As a woman. The idea Mahdi has about women and women being clingy if you don’t show they u need them is very very odd. Women love to be loved and needed
@@l__Dark__l So bro, you don't know what you're talking about. Stop using the word simp, it doesn't fit here. Only mentally damaged women want an a-hole for a husband. This guy's way of life/marriage is toxic.
This mentality doesn’t sit well with mature Muslim men, mehdis mentality sits well with the confused youth who want control without having a strong Muslim persona.
This is not mehdis mentality but what Allah SWT has defined for Muslim men. A Muslim Man with multiple wives is the one with the strong persona not the monogamous man. What you're meant to say is this doesn't sit well with Muslim women and it's not suppose to.
Mahdi says it’s the current wife’s decision wether she stays or leaves. His approach to a wife is very cold and doesn’t leave room for intimate support or growth in a relationship which shows a lot about his upbringing. Like or lump it type of attitude. But that’s not how marriage should be approached. It’s not something so light. This guy needs to be careful
Good on the man, but im not that Woman hungry , one Wife will suffice. I've got alot more interesting things to do than to manage womens emotions for the rest of my life... I will happily look after one sister, our kids... then I can enjoy the rest of life playing Golf and reading in slience
I am NOT a fan of MAHDI in any way, shape or form but he managed to come across well in parts on the interview which is actually rare for him. I’ve been itching to write a comment throughout this but thought it not worth it. However, as he’s talking about domestic abuse (NOT domestic violence), I feel it necessary to dispel some of the incorrect things he had said. Firstly, only people who have experience of dealing with/working with or are even victims of domestic abuse should speak publicly on such issues. Secondly, it is COMPLETELY wrong that as he said, “Men don’t tend to abuse with their tongues, verbally.” That, I’m sorry. is nonsense! All domestic abuse studies show that psychological abuse stands alongside ALL domestic abuse. A man can’t just come home, hit his wife, say nothing and continue in that pattern. No woman would tolerate that. Men’s verbal abuse is often on the form of gaslighting, manipulation, put downs, sometimes screaming and shouting etc. Male abusers do abuse verbally but not in the overt way a woman may do. Mahdi has to be really careful on this, lest he allow sisters to mistakenly stay in dangerous situations while telling themselves that men don’t abuse verbally so he can’t be an abuser. Some of the worse cases of domestic abuse involve men who have never placed a hand on their wives because the psychological abuse, manipulation and belittling etc., has the woman in a psychological headlock.
Shafiq bhai was on the edge of this seat with this one. Thanks to brother Mahdi for coming, always providing gems where he goes. May Allah protect them and bless them both.
his description of the perfect woman is a weak woman. Its a sad interpretation that wouldn't fit our blessed prophets wifes such as Khadijah (r.a) or Aisha (r.a) Follow sunnah correctly and not with this twisted logic where you get a remixed version of understanding. Women have rights which should always be respected. Marriage is a important institution in Islam and we get married to have kids and bring them up in the best way possible, having multiple wives and kids sounds good but bringing them all up to be succesful in this life won't be easy at all
Mehdi trying so hard to be the next Andrew Tate it’s embarrassing, guys on about a club for Muslims on 6/7/8 figure income, when he ain’t even on a five figure income himself. Literally copy catting everything Tate says, and you fools fall for it!
Bro Tate is too Much this guy is similar warn ppl from ppl likes of Tates n Mahdi for Islamic knowledge even sociall knowledge, we have the our prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and the his great companions رضي الله عنه أجمعين subhanallah we do not need men like them to ruin our youth and infact influence our Muslim girls Allaah and his messenger are enough alhamdulillah.
you have a right to your opinion just the way i have. my opinion is - Mehdi and Rahman are a good influence to our ummah esp the new less masculine generation. At least they are pointing out the issues at hand and providing "Halal" solutions. Big up for them both !
Sorry but mahdis verbal communication and logic is nowhere near Tate . Tate is rated for a reason. This guy Mahdi is the sea scum foam. Useless and ugly to look at. His replied to all the questions are WEAK and confused
@drasifofficial God Bless You In Abundance, your parents and family must be proud of you, extremely well spoken, generous young man who is inspirational. Stay Happy 🙏🏽💜
‘Selfish’ is self explanatory what else can it mean BRUH Some people are overconfident with storytelling and using words that are easy on the ‘ears’ fooling is second nature to them!
@@kazishafiqurmeaning story tellers tell people what they want to hear hope that makes sense hence fool with style, confidence, body language etc the old saying ‘never kid a kidder’
This guy can’t even provide for his wives, what a joke! He didn’t want to pay for two hotel rooms so they all slept in one room, hilarious, talks about high performing men in 6/7/8 figure yet he himself can’t afford a extra hotel room 😂😂
Mr Kazi God Bless You In Abundance, you are extremely inspirtational and seem extremely kind. Wishing you all the happiness and success. Your parents and family must be proud 🙏🏽💜
"Do you think brothers are obsessed with this topic of polygamy?" Proceeds to ask 50 questions about multiple wives. Just to appease female audience. So transparent
The natural fitra of women why it is being described by men. There are already too many broken muslim families, where the man are going for second marriage, and the young children from first marriage are now living without father. So muslim men now really have to make a choice if they want to full fill their sexual needs or they want to provide a safe and healthy place to their children
This guy Mahdi sounds like a narcissistic. He said he married anyway regardless of his 1st wife because he has to do what he needs to do for his own sexual desires. Nothing to do with pleasing god. Infact islamic reason for taking more than 1 wife doesn't exist in this mans theory except he saw his culture and dad do it and so its ok. He got triggered when Kazi used the word cheating because it kind of is cheating. Every married woman and man will have non married people have a admirer doesn't mean they need action. Mahdi is so proudly saying how woman come to him which is not suprising for every married men on this planet doesn't mean they all need to follow through with it behind wife or openly. It is cheating. Period.
@suhaibsuhaib5947 he literally said he needed to do what he needs to do he didn't even mention religion. Narcissistic people care about them self care about themself. So yes, deffo narcissistic. Same guy who left his wife to give birth and did not want to be present. Yeah, what an example.
