Autistic Flirting

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • Can you tell when someone is #flirting with you? Cause as an autistic it can be very hard to read those layers of subtext when someone is giving you clear romantic eyes.
    #Funny #Autistic #FlirtingFail #ActuallyAutistic #AutismAcceptance #AutismAwareness #ASD #Funny #neurodivergent #miscommunication #ADHD #ADD #SocialCuesAreHard #FacePalm #Subtext

Комментарии • 33

  • @kirstenhanson3295
    @kirstenhanson3295 5 месяцев назад +78

    As an autistic woman, I need people to be very direct with me. Do not beat around the bush, so to speak

    • @Buttergirla
      @Buttergirla 4 месяца назад +2

      Hell I'm not even autistic and I'm the same way

    • @DanielRamirez-iq3wv
      @DanielRamirez-iq3wv 3 месяца назад +1

      Do not beat around the bush if you wanna beat this bush.

    • @bagel29
      @bagel29 Месяц назад

      Facts

  • @534sander
    @534sander 7 месяцев назад +74

    As an autistic man, I can relate to this so much. This kind of flirting doesn't effect me at all. Girl's need to be direct. Otherwise nothing happens. I can't help that I was born with autism. So you can't blame me for not picking up the sings.

    • @artifundio1
      @artifundio1 5 месяцев назад +12

      I am an autistic woman, and I feel the same way. But the only direct men who talk to me are narcissists 😢
      After so much abusive relationships I don't trust anybody 😭

    • @knut5328
      @knut5328 2 месяца назад +1

      it's such a pain.
      i'm not bright enough to decifer your Enigma code.
      just tell it to me straight

  • @yoni-in-BHAM
    @yoni-in-BHAM 7 месяцев назад +55

    Lol, I'm an autistic woman and when the female character said that she was hungry, I thought "well get dressed and go get something to eat!"
    I'm slow! 🤣

    • @cybremystica93
      @cybremystica93 6 месяцев назад +2

      I’m not quite sure what she wanted either but maybe for him to follow her idk and they could eat an oyster while chatting

    • @videocliplover
      @videocliplover 5 месяцев назад +1

      I thought she was actually hungry too!

  • @naymeequillo
    @naymeequillo 5 месяцев назад +60

    Actually this is one of the reasons I absolutely ADORE a lot of autistic men. As an ADHD'er I'm always mistaken for being flirty when I'm usually just enthusiastic or happy.. and I'm quite a literal thinker too. And oh man when you meet someone who ISN'T constantly trying to get into your pamts AND knows what it's like to lose yourself in a special interest?? FRIENDSHIIIIIIIP! It's the best.

  • @VintageVesper
    @VintageVesper 5 месяцев назад +20

    I'm a bit different than some autistic people on this if someone went up to me talking like that I would tell them to stop "fake flirting" and "act normal"

  • @cybremystica93
    @cybremystica93 6 месяцев назад +22

    Poor man just wants companionship and is trying to be nice 😅

  • @lisa2000geese
    @lisa2000geese 5 месяцев назад +10

    I would honestly be so attracted to a man who freely shared helpful information about food allergy risks. I would have engaged him in a long convo about food allergy labelling while strolling around outside together, because sitting across a table from each other under a bright light with lots of other people around is too stressful.

  • @thecreativebusiness1316
    @thecreativebusiness1316 5 месяцев назад +14

    I’m not autistic but totally hopeless with flirting. I’m a woman.

    • @byuftbl
      @byuftbl 3 месяца назад +1

      Same girl, same 😂

  • @Caio-kc1iv
    @Caio-kc1iv 6 месяцев назад +10

    Dude, I can relate to that SO MUCH lmao. Thank goodness it was my wife who made the first move with me, and she was direct and clear, no dropping hints and expecting me to advance

  • @VanNessy97
    @VanNessy97 5 месяцев назад +8

    Frrr it took someone actually saying to me "I was trying to flirt with you" for me to actually pick up on the idea that they liked me and wanted to hook up. Oh, the autistic rizz and its drawback of completely missing social cues

    • @doesnotFempute
      @doesnotFempute 4 месяца назад +4

      this, because nothing seems to attract the NTs more than not trying to get with them AT ALL. Make it make sense!!

  • @starvideoproduction2045
    @starvideoproduction2045 8 месяцев назад +15

    Ha ha, so true. The sexually frustrated part sucks though.

  • @MorningOnMars
    @MorningOnMars 2 года назад +13

    I laughed, I shared it with my friends, we all had a good time.

  • @CreatiVastARTS
    @CreatiVastARTS 2 месяца назад +2

    Meanwhile, on the flipside, many think I'm flirting with them, when I'm not.

  • @QUEERVEEART
    @QUEERVEEART 4 месяца назад +4

    okay but why didn't she just say "hey, are you interested in coming back with me to my room?" why is that so hard for neurotypical people lol!! it's so confusing when things aren't direct, i'm so doubtful i can never assume things from "signs"

  • @scissorcorn9956
    @scissorcorn9956 2 месяца назад +2

    As an AuDHD woman, I flirt like “Haha if we had children, they should get my hair and your skin and my teeth and your digestive track and they would be so powerful! We would be soooo good together… You smell nice 👁️👁️” My success rate is 75% LOL

    • @KM-hv1jg
      @KM-hv1jg 15 дней назад

      The autism rizz too strong

  • @voriaeveningflame
    @voriaeveningflame 2 месяца назад

    This is amazing 😆 I can understand this whole interaction :,3 Gotta love our neurodivergence :D

  • @Selanon321
    @Selanon321 6 месяцев назад +7

    ME 👏 AS 👏 F*** 👏

  • @grummelameise
    @grummelameise 6 месяцев назад +7

    xxck me sideways, that was incredibly spot on.
    happened to me countless times, even when actually dating, online or in person, or in flirty text messages. i could never work out that this flirty bullshit sexy talk is an actual invitation to act in real life - I always believed that it was just a game to get to know each other, and clear instructions on what is about to happen will follow. so i always expected some kind of formal speech with clear talk about rules and what to expect and everything else.
    i stopped dating because of this. it gives me far to much unrealibilty of situations. i cant bear that.

  • @ThoughtfulAl
    @ThoughtfulAl Месяц назад

    This is perfectly accurate, for me as an autistic. But it does not show the other side of course, when I am actually trying to flirt. The police usually would show up.

  • @Prince_Rurik
    @Prince_Rurik 13 дней назад

    This hurt to see myself in third person 😅

  • @lucafwn
    @lucafwn 5 месяцев назад +2

    Where did you find a video of my young self? (And even not so young, indeed)

  • @owandvalclips2823
    @owandvalclips2823 5 месяцев назад +2

    how do i rizz im autistic