Revisit : KANK EXTRAS
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- Опубликовано: 24 дек 2021
- Since we never say a single good thing about the movies we Revisits, i thought i can share my honest opinion about this movie.
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Getting 2 revisits and 2 extra vids in a month, indeed a blessing
He has a competition now. that's why :p
@@shaziyamuzaffar5437 who
Lund blessing
@@versatilenick2209 yogi baba
@@versatilenick2209 what the logic
The only thing this movie was successful in showing is that no matter how nice, normal and loving you can be, a messed up person or for any reason, any person can leave you. There is no guarantee that your behavior will always make them stay.
True, the longer you make them stay, the messier the ending gets.
Bottom line- Relationship aren't cake walk. They are incredibly hard to make successful
The only reason they felt “sorry” was because they got caught. Dev and Maya had no moral compass.
@@swatisaini6447 disagree. They are a cakewalk. People make it complex for no reason
@@ABJK-ds4wq anyone who cheats doesn't have a moral compass.
Life in a Metro is one of the most intelligent films ever made in Bollywood. It was way ahead of its time, with great music, great performances. The film actually makes us live the scenes.
Exactly, Life in a metro showed that everyone is Grey there's no black or white. Take Kangana's character, who was in relationship with older, married man. Even though he seemingly _left_ his family for her, he doesn't respect her and treat her like a plaything. Which cause Kangana's character emotional pain.while in KANK Dev and Maya seems like pure villains and you won't empathise with them.
Yup beautiful movie💞💞
Metro was remake of the movie Apartment
Yes. Irfan was brilliant in the movie 😀
Man these extras are sooo goood 🤘 also the amount of insight in this series is top notch ❤️
I lovee youuuu please reply to mee, you never reply to me please
The best decision he has ever made in his life is to make revisit extraas😂
Paiso ki jarurat hai 😂
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This comments deserves like from hi.
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Opening this youtube channel was a better decision
I feel that KANK is about- no matter how good you are, a cheater will cheat. Don't doubt or blame yourself for their infidelity. And mostly cheaters do have some inferiority complex.
So true!!
Agree!
true
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Correction : Gay marriage wasn't legal until the 2010s in USA. Three states had legalised it but the rest (especially NY where the story takes place) did not.
As far as ik, it got legalised in 2015..altho gay rights in the usa were much more than in India even prior to 2015
Exactly was about to say this
Idk where he got this info about gay marriage being legal in usa in 2006
Even the usa was backward in this sense during that time
Wasn't this movie happening in London or something?
You pointed out the problem with this movie so perfectly. It is extremely important the way a script is being portrayed and they just ruined it completely. Hence, glorified something which should not even have been justified a bit.
Seriously, it is so good to listen to people like you Ankit. Amazing work. Hope you get what you truly deserve :)
exacty :)
Any RUclipsr can pass personal opinions about films. But the maturity level, GK, and critical aspect you provide while reviewing, with a bit of tadka in the form of humor makes your videos worth watching! 😊
Edit: Aww thanks for noticing my comment ❤️Lots of love from Bhutan 🇧🇹
You are right but you should definetly check out tried and refused production reviews he is pretty good
@@harsimrankaur535 I’m already subscribed to that too and up to date with all his reviews 😅 yep I totally agree! He provides great critical analysis too but sometimes, all I need is Only Desi’s sense of humor.
@@nigahiga8574 totally agree
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"cinema beyond entertainment" and "cinemawali" are two of my favorite channels that discuss cinema. If you liked this video, you'll LOVE those channels. While this video is pretty good, compared to the videos those channels output, it's peanuts.
Karan Johar explained the Maya-Rishi relationship like this. Rishi was perfect to show that even if a person is perfect doesn’t mean that the person they love will love them back. I think it’s great cuz so many people crib that I am nice but no one loves me. That was Maya’s dilemma. She married him thinking ki achcha hai toh it will work. But compatibility doesn’t always work like that. And she fell in love with a very flawed person. Again to prove that there is no mr or ms perfect.