It's a bit cringe talking about having multuple wives under control at the expense of your 5 kids and their mother!!!! Probably someone else's kids too! Not worth it at all.
he is a bad role model and if the man i wish to marry likes him and looks up to him then the marriage aint happening. The prophet is THE role model... let me correct you there
Had some laugh out moments in this podcast. Very entertaining, he’s delivery with your innocence in some of the topics actually made some parts funny , wife was wondering why I was laughing so loud
This guest is tooo scared of women who are richer , more intelligent and more noble.than him. Hence his need to control his women. Mahdi still has a lot to learn.
Polygamy is allowed in Islam so I can’t debate that. However I feel that his approach is soo self centred and that he has a high sense of entitlement. The scholars of the past will say during the second marriage make sure you be extra kind to the first wife (give her gifts, tell her good words etc )just so the transition for her is easier. Whereas his approach is like here is the door if you don’t like me getting married again. I guess there will be a lot of bitter women and traumatised children if men start following Mahdi’s method of polygamy .
I’m with you on this one, you worded it better than I could! His approach to polygamy is a little boy living his fantasy, he couldn’t care less about his wives, as he thinks he can just go on to the next one. His is taking advantage to the max of his rights as a husband, but he doesn’t seem to see the importance of women.
@@misschowmeiin8858He literally mentioned to NOT treat it as a kid living in s fantasy when it comes to polygamy. You saying he doesn’t see the importance of women when hes living alongside / provisioning multiple loving families is just delusion on your part.
This guy…. So cringe. Every time he expresses himself, always talk and sound like a womens nightmare. May Allah guide him and soften his heart, inshallah. And dont take advice from a multiple divorced man pls, thanks.
Its not fard that good men need to invest in polygamy. He needs a fatwah from.a scholar or qiyas to come to that analogy. Many good men struggle balancing their time with their wife, children, community, work and worship and if theyre not into marrying another woman then thats fine because to say its obligatory for him to persue polygamy is something we need to hear from the scholars rather than laymen opinion. He needs to consult the scholars before he throws his opinions around. At the same time polygamy is allowed in Islam but if a man does not wish to persue it, thats his choice. Some topics he mentioned on this interview were ok but he has some dodgy opinions about no string nikah, divorcee women etc. He has made lewd sick jokes about intimacy with divorced woman absolutely disgusting comments on his RUclips channel that really makes him someone that shouldn't be addressing the muslim men on polygamy. He needs to respect divorced women, he needs to stop generaliaing all women. He needs to return back to the Quran and Sunnah on the topic on divorced women topic. Interview was conducted well. Shame that people still go to him for marriage advice 😢
Brother Mahdi made a slight error when he spoke about gentiles 14:07 and inadvertently said non-Muslims should’ve said non-Jews. Oh well slip of the tongue eh😅
The better way to apply some of this knowledge of how relationships are navigated is when you don't disclose them. Remain mysterious, the effectiveness goes down when it's known that you're applying them. But Mahdi is like one of the people spreading it so... going down for it i guess.
Sorry this Mahdi guy is super insecure and weak. He doesn’t have the mental brain space to understand real feelings. And he’s misguide the youth away from having proper relationships.
Nah I think the point of having separate beds in the same room with both wives is way off. I would love having multiple wives but it’s their Islamic right to be provided separate accommodation! In this case separate hotel rooms as Mahdi said one of them got jealous.
@@kazishafiqurfor real bro it’s total chaos having both wives in the same room. Maybe if you’re visiting to say hi that’s okay but sleeping in the same room is not normal Akhi. The prophet pbuh provided separate houses for all his wives
{ ۞ وَسَارِعُوۤا۟ إِلَىٰ مَغۡفِرَةࣲ مِّن رَّبِّكُمۡ وَجَنَّةٍ عَرۡضُهَا ٱلسَّمَـٰوَ ٰتُ وَٱلۡأَرۡضُ أُعِدَّتۡ لِلۡمُتَّقِینَ } [سُورَةُ آلِ عِمۡرَانَ: ١٣٣] And hasten to forgiveness from your Lord and a garden [i.e., Paradise] as wide as the heavens and earth, prepared for the righteous
I felt embarrassed listening to this - where does this confidence come from?! Tate I get it, mans rolling in a fresh lambo everyday. This brothers taking the central line and talking about “high performing” men 😂
@kazishafiqur he didn't apply his reasonings for polygamy from islam rather said he grew up seeing it from his dad and culture. So, for him, openly cheating and taking more than 1 wife is a cultural thing, not islamic. Using islam to justify his actions is disgusting. The only time he mentioned islam/god was when he said god has allowed a man to marry more than once and never expanded what the Islamic reasonings is, which he clearly does not follow. No one should look up to him, really, very bad example.
Many may dislike this brother, but I love him for the sake of Allah as my brother in deen. He speaks bluntly and to the point, he doesn't sugarcoat it. Sadly Muslims to some degree have been programmed by the ideologies of the West and don't have the guts to handle tough words. In other words, they are weak. He has the right in Islam to get married to multiple women and has the means to do so. As for those who can't handle him, they can burst out in their own negativity. xD
When I saw Mahdi was on this podcast, I was ready to get angry at his views as I’ve seen before on tiktok and other platforms. However, quite shockingly I liked the way he articulated himself and gave example of the choices for men and women in Islam. Trust me, I am the last person that would have this view of him. Host presented himself well this episode, I guess he learnt from previous ones. He didn’t give into the guests views if he doesn’t believe in it. Good episode.
InshaAllah the host is given knowledge and wisdom to not sound anti-polygyny(you reccomend one wife right? You reccomend one? You reccomend one?)because that is what seems to be the blindness that is creeping close to muslims.
Pls don’t atleast take your Islamic knowledge from how him , a nonsense alhamdulillah ℹ havnt listened in too many minutes I’m off you guys are out of this world sorry infact thier are so many ignorant ppl out thier you want to get the ppl like me that point the finger he’s a ? ? But “you guys like him.! Allah guide us all
Akhi where on earth does it say in the quran or ahadeeth you can have 2 women in the same room and you can enjoy the experience. You can get married up to 4 wives depending on your capabilities meaning to support and provide for all 4 but not have them all together in one room and sleep together. That's crazy akhi.
