@@lbyrdbchin3195 If your life looks like shit, you're probably shit and faking it will screw you over in the long run - believe me. Get your life in order, achieve something real and then compare yourself to others without looking at yourself as being above anyone - have gratitude, stay humble and realize that you have value to offer from your life journey. Inner, true knowledge that you have value to offer makes you high value (with deep conviction and matching behavior). Stay from grandiose ideas of yourself - the usual everyday you is your true self and it's the only true value you have. Your grandiose faking in front of the girl makes you unstable (because that's not you) and that's why you fuck up.
Yep, that's what it's about. Unfortunately, eventually it becomes nigh impossible to believe you are high value when your experiences and results have been consistently the opposite for long enough. Get results that infer you're low value 80% of the time for 6 months? No big deal. Get results that infer you're low value 99% of the time for half a decade? That, my friend, is far more difficult to recover from. Fake it til you make it is only doable for so long. Eventually it becomes very difficult to still believe, and every subsequent rejection drives that point home with increasing efficiency.
@@fuzzypanda1684 Haha it was 3 years ago when I made that post. Now my understanding of this is that we just have to be more high value than most guys out there. Most guys struggle to get out of mediocrity. Beating out those guys in the "high value" race takes some effort... but it's not nearly as hard as most ppl think. Convenience makes most of us lazy. If you're not a lazy guy, then you already have a lot of other guys beat out in this day and age.
If you're worried about saying the wrong thing, or ruining an interaction, you probably need to rethink what your actual goals are in an interaction... because playing to "not lose" is not an effective way to game. Here are some better mindsets to actually get you results...
Can you ever change the frame that has already been set with a girl? Means is the situation still redeemable if I have already messed up first impression with a girl? (And that is the only impression until now)
Todd, is there any way for short men to physically escalate and attract women without seeming needy or try hard? For example, I'm 5'4" and most of the time when I'm talking to or approaching them women are either outwardly disinterested or show signs of disgust for my presence before I've even said a word. Given that, what are my options? Thank you
What about becoming a high value male instead of pretending you are of high value. Work on yourself and reap the rewards don’t put so much value on getting a fucking female. You guys all seem like fucking losers listening to this guy acting like getting a girl is a fucking science. Watching this channel makes you low fucking value.
@@hiroz123 High value alone doesn't guarantee that you'll get women, and it is a science. You sound mad that people are trying to improve themselves. Maybe try giving actionable information instead of this nonsense that serves no purpose and doesn't help anyone.
Go workout really hard, and then go on a date. You will be too tired to overthink and will remain on a calm demeanour. I used to do this and it allowed me to relax and not be anxious or fidgety, because I took off that initial top-layer of energy.
Yeah, but that's almost like using alcohol. Youre depending on something. I know what you mean though. You get too tired to be nervous. If you're underslept, you'll feel the same way.
This is actually a technique that some public speakers use before their presentation. You do intense cardio that drive your body to the limit, somewhere between 1h before your talk. I hear it works wonders, so it must be the same for social anxiety.
Frame: Truly believe that she likes you, you're higher value than her. She wants to sleep with you. If it doesn't go well, you'll meet another girl soon after anyways. Believing you're high value is the first thing. High value: i know what you're talking about. I have the value to teach you something. Strong opinions are interesting. Ive learned alot of things, and I'm sharing wisdom with you, what's coming out of my mouth is valuable. Trust that you are pretty fucking good and have a lot to share. And even when people are better than me I could teach them something. Confidence makes it convincing. People have had their own experiences. We have our own lessons, unique to each person. That's fucking VALUABLE.
Thats a real high value mindset right there @3:49.Even if you haven't done anything significant yet, 'borrow abundance from the future' as todd says.Practice holding the frame and soon it will become a self fullfilling prophecy.
Started watching Tod for pickup, stayed for lessons like these. Game is more than pickup, it's learning advanced social skills. This is why so many young men report that their lives improve in various different ways when they start doing game.
I never really applied that "I know a lot more so I can teach you some" mentality towards "game". This is helpful but I've always had that confident arrogance of me "being better or more successful" than some people though. This interesting thanks for the upload.
It goes further than this. When the knowledge is imbedded with humor and bringing social value, then you've nailed it. It's about what you convey wthout saying it.