I wish we DESIs (his fans) could have had an online session on movies with him. Ohhhhh, I wish 😌🥀
The first meeting of Dev and Maya at the park bench is the most important scene in this movie. Without that, it is impossible to understand what exactly was the problem in their marriages.
May be Problem is Maya couldn't be mom she internally felt she is depriving Rishi similarly Dev was failure in his career but his wife was successful. Both having inferior complex. But with each both were comfortable as both were in same stage. At that point of time l couldn't figure out but now l feel this.
I felt the same.... I guess they could have handled it better but again scriptwriting....
This comment should be pinned
sorry but I have a question. if this was the problem, she couldn't give child to 1st husband, then same goes to 2nd one. phir what's the difference?
@@user-gk2sr7gx9w she knew about his 2nd husband's inferior complex... as they spend more time together may be in subconcious mind she thought they can pull this relationship off... also srk in that movie already had a son, maybe that's why she wasn't pressured enough... also she hadn't ever consider her 1st husband more than a friend anyway
Watch Satyajeet Ray movie Kanchenjunga.....u will understand Mayas point of view...the movie is beautiful and available on YT with subtitles
I just can't believe he's actually doing revisit extras 😭❤️
Usne Peale hi Bola... paisa chahiye
Bare
" kyuki paise ki jrurat hai "
@@enforc3rr aur hume uske revisits ki Jarurat hai
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I can’t afford therapy so I’ll just depend on your “Revisit Extras” for life gyaan. Keep the vids coming!😆
Did you notice that’s ayan mukherji at 7:18 holding a gift box walking .. in the green color part of the song tumhi dekho na . I like how karan johar movies have these little cameos that you will almost miss 😄😄
"paiso ki zaroorat hai"
Mutual feelings bro ❤️😭
Listening him is like a therapy session . I can listen him for hours in which he should only talk , no revisit . Few months back he also had made a video about data theft and similar stuffs . He should make these videos frequently
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Hey Ankit, you're spot-on.. As I was saying that even a decade back I didn't have the maturity to realize two good people can be incompatible.. Hope people realize it.. And congrats on so many successive videos
These extras are as good and engaging as the Revisits and just show how well he analyses and researches these films.
6:46 Dev was smiley and toxic before the accident and after the accident, he becomes bitter and toxic.
DEV was always a moron.. He never changed..
This movie's DEV and dhadkan's DEV both were harami....
jaise ZOYA naam ki heroine har movie me mar jati h.. Usi tarah DEV naam ke hero harami ho jate h..
Devdaas dhadkan kank
@@sherlockhomeless7249 lol true. Can you imagine agar Dhadkan wale Dev ki shaadi really Anjali se ho jati, bechari ka jeena haram ho jata
@@sherlockhomeless7249 so true 🤣
There was no reason for Rani Mukherjee to hate her husband.
He was crazy about her, and always showers her with love
He is also like richer than her entire extended family
Mera husband aisa hota, Meine to pichhe pichhe ghumna tha sare din uske
She did not hate him
She liked him but as a friend.
She just wasn't sexually attracted towards him
@@princej2742 toh wo shaadi se phle kehna chahiye tha, na ki shadi kr k cheat kro idhr udhr 🤣
She did not find him mature enough to be her lover plus she also felt guilt of not being able to become a mother
@@AM-jx3zf dear we live in india. More than Half of the marriages are arranged , many of us dont even have choice.
Cheating is not justified . Maya was wrong.
But she was trying to save her marriage initially.
But feelings cannot be developed or forced like this. Its a natural process.
@@shubhambhardwaj9677 haha as if her lover shahrukh was so mature. 😂😂
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Just a correction Ankit,
The movie came out in 2006 & Gay marriage was NOT LEGAL in all the 50 STATES OF US till 2015, and more specifically in New York (where that scene was shot) till 2011
:)
I am so much in love with your thought process, it matches mine. I think no matter how many videos of yours i watch, it's never going to be enough. Please keep making more of these revisits. I love them. All of them. 😍
Loved "this" sort of balanced review dunked in just the apt amount of humor 👏. It's such a relief to see someone finally talk about taking a "couple counsellor / therapist" perspective while dealing with such sensitive topics! 10/10✨❤️
So true
What you said at the end about inner peace is absolutely true and relevant ❤️ we can't be free and find our inner peace if we keep grudges for someone! Forgiving is good and necessary for ourselves only! 😇✌️
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This is the most productive I've been this year! And look at youuuuuu! Releasing videos like every other week! We kinda love that ✨♥️
You know there's a mutual understanding and a common flow of thoughts between him and jammy. I mean just look at the way he puts his points.