I don't like this guy one bit,but I wouldn't speak ill of him,so please refrain from speaking ill of him ,just don't say anything at all, May Allah bless yoi
01:15:51 - Mahdi is wrong here. He got it from the wrong source. The prophet was not allowed to divorce any of his wives, not even Sauda (R). Sauda just wanted her own time worshipping Allah so that's why she did that. Plz bro! Stop with this misinformation.
Shameful. Polygamy is not an obligation and only considered under extreme circumstances. You make our religion look bad and the reason the West thinks that Muslim women are oppressed. This brother does not know the religion the way he claims he does. Allah created Adam and Hawwa not Adam and multiple wives. Polygamy is a cultural practice not a religious one. The prophet (saw) married for political reasons to strengthen the religion. Although he was an exceptional human being, he had issues with his wives and shows that it's difficult to deal with multiple women. He only married one virgin. What about how he was monogamous with Khadija for a long time. His other wives were widows or divorced. Just because you want to practice polygamy doesn't mean other men want that and you don't have a right to say that there's something wrong with men who are happy with one wife. Your life is yours, other people's lives are theirs. You talk like a narcissist and bully with no respect towards women the way Allah has decreed.
The comparisons of a man getting a second wife against a man marrying off his daughter is the stupidest logic ever. No wonder this guy doesn’t get any respect. He’s chatting out of his bum and you can tell he’s uncomfortable cos the presenter is against his ideologies
Don’t think so, I don’t think our prophet (PBUH) just married to fulfil needs, and then basically told his wives they can go the door is open, and he can go get his needs fulfilled elsewhere, that’s the kinda of crap this Tidjani executes. Yes he has probably a lot of Islamic knowledge, however his polygamy talk is just messed up. He basically just marries women for fun, doesn’t care about their feelings. Don’t need more “leaders” like him. There are enough selfish leaders around the world, we don’t need more.
Brother Kazi, you have become very good at this. The interview felt like a genuine conversation rather than the interviewer trying to get answers to his questions. Well done brother. Also, I hope your wife is happy with you because you did very well. We need more men like you. Now to Mehdi, he is growing on me 🫣 I like that he’s started a business to help men get married and teaching the basic needs. Too many men are spending way too much time on their game nowadays than having a basic conversation with their wives.
Mahdi is trying to cause problems in the presenters life because he knows the presenter is a good man with a good life MashaAllaah so he’s throwing a stone in so the presenter goes him and gets issues with his wife. It’s actuallt very evil
No not true, he said a woman needs a men. Because up untill now she needed her father, brother & now you. What about girls who had 5 sisters, no brothers. She hasn't been needing a brother, she was perfectly ok digging trenches & working around the farm with her sisters & father.
{ قَالَ یَـٰقَوۡمِ إِنِّی لَكُمۡ نَذِیرࣱ مُّبِینٌ (٢) أَنِ ٱعۡبُدُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَٱتَّقُوهُ وَأَطِیعُونِ (٣) یَغۡفِرۡ لَكُم مِّن ذُنُوبِكُمۡ وَیُؤَخِّرۡكُمۡ إِلَىٰۤ أَجَلࣲ مُّسَمًّىۚ إِنَّ أَجَلَ ٱللَّهِ إِذَا جَاۤءَ لَا یُؤَخَّرُۚ لَوۡ كُنتُمۡ تَعۡلَمُونَ (٤) } [سُورَةُ نُوحٍ: ٢-٤] He said, O my people, indeed I am to you a clear warner - To worship Allāh, fear Him and obey me. He [i.e., Allāh] will forgive you of your sins and delay you for a specified term. Indeed, the time [set by] Allāh, when it comes, will not be delayed, if you only knew.
If you look past the "brash ego" and the marmite appeal to Mahdi. You can't really argue with some of the things Mahdi says. In reference to his Black Label venture and Deen & Duniya I agree with his ethos.
i feel kazi needs to really polish up his interview skills honestly - secondly do research on your guests and their views - and also up your knowledge islamically on these topics - lastly just because you would tremble at the conversation with your wife, doesnt mean everyone is the same nor abnormal - let be honest youd get second in an instance if your wife initiated it
Eww the way Mahdi speaks about womens emotions and relationship "who cares how she feels things gotta get done bro" just eww what sort of women would even want to be with him
@@kazishafiqur your courage to challenge your perspective by hearing others. I do not particularly agree with your views, and I side more with Mahdi, but I admire your courage to challenge your views.
Get rich by teaching people how to get rich...rinse and repeat. As soon as he said "Synergy" the authenticity really came out /s You gotta admire the hustle though.
Did you not hear him? As far as the government is concerned he has 2 girlfriends. England is corrupt nation, you can have 100 girlfriends as long as you don't dare to marry two of them.
There is difference in view of scholars regarding crypto. So one shouldn’t force his view to others. (In matters where there is genuine difference in view)
Big up Mahdi tejani 💯 right avoid liberated independent women ‘independent “ meaning single ….they shouldn’t be in relationship . Social media brainwashed
@@kazishafiqurwhy kind of nonsense is he presenting to the youth out in the open . Do you like it hard .? Ths is one of mahdi tijwatvananai podcast or yt edits, I’m asking you would you like a question like that about your wife ,mother , sister niece in your family? Do women it soft ? Ths is the so called man that you have taken on to your flipping podcast because it’s flipped. You are degrading Islam by entertaining such ppl and minds.! You need to take these kinds of videos down and keep your morals and ethics in check. 21:48
Men in our generation are weak. However, some men can handle it and there is no doubt some women are okay with it and there is nothing wrong with it. If anyone has a complaint, the first man they should complain about is the Prophet peace be upon him.
Very frustrating he ruined a good topic, polygamy is a great topic and should be discussed. But this should be discussed in a sincere way with clarity. Such a beautiful thing if you cant discuss this adequately dont do it. Leave it, or keep it short.
He says I got a of Couple wife’s 😳ladies take notes. He left his wife’s coz they were dependent on him financially. So please sort out your careers before marrying .