How to not say the wrong things or atleast not have the mindset that you do: 1.:Always talk as a high value person. The frame is yours, and youre inviting the other person into it. Shes lucky to talk with you. 2.Have strong opinions. Strong opinions are what make a person interesting. This doesnt mean you should be rude as hell. 3.Think of yourself as a succesful person. Maybe people are better than you at certain things, but there are things you are more succesful at. The point is that no one has experienced life like you, and everything you say is premium knowledge, ergo people are lucky to hear it. (These notes are for myself, but use them for your own good) :)
I have to say that was some SOLID ! stuff I've accidently done the teaching thing before without realizing that what I was doing was actually the RIGHT THING as far as gaming and pick up goes. I had this one women completely invested in what I was sharing. Thanks for sharing Todd V !
I think a really good frame to have is: "I don't really care about it", and actually feel it. :) After all, if things don't work out with "her" specifically, maybe she's not the right person... so why forcing it?
Yeah true, but if "I don't really care about it" is your default frame, you're going to start feeling apathetic about life in general. Game is great but if you're practicing frame you're taking steps to change who you are (at least for a short period of time), and that builds up over time. If your frame is "Women are shit", eventually you're going to believe it in your core. I like the frame that Todd puts across here which is "I have a lot of value, because I have (x) years of life experience that you will never have." It's additional confidence which validates your life and isn't lying in any way; it's literally true. In terms of how I prefer to approach my interactions with women, I prefer the frame: "que sera sera."
That’s facts. Your experiences and the way you are willing to share them have the potential to be inherently more valuable than any perceived lack of a commoditized attribute like height or skin color.
Low value vs high value conversation, low value includes asking questions poor tonality and high value includes making statements about generalisations that could be or couldn't be true (applicable use of amused mastery) with strong tonality and comfortable hand gestures.
Funny hearing Todd speak about fashion.. When all he wears are black henleys, black v-necks, and black t-shirts. He definitely made took a big risk fashion wise though in this video though by wearing a black Ralph Lauren sweater.
I like how Todd does some analysis on human communication and charisma which really helps you understand game. Other pickup channels like RSD don’t go into this much depth to help you understand communication at its core. Personally I don’t find it necessary to pay Todd for some lessons or anything like that, but if I had to pay someone it would definitely be him.
I had this recently when i was talking to a woman and the conversation was going good and then there was an awkward pause for a minute and to fill in the silence i said nice weather today isn't and she justed stared for alittle while and walked away back to her work she was working in a coffee shop and i go in there sometimes and i sensed many times that she was interested.
@AskToddV thank you for the video Todd. I was wondering about one thing: isn't it narcissistic to have the frame "I'm cooler(Higher value) than her"? Isn't there a more healthy frame with the same effect on confidence?
I have come to believe that guys that are successful with women are the people that can successfuly delude themselves about their own worth and capabilities. Realistically each one is 1/7.000.000.000 at the time i am writing this, so in practice taking the calculations you wont be the best at pretty much anything, you realistically cannot compete with everyone else all the time because life has so many little details that can get you out of track like in an instant, disease, accidents, a single bad decision, one second can change it all, one thing you missed one path you wrongly followed....there are so many things that can simultaneously go wrong at any fraction of a second yet some people can convince themselves of their own invulnerability, that they are something important even though in reality they are a grain of sand.....and somehow they come out believable....even if its the biggest lie since religion....i really admire people who can do that to themselves....i cant shut down my head from thinking about reality and live the dream.
"If it doesn't go well, you'll meet another girl of equal caliber very very soon." Yes, but what happens when that doesn't happen? What if you don't meet another high caliber girl soon? And when you finally do, she's just as disinterested as the last one? Todd's making an assumption based on his experience, but when your experience is the opposite, it's hard to relate. Sure, if you know you'll meet another girl who will be interested in you soon, handling this rejection is easy. But if that doesn't happen, it makes handling yet another rejection far more difficult.
The guy in the background had me cracking up "Where did you get that" Screw who you are mentality, I'm the boss like yesterday today and tomorrow bitch!
Things were going good until I sent a couple bad texts failing what could have been a shit test. I then apologized for the bad texts and said they were out of character. What can I do besides move on if she ghosts me? I really like this girl. She works at a Starbucks inside of a barnes & nobles bookstore. Could i like show up and make it seem unintentional or would she catch on & think I'm creepy/stalkery? I really need a strategy here.