P.S. both are so underrated🥺please give them a 10 million ya already 💜
Karan Johar threatened Ankit that he will take down the revisit if Ankit doesn’t say that 'the movie was not that bad' 😂😂😂
Just kidding, thanks for another video Ankit
I too felt that 😂
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That's the truth bro... Isko paise udhar se hi aaye hai
@@darsh_kurl pata chal rha h. Us bully ka meetha lag rha h is ko
I really like how you put forward every logical point in a humorous and entertaining way .....
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You are too mature for your age . I am 28 & married and I can see the maturity level in you . Keep up the good work .
00:30 seconds in and I'm giggling at obvious jokes 😅
Edit: After watching- wow, that was a nice breakdown of the movie. And the points you raised about the relationships were also valid and logical. Last thing about people living in your head rent free really hit me hard.
I don't know if it will be acceptable to the internet but I liked it more compared to the original revisit.
That Nutella on the jacket 😍 I personally felt, that the Riya's character was very strong and script did some injustice with this character, she supported her husband, both financially and emotionally.
Exactly, the writing made her look bad because she was focused on her career. But she needed to support herself, her unemployed, her husband, her child and her mother in law, while also trying to make future savings, all in the USA. She desired a bit of understanding and support from her partner, how was she wrong?
Somebody is learning from the video about how to become the mohalle wale aunty lmao
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@@shanayazaveri2620 she might not be wrong but she got so busy that she didnt have time for little things in life....its abt little tender moments for some ppl....thats what wives always complain when the hubby is ambitious too esp if she is a sensetive person and not money minded....in this case the genders were reversed thts it
@@user-yk5xu8gr1e the thing is this movie was Dev's inferiority complex. Atleast from the little snippets from the revisit i could figure that out. His ego and pride was hurt because his wife was doing better than him in life. Then he found Maya who was kinda miserable and being with her would mean he would wear the pants in the relationship
I had a friend who legit said that she wanted to cry so she went to a hotel room with her male friend
5:07 dragged me to my memories down the lane 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
So believable
@@chaitanyagupta6668 yeah definitely 😂😂
These videos are worth watching. His thoughts totally match with mine and are logical, except one at the end.
It is okay to not be with someone you once married and vowed life long companionship with. But that does not mean cheating is okay. Why not tell them that you are not happy, the marriage is not working and leave with some grace and dignity? This will allow them to be at peace because most of the time the person cheated on starts developing trust issues, insecurity, self-doubt etc wondering where did they go wrong, even if probably they were just not the kind that their spouse wanted but otherwise a totally fine person.
Also, if somebody has been cruel to you in love(cheating, violent, basically toxic) that left you shattered, it is okay to "not forgive" them. People often advice how we should forgive the other person not "for them" but for our own peace. One can forgive mistakes, but not deliberate hurt. So it is okay to not forgive. However, the hatred has to go too. How to lose the hatred and not forgive at the same time? Love yourself, love those who love you. Accept that this person did not leave me because there was something grossly wrong with me. If there was, work on it because being a better person is only going to help you.
Accept that what happened had a profound impact on you and you probably wasted like "x" years of your life on the wrong person. But it does not have to be "x+Y" years by still thinking about them. They left you in the past, so you leave them at the same past and move on. Just because they did not have a sense of respect for you which led them to cheat on you(or beat you, hurt you), does not mean you actually are not worthy of respect. You do not have to be friends and have a conversation with them as if everything is okay that they did. You also do not have to feel any negativity if they happen to cross your paths. You can choose to stay indifferent since they were someone who was ONCE a part of your life and dont matter anymore. You dont have to smile at them at a mutual gathering. Live and let live can suffice.