Inshallah may Allah keep me this way. Each to their own. Mehdi has to defend his position for his views and that’s down to him. We just wanted to hear from him directly face to face.
My take on brother Mehdi is! He is a very good sales person, not sure if that is a compliment or not, depends which way you take it. However in every aspect of our life we need an element of sales skills, but it really depends on the individual. Great improvement on interview 👌👌👌
@@mk-ld8ih no I can’t say that about all men especially because it’s a sunnah, however certain people just do it for fun, just to fulfill there sexual desires those I refer to as boys.
the host shows no sense of masculinity. sounded like a simp with some of his questions and answers to questions. quite upsetting to see what our men are becoming today smh
Wow wow wow. He said it keeps all of the woman in check. THAT DOES IT FOR ME. I knew it, no one can be that perfect, perfect, perfect. But he thinks he is. Ha ha ha what a pitty. It was going so far so good for him. True colours don't hide too far behind. It comes out even accidently from the mouth of the beholder.
@@IONS-LEGACY make her feel more secure. She needs a man who she is confident that will protect and provide for her and her children all times. She also needs to be known that she is loved and cared for especially if she was a virgin when you married her. You will see this in Alyesha ra she was the most jealous and needed more assurance than the other wives (she was the one my virgin wife as well.) we know in the hadiths that she will keep asking the prophet about his love for her. He didn’t scold her back for asking rather he told her in a beautiful way that was comforting for her. Controlling wives are for boys who want to live life whatever they wish without considering others around them.
@@HannaOne in my circle I am yet to see women who are controlling their husbands … I have seen good women who are obedient, respectful and loving to their husband. Their husbands are not twisting their heads and trying to plot how to manipulate their wife “.
As a woman. The idea Mahdi has about women and women being clingy if you don’t show they u need them is very very odd. Women love to be loved and needed
Sister, if that was the case, no simp would be single. That is who he means when says clingy.
@@l__Dark__l So bro, you don't know what you're talking about. Stop using the word simp, it doesn't fit here. Only mentally damaged women want an a-hole for a husband. This guy's way of life/marriage is toxic.
There's a big big difference between needed and wanted.
Women don't know what they like. What you are saying is what most women say. Including women I know. But even with them Mahdi is right.
Womens words dont matter they are contrary to reality.
This mentality doesn’t sit well with mature Muslim men, mehdis mentality sits well with the confused youth who want control without having a strong Muslim persona.
This is not mehdis mentality but what Allah SWT has defined for Muslim men. A Muslim Man with multiple wives is the one with the strong persona not the monogamous man. What you're meant to say is this doesn't sit well with Muslim women and it's not suppose to.
Mahdi says it’s the current wife’s decision wether she stays or leaves. His approach to a wife is very cold and doesn’t leave room for intimate support or growth in a relationship which shows a lot about his upbringing. Like or lump it type of attitude. But that’s not how marriage should be approached. It’s not something so light. This guy needs to be careful
So beautifully said mashaAllah
You are a hater, do not disrepect my brother Mehdi, you must be a raging feminist sister, brainwashed by some university professor
Good on the man, but im not that Woman hungry , one Wife will suffice.
I've got alot more interesting things to do than to manage womens emotions for the rest of my life... I will happily look after one sister, our kids... then I can enjoy the rest of life playing Golf and reading in slience
That’s a very good position!
love that. May Allah grant me a man thinks like this
May Allah bless you. Ameen
I am NOT a fan of MAHDI in any way, shape or form but he managed to come across well in parts on the interview which is actually rare for him.
I’ve been itching to write a comment throughout this but thought it not worth it. However, as he’s talking about domestic abuse (NOT domestic violence), I feel it necessary to dispel some of the incorrect things he had said.
Firstly, only people who have experience of dealing with/working with or are even victims of domestic abuse should speak publicly on such issues.
Secondly, it is COMPLETELY wrong that as he said, “Men don’t tend to abuse with their tongues, verbally.” That, I’m sorry. is nonsense!
All domestic abuse studies show that psychological abuse stands alongside ALL domestic abuse. A man can’t just come home, hit his wife, say nothing and continue in that pattern. No woman would tolerate that.
Men’s verbal abuse is often on the form of gaslighting, manipulation, put downs, sometimes screaming and shouting etc. Male abusers do abuse verbally but not in the overt way a woman may do.
Mahdi has to be really careful on this, lest he allow sisters to mistakenly stay in dangerous situations while telling themselves that men don’t abuse verbally so he can’t be an abuser.
Some of the worse cases of domestic abuse involve men who have never placed a hand on their wives because the psychological abuse, manipulation and belittling etc., has the woman in a psychological headlock.
Shafiq bhai was on the edge of this seat with this one. Thanks to brother Mahdi for coming, always providing gems where he goes. May Allah protect them and bless them both.
This was a very difficult conversation for sure but I just wanted to see what Mehdi was about as I like to hear things from horses mouth.
@@kazishafiqurYour podcast hosting ability is getting better and better with every episode. May Allah grant you success in this venture, bhaiya.
He not only does it himself he is pushing it on other men.
IT IS NOT COMPLUSORY TO MARRY MORE THAN ONE WOMEN IN ISLAM.
So stop bullying other men.
his description of the perfect woman is a weak woman. Its a sad interpretation that wouldn't fit our blessed prophets wifes such as Khadijah (r.a) or Aisha (r.a)
Follow sunnah correctly and not with this twisted logic where you get a remixed version of understanding. Women have rights which should always be respected. Marriage is a important institution in Islam and we get married to have kids and bring them up in the best way possible, having multiple wives and kids sounds good but bringing them all up to be succesful in this life won't be easy at all
Mehdi trying so hard to be the next Andrew Tate it’s embarrassing, guys on about a club for Muslims on 6/7/8 figure income, when he ain’t even on a five figure income himself. Literally copy catting everything Tate says, and you fools fall for it!
Bro Tate is too Much this guy is similar warn ppl from ppl likes of Tates n Mahdi for Islamic knowledge even sociall knowledge, we have the our prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and the his great companions رضي الله عنه أجمعين subhanallah we do not need men like them to ruin our youth and infact influence our Muslim girls Allaah and his messenger are enough alhamdulillah.
you have a right to your opinion just the way i have. my opinion is - Mehdi and Rahman are a good influence to our ummah esp the new less masculine generation. At least they are pointing out the issues at hand and providing "Halal" solutions. Big up for them both !