Todd, is there any way for short men to physically escalate and attract women without seeming needy or try hard? For example, I'm 5'4" and most of the time when I'm talking to or approaching them women are either outwardly disinterested or show signs of disgust for my presence before I've even said a word. Given that, what are my options? Thank you
That's a waste of a video he's already gone over that here I'll sum it up for you pretty much you're supposed to risk the Friendship because you're in the friendzone so you need to risk the relationship that you have as a friend to go for more
Best advice I got recently is to send special notes as a letter and not a text.. I use this app Text a letter to send real handwritten letters so I guess its still basically like texting idk #teamlazy
So your answer is to assume that you're better than her, that'll make you appear to have an ego then. I'd say a good answer would be to not please her which is what most men do towards women, and you should be talking to her the same way you would want to, not based on what reaction you get from her. Then you can really never say the wrong things to women.
Todd how do you apply the Premise-Evaluation model to one night stands and short term relationships? Doesn't make sense to be "looking for the right type of girl" if the relationship is just based on sex
todd thanks for all your value bro! hope youre crushing it question: after gaming for 2-3 years and decide to get into a relationship, how do we not lose all the game skills we aquired over the years and go back to being a chode. how do we still make new female friends and still have the ability to open chicks and not just going out and staying in your little group like most civilians the whole night lol
Can you reajust a girl's interest if you acted low value once by returning to your normal "high value" frame few days/weeks after? One easy but wrong way to put it would be - can you redeem yourself after acting low value? Like for girls working at the gas station next door? Being 27 and her being 18 in the same village, teaching her parents as a trainer, I asked her respectfuly if we could ever talk without a physical barrier between us. AND she is a super introvert shy girl.. She almost had a heart attack.. What do to?
Hi Todd, not sure where I can post some "interesting questions" in hope you maybe one day make a video about but I will attempt below .. "Often times the only really hot girl in the bar or club is the one with 3 guys, friends or random orbiters around and I it's physically very difficult to even get into proximity, opening her or isolate, especially if they even dance together. If it's a loud venue opening the whole group is just not possible, doing balls to the walls and interrupt everybody doesn't seems like high success rate option. Keeping in proximity and opening her or her friends in a way that make it hard for her friends to object is often just way too slow or doesn't cut through. What would be the best way how to approach in the situations like these ? Thanks"
But the high value frame is not just a belief, it implies to have a life that manifests our value and proves that our frame is based on real high value life. Be the man before believe it.
Todd, what is the approach seducing / gaming girls (23-24 years old) that are friends with each other, even when one of them has a boyfriend at the same time? On top of that, how could someone keep them both - at least for some fun time :)? I know that's very sleazy and challenging....... I'm guilty as charged!!!!!!! I just feel very attracted to both of them and want to have a good time!!!!!!!!! Thank you, Todd!!!
"I feel like you haven't really found your own style, I feel like you follow the trends a little bit instead of making the trends" ... lmao, Todd, you're probably way better at getting girls than me, and I get where you are coming from, but 99% of girls would be insulted as fuck by that. Never say that to a woman.
everything you say is devaluing to me, your judgment of others, lack of consideration for people who aren't ego sensitive about their fashion etc. This is why I am a hermit, everything everybody is saying all the time is devaluing others and they dont realize it, confront them and they get defensive or violent. please fix yourselves.
Just realized that the essence/core of Todd’s game is about convincing yourself that you are of high value.
Fake it til you make it
@@lbyrdbchin3195 If your life looks like shit, you're probably shit and faking it will screw you over in the long run - believe me. Get your life in order, achieve something real and then compare yourself to others without looking at yourself as being above anyone - have gratitude, stay humble and realize that you have value to offer from your life journey. Inner, true knowledge that you have value to offer makes you high value (with deep conviction and matching behavior). Stay from grandiose ideas of yourself - the usual everyday you is your true self and it's the only true value you have. Your grandiose faking in front of the girl makes you unstable (because that's not you) and that's why you fuck up.
Yep, that's what it's about. Unfortunately, eventually it becomes nigh impossible to believe you are high value when your experiences and results have been consistently the opposite for long enough.
Get results that infer you're low value 80% of the time for 6 months? No big deal. Get results that infer you're low value 99% of the time for half a decade? That, my friend, is far more difficult to recover from.