This is a damn long comment since I was thinking as I wrote it. But yeah, well said in this video. This was a trashy movie which failed to bring the point across. Infidelity is not okay. Marrying more than once(not at the same time) is fine, being unhappy with someone after you have a kid is also fine, being wrong in the choice of your partner is fine. But EXTRA marital affair breaks far too many people than the two people involved in the affair. It is a selfish thing to do and one should have the grace to leave first and then love anybody they want to.
I very much agree with what you've so brilliantly elaborated here. Infidelity, no matter what, is wrong. Its a selfish thing to do and any reason given to justify it is just to fit the narrative of the proprietor behind. Its inherent that people recognize it, and this movie did a very shitty job if their intention behind the movie was to show how not wanting to stay married to a person you don't love is ok and seeking out love somewhere else is.
I love these extras as much as the revisits. It provides a sneak peek into the good aspects of the movie apart from the ridiculous ones that are part of revisits.
Keep doing the good work! 🙂
If both of them had a problem with their partners then they should have ended the previous relationship first and then pursued each other. Turn a new page but first end the previous relationship. This will only justify cheating which actually should not be used as an excuse.PS: just an honest opinion.
i was hoping someone would have pointed this out, and i found this comment here. I agree with you, and I feel that the script writers were not matured enough. Why- because they could have shown that people tried bridging the gaps with their partners and the partners didn't get their drift, or something to show that they at least tried something.
Here, they just started cheating. This is irresponsible writing, and they wanted us to give them our hard earned money for this irresponsible garbage!
Edit: if we start looking from the angle of cheaters (SRK and Rani), this movie starts making sense. i realised it just now that i was looking it from the perspective of Abhishek Bachchan and Preity Zinta.
@@priyodit they focused on how Maya and Dev Behaves together rather than developing the whole story where we could understand where their relationships went wrong.
Totally agree with you tuhina
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Spot on
Maximum people around me hate KANK,
But I believe Movies should show the real aspects of the Society, and not merely only show the good and heroic things around the world. No one is 100% Correct, and no one is 100% wrong. All are correct in their own places. No one can get into other's shoes to experience what is going on in their life. Live and Let Live Peacefully
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I believe most don't hate the movie because they are living in a fairy tale in which infidelity doesn't exist. It has to do with the characterisation and execution. You don't feel for the main characters. It's a shitty movie not the topic ❤️❤️❤️
Well, people don't hate this movie because it isn't a Disney fairy tale. They hate this shitty movie because it romanticizes cheating and toxicity.
Being abusive, toxic and a cheater to your innocent partner is 100% wrong . There is no moral grey zone in this . But this movie glorified these behaviours.
I have just fallen in love with you. This is the best analysis of KANK forever. And I really appreciate the other things you mention not directly relating to the film too. Awesome dude.
Damn, i really appreciate you showing how mature you are most of the youtubers won't talk about these issues whether about bollywood or genral partnership things that's very cool.
When you said 'ban ho gya'...I literally checked your channel as fast as I could 🤣
Same here 🤣🤣
You're feeding my inner writer Ankit. Do make more of these❤
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I can listen to Ankit's voice all day every day! listening to his pov and opinions are like discussing these stuff with friends or cousins late at night... simple yet deep. Totally loved the video as usual 👌
Loved this video.
Going a level deeper to understand the relationship behaviours and the good and not so good part of the movie...everything felt on point. Quite a mature take!
The revisit was amazing. Expecting more nice revisits
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People love him for his humour. Anime fans love him for his AOT poster😁
Top 10 anime betrayals: that is his brother's poster. He doesn't watch anime
@@bruhsset 😭
Yaaaas
@@eyexha not sure about him, but I am! Tatakae
@@eyexha Lets keep moving forward till then..
After watching these revisits, now you notice every minute detail like the bottle changing position at 2:33😂
Woah mann u actually made us believe that with these simple insights you actually could've made the movie much better..With all the things that it had going for it, the amazing cast..with just a little mature changes here n there it had full potential to become a classic.
Also loving the revisit extras series❤️...Keep 'em coming mann
'In dino' from Life in a metro was such a heavenly song!!!
