He instantly shouted "foul play" to his teammates right after the ref cleared her decision. That's a captain who can deliver. Mad respect to all rugby captains out there. It's not easy to lead 15 (including self) in high intensity game
A good ref with the understanding that things can get heated in the thick of the action and a player with the humility to listen when he is wrong. I hope the game never loses this kind of interaction.
Atleast she was honest. The players will respect her for that. It does matter, and makes further interaction between that ref, and those players very easy.
The first time my nephew reffed a game I asked him how well did it go. He said he was not sure how many poor decisions he made because the players kept calling him "Sir" all the way to the end of the game!
All rugby players know that when you are spoken to by the ref it isn't a conversation. You zip it and you listen. Many sports could learn a thing or two.
In the full video when she was explaining the foul play to both captains he walked away just after she started talking. That was the disrespect. Good job ref.
Both of them respected each other she went straight to the point and bongi responded well , she was actually complaining about other teammates not bongi listen carefully.
10 seconds earlier he was completely out of rude and VERY rude. Required a next day apology. She's the only one who looked good in the full interaction.
10 seconds earlier he was completely out of rude and VERY rude. Required a next day apology. She's the only one who looked good in the full interaction.
I love Bongi as I love all the Springboks but I do honestly observe some disrespect/ego in his demeanour at times🤧 She handled this so well, so calm and professional. I hope she goes very far in her career and maintains that professionalism and humanity even if she gets more assertive along the way.
Rugby referees get so much respect compared to soccer. About him… He could take out ten men my size, and i could take out ten women her size. He’s an amazing man.
Im football crazy ⚽️ but they have it down to a tee with their approach to their game ref coach and all staff. "Football is a gentleman's sport played by hooligans and rugby is a hooligan sport played by gentlemen" - old saying
This is why rugby is loved globally, it is a game of chaos, played by gentlemen… she has the touch of Nigel Owens, and no matter how big these players are, they will respect the referee, because this is the culture of rugby!..👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
She sounds like me when I come across those clients that God has me helping weather they are needing medical services or mentally challenged l. Anyways, they are so full of pride and ego and literally believe they are better than others. Not my problem but I literally speak like this lady to get my boundaries across and if not respected, we have the right to refuse service and they can call another agency. I don’t put up with any disrespect for any one. God loves all people a d we are called to be better and do better and treat others with love! ❤️ I love how she stood up for herself
Well, in this new dispensation, is he required to show her disrespect, or is he now obligated to respect her simply because she's a woman? I'm not suggesting that women should be treated disrespectfully. Respect isn't something owed; it's earned. To disagree is not to disrespect. However, I suspect that if he behaved the same way towards a male referee, the discussion would take a different turn, it wouldn’t be about respect. Ideally, women should officiate women's sports and men should officiate men's sports, especially considering the growth of women's sports.
#Bongi should be ashamed of himself. Just before this happened he walked away from her while she was talking directly to him. That's not something you do to another human, disgusting!
They are in war it happens all the time, players aren’t expected to stay and say “Thank you ref” when the ref disallows their try but because it was a chickie everyone got upset.
That happens all the time, the only reason you're having false outrage is that it's because she is taking it personally which in itself is the problem.
you obviously aren’t aware of the situation. he apologized to her in the tunnel and explained he was in the moment walking a way and it was wrong. 🙄 would u rather him argue in the ladies face while he’s frustrated or walk away to calm down ?
You so accustomed to negativity and you find it even where there's none. Two professionals having a constructive discussion and respecting each other. And nope, you want to blame the player for ignoring her. Really???
That monster of a guy shows more respect than all footballers put together. I love this in Rugby. Gentlemen all round.
He was actually disrespectful by Rugby standards.
The referees don't speak like that in football so don't get that treatment
yeah i bet they really care on 300k week 😂😂😂😂
@@user-pq5rj4yi3uno they dont but the abuse they get is crazy
Rugby is a game of discipline. That's why they are gentlemen. 😊
That is the most polite way I've ever heard a referee tell a captain that they were sick of their shit.....lol
Fair play Ref.
Totally out of context
Damn some people are unbelievable.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I feel for some
You are very lost
Emotional beings, I will leave it at that.
So impressed with them both but her approach was brilliant.
❤❤❤❤ I agree with you. She was so calm and polite
Yep respect both ways ❤
Two amazing people ! Good communication is key. Mutual respect is vital in any situation.
She was kind than being a ref,give her raise.
He instantly shouted "foul play" to his teammates right after the ref cleared her decision. That's a captain who can deliver. Mad respect to all rugby captains out there. It's not easy to lead 15 (including self) in high intensity game
Wow - she has some real character. Probably going to make a really good ref.
she handled that well
She shouldn't be refereeing a male rugby game
She didn't handle the match well
A great example of listening and understanding..🙏🙏
A good ref with the understanding that things can get heated in the thick of the action and a player with the humility to listen when he is wrong.