Fake it til you make it is only doable for so long. Eventually it becomes very difficult to still believe, and every subsequent rejection drives that point home with increasing efficiency.
@@fuzzypanda1684 Haha it was 3 years ago when I made that post. Now my understanding of this is that we just have to be more high value than most guys out there.
Most guys struggle to get out of mediocrity. Beating out those guys in the "high value" race takes some effort... but it's not nearly as hard as most ppl think.
Convenience makes most of us lazy. If you're not a lazy guy, then you already have a lot of other guys beat out in this day and age.
I think that's the essence of any PUA coaches game!
If you're worried about saying the wrong thing, or ruining an interaction, you probably need to rethink what your actual goals are in an interaction... because playing to "not lose" is not an effective way to game. Here are some better mindsets to actually get you results...
Can you ever change the frame that has already been set with a girl? Means is the situation still redeemable if I have already messed up first impression with a girl? (And that is the only impression until now)
Todd, is there any way for short men to physically escalate and attract women without seeming needy or try hard? For example, I'm 5'4" and most of the time when I'm talking to or approaching them women are either outwardly disinterested or show signs of disgust for my presence before I've even said a word. Given that, what are my options? Thank you
What about becoming a high value male instead of pretending you are of high value. Work on yourself and reap the rewards don’t put so much value on getting a fucking female. You guys all seem like fucking losers listening to this guy acting like getting a girl is a fucking science. Watching this channel makes you low fucking value.
@@hiroz123 High value alone doesn't guarantee that you'll get women, and it is a science. You sound mad that people are trying to improve themselves. Maybe try giving actionable information instead of this nonsense that serves no purpose and doesn't help anyone.
What's the closing song?
Todd left rsd the Best think ever happened to pick up .
Already got more than 100K subs too
rsd aint raw pickup anymore, its watered down in a way still good content but todd is keeping pure pickup alive
Fr though
@yeahyeahblabla someguy ??
I dont get you rsd vs Todd fans. Who fucking cares. Are you here for pickup or drama?
Go workout really hard, and then go on a date. You will be too tired to overthink and will remain on a calm demeanour. I used to do this and it allowed me to relax and not be anxious or fidgety, because I took off that initial top-layer of energy.
Yeah, but that's almost like using alcohol. Youre depending on something.
I know what you mean though. You get too tired to be nervous. If you're underslept, you'll feel the same way.
NoseKey Be high value. Learn game to convey that value effectively. Approach. Try. Fail. Try again.
This is actually a technique that some public speakers use before their presentation. You do intense cardio that drive your body to the limit, somewhere between 1h before your talk. I hear it works wonders, so it must be the same for social anxiety.
Works for me to bro, it will be cool if yoi can access and stay at that state without depending on something practical like exercising
I can do the working out hard part no problem, I do that every day anyway. Getting a date on the other hand...
The amount of content that he give to us for free is priceless, thanks Todd, you're the best!
Frame: Truly believe that she likes you, you're higher value than her. She wants to sleep with you. If it doesn't go well, you'll meet another girl soon after anyways.
Believing you're high value is the first thing.
High value: i know what you're talking about. I have the value to teach you something.
Strong opinions are interesting.
Ive learned alot of things, and I'm sharing wisdom with you, what's coming out of my mouth is valuable.
Trust that you are pretty fucking good and have a lot to share. And even when people are better than me I could teach them something. Confidence makes it convincing.
People have had their own experiences. We have our own lessons, unique to each person. That's fucking VALUABLE.
Todd has really taught me more about Game than the whole pick-up community combined ! So fortunate to have found you man. Great advice as always.
I agree with this. It's crazy how much we have learned with Todd.
being pras thank you Todd!🙏
I deeply appreciate this approach Todd, because what i usually get is "just don't overthink it".
Thats a real high value mindset right there @3:49.Even if you haven't done anything significant yet, 'borrow abundance from the future' as todd says.Practice holding the frame and soon it will become a self fullfilling prophecy.
This. Our mind is very powerful and we can actually increase the odds in our favor using our will. Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law.
Started watching Tod for pickup, stayed for lessons like these.
Game is more than pickup, it's learning advanced social skills. This is why so many young men report that their lives improve in various different ways when they start doing game.
Todd's free content > RSD's paid content
This should’ve been titled how to “always be confident “. I relate completely
Believing we always have something to share is empowering. Awesome video Todd thank you for uploading it x
I never really applied that "I know a lot more so I can teach you some" mentality towards "game". This is helpful but I've always had that confident arrogance of me "being better or more successful" than some people though. This interesting thanks for the upload.