Trueee❤
Bottomline.."Paison ki zaroorat hai"😂😂
Mitwa and Tumi Dekho na are two of the songs in my all time list 🥰🥰
I’d love to watch KANK part 2 where Maya will leave Dev because of his toxic behaviour. Man he’s just straight up obnoxious! One of the problems with the writing of his character is that he is portrayed more as a narcissist rather than damaged. Such people cannot be themselves happy and can’t let others around them be happy. He would have made a joke of his relationship with Maya as well, would have mocked her for not being able to conceive, and highlighted how she is the reason for all the misery in his life. Being with Maya is comforting for him because he has someone who can’t give it back to him like Rhea did.
Life in the metro is such an underrated masterpiece.
" The lunch box " Amazing movie.. Low key showing the incompatibility between a married couple with a baby.. And weirdly beautiful.. Showing actual human behaviors.. Just wow
True that☺️
Good example! But the wife thought having another baby would solve the problem. That idea seemed very bad! Lunch Box was pretty good movie.
@@ABJK-ds4wq actually for a topic of discussion we can say this... But deep thinking over it.. She just wanted to save their marriage which became "her" Marriage lately
@@ayushianand1406, I agree. Her husband was cheating on her too and wasn’t supportive at all with her father’s condition. I would think adding a baby into the mix would not be fair to the baby or the marriage so to speak.
Lunch box is Underrated..
It shows the thought process of Ankit... If you watch DC movies.. it also has grey realities and not plain black & white like Marvel .. thank you so much for this ❤️❤️
Wow, this was such a nice critique of the movie honestly. Please make it a thing where you make revisits and then some extras after that. And that gyan was seriously
I was a fan of ur comedy
Now i am a fan of the person you are from within. So sorted!
Haven't seen something as honest, grounded and intelligent of a perspective, as he has!
Simplifies a lot of things I have thought but rarely opened about that!
Glad to see only desi putting videos every now and then 😊
I love these revisits. You make so much sense. People need this gyaan too.
00:23 finally truth has been spoken 🤣🤣🤣
I believe the premise of the movie is, what if you find your soulmate after you are married ( to someone else ). And as you rightly pointed out , the writing failed to communicate the same.
Back in 2006 when the movie was released , i really admired the way Dev and Maya were portrayed as flawed individuals who were supposedly perfect together, despite having near perfect spouses.
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That's why you should never settle for anyone. Wait however long it takes but marry the right person
There is a thing called flawed- which everyone is. And there is toxic and abusive - which Dev and Maya were. Especially Dev. The way he treated Riya, before and after his accident, it's a miracle that she stayed with him
They were soulmates?? Of course, they should keep the toxicity to each other.
If you hate that person then that person is basically living in your head rent free.
Dude that's deep!
Ankit Bhai itna legend hai gyaan aur humour dono itna perfectly balance karke video bana lete hai..like seriously he is great thank u for existing
Finally someone spoke about an Underrated movie ''Life In a Metro'' indeed a must watch film
Omg you're so great at it
I mean I can listen to you nonstop.....I love when you give "Gyan" because it's amazing ,that show you're a great guy and you know such deep things 💕
Keep up the great work 👏🏼
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The problem with K Jo isn't that he casts star kids and promotes nepotism, the problem is when he or people like him hold people down or pull them off their career trajectory with their politics and then casually laugh it off on awards shows and whatnot. At least that's my outlook on it.
And salmaaaaaaaan
I am sure you are talking about SSR here. What exactly did he do to him, I want to know. And I believe your source of information is not Kangna Ranaut.
@@user-qq5ne6zf6m yes.. Salman have done it many times.
K jo give low level product to any upcoming self-made star in destroy them. Kangana and imran in ungli susant in drive or kartik Arya out form dostana 2.
@@kuls43 I was talking in general. Didn't take any names so I don't have to prove shit to you.