Agreed@@HoldOnaSec3
@@kingjulian7674 facts
Sorry but mahdis verbal communication and logic is nowhere near Tate . Tate is rated for a reason. This guy Mahdi is the sea scum foam. Useless and ugly to look at. His replied to all the questions are WEAK and confused
Awesome interview! May Allah guide this man
🤣🤣🤣
This was a great discussion.
What did you like the most about the episode?
@drasifofficial God Bless You In Abundance, your parents and family must be proud of you, extremely well spoken, generous young man who is inspirational. Stay Happy 🙏🏽💜
‘Selfish’ is self explanatory what else can it mean BRUH
Some people are overconfident with storytelling and using words that are easy on the ‘ears’ fooling is second nature to them!
Give us an example of what he is fooling around with so we can be careful.
@@kazishafiqurmeaning story tellers tell people what they want to hear hope that makes sense hence fool with style, confidence, body language etc the old saying ‘never kid a kidder’
@@laughteralways4717so true
This guy can’t even provide for his wives, what a joke! He didn’t want to pay for two hotel rooms so they all slept in one room, hilarious, talks about high performing men in 6/7/8 figure yet he himself can’t afford a extra hotel room 😂😂
Haven’t watched it yet but any pod with Mehdi will bang 💥
It’s worth a watch.
Why do people give this guy a platform
Lets be honest. The only reason you have a problem with this guy is that he speaks about polygamy.
because people like you watch him and comment on his videos
@@justanavanoobz4867Love the assumption. 👏🏽
@@CamelJockey562People like us, because here you are as well 🤗
Shut up with your irelevant opinion
Mr Kazi God Bless You In Abundance, you are extremely inspirtational and seem extremely kind. Wishing you all the happiness and success. Your parents and family must be proud 🙏🏽💜
Thank you so much brother.
"Do you think brothers are obsessed with this topic of polygamy?" Proceeds to ask 50 questions about multiple wives. Just to appease female audience. So transparent
And the question is?
The question is why on earth did you bring ths? Of person on🦶
Looool everyone’s comments is anti Mahdi.
Excellent episode. Definitely my favourite!!
Thank you what aspect did you like most.
@@kazishafiqur I would say two things. The depth to your questioning and Mahdi’s character was hilarious but very informative.
The natural fitra of women why it is being described by men. There are already too many broken muslim families, where the man are going for second marriage, and the young children from first marriage are now living without father. So muslim men now really have to make a choice if they want to full fill their sexual needs or they want to provide a safe and healthy place to their children
why would you have this guest ? he talks about women as if they are animals
He says he has changed?
This guy Mahdi sounds like a narcissistic. He said he married anyway regardless of his 1st wife because he has to do what he needs to do for his own sexual desires. Nothing to do with pleasing god. Infact islamic reason for taking more than 1 wife doesn't exist in this mans theory except he saw his culture and dad do it and so its ok. He got triggered when Kazi used the word cheating because it kind of is cheating. Every married woman and man will have non married people have a admirer doesn't mean they need action. Mahdi is so proudly saying how woman come to him which is not suprising for every married men on this planet doesn't mean they all need to follow through with it behind wife or openly. It is cheating. Period.
The main point of marriage in islam is to protect the private part so what he did was right nothing narcasistic about it
Nothing wrong about that..prophet Muhammad ebcoraged young me to marry to save themselves from zina... that us what marriage is for
@suhaibsuhaib5947 he literally said he needed to do what he needs to do he didn't even mention religion. Narcissistic people care about them self care about themself. So yes, deffo narcissistic. Same guy who left his wife to give birth and did not want to be present. Yeah, what an example.
@taimurahmad agree with you. Just this man is not following the islamic teachings. His not a good example at all, period.
@@alittlecubsbyte6059 what needs to be done needs to be done btw being at birth is a new thing🤣
Wow he is so excited and speaks so eloquently I love his energy may Allah protect him ameen good podcast
Appreciate the kind words! I hope you’ll continue watching our future episodes
It's a bit cringe talking about having multuple wives under control at the expense of your 5 kids and their mother!!!! Probably someone else's kids too! Not worth it at all.
mehdi is insane no one could change his thinking.His confidence is very high May allah bless all of you and make you role models for the young people
What was your take away from this episode?
@kazishafiqur it was good
I don’t know why you call him a role model 😢
he is a bad role model and if the man i wish to marry likes him and looks up to him then the marriage aint happening. The prophet is THE role model... let me correct you there
Give me 1 reason why you think he is bad or what has he said that is so disliked? @@RB-on1bo
Had some laugh out moments in this podcast. Very entertaining, he’s delivery with your innocence in some of the topics actually made some parts funny , wife was wondering why I was laughing so loud
I’m glad 😌
Focusing on your Islam and having one righteous wife is enough
Not for any man. Average Abdullah sure.
This guest is tooo scared of women who are richer , more intelligent and more noble.than him. Hence his need to control his women. Mahdi still has a lot to learn.
I thought he was overconfident?
@@kazishafiqur mahdi has low self esteem, hence need to control women.
We don't care about their man made laws we care about the Law that descended with jibraeel
Does he pay for his wife’s living or they living of government..most polygamy living of welfare homes and benefits and husband pay jack all..
😲 wow
Polygamy is allowed in Islam so I can’t debate that. However I feel that his approach is soo self centred and that he has a high sense of entitlement.
The scholars of the past will say during the second marriage make sure you be extra kind to the first wife (give her gifts, tell her good words etc )just so the transition for her is easier. Whereas his approach is like here is the door if you don’t like me getting married again.
I guess there will be a lot of bitter women and traumatised children if men start following Mahdi’s method of polygamy .
Something I needed to ask him but due to time constraints I couldn’t.
I’m with you on this one, you worded it better than I could! His approach to polygamy is a little boy living his fantasy, he couldn’t care less about his wives, as he thinks he can just go on to the next one. His is taking advantage to the max of his rights as a husband, but he doesn’t seem to see the importance of women.