It goes further than this. When the knowledge is imbedded with humor and bringing social value, then you've nailed it.
It's about what you convey wthout saying it.
Damn it's hard to believe that you're 37
How to not say the wrong things or atleast not have the mindset that you do:
1.:Always talk as a high value person. The frame is yours, and youre inviting the other person into it.
Shes lucky to talk with you.
2.Have strong opinions. Strong opinions are what make a person interesting. This doesnt mean you should be rude as hell.
3.Think of yourself as a succesful person. Maybe people are better than you at certain things, but there are things you are more succesful at. The point is that no one has experienced life like you, and everything you say is premium knowledge, ergo people are lucky to hear it.
(These notes are for myself, but use them for your own good) :)
I have to say that was some SOLID ! stuff I've accidently done the teaching thing before without realizing that what I was doing was actually the RIGHT THING as far as gaming and pick up goes. I had this one women completely invested in what I was sharing.
Thanks for sharing Todd V !
I think a really good frame to have is: "I don't really care about it", and actually feel it. :)
After all, if things don't work out with "her" specifically, maybe she's not the right person... so why forcing it?
Yeah true, but if "I don't really care about it" is your default frame, you're going to start feeling apathetic about life in general. Game is great but if you're practicing frame you're taking steps to change who you are (at least for a short period of time), and that builds up over time. If your frame is "Women are shit", eventually you're going to believe it in your core. I like the frame that Todd puts across here which is "I have a lot of value, because I have (x) years of life experience that you will never have." It's additional confidence which validates your life and isn't lying in any way; it's literally true.
In terms of how I prefer to approach my interactions with women, I prefer the frame: "que sera sera."
Thank you Todd. Supplemented by your videos, The System is really a good program.
Near the end of the video, soo what you are saying is confidence = "I am Value"
x1sephirothx exactly. Act like you’re worth somethin and people will believe it
That’s facts. Your experiences and the way you are willing to share them have the potential to be inherently more valuable than any perceived lack of a commoditized attribute like height or skin color.
Low value vs high value conversation, low value includes asking questions poor tonality and high value includes making statements about generalisations that could be or couldn't be true (applicable use of amused mastery) with strong tonality and comfortable hand gestures.
Funny hearing Todd speak about fashion.. When all he wears are black henleys, black v-necks, and black t-shirts. He definitely made took a big risk fashion wise though in this video though by wearing a black Ralph Lauren sweater.
Alexander lmaooo
I like how Todd does some analysis on human communication and charisma which really helps you understand game. Other pickup channels like RSD don’t go into this much depth to help you understand communication at its core. Personally I don’t find it necessary to pay Todd for some lessons or anything like that, but if I had to pay someone it would definitely be him.
I'm so hooked on these videos, great job Todd!
At the risk of making a low-value comment, I just have to say it anyway: hats off to you, Todd. This is superb.
Yes, When YOu have the right attitude , you can just say what you want and it does'nt matter
Another golden piece from Todd.
I Love your Channels Todd, always great lessons, it seems like I'm in the room with you guys
instant confidence boost, thanks todd
I can't believe how much I have learned from this guy
I had this recently when i was talking to a woman and the conversation was going good and then there was an awkward pause for a minute and to fill in the silence i said nice weather today isn't and she justed stared for alittle while and walked away back to her work she was working in a coffee shop and i go in there sometimes and i sensed many times that she was interested.
you speak wisdom & teach psychology, ain’t just yellin like others
*Even if you say wrong things.*
Never apologise directly and verbally. They lose attraction instantly.
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me ya honestly just accept your error and just move on
Very true.
I called a girl Muggle 2 times,and she was waiting for me to apologize her but same time she forgive me and dont want talk about this anymore
Almost like remapping your way of thinking. Great video. Appreciate it.
There’s no one better than Todd out there.
@AskToddV thank you for the video Todd. I was wondering about one thing: isn't it narcissistic to have the frame "I'm cooler(Higher value) than her"? Isn't there a more healthy frame with the same effect on confidence?