It’s a blessing to get these many vids in a month 😭 thank you ❤️
Incase of Maya and Rishi it did not make sense for Maya to look for love outside at all. Her biggest pet peeve seemed to be her lack of ability to bear children and Dev being the toxic guy he is could never provide her with the love and support someone like her needs, by someone like her I mean someone who actually wants to have kids but can't. This movie would've ended so much better if Maya and Dev realized that the "problems" in their respective marriages was not because they were with the wrong partners or that they fell out of love, the root of their problems was their own lack of self-esteem. Dev was bitter about his leg, Maya was bitter about her barrenness and they both projected their bitterness on their marriage. Them marrying each other didn't solve the issue, it was the three years of self reflection and taking some time alone to realize their issues that probably made them work. I don't know.
Having said that, I think Karan Johar wanted to imply that true love doesn't have to make sense or that two broken people can make a more balanced couple because they understand each other, doesn't have to follow logic. But if you really want to show that then show the aftermath too. Show what happened a few years down the line, did Dev and Maya get therapy? Or did they fall back into their old routines? Did they finally learn to control their bitterness? What is the point of two broken people getting together if they don't help each other become better people?
You should post these extra videos quite often..... impressive breakdown of the movie👌♥️
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7:31 What a Shift bro
That Water Bottle 😂😂😂
2:54 Comedy is where mind goes to tickle himself....That's what she said!
You seem like a really nice person Ankit! Stumbling upon your videos on RUclips may be one of the best things that happened in 2022 and I'm not even kidding 😅 laughed so much. Shared these to my cousins and now u have 10+ more loyal fans! Can't wait for ur next video. ❤️
Your free ka gyaan is actually really insightful... I love hearing about life advice from someone like you who is obviously a lot more older and experienced 💜 love ya 💜
Edit : kaise kaise chutiye ho be comments me...
Experienced ?
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Hi rv stan
Nibha/nibbi spotted😂😂 no offence
@@kdkanishk kon 😂
I really like to listen to you man ❤️... The way you explain your understanding about a topic is actually very intellectual n correct. Why don't start making videos in which you just pick a topic and tell us your point of view about that. I'm toh really gonna watch that 🙌🏻
Also Abhi Paiso Ki Zrurat Hai 😂🌝
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I have a question
When is your next revisit
😂
But seriously I really love Rishi's character in this movie
He is nice sweet and mature person
He is a complete man and he defiantly deserves a better chance
I Just love your sense of humour with filmy knowledge seen all your video from last 1 yr it is too funny,its a request next video on jaani dushman 2002 movie 🤣🤣🤣
Can't believe..... Is this in real... 😍😍😍😍😍 yess exactly back to back video....
Hey I liked this chat video... I will just suggest you should do more of these chat videos which shows your genuine opinion about the movie apart from all the joke and satire. This video felt good. Genuine.
I agree! "Tumhi Dekho Na" is soooo aesthetically shot, simply amazing.
I love this . Analysing the movie in a different way , shows the versatility in your content .
Fresh stuff . Great
What a wonderful and insightful video, thanks Ankit, I really appreciated the depth in which you have analysed this movie and the topic in general and hoping for videos from you to come
Exactly its ahead of its time. Its a harsh reality that he showed in his film but theek say dekha nhi paya ya shayad explain nhi karpaya. We dont knw k problem kia thy maya dev ko apne spouses say but in deleted scenes we got to knw maya devs understanding n connection bcz rani had OCD issue thatsy she cleans everything and dev was rude to strangers he doesn't knw how to talk with others and they both teach eachother how to get rid of this problem. Watch the deleted scenes of this film. Dev n maya nay apni weakness or issues ko solve kia tha by helping eachother out. But we dont knw wat went wrong wid their relationship with their spouses😑🙄yeh karan ko clear krna chahye tha.Basically dev n maya k perspective say film bunni thy... Preity abhishek k perspective/characters tou aye din dekha diye jatay hain films men but nobody talks or shows the perspective or characters like dev n maya bcz esay log sabse zada critism face karte hain
Problem yeh thi ke SRK and Rani ke characters ki internal struggle utni nahi dikha paye. They just showed the part that they despised their partners, why they did so wasn't showed. And truthfully, cheating takes time to be forgiven. I can understand one can fall in love with someone else while being in a relationship, but before pursuing the affair, breaking up the previous relationship is the right thing to do
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I love this video! I don't know if you read my comment on the earlier revisit video, but, am glad, you addressed all the issues I raised.