@@misschowmeiin8858he doesn’t put them on a pedestal and that bothers you
@@HannaOne facts
@@misschowmeiin8858He literally mentioned to NOT treat it as a kid living in s fantasy when it comes to polygamy. You saying he doesn’t see the importance of women when hes living alongside / provisioning multiple loving families is just delusion on your part.
This guy…. So cringe. Every time he expresses himself, always talk and sound like a womens nightmare. May Allah guide him and soften his heart, inshallah. And dont take advice from a multiple divorced man pls, thanks.
Its not fard that good men need to invest in polygamy. He needs a fatwah from.a scholar or qiyas to come to that analogy. Many good men struggle balancing their time with their wife, children, community, work and worship and if theyre not into marrying another woman then thats fine because to say its obligatory for him to persue polygamy is something we need to hear from the scholars rather than laymen opinion.
He needs to consult the scholars before he throws his opinions around.
At the same time polygamy is allowed in Islam but if a man does not wish to persue it, thats his choice.
Some topics he mentioned on this interview were ok but he has some dodgy opinions about no string nikah, divorcee women etc. He has made lewd sick jokes about intimacy with divorced woman absolutely disgusting comments on his RUclips channel that really makes him someone that shouldn't be addressing the muslim men on polygamy. He needs to respect divorced women, he needs to stop generaliaing all women. He needs to return back to the Quran and Sunnah on the topic on divorced women topic.
Interview was conducted well.
Shame that people still go to him for marriage advice 😢
Brother Mahdi made a slight error when he spoke about gentiles 14:07 and inadvertently said non-Muslims should’ve said non-Jews. Oh well slip of the tongue eh😅
1:18:29 doesn't deserve your money for that reason? AstaghfirAllah. May Allah give me wisdom and give Mahdi wisdom as well.
Allahuma barek, great guest and good podcast.
Thanks for listening and kindly share.
The better way to apply some of this knowledge of how relationships are navigated is when you don't disclose them. Remain mysterious, the effectiveness goes down when it's known that you're applying them. But Mahdi is like one of the people spreading it so... going down for it i guess.
Sorry this Mahdi guy is super insecure and weak. He doesn’t have the mental brain space to understand real feelings. And he’s misguide the youth away from having proper relationships.
Nah I think the point of having separate beds in the same room with both wives is way off. I would love having multiple wives but it’s their Islamic right to be provided separate accommodation! In this case separate hotel rooms as Mahdi said one of them got jealous.
Ok this is a very uncomfortable comment 🤣
@@kazishafiqurfor real bro it’s total chaos having both wives in the same room. Maybe if you’re visiting to say hi that’s okay but sleeping in the same room is not normal Akhi. The prophet pbuh provided separate houses for all his wives
The presenter seems like such a normal young man compared to this internet thug that is misleading the youth
{ ۞ وَسَارِعُوۤا۟ إِلَىٰ مَغۡفِرَةࣲ مِّن رَّبِّكُمۡ وَجَنَّةٍ عَرۡضُهَا ٱلسَّمَـٰوَ ٰتُ وَٱلۡأَرۡضُ أُعِدَّتۡ لِلۡمُتَّقِینَ }
[سُورَةُ آلِ عِمۡرَانَ: ١٣٣]
And hasten to forgiveness from your Lord and a garden [i.e., Paradise] as wide as the heavens and earth, prepared for the righteous
Just an Andrew Tate wannabee, same language, scams and an overall idea/quote stealer from major Internet personalities like Joe Rogan.
I felt embarrassed listening to this - where does this confidence come from?! Tate I get it, mans rolling in a fresh lambo everyday. This brothers taking the central line and talking about “high performing” men 😂
It's a bit sad that the only way you think a guy can be high performing is by having lots of money no?
The minute he said his dad is from Algeria, the whole personality makes sense
Why are they all so backwards ?
Is Islam backwards for putting a limit to polygamy?
Elaborate please Akhi, what about his personality makes sense he’s from Algeria?
@kazishafiqur he didn't apply his reasonings for polygamy from islam rather said he grew up seeing it from his dad and culture. So, for him, openly cheating and taking more than 1 wife is a cultural thing, not islamic. Using islam to justify his actions is disgusting. The only time he mentioned islam/god was when he said god has allowed a man to marry more than once and never expanded what the Islamic reasonings is, which he clearly does not follow. No one should look up to him, really, very bad example.
@@alittlecubsbyte6059You’ve just accused someone who took a second wife as cheating. Fear Allah.
Amazing enjoyed it ❤
Glad you enjoyed it
Many may dislike this brother, but I love him for the sake of Allah as my brother in deen. He speaks bluntly and to the point, he doesn't sugarcoat it. Sadly Muslims to some degree have been programmed by the ideologies of the West and don't have the guts to handle tough words. In other words, they are weak. He has the right in Islam to get married to multiple women and has the means to do so. As for those who can't handle him, they can burst out in their own negativity. xD
When I saw Mahdi was on this podcast, I was ready to get angry at his views as I’ve seen before on tiktok and other platforms. However, quite shockingly I liked the way he articulated himself and gave example of the choices for men and women in Islam.
Trust me, I am the last person that would have this view of him.
Host presented himself well this episode, I guess he learnt from previous ones. He didn’t give into the guests views if he doesn’t believe in it.
Good episode.
InshaAllah the host is given knowledge and wisdom to not sound anti-polygyny(you reccomend one wife right? You reccomend one? You reccomend one?)because that is what seems to be the blindness that is creeping close to muslims.
Very entertaining 😂 and also beneficial episode. May Allah bless you both. Ameen
Ameen
Pls don’t atleast take your Islamic knowledge from how him , a nonsense alhamdulillah ℹ havnt listened in too many minutes I’m off you guys are out of this world sorry infact thier are so many ignorant ppl out thier you want to get the ppl like me that point the finger he’s a ? ? But “you guys like him.! Allah guide us all
So you brought a convicted domestic abuser onto your podcast and and him talk about violence in the home ironic
We didn’t know? Even if he did do something in past I think the question put him on the spot to say what he has to say now?