TheMegatrux woke
I have come to believe that guys that are successful with women are the people that can successfuly delude themselves about their own worth and capabilities. Realistically each one is 1/7.000.000.000 at the time i am writing this, so in practice taking the calculations you wont be the best at pretty much anything, you realistically cannot compete with everyone else all the time because life has so many little details that can get you out of track like in an instant, disease, accidents, a single bad decision, one second can change it all, one thing you missed one path you wrongly followed....there are so many things that can simultaneously go wrong at any fraction of a second yet some people can convince themselves of their own invulnerability, that they are something important even though in reality they are a grain of sand.....and somehow they come out believable....even if its the biggest lie since religion....i really admire people who can do that to themselves....i cant shut down my head from thinking about reality and live the dream.
Todd make a video on how to pickup lesbians
Step 1: Be a girl
@@OddlerPro Step 2: Have vagina
Step 3 : Be a goodlooking girl with a vagina
Juan Carlos Step 4 : Be James Bond (the exception)
Question: How do you get the super fast bathroom pulls?
Yeah, breaking into the women's bathroom, that always works....
lololol
Have strong opinions. I've lived for 26 years and I had tons of success. When I speak with you I share nuggets that will help you.
Cheers. youve helped me in so many ways its changed my life.
bigups!
First!!!!!!!
Another great video as usual Todd. Thanks for sharing
"If it doesn't go well, you'll meet another girl of equal caliber very very soon."
Yes, but what happens when that doesn't happen? What if you don't meet another high caliber girl soon? And when you finally do, she's just as disinterested as the last one?
Todd's making an assumption based on his experience, but when your experience is the opposite, it's hard to relate. Sure, if you know you'll meet another girl who will be interested in you soon, handling this rejection is easy. But if that doesn't happen, it makes handling yet another rejection far more difficult.
The guy in the background had me cracking up "Where did you get that" Screw who you are mentality, I'm the boss like yesterday today and tomorrow bitch!
I will just tell them what I think,I do not care if I lose them anymore.It's over.
Things were going good until I sent a couple bad texts failing what could have been a shit test. I then apologized for the bad texts and said they were out of character. What can I do besides move on if she ghosts me? I really like this girl. She works at a Starbucks inside of a barnes & nobles bookstore. Could i like show up and make it seem unintentional or would she catch on & think I'm creepy/stalkery? I really need a strategy here.
Probably one of Todd's most concise and well explained videos to date. Great stuff.
Feels like Todd is making this crazy good content just to rub it under rsd‘s nose 😂😂
Good for all of us lol,
the quality of his content is soo outstanding, I'm just glad I ever stumbled upon him on YT years ago.
Daniel Robertson Rsd is amazing I never said the contrary
Todd, is there any way for short men to physically escalate and attract women without seeming needy or try hard? For example, I'm 5'4" and most of the time when I'm talking to or approaching them women are either outwardly disinterested or show signs of disgust for my presence before I've even said a word. Given that, what are my options? Thank you
Your options are to keep using height as an excuse or to cut that shit out and get better at game bro. Just being real
@@marcusmiles4234 You're right Marcus, just seeking the tools to navigate it and quiet my doubts. Actually going out gaming tonight.
What's the name of the outro song
still waiting for the day when Todd will actually show us what outro songs he uses. Most of them are really nice
Shazam?
@@movement2contact If Shazam would work, no-one would even ask.
I tired it... didn't work.. that's why I asked
@@tomasmarcinkevic1915 you know it's not true, RUclips is full of comments asking for song names cuz they're too lazy to find them themselves...
Dope video thanks Todd
You're the reborn of rsd, thanks!
Could you do a video on getting with a friend
That's a waste of a video he's already gone over that here I'll sum it up for you pretty much you're supposed to risk the Friendship because you're in the friendzone so you need to risk the relationship that you have as a friend to go for more
Awesome frame control!
Best advice I got recently is to send special notes as a letter and not a text.. I use this app Text a letter to send real handwritten letters so I guess its still basically like texting idk #teamlazy
Question: How to find the right time to transition from simple touches at the beginning to higher forms of escalation.
Great video!
So your answer is to assume that you're better than her, that'll make you appear to have an ego then. I'd say a good answer would be to not please her which is what most men do towards women, and you should be talking to her the same way you would want to, not based on what reaction you get from her. Then you can really never say the wrong things to women.