You've conveyed highly sensible msgs in this video. Loved it!
4:20 Gay marriage wasn't legal in New York until 2011, so I guess Karan Johar is right here.
Never doubt Karan's Geh knowledge
I wish this channel posts new videos every fucking day. 😂 . He’s a legend you can’t hate any of his works.
I love these extras 😍 and also your free ka gyaan, no seriously it is good 😁💯❤️
Hahahah aise hi tmhe paiso ki jrurt padti rehe Or tm videos bnate rho😁😁.... Waiting for the next revisit... Love you.. ❣❣
Love ankit ka free ka gyaan 🌼 i love it that he has alot of good things to teach💕
The start👌😅🤣your observations skills so lit man..plz thoda hume de do.love that❤😍🙏
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As for what Dev and Maya's problems with their spouses were-just like you said, they tried really hard to love their spouses and they probably COULD HAVE-if they didn't undergo the trauma they did - Dev losing his career and Maya's infertility. This led to an inferiority complex for them, which is justifiable.
Rhea was doing so well in her career and famous in her field. Even Rishi tried to hire her once (he tells her when they meet at the hospital). Indians have this ingrained mindset that the man is the breadwinner and the woman takes care of the house-not vice-versa. Despite how progressive their environment was, they couldn't shake off this cultural mindset. So as a man, this is a HUGE blow to Dev's ego. Dev is very sentimental. Rhea is chill and easygoing (their conversation about her forgetting a lot of things). Dev realizes their marriage is going bad when he forgets their anniversary, but the contract for $5mil made him seem positive. There would be two breadwinners-so more time to spend as a family. But that all goes to shit.
So now, Rhea can't even see her son much and this really irritates Dev, knowing how much their son longs for his mother. Rhea secretly resents her situation too, telling her colleagues that "if their husbands leave them-they're better off". She tries to be mature-but explodes on their wedding anniversary (which Dev and Maya planned) and tells Dev that the reason she's a workaholic was to COMPENSATE financially for his failure. Even during a fight, that's LITERALLY the worst thing you could say to someone who's disabled. It's painful being in both their shoes. That simple couple's therapy session would've helped them, but hey, Rhea is too busy for that! And Dev doesn't care anymore.
Maya's issue is more complicated than Dev's. Maya felt Rishi and her were incompatible from the start and rejects Rishi for 3 years, after which she agrees to the marriage. She may also have felt obligated to say yes, because Rishi and his father took care of her ever since her parents died. It's normal for women to have cold feet on their wedding, but Maya seemed particularly distressed. Maya was already somewhat emotionally unstable from the beginning, possibly due to the trauma from losing her parents. Her unhealthy obsession with cleaning for example. Psychology posits that this sort of behavior stems from a fear of losing control. Maya's life spiraled out of her control when she learns she can never be a mother. Rishi doesn't mind this, and that's very considerate of him, but he jokingly reminds her of this often, which is rather rude imo. Women are sexually aroused when they feel emotional attachment and Rishi's attitude wasn't helping in any way. No matter how romantic he was, he didn't try to understand Maya's feelings.
For starters, Maya is an introvert and highly sensitive. You always see her alone at social events. She doesn't share Rishi's penchant for partying and even tells him this. This would leave both of them lonely because it means they spend less time together-so an unintelligible distance begins to pile up between them. Rishi is childish and he seems to be self aware of it, and does nothing to change himself. At the end of the movie, Rishi acknowledges this was his mistake. He's always fun-loving and happy-go-lucky, off in his own world. His words sound inconsiderate to Maya, even if he didn't mean any harm. So when she tries to bridge that gap by having a "discussion", he always runs away. Here's a callback to Maya and Dev's first meeting-Dev sits down and says he wants to "DISCUSS" why Maya is hiding from her wedding. Relationships are all about communication and Rishi seems to hate probing into his own behavior. Of course, another simple couple's therapy could have helped them, but Rishi is too "childish" for that! And Maya gave up as well.