Yet not in jail🤔
Akhi where on earth does it say in the quran or ahadeeth you can have 2 women in the same room and you can enjoy the experience. You can get married up to 4 wives depending on your capabilities meaning to support and provide for all 4 but not have them all together in one room and sleep together. That's crazy akhi.
Not only provide,but also equally cater to them emotionally
He has got no feelings for those he calls wife. He is selfish doesn't think about anyone but himself.
You cant be selfish of desiring to take a 2nd wife. Your comment is more selfish and childish...
of course he loves his wife/ves
So how selfish was the profhet?
You pose such a question on the prophet? SubhanAllah. How many wives did the prophet have that's more of a relevant and logical question.
I don't like this guy one bit,but I wouldn't speak ill of him,so please refrain from speaking ill of him ,just don't say anything at all, May Allah bless yoi
❤loved and enjoyed this discussion..
Yeah from the trailer I logged off.
Imagine bring so triggered the you logged off after a trailer, get some help
@@WalidNaima
Redpill mentality isn't Sunnah.
You’re not poor. So please don’t put so many adverts in the video as it spoils it!!
We dont decide that at all.
Why did you give this guy a platform .
Agreed
No Shafique wouldn’t marry his wife’s friend as he’s raised differently and his family was a blessed one
01:15:51 - Mahdi is wrong here. He got it from the wrong source. The prophet was not allowed to divorce any of his wives, not even Sauda (R). Sauda just wanted her own time worshipping Allah so that's why she did that. Plz bro! Stop with this misinformation.
Shameful. Polygamy is not an obligation and only considered under extreme circumstances. You make our religion look bad and the reason the West thinks that Muslim women are oppressed. This brother does not know the religion the way he claims he does. Allah created Adam and Hawwa not Adam and multiple wives. Polygamy is a cultural practice not a religious one. The prophet (saw) married for political reasons to strengthen the religion. Although he was an exceptional human being, he had issues with his wives and shows that it's difficult to deal with multiple women. He only married one virgin. What about how he was monogamous with Khadija for a long time. His other wives were widows or divorced. Just because you want to practice polygamy doesn't mean other men want that and you don't have a right to say that there's something wrong with men who are happy with one wife. Your life is yours, other people's lives are theirs. You talk like a narcissist and bully with no respect towards women the way Allah has decreed.
Assalamu alaikum
Wa’alaykumassalam!
The comparisons of a man getting a second wife against a man marrying off his daughter is the stupidest logic ever. No wonder this guy doesn’t get any respect. He’s chatting out of his bum and you can tell he’s uncomfortable cos the presenter is against his ideologies
Guest recommendation: Mikhaael Mala
The interviewer seemed scared of Mahdi
I was
May Allah bring more leaders like Mahdi who have knowledge and knows how to execute as per Qur'anic teachings. Good to hear this brother.
Don’t think so, I don’t think our prophet (PBUH) just married to fulfil needs, and then basically told his wives they can go the door is open, and he can go get his needs fulfilled elsewhere, that’s the kinda of crap this Tidjani executes.
Yes he has probably a lot of Islamic knowledge, however his polygamy talk is just messed up. He basically just marries women for fun, doesn’t care about their feelings.
Don’t need more “leaders” like him. There are enough selfish leaders around the world, we don’t need more.
When is the barber H podcast coming out?
Who’s that?
@@kazishafiqur owner of Island Barbers
Brother Kazi, you have become very good at this. The interview felt like a genuine conversation rather than the interviewer trying to get answers to his questions. Well done brother. Also, I hope your wife is happy with you because you did very well. We need more men like you. Now to Mehdi, he is growing on me 🫣 I like that he’s started a business to help men get married and teaching the basic needs. Too many men are spending way too much time on their game nowadays than having a basic conversation with their wives.
I guess it’s a win win here alhamdulillah.
Mahdi is trying to cause problems in the presenters life because he knows the presenter is a good man with a good life MashaAllaah so he’s throwing a stone in so the presenter goes him and gets issues with his wife. It’s actuallt very evil
Shafiq bhai any plans on bringing Hamza Ahmed to the podcast I think it would be a banger. Btw MashaAllah great podcast
Thank you
Any plans tho?
No not true, he said a woman needs a men. Because up untill now she needed her father, brother & now you.
What about girls who had 5 sisters, no brothers. She hasn't been needing a brother, she was perfectly ok digging trenches & working around the farm with her sisters & father.
I am glad you mentioned your father. As I was reading I thought you didn’t need any one of them male kinds.
@@kazishafiqur😂
Thank you so much for this interview! This is amazing and I love Mahdi and his outlook on everything.
Time and time again, Mahdi refuses to mention who the scholar is that agrees with him and his viewpoints. Thats sketchy even from a shariah standpoint
And btw he’s embaressed that’s why he’s trying to persuade the presenter to get a second wife
MashAllah good interview
Thank you
{ قَالَ یَـٰقَوۡمِ إِنِّی لَكُمۡ نَذِیرࣱ مُّبِینٌ (٢) أَنِ ٱعۡبُدُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَٱتَّقُوهُ وَأَطِیعُونِ (٣) یَغۡفِرۡ لَكُم مِّن ذُنُوبِكُمۡ وَیُؤَخِّرۡكُمۡ إِلَىٰۤ أَجَلࣲ مُّسَمًّىۚ إِنَّ أَجَلَ ٱللَّهِ إِذَا جَاۤءَ لَا یُؤَخَّرُۚ لَوۡ كُنتُمۡ تَعۡلَمُونَ (٤) }
[سُورَةُ نُوحٍ: ٢-٤]
He said, O my people, indeed I am to you a clear warner -
To worship Allāh, fear Him and obey me.
He [i.e., Allāh] will forgive you of your sins and delay you for a specified term. Indeed, the time [set by] Allāh, when it comes, will not be delayed, if you only knew.
Woman deserve better.
Black Label ( as in whiskey 😂), $15,000 per month and living in Luton 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What’s wrong with Luton?
Brother Mahdi Tidjani is very eloquent and convincing 😅
Top sales man! 🤣
Assalam Walaikum.
Please bring on brother Harris Irfan.