I hope the game never loses this kind of interaction.
Well said friend 👍
Don't let the french play against the english😅
BLACK PPL HAVE BEEN ASKING FOR RESPECT FOR HOW LONG NOW……??
BLACK PPL HAVE BEEN ASKING FOR RESPECT FOR HOW LONG NOW……??
Mate. Referee is a person that shows and needs respect. No matter the genre.
Gender?
@@kalaharikreef7371not these days mate, don’t risk it 😂
It wasn't about the genre here... it was about the cap difference between the ref and players 👌
@@bobolinkr😂😂😂😂😂
Not afraid to admit they have played more than she's been a ref.. But she's still the ref and in charge.. 💪
Atleast she was honest. The players will respect her for that. It does matter, and makes further interaction between that ref, and those players very easy.
The first time my nephew reffed a game I asked him how well did it go. He said he was not sure how many poor decisions he made because the players kept calling him "Sir" all the way to the end of the game!
This is beautiful communication.
Kudos to this awesome lady. Love you mom.❤❤❤🙏
She’s a big unit
Fair enough lady. Can't argue with that.
She is gonna go far,very polite and calm and direct❤❤❤❤
Rugby ref's are the only respected ref's in any code 👍🏽
Any sport
Any game.
That’s what I was thinking
Cricket empires too and their match referees
Discipline from both parties ❤
Rugby is just different from a respect level all round than most contact sports.
Lol yep Fascist Rugby Union is really big on respect.
All rugby players know that when you are spoken to by the ref it isn't a conversation. You zip it and you listen. Many sports could learn a thing or two.
Handled better than veteran refs. 👏 👏 👏
Well done both.
He wasn't saying anything disrespectful, he was just speaking in Afrikaans.
He threw shade at her 🤫🤡
The female ref also speaks afrikaans she's from cape town
@@TomasGerhardusSmith I think you're missing the joke.
@darthmong7196 nothing was funny were is the joke
In the full video when she was explaining the foul play to both captains he walked away just after she started talking. That was the disrespect. Good job ref.
There’s an old saying that I love “football’s a gentleman’s game played by Hooligans and rugby is a hooligans game played by gentlemen”
Great reffing
This is why South Africa is the best
Fantastic refereeing
Both of them respected each other she went straight to the point and bongi responded well , she was actually complaining about other teammates not bongi listen carefully.
She was very respectful and professional
Not just the players but the fans too.. this amount of respect would never happen in a footy match
She is a nice woman give her respect as all women deserve they will give it back
Rugby ref is such a hard job and the players know that. Without refs the game is chaos
They deserve the respect
Magnificent interaction.
10 seconds earlier he was completely out of rude and VERY rude.
Required a next day apology.
She's the only one who looked good in the full interaction.
She was amazing and she defuse the situation and both gain mutual respect
10 seconds earlier he was completely out of rude and VERY rude.
Required a next day apology.
She's the only one who looked good in the full interaction.
When she put her hands on her chest and said "that will be very appreciated". Wow so amazing ❤
Wow! What a mutual respect from a Bongie and Ref.❤❤❤❤
They look good together
That's rugby for you the guys always respect the ref despite their massive size even when the ref is a bit hash it's always good
This is why I love rugby 😊❤
Lol 😂Bongy always in trouble but at the same time always shows great respect
Where is he in trouble? He is the captain and the captain soly are allowed to speak to the Reff. That's whythe re only talks to him..
Respect is earned for both male and female referees my friend.
that's not how rugby is. Ive played with refs I haven't met before and always, every player pays due respect . it's the rugby code
little moment like this is example of humanity at its best- this 60sec can stop a war!
Her humility was great actually, but with all honesty, she DOESN'T belong there.
Same
This is beautiful❤ he put the brakes on that big fella😂 he had no choice but to listen. I love it.
Ok with that statement alone she got my respect!!
I love Bongi as I love all the Springboks but I do honestly observe some disrespect/ego in his demeanour at times🤧 She handled this so well, so calm and professional. I hope she goes very far in her career and maintains that professionalism and humanity even if she gets more assertive along the way.
Well done ref
Aussies are wholesome people
These are South Africans
These are south africans
😂😂 That's a funny generalization (even if these were Aussies). I know a bunch of Aussies who would laugh and say They are far from that
The only way to successfully discipline a player as a referee.
I love the way how she ask for respect and how he received her request and walks off taping the area and shouts “foul play” without argument
This is amazing. What a humble ref❤❤❤❤
Thanks for being adults and not highschool students ❤💪🏿💯
You must be confused with football, this is rugby and all communications with the ref is like this.