Todd how do you apply the Premise-Evaluation model to one night stands and short term relationships? Doesn't make sense to be "looking for the right type of girl" if the relationship is just based on sex
todd thanks for all your value bro! hope youre crushing it
question: after gaming for 2-3 years and decide to get into a relationship, how do we not lose all the game skills we aquired over the years and go back to being a chode. how do we still make new female friends and still have the ability to open chicks and not just going out and staying in your little group like most civilians the whole night lol
That realy motivated me
Can you reajust a girl's interest if you acted low value once by returning to your normal "high value" frame few days/weeks after?
One easy but wrong way to put it would be - can you redeem yourself after acting low value?
Like for girls working at the gas station next door? Being 27 and her being 18 in the same village, teaching her parents as a trainer, I asked her respectfuly if we could ever talk without a physical barrier between us. AND she is a super introvert shy girl.. She almost had a heart attack.. What do to?
Hi Todd,
not sure where I can post some "interesting questions" in hope you maybe one day make a video about but I will attempt below ..
"Often times the only really hot girl in the bar or club is the one with 3 guys, friends or random orbiters around and I it's physically very difficult to even get into proximity, opening her or isolate, especially if they even dance together. If it's a loud venue opening the whole group is just not possible, doing balls to the walls and interrupt everybody doesn't seems like high success rate option. Keeping in proximity and opening her or her friends in a way that make it hard for her friends to object is often just way too slow or doesn't cut through. What would be the best way how to approach in the situations like these ?
Thanks"
This is a great fucking question man I hope you don't mind but I'm going to copy it and paste it for future videos because I really want it answered
So, high value frame is saying one point positive and one negative.
Hey Todd. Quick question about logistics. What should we do if we live in a student dorm? It literally feels like being a high-value homeless guy.
You know people are having sex in the dorms all the time.
Look son, that's a true boss right there.
todd is uncle i never had
Fuck YEAH! Neg theory is back haha!
Love this video
Hey Todd love your videos!
How do I make the difference between an insult and a shit test?
Don't take any
I looked up the meme, “please stop saying dumbass things, your not even making sense” and found this.
What's the closing song? Shazam doesn't catch it
This guy is a god
Yes that all makes sense😉
I think you could outmatch every Guy from RSD
But the high value frame is not just a belief, it implies to have a life that manifests our value and proves that our frame is based on real high value life. Be the man before believe it.
I feel like he’s saying to he slightly condescending
How can I better communicate my value to make me look more compelling such that the girl feels the want to please me or the need not to lose me
Brilliant
For real,I've learned things from my 5 yr old grandson.everyone knows something u dont.you can learn alot from a fool.
Todd, what is the approach seducing / gaming girls (23-24 years old) that are friends with each other, even when one of them has a boyfriend at the same time? On top of that, how could someone keep them both - at least for some fun time :)? I know that's very sleazy and challenging....... I'm guilty as charged!!!!!!! I just feel very attracted to both of them and want to have a good time!!!!!!!!! Thank you, Todd!!!
great
Still no word on the outro song?
"I feel like you haven't really found your own style, I feel like you follow the trends a little bit instead of making the trends" ... lmao, Todd, you're probably way better at getting girls than me, and I get where you are coming from, but 99% of girls would be insulted as fuck by that. Never say that to a woman.
he (ams, and similar coaches ) entcreeps me
entcreep???
Come to jersey man please
mic drops as he concludes the video
Todd is the Ben Shapiro of pickup
Ben Shapiro is the pickup of Todd.
Donny Rickles Jr. cock
Todd, out of curiosity, what's your IQ?
If you say the wrong thing turn it into a joke.
How to never say the wrong thing to a girl: don't say anything. Ever.
How do you get yourself in a high value charismatic mindset when you aren't feeling it and feel rejected?
Go to gym and get big and muscular. Train MMA and know u can beat everybody up.
this is it
37????? You’ve really taken care of yourself bro
37 isn't even old.
That's too smart yet too effective, at least at the personal level.
Hey todd you talk a lot about framing what it is ???
It's a structure u employ to your interaction. Beliefs and personality.
People with strong opinions are usually the dumbest ones... I personally see that as a bad trait
everything you say is devaluing to me, your judgment of others, lack of consideration for people who aren't ego sensitive about their fashion etc. This is why I am a hermit, everything everybody is saying all the time is devaluing others and they dont realize it, confront them and they get defensive or violent. please fix yourselves.
hey todd
how to text a strange girl you like ?