Autistic Flirting
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Can you tell when someone is #flirting with you? Cause as an autistic it can be very hard to read those layers of subtext when someone is giving you clear romantic eyes.
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As an autistic woman, I need people to be very direct with me. Do not beat around the bush, so to speak
Hell I'm not even autistic and I'm the same way
Do not beat around the bush if you wanna beat this bush.
Facts
As an autistic man, I can relate to this so much. This kind of flirting doesn't effect me at all. Girl's need to be direct. Otherwise nothing happens. I can't help that I was born with autism. So you can't blame me for not picking up the sings.
I am an autistic woman, and I feel the same way. But the only direct men who talk to me are narcissists 😢
After so much abusive relationships I don't trust anybody 😭
it's such a pain.
i'm not bright enough to decifer your Enigma code.
just tell it to me straight
Lol, I'm an autistic woman and when the female character said that she was hungry, I thought "well get dressed and go get something to eat!"
I'm slow! 🤣
I’m not quite sure what she wanted either but maybe for him to follow her idk and they could eat an oyster while chatting
I thought she was actually hungry too!
Actually this is one of the reasons I absolutely ADORE a lot of autistic men. As an ADHD'er I'm always mistaken for being flirty when I'm usually just enthusiastic or happy.. and I'm quite a literal thinker too. And oh man when you meet someone who ISN'T constantly trying to get into your pamts AND knows what it's like to lose yourself in a special interest?? FRIENDSHIIIIIIIP! It's the best.
I'm a bit different than some autistic people on this if someone went up to me talking like that I would tell them to stop "fake flirting" and "act normal"
Poor man just wants companionship and is trying to be nice 😅
I would honestly be so attracted to a man who freely shared helpful information about food allergy risks. I would have engaged him in a long convo about food allergy labelling while strolling around outside together, because sitting across a table from each other under a bright light with lots of other people around is too stressful.
I’m not autistic but totally hopeless with flirting. I’m a woman.
Same girl, same 😂
Dude, I can relate to that SO MUCH lmao. Thank goodness it was my wife who made the first move with me, and she was direct and clear, no dropping hints and expecting me to advance
Frrr it took someone actually saying to me "I was trying to flirt with you" for me to actually pick up on the idea that they liked me and wanted to hook up. Oh, the autistic rizz and its drawback of completely missing social cues
this, because nothing seems to attract the NTs more than not trying to get with them AT ALL. Make it make sense!!
Ha ha, so true. The sexually frustrated part sucks though.
its real.
I laughed, I shared it with my friends, we all had a good time.
Meanwhile, on the flipside, many think I'm flirting with them, when I'm not.
okay but why didn't she just say "hey, are you interested in coming back with me to my room?" why is that so hard for neurotypical people lol!! it's so confusing when things aren't direct, i'm so doubtful i can never assume things from "signs"
As an AuDHD woman, I flirt like “Haha if we had children, they should get my hair and your skin and my teeth and your digestive track and they would be so powerful! We would be soooo good together… You smell nice 👁️👁️” My success rate is 75% LOL
The autism rizz too strong
This is amazing 😆 I can understand this whole interaction :,3 Gotta love our neurodivergence :D
ME 👏 AS 👏 F*** 👏
xxck me sideways, that was incredibly spot on.
happened to me countless times, even when actually dating, online or in person, or in flirty text messages. i could never work out that this flirty bullshit sexy talk is an actual invitation to act in real life - I always believed that it was just a game to get to know each other, and clear instructions on what is about to happen will follow. so i always expected some kind of formal speech with clear talk about rules and what to expect and everything else.
i stopped dating because of this. it gives me far to much unrealibilty of situations. i cant bear that.
This is perfectly accurate, for me as an autistic. But it does not show the other side of course, when I am actually trying to flirt. The police usually would show up.
This hurt to see myself in third person 😅
Where did you find a video of my young self? (And even not so young, indeed)
how do i rizz im autistic