Bro. Mahdi gonna get Shafiq bhai in trouble with his Mrs😂
Watch the full episode to see if he did.
If you look past the "brash ego" and the marmite appeal to Mahdi. You can't really argue with some of the things Mahdi says. In reference to his Black Label venture and Deen & Duniya I agree with his ethos.
i feel kazi needs to really polish up his interview skills honestly - secondly do research on your guests and their views - and also up your knowledge islamically on these topics - lastly just because you would tremble at the conversation with your wife, doesnt mean everyone is the same nor abnormal - let be honest youd get second in an instance if your wife initiated it
Thank you
Eww the way Mahdi speaks about womens emotions and relationship "who cares how she feels things gotta get done bro" just eww what sort of women would even want to be with him
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The banging sounds 😭
Excellent episode mashaAllah.
Which aspect did you like?
@@kazishafiqur your courage to challenge your perspective by hearing others. I do not particularly agree with your views, and I side more with Mahdi, but I admire your courage to challenge your views.
Yes I also agree that you pushing back with direct follow up questions made it more intriguing to watch.
The porn afdiction is international problem not just in the west
Get rich by teaching people how to get rich...rinse and repeat. As soon as he said "Synergy" the authenticity really came out /s
You gotta admire the hustle though.
So if a woman wants another husband then she doesnt love her husband but if a man wants another wife then he loves his wife ?? LOL this guy mad 😂
Men and woman are not the same
Does this guy live in england? And if he does ,does the government know about his second wife?
Did you not hear him? As far as the government is concerned he has 2 girlfriends. England is corrupt nation, you can have 100 girlfriends as long as you don't dare to marry two of them.
We dont know but what we do know tgat you are a disgustibg munafiq.
What happened to his “Nikah “ business?
Note- Cryptocurrency is Haram!
There is difference in view of scholars regarding crypto. So one shouldn’t force his view to others. (In matters where there is genuine difference in view)
Big up Mahdi tejani 💯 right avoid liberated independent women ‘independent “ meaning single ….they shouldn’t be in relationship . Social media brainwashed
Wallahi I’ve fasting how dare you get this piece of on ths show.?
Shafique you’ve made mistake
What’s your name?
I am abdullah 15:36
@@kazishafiqurwhy kind of nonsense is he presenting to the youth out in the open . Do you like it hard .? Ths is one of mahdi tijwatvananai podcast or yt edits, I’m asking you would you like a question like that about your wife ,mother , sister niece in your family? Do women it soft ? Ths is the so called man that you have taken on to your flipping podcast because it’s flipped. You are degrading Islam by entertaining such ppl and minds.! You need to take these kinds of videos down and keep your morals and ethics in check.
21:48
Get a life bro
AlhamdulillAh AlhamdulillAh AlhamdulillAh. Oh Muslims atleast do not take your Islamic knowledge from a person like him pls Allah knows best
Stop pushing your ideas to others. It is NOT COMPLUSORY IN ISLAM TO HAVE MORE THAN ONE WIFE.
Nobody said it was compulsory.
He never said it was?
@@kazishafiqur She's posted multiple comments, she clearly has a personal dislike to Mahdi and is emotional.
Men don’t need to marry 4 wives . Guys just marry one and that is enough
Shut up you saying that isn't gonna stop us from having multiple women
Men in our generation are weak. However, some men can handle it and there is no doubt some women are okay with it and there is nothing wrong with it. If anyone has a complaint, the first man they should complain about is the Prophet peace be upon him.
A man needs to have to his first wives permission to take a second wife
@@clarejones2421 Yep.
@@clarejones2421 no he doesn't shut up
Very frustrating he ruined a good topic, polygamy is a great topic and should be discussed. But this should be discussed in a sincere way with clarity. Such a beautiful thing if you cant discuss this adequately dont do it. Leave it, or keep it short.
He says I got a of Couple wife’s 😳ladies take notes. He left his wife’s coz they were dependent on him financially. So please sort out your careers before marrying .
Brother Kazi, I hope more men are like you. One woman kind of Man, I respect that a lot. Boys like Mahdi cannot be respected at all.
Inshallah may Allah keep me this way. Each to their own. Mehdi has to defend his position for his views and that’s down to him. We just wanted to hear from him directly face to face.
My take on brother Mehdi is! He is a very good sales person, not sure if that is a compliment or not, depends which way you take it. However in every aspect of our life we need an element of sales skills, but it really depends on the individual. Great improvement on interview 👌👌👌
@@kazishafiqur inshaAllah, may Allah keep you this way
@misschowmeiin8858 are you suggesting polygamy makes someone a 'boy' or are you referring to a specific way of going about it?
@@mk-ld8ih no I can’t say that about all men especially because it’s a sunnah, however certain people just do it for fun, just to fulfill there sexual desires those I refer to as boys.
the host shows no sense of masculinity. sounded like a simp with some of his questions and answers to questions. quite upsetting to see what our men are becoming today smh
May Allah bless and reward Brother Mahdi
Wow wow wow.
He said it keeps all of the woman in check.
THAT DOES IT FOR ME.
I knew it, no one can be that perfect, perfect, perfect. But he thinks he is. Ha ha ha what a pitty. It was going so far so good for him. True colours don't hide too far behind. It comes out even accidently from the mouth of the beholder.
His ego doesn't belong to him
This guy is soo focused on controlling and keeping his women in check… it’s very sad.
What's the remedy for this?
@@IONS-LEGACY make her feel more secure.
She needs a man who she is confident that will protect and provide for her and her children all times.
She also needs to be known that she is loved and cared for especially if she was a virgin when you married her. You will see this in Alyesha ra she was the most jealous and needed more assurance than the other wives (she was the one my virgin wife as well.) we know in the hadiths that she will keep asking the prophet about his love for her. He didn’t scold her back for asking rather he told her in a beautiful way that was comforting for her.
Controlling wives are for boys who want to live life whatever they wish without considering others around them.
at least he is able to. most men are governed by their mrs
@@HannaOne in my circle I am yet to see women who are controlling their husbands … I have seen good women who are obedient, respectful and loving to their husband. Their husbands are not twisting their heads and trying to plot how to manipulate their wife “.
Woman like that