. Lol. So I guess she met that one guy who made her get rid of that bad attitude and toxic behavior?
It's a part of that whole select/non-select dynamic. Toxic women will act right for men they consider select.
"Thank God we have prisons type of dude.", that's a good one Mr. Wills. That one made me fall out, it got strangers looking at me like I'm crazy and I don't care. Thanks for the laugh, I needed it.
Everybody know there are some people that need to be away from people.
Rom Wills I agree with you, I have met men and women who belong to that group. I just ment that I have not heard it put quite that way before. Usually, people say, "So and so need to be locked up", but to thank God, it adds something or maybe it's better to say the mental image it creates is slightly different. It has to do with the way we as black men use language, and what makes us great teacher, story tellers, and superior comedians.
Interesting perspective, especially the last type of Men whom I can relate with. Indeed, although I have been in the States for 15 years, I was raised in a very African fashion and I am very calm, somewhat proud, and I keep to myself for the most. I have realized that American women in general don't fuck with me, merely because of the way I carry myself. My girl is black American, and I had to make a woman out of her in the beginning. She was very hard headed and difficult but I am the man in the relationship and no woman will take my money or talk to me any kind of way. That is just out of question!
Even her family was surprised by the change in her behavior and attitude I must reckon. Like I stated, she was somewhat the " stereotypical Black American girl" when we met, but now her attitude has adjusted to a great extent. I am fairly strict, demanding with myself and others, but loyal and respectful.
I am still redpilled though, it is a lot of work dealing with women in general and it can be draining.
American women don't really know how to deal with me since I do not flirt, play games, or pay them compliments for no reasons. I believe respect is the cornerstone of any interactions, males or females regardless. Too many women take men for granted and talk to them any kind of way. The bottom line is that a Man ought to carry himself in a Manly fashion. Maybe that is what feminist are crying out for at the end.
Keep doing what you're doing.
I think it's a matter of establishing physical dominance on such women. I mean you have create an intimidation factor to show such toxic women that there is a potential for violence if they push you too far.
Exactly. It's unfortunate it has to be that way but it is what it is.
MackenDeez Truth
Even with that route, it’s still a chance they may still test u and take it too far, you better off just aborting the whole mission
any women is easy because i dealt with toxic women all my life because they my family lmfaoooooo... but on the real the unpredictable shit will fuck them up. true story.
Yeah that's true.
U HIT IT AGAIN! that last type is me. that toxic chick( I comeent on the last video) i was dealing with hated and was trying to leave me that i was serious minded me being raised by my father who was a marine in vietnam. i liked the girl but she avoid me like a bullet because of that challenge she got and found another dude lol
That's how it goes. Let her be someone else's problem.
toxic women they are fizzling out tho uncle rom no one is paying them attention
That makes them more dangerous.
I never really thought about it, but that's all right. The only type I would add would be a truly manipulative User ( I guess that's close to the PLAYER type ). Someone who can tap into her primal need for attention and validation. Someone who can play on her insecurities to keep her in line. But at the same time knows how to get her addicted to Him sexually.This type is extremely intuitive and domineering at the same time, is always playing the angles. That shit gets tiring after awhile, I personally choose not to go that route.
I just talked a whole lot of sh*t, I know. In a nutshell, these negative broken harpies are dysfunctional, but they want what all other women want to a certain extent, they are just so malformed that they can't keep a Positive Man. But you can get one to behave for a while if you can:
1. Find some sort of Emotional or other leverage point that gives you the upper hand at all times (Blackmail)
2. Dominate her Psychologically and Emotionally with ruthless and sometimes cruel verbal skills.
3. Absolutely Dominate her in a Sexual Manner ( and usually not in a healthy way, they have Daddy issues ).
4. Convince her (subconsciously) that you will give her pretty babies and make her the envy of other harpies with your very presence, as long as she toes the line.... ;)
Basically be a good Vampyre. Great Video.
That's a good way to put it. Yeah they couldn't handle a vampire.
Leslie Porter; Dude... You just gave out the Pimp Game...
;)
Then leave her when you get tired of her.
Exactly. But it's best to leave that B*tch alone in the first place..... :)
Brother Rom, I know this video is a year old, but you nail this one. Women don't fuck with those types of brothers.
They know better.
Make us wonder... is her 'toxicity' really authentic?? Cause if she's really toxic---wouldn't she be 'that way' with Anyone??
That's a very good question.
I woke up in a joking mood this morning
That's always good.
I'm the second type. I have to choose very carefully too
Seen.
2:58 facts. Girls love thee dudes and they keep them around for "dumb muscle". I knew dudes who would mess with a girl who has dumb muscle and she basically would forcefully finesse them cause they knew if he heard anything dude would break down a house
Some women play that game.
sn: Chris Partlowe was crazier than Omar
Way crazier.
remember beloved, that "midnight" brother is a direct descendant of the Original Man. the father of science, mathematics, law, religion medicine, engineering and all other disciplines of the world. none before him and none will be after him.
*Spirit of Khalid Muhammad leaves.*
how'd I get here?
Seen.
Im not a pimp but im pimpy.. i play in the mind not in the bed.
LOL!
you got a lot of good stuff on this vid. beautiful brotha, beautiful.
Thank you.
True... That lesbian part i had a lot of those situation
hey man great video brother new subscriber..knowledge is power
Thank you.
Described me all in one except I don’t put hands on women
Stay out of their reach, or you will end up in some shit that you shouldn't be in
Realtalk rom wells 💪
True dat.
Uncle add brothers from the Fruit of Islam they don't play that disrespect either.
They don't play with anybody.
Are toxic women the freaks?
Some can be.
can you give me the name of that track on the end of your vidoe bro ?
and i well put something more on your topic , i think women they don't play with any one that who actually look like a drug dealer and the man who have a huge beard and the one how have a big muscle what do you think on what i said rom ?
Very good observation. The song at the end of the video is "Pulse to the World" by Mia Miata.
ROM has the game on lock on a whole nutha level.....
Who's the guy in tumbnail looks familiar hehe Bubba from Forest Gump??
Joe Mama how old are you
you got to be young as hell
Captain James T Kirk haha thanks! ! Cool name btw
Joe Mama that is from the movie Friday, by ice cube 1995 the character in the picture is Debo a guy in the neighborhood that ride around rubing everybody just by threating to beat them up. I remember all black kids in school about this movie
Captain James T Kirk ohhhh got ya hehe
So there is actually a type of man that a toxic woman likes? I didn't think that was possible. 🤔 I always took any attraction and advances from these kinda women as somewhat of a novelty or some kinda sick joke.