With all of this information in place, you can understand why Dev and Maya are so in sync despite being so different. It's hard to live with a "perfect" spouse when you feel broken and have a disability. It's hard not only on Dev and Maya, but also on Rhea and Rishi who are mentally stable and don't understand the pain they feel.
Cheating is terrible, and it's the worst thing you can do to a spouse. But do you really think it's that easy to fess up and divorce? When you have a family in place and children to go with it, it's extremely difficult to make the choice to leave that setup. It's not only difficult for your direct family but also your extended one too. Indian society still considers divorce shameful because shaadi is a "janam janam ka rishta". Hence, the sad reality is that many in India, especially women, still LIVE with their cheating spouses for the sake of their families and children. At least Dev and Maya acknowledge their mistakes and repent. But think of the many people who cheat without even a shred of conscience. It may require multiple viewings of this movie to truly understand the characters; that's how good the story is-and I find myself wondering if it was actually Cringey Johar who wrote it xD
This was a really good analysis of the film. Even the seemingly perfect spouses werent perfect even if they didnt deserve their partner's infidelity
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After reading this I can only say one thing, this movie was made by the worst director ever. I don't care who he is. A director should be able to portray the story properly. For eg Bahubali has a simple story if you go to see, but it's directed so well that everyone has watched it more than 5 times without getting bored.
@@halleyscomet2672 No offense, but I was painfully bored during Bahubali. The first part was okayish, but the second had me yawning. All the characters were so predictable and one dimensional; thrown into a bin of masala and mass which isn't exactly my taste. I'm not a fan of commercial movies and try not to judge people who like them. But personally, I love movies which make you read between the lines.
To me, a movie is a visual medium and not a novel, so it's all about showing us everything that's left unsaid. Most things are better portrayed through cinematography and acting rather than explicit dialogue in order to build characters. For example, notice how Maya always carries Dev's bags for him, which no else in the movie does. It shows us how close they are and how she's willing to share his baggage quite literally. It's this attention to detail which I admire. That aspect was well above average in this movie and it makes you think and discover something new each time you watch it. In that way, I appreciate the portrayal of these very human characters.
@@meeramalhotra33 about bahubali... It's completely fine to have different opinions, but if I m not mistaken part 1 made more than a 1000 crores which is probably more than any movie has made so far...
Why? Because people loved it.
The problem is this isn't a book to read between the lines. A movie should be made in a way people understand. But it's fine if you like it as long as you take the correct message from it. The worst part was when they tried to make each other jealous by using their spouses. It can't be defended. Then about her carrying his "baggage", he clearly had inferiority complex and the only thing made him fall in love with her was probably the fact that she was a bit miserable and her life was slipping out of her hands. He wanted control of the situation while in his life instead of him his wife had control. I really don't think he would like it if she carried his "baggage" cuz his wife clearly did that and he still cheated on her.
This video was so much sensible like really.. Especially the grey characters part... I never knew there are revisit extras too and that they are so good and easy to relate. Loved this one.
Absolutely agreed! ❤️ life in a metro, is worth it Bruh. A must watch.
Yay! Good to see you! I was having a shitty Christmas 😁
Dude i love it! Keep these extras comingg
Man I loved this video. More more more ssuch videos from you pleassseee!!
Well said very well said. I remember that my family and my uncle's family had gone to watch this movie in theatre when I and my sis were like 6 7 yrs old, uss time story obviously samajh nahi aayi but we loved the songs and when I used to ask my parents about that movie, they said they didn't like it and I understand now why. But if I watch this movie now, I'd definitely judge it coz there are parts which are sensitive in today's time and I'd probably cry at some parts but the point is it was not bad but not that good as well. But the concept was definitely strong
@7:19 there's ayan Mukherjee the director of many dhrama movies including upcoming bhramastra in the scene wearing a green jacket, there's something actually i noticed and u didn't!
at 5:27 you said 'it's not necessary that those who cheat are wrong'. I beg to differ. If you are unhappy in a marriage, you should confront your spouse and try to work or end the marriage. CHEATING IS NEVER AN OPTION. I agree with the message that you wanted to provide but got triggered by the above statement. It just contradicts your entire message.
Yes Jo cheating karta hai wo humesha galat hi hai!!
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