@@zohan4394
Nope didn't know that. Thanks for the tip.
Rugby referees get so much respect compared to soccer. About him… He could take out ten men my size, and i could take out ten women her size. He’s an amazing man.
Here we go with the destruction of Bongis reputation, all to make Curry look like less of a liar.
Im football crazy ⚽️ but they have it down to a tee with their approach to their game ref coach and all staff.
"Football is a gentleman's sport played by hooligans and rugby is a hooligan sport played by gentlemen" - old saying
Well done to both ref and player. ' Rugby Culture'
Respect is earned. If you have to ask for it you’ve failed.
Great reffing there
Maybe the NRL players should have a watch of this and see how they handle their female referees.
This is why rugby is loved globally, it is a game of chaos, played by gentlemen… she has the touch of Nigel Owens, and no matter how big these players are, they will respect the referee, because this is the culture of rugby!..👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Thats our next Springbok Rugby captain - bets
RESPECT, LOVE IT!!!
This here is a great example of handling a complicated situation as the Authority
The Referee 💯percent👌🏿 The Team Captain 💯percent🤝🏿
She handled it 🎉
I totally agree respect her 👌🏾
Trained ref, dedicated to her profession.
Why can’t we have this in football
This is what amazes me about rugby,the respect refs command on a pitch filled with basically 30 giants of men. Yet the same cannot be said for soccer😕
She sounds like me when I come across those clients that God has me helping weather they are needing medical services or mentally challenged l. Anyways, they are so full of pride and ego and literally believe they are better than others. Not my problem but I literally speak like this lady to get my boundaries across and if not respected, we have the right to refuse service and they can call another agency. I don’t put up with any disrespect for any one. God loves all people a d we are called to be better and do better and treat others with love! ❤️ I love how she stood up for herself
Beautiful, just beautiful, love it.
Very polite 😊
She’s classic and classy
Fair play she’s made for this job
Well, in this new dispensation, is he required to show her disrespect, or is he now obligated to respect her simply because she's a woman? I'm not suggesting that women should be treated disrespectfully. Respect isn't something owed; it's earned. To disagree is not to disrespect. However, I suspect that if he behaved the same way towards a male referee, the discussion would take a different turn, it wouldn’t be about respect. Ideally, women should officiate women's sports and men should officiate men's sports, especially considering the growth of women's sports.
That dry swallow 😅😅 it took a lot for her to stand up to him.💪
When two adults have a grown up conversation for the greater good 👍🏻
This is what no ego looks like 🔥
This is amazing to watch
Respect ref
Massive respect to the ref...she has bigger balls than all these guys in the field 😅
Why because she does her job? She’s not in any danger and Rugby is a respectable sport. You simps are hilarious.
@@RevealedFilmsYup
well handled by the ref, but unfortunately she had a shocker of a performance that day too...
I like the way he has nothing to do with her experience or lack thereof and is only concerned with the rule of play.
Yes actually,he didn't take her up on that🤔
#Bongi should be ashamed of himself. Just before this happened he walked away from her while she was talking directly to him. That's not something you do to another human, disgusting!
They are in war it happens all the time, players aren’t expected to stay and say “Thank you ref” when the ref disallows their try but because it was a chickie everyone got upset.
That happens all the time, the only reason you're having false outrage is that it's because she is taking it personally which in itself is the problem.
Ag shut up man. You act like he always does this.
@@business3867 'they are in war' ARE YOU OKAY?!😂😂😂 and no, players at all levels are expected to listen to the ref and not walk away.
you obviously aren’t aware of the situation. he apologized to her in the tunnel and explained he was in the moment walking a way and it was wrong. 🙄 would u rather him argue in the ladies face while he’s frustrated or walk away to calm down ?
That's the way you demand respect you drive your point across by giving respect
Respect is earned not ordered
This is rugby, and the first law of rugby is respect... Yes rugby don't have rules it hase laws.
The referee is the judge, jury and executioner in rugby full stop.
I love her.
dats why I luv rugby!
I respect her
Rugby players are big and bruising but they always show respect to officials…Take a look football players
Respect all round there.
That’s why we love rugby
They say rugby is a game of thugs but it also has real gentlemen.
Best one on one with the Ref 🔥
Gentlemen 100%❤
Awesome ref! Pragmatic!!!
Excellent teacher 👌
Better world 🇸🇦
they look like they belong together
Love rugby ❤❤
Player clearly didnt care what she had to say, answer the damn question. Took 20seconds for a 2 second answer
Was a cordial respectful exchange. Clean your wax clogged ears.
You so accustomed to negativity and you find it even where there's none.
Two professionals having a constructive discussion and respecting each other. And nope, you want to blame the player for ignoring her. Really???